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SPEAKER_06Is it okay to take your new drones to restaurants that you took your old shorties to?
SPEAKER_02Yo, that happened to me. Nah, I'm not with it.
SPEAKER_07I don't think there's nothing wrong with that, big bro. I ain't gonna hold you.
SPEAKER_06Loki, it's embarrassing, but I might be okay with it. Yo, let's just start the show.
SPEAKER_07Let's get into it, y'all. Yo, welcome back to Boys Be Boys and her here for a new episode. Yo, Brittany, how you feeling?
unknownHey y'all, what's up?
SPEAKER_07Brittany, bitch.
unknownI'm chilling.
SPEAKER_07Yo, Jordan, how you feeling, big dog?
SPEAKER_06Yo, I'm feeling good, you know. This week, I pulled out that turtleneck I talked about before. You know what I'm saying? Yes, sir.
SPEAKER_07I like that. So energy, what are we talking about, Jordan? What are we talking about? Let's get back into the things got a little heated before, so what's up?
SPEAKER_06I mean, like I said, to me, I feel like it's a little embarrassing to take like to take her back to the same restaurant that you took your old shorties to. It's like, yo, what if you get recognized by that?
SPEAKER_07I mean, that's like, but hold on. All right, so let me get a female's perspective first. If this is a nice spot, like I ain't talking about like a hole in the wall. Like, if this is a nice spot, intimate, DJ playing the tunes, the hookah busting. Like this was a fun. I ain't gonna lie, so I'm gonna I ain't go-to spot.
SPEAKER_06That that might that might be a little hard. Cause like I'm a go-to, like you gonna you gonna miss those meals. Nah, so I told you I'm gonna be honest with you.
SPEAKER_07I had a go-to spot where if it was like a first date or something, I brought multiple girls to the safe spot. Shout out to Noah Shell, social room. That was the spot. Social room is biased. Social room is a nice scaring your spot out like that. Nah, I mean it's whatever, but I'm honest with a pod. Like, I ain't I mean, I'm a single if I was single when I when I was single, I mean I'm still in single now, but when I was like really dating, like that's the spot I will go to. Like, I don't like and not for nothing. Fuck the place you went to with that person through the home board under the bus. Because I every time I go there, I get the same way that and never did she ever even give me a look of oh, this nigga back again. She probably went to the nine joke with a new joke. She never she was loyal to her customers, she never wanted to get her customers away.
SPEAKER_06I mean, good for her. He probably ain't tip, like you probably was tipping well, and uh he ain't tip.
SPEAKER_07Keep it a hundred, he'd been not on me, but I'll always tip like you. I'll always tip my waiters.
SPEAKER_05Like don't be tipping y'all.
SPEAKER_07Hold on, stop the pocket.
SPEAKER_05Oh, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
SPEAKER_06Like like at a restaurant? You don't tip? I hope they drag your ass in the car. Hopefully, y'all need to get her because I'm not gonna lie, too many times when when women picking up this tab, they be like, they don't tip. I ain't gonna lie. I I know like you know, I know a lot of girls who don't tip. Like, what's what's going on with that?
SPEAKER_07Yo, hold why are you even telling us this? You should have kept this to yourself. Because we had a whole with y'all, because y'all was talking about tipping, and I'm like, Yo, we had a whole thing we wanna talk about relationships, and you just do everything on board because you mean you don't tip so you ask what so when you get the bill, you be like, what is gratuity? You ask those questions?
SPEAKER_06No. So you just pay the like uh the flat 10% or 18%.
SPEAKER_07I forget what you're doing.
SPEAKER_06No, no, no. She's saying she don't even pay that.
SPEAKER_07Nah, you oh my mama, you wild.
SPEAKER_02I tip nice, I tip the nice waiting before y'all.
SPEAKER_07However, you can't it's they work the basic like their hourly rate is like sixty seven dollars or something like that.
SPEAKER_06So if you don't tip and you're paying for the date, does he tip a late?
unknownYeah, he's a big thing.
SPEAKER_06No, no, I'm saying like he'll tip, yeah. Oh, so you don't tip, but he'll cover the tip for you.
SPEAKER_02If I paid for the date, he'll he'll be like, nah, that's tip. Oh whatever. Like he'll be the only one.
SPEAKER_06Oh, okay.
SPEAKER_07Shout out Corey, but I ain't gonna hold you because I low key don't believe it.
SPEAKER_08What?
SPEAKER_07Oh my mama don't believe it right now.
SPEAKER_08Damn, Corey, you lost your shout-out this week.
SPEAKER_04Oh my mama, I don't believe it. Nah, they about to drag me.
SPEAKER_02They're about to be like, you bought a $3,000 Mark.
SPEAKER_05Yo, hold on, hold on.
SPEAKER_07So let's just if the bill is $65, what temperature you leave for a $65 bill?
SPEAKER_06I don't think she's being pulling down on the jaw. I'm giving you the I'm giving the bills, though. And it's just like you see in her soul, she really just don't do that.
SPEAKER_07Yo, all right, let's get back to the question.
SPEAKER_06We got to, because that uh Yo, they're about to drag me.
SPEAKER_07Yo, bro, so you're telling me when you go to so many spots, right? So if you go to you bring whatever, you won't bring a go, you won't recycle a spot?
SPEAKER_06I mean, it depends. Like you said, the that go-to, I can't give up on a go-to. Because if something good, like, you know, we we gotta pop out. We gotta pop out and do that again. But I'm gonna be honest, if the joint was just high, probably ain't gonna touch down because what if I see the the the old show they did?
SPEAKER_02Okay, so wait. Let me ask this question then. What's the time span? You because clearly, that's a good question. Yeah, like the cashier at the spot I went to with the guy, like she told me, like, yo, you the fifth girl he brought here this week.
SPEAKER_07So this week is crazy. So go ahead, go ahead, go ahead.
SPEAKER_08This week might be a little crazy. I'm gonna be honest with you. So based off that, I mean hold on, take another one.
SPEAKER_07But even her getting the she got a alley you from a bartender cashier. She still don't know.
SPEAKER_02Sweet mama clearance for everybody watching.
SPEAKER_08I'm gonna be honest with you. I don't feel bad that he took her back to that spot now.
SPEAKER_06That is crazy. Yo, I used to be uh used to be a bus boy, bro, and survival.
SPEAKER_07It just bro, like that. It's like I don't even understand that job.
SPEAKER_06But but yeah, so like you know, recycling that that same spot five times in a week is crazy. Like I ain't never the food ain't never been that good, you know. The food ain't never been that good.
SPEAKER_07I want to know where it was. Oh, yeah. I mean, she have the clutter. David Busters. Hey, nah, she's being nah.
SPEAKER_06Hey, yo, my man's must have loved the wings.
SPEAKER_07It was the one in Long Island. We love the wings, bro.
SPEAKER_02With the bowling, because you know, not every David Busters have like the legit big bowling eye. Nah, I didn't know that, but okay. Yeah, it's the one in Long Island that has like the big bowling eyes.
SPEAKER_07Well, recycling David Busters is crazy. Nah, but she must hate her job because you were just David Buster's not even special, even be sold to he bringing Jones there.
SPEAKER_06Facts, because because you when you really think about it, she would have to be really walking around.
SPEAKER_02I feel like they'd be walking around. Nah, we was at uh it was the cashier for us to pay for bowling. For bowling only. Oh, okay, okay. Because like that, that particular David Buster is like the bowling area, it's like separate. It's like a you know, it's a nice little calm setting or whatever. Separate from the Dave and Buster. So she could probably see who be in and out of it.
SPEAKER_06That's that's did that make you happy, the fact that she looked out for you right there?
SPEAKER_02Um, happy, I wouldn't say happy, but it definitely had me like a gravity.
SPEAKER_06From her, like like from her, were you happy that she like you know extended that to you?
SPEAKER_02I feel like every certain females have motives, so I feel like she probably looked out on some like all right, one less girl I can get away, so I can get away.
SPEAKER_07You think you think that's what she was like? You think that was her gender?
SPEAKER_02I probably some females are like that. He was alright.
SPEAKER_07He did well for himself.
SPEAKER_02He was alright. We worked at the same job at the time, so he just stayed, uh, we not doing a lot.
SPEAKER_07But we don't do that over a I think to answer your question, Britt, I think it depends on the stage where if if the guy is single and he's just in this stage where he's just trying to just one through, like he's in his heartbreak or whatever phase where he's just wanting down on Jones. I don't, I truly like that's just the stage determined. And if you're honest, like yo, I'm single, I'm doing whatever, I don't gotta tell you that I bring every girl. Like if you now if you ask me, I'd be like, Yeah, I've come here before. I ain't gonna say it's my go-to spot, but I've been before. You know what I'm saying? But now if a waitress puts you on glass like that, where's the manager? Oh my mama. Oh my mama. You ain't have to say nothing. None of that is in your job description. Shopping.
SPEAKER_06Especially if I'm tipping, like you wild. Now I don't think she wanted him. If he bring in multiple girls' first dates today, them busters.
SPEAKER_02Women, women, well, it wasn't really like a first date type thing, it was just like uh we're going out to jail.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, but that's that's that's what that's my thing. So like I feel like I and if men, yo, men don't lie. Because I feel like men know if certain girls they know it's just gonna be yo, I'm just trying to smash. Like, I'm just trying to smash, I'm gonna take it to my go-to spot where I take women for happy hour or whatever. And I don't think there's nothing like if you're being keeping it hunting, there's nothing wrong with that. If it's like if it's something like that, where it's like, I but now if you have the same first date spot, and some men do like like you saw with the game, the game was like DM and women with the same F3, like that, which I ain't gonna say is corny because sometimes the corny stuff works for whoever, you know what I'm saying? But if you have a certain go-to play, I don't gotta be fucking homeyo every single girl I mess with. Like I like in our job, most guys are not Rico Suave. Like that is true. Like that's you feel what I'm saying. So if I go, if I find a spot like new old social bar, like social lounge, whatever, I'm like, yo, it's a nice intimate setting. DJ's usually on pop and whatever. The hookah's busting, drinks a little pricey, but that's why, and it's and it's and it's a it's a bar, so there's no real food, it has like nothing but finger food. That's why I like it because it's it's like a spot where you just drink and do the hookah and have the conversation, which I don't feel like there's nothing wrong with that, especially if you're single or whatever. Now, if you're taking if you're trying to take a certain girl seriously and you bring multiple girls to that spot, I still don't think there's nothing wrong with that. But that's why I was gonna ask her spot though.
