Ghosted, Breadcrumbed & Still Single

We bring on Augi and Ant from No Filter and compare their long-term marriage perspective to the chaos we face in modern dating. We get brutally honest about deep diving, Facebook warning groups, ghosting, and the red flags that can save you months of stress. 
• how No Filter with Augi and Ant gets started and how they record 
• what marriage looks like after 19 to 21 years and how date nights stay spontaneous 
• Kayla’s take on keeping intimacy strong through emotional connection 
• why deep diving a person before dating matters for online dating safety 
• what we learn from “Are You Dating This Guy?” groups and how to use them wisely 
• the “I’m busy” excuse, breadcrumbing, and why ghosting still hurts 
• our own red flags plus the guys’ self-identified red flags 
• how we decide if the vibes are real from photos, banter, and first meetings 
• meeting people organically, approaching women respectfully, and navigating friend groups 
please continue to like, subscribe, and email us at nothinguntouchedpod@gmail.com. 

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Welcome To Nothing Untouched

SPEAKER_04 0:01

Hey besties, you're listening to Nothing Untouched, the podcast where we overshare, laugh a lot, and talk dating, hookups, and heartbreak, and all the messy moments in between. Hi, I'm Ivy Noor. And I'm Scarlett May. Buckle up, besties. Nothing is off limits.

Meet Augie And Ant

SPEAKER_04 0:37

How are we doing tonight? Hey, how's it going? Guess what? We got motherfucking guests. Oh, we have Augie and Ant from No Filter with Augie and Ant. Welcome, guys.

SPEAKER_03 0:51

Double repeat, double repeat.

SPEAKER_04 0:54

Do you guys actually use that as your title though?

SPEAKER_02 0:57

I think so. Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 0:58

There you go. Perfect. All right. Well, so we're gonna go ahead and get started.

SPEAKER_06 1:03

Yeah, absolutely. So, so first things up is we want to know more about your pod, what it's about, what made you want to start, all the all the good things.

SPEAKER_04 1:12

And what's the name mean?

unknown 1:14

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 1:14

So

How No Filter Got Started

SPEAKER_04 1:15

no filter. Ooh, that's kind of lat.

SPEAKER_02 1:18

Yeah. So um, I guess I'll take over from here. I know Anthony might might chime in on it a little bit. So I'll jump here. Yeah. So basically how we came up with it was kind of random. So we did a large loss at a pretty big building. Three, four stories, water loss, I guess you could say that you were working at. Yeah, that we were working at we got and kind of had technically sold a job and then got it, then worked there. So Aunt's dad actually worked there and helped us get the job. So basically, we went kind of walking around showing us, you know, the thank God for Aunt's Daddy.

SPEAKER_01 2:02

Oh dad.

SPEAKER_06 2:06

Can he get us jobs too?

SPEAKER_01 2:09

Probably.

SPEAKER_06 2:09

He sounds like the guy to go to. Not this location though.

SPEAKER_03 2:14

Yeah, he's a good old time student. Where are you guys out of?

SPEAKER_04 2:17

You guys, Florida, right?

SPEAKER_03 2:19

Yes.

SPEAKER_04 2:19

Do you mind sharing what part of Florida?

SPEAKER_02 2:21

You don't have to, but I guess you could say Tampa.

SPEAKER_03 2:24

Yeah, Tampa location would be like the biggest well-known location.

SPEAKER_04 2:28

Yeah, we're I'm familiar with Tampa. I've been there.

SPEAKER_06 2:30

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 2:31

I uh yeah, most definitely. I've been to Florida like 20 times. I have not.

SPEAKER_06 2:35

This is a zivy. I've not been.

SPEAKER_04 2:37

Yeah, and by the way, this is Scarlet. I didn't introduce myself. All right. So continue. I we do interrupt quite a bit. Continue. You your dad, your daddy got you the job.

SPEAKER_02 2:48

Yeah, so he got us the job. So he was showing us around like kind of the upper floors where kind of nobody goes. And we saw a recording studio that the owner's daughter uses to record her albums because she's a singer, I guess.

SPEAKER_04 3:02

Okay. Is she a famous one?

SPEAKER_03 3:04

Trust me, I said the same thing too when I first saw the studio. I'm like, this is kind of low-key sus because they had like a double screen on both sides. Like, what's really going on in here? What's actually going on here happening? Behind closed doors.

SPEAKER_04 3:17

Yeah, so daddy actually has a daddy. So there is a real there is a daddy in your whole situation. JK, okay.

SPEAKER_02 3:25

Two daddies. Two daddies.

SPEAKER_04 3:27

Oh, okay. Let's go. All right. So there's a recording studio upstairs from a famous singer. We're not not not famous.

SPEAKER_02 3:36

I don't think she's famous. She almost made it.

SPEAKER_03 3:38

I think I think she almost made it. I don't know the real story. She ended up getting sick, I guess, and then kind of stopped everything.

SPEAKER_01 3:44

Oh, she's famous.

SPEAKER_03 3:46

Yeah. Do you guys know her personally? No. No, my father kind of does. Okay. Yeah. Standpoint. Well, daddy probably knows her. Okay.

SPEAKER_06 3:55

So is that uh is that where you guys record at then? I mean, I guess, okay, sorry, we're we're interrupting quite a bit. So continue on with the story then. So there was a recording studio, almost famous girl. Daddy knew her a little bit. Go. Right, right.

