Seriously Just Girls Podcast
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Seriously Just Girls Podcast
Seriously... So Dramatic
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Dramatic is a strong word... but fitting for Celeste & Nikky in this week's episode. The ladies unpack what really sets them off; from crying in public to reading way too deep into the tone of a text. They also debate the question the world really wants to know - who's more dramatic... a man... or a woman? Spoiler, the girls are safe on this one
Hi! Hi!
SPEAKER_03Welcome back, ladies. Welcome, welcome. Misty guys, miss you, missed you, babe. Oh my gosh. Every time we spend a weekend apart, torture. Torture. I'd be thinking about you all weekend.
SPEAKER_01I was like, hmm, I wonder what Celeste is doing. I hope she's having a good time.
SPEAKER_03Tell us what you did this weekend. I went to stagecoach.
SPEAKER_01Ooh, Yehaw.
SPEAKER_03Yeehaw. I think I did. The cella boo. Yeah. Did you ever watch those videos? Reagan? This tickle. Seven. Oh, my bad, my bad. I'm saying the wrong numbers. Yeah. Get those out of here. Oh, you said what? Yeah, I did watch those. But yeah, I had a really good time. Honestly, it was my first time at Stagecoach. And you had a good time. I had a great time. I would do it again. I went with Bray and her sister and her parents, and it was really, really fun. Mind you, Braden's face card is lethal. No, I'm sick of her, dude. Oh lethal as well. I was like, what's in this blood? No, for real. Her mom too. Really? I didn't I will show you. I took family pictures. I was like, I kept calling them mom and dad all weekend. Girl, I can already picture you. You were right at home. I was, I was. No, but it was so much fun. And it was my first stagecoach ever. I would definitely do it again. I think it's something I want to experience with all my friends because that's how wholesome it felt. Like it was just so fun. I feel like it's very family-oriented. Yeah. I really like Stagecoach. I think my parents would enjoy Stagecoach. Obviously, it's who you go with, but my parents like to have a good time. I know they do. So I think they would enjoy it. I have been dying to party with your parents with Ricardo and Laura. I know. They were really tame on my birthday. At least my dad was. I was lit with your mama. Yeah, my mama was lit. You guys got her lit. At the end of night, she's like, We're done. Everything's going home. Why do you have to go home? No, for real. That's so funny. Okay, so were you okay with the crowds? Yeah, that's what I was worried about. I was like, it's my friend. Like, oh my gosh, I have to tell them. So Sagecoach got evacuated. Oh, yeah. Because of the winds, right? Yeah. So my boyfriend, also his friends and their family there. And so he was texting them about the evacuation, just making sure everything was okay. And I was like, oh yeah, let me text Celeste. And he goes, Yeah, text, text Celeste, make sure she didn't fly away. I was like, You think she's It was so funny. I was like, You're right.
SPEAKER_01I was like, Celeste, you okay? You still on the ground?
SPEAKER_03It was really windy. Like at one point, I Haley was like texting Braden and I, and she was like, It's really windy over here. How is it over there? And we were like, Oh, we're fine. And then all of a sudden it just picked up out of nowhere. And then it was really funny because we left the festival to go to the campgrounds to get some drinks or whatever, but we were like running, okay, because we were like trying to make it back to Riley Green. So it was me, Braden, and her sister Maddie. So we're like running, running, running, and we were gonna make it back. Like we were gonna run back. We only like literally have 10 minutes carved out to run over there and run back. By the time we ran back, they were turning us around and we couldn't go. Yeah, it was crazy. And then the evacuation scared. I was more so like, what's gonna happen? Because where am I gonna go? Yeah, well, you're being evacuated here. Yeah, and I was like, How are we gonna go home? I was literally thinking the event was over. And I was like, How are we gonna go home? What are we gonna do? I'm telling Brayden, like, where are we gonna stay, Braden? What are we gonna do? And she's like, it's fine, Baddie. It's fine. Braden's very like, relax, just shut up. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Like she was not panicking. Yeah, I'd be like, I'm so sad, like, we're not gonna see Riley Green, like we're not gonna see Pitbull. And she was like, Well, not with that attitude. But it was honestly like a really fun time. I have videos, and it's like her sister has like a bandana on, then glasses on, like the jacket she's covered up, and it was so funny. But the the wind was very scary. How do you feel now? I'm really sad that we didn't get to see Riley Green. He ended up coming out for I think maybe no, that was somewhere else. I know it was like at a bar, and I don't know if it was a bar in Stagecoach, like on Stagecoach grounds, whatever. I see, I see. But I think he came out with Lainey Wilson. I don't remember. Saturday was a crazy day for me. I had I had one too many. Not like that though. I ended up, but I ended up. Yeah. No, at one point, at one point I got lost. I got lost at Stagecoach, and I was scared. I couldn't find Brayden. I'm calling her. I can't get like our phones are all disconnected. Not disconnected, but no service, which is so weird. That was the scariest part. You had just said that morning, my service has actually been pretty good. Bray? I literally that's what I was thinking about. Must have been the win. But I definitely was like, oh, like I've had great service here the entire time. Like, not once have I not been able to call Bray or not been able to text you guys. Like anytime I need to text somebody or call somebody, like I was able to. So the one time that I really can't find Brayden, I no phones. I had a terrible I went last year. I think I'm gonna be an every other year goer because I am really scared to get sick. I was really scared too. Just because I have so many events coming up that I was like, oh, I can't be sick and then go have to go somewhere else. That's what I'm scared of. I'm gonna be in school and I'm gonna have to go to class sick. Well, thankfully. Oh, you mean next year? Yeah, yeah. No, honestly, I think it'll be much better. My immune system's up now because of it. Right. I remember you got sick like a lot within the last couple months.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, I don't know. It's like the first three months of the year.