SPEAKER_06Yeah, so like what if it was like your girl? Like legit, she was your girl for like let's say a year or something. So legit your girl. Like she was legit your girl. Would you feel comfortable bringing down, let's say, like, just like you know, one of them drones like like you say, you just trying to slide on.
SPEAKER_07So if it's legit your girl, I'll say you're pushing it. But now the reason I say that is because how comfortable would you with being uncomfortable if she walks in? Because odds are most girls, if this their spot is because they go there with their girlfriends, usually. Or now, if a guy introduced them to the spot and they won't tell you, hey, a guy introduced me to this spot, I brought you to this spot. She damn sure not gonna say anything. That's what I'm saying. She's gonna keep that to herself. That's you feel what I'm saying. So, and if she happens to walk in with a guy, you gotta take him on the chin. So, just how comfortable are you with being uncomfortable? I'm gonna be honest with you.
SPEAKER_06You know what's my response to that? If if I pulled up with a drunk and she pulled in with a guy, I I'm petty enough to be like, yo, let me go send a drink. Nah, you're trying to be toxic.
SPEAKER_05Why would you do that? What you mean? Why would you do that? Just to do it.
SPEAKER_06You want to send a drink. This is the guy who says you won't be friends with the drink. No, no, no. But that's the thing. I'm gonna send a drink for both of them. Why are you sending a drink? I'ma send a drink for both of them. That would be crazy. Nah, you why what's crazy about that? Why are you sending a drink? We already in the same spot. Stuff is already uncomfortable. No, it's not like that's a lot of people.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, like paying each other no mind.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, and and let's be honest. I feel like if I know I'm bringing, if I if I book up with Shorty and this this was her spot, she told me, Oh, I love this spot, whatever, and I'm in that spot, mentor is certainly gonna be in your head. Don't let such and such walk in. So now I'm asking for the I'm asking for a seat at the table where I can see the door. I want to make sure I can see when this John walk in. I don't be like all right, this is how I'm gonna play this off. I'm gonna I might have to watch the beer, whatever, X, Y, Z. Now Godfrey should walk in with some John, with some dude, and I'm like, all right. Like, dudes know if nigga walk in, he like, alright, this, yeah, uh, she might have leveled up on me. I ain't even gonna hold you.
SPEAKER_06No, but I feel like I feel like if I if I did some shit like that, like she introduced me to the spot, I'm only gonna show up there if the food was amazing, and and it's like something I'll be like, yo, I really can't live without this. And I'm probably not gonna bring a girl there. I'm gonna just pull up on the dole because if that's one of her spots, that's really one of her spots, like you said, you run the risk of running into her. So I might just smooth in real quick, grab, grab me what I need to eat, and then dip off. So but I'm gonna be honest, if she did pull up, I I would still send that drink.
SPEAKER_07Uh Brittany, you have people on the show. If you want to date and your ex is in that spot with another draw or bumps, and he says a drink. I feel like I ain't gonna hold you. I feel like that's a because like now, like you putting the new guy in a weird position to now, because in my perspective, if I was to see that, I'm thinking, all right, geez, this nigga's either this nigga might be a stalker, one, because he's he can't take no point answering. Because your girl's gonna say, yo, this is my spot. Like he found, like, I found this spot for him. But if I was there first, no, it doesn't matter because I'm like, why are you sending a drink? Then you send in the drink. Now you're trying to, yeah, you now you're in our business. Like you think it's just sweet, because that's crazy.
SPEAKER_08I mean, I've been labeled toxic on this bottle before.
SPEAKER_07I ain't got nothing to say. Yeah, I see whatever Tommy you're on. I'm trolling, I'm not talking. Speaking of toxic niggas, we even been into the city set what's taking me because A1 Toxic almost lost his life. Well, it was almost put him on a t-shirt. Damn. Offset shot in Miami, Fort Lauderdale at the Harvard. I've been to the Hard Rock out there, phenomenal hotel, by the way. Shout out to the Hard Rock, Brittany. What how are you feeling about this? I don't have to ask a question because let's just talk about it. Let's just get into it.
SPEAKER_02First of all, TJ.
SPEAKER_07We know where TJ's from. He's from he's called a slaughtery game. 183. I I mean our 183 Slaughtery is but once I talk about him, we not clear.
SPEAKER_02Okay, well, I don't know much about him, but obviously shout out to Brooklyn. He got a song Whip Hop, so you know. But um, he was talking crazy. Like I'm the king of New York, like he was like, but he said that offside basically I seen a uh interview with uh academic yeah, he was like offside 10k or whatever. I didn't even know offside had a gambling problem. Like this was just a lot to do.
SPEAKER_06So this week I really ain't know that either.
SPEAKER_07So there's a lot to unravel in this whole conference that we're getting into, but give your first thoughts about it.
SPEAKER_02So anyhow, like he came out talking crazy or whatever, like that. Um, I don't think it's over, however. I think that's why he wanted that money from Cardi B. He wanted to get that divorce and all that stuff like that, because he clearly owes some money. Like, talk about it.
SPEAKER_07How much did that academic say he owes?
SPEAKER_02Yeah, he like this is his known spot. Like, he always goes. They say he owed hard work of apparently 800k.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, he owes mad money, and I'm like and asked for an additional 500k credit line through the text messages.
SPEAKER_02Oh he's walling.
SPEAKER_07So you want to go first, or you want to go?
SPEAKER_06I'll go into it. Yeah, I'm gonna be honest with you. First off, offset, crazy. But for everybody to know where you frequently go to, it's crazy for you to say to somebody that you owe money, come get it back in blood. Because they because they definitely they definitely try to slide on you.
SPEAKER_07Remember, I said the two-step, they tried to two-step to slide on him because not to and we may talk about this last week about owing people money. Well, people talked about this last week with the pod.
SPEAKER_01Like, this money, yeah.
SPEAKER_07It's not different, but like the people, this like I'll I'm gonna let you go, but just real quick, like at some point when you owe someone money, and then now for TJ's perspective, TJ's like, yo, you're supposed to be a such and such rapper, and I get it. There could be a time, because even I've been to certain places where I had to take out 200,000 cash, but the ATM is not let me take out whatever. They may have 100. So I'll be like, yo, bro, lend me whatever, I'll sell you whatever, and it's the money the exchange is like right back. 10k, we I'm not sitting on 10k liquid, right? So here's the thing. So TJ is the little bo the offset. He in his mind, he's like offset is asking for 10k. Maybe the ATM is fucked up, whatever. I know he got it. I know he got it. You get what I'm saying? So it's like you know what I'm saying? And that's what offset called, he called like a little bow. So if you so that's the thing, if you know someone's a little bow, you know they don't have it, you know they're gonna do whatever to get it back. Yeah, like that's like you feel what I'm saying. And so now, hold on, but now if you owe someone the money, right? If I owe if you owe him money and you tell someone to get it back in blood, in my mind, because now TJ went to the stars to post the oh, don't don't borrow money from offset, blah, blah, blah. So now off the strength of that, offset's probably like, I'm definitely not paying you back because now you're trying to embarrass me. So now, yeah, you gotta get it back in blood.
SPEAKER_06But I feel like the little bro is not really like if me and you bros, but you but you like five years younger than me, and I'll be like little bro, it might be a little bit different. Because I'm saying, like, based off our relationship, I feel like offset little bro was more like I'm trying to little bro you, like, like I like yeah, son him. Like, yo, come get this joint if you really try and get active type. I mean, so he's been known to be like he's been known every time.
SPEAKER_07He's been there, he's four. I'm not gonna he's like he's like in situations he had that joint in Atlanta in the strip club, he's he was throwing punches, like he even this one, yeah.
SPEAKER_06He was getting jumped, he was getting jumped, and then he found the opportunity. That's what that's why I'm saying, like, you know, we we're gonna talk about little TJ. Because he offset was getting jumped, he found the opportunity to single you out, and he was putting the paws on you. Oh, I didn't know this. Was the clip? Like, it was a clip. So it's like they got like the video footage, yeah. And they said offset was putting the poles on him, so then that's when his man went and got the gun in. So and then little TJ even ended up getting knocked out by one of offset fans, which is the crazy thing. So, like, he he didn't get arrested for like the old gun tote and stuff. Right. He got arrested for like disorder the just being there and for getting knocked out. So for getting knocked out, which is why I say, like, you know, it's still big DX, but like, oh, you looking a little for you to be a thing. Going and pumping the way you was pumping, like as if you really was getting active, but you didn't.
SPEAKER_07I mean I I see in a more a slightly different way because I feel like there's so many layers to this story essentially, because what's the security risk, like Jordan was saying, to go to the same casino all the time. And so when I you talk about this, people gambling addiction is the real thing. Like we know people that off the fan dude got hit the parlay, like you you keep you're chasing your losses. And when you look at those messages between offset and the person who it seemed like was the person who lent him the money through the casino, the middleman that gave him like the clearance to get the money, you can see he's chasing his losses. And like you said, that's maybe that's why he wanted so much money from Cardi B or whatever the case may be. So, but if you have the exist gambling addiction, which at this point I think it's well known that you do have it, and you're a regular dude from the hood, like most people from the hood have gambling addictions. Sitting there rolling dice, that is an addiction. No, for sure. You don't want that, that is an addiction to get the quick and fast money. Spades, all that, that is an addiction. I go up in the family, like everybody plays spades, like it's that that is the thing, you know what I'm saying? So when you look at it like that, and you take it from that perspective, and now you want to add the layer of he's a rapper, he's supposed to have it. Little TJ is at at one point, you can't people love to shit on offset. He is part of probably uh the Migos is out, in my opinion, a top five rap group of all time. They are so influ influential in hip hop. They are they they have, especially from the south.
SPEAKER_02But offset by himself is talented. Oh no, no, 100%.