SPEAKER_03 4:09

So that's pretty much what enlighten it. And that's where you guys record. No. We want to.

SPEAKER_02 4:16

Okay.

SPEAKER_03 4:17

We want to.

SPEAKER_02 4:18

So it I love that.

SPEAKER_06 4:19

It hitched an idea though, somehow, some way, and it sparked something between you guys.

SPEAKER_04 4:24

When you saw this recording studio, you guys were like, let's get a podcast going. Let's get in there.

SPEAKER_06 4:30

We saw those screens.

SPEAKER_04 4:32

Yeah. I know like we can make this happen, except for not in this room yet.

SPEAKER_03 4:37

Right. That was the dream. I love that. No, I fuck you. Yeah.

SPEAKER_06 4:41

It's very good. We're jealous because that's our dream goal is to have a fucking studio.

SPEAKER_04 4:45

We need a fucking studio because a lot of shit happens around everywhere. Um, so you guys record at Augie's house?

SPEAKER_02 4:55

So we started, so we started from like a work building, basically almost like an office, but we couldn't really style it or anything like we wanted it. But then we moved to an another office, and then we went to my house, and then we're like, we lived like 20 minutes away from each other. So we're like, hey, we need to find something that we can record from my house and his house at the same time. Oh, so you guys aren't in the same room. No.

SPEAKER_04 5:24

Oh, see, Scarlet, me and me and I that's what I understood though, too. Like at the time. We just didn't have time to talk.

SPEAKER_06 5:31

No, you thought they were in the same room.

SPEAKER_04 5:33

I did. Yeah. I yeah.

SPEAKER_03 5:35

And so are you guys in the same room?

SPEAKER_04 5:36

Yes, we do. Uh, it's the best way for us to connect with each other because we literally stare at each other. Yeah. And well, I and we can vibe off each other when we're in the same room.

SPEAKER_06 5:48

But I mean, we also work together.

Recording Setups And Real Chemistry

SPEAKER_06 5:50

I mean, so there's fun facts about it.

SPEAKER_03 5:52

Yeah, there's that connection.

SPEAKER_04 5:54

So, how did you guys come up with the name? No film. What's that mean? Like for you guys.

SPEAKER_02 5:59

I think Ant can answer that better.

SPEAKER_03 6:02

So the no filter part just came from a lot of our phone call conversations that we have from when we're on the job or when he's calling me just because we're pretty close. We've been we've been homies for about what six, six, seven years now.

SPEAKER_02 6:16

Five, five, six, seven years, something like that.

SPEAKER_04 6:18

Okay. Would you say you're besties?

SPEAKER_03 6:22

I would say we're besties. Oh, almost brothers.

SPEAKER_04 6:26

Okay, all right. Love that. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 6:29

So it just ended up like how we talk to each other. We always low key either talking shit about an employee or just anyone randomly so we're just like, dude, let's just be like all of them.

SPEAKER_06 6:40

Because you have you you you can like my they're like-minded right there, right? So you can balance your troubles and your situations off of day-to-day life, which is really nice.

SPEAKER_04 6:51

Since he only lives 20 minutes away, I I do suggest you guys getting in the same room because it does make a difference in the whole vibe of everything for Rio.

SPEAKER_06 7:01

But it it's wild because when you said 20 minutes away, I literally live 20 minutes away from the house. I know it's too much. So we're not going to be able to do that.

SPEAKER_02 7:10

Yeah, tell us the the the crazy thing about that is that he was coming to my house, right? And we really couldn't, we we didn't feel a natural, a natural talk between each other.

SPEAKER_04 7:24

Oh so you guys had the opposite situation. Okay. Okay, that must be the dude perspective.

SPEAKER_03 7:32

I probably think it was daddy. We were it wasn't like the legit vibe we were low-key getting from like our awkward.

SPEAKER_04 7:38

Was it just awkward you guys looking at each other? Staring each other in the eyes.

SPEAKER_03 7:43

They were like probably probably it was our very first time doing everything with each other, so I think it just was the first time doing everything with each other.

SPEAKER_04 7:52

What is everything? I need to know where are we going with this, boys? So that's I think this this was where we're boys don't cry situation.

SPEAKER_03 8:01

This is where we were trying to make it big on it. Trying to do more videos and everything where we were trying to do the video situation, Jerry.

SPEAKER_04 8:08

Oh, okay.

SPEAKER_03 8:09

Are you guys

Marriage And Kids From The Guys

SPEAKER_03 8:10

face-to-face?

SPEAKER_04 8:11

Okay, so are you either one of you in a relationship or dating, married?

SPEAKER_03 8:17

Yep, we're both all married with kids.

SPEAKER_06 8:19

Okay, now how many? Okay, so Augie, how many kids do you have?

SPEAKER_03 8:23

I got three.

SPEAKER_06 8:24

Okay, and how many kids do you have?

SPEAKER_03 8:27

I got one.

SPEAKER_06 8:28

Okay, congratulations. Are you guys still having kids?

SPEAKER_03 8:31

No.

SPEAKER_06 8:32

What can we so Ant is he's got one, you've got three, Augie. So can I ask though? So Augie, you are married. How long have you been married?

SPEAKER_02 8:43

19 years.

SPEAKER_06 8:44

Damn. Wow. Can I ask? Can I ask how old you are?

SPEAKER_02 8:48

39.