SPEAKER_03No, like the first three months of this year, you were so down bad. You were sick every other freaking week. That's true. That program that we the program, guys, that we did, the one we talk about in every other episode. I got so sick for like 24 hours, but sick, so sick that I couldn't even like carry my own head. Yeah. That was really bad. That was probably the sickest I've been in years. Yeah. Just in that those 24 hours. I was obviously sick for longer than that, but that day was terrible. But I remember they were trying to send me back out. And I was like, Can't I just stay with her?
SPEAKER_01And you're like, I have to take care of her. I was like, I'll be fine. I can get sick. It's like being on her phone and be like, Nikki, you need anything? Well, okay. Taking TikTok. No, no, no, please. You're like taking videos. I'm like, girl, I can't even hold my head up right now.
SPEAKER_03I was like, keep my eyes open. It was it was insane. I think I tr I think had I taken my temperature, it would have been insane. Just of really, really bad fever. But I still took care of you though. Remember, I went out, grabbed you lunch, came back. I was in there with you. So you want to get some tea? I drove us home. I warmed it up for you. I'm pretty sure I drove my car that day. Yeah, I did. Yeah, and then I just sent Seda Prayer to drive my car. I don't even know how I got home that day. I don't know either. Because you were down bad.
SPEAKER_01I know I was so sick because I came home and I just fell asleep on my floor because I didn't want to be on my a sick but psychodrom.
SPEAKER_03Not on the bed, huh? Like not on the bed, no outside clothes on the bed. She couldn't even shower. I couldn't even shower.
SPEAKER_01But change, so I had to sleep on the floor.
SPEAKER_03But that's what I'm scared of. I think I'll be at every other year goer. So next year for sure. Yay. For sure, for sure, for sure. I don't know how I want to do it though. I wish I could just rent a big old RV. I know. I wish I could have a way to do it. You think? I really do. Because you're like right there. You don't have to worry about transportation. Yeah. You can just walk to your walk to the venue. And I would also love to be so close that like if I was getting overwhelmed, I could just go inside with myself. Yeah. But I also hear you don't really get good sleep. But I think if you're so exhausted, you're just not Yeah, you're gonna knock out. Yeah. That'll be fine. I don't know. Let me know. Maybe we get a group together. Side eye. We'll get a little group together. No, for sure. I think Braden agreed too that the RB was pretty cool.
SPEAKER_01But yeah, if John Meyer Lee lets me borrow his RB.
SPEAKER_03John, if you're hearing Can you let him borrow for the girls?
SPEAKER_02Yeah, that's my plan basically to ask.
SPEAKER_03Actually, I think I have one. I'm pretty sure you do have one. So that's crazy.
SPEAKER_01No, you can have being in your backyard, and I'm like, why don't we ever use that thing?
SPEAKER_03Wait, I think I'm gonna ask my dad today. I'm pretty sure we have an RV.
SPEAKER_01Okay, we'll let him know. No, we definitely have an RV. And it is great. It's like a motorhome. Like you guys have like a like a tour bus back there.
SPEAKER_03Wait, no, you're so right. Okay, I'm gonna talk to my dad and I will get back to the ladies. You don't even know it's back there. No, my dad was really funny yesterday. Oh my gosh, sorry guys, this is like a really long catch-up, but Licky and I haven't seen each other and we I feel like we had eventful weekends. We did. We haven't even gotten to my weekend. So I whatever I go out, and my dad was like, when I came home on Monday, my friends wanted to get together, and I haven't seen them in a while, so they were like, today's the only day, and I can't do the rest of the week. So it was like, okay, well, I can only do a couple, like I can only literally only do an hour. Like my dad's gonna be mad.
SPEAKER_01Uh-huh.
SPEAKER_03Because you know, everybody knows how my dad is. I cannot be out for too long. And so he calls me and he's so you really just don't have a house, huh? You just you come, you go, and I was like, So there I go, I'm gonna go back home.
SPEAKER_01Like, guys, I know I just got here, but I have to go. My dad's mad at me.
SPEAKER_03It'll come to an end. I'm excited for that to come to an end. Anyway, enough about me. Well, what about you? I want to know about you. I had a really, really good weekend. Okay, tell me about it. Friday. Friday was like a chill date night. We just got some tacos, watched a movie. Saturday. Saturday was more of a fun date night. We were in San Clemente and we just did window shopping, and tink shopping. It was really cute. And then Sunday I went wedding dress shopping with Haley.
SPEAKER_01Oh my gosh.
SPEAKER_03I journaled about this that night because I just had to. I literally it is such an honor to be a part of people's accomplishments and big moments. Honestly, I just felt very privileged, very honored, very like I don't know. It just made me love her more. Oh honestly. I think that's how I felt too. It was just so much loved her more, and I feel like she really loved me just to share that. Yeah. You know, I don't know. It just was really special. I think it's also the fact that she's guys is just shopping. Well, first of all, we really love shopping. Like we really take that to the heart. Yeah. Me. No, but I think it's also the age that we're at. Like it's damn like just the more that we're doing, the more that we're living, the more things get serious. The more things get serious. Is that what it does that sound right? The more things get serious? Yeah. Yeah. Oh, the more things get serious. Smart baddie. I just doubt myself.
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SPEAKER_03Yeah, but I think it's such a sweet, like bittersweet moment. Yes, it is, because I'm like, what do you mean we were just at your college graduation? Literally. And now we're wedding church at the end. Not even that. The way that I thought about it was like we literally we were just in freshman class together. Like, yeah, we just went like we were just at prom. You guys were in the same like prom party, right? Yeah. Yeah, yeah. We were. That's so cute. I hope you guys have pictures. We do. Unfortunately, there's annoying people in the pictures, but there's this thing called the race feature on Apple.
