Two Vs. One

Get ready for a massive new episode, joined by special guest Yolonda,  as we dive straight into the wildest headlines, relationship debates, and cultural moments hitting the streets right now. First, we're asking the real questions: is NYC actually prepared for the absolute chaos of the upcoming summer with the NBA Finals and the World Cup loading up? We also break down the heavy news surrounding Matthew Perry’s mother and the shocking accusations against his former assistant. From there, we transition into the ultimate loyalty and lifestyle talk, dissecting Floyd Mayweather’s unbelievable $175 million friend fiasco, the toxic modern reality of social media micro-cheating, and the official, unwritten rules of friend groups and "spinning the block" on an ex.

Then, things get completely out of hand in our "Yeo That's Crazy" segment as we debate bereavement fraud at work —you won't believe the craziest lies people have told their bosses. Finally, we cap it all off with "The Her Segment," featuring some highly anticipated Wally Questions. We're dropping our ultimate go-to pick-up lines, exposing the everyday things society normalizes that are actually toxic, and getting brutally honest about the reality of relationship hall passes. Would you actually go through with it if you had the chance? Don't miss this packed episode—hit that subscribe button, and follow our social media page for updates on the pod. 

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Hey y'all, we back episode 14. Um let me ask y'all if your partner wanted to pee on you, you wouldn't? Absolutely not. No. Damn. I mean, I considered going to Dubai, so I'ma take a little golden shower. Nasty niggas. Your mother's gonna see this. She probably took golden showers too. She taught me my ways. What's up, y'all? We back, episode 14. Y'all see about to be a 2v1 this episode. Love it, dear. Brittany, how you feeling? I'm good. My best friend's birthday this weekend. Actually, I did not know that. Happy birthday, Yolanda. Thank you. She looks good. It's Gemini season. Shout out to all my Geminis out there. I love you guys. Can we talk about the hair? What's going on? I got it from Sheehan. You did ask? I'm so serious. I got it from Sheehan. $5? Coupons, you get to shit from free. Usually I get my wigs from AliExpress, but you don't like it? I I just at an old place, I would never thought you say you got it from Shein. Feel it though. Imagine you fluffy all fluffy. Come here, fluffy. That's a clip. Yo, Brittany, how you feel it? I'm good. I'm good. I'm excited. My best friend back up here, you know. You can't hear it. I'm in the bootstrap. Let them know, let them know the free feeling. What's my motherfucking name? I ain't gonna fight. The last episode, the Knicks will win game four. I'm proud of y'all. About 40. See, check you out. I'm here for y'all. Yo, Wally, I appreciate the merch. I'm here for y'all. Wally? Wally cop this for me. So shout out to Wally, because a lot of your questions that you sent me, we asking today. I appreciate you walking the jackets from Amazon. Oh, that's what's up. Yeah. But she was cracking on my Sheen wig. I trusted fucking Amazon way before I trusted Sheen. It came quick though. I would have never thought you said Sheen, so it is it is valid. I'm not gonna lie. I'm not gonna lie. But I feel like the city's about to be like in the move. It's about to be lit. Did you sign up for those um tickets? I did, I didn't even win. Which way, which one? The next one or the FIFA one? The FIFA one. I did. No, no. So I saw it was a deadline. So deadline's like 10 o'clock in the morning. Yeah. So both times I signed on like 10 5. It was like frozen. Yeah. Yeah. What are you talking about? For the World Cup. So you know the World Cup is so good. It's giving out like Ah, okay, okay. Yeah. Yesterday at 10 a.m. I was trying to get the Travis Scott sneakers. I don't even wear sneakers. I showed my legs, but they're ashy. So I wanted to go there, but I didn't want to see it. Yo, I appreciate you wearing the fuck. I look down and say, I'm not gonna see it. Not too much. Not so much on you. We're not gonna do that. But no, this is gonna be a lit summer. You know how the summer's gonna sound? How's it gonna sound? Like this on the one. So the next one is chip and got the party. Oh, is that championship? I don't know if she understood. Y'all disrespecting me. Okay. Let's get into it, y'all. Shout out to my New York Knicks. Yeah, I see the temperature check, man. I feel great. That's a good feeling. Do you watch sports? You wanna know? I told you, I'm into like the college sports. You did say that. I did. Like, I'm not. The energy don't feel better when the Knicks is winning. Like, I know you feel it. You might not even watch, but I don't even feel the energy. I feel the energy. It's really lit outside. I'm not gonna lie to you. That's what I'm saying. What outside? It's really lit outside. Outside, you feel it. It's raining outside. Nah, it's lit. No, I have a list. She's on one. I knew her fault. Okay. So, Britt. I'm gonna ask you, Britt. Because what? You think the city's ready for if the Knicks possibly win the championship? Or in general, because the summer's gonna be, the way it's looking for the summer in New York City. This might be crazy. I think people are gonna act a fool, and that's what is gonna be crazy. Because you know, sometimes people don't know how to act. And they was already what standing on top of cars, and they was walling in front of the Madison. So crazy. I love it. I love it. I love it. Look at my roof. Look at my roof. Yo, Father, shout out to Father if I've never seen Father. No, but they're gonna be crazy. But I'm ready for the energy. I'm here for it. Some about to be lit. Our birthdays in the summertime. We allow to be lit. Oh Lord. Wow. We gave you your shout-out. Don't do that. Gemini season. Anyway. Yolanda, how do you feel in general with the city being this lit? Do you feel like you're willing to be does it make you want to be outside even more? I do want to be outside more, but I also want to be inside too. Like when the light comes on, the street lights come on, I need to go inside. Yeah, the curfew? No, but that's when it that's when all the that's when all the the chaos and the rendezvous and all of that. The shenanigans. That's true. That's true. All the shenanigans in the game. You know, outside. Does Corey give you a curfew? I'm sorry, what? I'm just curious. I don't think there's nothing wrong with that. Like he said, like be home by 10 o'clock. What the hell are you doing with your lips? Um, no, not a curfew. Like, if we go out, we probably go out together or he meets me there. Like if you all like without a channel. If I'm out with my girls, if I'm with this one, that was crazy. Nah, I don't have a curfew. Like, but I do do if it's past like a certain time, I'll be like, yo, Yolanda still got me out. I want to go home. Nine times out of ten, I'll be lying. I'll be having a good time sometimes. Why am I catching strains today? What about you, Yolanda? Do I have a curfew? Do you ever like if you're dating someone? You feel like, oh, I should be home by a certain time, like a respectable hour. Yes. 7 a.m. That's why I made that face, because she don't listen. We fet. We fed. I looking at you the party. I don't know what that means. You don't know what a fet is? Nah, don't know. You gotta hang out. Oh, like a fet, like a party. Yeah, yeah. That's a Caribbean saying. Yeah, that's a Caribbean. That's why I was lost. That's a Caribbean saying. Yeah. You know, whole of vibes, whole I missed. Yeah, but I don't think seven a I don't think I've ever been out past 7 a.m. for a party. So you never done Juvay? Yeah. As a police officer. Yo. You know how far apart where he is from the Bronx, nigga? You gotta, you gotta go out. Like to go out with your Londa to a party. I don't feel safe when I wear your Londa. I am just catching strays today. Wow. I mean, I could agree with you. Yeah, like I don't know. I mean, I've been I've been out with her. We had some crazy songs. Like we ended up at a party and they I think they shut the party down. How was party or actual club? No, it was like outside uh backyard party. Oh, those hit them. Shut it down because not shut it down, but they close it. Like nobody people nobody else could enter. Over capacity in the backyard. Basically. Guess what Yolanda had us doing? Hop in the gate. You know I'm a big girl. Everybody squeezing through the fence. Oh, come on, what are we doing? We had to fees squeeze through the fence. Come on, what are we doing? I had a good time. I have stories to pot about. I told you I don't feel safe as the vibe. It's safe enough to get stabbed, just not shot. One and the same. But anyway, no, it didn't feel safe. That's uh switch topics. So Matthew Perry, everybody knows Matthew Perry was recently on Friends. And so we recently saw that uh trial just happened this past week. And the assistant Kenny, I forget his last name is Kenny something. But it's a weird last name. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I don't want to I don't want to botch it. But he was sentenced to believe six years in prison for basically aiding and assisting in Mr. Perry's death, or the mass, however you want to say it. And his mom did uh come out with a leather and cord and basically blaming Kenny for what happened to her son. So for those who don't know, Kenny did have uh battle with depression his whole life, and most people who wrote not most people, but some celebrities do uh tend to turn to ketamine, which is used to help fight depression, as amongst the other obviously it's a drug addiction, which is what led to his uh demise also. But Kenny did play a part in it. And so my question to you, Bray, overall is William Thought, and also like if you had a this is the moral compass, you think, in his job? Because you mentioned working from home last episode, how you come to working from home. Now, if you're someone's assistant, especially a celebrity assistant, would you feel comfortable going and going on a drug run for a celebrity? No. Fair. So it was two, it was a lot of things with this. I never watched Friends. Have you ever watched Yeah, I've never been here? I wasn't the biggest fan in the show. Yeah. You ever watch Friends? I know he is, though, I wasn't the biggest fan of the show. I never watched Friends. Um, I mean, I don't take away from what happened to him, Rest in Peace, or whatever. Um, I think I looked at how much he was paying him or whatever, and like, I don't know if you know, but I used to be a nanny or whatever. They paid me. I know that. Yeah, I used to be a nanny. So, you know, nine times out of ten, when you're a nanny, housekeeper, different things like that, when you work for certain type of people, you're off the books and you collect a lot of money or whatever. And so he was paying him. How much were they paying you off the books? Off the books? Uh I was making about like $3,000 a week. That's not bad at all, but yeah, so off the books or whatever. But you know, some families they give you benefits, some IRS. You got me incriminating myself. They about to catch me. I gotta pay back years. But um, no, like, you know, some families they look out for you, they give you like a 401k, different. Oh, that's not why they do that either. Yeah, they do that. Like, I won't knock anyone that wants to be a nanny or a housekeeper or different things, you know. For us, our culture, like some people be like, oh, why would you want to work for the white man? Or, you know, different things. We'll get into that another time. But he was only paying his assistant, I think, like 100k. If you look up like personal assistance, like if you want to be like a personal assistant with. Diddy have that thing too with Diddy was like he always his personal assistant was only making like 65,000 or something like that. Do you know that there's like lawyers that work in Manhattan, they pay their personal assistance like over 200k? Like, it's like a website that you could when you submit your resume for like a near any housekeeper and stuff like that. Sharing, please. You could you get and then sometimes it'd be remote. Sometimes it's like you go in the office one day. He was paying his assistant a little bit less. So I looked at this story a little bit different. I remember, and now less and when you're assistant, your own call 24-7. Right. Whatever I need, you have to pick up your loan and whatever I need you to do, you have to do. I don't know if it was he was getting paid, you know. So he was just like, whatever, you want to kill yourself? Like, you know what I'm saying? Because that's how I looked at it. Like, I'm not getting paid enough for that. Like, or whatever. So if you wanna, I feel like people don't people think about themselves, they're selfish. So you think he lacked a moral compass in doing this? You're not believing his uh his their defense was this is a man who's a multi-millionaire. I'm afraid of him. I can't tell him no. That was his defense. And I don't think the judge bought that either, because I don't think he agreed. Right. Because I mean, you do have like people that blackmail you, black bo or whatever, like that. I I think he could have got another job. How long was he his his assistant for? I think like over a decade, I believe. A long time. I mean, granted, he only did he only played in Friends. Like, was he an actor? No, he didn't know that. He was in the I mean his biggest role was friends. But he was in Boys Will Be Boys, the movie. Oh for he's been in a few things, yeah. He's a I mean, I don't know. That's how I looked at it. That's how I took it. Like, just based off of that, like knowing the nanny housekeeper personal system lifestyle or whatever, he was definitely getting on he wasn't paid correctly, honestly. So if you so you being that you was in that field, would you have been comfortable if you use a nanny like, oh, can you mind going to a cop some like where would the line be? Like, would you be comfortable getting weed? I feel like getting weed is like okay, like I'm gonna text you my dealer. Um downstairs and get the weed for me. I think that I wouldn't be comfortable doing that. No? Really? Uh uh. I wouldn't be comfortable doing that. I would I would probably leave. That would probably be. Like your resignant. Yeah, that would probably be the end. Because it's just you give them an inch to take them out. So I'll accept the weed. Okay, I'm gonna go get the weed for you. Next, go get this needle for me, go get this for me. You get what I'm saying? So it's an open gate, like it's a gateway. Yeah, so I I don't think I would be about you, Alanda. I agree. I I can't see myself condoning that. Just like you said, it's a gateway. Because then it's like, what's next? Oh, get this. And a little bit of lean, get this, or what no. Yeah, just no right off right. So y'all would never even take the job. Y'all would have just quit on the day. Probably. But it's probably not even in the description. No, no, it's definitely not. No, I'm not gonna be able to do that. Yeah, I think it's like an unspoken rule for some of these celebrities. Like, if you're like with Diddy, like we all know Diddy was on drugs, so if you're gonna be his assistant, I feel like you know what you're walking in, right? What you're walking into. But then some some people may not know what they're walking into. They may be oblivious. You can't be that naive. Some