SPEAKER_06 8:49

Okay, so I'm 40, I'll be 42 this year. And I'll be, I'll be something.

SPEAKER_04 8:55

Oh, okay. I'll be an age.

SPEAKER_03 8:57

So be an age that no one will be able to do it.

SPEAKER_04 8:59

I'm actually, yeah, I'll be 46. And yeah, no, I just don't like saying ages, I guess.

SPEAKER_02 9:05

You're still young. Yeah, absolutely. So old nowadays.

SPEAKER_06 9:10

So exactly. So, and okay, so let's start with you then. So you're married. Yes. Let's end with you. So sorry, I don't know why I said started. All right, okay. So how long have you been married?

SPEAKER_03 9:20

For about almost as long as him, about 20, 21 years.

SPEAKER_06 9:24

Um, okay. So how old are you?

SPEAKER_03 9:26

I'm 34. Is it 34 or 30? You got married young.

SPEAKER_04 9:30

Oh, okay. I love that. I love this. So let's ask this question. Are your wives hot pieces of ass?

SPEAKER_02 9:39

I think so. I think so.

SPEAKER_04 9:42

How are they cool with you guys coming on with us? Did you mention it? Okay, I'm just making sure because I want the wives to be on though. Oh, now I like need their fucking perspective. I do. I want that.

SPEAKER_03 9:53

I would love to see where they're at. I would want to be on the podcast.

SPEAKER_06 9:56

Listen, okay. If you yeah, if you want him to like talk shit about you, get you on it, yeah.

SPEAKER_03 10:00

Like you could low key talking. Mom, I'm sorry.

SPEAKER_06 10:03

Is she in there?

SPEAKER_03 10:04

She is. She's all right.

SPEAKER_06 10:06

Let's let's hear from you. What's her name? I want to hear it. Get her in here, mommy.

SPEAKER_03 10:10

You want to be in a part of the podcast, real quick? She's like, Yes, you really, yeah.

SPEAKER_04 10:15

No, let's go. Like, get her in here. What's her name?

SPEAKER_03 10:17

Oh, her name is Kayla. Kayla, Kayla.

SPEAKER_04 10:21

That's good. That's a pretty name. Augie, what about your relationship? How does that what's that night dynamic?

SPEAKER_02 10:27

I mean, it's it's pretty nice.

SPEAKER_04 10:29

Does she like your podcast? Does she is she okay?

SPEAKER_02 10:31

She don't listen to it.

SPEAKER_04 10:33

What at all?

SPEAKER_02 10:34

Yeah, at all. I mean, she tried, but like she she's like, what is it called?

SPEAKER_04 10:39

We can hear you, Aunt.

SPEAKER_02 10:40

She doesn't like to hear my voice. She hears it when I talk to her all day, but she doesn't want to hear it again.

SPEAKER_04 10:46

Yeah. Damn that. I I want to hear from your voice. 19 years of marriage will get you right. She's there. I've had enough of you. Like not want to hear your motherfucking voice ever again coming through headphones. Get out of here. I fucking love it. I do too. I do want her to listen to this pod though, because she needs to be a good one. You know, you're making your day debut right here.

SPEAKER_06 11:10

Yeah. Well, not only that, but like she can come on and talk girl talk with us.

SPEAKER_04 11:14

Yeah, for

Kayla Joins And Keeps It Real

SPEAKER_04 11:15

real.

SPEAKER_06 11:16

Say hello. What's up?

SPEAKER_04 11:17

Hello. Hi, uh, is this Clay? Yeah. Hey, how are you? Okay, so me and we we say the same questions. I this is Scarlett. This is Ivy. Okay. We we kind of talk over each other sometimes. How are you tonight? Oh, I'm good. How are you guys?

SPEAKER_06 11:34

Good.

SPEAKER_04 11:35

Is so is Anna good in bed?

SPEAKER_06 11:39

Yes.

SPEAKER_04 11:40

Okay. All right. What's your favorite position? I don't know.

SPEAKER_06 11:49

Oh, you guys have been married for 20. Okay, so okay, so you guys have been married for like what, 21, 22 years? Is that what Aunt said?

SPEAKER_00 11:59

Yeah, we've been together that long.

SPEAKER_06 12:01

Okay, so cool. So then how do you how do you keep it spicy art going in the bedroom?

SPEAKER_00 12:08

Honestly, it's more than just like a physical thing, it's more like an emotional kind of connection. Yeah, I'd hope so.

SPEAKER_04 12:17

I mean, you can't keep the physical stuff going for 21 years. I mean, for real. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 12:24

That was like the whole thing.

SPEAKER_04 12:25

Somebody gets a beer belly, somebody doesn't put going to the gym. I mean, that's true. Okay. So you're you have a great emotional connection, correct?

SPEAKER_00 12:37

Yeah, we do.

SPEAKER_04 12:38

I love that. Perfect.

SPEAKER_06 12:40

I love that. Well, it was so nice talking to you, and then maybe we can connect later in life. Yeah. See what happens. Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 12:50

Okay, that wasn't her hitting on you, I swear. Well, it might have been. It might have been. She she goes both ways. She's like, Sorry's getting. So we talking a third here, guys. Uh I'm going to Florida soon. Now, let's go.

SPEAKER_01 13:04

Come by. Come by.