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_03I already blacked out his face, so it's fine.
SPEAKER_02Oh, you know what's so funny? I wasn't even thinking about him. I was thinking about bleep!
SPEAKER_03I know how to put a bleep. I know, we need to figure that out. Okay.
SPEAKER_02So yeah, that was my weekend, and I had so much fun, and I'm just so honored to be a part of it.
SPEAKER_03Yeah. I'm glad you were there. I wish I was there with you guys. It was really funny though, because Nikki and Tiffany were FaceTiming me and Braden the entire appointment, and so we were like almost right there. I can find to put the volume down. But you were there, you were at stage coach, you were in the best both worlds. I really was, yeah. Yeah, just the scariest part was probably getting lost. I started crying, like that's how like scared I was. I was like genuinely, oh my gosh, I don't know what to do. I can't I cannot find Braden. I'm actually scared. And yeah, I cried. You think I'm dramatic? Maybe it's no honestly, that was my biggest fear. Yeah. But I'm also it was so funny because you asked me, like, am I being dramatic?
SPEAKER_01Like, I'm really scared, I'm really lost. And I was like, I feel like you're asking the wrong person.
SPEAKER_03Like, no, Nikki would have been the first one. Yeah. I think I think I would have found an officer. I would have taken it to a different level. You know, like I think I would have someone needed to get me in contact with like admin. Yeah. You know, an admin service. Like, I would have oh no, no, no, no. If I got lost at a festival, like for real. After that, I was like, I'm not leaving Braden. I was like, I'm gonna just stay right here. The only reason I left because was because we wanted to see the pack with the leash on it. No, for real. The only reason why we split up was because I had to use the restroom and time Iris was about to play, he was about to go on, and I felt bad. I didn't want her to like Did you hear him at all? No, I did. Well, I'm literally I'm looking for Braden through the crowd. No, no, no. No, I wasn't paying attention at that time, but when I came out and I'm looking for Braden, like you have moments where you're like walking, you're like, this is a good song. No, at one point I did stop for like two minutes. I stopped because it was like a really good song, and I was like, I have to enjoy this. And I was already so emotional, so there's like a video of me crying to this song, and then I'm also like, where the fuck is Brayden? Like, I can't find her. Oh my gosh. Okay. Back to being dramatic though, because I think we need to really discuss this. Okay. We have to really evaluate. Are we being dramatic? Because I I think I've been called dramatic too many times. Me too. I always get called a drama queen. I'm like, I don't think it's a bad thing, actually. No, like exactly. Like, how can I define what I am without being a drama queen? I just think I'm expressive and sensitive. I'm emotional. I mean, like, when did those start being negative? Yeah, why do they have to be negative? Exactly. Appreciate it because you love when I'm super super caring and super super nice and super super considerate, but you don't like the negative of that. Right. And you know what? What lately I've been talking about. Lately I've been starting to feel more validated when I feel like I'm being dramatic. I feel like a lot of my friends and my people have made me feel valid. Let me explain this. Okay, yeah, yeah. It's a long little story. Okay, but we're all dramatic, so Right. It's a long little story. So I had this friend, right? I had this friend, she's a girl, and I had this other friend, he's a guy, and I kind of thought that I had a crush on this guy, right? So somehow, somehow, I ended telling my girlfriend about that situation, and eventually I find out that she, after I tell her that, she goes and she hits him up. And I was like, remember I texted you and Haley, and I was like, Am I being traumatic? I literally told her.
SPEAKER_01Absolutely not.
SPEAKER_03I literally told this girl, I told this girl, I said, that is so crazy when she finally tells me about this guy because she was like so scared to tell me, she like laughed it off because when she tells me like the name, I was like, literally, my mouth dropped. And I was like, This guy that I literally just said that I had a crush on. Yeah, I was like, I told you I had a that I thought I had a crush on him. And she was like, I know, I know. And I was like, wait, you knew burned? Yes, yes. And so I was like, okay. I was like, and I just like the way that she played it off made me feel like I was being dramatic. Like she was just like giggling about it. Yeah, I know, that's why I was scared to tell you. Ha ha ha. Kiki, blah, blah, blah. And I was like, I remember I went to the restroom and I texted you and Haley and Braden and Haley, because I unfortunately I got group chats everywhere. I got group chats everywhere. And I texted the two of you, the two group chats, and I was like, am I being crazy about this? And you guys were like, no, no, you're not. But at that time, I was like, I don't know, I feel like I'm being crazy. Like I I said I might have had a crush. I did tell her that I wasn't attracted to him, but I just had been spending a lot of time with him, so I didn't know if that was like the reason you're out. Like, as as your friend, off limits. Like the second a friend shares any type of I might like him, I might be attracted to him, I might not, I might want to explore something with him, I am not off limits. Like that, that's your brother now. Congrats. I literally just thought I was like being so dramatic, and I was like, no, no, no. And so whatever. I go out to dinner with my friends last night and I'm telling them about this, and they know this person, so they're like, she's weird. And I was like, thank you. Like, I knew I wasn't tripping. No, you were. Honestly, it's fine because like I realized that I didn't like the guy, and after being told that he was like talking to her too, it was kind of like, oh, I definitely don't like you now. Because if you're going after my friends, like I don't I don't like you at all. Yeah, but basically they're just a perfectly weird little couple, exactly. But no, no, no, he's still my friend. I don't think it was his fault. No, no, no, no, no. He didn't know. But but weird. I'm glad they're together. No, I don't think they're together. I I really don't know. I haven't talked to him.