people are, not be that naive. There's no way. Some people are. There's like it. I feel like there's like an unspoken rule. No, and I'm not saying everybody in Hollywood uses drugs. That's not what I'm saying. But there's some, like, there are some individuals who they carry themselves. You be like, oh, they have to be on something. So if you apply for some way, if you're some way somehow able to be their assistant, I feel like you have to know, okay, this is what it comes with. I'm not saying I would do that job either. I'm I'm and agreeing, I'm agreeing with you guys that I wouldn't take a job to be anyone's assistant that's that high profile than I openly using drugs. But I do feel like there's this is more of a situation where I feel like he lacks a moral compass because if you know this guy was so far deep gone, I'm not saying that they never tried to do an intervention or anything like that. But it seems that his mom felt strong enough to say this is your fault, that she knew that, yo, you've known him this long. You know how badly he was. If you're I think that they said they on the date of his death, basically they he had three times the moral injection that he should have had. And so also the backstory is that he tried to clean up the crime scene before the cops could get there. Okay, so he insisted. Yeah, no, yeah, yeah. You know what I'm saying? And there's even they even got a text from the doctor saying delete all our text messages. So this is clearly like you know they they knew what was up with it, you know what I'm saying? She's guilty too. Yeah, they were. Yeah, the mom's guilty too. What wait Well, I mean, so here's I don't think she knew from No, you she know. She knew she knew that he was. Yeah, you have to. I mean, yeah, but she said. You have to know. Like you know your kid. Yeah, 100%. Yeah, but how was she? You can't So that's two different things. I can say the mom is at fault, but she didn't they should not know what to do. It's two separate things. Right, right. That shows two separate things, you know. Like I feel like if I know my child that God forbid was ever this far gone and like addicted to drugs, there's only so much you can do as a parent to try and help your child before you realize You can volunteer them into a party. You can, but if they leave. No, I think some you can't leave. No, that's how they will hold you against you if you want to leave you. Unless you're just like a court. That's a court order. You can that's a good thing. That's a court order. Yeah, court order. But if you're a danger to yourself and others, I mean you've been down the 42nd Street. There's a lot of motherfuckers that's a danger to themselves and others, that's women 42nd Street. That is a fact. That is a fact. So, I mean, I don't know, like, but I do feel like it's all around tragedy. Like the obviously, you know, in the mom, I feel for her and the family because in these situations is I don't know if you guys know any addicts. But if you know an addict, they're addicts, you know what I'm saying? Yeah, especially ones that are depressed, makes it like a it's an all-in-one. So you got the addiction, the depression, is it's it's a it's a gateway. Yeah, yeah. That's true. Well, speaking of that, let's talk about it. Floyd Mayweather, what's money made? When I read this, I was like, Where I'm scamming this niggas at play with his friends clearly. No, have y'all ever had a friend who was like bad with money? Talking about, yo, let me hold $20. I'll I'll give it back to you, then ask for another $20. Y'all have friends like that? I won't keep saying plenty like it's that way, but I've I've had a few. Okay, Yolanda, you want to you share? You want to share? I ain't gonna name any names. I I'll let you go first. I don't think I have friends that was like about money? Yeah, like that would ask me for money. No, I don't think I ever had anyone ask none of my friends ask me for money. Never had a nanny actually get drugs, never had a friend ask me for money. I have some good friends. Shout out to my friends. Because I never had them ask me for money. Now that I sit here and think about it. I never had my yeah. Me and Jordan, I think, spoke to this one time on a pod. I don't know if he was on the episode, but we spoke about that. And I think there's a so back to Floyd May with it, but happening is the Floyd May with it is a sit and allegedly saying that his assistant or friend stole more than $100 million from him, signed over a jet, the jewelry, there's a lot going on. They're still in court. And so he's about to clown him. 50 Cent clowns were enough. When he when I heard this story, the first thing I thought was 50 Cent were saying. If you could read one page of a Harry Potter book, that's what I thought about when I heard this story. Because I was like, yo, this is what 50 was talking about. So I believe that more money comes more problems. Naturally, if you're of that upper echelon and have that much money, there's gonna be piranhas around you. That's just the that's the cut, that's what comes with the game. But I've had friends may ask for $15, $20, or whatever the case may be. And I feel like that's okay. Yeah, that's again if you do it once or twice or three times, whereas, you know, then it's like, yo, but why you always need something? Right. Ain't nothing worse than somebody who always you you always down bad, bro. I'm not trying to judge you, but you can't always be down bad, bro. Like at some point, uh yo, but I'll help you find like I will I'll help. We can you need like you want a better job. No, no, I'll help you like trying to find a job before I'm gonna keep it. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. Yeah, like that's kind of like at our big age, like you can't be, oh, I'm still trying to be a rapper. Like, bro, let's let's cut it out. Stop the brakes, you know what I'm saying? So I I feel like there has to be a a line in the same when it comes to some of these friendships. And again, is that really a friendship if I'm always if it's a give, give, it's a one-way street. How is it a one-way street? It's not really a friendship. Because if I know if I know someone's that down bad, I'm not gonna ask them for advice or anything. Because I feel like I how can I? I feel like I look at it like how me and Yolanda are, right? Like, if she don't got it, I got it. Or if she I don't got it, she got it. So financially, you're talking about. Financially. Like, my friendships are like that as well. Like, say we go on a trip or whatever. You never know what could happen on a trip. Maybe I don't have enough cash or something's wrong with my car. You know, when you have on these islands, sometimes your car don't work. Maybe you didn't take out enough cash. When I go on trips, I'm holding it down, I'm saving money, and I got money for the both of us. You never know what can happen, right? Simple as when we go out to eat. I paid for dinner today. I'm not thinking about when she's gonna pay me back. It's more of like she's gonna be like the type of person she is, yo, bro, you had it last time. I got you this song. That's just how we are. If I have a friend where it's just like I'm always like, yo, I got you, don't worry about it. I got you. And I look at my tab, and you're not supposed to do that with friends, right? So if I've if I have to have a moment where I'm looking at it. So you're not supposed to do that, but I think as human beings, it's natural to you, you do. You know if it's a I'm putting it 80, you put in 20. Like, exactly. You naturally do it when you notice, like, wait a minute. This this heifer didn't, I didn't pay for this, I didn't pay for that, I didn't pay for when she gave me, and then then you see her at a party, or you see her going out, and you like, yo, that's my money. Like, that's my money. Well, why why are you looking at me? I'm not I'm not looking at Yolanda, not Yolanda. But it's like, yo, you probably bought that ticket with my money that I lent. Like, if especially what's gonna like hurt me, not hurt me, yeah, hurt me. Because if you're my friend and you borrowing money to support bad habits, like if you know you need money and you're asking me for money to go to a party, where are your responsibilities? Where are your priorities? You get what I'm saying? Like, I feel like at that big, at our big age now, was like, I'm not giving you money to support a bad habit. Or I mean that for in my instance, I think it'd be more so like, yo, let me get $10 for this parlay. I think that's how it is like for guys. I mean, I would assume like that's like the correlation because I don't really have that many guy friends that I know that are actively like in that club, like that. You know what I'm saying? Just not that's another thing, too. So let me ask you, if they win that parlay, would you? Oh no, you got a PC. How much? I don't know, but yeah, what's the percentage? How much did he win? 40. Nah, nah, nah. 40 band or for a parlay. Isn't it? I don't gamble, so I don't know. Nah, but that's like 13,000, like 13 billion? Yeah, let's just say 13,000. That's still a big hit. Um that's fair. Uh that's that fan duel thing, right? Yeah, yeah. It's that fan duel thing, right? Um if if you like, yo, let me aborrow $10. I got this crazy parlay. See, here's the thing, here's the test of the friendship, Yolanda. There's not I shouldn't even have to ask. That is the one. Like, if the bet hit, like if you send me the slip and it hit, I shouldn't even have to ask for anything. Like, if you send that screenshot under that screenshot, it should be uh Apple Cash of XYZ. Um you don't ask, I don't tell. Nah, see, what are we doing? See, that's what I'm saying. Um, yo. See, now here's what I will say. This the I'm gonna answer your question, but I'm gonna just break it down. If that if I know my boy is down bad, like financially, I won't ask for nothing. Like if you like, if I know you're really down, like you really like down and out. I bet yo, I give you ten dollars, I want something. If it's five bands, but nah. I feel like a reasonable person would be if you win five bands, I bet yo, five hundred is fair. Five hundred? Yeah, okay. 500 is fair. You don't think that's fair? No. How much would you ask for? Not half. 1000? 10,000. Nah. I wouldn't, I wouldn't ask. I would do what you said. I would see if yeah, I'll be like, all right, like if Yolanda wins the lottery today, right? I already saw. Her, like I want half. She she laughs at me, but you're not getting that. I wouldn't even give you that. She even told me if I was to become a stripper, she's gonna manage me and still take half. Pimp you out is crazy. Crazy. I would be the best. You know what? I just don't vote for that. I'm gonna take it. No, no, but I mean, to be honest, I wouldn't ask for anything, right? I think that as a friend, like if you just give, you give, right? Yes and no, both. Listen, if you're really down bad, like if I know you're unemployed and shit, like I feel like even if the I'm the type of person, even if I'm down bad, say y'all both gave me $5 each or whatever, and I put it on a scratch off or something, and I win, let's say, $2,000. Even if I'm down bad, I'm giving y'all something. Maybe treating y'all to a nice, I'm buying you Nick's gear, or I'm showing you my appreciation. Cause that five dollars, without that five dollars, I couldn't have got what I got. You know what I'm saying? So I still I respect that. Yeah, like I'm still going. I could I could be okay with that. But like I said, if like I said, five thousand, like five thousand is substantial enough money to where it's like you should, especially if I if you had to reach out to me to play the ticket, yeah. You gotta PC something. Right. You can't. Yeah, like don't be on some right, yeah. Like I feel like that's that goes without saying. But I thought about something before when you mentioned like in the club. I thought about this, Yolanda. I asked you first. You feel like as a like, I feel like as an adult, there's some clubs you just shouldn't be in. Correct. You feel like right, Britt? I feel like that's like I feel like I don't even like the club scene anymore. Like I just mean like I like I just came to mind because I was like, for some reason my algorithm was showing me like the um like I'm a big fan of young younger May. And so I saw she was gonna be, I think, in Connecticut. Oh, yeah, she was she was she did her album release. She was out here in Brooklyn, she did like Jersey, Philly. I think. I haven't heard it yet. I haven't heard her either. But um, yeah, no, so I think I think it's in Connecticut. And I saw this girl comment, can't wait to be there. And I clicked the profile. I was in the streets a little bit, click the profile. And so she was like 35. And I'm like, you I you should not be in a club where there's 18-year-olds. That's just my like I just feel like you should not be in that environment. I agree. Like, you just like if I go to a like if I go to a club and I see this like night, the flyer says 19 or over and begging, yeah, but I immediately like lose interest in going to that type of environment. Like, even with that, you can't really tell because you got people that have fake IDs, so they be in spots where they not supposed to be in, living their life. That's two different things though. Like, I feel like as like as a man, like if I was to go out of the club and I meet a girl and whatever, and we we exchange numbers, and then she gets back to me two weeks later after we went out or whatever, and god forbid had had sex, and she says, Oh, I'm 18. I'm like, yo, but she told me she was 25. No, no, no, that's not what I'm saying. I was saying, like, how you were saying, like, go into the clubs, and like if it says 21 and older, like you're probably like iffy on it. I'm saying in general, I don't like going to the clubs because you have people that have fake IDs and they in there and now they they're like, it's more it's more welcoming if you're in a spot where people are 19, like you know that they're gonna be more of a crowd, right? Right type of like young energy where it's like, yo, I'm not really trying to. Even certain areas I wouldn't go to. Like Brooklyn. Yeah, you're in Brooklyn. Wow, that's so we didn't even talk about that. I'm feeling good. We in my home. Shout out to Shoutouts to Brooklyn. We in my home. You we had a little moment because it's motion sensitive lights in here. The lights in the y'all on the wing and get up something. I'm picking it off, y'all. I'm professional as nigga. I mean, what happened? We in my home, y'all. You know, motion, we kind of fancy over here. You got your shoes on, so be happy. So do you won this week, but it's all right. It's all good. Game on. E in sports. It's been a game. EA sports. Oh, you took a shake that up. Remember? Uh what? I don't know. The sign. No? Okay. Let's hope. Okay. Anyway. Moving on. Because what was that? That's not what he does. We'll take it off the air. I'm not. Anyway. Oh, I like this next one. Let's talk about it. Mr. in the streets. Don't put that on. Mr. in the streets. No, but let's talk about it. Social media, right? Where do you draw the line when it comes to micro cheating? So that's a great question. I wonder who wrote it. Probably you. Most likely him. Heard the author. Mr. Toxic. Probably over. Um, so where do you draw the line? Because Jay said he has an X or X's on. That's not. When I wrote that, it was more so it was in pertains to Yolanda. I'm looking