Numbers Aint Really The Price

In this heavy-hitting third episode, Jay, Anthony,  Britt and Jordan break down a week where the cost of fame, safety, and "the bag" reached a boiling point. From high-stakes security breaches to record-shattering nights on the hardwood, the crew asks: What is the actual price of being at the top?  And the cast breaks down the unspoken rule of having an Ex on social  media. 

Hosted By

Ant - Bronzepapi

Britt- Simplybrittbratt

Jaylin - Jaysvisions__

Music By 

@ Ayolinq

Transcript

SPEAKER_05 0:00

Hey, what's up y'all, and welcome back to a new episode of Boys to Be Boys and Her. Be sure to like and subscribe to the podcast. This episode is titled Numbers Ain't Really the Price. Hey, what's up, y'all? It's Jalen back for another episode of Boys to be Boys and Her.

SPEAKER_03 0:16

It's Brittany, aka Brett Brad.

SPEAKER_05 0:20

Brittany, bitch.

SPEAKER_07 0:21

It's Jay to the old mass swamp, dude.

SPEAKER_06 0:24

Hands back, Yerd.

SPEAKER_05 0:26

Welcome back, my boy. How was the week? You was going last week.

SPEAKER_06 0:28

Yeah, it was it was good, man. You know, I went out to Houston and uh saw the WBC a little bit, and then um I came back. I was kind of under the weather. I don't know. We this whole week was full of just crazy weather. We've seen all the seasons. It was sundress season and you all used it. Bro, it was snowing the other day. What are you talking about?

SPEAKER_05 0:49

How about you, Jay? I'm chilling, bro. It wasn't bad at all. We got that good weather, got that little tease. You know, Mother Nature's just like warming, just nothing but a tease. We got that in. I was alright. I worked, finally got a day off this week, so that was Gucci. But other than that, it was good. What about you, Britt?

SPEAKER_03 1:03

Um, I do much. I chilled, work. Oh, I went to the next basketball game.

SPEAKER_00 1:10

Yeah, yeah, that's the catch.

SPEAKER_03 1:12

Um, it was cool, you know. We'll talk about that a little bit later, but it was it was cool. You and my hubby? Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 1:21

Joy, what's good with you, bro? How was your week?

SPEAKER_07 1:28

I don't really do too much though, to be honest with you. You know, nothing exciting like WPC or the Nature.

SPEAKER_05 1:34

I mean, hey, everybody can't be outside, but it's all good. Sometimes we need some downtown. But it's been a crazy week, otherwise, otherwise, we're gonna start it off with uh City said what segment. Brittany wanna know. Did you hear about the Miana incident up in California?

SPEAKER_03 1:50

What's up with that?

SPEAKER_05 1:51

Like you you part of the Navy. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 1:55

Oh no security team. Like, what is what happened? How? How was that? I just want to know how was that possible?

SPEAKER_05 2:02

I don't have answers. I don't have to lay out to the lamb, but I clearly this lady did. Clearly she did. I'm not gonna lie to you. So for those who don't know, a couple days ago Rihanna was Rihanna was actually home, which was a scary like as a parent, that is like a scary thing because Rihanna was home. So Rihanna was home with her family. ASAP uh what's his name? ASAP ASAP Rock, I'm sorry. ASAP Rock was also home, and it was a deranged lady who pulled up in front of the gated community and let seven rounds go of her AR-15. It was an AR 15, yeah. She was walling. She let seven.

SPEAKER_06 2:43

What's that Rihanna song? Shot, shot, shot.

SPEAKER_04 2:47

That's not right. No, that's you know Nah, y'all wanna.

SPEAKER_05 2:54

So for those who don't know, like I said, uh this happened earlier this weekend. The young lady's name, I want to make sure I get it correctly. He looks crazy, by the way. The young lady's name is Ivana Lisette Ortiz. That's the young lady's name. She was she has been diagnosed multiple times at one point in Florida. She was taken against a world to go to go into a psych ward. She also has lost custody of kids because of her mental behavior. So she's uh no bad ombre, as your president would say, Anthony. You know, so who's president? So I I think there's so many ways to look at this because one as a parent, I would just be completely terrified. So was she the next day? They had TMT was there and they caught captured her getting on the jet and leaving. Yeah, she was out of there. She was the Barbados? I mean, that's what I won't go. I'll go far away. So my question to you really is how do you think as a mom, and not as a female in general, how would you feel? You're completely vulnerable because your home was attacked.

SPEAKER_03 3:49

No, for real. But Asa Rocky, he's from Harlem. Like, I'm pretty sure he was about to hold that down for real, for real.

SPEAKER_05 3:54

I mean, he did have a gun charge, but I wouldn't know where it was on this time. He didn't have it on this time, I guess.

SPEAKER_03 3:58

Nah, but um, all jokes aside, like, I don't have kids, but I like family members, anybody I love, like, I'm I'm gonna protect them, 10 toes down. So that's very scary. Like, you know, like just hearing random shots, glass shattering everywhere. Like, you're gonna go frantic. Like, I would be out of there too. Like the same night, I'm out of there. Take me back to my country.

SPEAKER_07 4:20

No, for real. What about you, Jordan? Especially like when the kids is involved, when the kids is around, that's a that's a scary thing as a parent. You know, I'm not gonna lie. To be honest with you, I'd have been outside with that. Hey, look, do that. Somebody done had to get some because that's a little crazy. I mean, the whole situation is a little crazy too, because apparently this girl has had like former run-ins with people from Rock Nation. Like, she has a whole lawsuit out against Rock Nation. I'm not sure if they settled that thing already, but like, you know, so this is not her first run-in with somebody from this nation. Correct.

SPEAKER_05 4:56

And she's also one to be known. She has the whole her YouTube page, her just all of her just making these that crazy videos. She's like, she's certified, bro. She's look she's legit certified. And when you switch over perspective just a little bit, and you look at Anthony, or you look at the security team, if your head of security, I mean, I I'm pretty sure I would resign, but if you're the one, you're Yuriana, you're ASAP, you're in charge of the security team, everybody's gone, right? Like, there's no ifs and doubts about it.

SPEAKER_06 5:22

I'm changing that. I'm changing them ASAP.

SPEAKER_05 5:24

No pun intended.

SPEAKER_06 5:26

No pun intended, yeah, for sure.

SPEAKER_07 5:28

I mean, I'm I'm gonna be honest with you though. I don't know if I'm gonna make the switch of the whole team. Because if you inside securing the perimeter or something like that, or securing the house, I can't really blame you for the stuff that's going outside. Whoever's watching that camera though, it's clip keep going.

SPEAKER_05 5:42

So, I mean, I don't I naturally none of us live, we don't have the money, we're not financially wealthy to be in this type of situation. But I'm assuming there's a 360 area view of the whole house. That's that's like surveillance, I'm pretty sure works a hundred percent. And with her money, I'm pretty sure it's the top of the line type of surveillance where you know exactly what's going on. And look again, luckily nobody was actually hit. That's that's like the the best thing. So you have that, but if you take into account that, so Brittany, so I used to work in film before this, so one of my first paid jobs I had was I worked on, you know when Rihanna used to have like the sand socks. Yeah. So I did she had a pop-up shop in um what the hell is that called in Soho? So I met her. I work, I was like, I was the one on the production team commercial. She was I mean, she was late, but oh she's like one of the nicest celebrities I've ever met. I heard that before. She's legit. I remember her assistant acting, oh, what do you want to eat? She said, just give me Hennessy and Cheeto. Legit, I could you know. That's what she said. So this is it. Like she is like a celebrity, but she is like, she's like super like she's a married woman, bro. Chill out. I'm just saying.

SPEAKER_00 6:45

She should have hired him.

SPEAKER_05 6:47

But no, that response went up. That was my I don't know if it's the same security guard, but this was about seven years ago. And when I was talking to a security team, it was like this big, ball like light-skinned dude, and I was yo, I was working for her. He was like, Yo, boy, she's amazing, and we know where this is that. And I'm like, yo, you so you can have the you can have the you can have the horses in the race and still lose. Well, that's true. You know what I'm saying? Sometimes, especially this is something that I think what scares people the most because when you talk about the mental unstable, is you can't factor it. Like she may make has made these threats and stuff before, but you don't really know. At the end of the day, Rihanna is not the federal government, she's not monitoring who's saying they're gonna threaten her. That's not what's going on, you know what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_07 7:25

So, but it's it is a scary time. You can't you can't even like put yourself in her mindset of thinking to even think like something like this will happen. You know what I'm saying? Because who expects like I'm pretty sure Rihanna didn't really have no real run-ins with this girl before, but there's no right to just be outside from one line.

SPEAKER_05 7:42

Like, well, one line is not reality, you know what I'm saying? So you look at all that we look at all these factors, Anthony. And now your next step. I me personally, I'm I'm putting the home on the market. I'm not the California home is going that I want nothing to do with it.

SPEAKER_06 7:54

You get you have enough money to just get up out of there, start a new life somewhere else, probably. With better security, hopefully.

SPEAKER_03 8:01

I mean, yeah, she got it.

SPEAKER_06 8:05

Yeah, because I don't know, because I have that, I have a have a camera device, right? I'm not gonna say the name because we don't get our free advertisements. But um I have it, and like as soon as you come like you know, somewhat close, it's like it's motion. So like I'm sure they got better cameras that has expanded. Oh, 100%.

SPEAKER_05 8:18

Yeah, 100%. But again, luckily it would do showcasing was just recovered at the gate, and it wasn't to the point where anybody was struck. But I don't think anything's wrong for her for getting a fire and getting family. No, because family's most important, like, there's nothing to like pray about. And speaking of not playing around, Jordan, I'm gonna go to you for the next topic. So we had a true scare downtown in Gracie Mansion with uh IED bomb, IUD bomb, sorry, IUD bomb, and the two uh suspects were arrested as they were caught legit lighting to IUD, and luckily it didn't designate detonate because nobody was harmed. What do you think about that, bro?

SPEAKER_07 8:52

Well, first I'm gonna say thank you to whoever y'all believe in that these people is not good at making balls. Clearly, like you know, no detonation, but we're gonna say that's a good thing because nobody was hurt in the process. Especially shout out to that cop that you know was light on his feet and got Captain Edwards.

SPEAKER_05 9:12

I'm sorry, Chief Edwards.

SPEAKER_07 9:13

No, no, the cop who actually got there, tackled the guy. The one that jumped over the uh navigation. No, no, no, no. That that was that was the chief shout out to Chief Edwards too, because you know he was still quick thinking. Uh the other sergeant, the other sergeant that was there too. But the loafers on was crazy for sure. It was quick thinking, but you know, shout out to the cop who really like you know got there, got on the guy, and you know, they could have possibly saved some lives that day. Because yes, it didn't detonate right there, but who's to say that it wouldn't have detonated later, you know. So it was a lot of quick thinking.

SPEAKER_05 9:47

Right. And the bomb squad did say that it was just it was a false bomb. Not false, it was a the bomb just did not detonate. It was a false was a bomb that lucky just didn't detonate. And it was not like I obviously it was used to detonate and like Jordan said there were live saves that day. But it does make you think of how the transition to with everything that's going on in Iran and everything like that, to how scary it is to be in New York City at this point in time because we are the capital for another pump attack like 9-11. So I just wanted to ask you, Brittany, how do you actually feel safe being in the city now?