SPEAKER_02For nothing. Yeah. I feel when people do weird stuff and it's like for nothing. And yeah, like you just lost out on a good friend. For nothing.
SPEAKER_03You literally just lost out on a good friend. Because honestly, I've been a good friend to her.
SPEAKER_01I hate when people don't appreciate friendship.
SPEAKER_03I hate it. No, yeah, but this girl was like, okay. Yeah, good. But those are hard to come around. And they are. But this girl was really pissing me off because she this girl was really pissing me off because she even had my sunglasses. And so I was pissed about panic about the sunglasses.
SPEAKER_01No, no, no, no, no.
SPEAKER_03There were some cheap ass Amazon sunglasses, but I literally were hers. They were mine.
SPEAKER_01You want my man Amazon?
SPEAKER_03Well, he's not my man. I never.
SPEAKER_01No, I know, I know. These are my words.
SPEAKER_03No, I remember I was like though. It's like girl code. It was weird. It was honestly weird. It was really, really, really, really weird. I actually have never, I think the last time I ever had a friend that was like kind of weird with boys was in middle school because I dated this guy for a really long time, like sixth grade until almost senior year. Like a long time. That was that was really my special friend though, you know? Because we were so young. But anyways, I was my special friend. Yeah, that's what I called him. Cause like we were so young, like, girl. Anyways, a holding hand felt like, oh my gosh. No, but honestly, they were like the it couple. Like, I remember I was like, damn, like they've been like, they I really loved you guys together, and I remember being like, damn. The heck. Anywho, hope you're doing well. It was friends with all of his friends, and these girls, I feel like these girls were pretending to be my friends to get to the guys because they were the cool guys. I played football, and I didn't really clock it. My mom clocked it because she'd be like, you notice how they didn't work out, and so she kind of stopped talking to you as much as she was, and I was like, No way.
SPEAKER_02But that's childish stuff, like that hasn't happened since middle school. Like, at our age, you should not have weird friends like that.
SPEAKER_03I'm sorry. That should not even be a thought or like a subject in a grown friendship. Like, that's just weird. There's so many men in the world. Why would you go after someone that I kind of maybe maybe thought about exploring something with? That's just weird. Like the fact that I even just told you about it, like the fact that he even trusted like telling you about that, because I didn't I literally told nobody except you guys and her and her, yes. No, I even told my nephew about the situation, and Nate is like, Nate will not agree with me. He won't. Like, he's very logical. And he took my side, and I was like, Damn. Alright, like I know I'm not tripping, but you really validated. Yeah, back to the sunglasses. I was really pissed about him, and yeah, I probably was dramatic. There were some cheap as Amazon sunglasses, but I did not give a bug, bro. Like And what's even crazy is I slid up on her story one time. She had me on her close friend, she's wearing my sunglasses, and I was like, Are those my sunglasses? Because if so, like I'm gonna need them back. She was like, No, they're my sisters. And I was like, These are definitely my sunglasses, but whatever, I get over it. I really wanted these sunglasses back. I gotta ask her about the sunglasses. Yeah, I really just wanted these sunglasses back because she was pissing me the fuck off. And finally, I text her and I was like, I need my sunglasses for stagecoach. Can I just get them back? At this point, she had gone on a trip and I she was wearing my sunglasses in all her freaking pictures, and I'm like, oh my gosh. I know I'm being dramatic. There's some cheap ass literature.
SPEAKER_02Did it look fun?
SPEAKER_03Uh no.
SPEAKER_02Okay. I have a quote about that.
SPEAKER_03What is it?
SPEAKER_02I was like, it was kind of it's kind of like a grimy, not grimy, I don't want to use that word.
SPEAKER_03It's kind of a side eye. I hate background noise. It's kind of like a don't see that thing to say. But I saw this quote and it's kind of been in my mind a lot where this girl on TikTok was like, I travel so my ops could travel too.
SPEAKER_01Or no, I travel so my ops can see new places too. I know that's right.
SPEAKER_03I was like, mm-hmm. So that's why I asked if you thought it was fun. And because you said it didn't look fun. It didn't. All she did was post pictures of herself. Like she didn't post any pictures with her friends, like whoever she went with. Like, I don't know who she went with, but it's like come on, that's really it. It's like you just went to the trip just to get pictures. And yeah, valid, but I don't think that does that make sense. I'm really shit talking here, but anyways, let's move on. I don't want to do this no more. I feel bad. I have a good heart.
SPEAKER_01You're like, this isn't me. I'm not proud of myself. I'm not proud.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, I'm not proud, but it was a fine fine. I get what you mean. I get what you mean. But that just goes to like how we love social media. I love creators who I don't know, tell a story with their stories. I'm like, oh And like just share their life. That's why I love Instagram so much because my friends are all over it.
SPEAKER_01I know literally, I'm like, Celeste, why haven't you posted? Like, I'm your fan, Celeste.
SPEAKER_03I love when you post, I love your videos, I love when you're creative. I don't know. I just like that's fine because I was like that for a really long time. I have a lot of videos and pictures though. I'm just like, I don't know, I'm not inspired to post anything, which is weird. That is weird of me, huh?
SPEAKER_02You know what? I'm not assuming anything at all. But do you think that maybe you're just like really good with yourself right now?
SPEAKER_03I think so.
SPEAKER_02I think it's like you don't even need to show anything.