SPEAKER_06 13:05

Just kidding. So, do you guys do you guys have closed relationships, open relationships? Like, what is that like with you guys?

SPEAKER_02 13:13

Mine for sure is closed.

SPEAKER_06 13:16

Okay. That's how I operate as well. Augie. Oh, it's Augie and so I'm Yeah, no.

SPEAKER_03 13:22

Yeah, it's definitely like a closed one.

SPEAKER_06 13:24

Okay, perfect. Awesome. Nice. Okay. So

Deep Diving Before You Date

SPEAKER_06 13:27

we're gonna go, we're gonna go right into our episode. We're gonna go into the topic for today. Diving into a person prior to dating.

SPEAKER_04 13:35

So this might be hard for you guys to chime in on because when you guys got married back in the day in the 1800s.

SPEAKER_01 13:44

Back in the days, in the 1900s.

SPEAKER_04 13:46

1900s. Um, you guys didn't have dating sites. You guys didn't have what we experience now.

SPEAKER_02 13:54

Yeah, how is it?

SPEAKER_04 13:56

Oh, okay. Yeah. Well, it's motherfucking awful.

SPEAKER_06 14:02

So we just the reason that we're going into this though is Scarlett is gonna share with you guys a situation that she had. Um, we need to put this out there not only for I guess. Motherfucking blast that guy. Well, correct. But also to just so you guys know how bad it really truly is out here and for our listeners, please chime in and let us know if you have this situation and need help in any kind of way because that can kind of make you go into a situation you might not be able to pull yourself out if you don't have the support.

SPEAKER_04 14:35

So yeah. So this this happened to me over the weekend, and that's why we're doing a deep diving into someone prior to dating them. And when I we say deep dive, we mean socials accounts, right? Basically everything.

SPEAKER_03 14:48

Like how far, how far are you gonna go into trying to figure out who we're gonna do? Exactly. Yeah, and so we need you guys to claim in in any kind of way that you can.

SPEAKER_06 14:57

Yeah. While Scarla is telling her story, we would love that.

SPEAKER_04 15:01

Okay. We did cover um a little about we did an episode in season one about our safety before we go on a date. And one of them is like, we might not delve like we we should, but we do look up maybe or quartz.com, possibly. Well, there's only three that we didn't know about.

SPEAKER_01 15:20

Sounds good.

SPEAKER_04 15:22

Yeah, because you don't really know the person on the other side of the phone. You don't know who you're fucking talking to, truly. You could be talking to a woman that's in her 80s. I mean, not likely, but catfish. Yeah, there's fucking catfish. So I had this come up on my Facebook. Do you guys have Facebook?

SPEAKER_01 15:41

Yes.

SPEAKER_04 15:42

So I had this come up on my feed. It was, are you dating this guy? And it has different areas of where, like, you're like, let's say, yeah, where like let's say yours is Tampa, and then there's you guys have that too.

SPEAKER_03 15:59

I saw something similar to it while you guys are talking about this.

SPEAKER_04 16:02

I had to you're not on there, right?

SPEAKER_03 16:04

No, that's what I'd be like, oh I know what I got on here, bro.

SPEAKER_04 16:08

You were gonna look now. Yeah, I know. I'm gonna be deep diving on you now. So anyway, I just I got this feeling. This is I just had a feeling, and I was like, oh man, I'm gonna look and see if my ex-boyfriend is on there. And I did some deep dive, and I the reason why I wanted to look it up, I was just curious, but I had like a feeling. And we tried to remain friends after we broke up, and so I found him on there. Yeah, oh yeah. He was in he was listed in this group not once, but twice. And not not a single thing was said good about him, not a single thing. Now, did you notice any of those like red flags prior to those great question because I okay, so I was in a marriage for 11 years and I got divorced. And so I was new, new, new to dating. And so I hopped on Tinder. Why not? Let's see what's out there. And we we clicked like within the first two weeks, and I so I really was new to the dating scene altogether, so I really didn't know what the fuck I was doing. Not only that, but he was quite a bit younger than me. I don't know. Uh yeah, these young guys, they like a good coup. He was uh like 15 years younger than me, so that should have been my first inclination. But anyway, no, there were some red flags. He asked if there were some red flags that I should have seen.

SPEAKER_06 17:40

Gotcha. Sorry, I had to get up for a second, so sorry, I'm back.

SPEAKER_04 17:43

So at first I didn't notice any red flags, but as the relationship progressed, I started noticing things and I started to get, but you know what? He's a fucking narcissist. Yes, and he would be like, Oh, I can't believe I I didn't think you were like this.

SPEAKER_06 17:59

Yes, I didn't think you'd be jealous like when she called him out on things, like this is like his response back to her.

SPEAKER_04 18:05

Like, yeah, so he put it back on me. And I'm I'm a person that I take everything and soak it up and I she's the people pleaser.

SPEAKER_06 18:14

We our listeners know that.

SPEAKER_04 18:15

Yeah, and I try and I want to make everybody happy. So I'm like, oh wait, is that making you uncomfortable? Okay, well, it's it's not you, it's it's me. Yeah, yeah, no, for real. He's he he's skilled at it. So anyway, he he came up on there

When A Facebook Group Warns You

SPEAKER_04 18:30

twice. Why during the time frame that I was dating him? And these bitches were like, don't get out of there, run. Terrible, terrible things, not a single nice thing.

SPEAKER_03 18:40

They're good, they're good.