SPEAKER_03 10:19

No, I don't feel safe. And you know what? It's kind of on the same topic. I had to pay like $50 for gas. I never paid that much for gas. Like this whole bomb thing, like it's going crazy out here. I'm about to go with Rihanna to Barbados. I'm out.

SPEAKER_05 10:36

It's definitely a scary time. So, like, even like you going to Bookland, I'm assuming you guys went when you guys went to the game, you drove. But yeah, so you're not taking the subway or nothing like that. Cause like now I feel like subway is like the worst transportation now to take.

SPEAKER_03 10:47

Even before this, though, like I just nothing against public transportation, you know. But I just too many people, I'm gonna get where I need to get in.

SPEAKER_05 10:57

Right, yeah. So before the the problem with public transportation was I think Anthony knows this, we all live in the city, is that the delay, stuff like that, you factor I'm gonna be late for work, whatever the case may be. Or you got the occasional YAN to get on the train, they start acting up, they go crazy, or you got the person who's mentally unstable in the train talking to himself, whatever, like he's homeless, he's pissing, whatever, he or she, whatever. But showtime. Right. You get a little free show, all that is all well and good. I think now when you factor in that, there at any moment we can be subject for an attack makes things a little bit like you're on edge, you know. And I think as a community of New Yorkers who live here, I think that's definitely the case. Did you guys see also what happened in uh in Michigan? The synagogue was just attacked. This guy was this guy planned to attack the synagogue.

SPEAKER_06 11:41

Yeah. You saw that? Yeah. It was it was that was really kind of scary though. That was I'm like right now, the times that we're in is kind of like anything can happen. And we've lived through a lot of different things as like growing up, like us, like literally this group.

SPEAKER_05 11:57

Today's day this marks like the sixth-year anniversary of uh whole country shut down. That's it? Yeah.

SPEAKER_06 12:04

Oh wow, I was in Puerto Rico right now.

SPEAKER_04 12:07

Not you in Puerto Rico.

SPEAKER_07 12:09

That was still $600.

SPEAKER_05 12:11

Might have been. Might have been. I don't know.

SPEAKER_06 12:13

I don't remember. Might have been. No comment.

SPEAKER_05 12:18

But Brittany and Jordan, so essentially what happened was the uh yesterday or two days ago, the man uh he was from Iran. So his his I want to get the story right. I know he's like a 42-year-old man from Istanbul, but he his family was his mother or one of his siblings were killed in the drone strikes that happened in Iran. So his his family and they and his neighbors said that he was completely destroyed after that. He was yeah, he so he went to go, his he had plans to blow up a synagogue. And luckily, law enforcement was there and they interfered, and luckily it didn't happen.

SPEAKER_03 12:52

How did we make these bombs so quick?

SPEAKER_05 12:55

So there's we talked about that at my office. We were talking about that. Like, imagine you just Google like how to make a bomb and you just get flagged. Like, I think that's what happened. I'm gonna be honest with you.

SPEAKER_07 13:03

You you can learn how to make a bomb on YouTube.

SPEAKER_05 13:05

Right. I mean, this podcast is supposed to get flagged when you're talking about it.

SPEAKER_07 13:08

No, no, no, no.

SPEAKER_02 13:10

Look, I'm not encouraging anybody to do that. I'm just not representing they don't even have like restrictions on certain things like this.

SPEAKER_07 13:17

This podcast on you like not even just YouTube, but like I learned I I learned how to make uh a bomb when I was younger from watching a show called Burn Notice. He literally like literally on Burn Notice, he teaches you how to make a bomb with a little more powder in any way.

SPEAKER_06 13:32

I'm just saying some type of restrictions on the show.

SPEAKER_05 13:42

But when you look at the times that we're in, it is like yo, we're legit everyone's on alert. I feel like I feel like we have a reason to because like I said, it's only getting worse in real life in the with this whole war thing is just now starting. I don't see it ending. So when you take all that into account, and now you factor in, you know, how radical these attacks were from these these these two separate incidents, it makes people just be on alert. No, seriously, like it's getting crazy out there. Like, you know, and you just travel, and I was traveling on the you got on a plane, the whole plane. I was traveling.

SPEAKER_06 14:12

Yeah, yeah. I mean, traveling for me, it wasn't too bad when I like I guess because I go in the morning, so and I have TSA Precheck, you know, sided to TSA Precheck. Um, so it took me like three minutes to get to my gate.

SPEAKER_05 14:24

That's what's up. But I also want to say, I I hate the fact when all this started at one point. I mean, I know it was a government shutdown also, but there's also people where there was a brief moment where they said TSA pre check was like canceled or whatever. Yeah. And people were like, oh, wowed up. I'm like, yo, bro, they do this for a reason because they have this. This is the most important thing, is our security. You have to make sure the plane lands. You gotta make sure who's going through the airport, you know?

SPEAKER_06 14:46

Yeah, but speaking about the like, if you didn't have TS TSA pre-check, if they did cut it off or whatever, the regular lines, honestly, it took about three hours to get to your to the gate. Yeah. I was gonna say general boarding was bad.

SPEAKER_05 14:59

Really? Yes, it has different tax brackets. Well, uh, I guess I'll be leaving the house a little bit early to the next flight. You feel me? Because I ain't got that TSA pre-check. But speaking of traveling and what's going on in the rest of the world, we're gonna switch over to the we're gonna talk about a segment, and the first thing we gotta talk about is the world that's going on as though WBC, the World Baseball Classic. So it's a lot going on here. Me and Ant faithfully watched the WBC. Your boy Jordan on the other side of the couch. This is a true hater.

SPEAKER_07 15:30

I guess I'll start this segment off since we want to take shots. I mean, I'm gonna be honest with you. I love baseball, I watch baseball. But when it comes to the WBC, I just don't like the fact that the teams to me, the teams to me is just like too spread out as far as like it's either you got some of the best players in the world and your team is fully stacked, or you know, you just bring maybe got like a couple guys, and that's why I don't like it. I don't I feel like it's not really a competition, to be honest with you. You probably get like maybe one or two upsets every time, but other than that, you don't like you you're not really seeing good baseball. So bring bring back, you know, shout out to the Phillies.

SPEAKER_06 16:11

So what about wait hold on now? What about like the Olympics for basketball?

SPEAKER_07 16:16

Yeah, but for the Olympics for basketball, there's way more star players or players that are really good, but there's that are on the four team.

SPEAKER_06 16:22

There's only like four teams really that you know is going to the chip.

SPEAKER_07 16:26

I think all right, so name four name four teams that's going to the chip in baseball in WBC.

SPEAKER_06 16:32

Yes, I can do that. Got you right now. The DR team, Vladdy, shout out Vladdy. And you got boom, got Puerto Rico. They had a good team, too.

SPEAKER_07 16:38

Is not a good team. Yes, they did. Yes, they do.

SPEAKER_06 16:40

They didn't they didn't have Lindor. Yes, they did. They had the best pitch in the bro. They had the lowest ER rate out of the semifinal teams. What are you talking about?

SPEAKER_07 16:47

But look at what who they were playing before now. And like they just faced Italy and just waste. Okay, and they lost. They lost.

SPEAKER_06 16:55

It was a good game, but Italy is another team that's actually good. Italy is not the problem. Yes, they do. They have good teams, they have good players on their team. They were four, they were four and all this this in group play.

unknown 17:04

Bro, I don't care about the thing.

SPEAKER_06 17:05

Then you got Japan, then you got Japan, then you got USA. This team, Korea was good too.

unknown 17:11

Do you have the stars?

SPEAKER_07 17:14

Who's the star in Italy?

SPEAKER_05 17:15

The star in Pascal. Thank you.

SPEAKER_02 17:18

Who is the star?

SPEAKER_06 17:19

And if not him, if not just lawyers, bro. If not him, if not him, Jack. Jack, I don't know how to pronounce his name, but Jack, the number one overall pick. Yes, the number one overall pick.

SPEAKER_07 17:30

Bro, he's a star. He is a star. He's the number one overall pick.

unknown 17:32

So that means he's a star.

SPEAKER_07 17:35

Because he's the number one overall pick, that means he's a star.

SPEAKER_06 17:37

What's AD a star?

SPEAKER_07 17:39

Anthony Davis is an NBA champion.

SPEAKER_06 17:41

He's a number one pick.

SPEAKER_07 17:42

He's an NBA champion, bro. He's been like one of the top people at his position since he's been in the league. Bro, he's a number one pick.

SPEAKER_06 17:49

What has this been? Paul Skeins was the number one pick. What has he done? Paul Skeens is number one pick.

SPEAKER_05 17:56

That's uh gave you guys some talent. Yeah, gave him a little bit of time. You know, get it off their chest. They're a little hot-tempered. Ridiculous. But so when you look at the WBC Brittany, so essentially it is like the Olympics. When you let it different countries going against each other to play for the trophy. You represent your countries every three years, unlike the Olympics, every three instead of every four. So what made a lot of this WBC interest in Britney was essentially there's naturally that's the Seattle Mariners is a team that's in Seattle, obviously, but they have Car Raleigh, who's a catcher who plays for USA, and Rendezvous Arena plays for what was that, Cuba or Mexico? He's playing for Mexico. So they they're on the same team, professionally on the same team. They're representing different countries. So when they're he so a Randy Bozarina comes to bat, and he comes to shake Caraley's hand because he's his teammate, and Carolli says no.

unknown 18:45

Oh.

SPEAKER_05 18:47

So it's that spark in this story. They were real competitive, and Carolia also did this a second time. And I don't know if you saw who did he do it to again the second player. He did it to uh it was somebody else. It's getting my mind. Yeah, yeah, no, no. So you know what I'm saying? And so and in the post-game conference, Rendy Rosarina was one to say, yo, uh I wanted to say so many different things because I met the colour. Oh, Josh Naylor. Josh Naylor, exactly. He wanted to say, yo, I met this guy's family, he was raised the right way, like he's a good guy, but I also wanted to say in Spanish, he was like, Yo, fuck him. Because how are we on the same team? And this is only a temporary thing to be a competitive, but you know, so I like it. I I I'm on the opposite side of that. Is it professional though?

SPEAKER_06 19:24

It's very professional. Kobe did it to Paul Gatal in the in the two was it 2008 Olympics when he ran through him. He ran through the yeah, pushed right through him. That's not the same thing. He won the win the championship. We won the gold medal.

SPEAKER_05 19:36

But this is just like at tip off, it's still Shakan. This is like if you come on the I think you think was a little worse, because like no no, that's what I'm saying. That's that's that's worse. Yeah, that's 100%. Yeah, that's 100%.

SPEAKER_06 19:45

We're not on the same team right now, sorry.

SPEAKER_07 19:48

That's kind of yeah, he's he's wild. So would you agree that Kyle has like a mamba mentality then?

SPEAKER_06 19:53

I don't know if it's a mamba mentality, but it's just like you're you're representing your country, you're representing your country for real.

SPEAKER_03 20:00

Like, but y'all on the same team at the moment.

SPEAKER_06 20:02

No, we're not.

