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How Does Leaving A Man Turn Into Gang Stalking? Part Two
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Welcome back to Part Two of our conversation with “Monroe Mom.”
In this episode, she continues sharing what she describes as a real-life nightmare—this time introducing a surprising layer involving religion and the host talks about an interesting aspect about astro projecting done by attorneys.
The guest also discusses what she believes are overlapping relationships between individuals in positions of influence—such as local officials, agency workers, and business owners—and how those connections may have continued to impact her life.
From her perspective, these patterns point to ongoing harassment, often referred to as “gang stalking,” and raise serious questions about accountability and transparency in Monroe County, Florida.
This episode goes deeper into her story, her observations, and the connections she believes are shaping outcomes for mothers like her.
“For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.” – Ephesians 6:12 (KJV) This verse from Ephesians is one of the most quoted when it comes to spiritual warfare.
Welcome to the dark side of family court. I am your host, DK, a family court coach. And we are here again talking with Anonymous about her case that has been taking place over the last several years. And I would like to welcome Anonymous. How are you doing today?
SPEAKER_01Thank you so much for having me back. I'm happy to be here. I appreciate you. And today is an okay day.
SPEAKER_00And thank you for coming on here and sharing your story and what you have gone through. It's pretty horrendous. And I'm sorry you've had to go through all of this and that you're still going through it.
SPEAKER_01Yes, thank you. So last time I think we left off somewhere around the part about the allegations were never clear, and that I was told you will know, but not today. And this isn't the time to discuss that, even in open court. You know, you're trying to process what's happening while your entire life is being decided, and your children are wrapped up in this, you know, fearful space. You don't know where they are, you can't protect them. You know, as a parent, as a mother, this is the one thing we want to do. Uh but after leaving court, the reality sets in. You replay everything, trying to understand how decisions were made without basic procedural steps being followed. And over time, it becomes clear that this is a pattern, fabricated and misrepresented charges, a narrative that continues even after cases are dropped, lack of notice, lack of rulings, failure to follow standard procedures, information appearing out of sequence, access being had without the court order being in place. You know, when those elements combine, the outcome is shaped before there is a fair opportunity to challenge it. And this is not just a legal issue. This is the experience of being inside a process where the structure itself is breaking down. When due process is not followed at the beginning, everything that follows is affected, and therefore void abnietio, and otherwise it's able to be overturned with the right corrective actions, which I'm taking now. And in cases where children uh are concerned, involving children, the consequences are immediate and life-altering because you know, my son was eight, eight and a half, and my daughter was uh almost 15, but you know, they still have this fear that, you know, my mom was supposed to be able to protect me, and you know, that opportunity was taken away from me. So now their whole foundation is questionable and shaky. And this is the part that people do not see. They see the outcome, but they don't see what happened to get there. You know, the aftermath can be worse. A continuation of efforts to silence the truth of the unlawful actions that they committed in the courts and leading up to that, which is what I'm experiencing now. And when you live through it, you realize the hardest part is not just what was taken from you. It's that you were never truly given the chance to protect it in the first place, which is our God-given inalienable rights as you know, beings on this planet and citizens of this country that we're supposed to be able to, you know, protect our children and our constitutional rights, uh, you know, our First Amendment right to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness, amongst many others, are completely stripped. And this is a process of depriving citizens of our rights and conspiracy to do so, because there's more than one entity and more than one individual involved in these acts. So I think if I had an opportunity to warn people, you know, going into this process, I would tell them don't open the door. Just literally do not open the door, do not let them in, do not speak to them through the door. Um, just don't let them in at all. Because I thought that I was a citizen of a country, of a country that claims unmatched freedom. And I now realize that that's a common misconception. And that, you know, they can pretty much do whatever the hell they want to do. And, you know, what are you going to do about it? Is the question that I've been asked. So what are you going to do about it? And like they're untouchable.
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SPEAKER_00Nobody will hold them accountable.
