Boys Will Be Boys ... & Her
Boys Will Be Boys & Her is an unfiltered, open-forum podcast where four hosts dive deep into the heartbeat of modern culture. From the latest chart-toppers and court-side drama to viral trends and the ever-evolving world of relationships, no topic is off-limits. The show blends raw energy with relatable insights, offering a seat at the table for the conversations everyone is having but few are recording.
The podcast keeps listeners locked in through three signature segments:
• Yo, That’s Crazy: A deep dive into the wildest news and unbelievable stories of the week.
• The City Said What: Tapping into the local pulse and social media chatter to see what’s actually trending on the streets.
• We Gonna Talk About It: The "no-holds-barred" segment where the hosts tackle the tough, controversial, or messy topics head-on.
With a commitment to staying fresh and authentic, Boys Will Be Boys & Her delivers a vibrant perspective on the world through the eyes of four distinct voices.
Host
Anthony @Bronzepapi
Jaylin @Jaysvisions__
Jordan @Jomadswami
& Brittney @Simplybrittbratt
Music by @Ayolinq
Boys Will Be Boys ... & Her
Dont Be A Hater
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In this episode, the panel dives deep into the headlines shaping the culture right now. We cover everything from celebrity heartbreak and community heroes to the heavy questions in modern dating.
The Breakup Heard 'Round the Timeline
We open the show with the news of Megan Thee Stallion and Klay Thompson calling it quits. The panel is completely split on how social media is handling the fallout—is it fair game or is the internet doing too much? Also, we have to address the elephant in the room: Is Jordan officially a hater? The debate gets heated early.
City Said What: South Bronx Excellence
Shifting gears to something closer to home, we highlight the "Books & Bodegas" initiative taking over the South Bronx. We discuss the vital role educators play in the community and how influential a good teacher can be in shaping the future of the youth.
We Gonna Talk About It
• The Next Verzuz: It’s official—French Montana vs. Rick Ross. We break down the catalogs, discuss our excitement levels, and place our bets on who walks away with the crown.
• Prom Night Controversies: A new trend is sparking debate: parents renting hotel rooms for their children on prom night. Would you do it for your kid? The panel doesn't hold back on their parenting philosophies.
• NBA Playoff Recap: We wrap the segment with a full breakdown of the NBA First Round action. Who’s looking like a contender and who’s heading for an early vacation?
The Relationship Segment
To close out the show, Britt poses a heavy question to the group: Are women unappreciative of a "good man"? We explore the dynamics of modern appreciation and whether good partners are being treated with the respect they deserve or being compared to the wrong standards.
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Hey y'all, it's Bert Brad. This is Boys Will Be Boys and Her episode 10, y'all. This episode is called Don't Be a Hater. Like, Comment, and subscribe.
SPEAKER_01Alright, y'all. So is y'all past partners, whether y'all just had sex or been in a relationship, off limits to y'all friends?
SPEAKER_04It definitely should be off limits, but you know people like to Razzle Dazzle.
SPEAKER_03Razzle Dazzle shit is mad for this. Yeah, nah, that should be one way we should be Eskimo Bulls is just under different circumstances.
SPEAKER_01I'm gonna be honest with you. At this big age, I'm just gonna say, if it was a relationship, then yeah, off limits for Shirsky. Alright, y'all. Welcome back to the boys will be boys and her pod. What's up, y'all? New merch, new new equipment.
SPEAKER_02Yes, yes. Only got a little budget. We're moving on up. Little by little. Still got our shoes off. We need a new contract.
SPEAKER_01Little by little. Respect the energy in the aura. Little by little. I think we're making progress in this bitch. Yes, yes, yes. Going up. It's going up. It's going up. But how was y'all's week though? Go ahead, Britt. I don't want to be too excited.
SPEAKER_04I got a lot to say. Go ahead. My week was good. Like, it was really good. I went to go see my girl Megan. You know. Oh, fix your face. Do not do that. Hold on, hold on.
SPEAKER_02You sneak me, my nigga. I'm gonna talk about everybody, yo. Nigga, look what's up, y'all. I'm gonna next.
SPEAKER_04We're gonna talk about them next.
SPEAKER_02You wanna see the kids? Nigga, number from new, y'all. What the fuck is up, y'all? I'm in the house. I'm gonna go movie, y'all.
SPEAKER_03Supposed to be boys and her, man. We back at it. I'm sorry, I can get back into it. I'm finished. Back at it. I'll get off my chest later. Okay. I'm hyped though. I'm ready to go, gang. What's up? I'm sorry, go ahead, bro. You were saying. You saw Meg, how was it? You got the silver. Was that your first bow ray play?
SPEAKER_04Yes, it was actually. Um, she did her thing. Not even, and I feel like a lot of people went because of Meg and She was the first female that I think to take that role from that. Yeah, like she did her thing. Like she's really talented. Um, you know, we're gonna discuss her later, but I have some things I want to say about. But she's really talented. Like, shout out, don't look at me. Meg hater. But um That was the Meg, man. Yeah, it's a good one. I said before when she was gonna be a good one. Yeah, no, seriously. Yeah, she did, she was dope. Um, you went to the Yankee game.
SPEAKER_03I was there. You went to a you went to a mess game?
SPEAKER_04Yeah.
SPEAKER_03This is like uh my hundredth Yankee game. How was your first mess game?
SPEAKER_04It was dope. It started raining, however, but um it was really dope. I I enjoyed it.
SPEAKER_03Shout out Corey, man.
SPEAKER_04I enjoyed it. Did they win?
SPEAKER_03I don't remember if they even won that.
SPEAKER_04They won eight and eight to nothing.
SPEAKER_01I was the first win in probably like a month and a half. That's good, man. Your first game and they went crazy like that?
SPEAKER_04Yeah, they were like the fans were going crazy. So I definitely enjoyed.
SPEAKER_01Um did you do the uh the nine inning challenge?
SPEAKER_04No, we actually laugh at at the nine inning. Do you even know that? No, I don't know what it is, but they had the eighth. They had the eighth inning challenge. I don't know what that is, but they had an eighth inning challenge.
SPEAKER_01So basically what it is, is like, so for every inning, uh huh, because you know it's nine innings in baseball. So for every inning, you gotta eat a hot dog and drink a beer.
SPEAKER_02Being an asshole. Anywho, how was your week?
SPEAKER_01My week was really good, you know. Um, I would like to say that I saw a lot of TV shows that was really good. Oh my gosh. I did too, actually. You did? What do you think, boss? What was you watching?
SPEAKER_03I started Man on Fire last night. Went to bed late watching that John. Oh, I did start that. Yeah, I went uh three episodes in. I went to bed late watching that john. That's pretty good. I finished uh Imperfect Woman with Kerry Washington, dope show. You were talking about that. Yeah, I finally finished it. I was I was up on the content while I was on vacation this week for sure.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, I was coming on vacation, so I went back and you know, work was a little crazy for real, for real. I'm gonna be honest with you. It seemed like work was on fire. But you know what? Your boy came in with the great energy, so it never affects me to be honest. Okay, okay, okay. What about you, bro? Everything else we rest of the week was good.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, I didn't have no real shows, you know, my regular ratchet TV that you know baddies and all that.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_01You already know baddies is uh baddies is where it is.
SPEAKER_03But you know what they do on baddies too? They curse. Let's get into the baddies. Speaking of baddies, you already mentioned it when we were talking about this Meg and Clay situation is Escalator had the whole black Twitter was in a frenzy. So you're gonna be finished, you're gonna let you gotta go in.
SPEAKER_04There's always enthusiastic. I gotta go in, right? I don't like that.
SPEAKER_00Um you don't like what? Yeah, go ahead. Yeah, let's just let's just talk about it. Just jump into it. We already know. They know who we're talking about.
SPEAKER_04I definitely knew the girl, the girlies was doing too much because I definitely knew who Klay Thompson was before Megan started dating him.
SPEAKER_03Thank you for clearing clearing. Thank you for clarity.
SPEAKER_04Definitely, I didn't know about the whole Splash Brothers thing. Corey taught me that. But I did know who Klay Thompson was before.
SPEAKER_01Shout out, Corey. Yeah. Positive thing this week. Who you want? Positive thing this week.
SPEAKER_04Um, you gotta make up for the two cherries I'm gonna take in the summertime from us. Now let me. And just as Corey rises, he falls. No, but I definitely knew who Clay Thompson was um, you know, before Megan started dating him. Um, as far as the cheating part, the allegations, I don't think Megan cheated on him. I think he cheated on Megan. And I honestly feel like Megan is looking for love with the wrong dudes.
SPEAKER_00So the wrong dude on the podcast, he was talking about it.
SPEAKER_04Did y'all see that where he was talking about Megan on his podcast? No, I missed it. No, it wasn't was it his podcast? It was a show he does with um Peggy, I think his name is, or something. They talk about sports a lot. Oh, okay. That's part of his podcast? Oh, okay. Okay, so yeah, he was talking about Megan and he was just like, you know, he was talking about the same thing I just said, like Clay was famous way before Megan or whatever, like that. But he was also talking about like she's looking for love in the wrong places. I don't know if y'all ever seen her documentary on Netflix.
SPEAKER_01Absolutely not. No disrespect to Shade. Once I saw the cap, I never tuned in. But we're gonna get into that.
SPEAKER_04Anywho, um, you know, I feel like, and me and Corey had a debate about this. I was like, I feel like she she said on her documentary, she was basically like, I like to fuck or whatever.
SPEAKER_03Like a like an info type.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, like, and she was just like, you know, I said, that don't make her a hoe.
SPEAKER_01If she chooses one guy at all, if she chooses one guy, though, that's the important part.
SPEAKER_04Remember, she's in the industry, right? So she is most likely to know, like, we're gonna know how many dudes she messed with because she's out and as any celebrity. Look at J Lo. Look at like who else, look at the Kardashians, like they date several men.
SPEAKER_01Why is it that when Megan does it, it's just like a I mean, I think that's it's not just taboo for Megan, but we're gonna let you know. We're gonna let you get in your back.
SPEAKER_02I didn't even say nothing. He the he the free Tory lanes that is.
SPEAKER_01You ain't never hear me say free Tory lanes.
SPEAKER_03I'm gonna let y'all know.
SPEAKER_02He's still on the pod. I'm gonna say free Tory.
SPEAKER_03I'm saying no, you're wild.
SPEAKER_01Don't do that. Did I ever say it on the pod? I'm not gonna do it.
SPEAKER_00Did I ever say it on the pod?
SPEAKER_04Anywho, I feel like that situation or whatever, like everybody's just like not like here for Megan, but I really feel like she's a lost girl. Like, she don't have no parents, she barely clearly don't have no friends, or whatever, like that. Like, I feel like she's a lost girl, and we see this all the time. We have friends that are lost, like we and so it's like to bash her because she's looking for love in all the wrong places. I think that's crazy.
SPEAKER_03So my mind goes and cutting on you. Yeah, because you already know I got a lot, so go ahead. He's gonna you're gonna get us cancelled anyway. So my take on the Meg thing is very simple and direct. It's I think people like academics and people who are trying, who were the you would have thought academics had his fuck, his dick was haring. T was like he was breaking the story, like he would gotta he got a new Drake this song. Like it was like shit like that, I find to be goofy. He's a certified woman hater, so yeah, like my the biggest problem I had with this whole situation, I won't say problem because again, I don't know Meg, I don't know Clay, I'm not we have a podcast, so obviously we have to talk about it and discuss it because it was trending. But my biggest problem with the situation was I do think she comes off a little immature with the Instagram posts. Because my biggest thing in any relationship is don't put your business on social media if you don't want people to discuss it. And knowing who you are, you know people will discuss it. That's true. You know, now I and I know Jordan can attest to this. So from what I understand, correct me if I'm wrong, Rick, they got together in July. Like that's where everybody has gone. Now, again, I don't know how long it takes Jordan to clear his cover or clear his roster before we get in a relationship from then to July. Takes a regular dude, it might take a couple months to fully clear your roster for one girl that you're feeling.