at you because I can't look at her. I feel like every time you look at me, you throw in the shade. No, no, because I know she's gonna judge me before I feel like me and you could somewhat. You just put it on. I don't think you actually mean it. You don't subscribe to that mentality. You just won the shirt, you might have thought it was cute. I ain't gonna lie, for a 2v1, we're doing bad. Come out with the guns. Assist me. He's eating us up right now. What's happening? I'm not so fond of this. Yo, Landa. So when I wrote that, I'm also in the uh I forgot what podcast I was watching. He was like, yo, is there a thing like following the cute girls is a like it is what it is? I feel like sometimes women like just take that as a like it he's following, who he's following, it is what it is. Is it different once the guy's in the comments? Is that where you draw the line? Like, is the like okay or is it being in the comments? The like is okay. In the like comments, a boyfriend liking. Let her talk. Those IG models don't cut her off the house. I mean, like before him. Don't be trying to be on her team. Don't do that. Don't do that. Go ahead, bro. I might like the post before him. But if I catch you in the comments, hard eyes, fitty face, lit emoji, you're about to like fire under your ass. But comments, I draw the line. DMs for sure. I mean the DMs goes without without being sick. Yeah, the DMs is definitely without DN. Um why are you looking at JLy like that? I'm just saying. Have a conversation. This is I feel this is okay. I feel like I feel like I like is okay. I like is okay. Wait, like okay. One, okay, but Pete, Pete. I like this. If it's like, oh, she's at the mall, it's supposed to be baggage, she's like shopping or whatever. It's alright. If it's like if all we're doing is liking the bikini pictures, that's a different thing. I feel like if I'm scrolling on a channel. She could just be fine. Like I collect the filter. I feel like toxic. Toxic. I feel I collect the filter. You see what I'm saying? I feel like. See me your mind just goes and just like the filter, really. Yo, it might be fun. She might have used that LA filter. That LA filter goes hard. He's justifying his toxic cannot. What's the China one? No, don't try to put me in it. Don't try to. You're on your own, brother. No, but I feel like if I'm scrolling on the girl page and I see my men and everyone. That's what I'm saying. Every like is crazy. You can't justify every like. I'm not going to find it. I send Corey. If I see a girl with a big butt on Instagram and I send it to Corey. Like, you don't send it to me. I do be sending it to you. You send me stupid stuff. And along with the big buttons. You just gotta go through the stupid stuff first. Okay. What you mean you're not gonna engage? I'd rather me send it to my man. He's gonna see you regardless. Yeah, in the group chat. Me not gonna expose his group chat. I'm not saying expose. I'm just saying like I'd rather someone get it through the group chat than if I'm if I'm dating someone and she just starts sending me a couple of like pictures of girls with fat asses and feel like nah, this is this is a trap. Really? Yeah, 100%. Wait, what you mean it's a trap? I don't I don't know. It's a trap. If we in the street, I'd be like, oh, this shit fat. I've never dated a girl that actually did that. Really? Really? Never. Wow. No, no. Like never. It's the fact that we both was like, Yeah, like never. Which I don't think is any good. I'm not saying there's nothing wrong with that. I'm just saying I've never encountered that with someone I've I personally dated. The guy's gonna look regardless. I might as well look. I'm a females, I don't know. Again, that's what again, you can't say we look ago because it's like there's times if I'm out with somebody and we're on a date, I might not look, I'll be respectful. Like, if a waiter comes to you to see she's curvy, I'll do my best not to like just do your best, but you probably will look. No, I'm gonna, yeah, like out of respect, yeah. Like, I'm not guys hate me. I could be in a deep conversation. No better than a man. I am no better. I'm like, that's how that's how y'all know I'm not toxic. I'm respectful. I'm no better. But I'm acknowledging it. Corey be talking to me, and somebody walk past, I'll be like this. Yes, yeah. I'm no better than you. I respect you, Cory. Something's clearly wrong with her. But he be looking too, because I tell him to look. So don't do that. Don't do that. So you could tell him to look, but you can he can't tell you to be home by a certain time. I didn't say he could look at it. I don't think something wrong with that, by the way. I feel like that's not, I don't think that's like it's not. Okay, so I think it's a respectful thing, right? Like, yo, babe, I don't want you out there past 3 a.m. Like I I don't young Britney would have been like, you ain't controlling me. Like, who you think you like, you're not gonna control me. But this Brittany is like, nah, I respect you. Like, because I'm out there, nine times out of ten, I'm with Yolanda. Nine times out of ten, we doing things we shouldn't be doing. No? No. Now, what if he said be home by three and it's six o'clock, you're not home yet? And you're unposting. You see, the crazy part is Brit, before we started, y'all Britt said to silence your phone. No, it's my mama. And you said she shouldn't be calling you. I'm not feeling about clean. Not Mom, I'm on the show. Yeah, so I feel like here's the thing. This is what this is why, and this is not toxic of me. This is actually very true. Not that it happened, but in fact, this is how I feel. If you say, hey, can you be home by a certain time? Say it's one o'clock, you're not home, and it goes on 5 30, and you piss drunk, you can't drive. Can you call him to come pick you up? Yeah, but he's gonna be pissed at shit. Shit. We did that. See, don't respect your core, bro. Wait, I last summer we went to your dad's house for the barbecue. He picked me up. Let's put all her business in the street. He picked me up. No, he was there. He came after work. Yeah, he was there. See? Yeah, he was there. He was there because I was when I was throwing up. No. Damn. I mean, it was my birthday. I really only drank crazy. No, it was the year before. It was this year. I did get drunk for the last year. I got drunk for the first time in the club. I was never, I couldn't even drive home. Nice. Yeah, that was the first time. I never got that drunk at the club. Well, you're not supposed to be behind the wheels, anyways. I mean, I usually have a drink or two. Like, I'm not the type to get drunk when I'm calling it. You never got drunk drunk. Yeah, like in a club. Nah, it's not my scene at all. I got you. Nah, you don't. It won't happen. Nah, you don't. I mean, a little drinky drink. Yeah, I have a drink, but I like for my birthday, it was actually like I was. Run punch? Huh? What was the drink? Run punch? No, this giving me everything. It was like it had like a little get together at the club and uh probably a long island I see. Like a mixed shirt. He mixed who the fuck drinks long island iced team. Nobody drinks the long island ice team more? That Caribbean niggas is different. Hell no. I have a long island iced tea in fact. What's wrong with the long island iced tea? Why? I like the Hawaiian one. That one's good. Nah, yeah, look. They got a new one in Red Lobster. So not to get off topic. I went this week, I went to watch the playoff games with my boy Rao at Applebee's. I used to couldn't stand. I thought Applebee's was beyond trash. I went in there. Applebee's is yo, they got the Don Julio joints for like $15, though. Like Yeah, yeah. Yo, over $15. People be trying to sleep on it. And they got the $15 appetizers. Yo, them shit dying out. That shit was so. Yeah, like Applebee's is a chill, so I feel like a lot of mostly females, they want men to take them to like these restaurants where they gotta spend all this money or whatever. And even if I'm not a big girl, like they give you a square on the plate. Like, how is that gonna fill you up? Like, come on, even the skinniest ones, like a square on a plate just to say you went there. Like, I'm not having my man pay $500 for a steak that I'm not about to eat. Like you ever been to uh Veronica's? Where's Veronica's now? And it's oh, you gotta Google it's like this. You're spending $500, but it's like one of the best restaurants I've ever been to in my life. Really? Is that on your restaurant list? Nah, because that's like an up restaurant. That's not kind of on it. Okay, I'll check it out though. Um, the Victoria's, I forgot. Start with the V. Anyway, I'm not gonna. You had me until you said women on my. I'm not, I I don't date like high maintenance women, but I don't know a girl who would say, Oh, let's just go to Applebee's like as a second or third date. For real? Yeah. You don't know anyone? Not when I've dated. Really? Maybe like maybe once we're like established and we're like actually like have a title. Oh, yeah, we go to Applebee's, like that's cool. Like at a second or third date. Not a second or third date. I'm not taking Applebee's. You're not doing it, but you say no. I don't even think they would be okay with it. I mean, I wouldn't even be okay with it. So I would Why? It's just not like I'm not I was like, I truly was never the biggest fan of Applebee's. I always felt like it was like easy. Nah. Why couldn't you? Absolutely not. They got sticky wings. Why though? They got sticky wings. Wait, but why though? Like one, okay, one, if people who know me, people women who've dated me definitely know this. I hate chain restaurants. Chain franchise restaurants are just not my thing. Like, I don't recommend them. Like, they're just not. Like, I live in New York, I will go to a regular restaurant. And if it's and if if it's a if we go to that place and we miss on the food, gotta chalk it up to okay, we miss on the food, it's whatever. But I don't like I hate franchise restaurants. That's just not that's just not my speed. Okay, I can understand that. Yeah, that's just not my speed. I mean, Yolanda was shit ache. I'm with it. Like, the second date he says, oh, let's go to Applebee's. Yeah. I'm better than me. I'm real chill. Because it's not saying you're not chill. My first date with Corey was Daven Busters. I told you that. That's different, though. That's competitive. So there's a competitive nature of Daven Busters. A lot of people will look at it like Dave and Busters. Nah, that's a solid first date spot. Because it's interactive, it forces you guys to talk. Like, that's the way a lot of people look down on it. Yeah, they're expecting that high maintenance and no. I don't want all that. Save that money for the trips. Exactly. Save that money for the chickens. I like my chickens. You said what? I like make chickens. I like make chickens. So let me ask you this. Oh, this just flops in my head. So y'all said save it for a trip. Do you have to be a couple to take a vacation? Don't lie. No. Okay, so you dwell on it first because I was looking at Bri. I thought she was gonna answer my question. He was looking at me first. I know, I was thinking about it. She's in a cucus she's in a cup, she's in a relationship, so I'm just asking. So I had to think about it. Yolanda, what what are the parameters? But what are the parameters if someone has to say, okay, let's go here? Is it like same sex or co-ed? Wait, what do you think? What do you mean same sex? No, he's saying like if you're messing with someone. No, if you're messing with someone, yeah. Do you have to does he does he or she have to have the title before you guys take a No. No. No. I think if we're in a situation, let me take a little calm trip or whatever, but I I would prefer us to I look at things, and I told Yolanda this, like I look at certain things like I'm gonna do that when I'm in a relationship. Like I just feel like memories, memories um that we share or whatever. So like certain places, I'm like, oh, I'm gonna do that when I'm actually in a relationship, so we could look back on this memory. I I I think it's beyond foolish, but whatever. You think so? I don't agree. No. Yeah, y'all should agree with him for the person. Yeah, I don't think that's like this is the two against the one. Yeah, that's the two v1. No, but I mean lightning. Like I've what'd she say? It's about to start raining. I think like I've like in my history, I've gone out or taken weekend gatherers with a woman who I'm not in a relationship with. No, you're saying, okay, so like for example. No, it could be a weekend gathered, or it could even be fucking DR. Like, I don't like No, I'm not saying that. Like, I'm like, okay, let's talk about um the Maldives, right? That's not, that's not. But that's what I'm saying. Like, I wouldn't go somewhere like that on a trip like that with someone I know I'm probably not gonna do. So you're you're talking so okay, one there's there's a there's brackets to a flex. So NBA nigga could take someone to the Maldives and just just be people like us that go to the Maldives. That's that's that that they didn't they just fucking? Yes. Yes, not fucking lying. Cool. No, I'm not gonna say their names. I can't say that names. Jalen, why are you doing this? Because I know y'all lying. No, I'm lying. We're dead to me. It's three gentlemen. And we're just fucking. And they're going, they're taking them to the game. Because that's their favorite, that's their favorite girl, yeah. I mean, like I said, there's some flexes that niggas got. I don't care how much I'm making. That's what I'm saying. Like, if I'm in a situation also, I think I also think they're lying. There's no way. No, I can't prove seriously. Off camera. You want to see? I'll show you off camera off camera. Off camera. But no, seriously. Like, I look at things like that, like, I'm not gonna do this with this guy because I want to save it for like that special. I so not to get off topic, but we're poding, so it's whatever. But I do when I ask the question the way I flip it, the way uh we call it toxic or whatever, but the way I see it or think about it is like I understand if we take if we take a trip anywhere, obviously we've already had sex. I think we all could agree. If we fly out somewhere, we never slept together, we're flying out just to sleep together. I think we all could agree on that. That is correct. Right, we could all agree on that. So if we're flying out, we're we've already been intimate, but there's no title, I think it's okay to fly out somewhere because you're feeling like this. I feel like it's the same way if I'm going to a fancy restaurant. Like in Spanish, they call it like a Baja panty spot, like a panty dropper spot. So like a spot that has like a waterfront, whatever. I I could you could not be my girl, but I can want to experience this with you. I don't think that makes someone toxic. Now, if you create the boundary and say, yo, I want to go to the Mall of D's, but you have to be my man first. I could say, okay. Like I can respect, I could respect that. But I I think the Mall of D's is a live against place. So I'm not gonna just take my favorite girl to the Mall of D's. I mean clearly. People live beyond. I mean, it it depends certain people, certain guys, you know, certain females, they and it's not just on the guys, like certain females want that scammer to take them to this nice place just to walk. That's that's that's that's that's a different layer to it too. So like