SPEAKER_05 20:04

I mean, not at the moment, but just what you're saying is that when the season starts, yeah, in two weeks they will be there.

SPEAKER_06 20:08

Then we'll be up then we yeah, then it's then we go. Then we good.

SPEAKER_03 20:13

Real baseball, by the way.

SPEAKER_06 20:14

Then we good. At that point, we we still gonna be good. But the at that time, you know it's competition. Like anytime you play with your brothers, you played games against them, it's the same thing.

SPEAKER_05 20:24

I mean, I I'm all for being competitive, and I'm I'm one that thinks like AAU killed the NBA. So I'm all for being competitive. But at what point, like I'm just shaking your hands just to say, yo, like, how you doing? Like, that's just regular what they've been doing in baseball.

SPEAKER_06 20:36

I mean, he's not the only one that did it though, because it's like it's a kind of like a little tradition. This, this, I guess, this WBC. A lot of people were just not shaking the teammates' hand that they were.

SPEAKER_05 20:48

I'm one that thinks baseball needs to be like they need more fights. Really? I a hundred percent think they need more fights. I think people will tune in more when you charge them out a hundred, like giving that quick. I disagree. Yes, that's the yeah, you know that's what I'm saying. People always feel that way. I disagree.

SPEAKER_07 21:02

I'm gonna tell you why I disagree. Because as soon as fights happen or arguments happen in other sports, that's when the fans start to say that things are ghetto and things are getting out of hand. The only sport that they're called is hockey. The only sport exactly, and that's what I was about to say. The only sport they allow it and don't say it's ghetto in is hockey. We all know why.

SPEAKER_05 21:23

So you think it's a white thing?

unknown 21:24

Of course.

SPEAKER_07 21:25

I don't know. Because it's it is acceptable in hockey, but then as soon as an NBA player decides he wants to go swing on this person, then now because stuff becomes ghetto. I don't know. That's all I'm saying. And it's it happens in every sport. They say they ghetto, NBA, they say they ghetto. They definitely do when those fights happen. I'm just saying, I think.

SPEAKER_05 21:45

So when uh perfect example is when Miles Garrett got called the N-word uh what the hell was this guy's the quarterback name for this deal? Mason Rudolph. He threw his woman's helmet at him. Nobody called him ghetto.

SPEAKER_07 21:54

That's they definitely did. Nah, I didn't know. There was a couple people that called him an animal because he just blindly went into a rage and attacked a player. I didn't see that. Did you see that? I mean I'm not saying you won't I'm just saying I didn't see it.

SPEAKER_05 22:05

But Brittany, do you think that I I think that in some sports I think there's that moment of excitement. I'm not saying let them fight in like hockey but if you let allow the ball to happen then de-escalate it. I think I'm personally okay with that.

SPEAKER_07 22:16

I think the sport would need I think the sport needs it I I feel what you said if they were to let players fight in baseball you wouldn't tune in more I mean I'm not saying that I would tune in more but I feel like that's the question Jordan would you tune in more I mean I I would tune in exactly the same I watch baseball now so like I feel like I would probably tune in.

SPEAKER_03 22:36

That's you know people want to see the train wreck.

SPEAKER_07 22:38

That's just the country that we're that's the reason why I went to a hockey exactly yeah but that's what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_05 22:42

You go to a hockey game right you're not a frequent person that goes to hockey game but you will go to a hockey game and you want to see a fight when you go because you like yo I'm I'm only here for an occasion so let me see the fight in but the people that go to but it's also the I think the reason why they don't call hockey players thugs or whatever is because the nature of the sport the nature of the sport in hockey is to be physical. That's what I'm saying I've never heard people with no pads on right but I but we all could agree that hockey's way more physical than basketball they're on skates.

SPEAKER_07 23:14

They're on skates for one and they're there's even where everything they're doing on skate I I understand that alone is just a different a different animal somebody that has on pads, helmets and stuff is not the same as me hitting somebody especially if they're midair with no pads and stuff.

SPEAKER_05 23:28

But they're still on skates well like I'm so with the skates I don't know because their impact well okay let me just break okay let me break this up if I'm on skates flying towards you at like 15 miles per hour as opposed to running to you at seventh it's a different sort of impact. Yeah it's a different sort of that's like they need to bring back sports science from ESBM. Right but it's still more physical that's the one I'm saying that it's still more physical. You're talking about the level what's more physical hockey or basketball you saying the level of physicality the level of physicality is probably a hockey changing fact that we still get it physical.

SPEAKER_07 24:12

I'm not saying you're not getting physical in basketball I'm just simply saying like it's definitely more physical in hockey so you so just because that when you say the level of physicality is higher that means you're going to be more accepting of them fighting compared to the no I'm just saying the nature of the sport allows it to be more physical because it's naturally a more physical sport.

SPEAKER_05 24:32

There's no denying that like it's a more physical sport than basketball. Even when you look at the injury report in hockey they don't even disclose the type of injury you have because they know the players will take advantage of it they would just say lower body injury NBA they say whatever injury is it's a totally different beast so why they don't allow um rugby players and NFL players to play I don't know I don't watch rugby so I don't know what the hell they allow in rugby but in football because football there's a whistled plays there's no whistle in hockey aside from when you ice the puck there's no stoppage of play it's a nonstop action yeah when when you when there's the icing that's it football when the play is over it's over that's it's so that that there's an intermission between plays that that are occurring hockey is nonstop action as long as the puck is moving the players are skating back and forth NFL is not like that NFL you catch the ball you talk about play is over there's no there's no time to fight because the whistle plays there that's what they say football play until the whistle after the whistle is blown that's it hockey you don't have that hockey the puck there's different things you might hit the puck too far and play it with the head right there and that's all different but that's when you that's when a penalty happens that's the penalty is that right but that's in any sport when it's a penalty I don't even know how we got here.

SPEAKER_07 25:50

I'm just saying I'm just saying they allow that stuff for hockey but they don't allow that for other sports because they they deem they seem to deem it the beef the beef between the fight okay they seem to deem it we can leave it there you get 100% leave it there.

SPEAKER_05 26:07

So speaking of thug is y'all remember Allen Iverson stepped over Tyrone Lou he he was seen as a thug on the on the on the bench his mom doing his home roll yeah he was seen as a dog too mama tried to get him right before the game well I ain't gonna hold you if you braiding someone's head on the bench it's kind of crazy. That's tough now it's not it's for the culture what's this guy's name David Stern I know couldn't this is David Stern right that was the part I know David Stern couldn't stand Alan Iverson I know he couldn't stand that dude some culture to the game I know he couldn't stand that dude speaking of culture heat culture's going crazy right now because your boy hold on let me take my jacket off your jacket off because we're gonna talk about it shout outs to Nipsey Hustle on the other side RP Nip yeah for real um so a lot of things is it written the boop chat was going crazy shouts to Asia Wilson shout out to Asia Asia dropped that fire for him to drop that why we shout out Asia what you mean I'm just shouting out Asia why we not shouting out Asia I'm the girl that how I know men's celebrities is do who they didn't yeah Russell Wilson or does he have a husband like I mean at this point I don't see how not you it's a bunch of hate about about Russell in the chat though speaking of hate well we're gonna start with Ant because we know Ant's been the most spicy on this topic so hey why you spicy what happened because he has no I'm not I'm bringing common sense to the chat it's Kobe's thing it's no it's it's common sense all right tell me we hear the meet I mean if we go with the question what is I mean what's the question we're asking we just gonna talk about the the 83 game yeah oh I mean the thoughts on the 83 points that was uh great great accomplishment um great three quarters first three quarters uh for bam and uh he the heat they were up 30 going into the fourth that's all I gotta say that fourth quarter was very terrible that's all you gotta say yeah that's exactly that that was that that's that's the topic no that that was that was exactly what we were talking about and y'all added tangents to other stuff like y'all always do that's and that that's what I'm saying I mean shout outs to him I ain't gonna front I ain't no so I was at the next game when that game was yeah uh when they was playing so everybody was talking about I'm like who they were saying his last name I'm like who y'all talking about and then we went out to eat after and I see him I'm like oh agent wilson short like that's what I know it was but shout outs to him like I didn't know he was a he he nice like that like see you see he no no no no no no they're gonna try to make it into the thing I'm gonna let him make it to the thing I'm gonna know he was nice like that tone could just show disdain no I said no he shout outs to him but I didn't know if he was nice he's a great player I'm not saying he's not a great player but is he a player he's he hasn't averaged more than 21 22 in his whole career you want to hear something funny putting out the day after this happened I saw on Twitter that somebody was basically like yo I want to talk to this girl but I think she's out of my league and someone quo we quoted the tweet saying Will Bam and Kobe because Will Chamberlain is like a everybody knows that is he scored 100 yeah and bam but then you got Kobe and then the person who doesn't belong there is Bam so they basically say it's never it's not nobody's every league go shoot your shot go shoot your shot but I so here's my take on it because anything digressed well the well the this was the the debate it they was like 83 is 83 and it's not 83. That's how much they score 83 is exactly 83 points any level in any level of basketball if you score 83 points that is impressive because that is not a number that anybody could just hit 83 is not something anybody could do it making 43 free throws soy free throws I mean well he attempted 43 free throws he made about like 30 something okay there's there's people who I did see he it was a lot of free throws there's a lot of people who has who have attempted a lot of free throws White Howard has attempted 39 free throws twice twice two separate two but I'm saying White Howard has attempted 39 free throws two separate occasions which is four less right and he didn't get anywhere near 83 people people are making it this big deal because Bam passed Kobe and they're trying to make no why do y'all keep they're trying to make that you it's not what it's about but overall the people a lot of people that's Kobe that's what was mentioned you can't deny that people are truly upset that he passed Kobe would y'all be upset I mean so what I said in the chat was one I'm a big fan of seeing history anytime I can see history I'm like oh man that is that is dope. And I get people are saying like people are sitting here saying oh well they should have taken him out for what? At the end of the day it's sports bro and a record is meant if he's on the if he's on the precipice to break the record why would I they're up 30 so what?

SPEAKER_06 31:04

Why did they do it to Luca when he had 73 and they were up 20 points it's it's multiple it's multiple instances instances when it's happening though that that is not the same coach that bam had that's okay that's right and then okay but what about what about Dave against against the against the Rockets he had 71 what about Luca again he had 60 21 10 against the Nick was not their coach 70 against the Spurs he had hardened 61 against the Spurs come on bro I have multiple instances where we have superstars stopping.

SPEAKER_07 31:35

Kobe was not taking out the game when he hit 81 okay he was up okay but look you see how he just brought up a different tangent look at the tangent he just brought up okay he they weren't up 20 30 points they were up 20 points no they weren't losing when he when he hit 81 they were up 20 points I'm about to get off I'm about to get off when he hit 81 they were up 20 points when he was at the free throw line to hit 81 they were up 20 points.

SPEAKER_06 32:02

Bro that's I'm pretty sure that's not true go look it up you do have the computer okay but Kobe listen but listen okay but no no no no no no no no no no no no I'm not saying okay because I don't care what you're saying right now you're wrong you're wrong. Kobe they needed Kobe to score every 81 points to to beat that team how much did they win?