SPEAKER_03You're just like uh not that I felt that way before, because I don't feel like I did. I think I've always just loved sharing my like I've loved posting pictures. I love taking pictures of all my friends and taking pictures of myself and you know, doing all of that. But I do feel like I'm just like, eh, I'll get to it. I get to it. Like, I feel like before I was just really excited about it. And I've been like, Oh, yes, I want to share. But now it's I'll get to it when I get to it. You're like, I don't know if everything I feel busy. Something fun next week in a post if I want to. Yeah. Yeah. Has a man ever called me drama, like dramatic? Oh, yeah, plenty of times. Yeah. Sometimes, like, a lot of the times I feel like it's a joke, but a lot of times it's not a joke, and I can tell. And a few times it was very evident that they were not kidding. But honestly, like, I feel like I spiced up their life, so I don't really care. I'm really trying to think if someone's ever told me that as an insult. I don't know. I feel like even if they did, even if it were a negative, what is it? Negative connotation? Even if it had a negative connotation to it. I don't think I ever took it that way. Like, I love being a drama queen.
SPEAKER_02Like, you're just a freaking drama queen. Like, and what else?
SPEAKER_03Tell me more. No, I spiced up your life. I literally make your life better. I don't care.
SPEAKER_01No, I I tell my boyfriend that I'm like, okay, but come on, you're entertained.
SPEAKER_03Are you not?
SPEAKER_01Like, come on. Rex could never, okay? Like, I know that I'm funnier. Like, I keep you on your toes. I keep it interesting. And you do. And I do.
SPEAKER_03And our friendship too. Really? Yeah. I think you're like so. I think you're a drama queen. And I think you're so like you're a drama queen in a way that's funny and hilarious and like witty. And drama is fun. Drama is fun. Doesn't have to be a bad thing. Exactly. I feel like gossipy, negative, life-sucking drama is not fun, but some drama is fun. Like we're not supposed to. The Bible says we're not supposed to, but the cheese meetings is fun sometimes. Well, especially when it's not like terrible cheesement. Yeah. When it's okay. Like psychically about the news and stuff. Yeah, or like, or like cheesement that happened to me myself. Like, I'm okay with it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I feel like I talk about myself more than I talk about anybody else.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, I definitely don't.
SPEAKER_03This is what happened.
SPEAKER_01You wouldn't believe what I was thinking last night. No, these dreams are crazy.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, but I also think men are drama queens, but who do you think takes the prize there?
SPEAKER_01No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
SPEAKER_03Men. Really? What do you mean? They're at war right now for what? For what? Because we're not getting their way. No, they are dramatic. They have created armies. You're right. They are dramatic. No, you're right. 1000%. They are dramatic. They're the ones doing the bad stuff. Every time there's a crime or there's like a terrible, terrible thing, who is it? A man. A man. You know, too. Like a woman because he is rejected. Yeah. I will say, like, I think my dad is like so dramatic. So dramatic, it's insane. I love your dad, but like he is, right? Everybody I think my dad is too. My dad is overreactive because he's dramatic. Yeah. You know, like he's dramatic because he's overreactive. And it's really frustrating too sometimes because, like, my dad will really say, like, why are you like this? Where did you get this from? Where did you learn this from? And it's like, where did I learn this from? Because unfortunately, it's in this household. It's underneath this roof.
SPEAKER_01The call is coming from inside the house.
SPEAKER_03No, all jokes aside though, my dad is really funny, but he is just so dramatic. My dad is um, like, if your dad was our age, I think he would be my friend. I think I would have grown up with someone like him. Like, he kind of reminds me of Edwin and Nathan a little. I don't know. Like, I think that that's the type of friend he would have been. Yeah. You know, like distant, but like someone that I can like laugh with. You definitely would have laughed. You definitely do, you definitely do laugh with my dad. I can't be like, oh, he's my friend. Hey Juan. Yeah, he's not. He's not even my friend. You know, he's your dad. I'm just saying that like he has a really cool personality. No, and I also oh thank you. That's really cool. He does have a cool personality. He just he sometimes Yeah, yeah. He's a dad. He's a dad. He's a dramatic dad. And he talks about. Your dad is also dramatic. Yeah, he is. A thousand percent. No, but I feel like I've only ever, I don't think I've ever met like maybe one guy. Maybe one guy I've met that's like super nonchalant, not drama, not dramatic. Yeah, yeah, yeah. No, but a guy that I've dated, a guy that I've dated, I feel like he is just not drama, like he's not drama, not dramatic. He's like nothing. Oh yeah. Like, I don't even think that man would ever get jealous. Oh, and you're bored. And you're bored, yeah, like something like that. You see what I mean? Like sometimes when they're dramatic, like we're not saying it's this bad thing, it doesn't have to be this bad thing.
SPEAKER_02No, no, no, no, no, no.
SPEAKER_03Because I'd be having fun with the drama, the drama queens and drama kings. Drama kings. Oh. But there there are some bad stuff. Like, I remember one time we were this is with an ex of mine, and he got to the point where he had to fight somebody because he was being so dramatic. Like he was like this homeless guy, and yes, it was like this like crazy thing. Like, he was just on a sick one, and I remember like going home and being like, What the fuck? That was weird. Like, I unfortunately have dated very, very dramatic men. Like my ex.
SPEAKER_01He thought that he was like, no one's gonna give you an Oscar after this performance. We're fine, reel it in.
SPEAKER_03You know, let's let's put a cap on some of this drama. It was it was way too much. It was like emotional about everything. It was a little too much. I was like, okay, let's relax. But then you date someone like who I'm dating, and I'm like, okay, what can I do to piss them off?
SPEAKER_01I feel like having some fun, you know? But not too much, not too much. I'm not toxic. I'm not toxic. I'm not too too much.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, not like that.
SPEAKER_01But you know, sometimes it's fun to have a little tip. It was so funny because the other night is like, what is wrong? It's like the sun went down and the latina came out.