if you're dating someone who has that opportunity or does that lifestyle too where they're scamming or it doesn't count. I'm not gonna, it doesn't count. The gentleman I'm talking about, they they have the flex, they have the means to do it. That's different. That's if you have it, but if you're like a scammer to me, it doesn't count. Okay. Because the ex the experience or the the the experience opportunity that you could provide for them is not the same as someone who actually is like working hard, working hard for. It's different because you could you could always do it because you have the means to the opportunity. Yeah, like you have them, yeah, like you have the means to so it's it's like it's different. That's and that's not even hating. That's like real shit. Like if you're no I agree. You know what I'm saying? Like it's not it's not the same thing. All right. I mean, I agree. I agree and I disagree. I get it. I get what you're saying. Like I get what you're saying. Like, just because you're a friend, now you want to agree with her. I got her. Okay. She didn't leave me hanging a little. Let me hang it a little. It's okay. Brittany's type of person, she's like very into the moment. She likes things to last forever. Like, she cherished moments and stuff like that. She's not the type to live in the moment like that. Like, she looks long term. So, like she says, she wants to look back on these memories with her special person. Which I get, but she's even like friend groups, right? Yeah. Like Segway. I don't I don't think there's a trip we've been on where there's a friend where like, uh okay, maybe. But there there may have been a trip we went on where there's a friend like I don't speak to no more. And now it's like my memories are kind of have negative, like, uh outlook on it. Cause it's like, dang, like, we really had this trip together. We had a ball, and now we barely speak to each other. Like, I do. I've had those because I've I don't like you know, stuff like that. I don't like, like, yeah, that's why we travel together. I mean, or because you just don't have friends. No, she has friends. Oh, wow. He tried to he's trying to do it too. I'm trying. He's trying. You're trying so hard, but you're by yourself. That's fine. I stand 10 toes down. We missed you. Nah, fuck Jolie in here. Fuck out of here. That was crazy. Fuck out of here. But nah. It's the fit. I'm feeling myself. The energy that we might have to do. But nah, so um, so going back to the what you were saying about friends, so that the next topic was that what are the rules to like the friend chats, to the to the group chat? There are rules because we got into it with I mean, Joe and we were talking about last week. We mentioned the group chat. Not saying we had a problem with mentioning the group chat. We don't care because we're not exposing nothing. But we're not, we don't care. We all we do is talk mad shit in our group chat. But I do feel like this is mostly pertains to women. I feel like there are times where women have these group chats, and I think it's in my I'm gonna go from my experience, how I said I never had women who had complained about Applebee's. I've had plenty of women who I've messed with or dated who the group chat goes in shambles. I feel like it's like a normal, it's like a routine that at some point for women the group chat is always in shambles. Because I like I yo, what's up with uh Mariah? I remember she's in group chat. Because the funny thing is about women's group chats, and I get excited about talking about this. Because the funny thing is, the shit do be juicy. Like the shit y'all that y'all be talking about in the group chat, like y'all shit in it. Don't ever leak mine. Like it should be juicy, especially if you're messing with a girl or if it's your girlfriend or your wife, whatever the situation, whatever in whatever capacity, is that there's sometimes you don't want to hear your girl's bullshit drama, but there's sometimes the shit is entertaining. And so you yo, you'll come home with everything, yo, babe, what's up at What's in there? Yo, this bitch she's not in that group chat no more. You won't believe what I'm just like, yo. The group chats being shit, God niggas is not like that. Like, we're not, we really not. But I feel like there's an unspoken rule to some of the women's group chats that I think you have to shine a light on, Britt. Unspoken rule? Don't lie. Unspoken for a reason. Right. Like, what are we talking about? Okay. Um, no face, no case. I don't think it's an unspoken rule. I think you're allowed to help me out here, girl. Tacti. Unspoken for a reason. Exactly. It's unspoken. What my client is trying to say. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Um, let's put it like this. In a lot of female group chats, it's always like you have the alphas and the betas and you. So you have you guys have those roles. Your group chats not like that. Nah. Like my main group chat's called starting five. Like the Miami Heat. There's like an all-star. Like, that's like my main group chat, but we don't really have that. But continue. So without saying too much, it's like you have some females who wants to be the main character. Some, you know, they're probably jealous of that, or whatever the case is. And then you kind of see it play out in the group chat. So the problem is most of the time is that you women don't know your role. Whoa. That's what you're saying. I didn't like how you put that. That's what you're saying. It's not not knowing your role. It's more like a shine a light on them. That's a role. That's a role. No, I think everyone in a group chat, it depends on the female, right? Because if you got females in there, you got the one that, you know, have the same story and you like. Like the same nigga or whatever. Yeah, here come this girl. And then you have some that'll show that, like, oh, bitch, okay, we dumb with you. Like, we don't got time for this right now. Just ignore her and she in the chat. I wouldn't say ignoring. I do. Well, chats are do not disturb. I wouldn't say ignoring. That's why I ain't got no friends. I would honestly I can't, to be honest, I have less female friends. I have more male friends. And Yolanda Covalta. I hate when women say that. No, it's true. I don't have a problem with it. I just hate when women say that. Why do you hate that? You just can't play nice and in sandbox with the same, with the same sex? No. No, that's not. She just answered. She said no. No. But that's her. No. What for me, a lot of times, you know what? Let me let me backtrack. Don't backtrack now. Don't backtrack. Let me backtrack. I'ma own myself. I'ma own myself. I'ma backtrack. You can have, you put me for me, right? I put certain females in certain categories, right? Because, as you said before, it's always drama with females. My male friends, I could go to them, I could be like, like in the past, if I was in a relationship, like, yo, bro, let me tell you what such and such did. Like, why you talking to her? Like, or why you talking to him? Like, they, y'all straight up, like, dudes would give a straight up answer, not you know, care, do anything, or whatever. A female is like, okay, that's how we become that nine out of ten, like that 90% or whatever, that go back or blah blah blah. When you talk to a male, they give you their perspective, right? So the the male, like if we're friends, like we we are friends, but like we used to call me and say, yo, this nigga cheated, and you back to me again, but yo, you stupid, bo. Like, I think the advice is the advice. And that advice I would like better than the oh girl, go talk to your girl. Okay, yeah, yeah. But that's nature versus nurture. That is true. That is true, right? That is true. But then it's also where, like, hanging out with females for me is it's just it's draining. Yeah, like it's so. Like my sister, shout out to my see, they my sister got on my ass last episode because I didn't shout them out. So shout out to O'Kara and Brielle. Shout out to them. But they do, like, I know O'Kara was like notorious for saying, like, she doesn't, like, some women just get on her nerves because they all too too draining and shit. She's draining. Like, my bros, like, literally, I and don't get me wrong, I have female friends. Shout out to the female friends that I do have. Obviously, they in my life for a reason, right? But I do have like certain people, it's like, girl, you are draining me. Like, guys are draining too, though. Yeah, it's easier to be able to do that. Like as a friend, like I said, as a friend is kind of different. Cause I don't feel like we're not that niggas are in high maintenance like that, like, especially as friends. Like, no, but then like, if you have like an attractive female friend, and then like he's always in drama with females because he has all these other things that we're gonna do. You mean the guy's attractive? The guy could be attractive, but I mean if he has like attractive female friends. You saying like your guy, if a guy is cool with you and your female friend is attractive, he'll be annoying to you about that female friend. Yeah, or like like like like putting me on with the friend? Yeah, like one of those. As a grown man, you can't do that. You can put you on something. Well, it depends on your friends. But like, is that your friend? Because you know my friend group, we all friends. So, like, none of them are on some type of time like, oh, she's unless I meet someone new, like someone that's not in the friend group, they be like, oh, who that? Like, she, you get what I'm saying? But like, nobody So wait, so when I'm hearing Yolanda, so Yolanda, what you're saying is if you have an attractive friend, you won't put your friend on. No. Which is fair. Like, uh, but as an adult, she's big on that. That's fine, but as an adult, so can your friend put himself on? No. So that she's just strictly off limits? Yeah. Because she's been in situations where when it goes bad, she's the one to blame. Uh no. No, I got stories. I feel like as a man, see, pedite, pette. Because I feel like as a man, that's like you gotta hold that one. As a man, you can't you can't blame the friend. Like, because he was at that point they're asking you to choose. No, because if you're my male friend and I know your intentions are not pure from my friend. But what if she just wants a good time too? So you can't do that. Because she could see they can't do that. Because you could know your friend, but you don't know if they just they could be telling you one thing, but they can't do that. You didn't really put me on, but Sakori. But you didn't really put me on, and I wouldn't say he, I would say y'all not friends. Y'all talking about inside jokes and shit. No, no, no. I'm talking me, I I we. Yeah, yeah. You, you, you, me, I, I, we, we, you know, stop that. Like And look where that ended. Look how that ended. I mean, but the intention wasn't too much. Yeah, you can't, but you can't say that. You can't you can't block my blessings because you don't want to you want to protect your friend. Absolutely. And I did. But she might want to just give it up. She won't. She did. They got your friends number clear, the nigga hit. Because here's the thing, right? I'm trying to see what is she saying. No, I I don't condone that at all. I know you don't condone it, but you allow their consent, they're adults. How's I gonna stop you? That's what he's saying, man. That's what I'm saying. Exactly what I'm saying, actually. That's the thing. But if you come to me or if I know about it, I'm not condoning, I stay away from it. The lesson. Did I not stay away from it? Like I didn't that's yeah, however, you stay away from it, but you will always be the middle person, regardless. Exactly. And I don't want to deal with that. So say, like, um, we're all friends, right? Obviously, right? And then I'm not friends with Jalen. Yeah, I see I don't engage in negativity. So you put Yolanda on to I don't know, give a name, give a random name. Joshua. Okay, Josh. Right? You put Yolanda on to Josh. Josh is coming to you when Yolanda does some stupid shit, like, yo, why she that's the difference. I'm I'll get what you're saying, but I've had friends who go, yo, put me on. I'm not putting you on with none of my friends. You're in the. No, no, but no, no. I you're in the dough. You can put your own. Like, if like if Yolanda was still the Yeah, like I'm not doing the, I'm not being like, I'm not, like at the output age, I'm not doing that. Now, when they do do that hookup without you, and he comes to you, what happens? I'm telling you for the back, yo, bro. This is so this and this is like this has happened to me before, so I'll have no problem. I'll be like, yo, this is their history. Like, not the whole car fact, not like I'll be like, she's known for this, or she's been she's messing around with X, Y, and Z. Whatever you do, it's on you, but don't put me in the middle of it because I'm not like I'll hear you vent, like if y'all that's the even if both of the parties was your friends. Yeah, like you could like if you could hit my line of yo, X, Y, yo, Joshua. Like, if because what women like the thing about women is women won't say that they mess with the person. Unless it's like they're like really like it's like you and Yolanda, like you and her, you guys would shit like yo, bitch. We have message. Well, a guy, women won't really do that. They'll be like, they'll keep it on the low to until it's like yo, it has to. The woman from my friends that I know, they won't tell me. Wow. They will they will not tell me why. I maybe embarrassed, or maybe like most women are just profit, like they don't want people to know who they're messing with. Like for whatever reason. Not all the time. It's gonna backfire. I was gonna say, when it backfires, that's when you're like, yo, you know what I'm saying? So at that point, it is what it is. But if you put me on, or if you say if my two friends happen to cross past and now they mess with each other, granted, I'll tell my boy, or if they come to vent to me, like, yo, this X, Y, and Z is this, they may have coined, which is your intel if your feelings are your feelings. So yeah, right. You can feel how you feel. You just want to vent to me because I know both parties. Okay. But I'm not gonna tell you to choose. Now, if they now here's the thing. If they do you super dirty, that's a different story. Like, if they end up being together and then let's say Joshua cheats on Amy or Amy cheats on Josh or some crazy shit, I gotta pick sides. Okay. Like, I have to pick sides at that point. I'm just trying to understand how Joshua left me for Amy. Because yeah, all Joshua wants to do was smash. That's like nine out of ten times if someone sees you, they didn't they and that's it. And that's why I don't condone. Which is fair. You cannot condone, but you can't stop them from doing it. Call me a cop blocker. That's crazy. I don't want to deal with it. I don't want to deal with that at all. Like, I just can't. It's because of her experience. Which is fine. But speaking of dealing with it, I'm gonna do a segue. Yes. Shout out to you. Let's talk about it. Yelanda, I'll go to you first. Since you don't want to deal with it. Brittany, for the last couple episodes, has been saying women go back nine out of ten times. That's what she's been saying. She's been documented, it's been expressed, it's been clipped. So that led me to thinking, since you were on the