SPEAKER_07Like he's that his last album is uh I forgot the name of it, but his last album was solid. Yeah, you know what I'm saying? So he he's uh so from TJ's perspective, I understand the anger if you're not getting paid and you everybody knows he goes to this casino. Yeah, so you when you look at it that way, and this also makes me now we bring Cardi into it of yo, well, I I I there's the way she was just I think embarrassed in the sense of the cheating and now you're dealing with a nigga that got a gambling addiction, this is a lot, bro. Yeah, yeah. That's a lot, you know what I'm saying? Not to put her business in there, but that's a lot. So now you have this situation where I feel like TJ put himself in the spot to because if you only go to that casino to cause the problem, right? You're going there to you're looking for the problem. Like, because offset walks around with no security, he's by himself.
SPEAKER_02Every time.
SPEAKER_06Yeah, that this yeah, this is the report say like when he goes in there, he's by himself. They said little TJ was waiting outside for him where his boys are.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, it was the plan was to like yo, get my money or whatever.
SPEAKER_02But don't Offset live in Atlanta?
SPEAKER_07He may live in Atlanta, but this is what I'm saying. Like, this is his hotel that he goes to because he has the line of credit.
SPEAKER_06They got a house down there too.
SPEAKER_07He might have his own house out there, like it, you know. So when you're out there and you everybody knows that's where you go. Now it's of course a security problem because now everybody knows this is where you go. And now, shout out to officer, he did fight, but now I'm stopped. Right, because now it's a situation where, well, if you was to even get a ruler, getting shot in your ass, that's like if from someone's ass.
SPEAKER_06He didn't even get shot in the ass. So the original thoughts was he got shot in the ass. But when they came out and they saw the video, he actually got shot in his hip. But this is right on his waistband.
SPEAKER_07So you get shot in your torso nine out of ten times. You know what I'm saying? So this is like this should have this story should be this is just a report, and we can say her lap, but there he was arguably a foot to six inches away from losing his life. No, no, over 10 bands, which is what rappers put hits on people for less. You know what I'm saying? So it's just I I I I think when you look at the situation, it's really is a it's unfortunate. And like I said, but the the affiliation that TJ has with the game, I think plays obviously plays a part into it, but he's also a dude that constantly makes these decisions where he had mad to beef with a boogie and now this. So but this isn't his fault because like again, if I'm little TJ and offset's asking me for money in a casino.
SPEAKER_02Yo, I got you, big bro.
SPEAKER_07Like you would assume, I thought you would assume he's gonna pay you right back.
SPEAKER_06For sure. Especially because, like, I don't think nobody feels like offset don't got it. You know what I'm saying? Even even that big debt he got with the casino, I don't feel like is they assuming like yo, he don't got it. This man got hit records, his wife got hit records, but you know what I'm saying? Like the money should be in rotation. You still getting paid for the city.
SPEAKER_07They said he had access to the jet for the casino, like they was like taking care of him because he spent so much money, so it's like, yeah, so it's like these casinos begin to look out for you because they know you're spending the money right back. But then doing it. Yeah, but this is the thing, like if you're you're chasing the losses, like the dude got sent the text he owes 800,000, and then the guy was the guy was to the the guy for the casino responded. Do you want to know how much you owe the casino? Offset replies, yes. He says 800,000. The guy offset then replies, okay, I need 500k ASAP. Like that or 300k, one of those, like the dude clearly has the addiction, you know what I'm saying? So he's chasing his losses. And at this point, makes it nobody chasing your losses in the casino. You probably already twisted because you're upset, you're losing. So all these factor in into now the boys is outside ready to put the pause on you. Is this situation, in my opinion, should have ended with our with him on a t-shirt? Like the way that or it could have. Yeah, like the way, yeah, like the way the the way it was set up, the way it was set up, like they they went there the line, they could say they went there to put pause on you, but they had the gun. So they didn't know.
SPEAKER_06So they were ready for anyone for sure. But I also look at it like like yo, the hotel probably was like opportunistic here too. Because there was no reports before that that he owed this money. But since the whole thing happened with little TJ now about the money, but they like, yo, let's come out where he owe us this too, so we could try to get our bread back right away. I don't think there's anything wrong with that, but I don't think so. Y'all ain't have a problem when y'all was giving him the private jet and stuff.
SPEAKER_07I mean, they probably did, but they probably handled it in-house because they didn't want to give him the they didn't want to give him the $300 line of credit.
SPEAKER_02And then you don't know how it looked for the hotel now that they just had a whole kind of shootout or like.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, this is like bad for business, bro. Like, this is you know what I'm saying? Right. So we're gonna shift over to we're gonna talk about a segment because Addicts continued on to carry this episode. I don't know if you saw this this documentary, Jordan, the Lamar Odom documentary on Netflix.
SPEAKER_06I'm gonna be honest with you. I saw some of the documentary, but you know, I I know Lamar Odom history. Uh just based off the knowledge. So I guess like Britt, you started off with what you know about the doc.
SPEAKER_07Give us the T.
SPEAKER_02Shout outs to the Kardashians.
SPEAKER_07I mean, I'm gonna toss them up, but go ahead.
SPEAKER_02I love the Kardashians. Um I feel like the men that they date loves. Like people be making it seem like it's the Kardashians, like I really feel like it's the men that's like um Lamar Odom Lamar Odom, like I mean he had like six strokes and like eleven heart attacks. Yeah, eleven heart attacks and um you know it was sad to like seriously, like it was sad to you know what I want to say? I really want to say, like, I feel like a lot of people thought it like he did all that because of the Kardashians, or he was with a Kardashian, and you could clearly see that it wasn't because he was he was with a Kardashian. Like I think my angle witness is taking up with the Kardashians a little bit, not really like a lot of them because I feel like they be getting bashed so bad or whatever. And now that he's coming out with his documentary, he also said like TNZ or somebody saw him walking through the airport and he was just like, you know, um he's really sorry to Chloe and stuff like that. Like I think that like him telling his truth like he believes some people everybody wanna hate them. Certain people, you know, a lot of people hate them or whatever the case may be, but um it just shows that like certain people um you know they hide their truth for a long time because it makes them it doesn't expose them to what's really the issue and then you know now he's living in his truth, and I'm proud of him and I'm proud that I hope that he's better and he's healing. Um, however, I don't have much to say on him or the doc. Like the doc was really good. Uh I felt like it ended kind of weird.
SPEAKER_06Like, question my fault, but question. So you said about like you feel like uh we know his Lamar Owen, he's a grown-ass man, so all his decisions is his decisions. We can't blame the Kardashians for his decisions, but do you feel like some of these men that they tend to date end up crashing out or go towards that route because it's an excess amount of fame that they probably wasn't getting before? So like they're exploited a little bit more, especially with the Kardashians. We know they like to exploit certain things for money.
SPEAKER_02But I feel like they go to the women for that exact reason. Look at if we look at Ray J, right? Now we all know Ray J is like a crazy, like he a hot boy or whatever. He was like that before him, and look at him now after him. Like he's still so I feel like they want to experience with that what that fame is like. Like, I feel like people see the money, the different things, like how they live. Like, everybody watched some part of keeping up with the Kardashians is like.
SPEAKER_06Never in my life.
SPEAKER_02You never watch keeping up with the Kardashians?
SPEAKER_06Okay, but but I mean, don't you think Ray J also was used? Because like You think Kim used him? Yeah, he was the launching point for Kim to ascend.
SPEAKER_02So, what about Kanye?
SPEAKER_06I feel like she used Kanye too. Alright, let's stick that's this gets back on the city. Oh, yeah.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, lost so just to piggyback, the doc was crazy. That's just the doc Jordan Ball. So we all knew about well, not we, I thought he just had a cocaine problem. I never knew he had an actual drug problem. Like, I didn't know he was doing like crack. Like crack, crack. I had no idea, like legit so we crack. So I watched this draw like a few days ago. It was late at night. I was doing some writing. I was like, I'm a little tired from doing the screenwriting drawing. I was like, let me put something on. I was like, oh, that Lamar Oldham draw. Like, I'm thinking it's like the adventures 30 for 30 story. So like, oh, I'll put this on until I fall asleep. So as I'm watching it, and I kept seeing Chloe, I'm like, wait, she's actually like, and she's actually like, she's uh as much as you see Lamar, you see Chloe in the pot, in the in the in the dock. So and like I said, I didn't watch them going, like I forgot to even have a reality TV show. So I always thought their marriage was a was a was a fix because they got married after 30 days, whatever. And so as I'm watching the story unfold and I'm watching her talk, yo, she I don't want she argued, she did save his life. Like I had no idea she was in the trenches with this man. Like she was like full-fledged in the trenches with this man. This man is disappearing left and right to go have orgies with women, and you got women calling her phone saying, I'm with your husband, he's passed out, come save him, and Chloe's going the one, and you know, I get it because she was also 24, so she was extremely young. The mistakes I made between 18 and 25 are you know it's astronomical to the mistakes I'm making as at my age now. So shout out to maturity. Uh I I get that, but then also no, because as I was having this conversation with one of my co-workers, I'm like, I can only imagine the trauma that puts on you at that age to never have a successful relationship after. And because now look after that, she messed with Tristan Tristan Thompson, and then my co-worker was telling me it was somebody before Tristan Thompson. Fresh Montana, yeah. But my co-worker was telling me that even Tristan Thompson has like a a brother who has is like severely disabled, and she's taken care of it. She took commit and she takes care takes care of him now.
SPEAKER_02After the mom die?
SPEAKER_07Yeah, I didn't I had no idea, yeah. You know what I'm saying? So I I I I don't I of course had a enormous amount of respect for her, but I lost so much respect for Lamar. So, and if you know, we all I almost say we all know and assume because we're black, but we all pretty have come in contact with drug addicts in our family, you know. So as I'm watching this and I think about the ones that's in my family, I think about how you know this guy, you there is the reason why people say money is the hoot of all evil, because this guy had it all and was still the addiction is a real thing. Because when you look at that, then I've never in my fucking life heard the nigga OD'd off the reloads, the vinyl pills. Yeah, yeah. I didn't even know that's what how that I didn't know that's how that happened.