SPEAKER_07 32:19

To beat that team it don't matter how much they won by because they got up they kept scoring because Kobe had to keep scoring Kobe was they were down eight points with five minutes to go I'm gonna ask you a question Britt if you're being we're gonna be honest no no no I'm gonna ask you a question Britt right how much was BAM in the heat question Britt and then you just tell me that this is needed right you have let's see let's just say if we just keep it at the 79 you have 79 points it is under a minute and your team is up almost 20 points is you staying in that game to get fouled and add two points to make it to 81 necessary for your team to win that game under a minute now wait now under a minute Brit under a minute wait am I answering before you say yo said you said you said 30 points how much I buy I said he they were up almost 20 points and it's under a minute was he needed to be in the game to get those extra two points to hit 81 I don't have a problem I don't have a problem with him being in the game his teammates fouled intentionally all right and what did he and what did you see on video do not foul so that means he he himself felt something was wrong with what was happening right or wrong it doesn't mean that he felt like something was wrong.

SPEAKER_05 33:37

He's just telling them don't foul I got this I'm gonna get it no that's not that's not what it's that's not what the video is the video is him saying no don't file don't file that's what he's saying exactly you're insiduating you're looking you're insinuating that he's saying oh I'm gonna score 81 myself no no he's saying it's let me do it myself right that's what he's saying let me do it myself that's what he wasn't gonna get 81 or 83 84 if they didn't keep following it was 145 to go and he was intentionally following but that's not what they what they wanted to do as a teammate to help their teammate if Jalen if Jalen is about to score 80 points but if Jalen tells me don't do it if Jalen tells me not to cheat for him I'm not gonna cheat for him how is that cheating because I'm intentionally fouling you I'm intentionally following the players brought intentionally following the part of the game you guys know that it's gonna make not up by 30 no you don't potentially follow up by 30 no you don't no no no no no not up by 30 no no no you shouldn't no because you can't do it in 2K you can't do it on 2K no you can't if you're up by 30 in 2K you cannot intentionally follow you cannot do that place 2K every day I mean can we just get back on track shout out to Asia Wilson again that's all I gotta say can you get back on track fellas by the way I had just spit a bunch of facts I had a bunch of facts I just spit and none none you got the let's just talk about a couple things but if you guys let a calm down here's a little spicy I was trying to get a reference here I know I was trying to get a second and it wasn't giving me one keeping my fast forward that last two minutes parts of the segment because it got a little spicy so Brittany there's the the problem that they have clearly is that they feel it was an unethical 83. At this point to each is on you feel how you feel but in the record books it's always gonna say bam out of the bio 83 points. 43 free throw times that's fine but it's not gonna be an asterisk next to his name in the right maybe to you and the to fans who feel like it was done wrong but I'll pose I will oppose this question because it was done by players such as we talked about this before and Wester Westwick was notorious for letting his team get him rebound so he could break your triple double record and if you ask me I say he should never win an MVP that's fine I'm still staying on the same topic. That's fine but then we're also talking about a coach so the heat are one of the people say heat culture I don't know Brittany I'm gonna get to because I can't talk to these two because they get spicy so the heat are of a team like Eric Spulture is their head coach. So Eric Spoker was on the verge of getting a divorce you know I mentioned you was dead broken naked now you want right so what the heat did chat was the heat said all right you're getting a divorce we won't we won't renew your contract until your divorce is final so she can't get the money. So we're talking about a culture an organization who looks out for their players they do the right thing. And in this moment Eric Sports was asking Bam do you want to go for it he wanted to the team wanted him to go for it. So if you're on the verge to break this record and he had 60 points through the third quarter that's not what happened though because he told his teammates not to file you're stuck on the sidemates not to foul we get that part he told him not to foul we get that part but he still had to make the free throws and once you get and the closer you get the closer you get to 81 you're gonna you're gonna win it and at the end of the day I think this is more of a thing for Bam because Anthony said in the chat before he was like this is the Heat's championship I don't think that's true. I do think that's off a different tangent again I do think this is I do think this is Bam's moment where he will always remember the history for the next two or three generations he will always be now is he know a Hall of Fame player as yet to be seen I mean he does have a gold medal I think he's won the chance of the year before if I'm not mistaken so is it possible he'll be a hall of famer in the future maybe if he wins a championship who knows but I do think Bam will always remember the history as being the one player who scored which I think is rightly deserved that's my point and I'm gonna be honest with you right a lot of people are unfairly like trying to like execute Bam for this situation just because you comparing him to Kobe making Kobe look bad in my eyes because he's the more skilled player so of course he might be able to score more field goals on the field because he's getting it in different ways he's more skilled than Bam so you can't you can't equate them scoring the same points from the field together because Kobe is the more skilled player he he's he's known as Bam if not the best scorer of all time one of the best scores of all time so you're not gonna assume that if Bam scores that many points he's gonna get it the same way Kobe does. So it's unfairly just like what is he supposed to get fouled by players and just not make the free throw he's not supposed to score the point because his teammates aren't supposed to intentionally foul though even though everyone get it get it yourself get it yourself okay even though every one second one second one second one second because y'all had a heed it back and forth so if he doesn't make the free throws he finishes with 67 will you feel differently will you say he's 67 it's up it the it's the impact of the game because like I just said Luca just had what it 51 with a triple with almost triple near triple double but he came out the game why because he wanted to come out the game no they were up they were up the game was over why am I still in the game what was he going for though he didn't have to he he it was a 50 point triple double but what record that's a record in itself that's a that's a great game he's had a 40 point triple double I understand that he he has a seven he has a 70 probably when you look at the same impact as in you you're scoring the most points that any active player that any player in recent history can go for.

SPEAKER_07 39:13

That's what he's aiming for most players in the NBA today they're aiming for that Kobe 81 I don't think so now I'm just saying I feel like they're gonna have to now I'm just saying that that's more attainable than getting to Wilt's hundred so you passing the 83 especially when a lot of people don't even believe that Wilt actually scored a hundred so a lot of people think that once you pass that 81 that you technically is like is the person with the highest points of all time in the game.

SPEAKER_05 39:42

So why not go to the case it's not the same effect for me it's not gonna be the same effect I mean at this point is that gonna be beating a dead horse of the people stand on who people believe it is worthy that they are and people don't I don't but I'll leave y'all with this on the topic is that when you look at where the NBA is now because the bigger problem I think is the product that the words put on the floor that it was even obtainable because Tyler Hero didn't play Norman Powell didn't play but he so being was asked to basically carry and he put up 30 points in the first quarter and 43 I think about halftime and 62 third. So he was at this point as well it's clear that he was he was chucking like if you're in the first quarter I'm I'm chucking the rest of the game because I'm feeling it what's that saying the it rim look like the rim looks like the ocean you know what I'm saying so he was in that position to where he could solely dominate the game and I think that we always ask players professional athletes in all sports to be honest do you want to break this record do you want to do that and be like yo yeah yeah like I'm willing to break it like I don't think there's anything wrong with that and people are saying oh the way he got to it is this I don't well it's a it's at the end of the day the game was on and you may feel like the way he obtained breaking the record of 83 was unethical that's all well and good but at some point when you look at it I think it comes down to just hating for sure it's not hate.

SPEAKER_07 40:54

You got to confuse hate with oh man this is why these little kids think they everybody has a hater bro if he doesn't get to that benchmark of the 83 and let's say he falls short at like 65 this is not a topic with 70 they're not gonna mention the free throw out of top yes you are yes you are just named 71 from Luca you're mad at the way he got the I'm not mad at all I'm not mad at all okay so what is your he and his sweating but his boy thought off set oh because because Jordan because you know how Jordan get you know how Jordan gets it's not it's not even about me at the truth and you got mad at the truth no I'm not getting mad at the truth because you're it it's anyway the first three quarters the first three quarters I said and I said this in the group chat I said the first three quarters from band was excellent that was great I loved it and we and I said can we agree to that nobody can agree to that they all said oh but the fourth quarter fourth quarter if you look at the fourth quarter that is not basketball bro and I don't care what anybody says at that point they were he had he made one field goal in the fourth quarter fouling him he had one fourth no no no no no no no but this is the way it's not the it's not that's not what happened they're not telling the full story his teammates were intentionally fouling and missing free throws on purpose so that he could get the ball back and score again we don't know if they were missing they were and they were hitting the rim they were shooting the ball at the rim you're professional NBA player stop stop yo stop playing with me a professional NBA player you can shoot you can shoot accurate you can you're accurate I'm not at but I'm I'm getting mad at Jordan because he's this is bullshit like come on bro be honest all I'm saying is this bro his teammates wanted him to achieve a goal and his teammates wanted him to achieve a goal and they went out there doing what was best for their teammate to achieve that this is not the first time we've seen that and it won't be the last pull it out every time I've always been on the same side of it you look because everybody want to keep bringing up Kobe we've even seen in Kobe's last game players intentionally leaving him wide open to make shots players follow him at the end of the game to purposely it wasn't a great game it's two different things it's two different things the last game of his ever his career ever they got to keep ethical left him in the game is the game winning the game winning hit is it unethical like come on bro I'm asking it's the last game is it unethical it's the last game it's two different concepts it's two different but why is one not basketball why was one not basketball and the other one is ethical in your eyes it's two different things happening all right we're gonna shift topics but they was yeah they would go on and on there was there's gonna be no I see both sides though I'm not going I see both sides I see what he's saying like if I okay so let me just ask this before we shift topics real quick.

SPEAKER_03 43:38

The third quarter how many points did he have he had about like 62 68 to start okay so he was on the cups he was right there yeah I don't I have no problem with he he goes for it.

SPEAKER_06 43:48

I have no problem with it it's just you're just saying the way that the way that it happened it's like bro it's like if I give you it's like oh Jay wants to be uh wait whatever you want to be you want to be a doctor right and I'm a doctor and I can help you along the way yeah I'm gonna help you but I'm not gonna give you the answer to Test because I want you to study to be the doctor. I'm helping you by reaching by following my your team the other team. But he's a 70% 30. So the odds are he's gonna miss these free thirds. That's three for four, exactly. And he went, he shot a lot of free throws in the fourth quarter. He shot 14 field goals. All right, we're gonna have to shift over to the bottom.

SPEAKER_07 44:23

Yo, that's crazy. So I'm just saying what we could do is after we finish the ball, after we finish the boss, we could go back and look at the Kobe ending points, and we will see that he was not meant to score all those points for it to be.

SPEAKER_06 44:37

They needed Kobe in to win that game. The Lakers were losing that game. What are you talking about? The heat never trembled in the game. The Lakers trembled in that Raptors game, bro. Yes or no? Yes or no, no, no, no, no, yes or no. Yes or no, just to come, the Lakers losing in that game. Yes or no. That's or no. That's or no. Were the Raptors winning in that game? Yes or no?

unknown 45:00

It doesn't matter.

SPEAKER_06 45:01

It does matter because the Miami people are never losing. The Miami people are never losing. The Lakers were losing for the losing. Look at the game. Look at the game.

SPEAKER_07 45:38

The whole thing is the only thing is that's hold on. It's very unethical when he wants to be for certain people. That's it.