show, it's gonna be 2v1 today. Two women's, I would love to get a woman's perspective. What are the rules for spinning the block? I'm just confused. You want to be on a party. You wanna be positive. So bad. Guys, Jawala's calling me. I'm not answering. Uh, what are the rules? Just a life update. I am back. Yo, that is hilarious. She definitely just spent the blood. I am back. Um wait, come out. Because everybody got on me, like, yo, she needs new, you need a new friend. I ain't gonna lie, but you're supposed to see. I ain't gonna lie, a lot of people, especially you girls, was texting me saying your Brit's not a real friend because she's throwing your wand under the bus. She knows the girlies were sticking up for you. I ain't gonna lie. The girls that watched the show, they were sticking for you. But there's limitations, and this is where you know but she came back. So, or the girlies that wanted to say, you're not a real friend. You put it in the atmosphere. I heard that. She went back. Okay. So we have light. Wow, shine a light on them. Okay, so the question is what are the rules for spinning back? It depends on why you're spinning back. Like, why did we leave in the first place? I I told you that off camera. I feel like that. Yes, it depends on why. Um cheating. No, stop with that. That's not a like you're gonna I that I do believe. Like you're gonna, like, cheating is not here's a perfect. We had to have this argument in the car with with a girl I was working with the other day. I said, are you okay if a guy cheats on you, or if he cheats on you and he pays the girl's bills? Ooh. Fuck you, honey. You say it all the time. But what which one will you be more comfortable with? Like if he's just cheating on you, or if he's cheating on you and paying her bills. I feel like I'm comfortable with either. That's not that's not the question. Because it's happening. It's happening. So that's that's that's the thing. There is no I can't choose, it's happening. Um I mean, if he pays the bills. You're not gonna be okay with that. Most women would not most women will I think would be will will accept that not accept, but be like, okay, he cheated, whatever. But oh, you're paying the bitch's bills too. That's the point that could be in our pocket. I think it's not that we accept it, is that we're more in a shamble of what to do because he is financially supporting us. So it's harder to be like That's a hard pill to swallow. Right. I I agree with you, but that's what I'm saying. Just like, for example, let me let's flip the question. Because this happens sometimes. Not you in particular. But if a woman you mess with pays your bills or like be like, I mean, it's rare type of. But some men, don't get me wrong, you have men that stay at home and the woman does everything. Not me, but you do, but it's not this. I know it's not you. But I'll have a hard time with a woman saying she'll pay for the date. Okay. But Britt, I'm sorry, Alonda. Um, the rules. You gotta come back different. Um when I say different, like you gotta apply a certain amount of pressure and uphold that. Now, is this to be, here's the thing. Britt, now you can also try me now, obviously. But is this to come back different? Now you guys trying to be a thing, or is this like just a fling that's spinning the block? In my mind, I already cut you off emotionally, so for me it's just a fling. But a lot of times with guys, when they fuck up and they start spinning a block, they come back with like a new story to sell. And it's like, okay, now that you're trying to tell me this story, I need the book to be As a habitual block spinner. I couldn't agree that we will block spinner was crazy. Yeah, toxic J. She's just as toxic as me. I've been told y'all she's toxic, but everybody wouldn't label me as a bad friend. Fuck. I just want to put it in the air, like you put that in the atmosphere for me. You was gonna tell on yourself regardless. That's funny as fuck. It's so pretty. I think it's the pro. Stupid ass pro like Angela Davis and this motherfucker. Yo, look at that. She did not like that one. She did not like that one. Yo. Excuse me. Excuse you. You were able to get rid of me earlier. I'm gonna give you back, bro. I always got your back. What are the rules, if there are any? Rules to spin in a box. So now you want me to incriminate myself. I'm the 90%. You were. I were. I was the 90%. I was the on beat in the don't be them. And on business. Oh, look, look. So let me stand on business. I was along with my best friend in that 90 percentile. Yo. What happened? Strays just keep coming. She reload all she does is reload the clip and pull it right back at you. All she does is load the clip. Nah. Pull it right back at you. Spinning a block is fun, says toxic Brit. Fun was yeah, that sounds hella toxic. Yeah, that was toxic. I used to be toxic, y'all. Bad. Bad, bad, bad. Spinning a block is fun. Like, Yolanda, aren't you having a time right now? Only because my birthday is coming up. Y'all niggas is your one right now. Yo, y'all niggas is crazy. You're trying to secure that trip to the Maltese. That was a good one, Jay. That was a good one. No, seriously, Toxic Brain is going into the chat real quick. Spinning the block is fun. Jay, spinning the block not fun. Yo, but don't get me to talk. Don't get me to tell myself. Let's really be real about it. When you spin the block and that sex hit. Uh if you can't talk. No, in the beginning, it don't. No, no, no. What? Which one was that? That's how you sound. You ever saw that? You ever saw that fucking meme? Guess who I'm fucking again? Back again. No. Look at my finger. I don't have Kobe. No, Cersei though. Spinning the block is. I feel like here's my thoughts on it. Because I feel like I think I said this last week, I'm not sure. When I was like, I hate when there's like post-breakup or someone wants to be all philosophical. Like they want to post nothing but motivational tweets and motivational quotes. I'll be like, yo, bro, I'll call bullshit immediately because I know if you want to spare if they was to let you spin the block on them, you 100% would. But remember, I told you that. When a female, you know, when a female is single, or you know, we talked about this before. Certain females post certain things because they know it's that one dude waiting for them to spin the block. And let me not air nobody, let me not look that way before people think I'm looking at my best friend again. It's certain people that would post certain things or know what to post because they have that one person that's waiting for them to spin the block. Voila. That's all I'm saying. I think the rules of engagement with social media makes things more difficult. But I do think, like Yolanda did say, I do think there is a rule to how bad the how bad was the this this is the spin the block is not only for relationships. It's only for like flings or whatever. It's not just, you know what I'm saying? So I think jobs. Who? Jobs too. Going back to a job? No, that's a whole different dynamic. I'm not going back to a job. Some people would. Some people would. I I was in a training for um a job, and a guy said he came back because of the flexibility. That's fair. A lot of people come back to my job. I ain't gonna say, but people come back. That's a fair point of view. That is, that is true. That is true. But when you talk about spinning the block for significant other, I think the dynamic simply is how bad did we how bad was the breakup? And nine out of ten times another factor is are you sleeping with or messing with somebody else, which is a big thing if they are or they're not. Or they can be messing with somebody else and their shit trash. So another reason why they come back is because I saw what's out there, I don't like it. So I prefer the devil I do know it's better than the devil I don't. That that's another thing too, because I don't know if you ever you ever seen your favorite eater get married on Instagram? Yeah, I'm you're in a relationship, so I ain't gonna ask you. So your favorite either get married or be in a committed relationship, you don't be like, damn. No, they still single. Well, there's there's that. Your favorite eater is still single? That's what she said. It's on tape. It's documented. No, I She's trying to figure out who it is. I was trying to figure out who the fitting either was. That's not I wasn't trying to air you out. I was really just trying to figure out who the fitting eater was. She's doing it below in the cliff and then she wanted right back at you before that shit is gonna be. No, no, I was just you know what? Woo, okay. Wait, hold on. So, Yolanda, you're talking about jobs, right? Let's get back into the job. I like you. I like with it. Yeah, find your Joe out. We love your Joe out. Um, we talking about jobs, Lloyd. Y'all gonna have me air myself out. You know what, Jalen? Take it away. Just yet. I didn't know you. I didn't be like that. I didn't know you was gonna line it up. Fire, I'm on fire. Let's get it. Yeah, you are. My co-worker that fucked around and got fired for bereavement fraud. How the hell you get bereavement fraud? Y'all let me know if this is a fireable offense. Y'all what so the dude was basically saying how his homegirl got fired for bereavement fraud, which is, I think, I'm not gonna lie to you. That is up there for a crazy way to get fired. Lying about the dead to lose your job is kind of crazy. And so she points the gun at Brittany. Britney done lied on the grave, y'all. Ain't you a Christian? We're not doing it. And on the Bible. Alright, y'all, cause Jalen's gonna make me say it anyway. How much obituary did you write? I didn't recreate obituaries. I didn't definitely in the chat. I'm gonna tell this, yo. But I only use family members that died already. So, like That's crazy because you think that makes it any better. It's not how that works. Maybe we dying twice. Like, if like Cousin Pookie died in 2000, 26 years ago, I use it. They don't know when cousin Pookie died, so yo, that is like crazy. But am I gonna tell the story or are you gonna tell the story? You should tell it. Alright, so me and Yolanda used to work together in Boston, right? And we honestly didn't know how to get out of this job. Like, we wanted to go back home. We was homesick. We worked in the charter school. Lord have mercy if they watch this pod. Um, and we had to speak to like the director of the program that we worked for or whatever. And you know, you're in film, right? Cast me, you know? Put me, put me, put me on site. Um, we had a meeting with the director. Yolanda didn't know what was going on. I literally looked at Yolanda. I said, follow my lead. That's all I said. Um, rest in peace to my cousin, because he actually really did die. Um, I mean, it happened in 20, in 2000? It happened like 10 years ago. Nah, you know, you're not getting condolences from me. We it's crazy. We worked in Boston, what, 2015, 2016? That was like five years removed from the just about, right? Um, and so, you know, he was asking, like, what was going on, why did we want to leave? And not, I had I told him that I needed Yolanda there as an emotional support. Because you would have thought I was her dog. So Yolanda came as my emotional support person. And um, I told him, you know, like I'm going through it. My my favorite cousin passed away, and it's been a hard time. I'm not here with my family, I'm not there with my family. My family's from New York, blah, blah, blah. But you know, one for all, all for one, Yolanda wanted to get out too. So his question. Was well, I mean, you could leave, that's fine, but you know, Yolanda didn't state why she wanted to leave. So I had to go in, y'all. I started crying. Yolanda looked at me. I was like, Iola Davis. I started crying on the scene, right? And I was like, because my best friend, she's my emotional support. We work together every day. We and where we live, like they paid for our housing. Yeah, it was like a teacher's program. It was like TFA, Teach for America. Yeah, so like all the teachers lived in the house. I mean, you could it sounds lit, but it it wasn't it wasn't lit. You work with these people and you gotta live with them. That and you you got you guys don't know each other, right? So the only person we knew was each other. Yeah, so it was I mean, we met some lit people, however. Yeah, yeah, but um, anywho, started crying, you know, and he was just like, all right, I'm so sorry. Oscar goes to Brittany. Thank you. But I mean, I use it a lot. I'm not gonna lie, like that's actually that's crazy. I use it a lot. I would have took that story to the grave. Literally. We potted. We part it. Um, I don't think wait, can I go to Joe for this for real? No. Okay. I asked ChatGBT what I was scared. I was like, should I expose myself? Like, will I go to Joe for this? I don't want to drop the soap. Just no. Other companies are looking. Yo, I hope you know the LinkedIn profile better up to date. Um I don't think I ever actually like told any like crazy ways to get out of work. Like, I don't think. Like you ever seen that video like on TikTok where the lady's like in her kitchen and she's pressing the microwave to make it beep. Like she's had in the hospital. I've never done no crazy shit like that. Like, um, like I low-key, like, I might have taken like a quote unquote sick day and not being really sick, but I mean that's normal. Yeah. I've like I never really hated none of my jobs either that I've had to, like, I've had to. I don't think I hated my jobs, but I needed it, it came a time where I needed a mental health break. And I felt like in order to get that correct mental health break, I had to bring up old Jimmy that passed away. Or that's crazy. Oh old Harry, like it's Britney bitch. It's Britney bitch. No, but no, can I tell y'all how scared I was to talk about this on the pod? I was like, Y'all look at my chat, Jimmy T. I'm like, can I get arrested for this? Like, will I get fired? What is happening? Nah, but I mean, I didn't use anyone that's alive. So To be fair. To be fair, you know, I used actual real family members that passed away. And if it got to the point where the job asked for the obituary, maybe I had to change a date. 1999 looked at looked a little like 2026, you know? Who knows? Like, I could only imagine eight ears ringing. I could oh what? Like, damn. Rest in peace. We're not gonna do that. I've never done it. Like, um, court morale. Oh. What? That says court morale. Oh uh the job I currently have, it's very flexible enough. And I have about I just checked too, actually. I have 250.8 PTO hours. Oh, send me something. Oh, you don't work with me. And I will never work with you again. Wow, wow. Life comes actually fast. That was, yeah, that was crazy. No, because she she didn't even tell you about the time that we were working in Burger King in college and we both got fired. Can't have it your way. Right. See, that didn't work. We both got fired. Whoa, we didn't get fired. Let's correct that. They was racist and they wanted us to m scrape the floors. This is true. This is not your job to scrape floors at a fast food restaurant? At Burger King? Like, get on our name. Oh, I thought you were going to be able to do that. They wanted us to do that. Actually, like, oh no, no, no, no, no, no, no. With some slavery. Yeah, like nah. They bugging out. I'm not scraping nobody's floors. Right, exactly. That's what it is. My people came too far. But to answer your question, though, no, I've never