SPEAKER_04That's true.
SPEAKER_03This nigga sitting on damn near half a belly. How long do you think it's taking to clear his roster, bro? So to go, I mean I'm not I'm not throwing shade, but hold on, he never cleared it. Let me get there though. Let me let me get there. Because I'm not trying to throw shade at him or her. I'm just trying to paint the picture for us regular dudes out there. Right. It takes a while to clear everybody, every nigga's not a fuck nigga. That's the I'm not saying that, but if you were single when you play in the field and you got a couple girls that you're talking to, you're single, do what you're gonna do. Now, I do believe that at one point he was failing her. And but I do think, and Jordan can attest to this, I could be failing you for two or three months, and then by the fourth month, situations change.
SPEAKER_01And I think it might be that fellas I ain't seen before.
SPEAKER_03I'm not even saying it's that, because is that at that point saying that she's responsible for it? No, no, no, no.
SPEAKER_01I'm not saying that she's responsible, but what I'm saying is like, even if I'm not blaming your behavior, but it might be something that I see that I'm not really attracted to.
SPEAKER_03It could be that, or it could just be like, yo, he just he just got he was just over it. Like, right, you know, like I don't think it's anything wrong with one, they wasn't married, there was no vows taken, this was just they didn't work out, unfortunately, and unfortunately, you made it super public to it now. You can't even spend a block and try and rekindle it because you embarrassed him. And this is at the end of the day, this is again now a regular dude. He is the most famous person she's ever been with. You could he he is uh he comes from a blue blood family, but his father played for the Lakers. Like he is not a no disrespect to Tory Lanez, he's not Tory Lanez. He's not Tally. He's not Partizant Fontaine. All person to me who had a reason to be petty was Partizan Fontaine because when everything started, he was the one that was holding her hand saying, Yo, I got you, and then it came out that yo, you cheated on me with Tory. So him, I get being petty. Like that's the one up, yeah. More than just Tory. Yeah, I mean, which is why I'm not gonna come under the bus, but you know, like that's the only one I say, okay, like you get your one up on social, like you get that one. You earned that, you know. But so when you talk about being in a relationship, and again, I guess I'm more qualified because I done cheated. So I know how to feel so if anyone can speak like this, if anybody, I know I'm qualified. So it could, it could be that he, I'm not even gonna say that he cheated because she didn't say that. She insinuated that he did that. Or it could simply be, and to be if we're keeping it a hundred Brit, you catch a nigga cheating one time, you done. Most women are not done the first time he gets caught cheating. So that's that's what I was saying. So I don't think it was a hold on, but give me give me give me a second. Let me get there. So when you break all of this down and you're talking about how the relationship got to the point to where it got fractured. Britt, you're how old are you? I'm not gonna put your age out there, but you're you're you're your okay. You would know your father taught you, I'm pretty sure. I mean, again, she doesn't have a father, so I get it. But meeting a guy's family does not mean you're gonna marry her.
SPEAKER_04That is a fact. Mean the fact that's a good thing.
SPEAKER_03Don't also toss me like you're now you're trying to get sympathy from social media. Well, that's not where you go to get sympathy.
SPEAKER_01But that's that's typically what she does. She goes to social media to get sympathy. Her team puts out stories about people negatively. I'm not saying that's not true.
SPEAKER_04You may know more about that than me. Here's my thing. Before you go on your rant, because you're gonna go off. I'm not. Um, my thing is this, right? I agree with what you're saying. I I still feel like she's a lost little girl. Like, I'm not taking it. I mean, she could be emotionally not mature.
SPEAKER_03She doesn't have the capacity, you know, to understand or get through her feelings by herself.
SPEAKER_04My biggest problem that I have with all this going on is she ended like her Broadway uh show early. And I'm just like, girl, make your money. You level up when something like this happens. Like, you don't just Yeah, but she might not be emotionally available for that.
SPEAKER_01Like she might she might understand the capacity that she has.
SPEAKER_04That's the point I'm trying to make. Like, girl, don't let him stop your bag. He you ain't you ain't stopping his bag.
SPEAKER_01Not a little bit. Not even a little bit.
SPEAKER_04You get what I'm saying? Like, don't and a lot of females, I see a lot of females that do this. Like, I used to do it. I'm not gonna lie. Like, once somebody, uh a dude do something to me, it's like, oh, my life is over. No, like don't let that, and then the reason why I'm going so hard is because I used to do it. And I look back, like, why did it be like that?
SPEAKER_03That's the thing why it bothers me too, because a lot of women look up to her, you know, in this situation, I'm gonna say women and young girls too in this situation because it's a lot of things like in a situation of even when it came to like okay, you now you're throwing his mentor under the bus. You throw him under the bus in his mental, oh your mood swings when you yeah, you know I had mood swings when we were together, but now we're not together, you try and throw it. I would feel like that shit is tacky, but like that comes up as late. And again, I'm not trying to bash her because there's enough niggas doing it online, which again I think is goofy, bringing up her exes and her hit list, like yeah, it's irrelevant. It's just like that shit is corny, bro. Because at the end of the day, Clay knows who she slept with. Right. She probably knows who he slept with. Right. They might have had those conversations, like, yo, let me know who you've been with. And again, I think we talked about this before when you're a celebrity in that industry. You should have some of those conversations so I don't look embarrassed when we step in these rooms where I know a nigga not trying to one up. I know that exactly. And I agree with you when he said that. I don't think he was welcome. Yeah. Yeah, because in that situation, yeah, because I I don't want it's an ego thing. Like I know you might be cool with it. Before the situation, yeah, it's definitely standing on it. Yeah, 100%. So again, it doesn't I people sit there in the comments say, oh, Clay was never gonna marry her. Only person who knows that is Clay. That's it. We got we don't know the relationship. He might, but what I would say is a lot of people, especially the people who are fans of Megan, thought Clay was the safer pick.
SPEAKER_01Because he what he didn't come from the because the image he gives us to is like is that I'm chill, I'm laid back. He's a sniper. But but that's what I was saying. That's what we're gonna get into. Oh, bro. Quiet guys, you can't let's not play. Because I'm giving y'all the chance to shine.
SPEAKER_03I know a lot of the quiet guys are usually the snipers, nigga. Those are usually the snipers.
SPEAKER_02But hold on.
SPEAKER_01Wow, look, Corey, Corey, if you need emotional support, bro, you got my number because like I don't appreciate the way she's been trying to, like, you know. That is crazy. Like, it also goes back to what you said because Megan really didn't come out and say he was cheating. It was just based off what I read, it was just he came to her, and it could have been that she called him cheating, or it could have been that he came to her and like as a man, it was like, I'm gonna be honest with you, I wanna also sleep with other women, I don't want to be monogamous. That is possible. I do think.
SPEAKER_02I feel like he would say something like that. Like he gives the personality.
SPEAKER_03I mean, again, I don't want to say, again, I don't know him, but right if I'm up fucking, I'm sitting on $500 million, bro. It's like people, like I'm pretty sure Megan.
SPEAKER_04And I'm sorry?
SPEAKER_03I said you're not just gonna want Megan, like I'm not even I'm not even trying to say that, but like there's been numerous analysts that came out, like Jamel Hill came out on her podcast, forgive me, I don't remember the name of it. But she sat down with uh her and Carrie, uh not Carrie's, I forgot her name, but that they have a podcast, and she said, like, I could count on one hand how many faithful NBA players I know through the years. It's damn near impossible. And granted, because I've the when you when I put it that way, it sounds like I'm being dismissive to her. Because if I've you're in Brooklyn, so if I go to fucking uh Brownsville, the Browns villains they call them, right? If I go to Brownsville at fucking four o'clock in the morning with a pair of chains and a nice watch, and then you're setting yourself up to get robbed. Right, but you're setting yourself up to get robbed. That doesn't mean it still sucks to get robbed. So just because she's dating a cheater doesn't mean it sucks to get cheated on. Right. You know what I'm saying? I'm not trying to be dismissive towards her, but what I'm saying simply is that yo, bro, you Y'all ever saw Love and Basketball? Oh, come on, boss.
SPEAKER_05Of course.
SPEAKER_01So in love and basketball, right? What did Quincy's Pops tell him? He's like, when you get to that hotel, and there's one that there's one, there's one chick that makes it up.
SPEAKER_03There's a thousand women on there waiting for you. There's one chick that's gonna be a big one.
SPEAKER_01Hundreds of them make it upstairs. And then the boldest one makes it to that door. And it's hard, you gonna turn them down in every city?
SPEAKER_04But unless I don't even So why nobody think LeBron don't be cheating? Look, look, look.
SPEAKER_03Listen, man, I think that's what I'm saying.
SPEAKER_01We're not disrespecting nobody who was a king that we have no real evidence on, alright?
SPEAKER_04So we're not just we not just no, we not throw cheating.
SPEAKER_01We're not throwing no allegations out there because you don't know. You don't know. We're not throwing no allegations out there. But yeah, y'all ready for me to go? I mean, I thought you weren't ready. I did not go. All right, there we go. Let's get it cracking. All right, so just disclaimer. We not we not throwing emotion. Yeah, disclaimer. We not throwing no disclaimer. You said claimer, nigga. I don't know what you say. I said disclaimer. All right, we're throwing it out there. All right, you ready? So, first off, we're gonna start off with Clay is a sniper on and off the field, or off the court, on and off the court. You see his resume before all of this started. So for people to be out there really, and that that one girl from the UK. Oh, we're talking about Madam, uh, madam something, but just because you're in the UK and you don't know who Klay Thompson is, does not mean does not mean that you can go out there just insinuating all this bullshit. First off, we all know who Klay Thompson is. He's a splash, bro. He's splashing shit on and off the court. Like I said, that's one. His resume of the women that he's dated is like top tier. These women, like, they're known. So for the simple fact that you're gonna say that Megan is like this, ooh, this big wow factor, like, yes, Megan, she's an amazing, talented person. So, and she probably is the biggest person that he has dated as well. But like Jay said, his father was in the NBA. So your father in the NBA, you telling me you're not sniping shit. You the top in the rich player in your rich his whole life. The top player in your state, you go to you go to a top college, you in the NBA.
SPEAKER_03Well, not to cut you up, but but you the women talk about the ideal guy, six feet, light skin, worth money. He's he's been that his whole life. All of that.
SPEAKER_01All of that. So so the fact that people is just assuming that he was just gonna stay faithful to Megan, and like like Jay said, like, he's in the NBA, so it's hard for you to uh just assume that he's gonna be the one faithful guy that she messed with. And you talking about you talking about like like we're not gonna uh dive deep into her resume, but like the men that she talked to, like they're all high-profile people that are exposed to women. So the fact that she feels as if you're gonna give these guys space and that there's not gonna be women that gets like that gets through to them, that's kind of insane. Especially because she she also has been like a perpetrator in this sense where she's done that as well. Yeah, she's been a cheater before too. And before this relationship, every guy that she's actually been in a relationship said that she has cheated. Don't get me wrong, you could change. But at the same time, you can't really, you can't really judge someone for not for not wanting to be monogamous when you also haven't been monogamous. So, like a lot of a lot of women are trying to like first off, and I want to say, women, especially black women, y'all need to protect other black women. Because the simple fact that all these women are giving death threats and threats to Lexi Brown is crazy because Lexi Brown from the WNBA. Yeah, the girl that he was shit. Did he sleep with her with? He's is that who he slept with? No, but that's the thing. That's the woman? That's the thing. She said she said it's not true. And she said Megan and Clay know that it's not true, and neither one of them stepped up to the plate. I mean, that's not Clay's character. Clay is not he's not gonna do that. But what I'm saying to you is if you know it's not true, black and women in general, yeah, and like women in general, like you not protecting other women, but you but you come online for sympathy from other people against Clay. So it's like you come online for sympathy, but then you know that it's not true what's going on with this woman, and you didn't say nothing to try to clear that up, knowing that she's receiving death threats, like knowing that, like, you know, that's quite that's a good thing. I think that's what she was going through in shout out to. And that's and that's why I look at this situation and I'm like, yo, like on Megan's part, you can't be doing stuff like that. You doing what? I don't like like you if you know that this rumor is not true, and that's not the woman that he's saying that he well, that's not the woman that he was sleeping with, and you know it's it's been blasted all over, protect that woman the same way you want protection in the on social media still? Who?