SPEAKER_05 45:45

Exactly. Alright, we're gonna shift topics to the U.S. Crazy segment, Britt because this was the crazy crazy. First thing up we got is Jordan's goat. We got Kanye West apparently doing a pop-up concept. Let's go his sofa. And the word is, Britt, that this dude sold a million tickets.

SPEAKER_07 46:03

Northwestern, hold on. It wasn't a million tickets sold. It was a million people attempting to buy tickets. Right? A million people attempting to buy tickets. And you estimate that into a dollar amount, that was about like 430 million they could have made if they would have sold all those tickets.

SPEAKER_04 46:21

That's insane.

SPEAKER_07 46:22

So the fact that that number was so high, they was like, nah, we gotta add another show.

SPEAKER_03 46:26

What Kanye got out?

SPEAKER_05 46:29

Oh no, I'll put it in the other chat. The other chat I remember just Jordan and Ant. He was on like a sample beat with uh what's the guy from uh Big Boy from out in LA? And his sample was bananas. Like it sounded like vintage, vintage Kanye, and yo, but I put them in the chat. I think I text that to Jordan. I was like, yo, bro, you can't say he's not like top five when it comes to just being a musical genius. Oh no, he's gonna Kanye. He he turned into an adjective.

SPEAKER_06 46:58

Uh what Kanye thinks.

SPEAKER_07 47:00

No, yeah, for sure. Like, you know, when it comes to the off-the-field, let's say, let's say like he's the athlete. When it comes to the off-the-field stuff, don't agree before you get there.

SPEAKER_05 47:07

Well, I think uh I don't think he's at that stage yet where you have to separate the music from the person because he's not a criminal. Like people like R. Kelly, you do it to because they're they're they've done such heinous acts. I think when it comes to Kanye, I think at this point, especially within the black community, we write it off as yo, the Negro, he's just not right in the head. So I think it'll it equates differently. And if you think differently, let me know. But I think it equates differently because when he does some of these things, like when he played that sample in front of the big board, I'm like, yo, bro, why can't we just have this? Like, why can't we always get this image of Kanye? Because if we did, he'll be the number one artist for uh for the last decade if you if he if he remained within this space of this headspace when he's in this uh space of creating because he creates music also when he's in his bully. Yeah, that's what the Bible is called, by the way. When he creates music like this, uh one the the production, and then I think at this point we all have kind of see it when Kanye creates music, he makes music for like at a big event. Like when you go to concert, it's it's beyond an experience. And I would go artistic genius, yeah. I will go as far to say Bad Bunny, Taylor, all of those people, all those artists who are like huge well, not a huge Taylor Swiss fan, but everybody knows I'm a huge Benito fan. So when yeah, I put him above them because when he's in his bag making beats like this, it's it's it's different. Yeah, I gotta put that in the chat, so I'm not a thing.

SPEAKER_07 48:31

Not to mention he definitely was the first person to at least like out of like the hip hop realm and the like main pop, pop music realm, to really transform stage, stages and to make it like a real event. It's not just you're coming to hear the music, you're coming in, you're in ex you're you're getting an experience. I think we come to that.

SPEAKER_05 48:50

I think him and Travis Scott were like the first ones to actually like have that type of like I don't know, bro. Before Travis Scott was even like really a big thing. So Kanye made a snow in a building for so I'm gonna put it to you. I'm gonna ask you this question. Do you think it's more of his music or more of a cult following for Kanye at this point?

SPEAKER_07 49:08

Um I mean definitely he has a cult following, but but I feel like when you become that big, like you it's gonna come with a cult because there's gonna be diehard fans that can see that you do no wrong when it comes to your music, when it comes to even your life, outside of uh just like being the person that you are on stage. So definitely is that, but the music is transcendent, like like I said, artistic genius.

SPEAKER_06 49:31

Um I think it both both could be true. Um every I think but I think also think a lot of people have like he said, like Jordan was saying, everybody has a cult fan base. Um Drake, Taylor Swift, Beyonce, Nicki Minaj, and you know, yeah, it's so many. But um I just I I for me I I would I have to separate the artist from the music because I mean the music from the artist because um he said a lot of anti-Semitic things and people really people that I I work with, they really felt it. So I mean if if if it was true or not, or whatever Kanye doesn't like it was whatever was happening, whatever like Kanye was saying or going through at that time, I don't know, but like I gotta I gotta take a pause with it. That's just me personally.

SPEAKER_07 50:16

I'm sorry, shout out to the barbs too, big barbs out in the building.

SPEAKER_05 50:19

Yeah, a lot of people don't let go right now either. Oh yeah, no, I don't I'm not messing with her either.

SPEAKER_06 50:23

And I'm young money to the death of me.

SPEAKER_05 50:26

But so I I think it's it's interesting, man. And when like I said, when I just it Kanye has what been in the game, what almost two decades, I think now you can say, and it's it's like he's only getting bigger, which is crazy. You don't really see that for people who's been in the game this long, like and I'm not even trying to shit on Drake, but like Drake, he's not one that's getting bigger, you know what I'm saying? Uh I think that I I think that the expectations for him are getting bigger, but the fan base is not enlarged. And I'm not trying to like shit on Drake, but he's the only person I can compare it to because he's the only one that's been at the at the top for so long, so where you can try and make the conversation. But Kanye, I think he's mastered something that uh like Jim Jones does with being like he always tries to stay relevant. That's like what Jim Jones is like known for doing. And I think Kanye also plays that that comes to being in the Kartashian household, I think, for so long. But he's always mastered. I think some I think a lot of times he says things, he's trolling. But I think also he's mastered the way to still get more people to talk about him. And he he he I truly think he's the only person that's been in the game so long that he just he just gets bigger. I mean, and it's he's getting bigger, my buttons. He's getting bigger without putting music out. It's controversial. It's controversial.

SPEAKER_07 51:40

So Kanye has been dropping music consistently for the past like four or five years.

SPEAKER_05 51:43

Not that I've heard. I'm right wrong with it. He's had the vultures, he had the vultures project, okay. He had the vultures, yeah, vultures, yeah, vultures, vultures one, vultures two. Is that the drummer he had his own certain device to even hear it?

SPEAKER_07 51:53

Um no, that was down the stuff like that. So he's been consistently dropping music. It's probably like, you know, he hasn't been dropping on DSPs as much. But still, like when it comes to the whole Drake thing, when you MJ, I can't really go anytime. But as far as Kanye, you're right. He he has always been like a master at promo for how to get people to gravitate towards his music or just anything that he's trying to sell.

SPEAKER_06 52:24

I guess I guess I I just I agree and disagree with this just not even just with talking about Drake, but like I feel like Drake and Ad Bonnie, like Taylor Swift, they're their numbers keep increasing. So like I don't know. I mean I I see I see the difference you're talking about with Kanye.

SPEAKER_05 52:37

I mean, and I guess I can like I can agree to a certain extent with that, but I just I so I I think more so when I was trying to hit that, and I get what you're saying, that the numbers are getting bigger and the fan base is growing. And I get that, but mine's is more a sense of but he's not doing too much music. He's not doing too much music. And then he'd be saying he's putting up music, which I mean I I I don't sit there and subscribe to like it's like Vultures 2 came out like two years ago.

SPEAKER_06 53:05

Voltures 2 came out too yeah.

SPEAKER_05 53:09

Right, but and but that's what I'm saying. So he's the only doing that, but I don't know anybody. Maybe I I'll give Drake and Taylor Swift and Benito maybe are the only three who would go under have a million people in a waiting room to purchase tickets. But I don't even know. I don't I don't even know I don't even know if Beyonce is if B Hop is even doing that big.

SPEAKER_06 53:26

She she had the the high-selling tour.

SPEAKER_05 53:28

Maybe she I mean, I don't know. But we know the last one or the one before that one. A million people know how much a million people this ball one show that that's the one. Beyonce could do that, beyond that no matter who you are. I mean a million people in the waiting room, bro. Like even the J. Cole, I think the J the all of 200,000. I think that was like what it clips that for one concert.

SPEAKER_06 53:48

If you make if you make everybody if you make one show, then yeah.

SPEAKER_05 53:50

But no, but that's the thing. See, that's hold hold on, but but hold on, hold on. But that's the thing. Hold on, but but you're talking about if they make it like they announced it. This wasn't announced, this was just a pop up just pop.

SPEAKER_06 53:58

No, no, no, I know I know that, but I'm just saying, like, I'm not no, I'm not comparing it to that at all, but I'm saying like uh Beyonce could still put up numbers too. No, she could, but I don't think any I don't I don't think anybody could do it in one one. I don't think anybody could do it other than Kanye. I don't think anybody can because that's his mysterious vibe, that's his thing, that's the fan vibe, that's what they do. They're ready for like they're ready for that, yeah. That that unexpected drop.

SPEAKER_05 54:21

So that's like so and speaking of millions, we're gonna shift sports, we're gonna shift to sports for another quick segment when the rumors are I'll shift to Brittany because we got we got a female on the pod. So Dak Prescott, formerly engaged to I believe her name is Sophia Ramos, is now seems like they're on a sp, I guess a split. I don't know what you call if you're a fiance and you're not together. Is it still called a breakup? I don't know. Maybe three. So they are reportedly were a month away from their wedding, Brittany. And the reports are that they had a joint bachelor and bachelorette uh party. I'm not doing that. Yeah, I think that's also crazy.

SPEAKER_06 55:02

They had it's common though. I've heard about it.

SPEAKER_03 55:05

How would how does that work?

SPEAKER_05 55:06

I I don't even want to know.

SPEAKER_03 55:07

Anyway, it's just basically like a big party.

SPEAKER_06 55:09

Like we can either meet. Actually, attending one, yeah.

SPEAKER_03 55:13

I feel like traditionally, like your guys that wanna want you to have your last a high school friend, yeah.

SPEAKER_06 55:18

A high school friend did one. We did. I was actually at one. Actually, now I'm thinking about it. I was actually at one.

SPEAKER_03 55:21

I just feel like it's like a tradition, like your guys want you to have a.

SPEAKER_05 55:24

No, no, we used to have a high school friend, but I wasn't invited, so clearly that wasn't the friend. Anyway.

SPEAKER_06 55:28

Yeah, I'm not I'm not releasing names, that's why.

SPEAKER_05 55:31

But um But anyway, so when you look at it and they they're now the w rumor is that at the bachelor party, he was kind of pressuring her to, you know, sign up at the party? That's what the rumor is that that's insane.

SPEAKER_03 55:44

See, that's probably not doing that.

SPEAKER_05 55:47

So hold on, let me finish on that. That they are in their position now where the rumors that Zach Prescott did want to have a prenup and his wife did not. So I want to ask you, Brittany, one at what stage do you even ask somebody for a prenup? And at what stage do you if you know they're not gonna sign it, when do you leave?

SPEAKER_03 56:08

That's a good question. Because I want to know that question too. When do you ask? Like if you propose to your shorty or you getting engaged.

SPEAKER_05 56:15

And Dak is as the Dak sorry is Dak is also at this point, he's worth about 200 million. If not, by the time he's and he's also he's a you know who the DAS cowboys are. Everybody knows for that. So that being a part of that franchise alone, your net worth is always gonna increase.

SPEAKER_03 56:29

I feel like if he should have done it once um, once he got up from that one knee, put the paper right there on the table. Like, yeah. So I definitely know like that.