I've never um used bereavement fraud. Why don't you get it? Um I've never pretended to be sick. I've never even cut school before either, actually. I actually haven't either. Yolanda used to get me tight. I remember one time you cut school. And I'm like, yo, Yolanda, come on. Yolanda didn't want to go. You know what I did? I asked my mom. I was like, Ma, can I cut school? I did that too. Like then there was like scene of Digital. I did that too. Yeah. Why did y'all do that? I had to ask permission. Like. Fuck it. Brittany, the bad one today. Clearly. Ricky, Brittany, Toxic Brittany's in the chat. Toxic Brit. Whatever. I'm gonna just pause it. I never liked it, though. Like twice. I mean, I noticed it, but I didn't notice it. Didn't you mess up? So earlier, y'all, we was talking about Wally. Shout out to Wally. I never met him. Shout out to Wally and Jazz. Yeah, he um he posted a couple of questions. Um, and his questions was pretty good. Yolanda, you posted questions too. Like for us to ask. We'll get to your questions so. Um, but this week is Wally questions. So we're gonna go with the first one. J. Toxic J. First? I'll just ask you. Oh, okay. Toxic J. What's your go-to pickup line? Yeah, it's actually. Was that actually one thing? I didn't even see it. Yeah, it is. I'm not growing me. I don't actually I don't have a fucking line. You don't be like like like the look like the uh the the the game shit if you just copy and paste F3 shit. Did you ever see that, Yolanda? No. Oh man. Okay, people don't get the joke. It was over there. Somebody but no, I don't have a go-to pick up line. I feel like as as no. I can't knock a guy who does it because someone wants to say it's corny, but people like corny shit too. So if that's what if you found your corny pickup line at work, I ain't gonna from Tennessee because you don't need to see. I like stuff like that. See what I mean? What you okay, wait. What's your go-to pickup line? Or what's a pickup line? Some women have pickup lines, like a thing they use to yes, women have things they say, like, yeah, I got him with this. Women are like men are no better than men. Women are thieves in the nine. I think women cheat as much as men. I said that was podcast. Where do we get cheated from? Like, how do you think? I've seen how slimy men women can be. We're not talking about that. All right, whatever. I digress. Yolanda, what's your favorite? What's the line that a guy used on you? Let's say that. That you was like, oh, that was cute. The cutest one, uh, it was like a thing with a basketball, and they dropped it in my DM. And the guy was like, Oh, I'm God bless you, true word. The guy was like, Oh, I think I left it here. That is not that's not clever. That's like been all over social media. Please get her in the comments balls in your DM. Please get her, please get her, please, please get her comments. Explain better. Please explain it better. It was like a oh gosh. Jeffrey, he's like he dropped the ball. Like, yeah, he dropped the ball. That's like a known thing. Yeah, he did that. I was like, that was so cute. And what he said with it? He's like, Oh, I think I left this here. Basically, he was like, I'm shooting my shot. And whatever. I thought it was cute. And what you said. It's your best friend. This is your friend. I'm a bad friend, so I'm not gonna say anything. No. So why I like pickup lines is because one, social media and like a lot of people don't have to. They take away from the creativity and unity. That thank you for saying that. And then on top of that, it builds, okay, 100% of the shots that you take that you don't take are always missed. That's very true. Right? So you gotta shoot your shot. So for a man to like, I know men are supposed to like, um, what do you call it? Court. Court or shoot your shot, or no, I don't say pray, but like go out and Oh, they're supposed to get the hunters. They're the hunters. Yeah, yeah. Right. So for a guy to do that, and you probably know the person's out of, I'm not saying I'm out of people's league, but like, you know, there's a chance that you will get rejected. So for you to even build up the courage to even speak to me or say anything. But copy and pasting a pickup line doesn't count. It doesn't count, but at least you're breaking the ice because how else would you be able to talk to me? That's true, yeah. That's that's that is true. Because there's no other form for you to talk. We we don't work together. That's true. I don't see you in in real life. So, like, how else were you gonna be able to what, like a comment? Like a like a picture? I'm not gonna lie to you, gang. If you was to hit my line be like, yo, Jalen, I met this guy. This is what he said to me. I might hang up with the phone. That's fine. Because that means you're quirky enough to like because I'm goofy. That's not goofy. I don't think I I don't think I would have fell for that though. I don't know. Not full for it, but like, I don't think I would have thought that was cute. I would have been like, it's creative. What the fuck? Because usually in my DMs, you'll see um Let me spoke the DMs now. Hey, expose them. Expose the DMs. Expose them. Expose the DMs. See, I'm looking out for you. I mean I need a back. Don't expose them. I'm looking out for you. Most of them, they'll like send me my own post. You look good. Damn you like. Huh? Is it the shit that got like 500 likes on it? They're gonna just Yeah, they'll they'll send that to me. They'll like That's not creative, right? It's not creative at all. So for you to even Okay, so you're just saying you like that he came with something different. Different, yeah. Okay, I could I could understand that. However, I don't think that was a score, a win-win. It's not a score, a win-win, but it's to break the ice. Okay. Because how many, how many hey good mornings do you think I get in my not to be oh no? No, took your shit. No, no, no, no. Tokyo shit. No, no, no. But like, how many hey good morning love? Hey beautiful, can't take you out. I hear that all the time. All the time. But I hear that often. I need something different. I need something different. Took your stuff. Nah, I get it. I think um with pickup lines, that's like old school. Like, like you see that. I don't want to say that. Like, I don't I don't think I don't necessarily think it's old school because I know, like I know, I'm just about me. Like, I know guys who are better at talking to women in person. They have to give the gap. Like, we have to gift the gap. Oh, yeah. They'll come like there's you could 20 different things you could say. Con artists. I didn't even say con artists, but they could they could sell water to a whale. Yeah, like guys that'd be like, like, my I got a boyfriend. Keep it pushing. Oh, can I be your friend? If you was my boyfriend, would you want to be my friend? And then they shut up. They don't got nothing to say after that one. Like question. Answer. So some guys don't like when a person, uh their woman responds with that. They they prefer for the woman to be like, why you even why you even answering? Why you even answering? Oh, so you're saying is that personal line in general or just. That is a very good question. A good question. I think it is. Um, me and Corey had this conversation actually. Um, and I let him know that like I respond to guys because I've seen where guys would flip and they would either attack the female or they would either like curse the female out or something like that. And I think my best way of a little more feasible. Yeah, like to have that, because I feel like for me, it's kind of a fair if you let a guy down. Yeah. Or if you try to, especially if he were his friends and he feel like he got played, because you know, the guy's gonna be like, oh, yeah, they might be. You know what I'm saying? Yeah, like I feel like for me, it's and I had this conversation with Corvi, like, if I'm by myself, I'm not on the phone with you, and a guy is trying to talk to me or whatever. I am gonna give that conversation back because I seen situations where they'll pull the headphones out your ear, or they'll grab your arm. Obsessive. No, it happens. It happens, it happens. Like, they'll grab your arm, or they're I think it was um rest in peace to that young lady. It was a story on the news. Yeah, the young lady where the I think a guy was trying to talk to They were twins, the the two twins, and um he they was in the corner store, basically like that, and she was ignoring him, turned him down. I don't remember that story, and he stabbed her and killed her. Yeah, just because she didn't want to talk to him. I think that's how the story is. I'm not saying that this obviously I'm not saying that these things don't occur or the but I do understand the perspective of woman saying I want to let them down easy, because God forbid I'm next sitting next to Jeffrey Dahmer, and he's trying to. So I do get it. Right. But I do get Corey's point of view too, whereas like, why are you ventured? Because there's like a thing where I used to have these conversations. Or I would this would be how I would gauge the ice with women who I'm dating. Because I would say, say you out with your girlfriends and a guy sends you a drink, are you accepting the drink if we're together? That was that was where he asked. And that's not true. Yeah, that's usually you know what I'm saying. So and no, so it would be like, oh no, I passed. First of all, I wouldn't accept a drink if I'm single because I don't know what happened to that drink before it got to me, right? Exactly. So I'm not accepting that drink if I'm single. But when it comes to if I'm by myself and I know my man is not there, I'ma play it safe because I don't know what can happen. And I seen where females have been like, I got a nigga, like, get the fuck out of my face. Or, you know, just off the riff of because some guys can come off strong. Perfect example, right? Corey, a dude didn't know that Corey was like in the other car or whatever. I had to take my car to the shop, so we followed each other. We stopped in the parking lot for a second or whatever, because I had to wait for my mom. Long story short. Anywho, a guy was coming or whatever. I wasn't even paying him no mind, but he was coming towards the car like to go in the parking lot, and I was rolling up a my window a little bit at the same time, but I was on my laptop, like I wasn't paying him no mind. He literally was like, What the fuck you hiding for? Like, what like just off the rich just started blacking? Like, why are you hiding? Wow, niggas is mad aggressive in Bruce. You're in Brooklyn right now. Please calm down. No, that got on me too. Calm down. No, but you see, just that prime example. He wasn't even, I wouldn't even say he was coming over there to talk to me. It was just me rolling up my window. Something that just coincidentally happened to me. Yeah, coincidentally happened, and he was on some what you hid it for me for. Like, I'm like, what the fuck is he talking about? Cory hop, I don't know. Cory was right behind me. He was like, What the fuck he said? I was like, nah, it's not, it's not that. It don't be worth it. Yeah, it don't be worth it. Why would I put my man in that situation? You know? So, um, you know, just off the rip, something like that. So if I am, and I had this conversation with Corey, out of respect, I'm gonna let you know right now. If I'm alone and a guy's trying to talk to me, I'm gonna let him off easy. Or we even had this funny thing, yo, give him my number. Like, because you know sometimes you guys keep persistent, he was like, yo, give him my number. Fuck it. Like, that's that's they were calling the number ain't funny. Yeah, they sometimes but you're not answering. Oh shit. Hello? I'm like, oh fuck. But no, like I mean, we even talked to the point where like he gets my number and then I block the number. Cause yeah, it's easier to just do that. Hey, yeah, like you what I'm saying? Like, no, not even because one time this guy tried to talk to me and I was like, I'm sorry, no, thank you. Like, I try to put him like the most cutest voice ever. Like, I'm sorry, I can't, no thank you. And then I went to a party. He was there, he was there. Oh shit. And that nigga backed me in one corner in a corner and was like one. He was like, You remember me? I remember you, and I was like, Did you actually remember him? No, and then I'm like, Can how you I changed my wigs very often. Yo, well, stop. This is a totally different wig today. Stop. I'm sorry. I like your wig today. In my head, I was like, Why you can't just say you like my hair? Yeah. How do you know it's a wig? See, that's why I didn't know. You didn't know it was a wig? I don't be bad with that shit. I don't be knowing I'm joking. So you would have thought that was a not no shade. My best friend got here, but I'm saying you would have thought that was a real thing. We are black. See, me gusta, me gusta, me gusta. Oh, mentiros. He likes, he likes. Mentirosos. Call me a liar. Oh shit. I am black. I know black. No, but it amazes me how men don't know here, like you lost me. Nah, I don't. Like, Corby, certain certain things, he be like, was that your thing? Yeah, we voicing. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I'd be like, I'm bad with that shit too. Like, how you can't do that. Yeah, I can't, yeah. I'm bad. I don't. I mean, obviously, if you if if you got a bob one day, then it's then out to your fucking ass the next, I'm gonna know that it is fake. But if I meet a girl for the first time, depending on how her hair is, I might be like, yo, I'm not, I didn't know that was. Okay, so what is this? It's the braids. Oh, okay. So you know I know what braids are, but I'm saying, like, I don't, I guess it'll be hard for me to know if if I meet a girl, if I would know like what extensions are or weave, depending on how it is. Okay, so when I first started the pie, what was I had no idea? It was extensions, yeah. It was my hair mixed with extensions, yeah. I can school you. I got like 17 wigs in the car. She could be got issues, but all right. Next question. Shout outs to Wally again. We're gonna keep it going. Wait, who's Jazz? You shout out. Oh, okay. Shout out to Jazz. I'm sorry, I didn't know. I'm sorry. Wally is the one baby shower. No? No. I'm not getting any confused. Think so. I don't know, baby shower. Yeah, I went to a birthday, birthday party, birthday party. Okay, okay. Sorry. Shout outs to Wally and Jazz. You know, got a shout out to girlies. Um big Swifty. She's uh Taylor Swift. Oh, okay. That's my video. Yeah, that's what it reminds me of. That's what I was about to say. Um, okay, what is something that society normalizes that you actually think is pretty toxic? Like in a relationship? It could be. Oh, gambling. That's easy. What you say? Gambling. That's easy. It's a gambling. So you don't gamble on sports? No, I do. Oh, so you're part of the toxic. 