SPEAKER_03No, I literally was dying because he says things so he no, no, he is very serious to the point where he's very unseriously serious, if that makes sense. Yes. Yeah, on your birthday, I remember we were cracking up because he was just saying some funny shit, and I was like, you know what? I ain't never seen this side of you. I I really like you. I feel like you have to give his like humor a chance. Yeah, for sure. There's so many people that you have to give people a chance for. That makes sense. Did he just say that right now? No, but I I knew I knew that my friends were gonna, you know, it kind of takes a lot for you to build that defense team with your friends. Like, you need friends that will defend your relationship. No, don't break up. Like, you need this, but if you don't have that, then you can make some really rash decisions.
SPEAKER_02But I knew my man had won a defense team at my birthday because one one thing that I like to do on my birthday is I like to ask what everyone's favorite thing is about me.
SPEAKER_01I'm like, so let's say some nice words, everybody.
SPEAKER_03Go around the table. Yeah, I'm like, come on, I'm listening. And he was like just saying these some really nice things about me, and they're like, Oh, he loves her. Yeah, we have talked about this before on the pod, but no, I completely agree. I think like when he said that and I heard that side of him, like I was like, Okay, yeah, uh, you know, I liked you, but I like you even more now, so we're cool, we're cool. As long as you have her eye, we're cool. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And I feel like it's so fun when it gets there. Yeah. Do you get really sensitive about like texting stuff if someone texts you a certain way, that they just send a K or they take forever to respond? Like you pick up on stuff like that? I do, but only with certain people. If it's you, Haley, and Bray. I think I've definitely had experiences with you and Haley specifically, where you guys will send a text and I'm like, Are you mad? Is everything okay? I definitely I'm at work right now. You're like, I actually can't talk. I'm texting from my watch. Yeah. So I'll like speak to experience. I'm using my my one little finger. No, yeah, but I've definitely have felt that way. And my sister too. Like, if she sends me like a dry message, I'm like, what is wrong with you? You are like that with your sister the most. I think you're like, Oh, I think she's mad, guys. Like, she's like, something is wrong. And you know, you're like, Well, did you call her? No, I really do though. What about you? Uh, do you I don't think you do? Yeah, I don't think I do. Yeah, I don't think.
SPEAKER_02I don't think I do. Actually, yeah, I don't think that I do.
SPEAKER_03What about like tone? Do you feel that way about tone? Like if somebody's like upset with- other than you I'm like a lot of me.
SPEAKER_01Other than you, because look, with me, I think it's easy because I kind of text how I talk.
SPEAKER_02Okay. But I don't really know a lot of people that text like they talk. Oh, you know the only person I'm like that with? My mom.
SPEAKER_03Like if she only says one, I'll be like, are you mad or something? Or is there something you want to say? She's like, No, I'm just at work. I'm like, okay, okay. Just make you share. Make me sharing sure. We cool, be cool. Yeah, I don't know. No, I don't think that I'm like that. My mom be sending me K's all the time, and I'm like, rude. I know she's I know she's rude. Like, there ain't nothing else about it. She's rude, she's mad. Yeah, I'm like, she hates me. But that's how she texts, so it's like I really had to get used to that. No, but I feel like I am sensitive when people take a really long time to reply. Yeah. If I texted you yesterday or something and you haven't replied to me, I'm like, I know this girl, like, she's on her phone. Specifically you. You know what though, I am really yeah, I don't do that to you. You're like, there's three people I text back and everyone else Sorry. But it's because you have people that you text all the time, so then everyone else I think gets brushed to the side. Yeah, you guys are always at the top of the conversation, so everybody else gets down to the bottom, and I kind of forget about them. So that's why I'm a bad texter.
SPEAKER_02I feel like I'm kind of like that too, which is not that nice.
SPEAKER_03It really isn't. But it's okay, and that explains it. That's actually a really good explanation. And next time somebody tries to tell me anything about being a bad texter, I'm gonna explain this.
SPEAKER_01It's really hard because I have two people.
SPEAKER_03Really, I have my mom, my boyfriend, and then our group chat.
SPEAKER_01That uh there's I can't talk to everybody. I can't do it.
SPEAKER_03I'm only one person. Ready for my lunch. And I only got a couple fingers out. I can't really do a lot.
SPEAKER_01I'm like, I can't eat and text everyone back. I'm sorry.
SPEAKER_03No, that's really good.
SPEAKER_01But I do get sensitive ball back because I'm like, okay, I texted you yesterday.
SPEAKER_03Why haven't you responded? Yeah. I do kind of get in my head about that a little bit. I used to be like that when me and my man first started dating. I would be like, okay. Do you like me? Do you not like me? No who I'm like that about that. You know who I'm kind of like that with, and it's totally not valid. My boss. Like, if my boss sends me like a dry text, I'm like, is everything cool? Do you hate me now? Do you wish you never hired me? That's how I feel.
SPEAKER_02That's probation.
SPEAKER_03Well, I think that's why I overthink it or something. I don't know. But like just little things like that. Because it does matter, like, kind of what they think about you. Of course, yeah. Yeah.
SPEAKER_02Especially, no, and especially when they're about to hire you, they're like so bubbly, like, we can't wait for you to join the team.
SPEAKER_03XOXO. And then once you're like on the no, you can't get that day on. Actually, I need you. You're like, no, that's true. Yeah. So I do get sensitive about that. Not really about the text itself, but how long it takes.
SPEAKER_02One thing that I feel like I am bad at sometimes is liking people's stuff on time. You focus on people that don't like your posts.