SPEAKER_02If you they had their own uh separate show outside of like keeping up with the Kardashians, it was like Chloe and Lamar or something like that. A little of that was shown in there.
SPEAKER_07That's what my coworker was saying. Like there was a guy from Queens that will always come and that was like the drug dealer.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_07And Chloe, you know, she didn't know, like she just, she's a fucking girl from fucking Beverly Hills or whatever.
SPEAKER_02She didn't know different things, so she was always 10 toes down for him. And like something you said is even what Chloe said, Korea's like, yo, he has mad respect for Chloe now.
SPEAKER_07Like he didn't know because I had no I like that's so like Yeah. But even the simple fact of that dude OD'd off the rh I ain't that's fucking crazy. He OD'd off the off the off the rhino pills, the relo pills. There she already filed a divorce, but then she stopped her whole life for like that was like six months.
SPEAKER_06Yeah, and and not only that, but the reason why I feel like you know she should definitely get some praise is because while all of this situation is going on, he's also embarrassing her out in public. At this point, he's really he's in a coma. I'm not even I'm not even talking about like the coma situation. I'm talking about like he's doing interviews talking about some like, oh, like she smelled like earring bags. Like just a whole I know he was talking bad about her, but I didn't know he was like Yeah, he said she smelled like earring bags, like he was just disrespecting her out in public, but around this time, this the same time, she's still holding it down for him. Because like at like with Lamar, he was never really good at managing his money. You want to talk about entourages? At one point, he was paying for I believe it was like 37 people's cell phones. Like, imagine a plan with 37 people on it.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, like his father did drugs to it. I think his father didn't have to be a little bit of that. Yeah, but for him, right?
SPEAKER_07But if the his father went to the hospital that at one point when he was on life support, the father was like, Yo, pull a plug because he went the life insurance process. And then that's close. I'm still married to him, like, nah, you bump, you give a fuck about it. Yeah, you would have been the mother been over. So I and this is why I say I lost the respect for him too. Because when you watch the documentary and now even postdoc, he's doing interviews, and he's saying, Nah, I'm all think that God won't save me. Like, no, bro. Like Chloe saved because even when she got him out, he do give her some shine now. Nah, not enough. Not enough. Probably not enough, but not enough. He was just like, I'm sorry. Yeah, like nah the fucking. Yeah, like he was mad nonchalant. Like I'm not a I don't I'm not a fan of domestic violence, but what she did was warranted when she saved him and brought him back, got that guy from the crib, and to get the get try and gave him back the strength. And she walks in the house and smells the crack and sees he's getting cracked, she punched him in the fucking face. Yeah, like you're like Paul, like like how I would on my mama, I would lose my mind if someone's gonna do that to me. So this is why I wanted to talk about this situation because now I wanted to ask you, Brittany, on the like how much can you stand in the relationship before you have to walk away?
SPEAKER_02Honestly, I would hold it down like Chloe. But I think at that time where she found it, like when he was recovering and stuff like that after the coma, after the coma and different things like that, and then I see you doing traffic again, I think after that, it's gonna hurt me like hell. Cause you know love, like you love you want you don't want nothing bad to happen to someone that you love. But after I seen that, it would have just happened. I can't do this. Yeah, like I can't do this no more. Like you clearly don't love yourself no more. Like you clearly and it's like females are still gonna hurt, females are still gonna try to wanna help or be concerned, but like I think for me personally, like that would have been my I'm not like I can't do this anymore.
SPEAKER_06I mean, I don't I don't really necessarily think that's a female thing, because the type of person I am, I'm gonna be honest with you, I'd probably be like, damn, I'll be complaining to y'all, like as my friends, like, yo, I don't want to do it, but you'll still see me pulling up and stuff like that. Like, just whatever I could do. Because like, when you find somebody that you've loved, even if you're not like in love with them anymore and you but you ever love them, there's like most of the time there's no bounds that you would go to see and make sure that person is not like doing it.
SPEAKER_02So you would never have a breaking point like and related to the same situation. You mess up with a female, she's and then I on the drugs and shit like that.
SPEAKER_06I I think it would tug too much at my heart to where I probably would still be looking out. Really? Yeah, to be honest.
SPEAKER_07I mean, I mean you so it's a mind my reaction, y'all. I'm y'all know me, man.
SPEAKER_06On the pot, I stand on what I say. I stand on my business, man.
SPEAKER_07I'm not saying that the wrong one. I think so. Like I said, mistakes I make at 18 or 25 is different as a 31-year-old man. So I think, especially in my line of work, I would see these signs early on. So I won't even get to this point of where I'm in this too deep. Like that, I won't even, I know that wouldn't be my position. But I do want to say that I could understand if my boy was to like in my in our line of work, we could we're easier to kind of pick up on certain things, you know what I'm saying? But if someone who's like in a fucking accountant and doesn't know, you know what I'm saying? I think it's different. And then at that point, I that the toll that must take on someone, that burden of feeling, like, why can I help him? And I'm pretty sure that's what Chloe must have gone through in all people, like not just her, but anybody who deals with someone who's an addict, it's why can I, why can't, why isn't my love good enough to help you see how much you're worth, right? You know, so I I think there's so much to unpack. And is that that's why I was so like, uh, I don't want to say amazed by the doc, but I was just so like, like, I I I had this whole, I guess you'll say, idea of who I thought they were. But I say that I mean the Kardashians. And to an extent, I still like set have an idea. Because I again we don't we don't know them, right? Yeah, right, right, right. But I agree. I just feel like the the social media era is something that they were able to orchestrate and play so well about everybody else because they're they have the they play with it so well, right? Right, but in this situation, do you can't this bro she the definition of a rider is her trap queen, whatever you want to call Chloe, is that's what she what she that that that is insane. Like I legit put this shit on to go to sleep to it was wide awake within 30 minutes. Like wide awake. I was like, yo, but and because even when you watch it and then they also have to ask because they put his kids on there, yeah. And you see what when he won the he won the kids. It didn't bring his kids because he was too fucking hot even like that. Is like and you see now he's trying to get the relationship back with his kids, but then the the nigga's also delusional because he sits there and says, I want to be a coach. Yeah, there's no way you're gonna be a coach again. There's no way you're gonna there's no way. I mean, uh there's no way. I don't want to say that I don't want to say that it's like no way, just because I feel like people do have redemption arcs, people do have redemption arts, and people do have redemption stories, but everyone's second chance isn't meant to be at the pinnacle, and I think at some point you burned so many bridges to where people are always gonna see you as again, coach high school, maybe college year, but NBA, nobody's touching to do that far.
SPEAKER_06That's what I'm saying. But it might be a flight risk, but we I can't definitively say that it's impossible, families.
SPEAKER_07I can't see it. I can't think of it. Like the the guy, and if you was to ask me, I would still say he's probably still using to an extent. You could tell that something still like But that that recovery recovery from 12 strokes is that that could be a lifelong recovery. Like that's not, you know what I'm saying? But I I think that to even he see this is the problem, folks. And no disrespect to Queens, because we were wearing Queens now, no disputes to Queens. But this is also a New York City nigga thing, too. Some dudes, people don't understand, and I'm not a hater, but when some guys could get a woman that looks better than them because they have the gifted gap, that is the thing. But I think Lamar's always been so charismatic that he's still trying to convince himself there's certain doors he can still walk through because he has the gifted gap. But at some point, people see through the bullshit that you're spewing or that you're about about because again, you were, if you ask me, one of the greatest six-men players in the NBA history. There's no if the talent speaks for itself. You won the championship, all that speaks for itself. But now when you talk about the character, when you're a coach or someone who's but behind the scenes, your character is more impressive than your more important than your resume. You know what I'm saying? So if the character, but you if Lamar was to say he's the head coach of your son's league, you're gonna let Lamar. No. No, but this one.
SPEAKER_06But this is what I'm saying, though. Everybody, everybody can have a redemption arc. Look at look at Robert Downey Jr. The same thing you're saying about about Lamar, everyone, like he was blackballed in the industry for everything. 100%. And now he's pinnacle when it comes to when it and he's like an advocate for actors and everything, making sure everybody gets paid. I would I would say that's comparable. I would say that's comparable to being a coach in the NBA.
SPEAKER_07But I think I see the Robert Downey Jr. story, I think he's the exception more than the rule.
SPEAKER_06And what I mean by that's what I'm saying, it's just not impossible. It's not, but I but do you think Lamar could do that? Lamar, oh, that's what I'm saying. Because the captain, but he's not someone who chased the fan. But I'm saying if if he's committed to it, it's a possibility. If he's committed to it, it's a possibility. I'm just saying, you you know, we can't put him in a box, we can't limit limit what he could do. All right.
SPEAKER_07Well, let's move on to another person who was part of the Kardashian family. And that's for some reason, Jordan's GOAT, who was recently, as of two days ago, wireless festival in England. They did my boy dirty. What did you do? Hold on, let's hold on. There's a lot to unpack here. We're already 40 minutes in. This might be the longest segment, y'all. So get your popcorn, let y'all know now. Yo, so hold on, hold on. Let me let me frame it. Let me let me let me frame this for you. How do you feel about Kanye West being banned from Wireless Festival in London, Jordan?
SPEAKER_06First off, it's some bullshit. God damn, it's some bullshit. And the reason why I'm gonna say it's some bullshit is because, like, yo, politics is definitely playing its part in this situation. Because the same people that was like, oh yeah, we don't want to do the sponsorship no more, they the ones who signed off on him being the artist in the first place. They was the main people, like, yeah, let's bring Kanye in. He's gonna be the headliner. Like, yo, this man just went crazy in Sofa, sold over 400. So, Brittany, or he's referring to not cut you off.
SPEAKER_07Pepsi did apparently Pepsi did the own the director of the Wilders Festival did say Pepsi did sign off on Kanye performing.
SPEAKER_06Okay, okay. Go ahead, Joey. Because they saw what he did in Shofar, over 400 million dollars in ticket sales. We're talking about just three days.
unknownI see that.
SPEAKER_06Three days. So they Pepsi was looking at that like, oh yeah, we're gonna get that money. And then I don't know what happened behind the scenes to make it funny money now, to be like, oh now we don't want him to perform, and then now multiple sponsors is pulling out. But it's like, yo, y'all got England to ban the man from the country?