100%. I'm not saying I wasn't, but I'm saying like that's something that that's something that's been normalized. Yeah, and but it comes to that. But that's something that I think like we could all like is fucking hit like like cracking the 80s when state legalized gambling. Yeah, gambling is crazy. Yeah, it is. And I had I proposed this question to uh in my office the other day. I was like, would you rather your girlfriend be a cheater or a gambling addict? Ooh. Ooh. Because you're hitting financially and then I'd rather I'd rather you be a cheater. Suck all the dick you want. Don't steal my money. That is crazy. It's not that is insane. It's not. Because we're gonna break up anyway, it's whatever. Suck all the dick point. Don't steal my money, bro. Like, go ahead, do what you want to do. Am I lying? That was crazy. I would love, I would wish it went over my head. I would just wish it would have gone over my head. Be who you want to be, bro. I was crazy. Yolanda was shirt, you inside. Um, I agree with the gambling. Something that society normalizes that's actually really toxic. Um You know who you look like? You ever been to the circus, the clowns? That the fresh. Yo, boy, she just be sh reloading the clip and shooting at you craziest. Why don't you know that? I got something for you, don't worry. I hope you do because I thought I ain't gonna lie. When I first met you, I thought you were tougher than this. I thought you were tougher than this. He's playing that battery and your back. You don't need to. I thought you was tougher than you. I thought you were tougher than this. He's playing that battery and your back is a one. Um, people on social media feeling like they have options, all the options in the world. Is there really a lot though? Explain. Explain that. So society lets you, you know, like they say as one gone, as one, you know, what do you say? As one goes, another one comes. Yes. As one, well, this usually say as one gone, the next one bond. But like in Jamaica when they say that. But like, um So you and I are dating, right? And we're obviously broken up, whatever, and you just hop on the grand. If you were ever so lucky, let me stop. That was toxic. Nigga. Yo. Because I'm trying to understand how somebody who's five five with brown eyes is trying to do that. You said five with brown eyes. You know what the crazy part is, bro? How you climbing back at me so quick, but you let her slide like 20 jokes. I made one. Yo, this is back to back at the store. I said something last week with the baby shower shit. Niggas was coming at me. I'm like, yo, everybody was thinking it. Nah, he walked out. Yo, I was telling a story about the baby shower, right? You he gonna say was the baby father there? Oh, but the Burberry shirt? You think the same shit? She was telling you the story. Yo, something crazy happened at the baby show. What's what's that? The father wasn't there and showed up with his. Like, that's like some like people would think that, bro. Like, Jalen, you're wow. Wow, boy. I'm feeling like um you Oh shit. Brittany, fuck it. You and I are dating. Oh, yeah, okay, but go. And you know, you and I break up or whatever, for whatever reason, and then you get on social media, you post in, and you feel like you got all the options in the world. Because, you know, a lot of guys feel like oh well, she won't do the next one. Will because, you know, like you have options. I feel like society normalizes that too much, and that is very common. Yeah, and that's why people feel like they could make up to break up, or they can't. That is that's that's a fair point. That's a good one. Um that's a good one. I think mine is I would say like people feel like a marriage is a business. Like when you get married, it's for business purposes only. I feel like society makes that like a thing. Like you have all these couples come out and say, like, oh, if it wasn't for this, like, I know, like, for even if we talk about Ratchet TV, Rashida and Kirk, I know you don't watch it, Jalen. No, they have, but um baddies, yeah. No, it's uh love and hip hop. So like Rashida and Kirk, like they have a lot of business together, and he then in the marriage had a baby on her, cheated on her, different things like that, and like it's clear that she stays because. They tied to each other through business. And me growing up with that grandparents' love. My grandparents, before my grandmother passed away, they were married for over 50 years. And you know, um just but never seated? No. Yeah, like well, from what I know, I don't know. Papa probably was a roller stone. Who knows? But what I'm not my papa. But no, seriously, like, you know, I come from that old-fashioned like home where I seen my grandparents be married, and I seen So why was you so toxic in the beginning of your life? Wow, that was. I'm not gonna lie, bro. I love you. I kind of found a moment. I don't know if you cut her ass, bro. I could see the twinkle in your eyes. You mentioned your grandmother, and I know. But did you not hear what he said? Fuck him. He literally said, Why was you so toxic earlier in your life? He's asking, you know, picking up all this love and shit. No, but anywho, I feel like people look at marriage as like you sign a paper, it's uh it they don't real know the real meaning of like that bond and you know that stuff like that. So Can you have that bond without the ring? Without without without the ring, yeah, you can. Yeah, you can obviously like you know, I think the marriage is something deeper. And like if people are religious, they really take that marriage uh serious. Um I think that you can have that bond without the ring, without the paper. Um, but I think deep down inside every female goal is to have a marriage or to be married. I mean, not every, but like Yeah, I think most, yeah. Yeah, most females want to be able to say, wow, I'm married, I'm someone's wife. Like I know a couple single moms just want niggas just to come home. Uh I ain't gonna be able to do that. Really? I ain't throwing nobody under the bus. I'm just saying. I think deep down inside, if you dig deeper and talking to them, they they would eventually for the right man. No? Social media got you thinking, everybody. And that's my problem. That's my problem. Like, and then you see how we look at when me and Pat Poose, everybody was like, black love, black love. And then you know guidelines and that. You said that uh that gonna pile like a mother, like that's just a bad way to go out. Yeah, like and how we how we saw how society or how they portray themselves to society to how down at the finish lines is how it ends for them. It's kind of it's unfortunate, man. Really. I hate to see I I I this is me. I hate to see things like if it doesn't work out, that's cool. But right once it comes to like dragging a person on social media and all that shit, it's like, yo, bro, like it shouldn't happen. People we look at that like these marriages that we put on that are on social media that we look at and then it's like, oh, this person cheated, or this person is it's like you guys are taken away from that real old-fashioned that love. And a lot of people don't get to see that or experience it. So if they see it on social media, that's what they go and buy. What they think they see on social media, that's uh another thing. Like kind of what she was, uh Yolanda was saying, how social media have you thinking one thing is an apple is red and says really blue. Yeah, they always say, um, believe half of what you see and none of what you hear. Yeah, you know what I'm saying? So it's definitely true. So let's get into since we're talking about things that are normalized, um, do you and your partner have a whole pass? Um, let's go to Yolanda first. Thank God. Thank God what I answered. Okay. Do you and your partner have a whole pass? If the situation arose, would you fuck with it? Wally question as well. Wally, you got some toxic questions going on. What's happening? Oh man, thank God. Oh, I hope you heard that jazz. What's happening here? It's a lot of toxic questions. Myself be true. Would I fuck with a whole pass? You know what? Let me be qu let me let the hell pause. No. Would I let my person have a whole pass? No. Cause then I'm gonna ask myself, why you choose her? What is it about her? And how long were you planning on using this whole pass? I don't think that's how a whole pass works. I don't think you get to ask those questions. Oh, I don't ask. Most whole passes are like it's like, yo, I'm giving it to you. Don't I don't wanna hear nothing about it? A whole pass. Don't let it come back to me. So like it's like, all right, I tell Corey, you have you could sleep with one girl once a year, a different girl once a year. Don't come home with no baby. A different girl once a year? What if he wants to do the same one? Don't come home with no baby. That's I don't know what's a whole pass. You're not saying that. Yeah, I don't know. You just gave them a whole pass. They they could sleep with whoever they want or whatever whore pass you giving. No. Before you answer, Jalen. So what's the difference between whole passes and threesoms? Oh shit. No, put her whole business in the street. No, no, I you let Jalen, you let Jalen put that in your head. Because all I said was, what was the difference? So a whole pass, so what I'm getting is like a whole pass is like a one-on-one. I know nothing about it. Correct. Right. With a threesome, I'm not gonna potentially, hypothetically speaking, I'm not saying that um I'm there to supervise and observe Call for Duty. Wait, look, look, call for duty. So I'm having a lot of fun with this today, actually. Um the difference is with a whole pass, I'm not involved. With the threesome, hypothetically speaking, I'm involved. For insurance purposes only. Um and typically, if the situation arose and it was a threesome, the third person would have to be vetted. Wow. So the thing about the whole pass is there is none, there is none of that. I know nothing. I'm just oblivious to everything. You gave the You don't even know if he even did the whole pass. You're just giving him one. You the whole monitor. Yeah, you could say, oh, I'm gonna let you do whatever, but you don't know if he's actually gonna go through with it. When I think of whole pass, I think about when I'm in school, right? And then I take the whole pass to go to the bathroom, and I don't go to the bathroom. Like I go somewhere else. But you wouldn't, but you wouldn't cut class. That's kind of crazy. No, no, I never did that. No, I'm I never did that. But I'm what I'm thinking of is like when I watch shows, right, and you know, the kid goes to the bathroom, act like they go to the bathroom. So the idea of the whole pass is either you want to spice up the relationship or your relationship is on the out to whatever the case is, there's friction in the relationship to where you're saying, or you could be like, I know uh fuck what's your name. I think Kay Michelle, I think she said this in a recent podcast where she was being interviewed and they told her, like, hey, if I get married, I know niggas are gonna be niggas. Not saying all, but this is what she said. I knew I know niggas gonna be niggas. If you're gonna do your thing, don't let me find out about it. I hate that is that is normalized. And so here's the thing. I don't because and this is not me being toxic. This is me just saying adultery has been a thing since the beginning of time. It's in the fucking Bible. So God knows God knows the weakness of a man is lust. This is the thing. And some men just can't control themselves. So I'm not saying it's normalized, and people wouldn't say it's normalized now. It's been a thing since the beginning of time. It's just people talk about it more because that's what people want to talk about on social media. Social media makes it more just like how y'all say memorize it. Yeah, like how y'all say, oh, things that Megan and Stalin talk about in her rap, these girls follow, or same filato, or different things like that, right? People on social media, like for example, let's um people came for what's her name? Jasmine Brown, Cam Newton, baby mother, or whatever. When he was like saying that she's not the only person he slept with since they've been in a relationship. People dogged her out. Because she was like, Me and my man have a bond, we talk, we know what what it is. People dogged her out, but they make it okay for females have podcasters where they go, Oh, I mean, if he cheats, or whatever, long as he's coming home, or how you talked about earlier, he's paying the bills, so I don't even care. Like, you have women that say that. That is not okay for me. I can't say it's not okay because it might not be okay for you, but it's okay. Right, it's not okay for me. It's not okay for me, for me to be like, oh, he cheated. So, you know, whatever. At least you know where home is. Yeah, like yeah, I don't think it might. That's why last time I just didn't do nothing. I don't smoke a lot smoking. Yeah, what is that? Anywho, but no, I just don't think that's okay for me. Like, it's not because you're putting yourself in a mindset of settling. Yes, and you deserve this is. I don't think it's settling. It is settled. It's not. You're saying that it's okay. So, well, you didn't said you could suck all the dick you want, long as she don't take your money. So I said I've had to pick between the two, that's what I said. That's what you said. So we're gonna leave. I'm gonna leave you. That's what I said. Run it back. Run it back. That's what you said. So here's the thing. I don't think that's selling because if that's what works for you, but there's a enough people, everybody is not fucking Russell Wilson, bro. Those people are high and low. Like, I hate uh people. This is like when people are in school. You could be anything you want to be. You could be the president of the United States. No, the fuck you can't. There's the reason why there's only fucking 45 presidents. Like this, it's not, it's not, it's you cannot tell me. I'm not saying every man cheats. I'm saying more cheat than more men who don't cheat. I agree. And the same, but vice versa for women. Like, it's not this monogamy is not thing that's practiced often. I agree, but why does it have to be vocally, vocally saying? Why lie to yourself though? Why why do you speak? Well, social, but women follow social media, right? So that just like y'all say, oh, they follow these ri uh hip-hop artists, they follow social media as well. And for you to sit here and be all these women be okay with it, it makes my skin itch. Because Okay, so it can't, I'm not trying to cut you off, but you can't say it makes your skin itch if you say nine, ten times you're going back anyway. So if you know the reality, why does it make your skin itch? If you know Because why are we accepting it? Why and and and I say that because I've sat here on a pod and I said things I accepted in the past, I'll be looking back like, why did I do that? I got a question. If it's so easy to cheat, what's wrong with challenging yourself to not cheat? Jalen. In the words of Chris Rock, there's nothing like new pussy, it's that simple. That was so toxic. That's what we said. It's it's both see the thing for guys, I mean, this is why I say for most guys when they do cheat, it is surface level. It it really is that simple. It's not it's not as deep as you guys, woman here, or other women want to make it feel like, oh, he doesn't let's it's not emotional or how. A guy can cheat with no emotional connection. That that it I'm but I ain't gonna put myself out there saying that guys are cheating because I'm not I don't clamor, I don't glamorize me cheating in the past. But there there are men out there who listen to this but I'm gonna say, yeah, that's true. Like a man could just have bad dick management and temptation falters. Like this you guys can't challenge yourself not to have this bad dick. I always thought about that. Like you can't challenge yourself to not fuck with nigga who ain't cheat. Not you. I'm just