SPEAKER_02 18:41

I don't see any what were some of the red flags? What were some of them?

SPEAKER_04 18:45

So one of them, the first comment was narcissist. This dude.

SPEAKER_06 18:50

So I think he's asking you though, like, what were the red flags that you saw? Oh, that I saw. I'm wrong, let me know. Okay.

SPEAKER_02 18:56

No, no, it it that is, but like, did it did it match up like automatically? Like, was it seen once he started acting like that?

SPEAKER_06 19:05

So I'll let her answer, but then I also just pulled up the comments and stuff.

SPEAKER_04 19:09

Yeah, so it did, it did, but it didn't. So I I guess I didn't realize the whole red flag thing until I started dating him and he was younger, and I didn't I I don't know. I was I was infatuated with this dude because it was like my what do you call it? I just had gotten out of a divorce.

SPEAKER_06 19:29

Or out of divorce, and this was a big thing. It was my fucking breakdown. Yeah, exactly. Well, this was your first relationship that you actually got into. Yeah, I mean, there was some things prior, but anyways, it doesn't matter.

SPEAKER_04 19:39

Yeah, so this is like your first thing that was my was my first like actual relationship.

SPEAKER_06 19:44

Like I did not really know Scarlett when she was in this relationship, mind you. So I don't know like a lot of like her hardships that she was going through with those, so I couldn't like really I guess comment on that. Yeah, but I do know her it her trials and tribute tribulations to this day.

SPEAKER_04 20:03

My trust issues over it. So throughout the relationship, he did start getting like he would call less, and then oh man, this is uh this is the line. You boys just better never use it. Um I have you yeah, I'm just really busy. I'm just really busy. Oh yeah, no, I know I'm just like for real. You guys have a useful. You would use this and I would be like, oh, you're so busy.

SPEAKER_06 20:29

So can I ask you then? So let's lead off on that real quick. So then why do that instead of in instead of just being okay? So okay, let me go back. So do you use this excuse when you were younger or didn't know any better? I'm going to presume because now you guys have been in these long-term relationships, right?

SPEAKER_01 20:48

Right, right.

SPEAKER_06 20:49

So this is like back in the day when you guys were very young. And so let's go back on that then. So, how young were you, and until that point did you stop using that excuse? I'll go with Augie first.

SPEAKER_02 21:02

Yeah, so uh I guess you the only time I would I would use that I'm busy. I not if I was busy, if I was trying to not ghost, but at the same time, you know, kind of keeping the picture to see where it goes.

SPEAKER_06 21:21

Okay, so but the thing of it is though, that I mean that's that's kind of bullshit because the I'm busy, like everybody's on their goddamn phones anymore. That's just how it, that's just how it is. And I'm not saying anything against you, but even God. So I'm trying to like think back to the case.

SPEAKER_04 21:37

Another thing, like he anytime he had his phone with me, he'd fucking answer it. But then I mean, I'd call him, he's like, I didn't hear my phone. I'm like, you motherfucker. I'd see you answer every phone call you get. So I it took me a while, but of course I clued in and you know, then I just wanted to see if anybody else, you know. Yeah, and guess what? Yeah, they said That's how it was. Yeah. They're like, this guy's a total loser.

SPEAKER_06 22:06

So what okay, so then why didn't you okay, so you just wanted to like lead them by a little like thread, like by a little chain just in case something better didn't come along.

SPEAKER_02 22:15

No, to see how to see how how much you like me, to see Oh, you were trying to get her perspective? Yeah. So like if if I say, Oh, I'm busy, and then you text me later, you know, wondering what I'm doing again.

SPEAKER_04 22:31

Oh, your bread crumb crumber? Even like breadcrumbs, or you're just testing her, like right.

SPEAKER_02 22:39

I want to see how interested.

SPEAKER_04 22:40

Oh, okay.

SPEAKER_06 22:41

So uh Lindsay could even dive into that one, but anyways, we won't right now because we don't have the time. So Anthony, so then what is your

Breadcrumbing With The Im Busy Line

SPEAKER_06 22:50

what was your worst comeback when somebody wanted your attention?

SPEAKER_03 22:56

I would I'm normally the person I would always ghost. I'm sorry.

SPEAKER_04 23:00

Oh Ivy is too. Ivy is too, she's a ghoster.

SPEAKER_03 23:04

I'm definitely I'm definitely the type of person's like, oh, this definitely feels like a really weird, awkward situation to get myself into. I should have never got myself into it. You know what? I'm gonna just stage left. Maybe they won't even poke with me afterwards.

SPEAKER_06 23:17

Exactly. No, I was the same way, yeah. And then actually getting to be friends with Scarlett and her having that same situation happened to her, and ultimately, like my conversations, her conversations crack me up.

SPEAKER_04 23:34

She when she talks on dating sites, they're like, What what are you doing? She's like, Airplane emoji, smile emoji. She does all these weird things. I'm like, and you still get guys to like keep coming after you. I don't even know. I actually respond.

SPEAKER_03 23:48

I just thought about it. I'm sorry, but no, go ahead. Cause I have no idea how that how the outside world works right now. Like the apps, like the only thing I know for sure is like Tinder, what else? Uh well, they say Tinder is the hookup app.

SPEAKER_06 24:08

Yeah. Well, that was plenty of fish back in the day, but anyways, yeah. Uh no format time. No, I'm telling you right now, it is it is absolutely brutal out. It's brutal.