SPEAKER_07Well, so is this like so I don't know if it's specified, but here's my thing there's nothing wrong with taking a stand, and we can't to we could talk about Kanye West allegedly, I don't even say allegedly, potential mental health disorders that he has. But here's my thing, and this is why I have no problem with what they did. This goes back to what we talked about a few episodes ago, where you it's okay to treat people differently after you get information. This is someone you talk about Kanye West, numerous Nazi stance were taken by Kanye West. Right along. This is he's going to Europe. They they the one they want nothing to do with Hitler. Numerous Nazi things. He's done the Kucku Klux co outfit. He was on, he was there. Kanye He was there. The Trump thing. This is what I'm saying. So he's done all these things where at and I think Jordan is in a different space. I, as I as a black man, he's in a position where he always wants to give Kanye grace. I think at some point the accountability factor has to take charge, and the excuse can't be, oh my mom this, oh my mom that. Because the same way you want to give grace to Lamar Odom, you have to hold Kanye accountable and say, yo, Bo, you've done so much fucked up shit. We don't want you here. Regardless of what you think Pepsi said, or even if they did agree, we do not want you here. And you can say politics play the fact into it, that's okay. We don't want you here. And I'm perfectly okay with them saying that because now for nothing, if we didn't have this podcast, I would never listen to the bully album. I only listen to it because we have the fucking podcast. Like, I'm not the biggest Kanye supporter, and why I get so upset is because yo, bro, I'm not gonna speak my my last name means to me more than anything. So I'm not gonna put here and say, yo, give Kanye. He's shown you time and time again. He's you could say not right in the head, but his stance, he is all for self. He put out a bullshit apology. And the reason why I get so upset, because if you would have done this, he you you you already dropped the album, bro. So this was already planned to do this. You already if you would have done this apology before you did the album, maybe two years ago. I'm working on myself. I've said some fucked up things, this, this, and that. All right, I think it would have been the smoother transition. You put out a bullshit apology and then sit here and say, Oh, I'm here for Kanye, I'm here forever. I won't I don't want to promote hate. Bullshit. He apologized before that.
SPEAKER_06Well, it it was bullshit. And now you but look, that's the thing. You it might have been bullshit to you. You might not agree with the stance. But what I'm saying to you is, right? So you feel like as if I'm trying to give Kanye grace. I'm not trying to give Kanye grace at all. What I'm saying to you is the same way you said that it's been out there already, all of these videos and all the antics that he's already pulled, Pepsi and all those other sponsors knew that before they signed on for him to go there. They knew all that information before that. And they weren't trying to stand on no business or they weren't trying to like lead it to, oh yeah, because he did this, that's not that's why we're doing it. No. But the way Pepsi could spend it is, yeah, this person of the director.
SPEAKER_07It don't have to be. But he don't even deserve the oh, they try and political. It don't matter, like, it doesn't matter if they agree to something then we're because it could easily be they thought, oh, it should be a good idea. But somebody said, wait, you want to pull who to perform? You want who the headline? Oh, nah, we're not doing that. Like, we don't know the dynamic that you need to command at Pepsi. It could have easily been like, yo, wait, wait, hold on.
SPEAKER_06You want who to perform? You can't say that because everybody is we all know who it is in a sense of, right? When it's when it comes to certain topics, they can pull whoever they want. But in the reverse side, if somebody is champion n-word this, n-word that, n-word this, n-word that, they don't ever get pulled from no headlines. That's not true, bro. They don't get pulled from no headlines, bro. That's not true. They don't get pulled from no headlines, bro.
SPEAKER_02Is it safe to say that you don't separate Kanye the person from his music like you just told me about it?
SPEAKER_06No, no, I no, I definitely do separate.
SPEAKER_02So do you see like the things that J is saying?
SPEAKER_06100% because I'm still on the same, like stands for like when it comes to R. Kelly, it's fuck R. Kelly. I don't listen to R. Kelly. It's fuck R. Kelly. I don't listen to him no more. I don't support him in music. You you you might do that, but I'm just saying, if like when it comes to separating separating the music or the artist from like the person, I think to me, it comes down to like, yo, like some, like, don't get me wrong, even being pre uh prejudiced against groups and stuff like that, I don't agree with it. But there's a difference between that and like fucking touching kids or some shit like that.
SPEAKER_02So I'ma just touch on this real quick, because we're not talking about R. Kelly. However, I agree with you, right? Where R. Kelly did, he's you know, however, someone has to put blame on their parents too. That's all I'm gonna say about that. That's a whole nother topic. But it has to be you not I'm not sending my 15-year-old daughter in a hotel room with R. Kelly. No, that's true. That's true. Come on out. And then honestly, when the money stopped, that's what everybody started saying something. And we see that all the time. But back to Kanye, I feel like that's your goal. So, like, you're not kind of you you see what he does is wrong, but at the same time, it's just like, nah, that's Kanye.
SPEAKER_06Like, okay, but that's what I'm saying. That's not my stance at all. Because I don't agree with the shit he's doing all for. But you just feel like people are treating him crazy. No, I don't even think it's people treat him crazy. What I'm saying to you is like the reason why I say yo, that's bullshit, is only because yo, you made these decisions to stand on something, and then now you reneging because of optics that you already knew was gonna be out there.
SPEAKER_02But I agree with Jalen, where it could be like, all right, say we doing we we out there, we get rival, right? And now we got other people, producers, producers, and we're like, yo, we want I don't know, this is something that we got. Did he just got a job? We want him on the pod, as a special guy, right? And it could be one person that's like, oh yeah, that's a good idea. I we got it, we love it. That's and that's what I think it was.
SPEAKER_07But then somebody else was like, Y'all want who that's that's what I think happened at Pepsi. I think that the people who the the festival got in tough in contact with in Europe was like, yo, all right, then somebody went the chain, like, are you out your fucking mind? We're not having him.
SPEAKER_06But that's the thing, it was already came, it came down from the top of the chain. You don't know that, bro. That's it. If you listen, you listen to if you listen to the guy's interview, that's what he's saying. That's what he's saying. I mean, who gonna know better than him? Because but he doesn't have a choice but to say that. They didn't they didn't release an old statement saying that what he said was they don't have to, but that's usually what they do. If you lying on me and you want to defame me, they're gonna drop that lawsuit.
SPEAKER_07I I think I don't think there's no loss, there's no defamation of character. They're basically saying we don't align with how we think. Like, okay, I'll put it to you this way. This is the perfect way to talk about it. Like his stance on being a Republican, Brittany, can you be friends with someone who's a Trump supporter? That's fine. Like, I like I don't know how Jordan, can you like I don't know where you stand on this?
SPEAKER_06I mean, I don't I I can't, but okay. So I'll just say how do I know you were Trump supporters?
SPEAKER_07But you have these conversations. So if I have a conversation with somebody and they say they are a Trump supporter, I'm gonna say, okay, I'm not I was never raised to not fuck with somebody just be hold on, because just because of their their uh their political views. Because I don't take religion away. Because I know plenty of Republicans who have like that have been mentors to me that especially when it comes to film that have shown me certain things, like okay, like how you you might be a Republican because whatever way you was raised, whatever the case is, but then if it turns out that you're a Republican also racist, that's a different story. So when you learn more information about them, you say, okay, yo, well, you I'm not fucking with you because you're a public Republican. I'm not the reason why I'm not fucking with you is because you're racist. Well, I was taking why I was saying I cannot. That that's the that's where you get to. So when you talk about Kanye, I'm not gonna not talk to him because he's a he supports Trump. You want to support whoever you want. I don't support you because you stood up there with a fucking cuckoo klux mask, cuckoo uh a KKK outfit, and then said that. So there's layers to why people don't fuck with you. And this is what I'm saying too. I don't think he deserves the grace to even sit there and say, yo, Pepsi did them dirty. He's done how many people dirty, so why am I even gonna be mad at them saying, yo, fuck you? You've done to everybody, every fucking race you've basically done it to.
SPEAKER_06And that's true. But what I'm saying to you is right, two things could be true. You could be like, yo, fuck it, he deserved this, but then you could also be like, yo, that's kind of fucked up. Because if it was somebody else, I would feel like that's fucked up.
SPEAKER_07I don't even think it's fucked up, but because you've done so much, it's not, I don't think it's fucked up what they did.
SPEAKER_06Bro, but you you can't look at it like as a situation like, oh, it's only not fucked up because of the person it is.
SPEAKER_05Yes, that's how that's how it works. That's not how it works, bro.
SPEAKER_07If they would have done this to somebody, like, I don't even know. Like, fucking give me an artist, Brittany. I don't even know. If they would do this to Burner Boy, uh, because they feel like burner boy disrespects his fans. I would say, hold up. This doesn't it eight, the punishment doesn't equate. They are doing this because everything that he has done. So that's why it seems like yo, they they have a reason to do it. There is merit behind it.
SPEAKER_06No, no, there is a reason, like, and that's why I'm not I'm not debating the fact that it's a reason that they've been on the book. I'm just saying you knew all it is. Stand like I told y'all, I'm Mr. Stand on it.
SPEAKER_07If you're gonna make a decision, there's no business that's gonna there's no business that's gonna stand on the line of picking Kanye. There's no business.
SPEAKER_06I just had him for 400 million.
SPEAKER_07No, no, they had him perform there. That's what this is. This is a puff, a fucking performance.
SPEAKER_06It's still a performance, right?
SPEAKER_07It is, but it's different when he's already you they're telling you you can't come to the country. That's two totally different things.
SPEAKER_06Yeah, but this is the thing. That's two totally different things. He was already planned to come to the country, and then now because of all of this, and then now all of it because of this, now they like, now you can't come to the country. Which is totally somebody somebody somewhere decided to make some phone calls, and that's that's like yo, if somebody didn't fuck with you at your job, and then they started if somebody didn't fuck with you at your job and they started to make phone calls just to make sure you didn't get promoted or go to a place you wanted to go, that would be fucked up even if I didn't fuck with you.
SPEAKER_07No, even if you was racist or you but you're not yeah, but you're saying though, he's he has it's not fucked up if you're this of if you're if you had this coming.