SPEAKER_06 56:40

I think it should have been before that. That's the crazy part.

SPEAKER_03 56:42

You think it should have been before?

SPEAKER_06 56:44

Um, yeah, if you're having if you're getting married, right? If you're having thought if you're having if you're if you're getting married, right, you should and to me already, you probably shouldn't have kids. Like, I want it for me, I want to be at the traditional route, whatever. So, like, I'm asking for the prenup before the kids.

SPEAKER_03 56:59

That makes sense. It's two kids in. Yeah, that is that makes sense.

SPEAKER_05 57:03

At this point, even if they break up, you're already in line for 25%.

SPEAKER_06 57:05

Yes, you're still good. Yeah, they already she's already getting something.

SPEAKER_05 57:08

Yeah, that's true, that's true.

SPEAKER_03 57:09

I mean, I agree with you. Like, it should have been talked about before. If you knew you were gonna marry her and things like that, like it definitely, but for others, like how you act, when should the prenup be talked about? I think that I don't care what no one says, every female always kind of pushes that marriage conversation after a certain amount of years. So when that conversation comes up, it's something in a guy's head should be like, I so you know, am I am I gonna get that prenup?

SPEAKER_07 57:37

Like, what's happening or whatever, but just give a piece of advice out here. If you want her to sign that prenup into the microphone, if you want her to sign that prenup, don't don't make it where you trying to get her to sign that prenup right before the wedding. Just because there are ways for judges to be like, no, you pressured her into doing that, and they'll that could avoid your prenup. And now you still want to hook for all this money. So you need her to be in sound mind where she doesn't feel like she was pressured to sign it.

SPEAKER_03 58:10

Not even that though, this joint little bachelor, bachelorette like ain't that the day before the wedding. So you trying to this was a month before this. Oh, they had this like a day before though, right? Oh no, yeah, yeah. Yeah, okay. So imagine they didn't they did it their way, but imagine the day before the wedding, you pressure we trying to be turned up and you pressure me to sign a prenup like arena.

SPEAKER_05 58:34

No, no, seriously, that happened to Gilbert Arena. That was Gilbert Arena, and that was uh Steven Jackson. So Steven Jackson is on uh um what's the uh all the smoke podcaster, Matt Barnes is notorious for telling the story how he was supposed to he was engaged, this is his first his first wife, and they were at the altar getting dressed, they were in the room, and she still didn't sell the preno. And Mike Mike Michael Bibby is a was a point guard. I don't know if you know Michael Bibby's, but yeah, he was Stephen Jackson's friend, well, one of his close friends at the time. He was his boomsman. And Stephen Jackson, yo, what should I do? She didn't sell the prena, but Mike Baby was like, yo, why the hell we even here, bro? Like, yo, you got that. Yo, that's it. You you done. And I believe it was also Mike Baby's mom who told him, Yo, wipe your tears. And they and they they what they didn't get married that day. They end up having like a party at the uh at the hall, but they didn't get married because you're uh you have to protect your your your I agree. You have to protect your finances.

SPEAKER_03 59:24

My my question to y'all then is when y'all presenting that cleanup papers. You already said your answer. You said way before everything. When are you?

SPEAKER_05 59:35

So I mean I was ever so lucky to be so wealthy. I was ever so lucky chat to be so wealthy. Um Yeah, to be honest, I mean, I think that's a conversation I'll have. Like Ant was saying, like if once you realize we're getting that serious, because at some point if you are that wealthy, for the most part, a woman's gonna have an idea of your financial status by the date, or however the the con however the relationship is going, you're gonna be able to tell that you're you know, then you also you won't want to withhold that you have money either. You wanna be transparent, you know what I'm saying? So either way, but I think that's a conversation to be had really early on in the date. And again, and if they aren't willing to sign it, I think you also gotta be willing to cut your losses too, because I can assure you no notebox is worth losing all all your money or half your money. Like it it doesn't exist.

SPEAKER_07 1:00:25

Not to mention what you already paid for just to have the wedding. Because you're talking about a month away, so you talking about the venue already paid for. That's fine. You gotta talk about cakes already paid for, flowers already paid for. People uh it was supposed to happen in Italy, so you're talking about the the flesh station off the deposit.

SPEAKER_05 1:00:45

Speaking of weddings, real quick, yo, shout out to Gary Owen. Did you see he got married? That looked like one of the dopest weddings I've ever seen. You see what I mean? So you obviously know Gary Owen is, but you know, he had the whole cast and things like a man too as his goonsman.

SPEAKER_03 1:00:58

Except for Kevin Hart. Kevin Hart, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 1:01:01

Then he came out to Bumbi doing international players' anthem. Yo, that shit looks so I've always liked to know as a every black person I think loves Gary Owen. Yeah, and of course, and he also married the black chick.

SPEAKER_03 1:01:10

You know, but I think he's um he grew up in a I think did he grow up in like a black area. No, he grew up in Cincinnati.

SPEAKER_05 1:01:17

His dad, I think his dad was my father's racist as hell. He always tells the story. Really?

SPEAKER_07 1:01:21

No, but I'm gonna be honest though. What y'all think about this? Do y'all think women care about money more than they care about love?

SPEAKER_03 1:01:31

Y'all answer first before I say my answer.

SPEAKER_05 1:01:33

I think well the the perfect example I'll give to you, like it was just 60 degrees outside. Right? 60 degrees outside. Okay, 65. I had my stuff down, whatever you want to call it. I drive a decent car, but if Britain, if uh average looking man drives down the street in an M5 with the sundown, or whatever car is that luxury car you think of, he pulls up to the car. I I'm willing to bet if a girl is single, she's gonna give him attention if he even if he's not attracted. That's that's just my belief. I I think at times of caring about and that's okay. Like I understand that I like I'm too old now to sit there and say, Oh, he's he's he's this, he's that, like I'm I'm too old, you know, like I'm I'm aware now. So I definitely think women care. Like, and that's it is what it is. That's why you gotta find a woman who doesn't like that's the that's the better answer.

SPEAKER_03 1:02:23

You gotta find one who doesn't wait aunt, what you think?

SPEAKER_06 1:02:26

Um well the the question is is do women care care about looks or money? I guess I don't know. I mean, realistically, they probably do care about looks and they care about money, right? Um but there's some women that actually don't care about that stuff, they care about just the stability of you of you being there, and I don't know. That's the type of woman I would be looking for.

SPEAKER_03 1:02:51

I feel like be honest, no, I'm gonna be honest. 100% honest. I'm gonna be honest. I feel like you can't get looks, you could always get money. So I care about the looks, right?

SPEAKER_07 1:03:05

However, she's putting on interest for the women right now.

SPEAKER_03 1:03:08

No, no, no, no, no. Listen to me, listen to me. However, when it comes to money, I I personally would like a guy to have something to bring to the table, right? So we're not going for one, you know, think times are hard. However, you know, we're not going for the ones that don't got no job or whatever. Um, you can get laid off. That is a thing, you know. That is a thing. We're not talking about that. We just talking about no motivation to get a job, no type, nothing. I personally feel like you could always get money, or a female always know how not to a female always know a way to get money or to hustle, or you yourself as a man know a way to get money and hustle. So that could always come.

SPEAKER_06 1:03:51

A look, you can't, unless the guy's getting plastic surgery or something, you can't really get looks like and I think Glorilla would disagree with you because she has a song and she's like is like uh what is it called? It's like um medium ugly or something like that in the song that she says. Oh, I know it's so you're talking about somebody, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Exactly. So I'm sure this woman, I've heard at least they don't mind a medium ugly guy because if he got money, he got money.

SPEAKER_03 1:04:17

But it everyone look everyone type or everyone is attracted to something different, right? So something I may think is like, oh, that he looked good. Other females probably be like, oh, he's ugly, like nah.

SPEAKER_07 1:04:27

So you're saying some some men is like based off perspective. Like women think, like, okay, there might be some women that think he looked good, some women that think he look bad. But I think there's some people that like you know, it's a consensus that everybody thinks that that that that guy doesn't look good. Like, let's take Flavor Flav. He got a bunch of baby mothers. Because he got money, it's the money. It's the money. That's how I feel. I feel like, you know, a lot of the times women are they, you know, they're gonna be like, oh, this guy's attractive, and they're gonna go for him. But I think the money supersedes the guy's looks a lot of the time.

SPEAKER_03 1:05:03

It does. I I agree with y'all, but I that's why I said personally, me, like I So you're not putting on the cape for the women right now. No, I'm not putting on the cake. I'm not being a girl's girl right now because a lot of girls will go for the guy with the money. I'm not gonna like even your example, like even when I see it in like the chats or something, like, oh, he had a BMW or he had this, he had that. I'm like, girl, do you see him? Like, what what are we talking about right now? But I mean, that's just some girls' preference. Like, I'm not putting not too much on the girlies, but that's some girls' preference. Me personally, like, I mean, if you look attractive to me or whatever, like that, that's what I would go for first. The money thing. But it's also with the money thing, like it it goes into a bigger topic of like what girls allow because the men have money, like that's gonna be my next point.

SPEAKER_05 1:05:52

Like, if he has the money, he's also gonna be in a you know, that famous uh Chris thing is Chris Rock or Dave Chapel. He's like, I got fuck you money where I could do whatever the fuck I want. I think that's a and that's also a thing for women too. That's not a that's not a a a man thing. I think that goes to both sides. That's also a point where you think you have a financial because just speaking for me personally, like not my personal experience, but in sense of a woman checklist like me and always talk about just like women say they want a guy that makes six figures and does this and does that. There's nothing people need to see who makes six figures, especially the legal way. So I don't want to put me in children in a situation also like I'm in that tier who makes six figures. So then now a woman is also looking for that. Now the next thing is gonna be oh, is he good looking or is he that? So if you put yourself in that position to where now that at that at some point the guy is gonna be in control, the guy's gonna be in control, say, okay, well, why the what makes them want you? You know what I'm saying? So I think it is it it's uh there's layers to what someone's preference is, and again, I'm notorious for saying a woman will break the rules for who she likes. And people have rules, but they a woman of God will break the rules for whoever they want. There is no chance, there's no like money from that. Look at that. That's true.

SPEAKER_03 1:07:02

What's his thing?

SPEAKER_05 1:07:03

Michael Blackson, like he literally he has the funniest joke ever, and that motherfucker said that he told me I look like I look under the bed.

SPEAKER_03 1:07:13

No, but look at him. He y'all know about like how he has this rule with uh his girlfriend.

SPEAKER_07 1:07:21

Who's allowing that because of he has there's a couple people that got that rule. His wife also gives him the opportunity he could pick one woman a year to have a cheat, but his wife said he also said that he doesn't do it. And it's because of her allowing him to get that choice.

SPEAKER_05 1:07:43

So speaking of rules and being broken, what are you allowing? So a hot topic that I had at my job over the past couple days was is it okay if you follow an ex on Instagram? Not all your exes, but it's okay if you follow one in particular. And so I see your face. It's definitely a no. Right. It's definitely no, because why is it a specific one? Can I cannot speak? See, see this. I'm in the circle with some lovers, some lovers around the room. So my and I do follow what there's one extra I actually do follow. And we're actually it's so why because we're platonic. We realized it wasn't gonna work out and there was no bad blood. I think that is possible.