SPEAKER_03Yes, absolutely. Absolutely. You know what? Remember when I had a crush on that guy, my first crush after my first crush? He would like like some of my stuff and then wouldn't like some of my stuff. And even just friends, if you're not liking my like, I like everything. I love liking people's stories and I'll comment and like because that's the fun of Instagram. That's the fun of social media. Obviously, if I follow you, it's because I like yourself. Exactly. I'm gonna be a little bit more supportive. No, and I have people who have not liked my pictures in months, and it's like, why do you follow me?
SPEAKER_02Find out who the umps are.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, because I really be thinking, and I'm like, am I being dramatic about that? Like, it's just a like, but at the same time, it's it's not just a you should be happy for me. It's support, it's support. Thank you. Support.
SPEAKER_02No, it's so funny because I'll be on Instagram, and every once in a while I like to check on my friends' profiles, make sure it's still looking good, make sure that I didn't miss anything, and sometimes well, my girl Celeste, there is a moment where she was posting a lot, okay? And I was trying to take a little break.
SPEAKER_03I've grown, I'm mysterious. Oh, I did notice that you came back, yeah, you're like comment, comment, comment. No, and I really appreciate that.
SPEAKER_02No, I did uh first of all, I'm a little upset that there were some TikTok videos that I was the only comment on.
SPEAKER_03You know, because I have haters. I have haters.
SPEAKER_02All of them.
SPEAKER_03Yeah. Eventually I went back. Well, you were on like a cleanse. I was. I gave it I gave TikTok up for lens. Yeah. And then I kind of had a bad winter, so I just like it. Yeah, you weren't really trying to show up on there. Yeah. So yeah, but I always come back and I come back with a lot of support. So do you get does that make you upset when people don't like your pictures? No. No? Teach their own. Somet well, that's not true because okay, maybe not liking my stuff, because I don't really look at the people who like it, but I'll sometimes and I hate that I do this, but I'm like, what made you comment on this picture but not the other one?
SPEAKER_01Am I not that pretty in this one?
SPEAKER_02Or am I not that pretty in this one? Or am I too pretty and that's why you don't want to comment because you're a little hater? That's it, that's the one.
SPEAKER_01No, seriously. I'm like, what is it? Why did you comment on that one? Not this one.
SPEAKER_03I feel like I have the same like 30 followers who comment on every single thing. Like, I definitely have I see the same people on every post. Yeah. I have my team, but then there'll be like some stragglers that on some they'll comment and on some they won't. Yeah. And I'm like, hmm. What's I just I also would love to know the reasoning. Well, I'll tell you my reasoning. I'll tell you my reasoning. Sometimes I like do that because I'll notice that like they don't comment on my stuff. So then I'll be like, I'm not gonna comment if you don't comment on mine. I I show you love, is what how I see it. I show you so much love. And if you don't want to give me love, fine, I won't give you love. So this is I'm petty.
SPEAKER_02No, no, this gave me a lot of clarity.
SPEAKER_03And I realized that I should comment on more people's things. Yeah. If that's the reason why that makes a lot of sense. There's one girl I'm thinking in specific that I'm like, why isn't it every pose? Why is it only some pose? It's my It's weird. It's like some yes, some no. I think ex is family, like I think it's tricky there. Yeah, I still comment on I still comment, but uh it's hard because I comment on these people, like my ex's family's cousins or whatever. I comment on them because I had I was friends with them, so it's like and they comment on mine too. But there's a few that don't they literally just follow me just to follow me, and so many times I'm like, I really want to unfollow you, but like I also have so much love.
SPEAKER_02But it's like oh I thought you were gonna say like finally I'm over a thousand. Fuck you. And that would have been valid.
unknownI would have been valid.
SPEAKER_03I'm not mad at that. I'm literally not even mad at that. Like, that's so valid. That's really funny that you say that. I think if like sometimes I feel really grateful, not to like go off topic, but I feel really grateful when I have conversations like this with my friends because I'm like, wow, you really know me. Like you really get me. No, but like to love someone, I think is to really to just try to understand them.
SPEAKER_02I think the more you love someone is the more you like try to understand. I don't know. That's just so beautiful.
SPEAKER_03Because what do you really get out of it? You don't get matrimony, you don't really get a family, you don't buy a house with your friends, like being a good thing. This is like the one thing that's like just friendship and just like it's supposed to be selfless. Like selfless.
SPEAKER_01Beautiful, yeah. Oh wow. That is human. That is both nosy. This is all me. Don't partake in that. I don't even know why I said that.
unknownBut yeah.
SPEAKER_03What are you so seriously serious about on this episode? On this week's episode, I am so seriously serious about being unserious. I'm in such a good mood. I can't think of something to be serious about. But I feel like I can make that serious. Yeah. You know, I I just don't I don't want to be serio I don't want serious things in my life anymore. I just want to be like very at peace, very happy. I guess negatively serious things, if that makes sense. I'm serious about traveling, I'm serious about my friends, I'm serious about the serious things happening in their lives, like Hayley getting married. But everything else, I just want to have fun. You feel free you're you want to be free. Yeah, and I think you feel free. I want to be like happy. I want to be in a good place because this is the best time to be in a good place. Like I'm safe. I am really lucky that I live with my parents, I have a lot of freedom, but there must be not. I'm not yeah, sorry.
SPEAKER_02Come on. Let my girl out, let my pups out.