SPEAKER_06But that's what I'm saying. You can still think the situation is fucked up without being like, yo, it's the person. Like the person who it is, you like, yo, the person who it is you like, yo, fuck them. I don't give a fuck what happens to them. That's fine. But the situation could still be fucked up because no matter if it happens to anybody.
SPEAKER_02Just because of who he is and what he's done, he shouldn't get treated like that.
SPEAKER_06No, and that's not what I'm saying. I'm saying because of who he is and and because of what he done, if people treated him like that, that that's fine. And that's granted, granted, that is warranted. But what I'm saying to you is you can still say that, but then also be on the stance like, yo, that's fucked up that they did that, because if it was somebody else and they did that, I would still feel like it's fucked up.
SPEAKER_02I mean, I think the bigger picture here is that Kanye needs help. Um he's been like this since his mom passed away.
SPEAKER_07And he's I'm so tired of that. Like, you don't think that's a thing? I I'm not saying it's not a thing. I'm saying at some point, at what point do we hold him accountable and say, yo.
SPEAKER_02Oh no, no, no. I'm not saying he's not being held accountable. Right. But I think at some point, whoever's in his circle needs to help him.
SPEAKER_07That's not that, but this is what I'm saying. Like I I've gotten to the point where I believe that's not that's never gonna happen.
SPEAKER_06I mean, but look at the last couple years, he hasn't really been on that same time.
SPEAKER_07No, no, so you don't know. How can you so from what we've all seen of I don't want to say seen or heard, there's a reason why some people like pusher warrant even helping him on his album. They don't want nothing to do with him.
SPEAKER_06And that's fine.
SPEAKER_07So at some point, but we can't say that he's not getting help right if we haven't seen that behavior lately. But what I'm saying is you're not gonna see that behavior because the people who love him and had so much love for him, he's burnt those bridges. So the people he works with now, they don't even have, I don't think elect the stinot to even give him the pushback. You get what I'm saying? So the people who were in his corner, like his die hards, the producers, the pushers, they all said they at this point they've done the Jay-Z's, they've they've washed their hands with him. So you who else can you push away to even get the you could push away the Jay-Z because you know that will garner their attention. The people that you're working with now, you push them away. We're not even gonna hear about it. It's like, oh, like who cares? I guess whatever. You know what I'm saying? So I think he's burnt those bridges to where it's whatever he's doing now behind closed doors, we're never gonna hear about.
SPEAKER_06But that's what I'm saying. But the person he is, he ain't gonna do shit behind closed doors. All of that stuff he was doing, he was put he's he's sending these texts out himself for you to see.
SPEAKER_07Right, but with people who had the shout out to Chloe. Maybe he needed Chloe. Right. So we're gonna shift to our yo, that's crazy segment. Let's go through this real quick, but no one knows if you saw this. So when April Fools, the Washington Wizards decide to play. Crazy joke, Brittany. The Washington Wizards decided to have a man attempt a half-court shot blindfolded for $10,000. He takes the shot. Beyond the air ball, Jordan. Shit might have hit somebody in his hands. But they all start celebrating as if he made the shot. They drop the confetti, the mascot is hugging him. Yo, you did it. There's a chick there in the crowd. Congratulations, you did it. They bring him the blank check, and he's there, so no, we're just playing Apple Folks.
SPEAKER_02Oh, yeah, I'm gonna have my man. So how do you teach me instead? Everybody care is done for. Done for. No more team. Everybody's done for the whole true.
SPEAKER_08Everybody's done. And this is the wizards in DC, too. So nobody probably would have kid. Then we gotta replace these players.
SPEAKER_02Was this like a little kid? No, this is the grown-ass man. What did he do when they said April Fools?
SPEAKER_07So they just cut away from him. So I don't know what the follow-up report was, but did you make you've gone too far?
SPEAKER_02Way too far.
SPEAKER_08I ain't gonna lie, I probably would have cried, like, yo.
SPEAKER_02Wait, while we talk about basketball real quick, shout out to Angel Reese, my girl. She's a little fucking Atlanta Dream. Yeah, I went to go see her when she was on uh Chicago against the Liberties, so I'm definitely gonna see that.
SPEAKER_06Oh, if you didn't know Angel Reese, she's she's one of them ones. I know what Angel Reese is, I just don't watch the W.
SPEAKER_02I actually don't either. I like going to the game because of Ellie, the mascot at Liberty. Oh, Ellie be turned it up. Yeah, she be turned up. I ain't gonna fight.
SPEAKER_06She'd be turned up. You gotta take your daughter. I think she's enjoying it. She doesn't watch mask. I think she would still enjoy it. Or even the Harlem Glow Try Trotter.
SPEAKER_02Like they interact with a crowd, and it's pretty good.
SPEAKER_06Funny enough, he used to work with one of the gold traders. Yeah, one of the actors. Shout out to Volley.
SPEAKER_02You should take her. Take her. Like the show's really good. I take like my little cousins and stuff like that. Like they come in there.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, no, she's not trying to get it.
SPEAKER_02Shout out to Jason Tate. I'm playing the next tonight, too. Don't don't shout out to the show.
SPEAKER_07I mean, I don't want to check this out because it's so far deep into the podcast. Alright, I'm gonna get back to the show. I've seen it was trending, bro.
SPEAKER_03It was trending.
SPEAKER_07It was trending, Joey.
SPEAKER_03I've seen it. It was trending.
SPEAKER_07It was trending, Chad. Did you see it? You had the younger man in the sundress, silks, black sundress.
unknownNice black.
SPEAKER_01Like you uh I know what you can talk about now.
SPEAKER_08She ain't having the all black like me. She ain't having the all black like me. You ain't see now you see some curves.
SPEAKER_06You see, you see the turtleneck.
SPEAKER_07So it had Instagram in a frenzy for like a couple hours. I thought it was real. I knew it was real. I knew it was AI immediately. I follow her. Yeah, I follow her. But the comments, there was dudes saying so Jordan, I gotta go to you first. I'm just curious. Oh my god.
SPEAKER_08Go ahead, go ahead. I felt like I already knew where you was going.
SPEAKER_07And be honest, bro. When you saw that picture, do you think will you ever take down the stud that turned from Tom Board to full-fledgedy acting right with the sunders? Would you take down the stud?
SPEAKER_06I ain't gonna lie to you, brody. I saw that picture, and the first thing I thought is hell no. The fuck? I ain't about to take down no stud. I'm dead serious. I saw that and I'm just like, what the fuck? Like, this is goofy as shit. I was like, yo, this better be AI. I thought it was real, though. I thought it was because it came out on left field. I'm like, yo, what the fuck? She was looking mad pretty into. I mean, she's a girl, but I thought Drewski had something to do with this. I was like, oh my gosh.
unknownAnswer the question.
SPEAKER_07I mean, I'm gonna be honest, absolutely not. So I I knew there was, I don't want to say I know because I still do know. I there are people who I know, obviously, they remain forever remain nameless on the pod that say yo, I would take down the stud. And I'm just I don't, I I I I don't even understand, like I can't fathom how that like works because I know a couple dudes that actually said they took down the stud. No, no, and there's some that's some that have, like, I'm gonna be honest with you.
SPEAKER_06I looked very judgmental. Like, you did what? Like, you know, I'm I'm usually no no no no I'm usually not the type to judge. You know me, Britt. You know I don't be judging.
SPEAKER_07I know, but that I had to judge automatic. And they've seen like Sonia Lathan in in in uh love and basketball. That's it, that's a different story, bro. Yeah, let's let me let me cook for a second. Hold on, like beautiful woman is Sinai Lathan. Also a 10. But I digress. Is she a 10? I actually saw Love and Basketball two days ago. But is she a 10? She was at the Sparks game recently, course looks fantastic.
SPEAKER_06Sinal Lathan? Is she a 10? She's a 10. She's not a 10.
SPEAKER_07Anyway, that's that's but you know I love her, childhood crush. She's a crush, but she's not a 10. She can't be a crush if she's not a 10. I ain't I ain't gonna do it to myself.
SPEAKER_08Strong non non-point five.
SPEAKER_07I ain't gonna do it to myself. Exactly what you were saying. But there's people like in that realm of time boards. See, the a time board and stud is too clear. I agree. I agree. Right. So when you see some time boys like Sonia Latin, those of that silk war, play basketball or super competitive or sports, whatever. But they still have those features where they're throwing the dress, you know, their mom, they'll be upset with their mom, or they'll post on Instagram in the bikini, whatever. You know, like you you know they're still you see what I'm saying? But then if a stud post on Instagram, they're in some trunks and a a tight fitted sports bar. You feel what I'm saying? So it is like I don't even see where you even see the alignment aside from a stud maybe having a the dump truck. But aside from that, bro, like you can't because they you they'll tell you, like, yo, like they like I know women who are, I don't want to call them studs, but they're they're you know, they get down, they get down, they mention, yo, I bought this. I don't even want to think about that. So I would think about you coping that. Why would I think about even trying to penetrate? The two don't even align.
SPEAKER_06Because how am I gonna try to sleep with somebody who dressed like me?
SPEAKER_07So, really, so what would you do if a guy just used message and tells you, confesses to you that he took them a stud? And don't lie. Are you judging?
SPEAKER_01I am gonna judge y'all.
SPEAKER_03I was getting on y'all, but I'm judging.
SPEAKER_02I'm judging. Because I'm gonna also ask questions. I've been like, so what was that like? Like, I mean, it's still it's still are you leaving afterwards? Probably not.
SPEAKER_07I ain't gonna hold you, bro. She's not tipping.
SPEAKER_08And if he's taking down stuff, she's like, I'm still with you, baby. I'm poke for I'ma stick beside. I'm gonna stick beside you, even though you might try to stick with someone. I want y'all to know something like that.
SPEAKER_07I want y'all to know something because she sits here and called me and Joy the most toxic motherfuckers alive. I'm not yo, she on some toxic time with you.
SPEAKER_06I'm gonna be honest with you, not tipping is definitely toxic.
SPEAKER_02We're not gonna get back in. I told you, I'm gonna give everybody uh my clears that watch.