SPEAKER_04 24:17

You have to sift through a motherfucking ton of people before you find a decent human.

SPEAKER_06 24:22

So many people tell us you'll find it in your friend group. You'll just wait. You find it when you're not looking. Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 24:28

This is my sister's line.

SPEAKER_03 24:30

And how often is it working?

SPEAKER_04 24:32

Well, so far, not good. I mean, we're both still single.

SPEAKER_06 24:35

Well, I haven't been looking for how long now. Yeah. I mean, truly.

SPEAKER_04 24:39

I mean, I I give up after like I I've got I've been walking this guy fucking just walked out, uh left me at a restaurant, and I'm like, what the fuck? Oh, by the way.

SPEAKER_03 24:51

So was that we was that for you or was that because of like a situation he didn't like?

SPEAKER_04 24:55

I that's what I don't know because he hadn't ghosted me.

SPEAKER_02 24:58

Yeah, so he went to the bathroom and never came back. Yes, he went, yeah.

SPEAKER_04 25:02

Well no, I went to the bathroom and went to the bathroom and he never came back. I had drove myself there, so it wasn't like I was stranded, but that motherfucker. And guess what? Guess what I guess what, boys? This may not come as a shock. I found him on Are You Dating This Guy? Yeah, yep. And guess what? He was a fucking wife beater. Oh.

SPEAKER_01 25:22

Oh, God. Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 25:24

So I dodged a bullet. Yeah. Well, regardless of the thing. I know I dodged a bullet anyways, but it still motherfucking hurt my feelings. And so, yeah, we've just had some bad.

SPEAKER_03 25:34

So it sounds like it sucks for you guys right now.

SPEAKER_06 25:37

It does, but it doesn't. When we get time to each other, like we have a really good time. I mean, that's that's where it's at.

SPEAKER_04 25:44

We still like you guys for other services. Don't worry, don't you worry. Meal, okay. Right, yeah, we do that.

SPEAKER_03 25:49

We did that. Sometimes I'm throwing out here. Sometimes you can't be vegan all the time. You know what I mean?

SPEAKER_06 25:56

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 25:56

I mean, I'm no, I guess if I had an aunt out there with every position works great.

SPEAKER_06 26:01

I know she loves there's nothing that I can say that I don't like. I know you just love you.

SPEAKER_04 26:09

You are so getting laid too.

SPEAKER_06 26:11

If she wasn't, if you weren't in the room, I guarantee you she had some tea on you. And I that's what I want. I want the tea.

SPEAKER_04 26:19

You are so getting laid. She's like, that just got me going.

SPEAKER_03 26:23

She sent me a text message like two minutes later talking about you want fuck.

unknown 26:27

No.

SPEAKER_04 26:28

Did she really?

SPEAKER_03 26:29

I love that.

SPEAKER_06 26:31

Fuck yes. I love it. That's awesome. I love that. That's so amazing. That's a good merit right there. Absolutely. Okay. So moving along here. Absolutely. Okay. Enough about you guys. God, Anne. Let's keep going. Enough about uh Scarlet. All right.

SPEAKER_02 26:50

Ivy, why don't you chime in?

SPEAKER_04 26:52

Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah. No, it's ask away. No, it's perfectly fine. Augie had a question for us. Oh, go ahead.

SPEAKER_02 27:00

So, do y'all have red flags yourselves that y'all guys see?

SPEAKER_04 27:04

Mm-hmm. We have what? I didn't hear that. I'm sorry, we didn't.

SPEAKER_02 27:08

Do y'all guys have your own red flags? Oh. Yeah, we did.

SPEAKER_04 27:12

We did several episodes about it. Yeah.

unknown 27:14

Oh.

SPEAKER_02 27:15

For real. You're gonna have to go back and listen to it.

SPEAKER_04 27:17

You will. It actually is titled Red Flags. Yeah. And then I think it there was a continued red flags. Red flags and green flags. We threw green flags in there as well.

SPEAKER_06 27:25

But I mean, mainly he's asking though, because I mean, so if you listen to the episode with Lindsay, the psych psychologist on there, it kind of delves into unfortunately like me and Scarlett's like what we think that we're looking for, but then based on like what we're talking about, we're not looking for. So that's obviously a huge red flag. So I mean, absolutely. We we definitely have red flags. We all human nature has red flags and green flags, that's it. To a certain individual. No, 100%. Yeah. And so, but that's what I was just getting into. Like, it depends on like what you're comfortable as a human being and as the single person, like being okay with said red flags. Exactly. So I mean, that's that's where that's at. So do you guys have red flags? I want to know. I want to know now. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 28:19

I know I have a bunch of red flags. Like my wife has my red flags. My thing is always. Well, let me ask her, hey, what's one of my red flags? Like a major one. How fast I snap on people.

SPEAKER_06 28:35

Okay, so you're not patient.

SPEAKER_03 28:37

I'm not. No, I'm not.

SPEAKER_06 28:38

This is Ant, right?

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SPEAKER_03 28:40

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 28:40

Yeah. Okay. You how quickly you are to get angry. So no patience. No patience. No patience. Oh boy, that would be good. Oh, my ex-husband. It was one of the one of the things he would he had zero patience for just about anything.

SPEAKER_06 28:57

So is there anything else, Ant, out there that you know about a red flag that you have?

