Lead with Heart, Live with Purpose

Where Did I Go? Leadership Pressure & Coming Back to Yourself

Desley Williams Coaching

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When was the last time you had a day that felt simple? Not easy, just uncomplicated, where you finished it feeling like yourself?

In this episode of Lead with Heart Live with Purpose the leadership podcast for women in demanding roles, Desley Williams explores what happens when the pressure of leadership quietly pulls you away from yourself. Not all at once. Just gradually, until one day you look up and wonder: where did I go?

This episode talks openingly about 

The mental load of always being 'on' and what it quietly costs 

Why capable women say yes when they mean no 

Losing touch with your values under leadership pressure 

What it means to have no time that is truly yours

Whether you're a senior leader, a team manager or a woman navigating a high-demand role in work or the home, this women's leadership podcast episode is for you.

Next episode: Ep 4 — The Return: Small Acts of Coming Back to Yourself.

Find out about 1:1 coaching with Desley on Instagram @desleywilliamscoaching

Ready to go deeper? If this episode has named something real for you, I would love to support you. I offer 1:1 coaching and individual leadership programmes. 

DM me WHOLE on Instagram @desleywilliamscoaching to find out more about The Whole Leader programme or you can 

Download the free guide Coming Home to Your Values send me a message and I can send you the PDF or come to my next workshop June 2026 in the Christchurch NZ area. 


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