SPEAKER_01There may be someone to hold them accountable, but the problem is finding that channel and finding that individual. And then, you know, in your fit of fear and you know, emotional, you know, chaos, like, what is it that you say to them to get them to look at your case, to hear your case, and to act on your allegations? So, um, and if I were to see these people, you know, I would just basically, you know, tell them, hey, you know what? Confess and repent and accept the Lord into your life because it's over now. You know, this is your last-ditch effort to do that and not spend eternity in hell, which I think that they likely will anyways, in a burning lake of fire, like it said, like it says in the prophecies. I would never step foot into a courtroom again if I had anything to say about it. You know, this the retaliation that I'm experiencing now is basically all in an effort to silence the truth. You know, like I said before, whenever we were off screen, these people don't have loose ends. They don't leave loose ends, they don't have, you know, people that get away from their grasp because they never expected that I would defy the odds. Even I told them, even though I told them that whatever you think I'm gonna do, you're wrong. Um, they still got so sloppy with everything that they were doing because it was always that if they involved the children, that the mother would crumble and they would fall, the mother would fall right into their trap. And the trap is that they tried to push me into their program, their case plan is what they called it. And I'm like, Yeah, but you took my children without just cause, and I've already pissed clean for you twice. So why would I continue? They were trying to push me into a psychological evaluation.
SPEAKER_00Can we take kind of a spiritual side?
SPEAKER_01Oh, what?
SPEAKER_00Right. Can we kind of take us a little bit to the spiritual side? Because I learned something that was very interesting.
SPEAKER_01I can take you as far spiritual as you want to go. How deep do you want to get? Because it's gonna sound crazy.
SPEAKER_00I was watching um this preacher from Lion Heart. He's been pretty, pretty interesting to watch. And he had a young girl. Well, first of all, he started talking about how um this guy was cheating on his wife with this woman, and this woman wanted to be with him, and I don't know who she went to, a witch, whatever she went to. And they said, Oh, I can, you know, you can be with him, but you're gonna have to give me one of your kids. And she said, Okay. So she is with him to this day. He got divorced, she's with him, and then one of her kids, it sounded like went into the foster care system, okay? And so he she comes in front of this preacher and he's casting out demons out of her, right? So the demon comes out, he always asks the demon what their name is, and the demon comes out and casts it out. Then here comes another demon, and he's like, Demon, what's your name? And he says his name and he says, Well, that's kind of odd. That's not really a demon name. And he's like, I'm not a demon. And he's like, Well, who are you? And the wife's and he said his name, and the wife said, Oh, that's so-and-so. That was like her a court attorney. And I was like, What? And he was astro projecting into her. I was like, That is the craziest thing and the craziest thought I have ever heard of. But that is now in the back of my mind. Like, could something like that be happening or going on? And then I also have um, because I I don't know, I was praying one day. I think I was reading in the Bible or something, I can't remember what, but demons can attack you. So that was very interesting.
SPEAKER_01So so there was um a lot of the process like leading up to all of this, you know, activity with, you know, the malicious prosecution, the false criminal allegations, the the whole situation with um the kids and the narrative that they started trying to spin about me. Um there was a lot of things leading up to this that were very clear to me that I was not dealing with physical beings. And and some of my paperwork, I actually, for lack of a better term, I just developed this unseen forces, unseen forces, and that's what it was. And um, there were there were a lot of you know attacks. I I I at one point I called them psychic attacks. It was like there was nothing physical happening, but it was just these like mental attacks that these demons were trying to, and it in my mind's eye, I would see like this cloud, and it's like the black ghosts just flying all around and trying to confuse me and discombobulate me and put these fearful thoughts into my mind. And um, I'll be honest, those things now have become more clear to me what they actually were. And yes, they were spiritual, yes, they were demonic, and yes, they were part of a hidden agenda, what I now know as the cabal, and their demonic uh forces and and you know, these rituals that we keep hearing about, these satanic rituals and things that they're sacrificing people to you know further their agenda. But now that I'm where I am in time and with the Lord, I understand that, and I want to make this clear to people. So whenever you open the door to sin, it doesn't matter what it is. I don't care if it's if it's um premarital sex, if it's gossip, if it's channeling, if it's tarot cards, if it's anything, I mean, if it's watching pornography, it's all a demonic spirit that is trying to gaslight you and attach itself to you. And I know this only from firsthand experience and from speaking to other people who and and watching their testimonies as well, who have experienced things. And I'm telling you, we open the door. Demons cannot attach to you without your consent. Demons have to first give you the opportunity to consent. If you either consent willingly or you don't rebuke it, that's consent.