SPEAKER_04 29:05

Or just a care or a personality trait that people don't like.

SPEAKER_06 29:09

So yeah, not so attractive. Yeah. You think about it, Augie. Augie, so I want to know. So red flag for you. I mean, a personality trait nobody likes.

SPEAKER_02 29:20

So I know my wife told me that she doesn't like that I'm uh a homebody.

SPEAKER_04 29:26

Homebody, yes. Okay. Oh, you don't like to go out. Okay.

SPEAKER_02 29:30

No, I don't.

SPEAKER_04 29:31

So does she like to? Does she go out with her friends and stuff?

SPEAKER_02 29:34

Yes.

SPEAKER_04 29:34

She can come hang out with us. Does she do you mind that she goes out and does stuff?

SPEAKER_02 29:38

I don't I rather her go out and have fun. I had my fun when I was younger. I rather have her to go have her fun now.

SPEAKER_04 29:45

I love that. Well, yeah, but she does want company sometimes. I mean Well, and she wants to have you by her side.

SPEAKER_06 29:53

Always wanted to eat just with her girlfriends. What did you say? Augie.

SPEAKER_02 29:57

I told her to call her sister.

SPEAKER_06 29:59

Oh, nice. Oh, okay.

SPEAKER_04 30:00

Yeah, that's a red flag. That's a fucking red flag right there. Call sister. Okay. All right. Go call your sister. I don't want to do anything. Okay. All right. All right. So do you stay home with the three children?

unknown 30:15

Yeah.

SPEAKER_06 30:16

Okay. Nice. So actually, Augie is like, I don't want to pay the sitter to for us to hang out.

SPEAKER_04 30:21

So do you guys do either one of you still do date nights?

SPEAKER_02 30:27

Yes. So we do do date nights.

SPEAKER_04 30:30

Doo-doo.

SPEAKER_06 30:30

Don't say doo-doo ever again. No, just kidding. That's out. That's out.

SPEAKER_02 30:34

Doo doo.

SPEAKER_06 30:35

Doo-doo. Okay, so date night. So do you guys like have a specific like day of the month? Is it random?

SPEAKER_02 30:42

Very random. It's spontaneous.

SPEAKER_06 30:44

Okay. Nice. I love that.

SPEAKER_03 30:46

Like and yeah, it's very random because it's just with like how we live our life and with our kids. It's definitely like it's definitely not going to be planned out. So it's just like, hey, we have time right now. You want to just go and jump on and do a date, I guess.

SPEAKER_04 31:00

No. So basically, you guys can just stop every you know get home from work feeling frisky, want to go out to dinner, start the the pre-gaming or the foreplay out of dinner. Yeah. Uh-huh.

SPEAKER_01 31:13

And I'm like, anything. Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 31:17

Yeah. So this is what I remember about being when I was married is like those sometimes they made it great. Sometimes we just fucking fought.

SPEAKER_06 31:26

So it was I mean, either way, honestly, if you think of it like this, if you need a fight, there's a reason you need to fight. If it has to be away from the kids in that kind of situation, then it is. So I mean, that's my outtake. I don't know. I've been divorced for many, many years and single for even longer.

SPEAKER_04 31:43

But, anyways, there is nothing wrong with her, I swear. Nothing wrong with either one of us. We're perfect anymore. A little picky.

SPEAKER_02 31:52

Just a little picky, not a big picky.

SPEAKER_04 31:54

You know, pickiness, I don't think we're picky. We're we're like, well, lit as Dr. Lindsay, I would say. We uh I guess I am a little choosy, but I don't want to spend, I wanna, my next person will be my forever person. I so I I want to be a little choosy, right?

SPEAKER_03 32:13

And I you're the one that was like that just came off of it, right? So I don't think you want to be in that situation that you are already in with another person and exactly exactly. Why would you do that stuff? Why would you do that again?

SPEAKER_04 32:25

Yeah, and he ruined my confidence, my trust, not just him personally, but this whole thing. The ever just everything over like dating period on these dating sites, or even just dating at all. It's just kind of like burned me out.

SPEAKER_06 32:41

Yeah, I mean, so don't even like disguise it as that. I mean, because obviously yours, your scars are obviously very apparent and very new. Yeah. The thing of it is though, like dating and repetition as well is still the same situation, the same scenario. And you get into these relationships that you think these I dare I say men are ready to have. Women do the same shit.

SPEAKER_04 33:07

You ghost. I mean, women do the same thing.

SPEAKER_06 33:09

But dare I say though, when you say when you're ready to have that relationship, then you just you you're not you're not emotionally available and you're not emotionally, or sorry, not even emotionally, but like just well rounded and just making sure that you have the same, I guess, attributes that everybody else in the relationship can bring to the table or eventually have to bring to the table. I mean that's huge for both of our worlds, absolutely. And so that's where we're running into the issue.