SPEAKER_07Well, like if I'm on a date with a girl and say she wants to take me out and she was to get the yo, come bring me the yo, where the check. And she comes, she brings a little check, whatever, brings the book. No, babe, I got it. Oh, yeah, like I'm gonna lay some wood on you tonight. Like, you feel what I'm saying? And then she was just saying, all right, babe, like, let's go. And I see her, like, and I ain't gonna lie, it's some this this this some sassy shit. If the chick is gonna pay for the bill and then nigga knows you try to see her, but then I ain't gonna lie, some sassy shit. I ain't gonna lie. That's some sassy shit. I ain't gonna lie, right? But if they do that, if they do that, right, and you see what the bill is, I and you see she just crossed out the zero and don't even put the tip, we get in the car. I'm asking, yo, so you're not gonna tip.
SPEAKER_06Okay, so okay I might say something before we even get to the car.
SPEAKER_07I don't wanna make a scene inside the restaurant.
SPEAKER_06No, no, not a not a scene.
SPEAKER_02Okay, so is it clear that you know I tip every now and then. Like if I got good customer service, I'll I'll sweep a tip every now and then. I'm not a tip for her. But if I felt like the person was really nice and stuff like that, I'll tip. So Brittany, if you're if you're on a date and your boyfriend don't tip, you're not saying that I'll probably just like be like like I'll ask like he usually tips.
SPEAKER_06So you're saying it's a double standard?
SPEAKER_02No, no, no, no, it's not a double standard. He tips. So I'm I'm gonna be like, oh, you're not tipping her this time? Like uh or you're not tipping him, like for it. But like you're not tipping her. Yeah, tipping him is crazy.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, points, points, points.
SPEAKER_02But you know, like it's a gratuity. Uh okay. But how did we get here?
SPEAKER_06I don't even know.
SPEAKER_02How did we get back here?
SPEAKER_06Uh I don't know. It started with suds and that was back to your back to your red flag. That's you can't say that. You gotta say small person. Oh, yeah, or little people.
SPEAKER_02I take that back. Small person. Little people.
SPEAKER_06Okay, okay, which I take that down with. I'm not. You're not. No, because it it looks weird to me because it's like you're the size of a child.
SPEAKER_07I ain't gonna hold you. If I'm off the Tito's, bro, how's she looking? This is this is what I'm saying. Like midget? This is times where I look and I judge. And I judge. I know y'all seen some clips with some attractive little small drawings. Yes, yes, yes. And you can't say she smells like a child because there's a bo there's big kids that's like huge, and like that's like it's not it's not a child though. I mean, I understand that that that's different.
SPEAKER_02But then also, like, like yo, you three feet? Come on. Four feet? Front size, snack size.
SPEAKER_06I I like for me, my cutoff, like maybe 4'11, 5 feet, maybe that's my cutoff. You gotta be at least that tall to ride this ride. You feel me?
SPEAKER_07Moving on to the more important thing. So I might already know your answer because you you're spewing the red flags today. So we had a conversation.
SPEAKER_08No, no, no. I want to know. Like, so are you if I dating a small person?
SPEAKER_02Yeah. I'm a plus size girl that's five seven. What I look like with a small person. I'm gonna go.
SPEAKER_08What if he got a leg? A third leg? He got a leg.
SPEAKER_03Bro, no, it's not happening. There's nothing he could do with me. I'ma be the one picking him up. Like it's nothing you can do with me. Not happening.
SPEAKER_07All right, first I'm gonna leave you with this question, right? So we was having this conversation earlier, right? So, mama's boys, and you got the daddy's girls and everything like that, right? So, how detrimental is it? To have a mama's boy in the relationship.
SPEAKER_02When I hear mama's boy, you know what I think of Miss Nevada. Ready for that joke? Nah. Um mama's boy. Me and my girls be talking about this, okay?
SPEAKER_06Please, please, please, please. Talk to the class. Share the class. You gonna put a cape on them or you like it? No, I'm gonna be completely honest.
SPEAKER_02Let me let me talk. Let me talk. It depends, right? You have a certain type of mom. Now let me let me explain. You have the ones where the moms don't teach them how do I work. The moms give them a dissertation, right? So meaning that the moms are washing their clothes or moms are cleaning. Moms are so now when they get the girlfriends, it's like oh my mom did this. Why you not doing it? I'm sorry, right? And then you have the mama's boys who really just love their mother, and that's okay, right? Yeah, they write it down for their mother. I'll give an example of Scrappy and Mama D. You don't watch that on his bottom, but I'm pretty sure you said that. You mean no scrappy the rapper? Yeah, okay, yeah. So Scrappy and Mama D. Or Jim Jones and his mama, right? So I would consider Jim Jones a mama's boy, but he's that mama's boy that put his mother in check out of the house, right? Scrappy, he's that mama's boy, I feel like he don't be putting his mother in check. And then his mother also does what she wants to do too. Um so when me and my girls talk about this, it's like yo, mama be doing a disservice for their son sometimes because it's like when you do get that female and you want that, you know, that female wants you and she, you know, she wants to see how you are as a guy, certain things like you should be doing for a female or certain things a female shouldn't be doing for you. Like I don't mind if I'm living in the crib with my man and we got dirty laundry, I'm gonna wash this clothes. But for you to expect me to like do it or for you to not to make up the bed because your mom did it for you, or your mom does things for you, it's like, no, we not doing that here. Like, where's your like show me that you could do it? Like, granted, like, you know, everyone has what they w their preferences or whatever, like that. But um, you know, I'm not a fan of like a really mama's boy type thing because I feel like you're gonna always choose your mom. Like, granted, people are always gonna choose their family, right? Like, God forbid something happened to my mom or something's wrong with my mom. Um, you know, everything gotta drop me and Corby on a date, yo. And Corby's riding with me, like, you know. But there are certain guys that like and then I blame it on the moms too, because you have some mothers that that's they treat their son like their boyfriend, in a sense, right? And so it's this is like a big topic. I don't know why you need this to last time because this is about to get crazy. But um no, but like it's just a whole lot of like being a mama's boy is like crazy, like, because it's like you don't know how I don't want to say don't know how to be a man, but you're dependent on that woman to fill the shoes of your mother when you get with her. Does that make sense?
SPEAKER_06I I got some thoughts on that. Okay. So like for me, I also agree that there's different levels to the mama's boy situation. When when you get to the level like how you said, where some mothers make the the son like her boyfriend or her husband or something like that, that's a problem to me. But then I also see the side of like there's some mama's boys, like, you know, mama's boy is like a term that's just like kind of messed up and it kind of tries to devalue who you are as a man, right? Right. But then there's mama's boys who's like, yo, like I've been rocking with my mother since like kid, as far as like we've been through a lot together, we rely on each other. I'll do my dad. Yeah, yeah. I'll do anything to help her, she'll do anything to help me. But like you said, there's boundaries, so you create those boundaries, like, yo, you're not about to talk to my girl any type of way you want to, and you're not about to just like impede on my life to the point where you're trying to hinder my growth, yeah. Right. So that's where I see there's a difference because I feel like there's some, like, you know, people would label the mama's boy because they're close with their mother.
SPEAKER_07Like, no, no, I'm saying I'm not saying not you, I'm not saying that's speaking back off that real quick because I think the perfect example here, and Jordan, you may know this is I'm not sure who this is because it's a professional athlete, but Jaden Daniels is a perfect example. Jaden Daniels is uh was raised by his mom, single mother, and she's done a phenomenal job. He's the franchise quarterback for the Washington Red Cup, sorry, Washington Commanders, you know, and so his mom is always there, like and there's been times a woman who tried to holler at his woman would try to holler at him, and his mom would be the one to say, yo, but nah, it's not happening because she's owed you her best interest. Yeah, her best interest is her son, and she knows how these women are. You know what I'm saying? So I think there is what Jordan is saying there's very truth to that. There's merit to trying to devalue a person by calling my mama's boy. And you know, I think there's a great area here, right? Because the gray area is the way you said it. It's there's I I do believe as someone who's had both parents in his life, I do believe so coldheartedly that a child needs both parents for their development, but I also believe a woman cannot raise a man. You know, I do think a man at some point needs another male figure in his life, you know what I'm saying? And that's why they might resort to the culture or whatever. Like when Kevin Durant had an MV MVP speech, he mentioned his coach as being a father figure. I just like to say well, you know, but I think that I think there is a form of now do women do it? Yes. Do some women have do an exceptional job? Yes. Again, those women are the exception, not the rule. Not the rule, not the right. You know what I'm saying? So I think that, and I have seen that in some men as I've gotten older, whether it be in my friend circle or coming and counter me at work, whatever the case may be, where you can tell they do have a very high dependency on their mother. There's no reason at 30 you should not know how to wash your clothes. That should not be a thing. You should not be 30 and not know how to make something in the kitchen. You should not be 30 and stuff to call your mom for yo, how do I do set up a doctor's book? These there's certain things that you should have already been checked. That's just a functional adult. I'm the ones that got to be a man because I think at times women gaslight you and saying that and say, Yo, you're a man, you don't know how to do this thing. Don't gaslight me, don't try to come in.
SPEAKER_02No, women, men could say you're women and don't know how to do this thing.
SPEAKER_07I don't, I don't do that. But right, because that's when it becomes toxic. But I think being a functional adult, like you said, their parents at some time at some point do do a disservice to their children by giving them everything because they want to spoil it and make them feel loved because they were never loved by their parents. So that's where it becomes the cycle, you know what I'm saying? They're trying to make up for it when you have to be like with even with me with my kid, I'm not as spoiled with her, I'm more stern at times. And it's just because you have to at some point learn how to be functional on your own, you know what I'm saying? So I think there's nothing wrong with having a dependency factor with your parents to an extent because they're always gonna be your parents, right? Mom, dad, whatever it is. But like you said, once it gets to the point of, oh, I don't do my laundry, but my mom does my laundry. Like there's something, even like as an adult, yeah, it shouldn't even come out of your mouth like that. You know what I'm saying? Oh, I never at least it shouldn't be something that's celebrated.
SPEAKER_06Yeah, because I think there's old like as we've all experienced through life, there's always been like a time where like your mom has done something for you that you should have done for yourself as a as a grown-up. But when it becomes like uh no, I can't do this because she's always done that. I feel like that's where it becomes like.