SPEAKER_00I don't know if you know as well, but um I had heard uh her name was called Amazing Polly, and she's sort of talking about um no touch torture. And I have a mental health degree, and I'm listening to this, and I'm like, this sounds very familiar. And I started researching no touch torture. And what I actually talk about and what I teach parents, first of all, is that um custody is sold in family court, and I talk about how they use no touch torture usually on moms because they sell it to dads, they have the most money, and they use no touch torture on moms um to keep all eyes on them and to keep all eyes on her and keep all eyes off them, right? Because they've sold custody and they want people to know that. And I discovered how they sold custody, custody in my case. It was the Guardian Man Lightham and her husband, who's the vice president of a bank. But, you know, just this whole mind control stuff, um, you know, that I was reading and what they did and how they would split somebody's mind. They can literally split somebody out somebody's mind, they can actually make them think that they're a cat. They will put them in a cage with a cat, will not let them out until they're literally like licking their paws and acting just like a cat. And they'll have a code word, and what they'll do is they sell them to somebody, they can give them the code word if they want them to be like a cat. It's crazy. Um, yeah, so I learned so much uh from reading that and researching that, and now that I'm hearing all this stuff that's coming out with you know all the files and everything, um, nothing really surprises me anymore. And the fact that, you know, these people are doing rituals and now they're probably astro projecting as well. Um, I also kind of did some study. I don't know why I was reading that or coming, looking for stuff about that. This guy came up and I didn't even know this, but apparently there's like spirits of the water or whatever, and he was part of that. And in the middle of the night, they like to around midnight, like to like come in and they can come in through your animals, they can come in through mirrors, they can come in through different things, they like to come into your bedroom when you're sleeping at night and they do whatever it is they do. And he said, if you wake up choking or you wake up in the middle of the night, it could be because they're like praying over you and doing whatever uh demonic stuff that they're doing, which is really interesting. But he he gave like a whole list of you know prayers that you could pray and stuff like that, and um could break all that off from you or stop them from getting in into you, which is really interesting.
SPEAKER_01On that note, I also have uh mental health training and uh and I'm well versed in you know the various forms of psychology. You might be familiar with auto-suggestion or heterosuggestion. Yeah, heterosuggestion is uh a thought or an idea that comes to you from outside of yourself, and this is what we know today as psychological warfare, okay? Um, people will say something, and like for example, the Marine that I told you about that I was involved with, he would plant things in my mind and he would expect that I would act from them. But because I had control of my own mind, I didn't do or react the way that he expected. But I also want to add here that, you know, the words that people use, the the way that they say things, the words that they use are a strong indicator to what their actual motives are. Because you can be having a conversation. Let's say you have a best friend and you've been best friends forever, and this person knows you in and out, and they want to portray that they're your friend, but you know, these weird things keep happening around you, and you're like, well, how do people know these things? Where are they getting this from? This is the narrative that that person is spinning about you. And if you watch their actions, I'm I'm also well versed in micro expressions, and I've seen some micro expressions that I would say are not quite so micro, rather, they're more like macro expressions, like it's dead giveaway. And so this is what people use, or this is how you can use other people's actions when having a conversation to determine like uh what is their agenda. So, for example, I'll give you an example in my case. I was asked by my public defender in the second uh malicious prosecution case that was also dropped uh of charges, right? Um, the public defender came to me and we were having a conversation and she's like, she says, Do you have military training? And immediately I caught on to that, like, because what why would you ask such a question? I said, Why would you ask that? What are you seeing? And I'll answer it for you here, just to give, you know, make a full round uh example here. She asked that question with a preconceived determination that their tactics were not working on me. Okay. This was after I had spent the better part of a month in solitary confinement. And they thought by not letting me out to shower or speak on the phone that they were going to drive me insane and therefore fulfill their narrative that they had preconceived about me being mentally unstable and silencing me by putting me into a mental institution and locking me away and throwing away the key. Okay. And remember, whenever you're locked into a mental institution, when you're institutionalized, the only court that can let you out is the same court that puts you in there. Imagine why they kept trying to force me into their jurisdiction down there in Monroe County. Imagine.
SPEAKER_00I don't think you know, but I actually have a bachelor's degree in human services. I could be a CB worker, but I refuse because I already know how crooked they are, but I know their job because I've got the same training. Um what is interesting with me was I worked in a mental health lockdown facility with troubled kids. And so when I was going through that whole thing, and I didn't know at the time, but my judge actually sat on a board of the place I was looking at hours later when I found it out, I was freaking out. Um, and of course I lost that job in a weird way, which I knew because she was on the board. Um, but I had worked in a mental facility, and so I had did things to put protection in place so that if she had uh put me somewhere, right, that people would know. I'd set like an autoresponder. I joined her church. As things got more crazier, more um dangerous, I did more things like joined her church and I was showing up to all these things she was doing, um, board she was sitting on, and you name it. Um I forgot where I was going with this.
SPEAKER_01Um You're talking about the mental health institution with the children and your bachelor's degree.