SPEAKER_04Megan Megan. Yeah, she's She didn't delete it, but she hasn't posted since she announced that she would be able to do it.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, so I mean this is like even if she she has the profile to where she can make a public statement or something, or even through somebody else.
SPEAKER_03I feel like I don't I don't know. I feel like that's not really her job, really. But I also feel I get what you're saying, but but I don't think that's like her job. Like I I think because she never she never named it was her. Yeah. People just didn't. But there's no reason then it's not my fault to rumor spec. She never assumed it was her. But you letting that you letting that rumor slide.
SPEAKER_01But that's how rumors start. But I'm I'm far off with you on that necessary. But what I'm saying is, if you want protection as a like you're going out there to get sympathy. She's looking for protection and sympathy, bro. That's the only reason why. Sympathy is protection. No, it's not. Sympathy. What are you talking about? Sympathy is a part of protection. No, it's not. How am I gonna protect you if I don't sympathize for what you're going through?
SPEAKER_02What the fuck? Yeah, no, no.
SPEAKER_01No, you're a cop. You protect people for a living because it's your job. If you want protection. But that's because that's my job. But other people, if I'm putting that information out there for other people, it's because I want them to sympathize for me and be and be on my side. She's a public figure. She wants people to be.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, she does it's not.
SPEAKER_01Who is she looking for to heal her that she's posting it for millions of people?
SPEAKER_03Well, I think you're looking way too deep into it. I think she just did something, a knee-jerk reaction, was immature, and that was it.
SPEAKER_01I mean, you can't say that she's doing it as a knee-jerk reaction when it's constant that she's doing this in every relationship. Every relationship.
SPEAKER_04They posting it on Instagram. But why are they doing that?
SPEAKER_01But why are they doing that?
SPEAKER_04When I break up with Corey right now, I'm not posting, yo, I'm outside. I'm not posting something on purpose.
SPEAKER_01Get up with the phone. But what I'm saying is what's the point. But what's the point of you posting something, something for sympathy? For sympathy.
SPEAKER_02Who am I looking for to protect me?
SPEAKER_01She's a public figure. So she knows that when other people are gonna mention certain things about her, that there's gonna be, she has a fan base. She knows her fan base is gonna stand by her.
SPEAKER_04That's protection. Let's say we go with you away. That's not how that works.
SPEAKER_01How is that not how it works? Even if we have the beehive, right? We have the beehive, we have the barbs, we have Megan's group, we have all the the reason why they have those groups is because when something happened, they know these groups they didn't create them, but they know if they make public statements, those groups are gonna protect them in their image. You keep saying that, but they're gonna be. That's 100% true.
SPEAKER_03Hold on, hold on. They're gonna be on her side no matter what. She never exactly, which is why she's gonna post publicly.
SPEAKER_01Okay, but she never name-dropped that girl. So it's not a good thing. It doesn't matter if she's not gonna be. It doesn't matter if she name-dropped her because I'm not saying that she's getting protection from Lexi Brown. What I'm saying is the fact that you posted for sympathy and protection, and the fact that you won't protect other women when you know that you know that it's wrong, and you know that it's not true. And you didn't go out there and make no statement. You letting people publicly attack this girl and sending death threats. That's crazy. She's not letting them do that because it's not a shit.
SPEAKER_04She's not letting do it now.
SPEAKER_01She's letting them do that because she's not making a statement on it. If she made a statement, it wouldn't matter at this point. It would. If you if you said if you said that girl, if you said that girl had nothing. I totally disagree with that. That's not true. If you said that girl had nothing to do with the situation, your fans are not gonna attack her.
SPEAKER_02That's not true because you could because we see it numerous times. People, I could put out the comment, especially with Beyonce. Yes, like she beyonce.
SPEAKER_01And they go hard for Beyonce, and you know what happens. And Beyonce they never come out and they say nothing. When those public statements are made, things change. Like, look, let's let's take the never came out. Let's take the barb, let's take the barbs, for instance, right? The barbs, the barbs was attacking Drake for a situation one time. Nikki made a statement, was like, nah, that's not what it is. Whoever the head of the- still attacking him. But it was not. He talked about it in the interview. He talked about it in the interview. Oh, you tripping. Y'all, y'all's crazy. Y'all crazy. Y'all crazy. There's no way. How is it a Megan hater because I said she didn't protect the girl? But why don't you say that? If that was you, I would say the same thing. Britt, I would be like, yo, you fucked up for not saying something.
SPEAKER_04Why you not talking hard about girls?
SPEAKER_01I did say clay too.
SPEAKER_02Because y'all defending Meg. Because you're not talking about Clay. I did mention Clay and mention Clay went off about Clay.
SPEAKER_01I said Clay and I said Megan. And the reason why I said Megan is because I said women need to protect other women when you notice it's what it had nothing to do with women protecting women.
SPEAKER_03If that's the case, that's just a morality thing. You should do the right thing no matter what. That is a morality thing, too. You keep saying women should protect women, it's becked no matter what. Secondly, 100%, but but you also control the rumors, bro. So it's the best thing is to do is to ignore them.
SPEAKER_01You can pull a rumor. You can't you can't control a rumor, but you can you can go out there and dispel a rumor. They don't who nobody I can say nobody does that because celebrities do do that. Right. But Klay is not known to ever. I'm not saying that Klay is the why do Megan have to do it, though. I'm not saying that Megan has to do it either. But what I'm saying is the fact that neither one of y'all is doing that is wrong.
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SPEAKER_01And the fact that you're a woman letting other women get attacked, like that that's the reason for for women having like this whole women's week. Yeah, all this movement and stuff like that. Like, is like, yo, we're gonna protect who looks like us. I always thought the meat too movement. Just like me and Jay, me and Jay be. I'm just saying, me and Jay be on the pod.
SPEAKER_04The B2 movement.
SPEAKER_01I don't know. Me and Jay be on the pod, and we'll we'll stick up for men and be like, yo, we on his side, stuff like that. Why? Because you you look out for who looks like you first. That's not always true. I'm I mean I'm not saying it's not always true, but what I'm saying to you is you look out for who looks out for like who looks like you first. Yes, we learned that in school. Women have come through so much, so for you to allow another woman to get attacked. Allowing it. Allowing it, bro. If you don't dispel that rumor, that's allowing it. You're being complacent. No, because okay, one, okay, one, I think you're being very dismissive to her feelings right now. Because at the end of the day, bro, she went through. Fuck her feelings when someone is being being attacked with death threats.
SPEAKER_04You're contradicting yourself. Because when I just said, oh, she ended her broadband. Huge contradiction. You was like, oh, she's going through a hundred. 100% of that. So now she gotta sit here. Her mentality protected other black women. Yes, because some feel protected as some display.
SPEAKER_01But some stuff trumps some stuff, some stuff trumps how you feel. You're tripping, bro. Some stuff trumps how you feel. That's crazy. You're contradicting your thing. No, it's not a contradiction because some stuff trumps how you feel. Because she could feel that way, yes, 100%. No one is dismissing her feelings. But at the same time, you see what's going on with another speed. You're assuming she sees. How do you know she sees that, bro? There's no way you're telling me.
SPEAKER_03It is because you can be disconnected from the shit. Bro, if you go through some breakup, hold on, bro. If you go through some breakups, I'm not engaging in it. And you could already tell her friends or family, whoever is in her circle, aren't really by her. So you don't even know if she sees this shit. You're assuming she does. There's something that's being dismissive to her. You don't know if she sees that shit. You have no idea if she sees it. There's no verified source that Meg said, Oh, yeah, I see that and fuck that bitch. That's what you're assuming she feels, but you never saw that. That's why I'm saying you're being dismissive towards her. And you're selling like a Meg hater. How?
SPEAKER_01Because you're saying that. How? Bro, I'm telling you, it's not is not no Meg hate. What I'm saying to you is the simple fact that she's not she's not protecting this other black woman. That's not her job, bro. I'm not saying it's her. I'm not saying she, I'm not saying she's if she's if you see that's not her job, too. All right, we could we could just agree to disagree and move on then. Because that's crazy to me. The fact that y'all, the the fact that y'all both standing on a stance just to just to defend Meg when I'm not wrong. That's what you that's what y'all doing. Y'all defending that. Nobody's defending her. I'm defending that behavior. It's cool, it's cool. Let's move on. Oh, you sound a little salty, bro. No, I'm just saying. I'm just saying. It's not that I'm salty, it's that academic. It's not giving academics either. It's just like y'all defending that behavior. It's crazy. You're not defending behavior because you because you're like, oh, but what about clay? And I said clay, I said clay didn't do it, I said he was wrong.
SPEAKER_04It's about clay and you did not essay about medicine.
SPEAKER_01No, I didn't do an essay. The only reason, the only reason the only reason. Like I said, the only reason why I went deeper into it is because I said women should protect women, and y'all started to go off on that. So that's why I went deeper into that.
SPEAKER_04Because it's not her job. She didn't start the woman. Okay, one, that's never.
SPEAKER_03We're not saying women should not protect women. That's not what we're saying.
SPEAKER_04That's not what we said.
SPEAKER_03Women should 100%. What we said was you don't know if she even knows what is going on. You're assuming she knows that what's the WMB player's name? I don't know her name.
SPEAKER_01You think that she don't know what her name is attached to when it's recent events. Oh, I don't know. You should have blocked that out.
SPEAKER_04We're not saying she don't know it, right? It could have been blocked out. However, at the end of the day, we're not saying women can't protect. Yeah, I'm all here for women, but you know I'd be like for the girlies, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
SPEAKER_01Clearly not.
SPEAKER_04Wow. Clearly not.
SPEAKER_03Salty. Yeah.
SPEAKER_04All right.
SPEAKER_03Let's move on.
SPEAKER_01Shout out Lexi Brown.
SPEAKER_03So we also had another feel good story in New York City recently. Uh, I shared this with you guys about the bodegas and books here in the Bronx. The teachers in the Bronx and the South Bronx found the bodega, and they're doing good things, man. I love when I see stories about teachers actually applying pressure to education outside of school. Because again, technically, that's not their job. That's not their job. Teachers should not be investing in more than parents should in the child's education. But I know teachers that do it all the time. That's why most teachers leave the profession because they're tired of they invest so much in the kids and they feel like the administration above doesn't. And also like there's parents who also use school as a babysitter. So seeing this in the Bronx, they found the bodega and these two teachers had an idea to in the bodega. They put books there, have the kids come put it at your leisure.
SPEAKER_02You said why?
SPEAKER_03What do you fuck them books?
SPEAKER_02No, I just played.
SPEAKER_03I'll just say real.
SPEAKER_02So today. What is happening?
SPEAKER_03Yeah, the uh you can go inside the bodega, get the books, and I think that's a dope idea.
SPEAKER_04And shout out to the bodega owner.