SPEAKER_00 1:08:23

No such thing.

SPEAKER_03 1:08:24

So I don't want to get too far.

SPEAKER_05 1:08:27

No, no, no. Let the level boy ask me. Let me paint the picture first.

SPEAKER_00 1:08:32

Come on, Pascal, Picasso.

SPEAKER_05 1:08:35

So the reason I was saying this was so I I was asked a question at work, and I defended my I defended myself with the argument I made was that at some point, and this is how this is how me personally I was always raised, was one, if you have a bunch of exes where it's like, oh, I can't stand that person, give me a regular X, that's one. Like it can't be every ex was the father. That makes no sense. Okay, the next point I have was that if I had expressed so much you don't marry everybody you love. That's not realistic. At least from what I've seen, what I experienced, you don't marry everybody you love, and that's also it. Like nobody's obligated to be with anybody. So I do feel like if you can't be with the person, at some point you can chalk it up to say, okay, perfectly we'll develop as a friend. And oftentimes I don't always think for myself when I opened and I'm not talking about situationship, I'm talking about there was a title, I met the family, there was like actual relationships. Right? So when you factor that in, and I do feel like it is possible to, at least in my uh experience, to be friends with the man. I don't I don't even know social media, and I get when people say, Well, why I want them keeping up with me, but if you're a friend, friends keep up with you. Like that that's what that's what friends do. Like that's it's platonic. Like I think when a boundary is crossed, then you're gonna be like, you're on the same page. Wait, I have a question though.

SPEAKER_03 1:09:54

Okay. Are you in a relationship right now? No, I'm saying okay. So when you get in, I think right.

SPEAKER_05 1:10:00

But when you get in a relationship this is not the question, but this is where I turned head. This is when people got mad at me because I know what you're gonna say. When you get in a relationship and my girlfriend asks me, like, am I following my ex? Yes, I will say yes. And now if she asks me, you're ready, Brittany. Now I'm gonna be honest. I'm being honest here, chat. Now, if she was to ask me to unfollow her, this was a bigger problem. Because then I'm gonna say no. Excuse me? So I'm and I and the reason why the reason it's not toxic, but the reason why I'm gonna say no is one, uh-uh, I'm toxic. The reason I'm gonna say no is I'm gonna keep it hungry with you. One, I don't do ultimatum. What this is gonna lead to is so you're picking her over me. No, because she's in my past. Like I'm I'm I'm with you. Like we have, we're here, and I'm gonna have the transparent conversation with you and say, hey, this is X, Y, and Z, like there's nothing there with Botanic. You can even read the messages, like I'm not texting her late at night, like, yo, let me come on.

SPEAKER_03 1:10:56

Like, y'all once had something for each other.

SPEAKER_05 1:10:58

That's fine, and we moved on. Like, that is that that's history, like it's in the past. Like you're my present. So I'm not sitting here doing this, this, and that. Okay, so would you be okay with her father? Yes, I have no problem with that.

SPEAKER_06 1:11:08

Now, what if she invites that same man to your wedding?

SPEAKER_05 1:11:11

So I I think that's like I think that's a little pushing it. No, they're friends. They're friends.

SPEAKER_06 1:11:16

They're friends, there's nothing wrong with friends.

SPEAKER_07 1:11:18

We are friends, but that's the thing. He did say with boundaries. He said no bad boy. That's exactly what I said.

SPEAKER_06 1:11:23

That's not a friend, that's an acquaintance.

SPEAKER_07 1:11:24

Yeah, but that could be a boundary for him. Yeah, like it would have to be a boundary for what you pay for.

SPEAKER_03 1:11:28

But I feel like just having I agree with everything you said as far as like you could have ex that you are friends with, where like, you know, we just not meant to be together. That's cool. However, when you enter that new relationship, it's a certain point of respect and loyalty that you have to have. I'm with you. You have the title. But you still have she still has access to you. So do you do you block all your exes once you break up? All my exes are blocked. You block them. Yeah, they are blocked. Jordan, you block. This is what I'm gonna say, right?

SPEAKER_07 1:11:59

No, no, no, no, no, no, no. I'm gonna get to the questions. I'm gonna get to the questions. Look, which y'all gonna let me like break it down. You gotta let them go first. You gotta let them go.

SPEAKER_03 1:12:08

Stare it up, stare it up.

SPEAKER_07 1:12:11

There are exes that I have that I have been friends with.

SPEAKER_02 1:12:18

Very good.

SPEAKER_07 1:12:18

But I do not follow them on social media anymore. Is it because and that would be the extent of it? And it's not uh like, oh, I need a blog or anything like that. But I just don't have them as a friend. I don't get any updates on their life, they don't get any updates on my life, and it's just basically like you know, we can be friends, but friends from a distance. We don't have to talk every day and not have to talk at all at all if you really get that.

SPEAKER_05 1:12:45

But I'm saying, and I think people get so caught up on the 1x, like that you're following, oh that this one must you must be going back to them. That's not I think as some like I said, this is just there's a reason why she's there in the others. That's what I'm saying. I agree with that. No, no, that is the exact reason why I agree with that, but I also think that you shouldn't put the stage of put like being atonic.

SPEAKER_03 1:13:07

But I also think that's something that's the reason why you're connected to her still. Because we're cool. Exactly. There's a reason why you're not cool with the other one.

SPEAKER_05 1:13:15

Because it ended bad. This is I'm simply saying if the This one ended good. Yeah, that's the only reason why you can still be friends because you guys realize, yo, we tried being together, it's not gonna work. But there's so much respect there. Okay, so let me ask you a question. But you can't invite her to a wedding. I'm not even bringing like friends to the wedding. So I don't think that's like the same question.

SPEAKER_03 1:13:34

Wow.

SPEAKER_05 1:13:35

No, I mean weddings are expensive. You think uh every friend doesn't get invited to a wedding. Yeah, that is true. Yeah, you gotta pay by the pay, like that's not the same thing. But I will say, like, I think in my opinion, the way I expressed it at work was I think it is possible to follow an ex on Instagram and you just you're not interacting like it's just I don't I don't have I also I don't want I don't put that much thought in Instagram like everybody else. I think I've said that before. But it is also a sense of if we end on amicable terms, we just realize that they just be different, it could be cool, it could be a ghost follower or something like that. I I don't think there's anything wrong with that.

SPEAKER_03 1:14:10

I just say that there may be a lot where someone has flat and someone at the end, and then you're closer to that.

SPEAKER_06 1:14:16

I mean a ghost follower, right? You are is your page public or private? So then she can sit on the outside and look at you.

SPEAKER_05 1:14:23

That's petty. See, this is what I'm trying to like okay. Let me ask you this. Was you raised when when your mom raised you did she ever say when you break up with someone be done? She did. And it's bad advice, it's bad advice, it's that's bad advice.

SPEAKER_07 1:14:40

But my mother is friends with her ex. Like I think as a joke, like life is too short. Is your mom in a relationship right now? Well, my mom's not in a relationship right now, but when she had a husband, she was still cool with her ex-husband. Like, like I I like life is too short. I feel like now with social media, they didn't have that relationship where it's like oh no sneaky links and stuff like that. I don't want to take a shot.

SPEAKER_06 1:15:01

I love mama, but right.

SPEAKER_03 1:15:04

She's single right now. I I don't think that's I don't think that means that. I just feel like offer respect and offer loyalty, like I said, like you know, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 1:15:15

I think of people who would sit there and watch and watch their wife have sex with somebody else. Like what works for you works for you. Like that's wow. Nah, that's real life though. It is according to people, they're married. You might say, Well, it's not real marriage. Yo, what works for you each is on. I agree. Different stroke for different folks, you know what I'm saying? But for me, I'm like, again, I'm not saying every ex you have to be but that, of course, but she's so hard. But that's but okay, but it isn't like you don't have to put that much stuff. Right. That's because I didn't end on bad terms with this ex. If I end on bad terms, then by all means, you could like follow me, but I'm like do the whole work. So if we just me and you sit down, pause, all right. I know Jordan's gonna say something crazy. We dating, whatever, yo, but it's not working out. I think we should just be friends. All right, like I'm cool with that.

SPEAKER_06 1:16:04

Like, that's like like leave it where it is. Like, you gotta ask her that. Because if if a girl tells me that, like girls, I I mean, I wanna say that every girl, but like a lot of the time the ending is like, Oh, we can still be friends.

SPEAKER_07 1:16:20

No, that's exactly how that's you could tell you could tell her on paper, like, yeah, we're gonna be friends, but I'm gonna be honest with you. Why are we gonna be friends for us? Yeah, nothing it's done. But that's not the first to be able to do that.

SPEAKER_05 1:16:32

Oh, yo, I think it's best we be friends.

SPEAKER_02 1:16:34

I was like, Yeah, I'm like, I'm cool with that. Okay, so then allows that.

SPEAKER_05 1:16:38

That's not a friend's then, Brig bro. You can't be friends with your ex. That's all I'm saying. Nothing just subject. You could be acquaintance. You could be you could be cool with you. So if you see your ex in the street, you're not gonna speak to your ex. No. What are we seeking for? That's seriously, you're not gonna speak to your ex and see him on the street. No, that's yo.

SPEAKER_07 1:16:54

Now I feel I feel like you could be friends on your ex. I'm not gonna look at me. Look at me.

SPEAKER_05 1:17:02

Let me cook, let me cook. So you're not gonna speak to you. You see on the street. I have no comment.

SPEAKER_01 1:17:06

That's not.

SPEAKER_05 1:17:07

Yes or no?

SPEAKER_06 1:17:08

See or no? See or no? Yo, boy, come on. Like, listen. It's no why am I talking to my ex walking down the street?

SPEAKER_05 1:17:15

That is wow.

SPEAKER_06 1:17:16

So so so you so you say you all hold on, let me cook.

SPEAKER_05 1:17:20

So all this love that y'all have for your ex it just goes out the way because you're not together. No, no, I didn't say that.

SPEAKER_03 1:17:24

Love, don't love here, love will get you killed. Yo, yeah.

SPEAKER_07 1:17:29

She doesn't break. She doesn't. But it's just like it's always big reps to 50 cent on the wild. He said we if you he said we could be cool, but if you cool people speak to each other.

SPEAKER_05 1:17:41

So if I gotta walk past like walk past a you, so you see, I ain't gonna lie to you.

SPEAKER_06 1:17:45

Some people I see it outside, I avoid them. And we're cool with it. That's fine. It could be regular people. Because some people they they want to they want to talk to you, have a cool conversation. I'm I'm I gotta go.

SPEAKER_03 1:17:55

Okay, let me ask you a question. You walking down the street with your new girl or whoever, you see this ex that you're cool with, that you have each other on social media, boom, she's she comes like, oh, give you a big old hug, whatever. How is that?

SPEAKER_05 1:18:09

No, no, those boundaries crossing a boundary.

SPEAKER_03 1:18:11

Now, if you caught it if you're looking for a scene, yeah, friends.

SPEAKER_05 1:18:14

No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. If I ain't see my friend in a minute, I'm not gonna be able to do that. This is how they do they try to gaslight it to make it worse than what it is. This is how this is what they do, they try to gaslight it. If you know, if you know, if I see my ex right now, she's out with a guy. I wouldn't say I wouldn't even put her in that position. You don't you don't do that. So you just gonna walk past her.