SPEAKER_00Right, right. So, you know, I I made it so that if she put me somewhere, that people um would question her where I'm at, you know, where is she at? Why'd you put her there? Whatever. I mean, could you imagine going to church? People are like, why is Dina or DK in in in uh church? You know, um, why is she, you know, where is she? Where'd you put her? Why'd you put her there? Whatever. Um, and a lot of people got started knowing who I was, and I had all kinds of, you know, um emails and and everything. So I got I'm pretty much known all across the US actually for the stuff that I did and going after them. Um, but you know, my biggest thing was, and I see people getting arrested and stuff all the time. I just put safety in. I had a website, the very first page I talked about my judge and how if I had court, I would hook up um, you know, the date and time that it was. And if I didn't remove it within 24 hours, please find me and please help me. When I got better at things, I was putting up my emotions so people could see that. Um, and I just try and stress to people like you have to put a safety in place. And I'm talking about, you know, autoresponders and, you know, um, you know, things like that, like my website, just you know, all kinds of things that you got to put in place so that if they do something to you, um, you know, people can try and help you.
SPEAKER_01Well, I don't mind to talk with you more about that um off of the recording. Um, but yeah, I've done some things, but to be honest with you, there's I mean, there's not a lot of people that can help, to be perfectly honest with you. Even if you have those things in place, even if there are people who are willing to stand up, the problem is that um there it's too widespread. It's not just in Monroe County, Florida. It's not just in the county in Michigan that you're from, it's not just in uh Ohio or uh it's in other countries because I went on um LinkedIn.
SPEAKER_00I'm like, I'm gonna go talk to professionals, you know, start educating professionals. I'm like, I'm gonna go on LinkedIn. And um, I started finding people from different countries, exact same thing. It's going on over there. It's it's all over the whole world, it's not just the US.
SPEAKER_01You know, knowledge is just information until you put it into action, into practice, which is why I had started that uh safe haven women's circle. And my main goal is to stop this kind of stuff from happening. This is the demonic realm that we're living in. Okay. And I'll be honest with you, if you don't know Christ, now is the time to know Christ. Now is the time to confess, repent, renounce, and resist because this is the end times. We are living the final stages of the book of Revelation right now. That all of the earthquakes, the uh volcanic activity, the solar flares, the red uh crimson colored sea across in the Caribbean somewhere. All of these things are happening. There's things appearing in the sky. All of this is very clear in times, verbiage, and experiences. And even if it's not the exact same thing that's quoted in the scripture, it still specifically says that there will be, you know, repeated natural or unnatural things that are happening that, you know, are very similar to what is described in the Bible, like the Red Sea. And we need to turn to Christ because if the rapture is real, and I'm not saying that it is or isn't, but if it is real, um, I want to, I'm ready. I'm not, I'm not trying to stay around to see the rest of the shit show. You know what I mean? And my children being minors are still covered under my faith. So my faith is um still covering my children. And so if the rapture happens and the Lord comes to take me, then my children get to come with me. And I don't care if it's this realm or another realm, as long as my children are safe and we get to be together, then um I'm happy to go there willingly. And I think that pretty much every parent would agree with that. So if you don't know the Lord, know him now.
SPEAKER_00This is what I think. This is my personal opinion. Um, I think that they know these files aren't going away. And nor should they. Nobody wants to back them up in whatever the president's trying to do. And they're going to make it to the point where we are in such a dire need that we can't think about the files because we're trying to just live and survive. And you keep hearing about EMPs. I went out if they let off EMPs, then there's no communication. Because that's the only way they're going to stop it, is no communication. And if that's what it takes, that's probably what they're going to do.
SPEAKER_01So, so, so there's a flip side to that coin. We have the Second Amendment right in place to bear arms for specifically verbatim. It specifically says to protect ourselves against a tyrannical government. And therefore, we have not only the right, but we have the duty. It's not a right, it is a duty. Like it's your duty as your uh as a mother to take care of your children. It is your duty as a citizen of this country to fight against tyranny.
SPEAKER_00I have a plan. I have an ebook that I I wrote on how to stay safe, um, dealing with the corruption in the family court, and I talk about how to go off grid because I was prepared in case I had to go off the grid because it was getting to that point. Um, so we are prepared to go off grid if we absolutely should have to or need to. All right, any final last words? I think I'm all set. All right. Thank you for coming on our show.
SPEAKER_01Thank you for having me.
SPEAKER_00Thank you for joining the dark side of Family Court with our anonymous uh guest today. And we hope that you enjoyed the show and we'll be with you shortly with another show. Thank you.