SPEAKER_01Shout out to the bodega. Shout out to the bodega owners, shout out to the big BX, you know, innovating out here. Them teachers, them teachers from the BX, the bodegas from the BX. Shout out to the DOE, shout out to them teachers. You know, my mom's a teacher, you know, she she worked hard. And like Jay said, she's one of those people that invest in those students and the kids. We need more of that. Like Jay said, it's not their job, but it's a good thing when you see stuff like this because the kids need it, you know? Sometimes they go home and the education is not continued. So the fact that these teachers are making it where they have accessibility to books, which is like it's a good idea. Yeah, and it's and it's a big disparity from like the books that the public schools have access to compared to like Catholic schools or like schools out there, schools out there in like Long Island and stuff like that. Like, you know, so kids don't really have access to so many books, especially because, you know, when it comes to the there there are libraries out there, but also everybody has in a lot of people. Yeah, but not only that, but it's not even access to a lot of libraries anymore when it comes to the body. I'm not saying it's not, but like seriously when the last time like you stepped in a lot.
SPEAKER_04Well, a lot of schools have libraries in them now.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, but but it's it's not the same when you have like because you know it's like different blocks. So the kids could go in the library, but you might not like be able to just like, oh, let me take this book home with me.
SPEAKER_04Oh yeah, I get it.
SPEAKER_01So the fact that you could go to the bodega, you can, you know, grab you a bacon, egg, and cheese, but then you also get get a book to take back with you. And they also have it where if you if you wanted like books that's not like accessible in the bodega, they have like a QR code where you can request certain books. So you know it's a lot, man. That's it. That's a dope story.
SPEAKER_04I don't know if y'all have this in a blog store in Brooklyn. They have like um it's like mailboxes where you could take a book. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Those are those are dope too.
SPEAKER_03I think that's really you guys have any teachers that you left an impact on you and using?
SPEAKER_04Yeah, definitely. Uh, my fourth grade teacher, uh Miss Johnson. Okay.
SPEAKER_03She said she definitely sounds black. Yeah, she's definitely watching Jordan.
SPEAKER_01Oh, I got a lot of teachers.
SPEAKER_03So do I? Like, I know. We got a lot of teachers. Yeah, 100%.
SPEAKER_01Shout out to Mr. Fay Tac and professors.
SPEAKER_04I feel like that's no, yeah, my college professor. Yeah, well, he's not black, but Kelly definitely Kelly. Shout out to Kelly.
SPEAKER_03Shout out to Kelly. I think there's some professions in society that are like slept on a lot. I I do think a teacher is a noble profession that can 100% be influential in the the upbringing of certain students, especially in elementary school and up. Like I have teachers in elementary school, middle school, I still remember, and especially college, you know what I'm saying, in high school. So I think even principals.
SPEAKER_04I feel like I have like a good one, yeah.
SPEAKER_01I'm gonna be honest with you, the impact of educators in general, like of what it can have on your life, is just like it's irreplaceable. 100%.
SPEAKER_03And especially again in situations like this in the South Ponks where they aren't again to be a teacher, you need a certificate. You don't need a certificate to be a parent. You know what I'm saying? So there are some parents that unfortunately aren't as involved, or and or no, I won't say as involved. There's some parents who are working doubles trying to trying to put food on the table.
SPEAKER_04So it's just in the school, yeah.
SPEAKER_03You know what I'm saying? So I I get it all around it. Life's hard, bro. So when you see feel-good stories like this, it is something that should be talked about. They should get their flowers, they should hopefully this does start trending around. I hope it's the box and it evolves to try state area, you know what I'm saying? Because things like this are important, especially to the youth, you know what I'm saying? A lot of these wildlife went around the country.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, you know what I'm saying?
SPEAKER_04So it's been a lot of young.
SPEAKER_01I'm gonna be honest, I'm gonna be honest with you, I don't really watch the news. So the fact that because there's no feel-good stories like this, yeah, and for me, I can't, I'm the type of person I can't just see negative in every aspect of my life. Yeah, so I like that's why I don't watch the news. Because to me, it's like all just negative stories. Yeah, lately it's been a lot of sad. So, like for me, the feel-good stuff like this, that that's stuff that I enjoy and I like to see.
SPEAKER_03100%. So it feels good, man. Feels good. Alright, so we're gonna switch over to we're gonna talk about a segment. Big things coming to us this week in Jordan. Big things, big things. We got French and Rick Warse. I don't know how excited you are for that, but it's a podcast.
SPEAKER_02So some things we gotta talk about. Oh yeah, yo was you excited about hearing this?
SPEAKER_01You said what?
SPEAKER_02What were you excited about hearing this? I'm gonna be honest with you.
SPEAKER_01I'm gonna be honest with you. I saw I saw something and I was like, yo, 100%. Yo, this is gonna be a big ass Drake concert for real, for real.
SPEAKER_00Yo, but I don't think so.
SPEAKER_01We're gonna be in there, we're gonna be listening to that. You said who I got? I'm gonna be honest with you, Rick Ross should wipe down French. Wipe down is strong. I think so. Yes, yes. I feel like Rick Ross is underrated. And you know, because he because he did, he did verses already. And he could not play some of the already changes. Yeah, he did, yeah. And so he could play not play some of the songs that he played that first time and still be French. Don't get me wrong, French has some major, some major hits. He got some major hits for sure. But I love the song. RP Chinx, man. Shout out the Queens. Big Queens. But that's what I'm saying. But even if he does play this, like, what is this beating off Wolf Ross's like major scale?
SPEAKER_03I don't know. Shout out to Big Queens, Big Queens, RP Chinks.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, yeah, for sure. RP Chinks.
SPEAKER_03When I heard this, bro, I was like, I mean, I put it in the chat like as if I was excited, but I really wasn't when I saw this. You threw me a conversation. Because it was breaking news. I just saw it. I was like, I sat it on Twitter, it popped up. I was like, oh shit. Um, it's not the verses that people want to see. And I think usually verses was when there's some type, in my opinion, it always felt good when there was like some animosity with the two artists who were coming together to go against each other. This felt like it's gonna be a huge fucking frat type of energy. Like it's gonna be solution. Yeah, like it's just gonna be it's gonna be free promo of both artists. Like they're gonna be upstage probably hugging. And then I think I I won't I don't want disrespect French. French got bro. He got hits. He got hinks, he got hinks, he got hits, bro. Like, I think and that he had a lot of hits before Drake, after Drake. Like, yeah, uh uh still a whole lot of Drake there. Right. The shit with uh with uh with Max B that you think uh I'm gonna be honest with you. I don't like that song, but it goes crazy. Nah, I'll fuck with the V though. I went crazy on the bitch. Yeah, that's it. Yeah, there we go. I'm not the biggest fan of the death. Like it's not to me, it's not like what I like, but I still like you know he's bringing out Max B, though.
SPEAKER_04Oh hold on, that goes out saying that.
SPEAKER_03That goes out saying, but I think I don't think Ross is underrated at all.
SPEAKER_01But I do think Ross is underrated, bro. How many how many people you know put put Ross in their like top 10, top 15?
SPEAKER_03He's a top 10 artist, he's not top five. I mean, well, there's top 10 people in the NBA who give for guys about like it. There's only like I don't think they make I don't make underrated.
SPEAKER_01I think it just means he's just not I'm I'm saying like as far as his catalog, there's a lot of people that look at Ross and they be like, yo, he might not have some heat.
SPEAKER_03I think if someone comes to say it too, I just think that they just don't know music.
SPEAKER_01But I mean this this is still for casuals, too. You gotta see that. I don't think a lot of casuals are gonna watch this. Especially because look, yo, when Ross stole in that devil in a new dress, what is what is what is French coming back with that? Uh I ain't worried about nothing.
SPEAKER_02Nigga, I ain't worried about nothing. Nigga, I ain't worried about nothing. French got hits, bro.
SPEAKER_01Like, dude, but if you but I'm saying that devil in the new dress though, crazy. Ah, I don't know.
SPEAKER_05I'm picking French.
SPEAKER_01It gotta be the New York and you that say French. Because don't give me wrong, like yo, French. French got that shit that made French got that shit that make you move. I ain't gonna cap. But that's what that's what that's what he got. He got like the New York anthems for sure. Like, but French. But when we talk about overall music, Rick Ross, Rick Ross gonna win.
SPEAKER_03I like French, I love French actually, but he's not being Ross. But well, I think the Cat Williams shit, he's like, you start here, every day I'm hustling, you start getting everything.
SPEAKER_04War's got some hits. I'm not taking I don't know.
SPEAKER_01I'm gonna be honest with you. Like, you know, when French plays catalysts, it's not good enough for this. Because it's gonna be unforgettable. I mean, he got that's a diamond song. But I don't even think Walsh has a diamond song. He don't. He don't, but at the same time, right? Your song could have sold a whole lot, but do it hit as much as somebody else. Unforgettable still unforgettable. That's the round that he's automatically gonna win. 100%. 100%. But what I'm saying to you is that's the remix. That's the reason. I know the remix could be a hit.
SPEAKER_04But you know he's gonna play that. Is it a better word?
SPEAKER_01Uh but is it a better song? 100%. Then devil in a new dress?
SPEAKER_03You're tripping. To me. You're tripping. To me? You're tripping. But to me, that when you put the P and B remix on that, and that shit, no, nigga. You're tripping.
SPEAKER_02Right.
SPEAKER_03Like, come RP the Play. That shit go. That's just me. Like, I'm again, I'm not the biggest Kanye lover too. But so I and I think the devil was so so you just gonna hate on Kanye every week?
SPEAKER_01Every week? You just call me you just call me a hater on Meg because I told the truth. And now you gonna just be not the biggest, I'm not the biggest I'm not the biggest on Kanye's catalog. Last week, oh, we're not gonna talk about Kanye because it is. We're not gonna talk like yo, it's it's cool, it's cool to separate the person from the music, eh?
SPEAKER_03So as I was saying, devil in the new dress, the production-wise is better. Maybe the unfamiliar lyrics is better.
SPEAKER_01Anyway, the vibes is better, to me, but it's just a better song. You something could be a bigger hit, but not a better song. I hear P and B on that drone.
SPEAKER_03I never skip it.
SPEAKER_04It's never gonna be.
SPEAKER_03I never skip it. Like it's because it's a hit. Yeah, but I'm not definitely a new dress. I'm not saying it's not a hit. That's not what I'm saying. And if anything, nigga, I fast forward to Rick Ross's part. If anything, I skipped the Kanye. Which even if you do that, it's versus for Rick Ross. No, no, 100%. But I would still pick unforgettable. That's my point. Like, I get those two. So that's like if it's the PB version, bro, give me that every single time. Tripping. It's good to listen to, but it's not a better song. It's not a better song. So who so who you think is winning? You think Ross is winning then? I told you, he's wiping them down. You did say that. You did say that. I mean, I'm not giving a wipe down. I'll give French five wins. Nah. Five out of the twenty. I gotta seriously sit there and think because unforgettable is when he got. Um, like I said, ain't worried about nothing. I don't know where he matches that to.
SPEAKER_01That song's not beating anything that's not true.
SPEAKER_03On Rick Ross's top 20? That's not true. It's not what is it beating? I gotta think because it depends how much Drake Ross is playing. That's the thing. Like, it depends on what it depends how much Drake Ross is playing. That's that's the bottom line. It depends how much songs Ross is gonna play with Drake.
SPEAKER_01But you gotta remember they both have songs.
SPEAKER_03100% and themselves win the same song. But that I'm chalking those up to whoever they're gonna give it to whoever plays it.
SPEAKER_01Plays it first. Yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_03That's a chalk up. That's a wash. Yeah, that's that's a wash. But French has hits, and it's again, like, I ain't worried about nothing. Fucking chopper chopper. Like, he has some hits that those are hits, yes, but they're not bigger than any of Ross's hits.
SPEAKER_01It depends on the songs he plays without Drake. How? You how he you remember that Ross's Ross's first album has done way more numbers than Port of Miami is a classic. Anyway, Drake.
SPEAKER_03But that's because he does more numbers, I mean it's a better album.
SPEAKER_01Like that oh, more numbers don't mean better.