SPEAKER_07Let me ask you this, Britney. So the cutoff, I guess, would be like if you and Corey have the own place, right? But his mom has a key, is that okay?
SPEAKER_02No, why is his mom?
SPEAKER_07I'm just asking like like where where do you think the cutoff is to uh oh the cutoff is that like the key? I'm not gonna waiting even how the key. Right. I'm just asking.
SPEAKER_02You know, um, yeah, no, but no, that's the cut. You know, um, yeah, it's just not for the keys. No for the keys.
SPEAKER_06But I'm I'm gonna say I disagree with that. And the reason why I disagree with your mom got the key? Huh? Your mom got the key? My mom does have the key. But it's a key. But it's but it's not necessarily because I'm just like, oh man, that's my mom. I need her to have a key. But like an emergency, I don't have a key, like because let's say I locked my key inside the house, or I lost my key, she lost her key, or she can't find it right now, or she's unavailable. How the fuck am I gonna get in?
SPEAKER_01Wait, what's your second?
SPEAKER_06You said I can get in. I said the super. You see my it's no super, they'd just be like the picture. I'm thinking is not mad, but it's like an emergency thing, like, especially like a lot of like Caribbean people, or just people in general, they'll give a key to like their aunt because she's close by, or like to their cousin who's close by for emergency purposes, like, yo, I can't access my crib. You could get in. That's the same thing I see it as the mother thing. It's not necessarily because that's my mother. I'm like, oh yeah, I gotta give her a key or nothing like that.
SPEAKER_07And the way I framed it was more so for Brittany was like it's a mama just popping up. Yeah, that's all. Oh, no, no, no, no, no.
SPEAKER_06It wouldn't it would never be like no pop-ups, like randomly like yo. Like my mom has supposed to be a key to my apartment. Oh, okay, okay, okay. That's that's that's what I'm saying. Like it's fair, yeah. You meant like popping up, like it's an open door policy for nah moms. You already know. It's not an open door policy. I call I called you on the pod, but that don't mean you get special treatment.
SPEAKER_02No, but I was gonna say, I don't know if y'all watch uh the demon's avow. Um they have their uh couple, a whatever married couple, and they have like a podcast and they have four sons. Y'all probably see them. I'll show y'all five. Anyhow, she uh teaches her sons to open the door for her so that he could learn to open the door.
SPEAKER_07So quick story, like not to run too long. So my aunt ran track professionally, ran in the Olympics, and she trained out of Houston. Shout out to the H sound. We got listings in Houston, shout out to y'all. But she when at some point when she was training, I think I was like, I want to say like 10. I was still young. I want to say at least I might have been what age can you fly along? I think 11, right? Yeah, something like 10 or 11, where you could like they could like okay, they assign you the stewardess. Yeah, and you like I flew. I remember this like yeah, I remember this shit. Yeah, yeah, 100%. So the story time is that I flew on United, that's how I remember. I flew on United, flew to Houston, and my aunt picked me up from Houston, and she said, Jalen, uh, on this trip, I'm gonna show you what it's like to date a woman. And so the first thing she did when she picked me up from the airport was you're gonna open my door. And so that whole trip, I remember my aunt, that whole trip, while we was out there, whatever. She I'll go to train her on the track, whatever. We go stun from practice, open my door. And there was one time I remember vividly, she had her house. I we came back from the rockets game. This was Steve Francis on the Rockets, okay, because she was cool with uh Mobley. She was cool with Mobley, right? And so Mobley got us like courtside tickets or whatever, and so we're at we're at the game, and we come back. And I remember vividly, we come back from the game. I went to win the house to play. You know, when you travel, you always bring the P3 with you, like you always bring that John, right? So I had that drunk with me, and so I'm quick to I want to win the house and play my game. So I went in the house. I remember we just had some fast food spot at the burger, went inside the crib, put the game on playing, and she started calling me. I'm thinking she'd already in the house. She's like, Yo, bo, I'll bring the car for a half hour. What are you doing? I'm like, I'm playing the game. What the fuck? Like, I don't know, like what's wrong, auntie. Forgot to open my door. So I'm 32 years old now, or 31. I still remember that story. So these are things that she's installed in me that so even now after on my mom, there's not one girl that I ever took seriously that can say I never did those. That's the bare minimum, but I'm just saying, like, it was always instilled in me in me so young that I always do it.
SPEAKER_02Wait, I'm about to see if I can blow y'all.
SPEAKER_06Wait, but hold on, before you go right there. Also, there's there's a movie. Uh there's a movie.
SPEAKER_02I know what she's talking about.
SPEAKER_06Yeah, you know what I'm saying? Yeah, if you're talking about it.
SPEAKER_07I'll let you in the door, but she don't reach over. You don't reach over the film. My mama didn't tip it. My mama tip it. Like if she don't reach over back over and open it for it, she's not doing can I tell y'all something real quick?
SPEAKER_02I didn't know about that. So, you know, Cory opens my doors, and one time we get in the car, and like we went we went to uh Peaches, this bunch spot and Best Stop. It's by Maxwell. I don't know if y'all know that thing though or whatever. But yeah, but but it's good. Anywho, so we had that debate in there. He was like, You know, the woman's supposed to open the door too when you know, and I was like, What are you talking about? Like, I never heard of that before. He taught me, I ain't going for I'm a I'm a active uh active learner, yeah. Yeah, like I'll learn, like, I didn't know that. He showed me like the YouTube clip and everything, and I was like, Wow, and from now on, when my man opens my car, yeah.
SPEAKER_07So even I open him. I've like I've taught my daughter this now, like at that young age, she's before she was even 13, now even as a kid, I always open the door for her, and the man always walks from the right side of the street. This is what my aunt, you know what I'm saying, was always instilled in me. So I think it it's it's important. That's important. I love it. You can still be a dog eyes dude and still, but you know, if you was raised right, I think it goes a long way.
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SPEAKER_04All right.
SPEAKER_02Shout out to y'all. Shout out to us.
SPEAKER_07All right, before we end the show, what are y'all guys looking forward to for this week, bro? Joining what you got for me, big bo.
SPEAKER_06Um, as y'all know, my birthday's coming now. I'm gonna keep saying it. Gang, gang, gang, gang, gang. I'm gonna keep saying it until it happens. Big Aries energy. But also, I'm I'm just looking forward to like, yo, I got vacation coming up, and I'm gonna be relaxing. Talk about some R, and I I'm gonna eat too. Where you going, Bob? I'm going to there's a chef that I follow named Mr. Make It Happen. I'm going to his restaurant.
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SPEAKER_06And it's been voted best restaurant in DC so far.
SPEAKER_05So we're about to get a favorite night.
SPEAKER_07How about you, Britt? What you got? Uh how was last week. We know we went away with your mom. How was it?
SPEAKER_02And I was gonna bring it up with the gambling stuff because we went to go see horse facing. Oh, okay.
SPEAKER_07That's the bring up the slippers. You got your slippers on because Jordan said we couldn't wear shoes in the crib. I think I name names who was responsible for that. Not too much of that. Like, stop it.
SPEAKER_06He's gonna make me have to get another. Don't don't don't play. We don't we don't play about them.
SPEAKER_02I guess these would be the new additions to the five months of hairs.
SPEAKER_07Yeah. Uh shout out to Antela now with us this week too. Shout out to y'all. Um, I don't know. Like, I I ain't gonna lie, like I started creating like a lot of playlists on my phone. Okay, like there was a lot of traction involved recently because Kanye's going on tour at the same time as Jay-Z. And so the things make who will win a versus battle. So I went on Spotify and somebody created like a Kanye versus Jay-Z like a playlist. I was bumping that shit when I came. I'm not sure who wins.
SPEAKER_06Joe Budden actually did like a like a three for three. He did it.
SPEAKER_07Yeah, that's what I'm saying. Like, I don't like that shit is like kind of tough. I ain't gonna hold you. That's a send it to me. Like, that's the wall. Like, they got hits with A's, bro.
SPEAKER_06They did Song Cry versus Devil in the New Dress. And I was just like, yo, they if I really had to choose, I might choose Devil New Dress a bit, bro. That's what I'm saying. But then they was like, you know, nostalgia in the feel of song cry. Yeah, so it's just like you're talking about verses.
SPEAKER_02I gotta address. So every time on Instagram, I'll be posting y'all like tell me topics y'all want to talk about on the pod. And someone said, Do y'all think acon and Drake to do could do a versus? Oh, who said that?
SPEAKER_06Shut them up. Somebody they shout out, my boy Jose. That's what's the name. Friend of the pod, friend of the pod. Appreciate you, big bro.
SPEAKER_07Um, which I think real quick. Um nigga shit on Akon Akon got hit. I mean, obviously, Drake will still win. But Akon got hit. Wait, Drake was still winning. Yeah, Drake is still gonna hit.
SPEAKER_06I think I mean because versus is a 20 for 20. Like, I I don't know if Akon got a full 10 for 10.
SPEAKER_07I still go that kill.
SPEAKER_06Like, I'm I'm saying he won't win. I think Drake will win, but a 10 for 10. You you you know, you look at it and you'll be like, yo, hold on, he got some that locks up at the it's been in the chokehope for a long time.
SPEAKER_07I was on every fucking sports channel. It's like every intro on that job.
SPEAKER_02Nah, but yeah, so shout out to you know, we're gonna be posting stuff on our Instagram, asking what y'all want to hear on the podcast.
SPEAKER_07He's always come back, always DM us with the questions, whatever we can get more into it, have a better setting, you know. So Jonathan can say his spew is toxic ways.
SPEAKER_06I mean, I I don't think I'm toxic. If y'all think I'm toxic out there, I'm sorry. I don't mean to be, but I mean to be. But I mean to be.
SPEAKER_07And if you guys have any tips or if anybody knows was on a date and so and you saw Britney there and she didn't tip you, please add the podcast so we can know and put on blast bags.
SPEAKER_06Because we definitely we we definitely will make a five joint today.
SPEAKER_07And last but not least, well, I'm gonna shout out to Sean because Sean said this. There's no way Jordan has never met a tent. So if you've never met a tent, you're just eating girls' asses, it's not a tent.