SPEAKER_03No, but when me and my boyfriend were at San Clemente, just like window shopping, I felt so and we also had a little tiff, okay, about decorating this weekend. And I was like, this is the serious stuff that I want to argue about. Like, I don't know, this is like the adult and the light-hearted arguments to have, and I feel like I had so many serious, traumatizing kind of arguments before that I just I don't know, I'm done with it. Yeah, like I'm so done with the tragedy and trauma and bad things. Like, I just want good things, and so I'm just so serious about being unserious and just being like happy. You know, it makes me really happy to hear you say that. Thank you. Like, I I feel happy for you. I feel like now I'm like, like, I was already happy and I was already in a good mood, but now that you said that, I'm like, my girl's in a good mood. Like, this is how she wants to be. This is her, this is how she wants to live life, and that's so beautiful. Because a lot of people have really bad mentalities and just like are angry at things, and you know, life is too short to be angry, gorgeous. No, I do feel really good at thank you so much. What are you serious about? Me, I feel like I'm kind of serious about a couple different things. Okay, like I was telling Nikki, I was telling Nikki on my way here that I just am starting new like different things and I'm experiencing so many different things. And I don't know, like in some weird way, I feel like I kind of have a new purpose. Nikki said that. Oh yeah, you have a purpose again. Yeah, and so Nikki was the one who who said you feel like you have a purpose. And I was like, you know what? Yeah, I do. I just feel so different about life lately. I feel like we're on such positive notes, but I feel like I'm different about lots of different things. I know that is such a blessing. Wait, and we worked hard to get here. Yes, I do think that just in the past year, everything has just been so like happy and like crying tomorrow. No, no. See, we can't say stuff like that. It's good. I'm happy. Life is literally so beautiful. I don't know. I'm being sappy. It's that 10 milligram like surprise. No, actually. No, don't tell me. Yeah, I have not been taking it. It's been like two days. I have to get back on it because it's important. You do want to take it off, you gotta taper, okay? Right, right. No, you're so right. I gotta, yeah. No, but I don't want to get off it because I think it definitely helps. I think it's yeah, it's good. It's good. Me too. Anyway, another thing that I'm really seriously serious about is actually my favorite show on Netflix right now. It's called The Running Point.
SPEAKER_01Oh my god.
SPEAKER_03I have waited months. I have waited months for this new season. It's back. I finished it the night before Stagecoach. I watched it all. It dropped it dropped on the 23rd, and I watched all of the episodes all night. Mm-hmm. Yep. My mom loves that show. Oh. Have you seen it? Yeah, I saw I saw season one. Okay, here's my thing, and I know I talk about this in all of our shows, and I'm guilty of it too. I'm just like so over the cheating trope. Like, I'm so over it. Why does everybody have to cheat in literally everything? Everything. Like, why does Hollywood want us to be bad? Yeah, I will say. I actually was really upset about that too. And spoiler alert, can you take it? You don't really watch it. I watch it, but I like spoilers, you can tell me. Okay. Well, in the second season, I'll try to be as vague as I can. But in the second season, I get mad at her all over again, and I'm like, oh, like, why'd you have to do that? It's just not cool to play with people's feelings. And the show just pisses me off. And instead of making it a big deal to not play with people's feelings, because that is serious, and that's not cool. Yes. They kind of just like brush it off as a joke. And yes, the show is a joke. It's a funny show. But it's not cool. Pushing. Yes. So that it does upset me. However, I love the show. It is my favorite show right now. It's a really good show. I can't wait for season three. I love well-written characters where I'm like, every person is different. Like this, you know. This is gonna get you though. Like, honestly, the whole thing is really, really good. And the last episode, it was like like jot on the freaking floor. Like the whole thing was really, really good. That's all I have to say. I do need to watch a show. I just feel like I think I'm gonna schedule a day to just watch some shows and just be in bed. I think I also need that. This is like my one weekend where I like didn't really have a lot to do. All of a sudden I got a bunch of shit to do. Yeah. I'm going out on Friday night. Saturday I'm gonna go see Geordie and Jazz and Willie. We're gonna day drink. Yeah. Sunday. What am I doing Sunday?
SPEAKER_02What am I doing?
SPEAKER_03Actually, I think I'm free Sunday.
SPEAKER_02I'm calling out Sunday.
SPEAKER_03If I work with you. Sorry. Thank you. Why are you calling out? Where are you going? Because me, my partner, and his friends are going to this. You're only welcome to join. Yeah. Market in Dana Point, where they make make things. It's like a flea market in Dana Point. Like a pop-up of like small local businesses.
SPEAKER_02Can I go?
SPEAKER_03Yeah. Okay, I wanna come. Okay. Let me make sure I don't have plans, but if I don't have any plans, I wanna come.
SPEAKER_01I love you.
SPEAKER_03Okay.
SPEAKER_01That was so much fun.
SPEAKER_03I'm really happy I saw you. Yeah. Such a good night. I'm gonna sleep like a baby. We need to see each other again, though. No work.
SPEAKER_01No work.
SPEAKER_03So me and Philasco, no work. We have a day, no work. We literally have hung out on a Thursday and a Friday. Filmed, edited Thursday, and then Friday just hung out. No, guys, we'll be putting in work into this into this podcast.
SPEAKER_02We put our heart into it. I love it.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, we love you guys, and we just like really appreciate the support. I feel like we get a lot of support and a lot of love.
SPEAKER_01I really feel like we do too for just a little it like little it podcast, you know?
SPEAKER_03Like really it's just us. We're just girls. Yeah, just girls talking in a bedroom. Chit chatting. I don't even know what I'm saying. Chit talking. No, chit chatting. Jesus. I just can't talk because I'm hungry.
SPEAKER_01Oh.
SPEAKER_03I gotta get out of here.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, you gotta go eat, girl.
SPEAKER_03Okay.
SPEAKER_01Okay, hallelujah.
SPEAKER_03Hallelujah. Everything, hallelujah.
SPEAKER_01Everything, hallelujah. Nikki, hallelujah. Celeste, hallelujah.
SPEAKER_03Life, hallelujah. He didn't perform, so not him, hallelujah.
SPEAKER_01Love you guys. Bye. See you next week. Bye.