SPEAKER_03No, not all the time. I never said that.
SPEAKER_01More numbers don't mean better. Thank you.
SPEAKER_02Why he trying to say he tried to do that? He didn't disagree to that for Unforgettable.
SPEAKER_00He did, he did, all right?
SPEAKER_02We're gonna play trying.
SPEAKER_00We're gonna play it back.
SPEAKER_02We're gonna play it back. Boy nah. Move on to the trend that might really I might crash out on this top.
SPEAKER_03This is a crash out topic for me. So we saw this trend a lot, and Britt brought it back up today before we did our conference call about. So prom season is in full effect.
SPEAKER_04Shout out to the seniors.
SPEAKER_03It seems to be going around in trending that parents are renting out hotel rooms for their kid to figure out the rest.
SPEAKER_04Figure out the rest is crazy.
SPEAKER_03Figure out the rest, like I was supposed to say. You do what you do. Right. So Jordan, I'm gonna go to you first. Oh, actually, I'll go to the Brit first. I just went to you, Jordan. What are your thoughts on this?
SPEAKER_04Oh, that's insane. The parents need their ass beat. Like parents need their ass beat. No, seriously. What? I'm not. Okay, so for my Jamaican answer right here. For my Caribbean answer. Um, we all had a limo. It was 16 of us, eight guys, eight girls.
SPEAKER_03Which is different that this a limo is like the bare minimum now for a while.
SPEAKER_04Right, like a limo.
SPEAKER_03I sound broke right now.
SPEAKER_042026 lions. I'm broke. I had a little limo, you know, we was happy in our little limo. But um, you know, we had a limo. We thought we was doing our thing or whatever. After Palm, we really went to Manhattan Beach, like and just chilled at the beach or whatever. We didn't do, I mean, you know, some of the guys was like, oh, let's go to this hotel or whatever. And we was just like, oh no, like that's not we know what it is. Like the girls was just like, no, like we didn't, we didn't go to no after parties. A lot of people went to like after parties. I did go to an after party. Oh, you went to Wester Hall? We didn't go, we didn't, we wanted to be different. We went to the beach, we chilled out on the beach, it was dope. Like, we had fun. Like, and we was all it was our click, like, so it was just like we want to be, we we had our fun.
SPEAKER_03But now it's did you lose your virginity at in high school?
SPEAKER_04No, in college. Oh, check you out.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, check you out.
SPEAKER_04Shout out to me, Clocky.
SPEAKER_01Hello. Um that's not a shot at anybody that lost their virginity.
SPEAKER_04Nah, I mean, it's not. I've lost my virginity like 15 years old.
SPEAKER_01I'm just saying. She might have lost it on palm night.
SPEAKER_04Usually some women do not have to be. Lose it on palm night. That is a thing. Yeah, that is a thing. I don't know why, but that's just me. I wanted to be mature.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, like that's a that's a thing.
SPEAKER_04I felt like I needed to be.
SPEAKER_03She wanted to be mature, but she'd still be crashing out on niggas. See what I'm saying, bro? They ain't no answer. There's no right or wrong answer.
SPEAKER_02That's crazy.
SPEAKER_03Bro, everybody get it. Jordan can get it, you can get it. There's no friends here.
SPEAKER_02Like, there's no friends here to make me pause.
SPEAKER_01There's no what was the pause at, nigga? What's in the pause? You said Jordan could get it. Well, this is gone, bro.
SPEAKER_02This one could do him in the comments. This is my nigga in the comments. I didn't even pay attention on that.
SPEAKER_04Anywho, I feel like that whole parent, like so it's different angles to this, right?
SPEAKER_03Because it's like it's a podcast, let's start partying.
SPEAKER_04You do certain parents want to be their children's friend.
SPEAKER_03Oh, that's a fact.
SPEAKER_04And you set up these things because you're like, oh, that's my baby. Okay, blah, blah, blah. And then there's double standards to it too, as we go out.
SPEAKER_03100%.
SPEAKER_04Because if it was a a boy, yes, I can go to the house.
SPEAKER_03I had that conversation with my pops. I was like, yo, can I ask him about he started laughing because he has my younger sister? He's like, hell no. But downside, yo, keep it 100. Like, if I were to ask you, you'd say, yeah.
SPEAKER_02Yeah. Isn't it?
SPEAKER_03You only even like confirm. I mean, I don't want to say he wouldn't, but I'm pretty sure most wouldn't confirm with the other parent of the opposite sex. Like, yo, right. We want to get my son wants to get a hotel room. Is that okay if I get it? Like the daughter's just I can't even put in words if I was to get that phone call at my my with my daughter. That's crazy.
SPEAKER_04That's it's insane. What do y'all think? What do you what do y'all appear?
SPEAKER_01I'm gonna be honest with you. This whole prom culture that's going on this year is insane. It's not national this year. It's been a lot of people. No, no, no, no. No, but I'm saying it is 100%. But what I'm saying is this year is the first time I see yo, there's parents transforming the front of their house into whole like music, no, but music video sets and shit like that.
SPEAKER_03Like, yo, I'm just like, yo, you going like have a whole that was the thing today was talking about like yo, you'll do all that, then woman give your kid like a thousand dollars towards college. Not even going to college. Like, yo, I saw one, it was like, yo, I'm calling fast for that.
SPEAKER_04That shit is nuts. No, it is. It's insane. Like it's insane.
SPEAKER_03Literally I mean, you're like the interior decorator. You be setting up parties and shit. Yeah, but like, but like, no, but like, like, how much do you think of a tab that went up? Like, that's just not cheap. That's like $12,000. I was out of fits, my ass don't know shit. If you put the prices right, I lost. I was gonna say like $5,000.
SPEAKER_04My 30th birthday, he seen he was there. That was $12,000.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, like these setups would be crazy.
SPEAKER_04All that shit. That's what I'm saying.
SPEAKER_02Like, Google.
SPEAKER_01They treated like they're spending up for a music video, my boy.
SPEAKER_02They setting it shit up like it's a fucking wedding.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, like it's it gotta be a Bentley.
SPEAKER_03It gotta be some crazy shit.
SPEAKER_04I'm still Lambos and shit.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, like that. They niggas can't even have licenses.
SPEAKER_04What did y'all go to Palman? Like, how did y'all get to Palm?
SPEAKER_01Um we had like Cadillac.
SPEAKER_03My I think my mom or Pops had like a friend or something. I definitely took a Cadillac.
SPEAKER_04Like a friend, right?
SPEAKER_03Yeah, that's a Cadillac.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, but how?
SPEAKER_04Like rental?
SPEAKER_01Oh no, my my my date, she like how Pop set it up. He was our driver and everything.
SPEAKER_04Oh, see, so that's even different because he's driving you. So exactly. The kids now was like, yeah, I rented this Lambo.
SPEAKER_03And I got a driver, like, it still wasn't, but it's still like that's they spend a money palm, then whether education, I guess. That's too. Like it's yeah, it's but um to tackle on the question, I I again I can't tell nobody how to parent. I'm not saying you're a terrible parent for doing this. I think parents make mistakes. I've made mistakes as a parent, plenty of them. But I do think at some point you learn from your mistakes. And at this point, if your kid is coming to palm, they're 16, 17, or 18, right? That's like usually the age for a palm. Um, I I don't think this is a wise decision. And I get the counter argument is at least I'd rather I'd rather know where they're doing it at than doing it behind my back. I get it. I understand that that doesn't make it right. You know, like all this to me is doing is enabling the behavior to be more promiscuous before you have to be. And I don't want to say promiscuous, like it's only a woman thing because for guys too.
SPEAKER_04Uh but it's a double standard on that. You know what?
SPEAKER_01100% is that story for y'all too. So this past week, I went out for like my partner's birthday, right? So we we ended up going to this club called Slate in Manhattan. I've been in Slate Manhattan. And there was a dad there, right? Probably was like in his 50s. And I looked at him, I was like, yo, that's so cool. I I don't know if people are gonna take this as cool, but I thought it was so cool that it was his daughter's birthday. So he was there with his daughter and like all of her friends. And I've seen that. Some guys, some guys, some girls. So he's fitting the bill for everything, making sure that they have like, like, you know, they're all old enough to drink and everything like that. So he's doing all that, and he's actually partying and enjoying himself too. Like he's the life of the party. Everybody in the club was like going with him, dancing and stuff like that, hyping him up and stuff like that. But still, he has the wherewithal to know, even though I'm drinking and I'm enjoying myself, I'm still looking after all of these people that's with me to make sure they're all good, especially because, like, you know, these are people's children that I have with me. And I just thought that was so dope. I was like, yo, that's the type of father that that I hope that I could be one day to the fact that not only you got enough money to do all of that, because you know, you know, that takes money, especially time. So, but I was just like, yo, that's so dope to see some some shit like that in the like, you know, in a club and just like, you know, still making sure your daughter's good. His daughter even had moments where she was like, Yeah, that's my dad, like, you know, like to where she probably was not really embarrassed, but more so like, yo, like yo, dad, like you going crazy, but yeah, but everybody loving your energy. So the fact that it was like that, but it wasn't really like weird vibes either, because it's like, yo, this guy's older, but he's doing like this. I just thought it was cool.
SPEAKER_04My my mom did that. So, like, um after graduation, we wanted to go like this how you know I'm old. We wanted to just walk around Manhattan, like we just wanted to go to the city. You know, Times Square be live at night. Like, so we just wanted to, and she, my mom, um and her boyfriend at the time drove me and my friends to Manhattan and they went on their little scroll in Manhattan, and we was just chilling in Manhattan, and she watched us. And you know, like my dad always at the turnouts, like anything with drinks, my father is there. So um, like he always so my parents are like that, but they're not gonna rent out a hotel for me. No, no, no, no, no. You get what I'm saying? So it's a different level. Like your parents could be my mom is my best friend, right? However, when I was younger, she was not that type of mother.
SPEAKER_03Like there's no reason to be, yeah. Yeah, like hold the title as a parent.
SPEAKER_04Like, exactly. Like, I think a lot of parents now, one, they're young.
SPEAKER_03That's also a part of it.
SPEAKER_04That's a big thing. They're very young. So it's like, oh, I didn't get to do this. So that's the same.
SPEAKER_03I was gonna say that's the biggest part. Like, I didn't do that.
SPEAKER_04I'm sorry, what? Your time has passed.
SPEAKER_03And it's okay. Like, it's as it's totally okay. It won't go on and on. I I don't think this affects the growth of your kid not being able to secure a room so they can have sex. Like, that does I don't think that's something that I could remember.
SPEAKER_01But you know what this is?
SPEAKER_04And I'm sorry to say this, this makes me think these are the parents that let R. Kelly do what he did.
SPEAKER_03Oh, that's a c. I mean, I said what I said.
SPEAKER_01I mean, that's what I said. I think that's actually what is that thing called? Oh my god. Wait, that's like a hot take. What would you call it that hot take? That's a hot take. That's definitely a hot take.
SPEAKER_00That's a hot take.
SPEAKER_03All right, we're gonna move on. Yeah, we not talk about topics. Yeah, that was crazy. But then go crazy. Go, New York, go, New York, go, Jalen Hype again. Man, I'm ready, Jordan. We're gonna break it down real quick. I don't know where to start, bro.
SPEAKER_01I I know where to start. Like I said, you can't disrespect the king, man. We knew what it was.
SPEAKER_00Not where you were. We knew what it was.
SPEAKER_01It really wasn't King James. Went dumb on it. Oh, shout out French.
SPEAKER_04Anyway, you see, now shout out French, now shout out French. Shout out French.