SPEAKER_06 1:18:31

Yeah, but that's your friend.

SPEAKER_00 1:18:32

No, no, they're in a position.

SPEAKER_05 1:18:34

Penny J is definitely going to say what's up. Definitely not, big bro. Why you not saying that? Because at the end of the day, you don't want to put them in a position, you don't want to put that person in that uncle. So then y'all shouldn't be friends. That's not how that works.

SPEAKER_07 1:18:48

But that's the thing. I I think Jalen is saying, like, he thinks that they could be friends, but he's specifically talking about she could follow me on Instagram and that's because I follow her, like we could follow each other on the gram, but we're not really friends where we're gonna talk to each other.

SPEAKER_03 1:19:03

So then you I think you're using the term social media friends. Yeah, yeah, social media, social media friends.

SPEAKER_05 1:19:09

But if I was to see if I was to see you, I would join two friends at like at like uh at like at a 9 a.m. banger. If I was to see you, oh yo, that's blah blah blah, yo, what's good, blah blah.

unknown 1:19:18

And that's where I leave.

SPEAKER_06 1:19:19

I wouldn't be at a 9 a.m. banger. I didn't see so in a relationship. And my ex is probably there, bro. I wouldn't be there. Wait, what? I wouldn't be at a 9 a.m. banger if I'm in a relationship.

SPEAKER_05 1:19:30

You don't go out to party on the first time.

SPEAKER_06 1:19:36

We gotta go out. I don't know about I don't go out. Why am I in the club for if if I already got the love of my life at home?

SPEAKER_05 1:19:47

So you're gonna keep you hostage, you can't.

SPEAKER_06 1:19:49

No, that's not what it is. I didn't say she's doing that. I'm choosing to stay home because I respect it.

SPEAKER_07 1:19:53

So if you're so if we're saying, yo, we go into the 9 a.m. banger and are you coming to the bigger?

SPEAKER_06 1:19:58

No, let's let's go do something else. We can go to a bar and just and watch a game.

SPEAKER_05 1:20:03

How is that? This bitches at bars. No, no, no, no, no, it's not the same thing.

SPEAKER_06 1:20:12

Not the same thing, it's a different settings, it's different settings. It's different settings for everything. You're putting yourself in a situation where you shouldn't be in as a as a man in relationship.

SPEAKER_07 1:20:21

Nah, that is that's that that answer that answer that answer is that is just for the people to think he's that guy. Because I for a fact that if me and Jalen say we're going to the 9 a.m. banger, are you coming to the house? In a relationship, he is out in a relationship. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, am I going out to a party?

SPEAKER_06 1:20:42

In a relationship, am I going to the party often with you guys? Well, as much as I am when I'm singing. But am I still going? But I'm not going as much, bro. If if someone's going is the question. No, because I'm not a party person either way. So I'm not going to no party.

SPEAKER_05 1:20:56

Well, if you were to say you're not going to go to us, like, I'm not going to go to Columbia because I'm I got a girl. All right, whatever. Like, whatever. Like, yo, I get it. But a single party for four hours, you're not going to go. That's not to me. That's a party.

SPEAKER_06 1:21:10

Nine ambiguity. Everybody knows what the nine banger is, what they're doing, bro.

SPEAKER_05 1:21:13

No, not if you're not a cheater, you're not a cheater. You're not gonna it don't make a difference. But he's saying he's gonna be a good thing. I'm not gonna put myself in that situation.

SPEAKER_03 1:21:18

What situation? They're not in there after each other. No, but it's uh temptations.

SPEAKER_07 1:21:23

What's the temptation? People the same temptations at the bar.

SPEAKER_05 1:21:26

Like that's what they are home. That's well, he's yo, he's lying for the pod, but Brittany. Hold on, Beth. Your girl, your boyfriend tells you I'm gonna go nine bangers that a problem.

unknown 1:21:39

Yes.

SPEAKER_07 1:21:41

Yo, now we just everybody. I want the chat to know. Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. I'm not gonna go to the strip table.

SPEAKER_03 1:21:49

I mean, uh yeah, but it's a problem because you know why it's a problem? It's the problem because if we getting it personal with me, me and him have a rule that we go to parties together. All right, that's respect. I respect that. So that's not am I lying? You heard you had conversations with us before.

SPEAKER_07 1:22:04

But would but would you put a party to him going by himself? You'd be opposed to it. Thank you.

SPEAKER_03 1:22:12

If he was that type of person, what does that no no no? Yeah, because if you're not a party person, if my boyfriend's not a party person. So if all of a sudden he like, yo, me and the guy's going to this party, what you mean y'all going to this party? You don't even go to parties. Like, what are you talking about right now?

SPEAKER_07 1:22:27

If that makes sense, if it wasn't Brit, because I know Brit gonna be like, oh, you don't normally go to parties and your friends wanna go. It must be a reason why y'all all want to go right now. Go ahead, chill.

SPEAKER_03 1:22:36

But you know him though. You know him, and he's not gonna do that. You ask him to do it. But I don't know, personal standpoint, I have to answer how my relationship is. If he's not a party person, I'm gonna have a problem with him going because it's like you don't go to parties, and then we already have this compromise of like we go to parties together, so that's weird. You get what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_05 1:22:56

I do, but I also fact Ant is lying because that's like insane.

SPEAKER_03 1:22:59

Like, I don't but I can't speak on anybody else's relationship, but I what Ant is saying I agree with you don't want it the temptations, like granted, I I'm not a party person, I don't like partying, but I've been to parties. I my friends they constantly have parties when it's their birthdays or different things like that. I either I go or I don't go, like it depends on what uh and when you go, right?

SPEAKER_07 1:23:23

Uh-huh. When you go to these parties, are there times where you're just you know, I'm dancing by myself or I'm like standing at the wall, like drinking, I got my cup and stuff like that.

SPEAKER_03 1:23:32

Like I said, my compromise is my boyfriend's there with me.

SPEAKER_07 1:23:34

No, I'm saying, but you so you never went to no party by yourself in a relationship?

SPEAKER_03 1:23:38

No.

SPEAKER_07 1:23:38

All right, but but but this is the thing. If you were out, what would you do? You listen to the music, yeah. Maybe a drink or two. No, I'm gonna be honest. Maybe a drink or two, and you're chilling with your friends. Yeah, so there's temptations around you.

SPEAKER_03 1:23:51

There is always temptations, but I wouldn't put myself. So boom, here's the temptation, right? Say me and the girls go to brunch. Brunch usually ends let's say eight o'clock or whatever, like that, right? Late brunch. Brunch usually ends at eight o'clock. Brunch is easy, it's because it don't be brunch for real. Brunch is in that usually eight o'clock. However, in the past, I'm me and my friends like, yo, what's the next spot? I'm in a relationship now. Ain't no next spot for me. I'm going to late be late up with my man.

SPEAKER_05 1:24:18

That that uh I'll I'll expect that more than saying going to a party is like okay.

SPEAKER_06 1:24:22

No, use me for instance. Use me for instance. When was the when was the first time and only time I've been to 9 banger?

unknown 1:24:27

What?

SPEAKER_06 1:24:28

When when when when I'm saying when I said when. Have I? No, I haven't. I've only been to one 9 banger. I've only been to one and it was the Puerto Rico. It was the Puerto Rican one.

unknown 1:24:38

Yeah, we went to one before that.

SPEAKER_06 1:24:40

What was the other one?

unknown 1:24:41

Um, I'm not sure.

SPEAKER_07 1:24:42

It was one we went to in what was it? But either but either way, either way, was I single or in a relationship?

SPEAKER_06 1:24:48

I don't remember. So what? Was I single or in a relationship? In June, June 2025, I was not in a relationship.

SPEAKER_05 1:24:53

I don't, I don't remember.

unknown 1:24:54

I don't know.

SPEAKER_06 1:24:55

Like, no, no, I'm not saying that. They're lying for the pod. They're lying for the pod.

SPEAKER_07 1:24:59

But the one we went to before that, you you was talking to somebody seriously.

SPEAKER_06 1:25:02

I was it I was I in a relationship.

SPEAKER_07 1:25:05

You were talking to them seriously. I don't know. Do you consider that a relationship? That's a whole nother topic of the city.

unknown 1:25:10

I wasn't in a relationship. I don't know.

SPEAKER_06 1:25:12

I wasn't then I wasn't in a relationship.

SPEAKER_03 1:25:13

I'm about to start phoning friends. You know, if I'm in a relationship, I'm in a relationship.

SPEAKER_06 1:25:17

I'm gonna say I'm in a relationship because that person holding memories to my phone. So I know for a fact I definitely didn't go to that nana and bigger in a relationship.

SPEAKER_05 1:25:24

So Jordan, I'm gonna ask you this. Is it okay to go to a party if you're in a relationship?

SPEAKER_07 1:25:28

Yes, but you should be outright and tell the person where you're going. Like make sure that they understand that you're going here. And like, you know, obviously you gotta reassure them that you know everything's gonna be good. I'm just going to do that. That's all I think. That's all it takes.

SPEAKER_05 1:25:42

And again, and people might be saying it's because I'm single or Jalen's selfish. And I could be selfish and I also be single, so two things can be true. But I'm also saying there's no difference between relationship me and single me.

SPEAKER_07 1:25:56

He's saying out there, he's a big thing.

SPEAKER_06 1:25:59

That's a problem.

SPEAKER_05 1:26:00

Nigga, you're single. It's the same thing. What's the difference?

SPEAKER_06 1:26:02

I'm not a party person. That's why I'm not going to be.

SPEAKER_05 1:26:04

I'm not a party person either. But you're the last party I've been to. You were.

SPEAKER_07 1:26:09

I'm just saying, when I last party every time. I'm just saying when I pop out. I'm just saying, when I pop out to parties or events, there's only one person on this couch that invites me.

SPEAKER_05 1:26:20

Honestly, the last party I think we went to, aside from your mom's 50th, was the piss party with Shorty Fitness and his oldest go to birthdo events. And who's going to do it?

SPEAKER_03 1:26:43

I'm imagining it. I'm imagining it. Nah, what it's okay.

SPEAKER_06 1:26:51

It has nothing to do with what it is.

SPEAKER_03 1:26:53

No, wait, hold on. If you go to a party in a relationship, is your girl there? Like, no, she's not there. Are you dancing on other females? No, that's the uh no, you're not dancing in the party. Females they order back to the dance with themselves. They don't even dance with themselves. Some females be backing it up.

unknown 1:27:11

That's true. Some but that's not true.

SPEAKER_03 1:27:12

What are you doing if a female back it up on you? What are you doing?

SPEAKER_07 1:27:21

Two stepping to the side. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 1:27:28

Okay. I need to phone the friends. Oh my god. Thank you for joining us this week.

SPEAKER_01 1:27:34

I need the phone friends.

SPEAKER_05 1:27:38

Alright, y'all. That's our show for this week, man. It's been on way too long. We'll be back next week, y'all. Thanks for joining us. Be sure to like and subscribe to the pod y'all.

unknown 1:27:45

Peace.