saying women in general. Yeah, like yeah, you can challenge yourself. You can challenge. Because when you want better, you'll do better. Or when you want to experience better, you're like, I'm tired of the thing. So and TV. Not to cut you off, but like, just because a nigga cheat don't mean he's a terrible person. He might not be a good partner or he may be bad at some things, but I'm not gonna sit there and like say, like, I'm not gonna shit on a guy just because he cheated. Uh this is me. You can call me toxic, I don't give a fuck. I don't think um, I'm not gonna shit on a man just because he cheated. But that's a character trait. It's a character flaw. Name someone who's perfect. That means you fall to temptation. I might, and she might be a chapaholic, or she she might suck a little dick. Yo! Let me stop. You have to stop because I be having this conversation with my co-workers and stuff, and I'm like, what's so hard about sticking to one woman? Like, why not challenge yourself to stick with one woman? Because you don't change jobs that often, so why are you changing Gail that often? One because it's more accessible as the older you get and the more successful you get. I'm only speaking for myself. So it could be more options or more. And I think there is a thing where people say, especially for men, the older you get, the more you realize your options are greater than what you thought they were if you have a certain job. This is true. For someone who makes six figures, I'm not saying myself, I'm saying if a guy makes six figures, has no kids, he's in the one percentile that most women look for now. Right at them all. Yeah. That they say now. He might not be six feet, but he I think you would live with someone who makes 150 a year and has no kids as opposed to a man who makes 50,000 and he's six feet one. Right at all. See. You know what I'm saying? So I feel like, so he's gonna have those options. Now, what makes you think I'm gonna like you? I just Nobody's gonna ask the question. They're just gonna think about it. What makes you think I'm you're gonna like me? As the who you speaking for? In general, like the guy who makes six figures, and I could wanna be, I couldn't. You're saying with more money you'll have access to. And I could wanna be, or I could want to practice monogamy. You might be, hey, um, you know what? I'm 30, I'm 36. I don't even know, I don't think 36, 35 is that old, but teach his own. Society tells you 35, you should be married. I don't agree, but whatever. You could say, hey, I want to be monogamous, want to do this, but then you get with it. And is people also don't think about this too. I could like you. I could really want to be with you. I could be like, you know what, Britt? Yo, we went on a few dates. I think you're fucking dope, blah, blah, blah. Then you know what? You move in, and I realize I hate the way you do certain things. I hate the way you do this. See someone live with some of the two different things. But you live with someone, yeah, and you start to see it, then it's like you then that that that fucking's like a dog that got an itch. It comes back. I I I think that happened. Now I'm not gonna sit there and say, yo, he ain't shit because he cheated. No. Now I might say you ain't not. If my two friends become a couple, then they do that, and my friend Joshua cheats to her crazy, then I'm gonna say, yo, Josh ain't shit. But if a regular dude gets called out and you, yo, you got caught in the street. We're not saying that. We're saying a man can be a good man and cheat. We know people like that. You said no? So yeah. She said no. I heard I heard what I heard. You said no? Don't put your face like that. That's what she said. I think a guy could be a guy can't be a good person if he cheats. Because where's your morale? But he has he still cheats. That is crazy. Okay, let's really think about this. Look me in my eye. Look me. Wait, Jayla, sit back for a second. Because I gotta zone in with her real quick. The Wi-Fi is gonna be a little bit more. I need you to remove the wig for a second. No, don't do that. Don't do that. I already walked off. Don't do that. Don't do that. Wait, look me here. Look me here. That's Macaru. A guy can't be a good guy and still cheat. Bro, uh a woman, yeah. They believe that. That's what like they in their in their heart, they believe that that dishonesty makes them. They cannot be a good guy. I feel like I agree with you, right? It doesn't take away from them being a good guy. Because we know good guys that cheat. I know good guys. I know good guys who don't cheat. Like, I know good guys who don't cheat in aren't good. We know good guys that don't cheat, but I just feel like you can't. It's your opinion. You can say that. I can't tell you nothing. I don't think you're a good person if you cheat. So put it there. You never cheat in your life? I at the when I was younger, I cheated back. Like I give she give bun back. Yeah, of course, I'm agreeing. I give bun back whatever. Cause she cheated back, that's self-defense. Nigga, stop. Stop. No, I did it because I wanted to get back at the point. Looking back at it now, it was pointless for me to do that. But to be hon to be fair, I feel like you can't be a good person. Cause I just feel like you kind of like broke the trust. You kind of you're putting my health at risk. What the fuck? I'll tell you this last episode. There's condoms. I hate when women say that. But it's 99% effective. And who's to say that you actually used it? What if it bursts? Oh, the accent came out again. You know she's serious. I didn't want to go. I didn't want to put her on black. What if the condom bursts? I mean, I'm pretty sure you're not gonna get hit with a condom on. Yeah? I I think before we get into the details of the I think I'm on both sides. Like, I Do you think you can't be a good person if you cheat? I think that you can be a good person and cheat and just be a cheater, right? I know plenty of good people who cheat it. That's all I'm gonna say. I I I do too. You know a good man that's a deadbeat? I know a good man that's a deadbeat. It's two different things, but I kind of put them on the same pedestal. No, you cannot. That's because I can say, yo, that's he's a good man, but he don't take care of his kid. But like, so that's like saying, hold on. I don't know, I don't wanna I don't know your personal life that well. So if I'm stepping up, if I'm hurting us, hurting you, let me know. But that's like, huh? Nothing. What'd she say? You heard of me. Okay. That's like saying if you're you're growing up in your household with your family and your dad cheats, now he's a terrible father because he cheated on your mom. I feel like that you're not gonna be like. No, answer the question. Is he a terrible father because he cheated on your mom? Yeah. No, what the that's you cannot say that, Coral. I agree with Jalen. You can't say that, bro. I can't if you cannot say that. If my father cheated on my mother, that doesn't take away from how he was a father to me. Like I feel like that idle time just no. No, but that nigga not perfect. He can't he he loves pussy like everybody else out here, bro. That's not pussy like everybody. But that's exactly that's not being perfect. His vice may be he loves pussy. Or he that that or his vice may be, oh, their relationship wasn't perfect. So he stepped out on you. Now he's not a good parent because he stepped out on your mom. No, like you can't. This is me personally, and I've had this conversation with my dad before, too. We always talk about these type of things. You're really close with your dad, I know. Yeah, 100%. That's good. Same thing with my mom, too. But niggas are niggas. You talk about your dad a lot, yeah. But like I took, we had these conversations too because he he overheard this before recently. I'm like, yo, boy, you can't say someone's not a good dad because they stepped out on your mom. Like, that's not that's not, you can't. I feel like that has not it doesn't equal it. Because you could have he could he could be a cheater with your mom, right? And your mom kicked him out, but he's still every day, like, I'm taking my topic. You he make everything or he makes every chilling type of thing. But because he stepped out, he changed the dynamic of the household. Okay, that's fine. Like he's it's not a perfect household. That don't mean nothing. I agree with Jalen on that one. I I I think that I get what you're saying. I'm not saying I don't understand. I'm sitting 10 toes down on it. As you should have, best friend, I'm expecting. Okay, girl. No, but what's the energy with her? I just said that's a great. Well, goddamn. I hear it. No, no, no, nine, the nine shit. Um see what I mean? Yeah, what y'all looking forward to? It's no more. What we looking forward, yeah. We that's a good episode. We in Brooklyn. No. Wow. Y'all be picking up the Bronx all the time. We in Brooklyn. I can't get no love. I play jigger. Play it. Brm brumm brm. We in Brooklyn, Brooklyn, Brooklyn. No, broken. What's happening? I broke the shit. I don't know. Broke it. But uh um the music is out this week, then the music was quick lato drop. Did you hear a lot of album? No. No, but I I just see the visuals. I like the visuals. Yeah, the visuals are fire. So if they tell me to listen, give me time, I'm gonna listen. Uh I let you have one of my favorite songs, uh, Yolanda. You got a favorite song with Ferdinand? Yeah, yeah. 100%. Wow. Um fuck that nigga. Told them that nigga. Which one? You said hard diaper bag. Oh, I heard I heard that one. I don't like you. Never got a type of back. Please, please. Shout out to Lado in that album. Um, if you this is I think honestly, I don't know where you rank Loud. I don't know how much of a fan you are of Lada. But uh, this is an album for you. Like, she's very like Really? I love my man type of album. Like, she's like this is very much that type of album. Like, it's nothing like her first album. I do like her first album or first project. Yeah, yeah. I said on the podcast, I knew it's my shit till this day, notation. Um, but yeah, I like to take that chrome heart diverback, definitely my favorite song. Then you got the shit with glow. I'm gonna listen to it. It's a it's a calm listen. What about you, Yolanda? You like Lalo? Okay, yeah. First, first 10 seconds, I could. It's a five. No, it's a Did you listen to Drake? Um, I look I I like um some of his songs, yeah. You do? Which one? Shebang. And the cheetah print. That shit. Ratchet. Of course. Cheetah's print. Ratchet. Then you stop looking. She's a character, folks. She's so annoying. Can I help myself? You see the ash, right? This shit is not her agreeing with you. No, I'm like 50 shades lighter. Oh, shit. They can't see it. Let me see. Oh, big mom. That was crazy. Oh shit. Best way what you're looking forward to. Oh, wait. Hold on, no. Nigga, the next play on Wednesday. Um, I'm still trying to figure out where I'm gonna be at. Yeah, where you watching it at? I don't know. I mean, so I mean, shout out to Knicks. Fan City going crazy, man. Good times. You know what I'm gonna do for you? If the Knicks get to if they win the championship? We're gonna get a projector, put it in here, and have a Knicks party. You got money. Shout out to Brooklyn. No, don't do that. Um, I'm trying to figure out what's the game on Wednesday. Wednesday's game one. Uh yeah, I don't know. I'm definitely we should all I'm gonna be out. It's your birthday weekend. I'm gonna be outside. You wanna be outside? Oh fine. Every game I'll be outside. Unless we're gonna go. Let's watch it somewhere. I will be outside. Wednesday, Wednesday, Wednesday. Oh. Wednesday next game after Wednesday. Uh I want to say on Friday, I believe. Friday? Oh, we could do Friday. Friday or Saturday? Let's watch it. Let's watch it somewhere Friday. Let's all hang out. I'll probably be in height. I'll probably be in Dykeman. Why? Suave. It's a black spot out there. Dude, Dykeman played. Have you ever been to a club in Dike? It's a black club, bro. I've never been to a I'll bring you to one. Okay. I've never been to a black club. I'll bring you to one. 100%. But yeah, we're watching the next all week. That's where energy is at. Alright. That's what energy is at. What about you, Landa? Birthday weekending plans? Yes. Hey, that's right. Oh, share with the class. My birthday's coming. I'm so excited. Share with the class. Boy, you just said you're excited. We get that part. We can see that. Um I can't share what I don't know. I just know there's surprises being made for me. Are you doing a surprise party? A surprise party? No. I mean, now I'll put you on birthday. Yeah, but no, it's a surprise. Y'all exchange gifts? Yes. Yeah? That's sorry. That gift is actually upstairs. Oh, so I had to hide it before, you know, she came here. I like that. Yeah. Um, what are you looking forward to? You'll ask. Yeah, what are you looking forward to? My best friend's birthday, you know. So I'm gonna get her out real quick. She doesn't like to celebrate her birthday. And I'm It's Britney bitch. It's Britney bitch. She goes. Doesn't um she doesn't like to celebrate her birthday, and I am a big birthday fan. You're one of those. Yeah. I hate those type of people. Well, like, nigga, it's your birthday, okay. We get it black. No, she's like this for when she's close to like birthday. So, like, my birthday is really her birthday, too. Yeah. I have many birthdays. Corey's birthday is my birthday. Her birthday is my birthday. Like, I just go in, I celebrate. Like, we're gonna have a blast. We're gonna have a blast. Like, we're gonna have so much fun. I cannot wait. Share with the class next week on the episode. Yeah, next week. Share with the class. I'll I'll tell you guys what we had set up. Um, what else I'm looking forward to this week? Um oh, I started my new job this week, y'all. Oh, shout out to you. Yeah, yeah. More money. Yeah, more money. I had I was like, you know, I'm 32. Why am I doing a career change? I'm sorry. Jalen, you own one. I'm gonna need you to calm down. I'm telling you, it's the fit. It's the fit. Who made who got you this shirt? Wally. We're gonna blame Wally this episode. Um, no, but you know, I had a little, I didn't have a moment, but I was just like, dang, I'm 32. I'm I'm really gonna do this uncomfortable career change real quick. Like not working out? Huh? You ready? Yeah, I'm excited. It's more money. Uh a big pay raise, you know. I would say before I was comfortable, now I was like comfortable. Yeah, we outside. Outside the growth. Yeah, so um, you know, I'm excited for that. I like that. Yeah. Alright, y'all. Well, we got nothing else. Shout out to Lila and new tape. Uh, is there any more new music up that I did not? Uh, Six Black album was out. I haven't heard that yet, but I heard it's five. Six Black. Six Black. I like him. Yeah. You know who that is? Yeah. No, Yolanda. When you get in the car, you've been hearing some stuff sometime. Yeah, like she picked up on different things. I'm proud of her. Her music choices used to be she explained her palette. I'm proud of it. My vocabulary. Yeah, I wasn't trying to play her. I was really proud of her. I was. We'll be back next week, y'all. Not sure if Yolanda will be here. Maybe she is, but if she's not, which her happy birthday. See, see how I wrapped it up. See how I came back. She was at the end. Oh, look how you spin the block. There you go. That's what you call the pickle line. That's we'll be back next week, yeah.