SPEAKER_03I think it's more of I was emotional, man. I at one point, I was working Saturday. I mean, not Saturday. What's day? No, that was um Thursday, right? Thursday, Saturday, yeah. Yeah, Thursday. So Thursday had to work, and I was already upset that I picked up the shift or whatever, but I'm here watching on my phone. And at one point, Atlanta had to lead, and then by the time I got to my car and drove home, I believe the score was 65 to 10. It was a it went on a 65 to 10 at one point. Like it was crazy. And so by the time the game was over, I was I was emotional. I was emotional because I actually like there's very few times in sports where a team wins, Jordan, and a win means more to say, okay, they could actually like go far. Like this was a win when you said, yo, bo, they I think they finally put it together to where they could actually make a win. Well, it looks the optics. Yeah, the optics, like it matched the energy, matches like they picking up what I'm putting down. Like they everything is a line, you know what I'm saying? So Knicks win big, they move on, they will face the win of tonight's game, which would be Philly and Boston.
SPEAKER_04So I would go into a game. We're gonna go to the Celtics and Knicks games. I just want y'all to know that. Because we're saying that the Celtics will win tonight, and we're gonna go to the Celtics.
SPEAKER_03I'm not saying Celtics are gonna win tonight. I have no idea. Tatum might not even play. Who knows how healthy Tatum is? He's calf is hurt. And so that's the thing, Joan, too. You know, they say you overcompensate on your other leg when you mess up one leg. So now you know what I'm saying? So, I mean, I I want him to be healthy because I think the Knicks are built to beat the Celtics anyway. I think we're gonna beat the Celtics anyway. Um, I feel it's even more about Philly, but it it's a scarier matchup with Embiid, but Embiid's hardly healthy. But all I want to say is I mean you see me, my nigga. Come on up. I got the I got the shirt on, perfect timing.
SPEAKER_01Shout out to all the standards. Shout out to all the standards.
SPEAKER_03I got a hundred on the clips, nigga.
SPEAKER_02What are we talking about? And the woman's just Stephen A. Smith. I'm looking for everybody.
SPEAKER_03Yo, I got no problems, bro. I got no problems, man. I'm just trying to see my team win Knicks and six and all that good shit, man. What are we talking about? I'm gonna go through the rest of the game.
SPEAKER_01And it was a historic win, too. First time we didn't win that by that much.
SPEAKER_04I used to be a Knicks fan.
SPEAKER_01Like, you mean you used to be a Knicks fan?
SPEAKER_04Okay. Anyway. When Nate Robinson was on the team, Nate Robinson is my guy.
SPEAKER_01That's actually.
SPEAKER_04Like, I know my state. He's one of my team. Q Rich is actually a great name. That's a very great name drop. I only know him because he dated Brandy. Sorry.
SPEAKER_03I didn't know he did. That's a great that was a great name drop, though. I never think he dated Brandy though. Did he really?
SPEAKER_04He got a baby. They got a baby together. Do they really?
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_04Oh shit.
SPEAKER_03I didn't know that.
SPEAKER_04See that?
SPEAKER_02But shout out to the high.
SPEAKER_01Why should they?
SPEAKER_03Out of all people she chose him. Rich was never like, what do you that got? Shout out to the biggest one.
SPEAKER_01Talk to you. Put together 24. Definitely trashed him last year.
SPEAKER_03100%. But let's go through it. So uh Knicks win their advance. Big shocker, bro. I had I had Denver. You had Nuggets. You had Minnesota. Clearly I was wrong. Minnesota. Not only that, they did it without AE and D Vincent. Yo, that young dude is just Shannon Jr. Oh, Tara Shannon? Yeah. Yo, that's a young bro. That that's a young man. He made himself some money, bro. Jaden McDaniels, bro. Talking shit and backed it up, but he was talking about, yeah, we're gonna win no matter what. He was on he was on that type of time. Shout outs to him. He's like none of them could defend. Um, I I the Nuggets, bro, you know, I was thinking about this last name and I was watching it. Um the Nuggets are where the Milwaukee was a couple years ago with the roster. They might have to seriously consider blowing it up and making trades. Because when the Bucks were at where they like they didn't know what to do, they're they're gonna have to do that because the it's at the first round exit. Nah, what did he say?
SPEAKER_01So so he was doing an interview with I want to say it was Neon. Okay, what did he say? And it might have been Aiden Ross, one of them. But it was like, oh, what you think about the the Nuggets Timbow series? And he's like, they should have never traded me. I mean, I don't think he would make much of a difference, but he was so he could. I don't know, bro.
SPEAKER_03He would never be hurt anyway. He's always hurt, but anyway, um Nuggets are in a situation where they have to decide what they're gonna do. Joker, you know what Joker is? Jokic, the best player in the extension four years, 200 million. That's his contract extension. He's getting that. I don't know. I'm saying that's what he's gonna sign. That's that's what his that he's worth the bag. That's the bag. You don't fuck up.
SPEAKER_01But one thing I will say though is the the the way, the easy going way he used to play before, he might have to change that now with the whole I don't care attitude, just because Rudy Gobert put him in. Uh I think his legacy is still too. No, legacy, yes, for sure.
SPEAKER_03I just think that the team is just not there. Like they have some bad contract. The Christian Bond contract kicks in this year. That was a terrible contract. Gotta figure what they're gonna do with him, maybe move him. Jamal Murray, I think it'd be questionable to be traded. That's got a big contract. You know what I'm saying? So I just think that the roster got old really quickly, and their window is still open because you have Joker, but it's gonna be a different type of window as you move on. Um, we got game seven tonight between the Cavs and Raptors. RJ Barrett. Shout out to R.J. Barrett, man.
SPEAKER_01They didn't play tonight, but I still ain't. Nah. I think they're all today. Nah. Okay. They just played yesterday. Oh, you're right. That was yesterday. Yeah, RJ Barrett hit the water. R.J.
SPEAKER_03Barrett, the game winner. So you got that. Um, you got the magic in Detroit. I tried to tell y'all, motherfuckers, stop playing on K's name. Y'all woke up a fucking demon. It's a whole hotel, nigga. There's a whole lot of K haters out there. And I I'm not a Nick, I'm a piston, I'm a Knicks fan. So I'm not a piston fan. But the disrespect that they was giving this nigga.
SPEAKER_01We name dropping too. We name dropping too. You know, I can't say friend of the pod because he actually owned the pod. But your boy, he was 2.1. Like a lot of people. He's not, but your boy, your boy Ant was throwing shade towards Cade just for Shay.
SPEAKER_03Um everything wasn't worth it because the niggas are fucking. I told niggas like he's a hoogler. At my job, everybody, oh yo, use up on K. I'm like, because the nigga's nice. Anyway, let me just let's not digress. Sorry, Britt. Jordan let me digress. Yeah. We got that. So here's some tea for you. You know, uh, what's this guy? Durant uh Andrew Reese. Yeah. So she dates Wendell Carl to play for the magic.
SPEAKER_04She posted.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, she'd be in hella petty on the game, but I say Angel.
SPEAKER_01No, I mean not shit like this. Shout out to Angel. She had she had a nice debut in the preseason. She won actually. Against her old team, too. They won against Chicago. Big shout out to Age.
SPEAKER_03Andrew Reese will make a post if they uh Wendell Carl don't get it done. They blow away. They, I think they shot four for 36 or something like that in the second half. I've never seen nothing that bad for the magic, but I think the magic's biggest biggest problem is, like I've been saying to multiple people, bro, Bane is the best player on that team. It's not Paulo, Bane Carroll. As some people like to call him PB, no Jay. Bro, he is too sloppy at times. In times like this, it's what happens. He's still too young. They I know Farns is hurt, so that kind of fucks him up too. But they're in a bad situation where I'm pretty sure they lose game seven, the way it's looking. Um, you got what else we got here, bro? Lakers, they did win. I never thought they wasn't gonna win. Right. Put the respect on his name. They were they weren't they were still up in the series. They were still up in the series.
SPEAKER_04No, I'm talking about in that game. No, they've got a few. No, no, no. Yeah, they have to show me maybe I seen a different clip. Raymond.
SPEAKER_03All right. Ramon. They destroyed them.
SPEAKER_01They move on. So you got that work. Oh, no, no, no. Don't don't skip over them so fast when you was whole monologue. You're gonna give King James. You're gonna give King James his energy. Because my man was hooping. 41 and still doing what he does. Everybody. Especially you want to give a shout out to Stephen A. Smith. Remember, he said they was gonna get swept. Swept where?
SPEAKER_03Anyway, swept where Lakers move on to play. OKC. Excited to see how that plays out. Nuggets move on. I mean, Timberwolves move on to play the Spurs. Who you got? You got the who you got? Wolves or Spurs? There's no. If AE come back healthy, he's out for like a month.
SPEAKER_01It depends. Because his injury, he could come back a little early. If he could come back, then I see them like winning that series. Like I said, I had them winning the chip. But without him, I think the Spurs might be able to get it done.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, so we'll see. Um, I do think Nuggets and I'm sorry, uh Sixers and Celtics. I'm gonna go, I'm gonna take the underdog, I'm gonna take the Sixers. Man, if Jason Tatum is not healthy, I know the Celtics have played better without Tatum with the rest of the year. But I saw something online that said Derek White turned into Terry Rozier. He must have money on himself for sure. He must for sure. So I don't know what happened to Terry White. I don't know what's going on with Derek White, but again, that's another team that has to have to reconstruct the whole roster after this. And then you got the, like I said, I got the Pistons beating the Magic. And then you got the Cavs and Raptors. I think the Cavs went at home and faced the and faced the Pistons. So we're gonna move on to our favorite topic. Well Brittany's favorite topic. The relationship topic, Britt.
SPEAKER_04My favorite topic.
SPEAKER_03We got there. We're an hour in, but we got there. It's been a good hour though, y'all. I think it's been uh progressive hour. We had a lot of things to say.
SPEAKER_01It's a whole lot of hate from that side. Anyway, you know. So I never thought I would see the day that we have black women hating on women, but it's cool. That's cool. Don't let him gas. Don't let him show you. That's what he does.
SPEAKER_03That's what he likes to throw the line out there and try to roll you back in. Don't let him do that.
SPEAKER_04Moving on. Moving on.
SPEAKER_03Go ahead, bro. Take it away. Go ahead.
SPEAKER_04Well, actually, Joe, I want you to start because you played this video, you know, before we started filming and you was going in as usual. And toxic and all that stuff like that. Um, headman holla. Okay, but it's okay. Do you feel like women, when they have a good man, they don't appreciate it?
SPEAKER_01I think at times women can be unappreciative when it comes to like when they do have a good man. But I think a lot of the times that stems from like sometimes you used to like men just not being shit to you. So that once you get exposed to that one guy who actually is the stuff that you want, now you start taking advantage of it. So like it's like, all right, if he don't show you that energy all the time, or he decides like he wants to like let's say hang out, but he don't normally hang out, and you feel as if like you know, you're not getting the attention at the time that you want it, I feel like that's when the like the appreciation tends to decline. And as the man, especially because like you know, I've been through situations like that, as the man, you just like be looking at yourself like yo, what the fuck? Like I feel like as if I'm doing everything to make you happy and I'm giving you the stuff you asking for. So why instead of the appreciation, I'm getting like talked down to, or like the respect is not there, or you start treating me like as if I'm these ain't shit people that you've been dealing with.
SPEAKER_04Right.
SPEAKER_03I mean I think I never dealt with something when Jordan dealt with because these are toxic as hell, nigga.
SPEAKER_01I mean, I I don't I don't no, but that's the thing. I don't think that that's really a toxic trait. Like I said, I feel like as if when you expose people to things that they're not used to, sometimes it's hard for them to just accept and fully embrace all of that.
SPEAKER_04I agree. I think that so I'm sorry, I want to talk to them.
SPEAKER_03I hate when people say that because I think to me that's like the biggest red flag at times if I'm messing with a girl day and whatever, or trying to court whatever, and she says, Oh, I never let God do this for me before. So they're cracking off of less. That's what you're telling me. They fucking off they fucking for less. That's what you're telling me. Yeah, but that don't mean she's gonna give it up to you right away. That makes a nigga feel even worse. If I'm doing all these good things and you still not let me hit, I'll I'll feel even worse.
SPEAKER_04But I I hear what he's saying because I was that girl, right?
SPEAKER_01No, I don't wanna hear that. Like, also he don't date for intention, so that's like that's
SPEAKER_00I'm not lying. Anybody is lying. Everybody is lying. It's you. It's you. Like you stood on you stood on that more than one week. You did. You constantly. So I just feel like it's a little outside right now. It's a little bit different when it comes to that.
SPEAKER_04No, I definitely I feel like women don't know how to appreciate a good man. Um I think that it takes time to really, but I think what you're going at, because from what the video was saying was him and Holland was like, I'm going out one time with the guys or whatever, and you're still complaining about it or whatever. Women girlies don't get at me, but women are always gonna complain. Like I feel like y'all guys in general, not just y'all, like it'll be something that y'all female do, and y'all won't complain about it. But she's going off on this, that, that. And I think a lot of guys just hold it in. Like, I know I get on Corvino's, I don't care. But I know I get on his nerves. At the end of the day, he don't complain about it. But me, I be like, no, this, that, that. And I think sometimes as women, we have to sit back and be like, all right, we doing a little bit too much. Like, it ain't.
SPEAKER_03Women actually sit back and say, Oh, I'm doing a lot.
SPEAKER_04I don't. I don't.
SPEAKER_02See, that's I mean, that's accountability on you. Accountability.
SPEAKER_01But often, I mean, we we all right, because we because we definitely had a conversation over. And you said accountability. You may be the sometimes.
SPEAKER_04No, no, no, no. It was about the topic we were talking about.
SPEAKER_03What was y'all talking about? Oh, yeah, I won't get into it. Yeah, yeah, we can't get it.
SPEAKER_01But I do want to ask you, Britt, because like, you know, on a pod earlier, you was like that this is the healthiest relationship you had, and this is the first time that you had someone who not only feeds the intentions that you want, but also exposes you to what healthy is. Right. So based off of this topic, was it hard for you to adjust to that when you first got that? That's a good question, man. That's the first good question in the podcast like in two months.
SPEAKER_04No, um, honestly, um, yeah, it was very hard for me to like things that we talk about on here, like going to parties or having exes on Instagram or uh, you know, different things that we talk about that I had to realize you could be faithful, but respect holds a big thing in relationships. And things that I I thought that was like, I don't give a fuck. Like, I'm respecting the relationship. He he showed me a different way. Like I was able, we were just talking about this, like we teach each other.
SPEAKER_03I think that's something that goes uh missing. So sometimes people don't miss that market sense. Being a provider is also a guy who can teach you things, who could put you on again. That's not always financial, you know.
SPEAKER_04And if I want my man to lead, I have to be able to learn and be submissive. And I think that a lot of times, like females don't see that. And I'm not gonna lie, when he first, like when it was first happening, like I'll say like a transition, right? And it was first happening, I'm like You struggle to submit basically. Yeah, like and I still have I'm not gonna lie, I still have moments where I do struggle.
SPEAKER_03I'm not gonna lie, chat. I've had a good one, bro. I've never had some of these problems that y'all talk about.
SPEAKER_04Really?
SPEAKER_03I'm usually the problem.
SPEAKER_00I'm usually the problem. It's crazy.
SPEAKER_03I got you, my boy. I don't lie on the pod for all these niggas, it's crazy.
SPEAKER_04No, I'm not. I don't have literally these problems. Really? So women come to you like submissive already, is basically.
SPEAKER_03I don't want to say submissive already, but they want to submit or say, yo, why aren't we in a relationship? I usually get that before I think I I could count. So that's so hold on, let me.
SPEAKER_01If we're being honest, hold on, hold on. I gotta cut you off for this. So if we're being honest, that's really the toxicness. Right. Because that means you're a group of women who have no independence. And it's definitely not true. And it seems, and it seems like no exes, they're very independent. And it seems like, it seems like, it seems like that emotionally that they're missing something like confidence-wise.
SPEAKER_02No, I mean, I won't even say that because you say that.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, but that those those two don't align. It's more of a I feel like it does in this sense.
SPEAKER_04The problem, like he said, like these women are coming, like, yo, this is what I want, blah, blah, blah. And he's like, yeah, no.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, like that.
SPEAKER_04I don't feel like that.
SPEAKER_03Then they didn't move on, like, because they are they all work.
SPEAKER_01So you see, that's what it is. That's what it, but they but that's where it didn't disconnect us, because you're saying, like, now you're saying they didn't move on. I never said that. But I you just don't know. No, no, no. I'm saying, I'm saying, like, yeah, you didn't say that before, but now you're saying they didn't move on. But I'm talking about like, in this sense, somebody that you're in a relationship with.
SPEAKER_04But he's not in a relationship, he's not talking about in a relationship with me not talking about the relationship.
SPEAKER_01But that's not talking to join's. But that's what I'm talking about. This question is based off of like women you're in a relationship with. Not now, not now, but I'm saying, but I'm saying you can still talk on like previous relationships.
SPEAKER_03So previous relationships, I've never had a woman say, or unless they had that internal struggle within themselves that they didn't come to me and express to me, I've never had a woman tell me they're having a problem struggling to submit.
SPEAKER_04Well, I mean, that's not- They're not gonna say that. Yeah, that's not how the conversation goes. Okay, well, I guess it comes up in like an argument.
SPEAKER_03So Okay, in an argument, I've never had that come about.
SPEAKER_04So like I feel like in relationships, childhood trauma and is a big thing, right? And I think the way you are raised comes out in your relationship. And um, you know, I I feel like I was raised mostly by my mom, right? But my father was in my life or whatever, you know how that goes sometimes, but I was raised to be independent. And if I'm dealing with a man who leads now, so you had the hyper-independency factor where you're just so used to doing it on your own.
SPEAKER_03Right.
SPEAKER_04So it was like, and and the issue is I'll I'll be vulnerable and put it like you know, uh a recurrent issue that we had was like, I want it done on my time. Because I I'm always used to doing it, like that's legit me, nigga.
SPEAKER_03Like I don't be that's what I'm still saying.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, so it's but that but that's what I'm saying. So you see how she's saying that as the independence portion, a lot of women who feel like they're super independent. Yeah. So I think this do have to happen on their time. Right.
SPEAKER_03I don't I agree with you, and this is a conversation I had with my dad recently, and not to this isn't actually not toxic at all, but it like a conversation that people like to have a lot on both sexes is what they bring to the table. Oh, I bring this to the table, oh, I bring that. You know, like that's something that goes on regardless of the sex, right? But so when me and my dad was having a conversation, and while I was pressing to him about where I'm at in my life in the stage of just being comfortable where I'm at, is yo, bro, I have a job, I know what I make, I make good money, I got my own spot. I'm also a parent, I cook for myself. I feel like I'm I'm not in a position where I have there are some, like when Meg said not to throw on the bus, but playing house, I know a lot of bulk niggas that play house because they can't afford to move out. I know a lot of niggas that do that, and I'm not gonna throw women on the bus, I don't know that many women who do that, but I know a lot of niggas who play house because they can't afford to move out.
SPEAKER_04You have women that are not on your level either. Yeah, no, you know what I'm saying?
SPEAKER_03So I I think it comes to that. So when in you're in a space with Cora, you're able to be vulnerable, which is great, and have these type of conversations and these nuances that can transform the relationship, which I think is great. Me, on the other hand, like I said, I've been my I'm usually the problem, which I'm I'm fine with admitting because yeah, I mean, I know who I am.
SPEAKER_04Maybe you toxic number one and Joel's number two. I don't think that makes me toxic of Joe.
SPEAKER_01I don't think I'm toxic at all. I think it's delusional. But this is but this is but this this is the thing though, Jay, because like now when you break when you break some of that stuff down, it's like if you did find a a woman that presents like some of the stuff that I'm talking about with Brit, that's gonna force you to transform. It could, or I could also let her go too. But I've got to be. But that's the toxic thing. Because you're saying you're saying I don't think that's I am who I am.
SPEAKER_03I'm not saying who I am and I'm not trying to change. I'm not, and I could get why you're saying that, but I'm also saying I just don't want to, I don't want to do that. You don't want to deal with that. Like that's that I don't think that makes someone toxic. If I'm able to look at I'm reflecting on the situation, yo, I don't want that. I'm not saying you're not great. I've I've I'm not only like had the title, but also indulged and entangles everyone's. I've had met I've had the I've messed with more good women than toxic ones.
SPEAKER_04Okay.
SPEAKER_03So that's the best way to put it. Okay. So but that comes from your standards. That's what I'm saying. I don't even think that's standard, it's just the people that I've attractive I've been fortunate enough to attract that. Like I've I don't have those horrible, like I might have done a handful of toxic things in my past that's like real like crash-out moments, but I think everybody has that. But I don't I'm not in a situation where I where I know some people, they've had the worst dating experiences, this and that. And I also think it's fine to be a red flag. Yeah.
SPEAKER_01Because if you're a hero in every story, you're clearly the problem. Yeah. But this is the thing that that comes down to it too. Because like you say that you had good women, right? Like all your women that you have been good. But that's only because they like, from your standpoint of view, the reason why they're so good is because they never actually did anything to they never did anything to be like negative towards the things that you want or the things that you see. So you can't really judge based off of them being good because there's there's nothing that's like counteracting. Oh, I think Bribo's gonna be confident.
SPEAKER_04Hold on a second. No, I'm about to say after knowing him. I feel like he's like uh he's strict. It's real strict over here. Like a strict program?
SPEAKER_03Uh I really don't.
SPEAKER_04I feel like the women try to give you you said it yourself. If they try to give you an ultimatum, it's like that's not strict though. That is a strict because some men will budge.
SPEAKER_02Well, because I'm a born-ass fucking man, though.
SPEAKER_01And that's the thing, because like as a human being, as a human being, like, like let's take us, right? Like, obviously, in your like, let's take your career, right? Here's a perfect example.
SPEAKER_05Okay.
SPEAKER_03I wear shoes in my house.
SPEAKER_02I would not be told.
SPEAKER_00I cannot wear shoes in my house. That might be true. But what I'm saying to you is, right? Like, take a job.
SPEAKER_01Take a comment, take a take a job, right? Take a job. You know, you see a promotion, you go for the promotion, right? No, just listen. You don't want to be stagnant, you don't want to be stuck in the same place. Okay. But it seems like Jalen is just comfortable being stuck in the same place. And if somebody brings the opportunity for him to evolve and change, that you're not willing to evolve and change, even if it's for the better. That's where the toxicness comes from. I understand I agree with that.
SPEAKER_04I understand what he's saying, but I also don't agree because I feel like he wants to be, like he's having fun. He's chilling. Like, I mean, he said he lived in what he has to do.
SPEAKER_01You're having fun. I mean, no what's going on. You're having you're chilling. And I'm not saying that you're in a rush, but what I'm saying is the fact that you're not willing to at least budge and try to try to improve on what this became what it would take. I'm just saying, the fact that you're not willing to budge and improve an intervention.
SPEAKER_00Oh, yes. So let this be the intervention, you know. Jalen. I don't have a problem.
SPEAKER_04Anyway, but back on the topic, I do feel like um, you know, some women don't know how to appreciate a good man. Um, and I think shoutouts to the good men, right? Shoutouts to my man. Because it takes a lot of patience and it takes Jalen would have gave up. Jalen would have been like, nah, fuck this shit.
SPEAKER_01You would have never been past J2.
SPEAKER_04Fuck this shit out. And you know, it's sad, and and and us women need to stop and re and heal before we go on to that good man. Because you know when you got a good man, and it's like, you know, you need to Well, I say this all the time, but like it's I can't stress this enough.
SPEAKER_03It is 50-50 when it comes to the ancient woman, the ancient man. It's 50-50, it's down the middle. And unfortunately, at times opposites do attract, and that's just the way of the world, you know. The game is the game, as people say, you know what I'm saying? So I I I I can't say that a lot of women don't know when they have a good man, but I do feel like a lot of men also know when they have a good woman either. And that's you know what I'm saying? So when you when you flip the switch, shoot or shoot. You know what I'm saying? When they when you flip the switch, and that's why Jay-Z got the best line ever. When a good girl's gone bad, finish it, Brit. She's oh damn, nigga. On forever, on forever, nigga. Oh, why are you gonna need to finish a Jay Z? I know because I because the hate, the Jay-Z hate, just I just wanted to see if it was real. I thought she was gonna be able to finish it. But clearly it's real, yeah. That's disappointing.
SPEAKER_01Anyway. Wait, so we're saying if you don't listen to Jay-Z that you hate him? No, she's No! She said on the podcast, nigga, she's not a fan of him. She said it. Oh, so so that means Jay is that means Jay is also hating on Ye. Uh I just wanted to say that again. All right.
SPEAKER_03We'll be at the end.
SPEAKER_01Anyway, all right.
SPEAKER_03How about like 118? I don't want 18 minutes. We could the left. Hey, let's get it. We got the next one. That's the one you just talking about earlier, but can you tell when a man is hiding you? Sean, listen up, because you're gonna love this topic. Because Jordan always swears to you.
SPEAKER_04I better meet Sean, because I don't like the way y'all be coming.
SPEAKER_03Nah, Sean's our guy. I love Sean. Hiding is crazy.
SPEAKER_04Hiding is crazy. I think definitely hit a few. He definitely hit a feel.
SPEAKER_00Hiding is crazy.
SPEAKER_04No, you definitely could tell. Like, you're not, you're not. So I said it, Ophelia.
SPEAKER_03Hold on. Because when you bring about you bringing yourself, the only way you say a woman is hid a person is hiding their partner is via social media.
SPEAKER_04Correct.
SPEAKER_03That's the only way.
SPEAKER_04Or say it, right? Like, say the first time y'all met Corey, I was like, hey, this is Corey. Like, why is there no title to it? Or something like that. You get what I'm saying? So, like, um, it's different ways you call someone outside of social media, but I think social media is within it. It's the main thing. And I mentioned this earlier in the pod, like, we had a conversation where I was like, Corey don't post me like that, or whatever, like that. He don't post me. He's not on social media. I do post Corey more than he posts me. Like, he posts me, maybe like, I could count on my finger, but it's not something where I'm just like, oh my gosh, he's hiding me. Yeah. I know he's not hiding me. Like, everybody knows who I am. I be in his group chats. Like, they know who I am. Shout out to the chat. Shout out to the chat. But no, like, they know who I am.
SPEAKER_01So it's like Corey, she's making you look bad. When your people see this, they're gonna be, oh, she in the chats, huh? Like, absolutely everything.
SPEAKER_04I don't be in there like that. Like, whatever. But um, no, I don't you could definitely tell when a man is hiding you, you know. Um, if we're supposed to be going somewhere together and I gotta walk in, and then you walk in 10 minutes later or something like that. Like, what's happening? Why we can't walk in together? Like, what is that about?
SPEAKER_00Like, or like, yo, remember we just had that outing and we try to interview that couple. It's like, oh no, hell no. Yo, hell no, the girl wanted to stay and do it.
SPEAKER_03And you hell no. So a quick recap on how that played out. She was in Central Park. Y'all obviously have seen the vlog by now, but there's this one couple who Britt definitely wanted to interview. So good. It's the girl, you could we stopped to ask her, can we interview? She her eyes lit up. She was like, Oh, yes, I want to talk about my man. That's the energy she gave off. Nigga woke past us and said, Hell no, and kept it pushing.
SPEAKER_04Yes, he didn't even stop.
SPEAKER_03I said, That nigga do not want to be on.
SPEAKER_04And it wasn't they had a nice fit on. I hope they watched the pod because they had on Gucci. They had on a nice fit.
SPEAKER_03She was it was the ideal demographic we were looking for. But I digress. Um, to touch on this real quick before we wrap up, uh I me personally, y'all gonna say I'm lying, nigga. I don't think it's everybody's business who I'm dating, so I'll I'm notorious for not posting chicks. I've been notorious to get in arguments with girlfriends on why don't you post me enough. I've unseen both sides of the coin. And all I could tell you, Brittany, is I ain't changing, nigga. Please gotta go on the beer because my thing is, bro, I don't put yo, bro. Like, I told this story numerous times, and people I hate when people ask me cop stories and I give them one and it's not sort of anticipate. But I tell the story all the time to coincide what I'm talking about, on how it's 50-50. I remember, bro, to this day, I would go to this job or whatever, and it's a domestic call, and they got into a huge dispute. They it got physical, hands-on, hands-on, right? So, in a situation, usually at times it could be cause complaints where we arrest both parties because you can't just call now I want to inspect, oh, just because you call that person's gonna get arrested. That's not how it works. But anyway, when we got there and they got into talking, we got like, oh, why did you guys get in like such this big fight? And she was like, Oh, he doesn't post me on social media, this isn't that.
SPEAKER_04Like, she like was fighting over that.
SPEAKER_03That's what they so hold on, it gets better. That's what like sparked the argument. So that's why she was upset. He doesn't post me enough, blah blah blah. That when I get to talking to him, he's like, I'm like, yo, bo, like what's going on? And you know, at times guys are a little more defensive or reluctant to tell him that a woman's putting hands on him. You know what I'm saying? At times hard to break that wall of build that rapport. But in this situation, after we did build that rapport, he was like, Yo, bo, she had the nigga say that's Captain Hook. I said, Who? She's fucking some nigga, then she mad. I don't post him on Instagram. I said, nigga, this is what I be talking about. Imagine, imagine, imagine you sleep you cheat on Corey and you got another nigga saying under Captain Hook. Come on, my nigga. What that is this is crazy. That's crazy. That the hook is crazy. Yo to Captain Hook, whoever you are, because you clearly put that girl in a different place. But this is what I'm saying. Like, I I don't I don't put weight in certain things that it holds no value, bro. To some people, perception is reality, which I get, but to me, my reality is my reality. What I post online, nigga, is none of your fucking business. Yeah. Like it, and I tell I usually tell this to women off rip and say, oh, so if you don't post, you don't think that's a red flag? No, I don't post my fucking social security call. I don't I don't have to put information out there. Anyway, I don't have to put information out there if I don't want it to. And like I don't, uh bro, to me, as a to me, as a grown man, if your issue is your girl's not posting you, bro, you got bigger issues within yourself. That's all I'm gonna tell you. That's all I'm gonna tell you. As a grown, like, that should not hold any rate as a grown man.
SPEAKER_01You know what I'm saying? Too serious. I'm gonna be honest with you. I'm on Jay's side with this one. Like, it's just I don't I don't do all the posts. Like, you know, you get a birthday post. Like, or you know, we out on vacation. Yeah, like you know, birthday posts, you you get like, you know, we out on vacation, we out on vacation.
SPEAKER_04You just motherfucker asked me to die. So what would you like to do? But do you make it known that that's your girl? Yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_03I mean, if you post, I mean not, because I post my cousins and shit, and it's not. I say it's my cousins, yeah.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, you know, you you post- I know people that date someone, sorry to cut you off, they date them and they just be like, happy birthday, nothing else.
SPEAKER_01Nah.
SPEAKER_03Don't post me though. Oh, you know what's the worst one is the niggas who oh, I don't say niggas, because niggas do this too, and I think you actually sweet if you do this. When you date someone, then you hide their face with an emoji.
unknownI used to do that.
SPEAKER_03Well, what do we do?
SPEAKER_01I think that's corny as shit. I didn't know that. I'm posting with the Kelly.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, for sure. I think you do it. I post them with it.
SPEAKER_04But you see why I did it? I'm not with him no more. So I think that's it. No, but you know what though? Like, that's toxic shit, bro.
SPEAKER_01It's like with the Kelly. It's like, like you said, it's nobody's business, like who you're dealing with. And I'm gonna be honest with you, a lot of the times, like from at least I can only talk about my instance, right? So let's say when I was single and I be trying to go smack at certain girls, maybe sometimes it'd be like, yo, dub, dub, dub, dub, dub. Soon as they see you start posting somebody or they see you in a relationship, that should be changing. I I've had girls, I've had girls intentionally hit me up, and it's just like, yo, when I tried to talk to you before, you'll get yourself in trouble. You know what I'm saying? No, no, no. I'm not I'm not saying that anything like that. I'm not saying that anything like that is happening now, but I'm just saying, like, there are instances where that happened where like females will only try to talk to you now because they know you in that relationship.
SPEAKER_04Me and Corey talked about this, like we're doing a pod, you know, we have conversations, and I'm like, yo, I'll be talking about you a lot on a pod. Like, women gonna be like, oh, he's a good one. I think that's they probably gonna be like Brittany toxic a little bit. Oh, I could steal him from her. Yeah, like he has a running joke, like, wait till the Corey revealed on the pod. I'm like, y'all never being revealed. It was a long story.
SPEAKER_03All right, so uh let's get ready to wrap this up, y'all. What are y'all looking forward to this week, man?
SPEAKER_04Um, oh, single de mayo. Taco Tuesday. It's gonna be 80 degrees.
SPEAKER_02Oh, word? Yeah, it's a lot of fun.
SPEAKER_01I also know they celebrate and a lot of places are celebrating single de Mayo like this weekend. For real? I didn't know that. Because um, it falls on a Tuesday, so not a lot of people.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, I'm gonna be at Dirty Taco in Takelo. You know about that spot? I don't know.
SPEAKER_01I don't.
SPEAKER_04You don't? It's in Rockville Center, but it's lit. Me and Corby went last year. It was it's a it's a lit spot, but don't worry.
SPEAKER_02This this I'm outside. That's where I'm at. I'm outside. This is kiss.
SPEAKER_03I got a hundred guns of honeyclips, nigga. Um what about you?
SPEAKER_04What's your what's your name?
SPEAKER_03Um wait, no, yet. I'm not sure. Go back to work. I had a scary moment actually happened. This just popped into my head. I had an eye exam. The nigga said I had diabetes. I got misdiagnosed. Wait, wait, before we end up, real quick.
SPEAKER_02No, wait, real quick. I always die.
SPEAKER_03So one I die getting a doctor's exam now, it's like mad AI involved. They put the thing, you get and you talk into it. Yeah, I'm talking to the fucking shit as they test in my eye and it moved it justice. It's real fucking fucking AI gives fucking I am legend vibes. But anyway, so as a it's I talked to the the doctor on the virtual brick screen or whatever. So I stepped out and came back in because I had to try on different career contact. So I guess my file got mixed in with another person's file. So she says, Oh, how are you doing? Blah, blah, blah. And oh, your that your blood level seems good in your eye. I know you have diabetes. I said, I was on my phone texting. So I heard diabetes, and I'm like, Did I hear what? And she says it again, it's like, yeah, your diabetes. I said, Who has diabetes? You said you. I said, I thought you knew. I said, Yo, you have the right person. She said, What's your date of birth? I said, 8134. She said, Oh, you're not who I'm looking. I said, Yo, bro, chat. He gave the birthday. What's the social? Yo, this is crazy.
SPEAKER_02I'm gonna wrap it up, y'all. We'll be back next to me.
SPEAKER_00Y'all, what I'm looking forward to. What you looking for? Uh damn.
SPEAKER_01I ain't looking forward to nothing. I'll just play.
SPEAKER_00I'll just play. We out of here, y'all.
SPEAKER_03We'll be back next week.