SPEAKER_04 33:40

So yeah, no, for real, Ivy. Like we have like I I question everything when I when I do start talking to somebody,

Owning Red Flags And Making Date Nights

SPEAKER_04 33:50

and I'm not a ghoster. I'll tell you right now, I what I do is if this is actually what I've done before. I met a guy, he traveled an hour and a half to meet me. And yeah. So he did, yeah, no, and I wasn't sure. We FaceTime before he came down, and I was like kind of questioning the tooth guy. Not the tooth, his no, his teeth. No, this was a guy he was running for some kind of like political thing. He was actually, anyway, I kind of thought, oh man, something's not right there. But I was like, I gotta get out there, I gotta go on a date because I'm very fucking choosy sometimes. So I did, and I was like, nope, nope, not for me, no. And I he was on his way home and I texted him and I said, I'm sorry. Well, the date had to end because my son act this was true. My son actually did break down and needed help. Yeah, but I would have left the date regardless. And I had said on his way home, I said, Hey, you're just this isn't there was no connection. I I probably probably won't, I probably won't ever have a second date. But I was honest, I wanted him to know that that wasn't gonna happen, just so he would not text me and think that we could keep going out or something. Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 35:10

I mean, that that kind of that's kind of good to be like that. My thing was is that I didn't want to hurt nobody, I didn't want to hear nobody cry or yeah, but ghosting, how do you know like if ghosting ghosting actually does hurt feelings?

SPEAKER_04 35:24

Right, but you don't have to hear it.

SPEAKER_02 35:26

But I can't see it.

SPEAKER_04 35:26

Exactly.

SPEAKER_03 35:27

I was about to just say, like, like I didn't know you. No, I I know yeah, yeah. No, this is where I'm coming. Yeah, I know I get it. What you don't know originally, so yeah, and it's just like I didn't put enough effort or emotion into it at the beginning, so it's just like I'm sorry, but I do see I do see your guys' like part of it where it is fucked up, you know what I mean? Because you I you don't know how much that other person put the emotion into it as well, too. So it's just like I get it, but well, that's just like that's that human nature is.

SPEAKER_06 35:58

Here's the thing though, like I this is this is Ivy, and I always I ghost before they can ghost me. Like if I if I'm just like a pre-ghost. Yeah, I'm a pre. I'm a pre I'm a I'm a pre-ghost. Fuck off, I'm pre-ghosting. Like, if I if I don't even like feel the energy, if I don't feel anything, like we're we're done before he even started. Yeah, and yeah, I'm not even gonna talk to you anymore. But I mean, I have obviously, you know, yeah, Scarlett, that I've I've gone out with these people, and I did this last time though, per Scarlet though. I did let him know it took me a day and a half. Yeah, it did. Yeah, yeah, yeah. It took me a day and a half, and I was like, just let him know that you're no not interested. I'm like, I it's not gonna, and it was so weird typing out the words because I'm just so used to being like, Hey bitch. Bye, motherfucker. No, thank you. Thank you. Come again, but don't come again so much.

SPEAKER_01 36:59

Oh wow.

SPEAKER_03 37:01

So so with that being said, how do you feel the vibes on someone? Like, how do you go from like, hey, I want to meet you from like texting? And then when you actually see this person, like, you know how you scope them out for a good minute. How do you how do you figure it out? Like, no, you know what, this guy's not yeah, so how does that yeah, I can address this.

SPEAKER_04 37:21

So for me, uh basically, if if I've only talked to them on a dating app, the well, the first thing you see, the first thing is pictures. Okay, and I have a bad habit of going off the pictures, whether I swipe right or left. Unfortunately, it's not it's not something I'm proud of, but that's what I do. Anyway, I am very particular about a smile, I'm like particular about certain things. But right, so I I literally that's my first thing. And then I if I start chatting with them and they are funny, they get me. We have banter back and forth. That's where I'm like,

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SPEAKER_04 38:00

okay, maybe he'll ask me out. Yeah.

SPEAKER_06 38:02

So you you obviously connect on a very emotional level, but like second to what they look like.

SPEAKER_04 38:09

I wouldn't even click on them. Exactly. Unless I'm really drunk. Sometimes I click on really weird people. I'm like, who, what? Too many ideas, too many glasses of wine on that one. I'm like, cut off the Chardonnay, okay?

SPEAKER_06 38:24

Okay. So, like, what is your right what is your feedback on that then? Like, what are you what are you thinking? Uh-huh.

SPEAKER_04 38:31

Let's go.

SPEAKER_02 38:34

Um, so so to tell you the truth, oh the I wouldn't be looking for a long time relationship on Tinder.

SPEAKER_04 38:41

Well, it's not just Tinder, there's a million dating ads. Yeah, duh. I'll go to church. So there's Facebook dating. Where's Hinge?

SPEAKER_06 38:48

Where would you be looking for a long-term relationship?

SPEAKER_04 38:51

Yeah, let's say you got a divorce next month and you're looking to get like another start dating again. Oh, we were putting that out there. They're not getting it. I know. Oh, knock on some wood. Ooh. Okay, anyway.

SPEAKER_03 39:02

Don't bring that bad GG over here.

SPEAKER_01 39:04

I know.

SPEAKER_04 39:04

Like, why are you saying that?

SPEAKER_03 39:06

I take it back. I take it back.

SPEAKER_04 39:07

Take it back, Scarlet. Take it back. I dam it. I don't want to, I don't wish that upon anybody. Anyway, so what would you if you go?

SPEAKER_06 39:15

If you were single in our day and age, and you know, if you had nothing but, you know, dating sites and things like that, how would you go about meeting somebody organically?

SPEAKER_03 39:27

Go for it. Organically, I love that word. So it'd always be like somewhere going out doing stuff and seeing if their vibes click while you're going there without trying to be creepy about it, which is kind of hard nowadays.

SPEAKER_04 39:44

So do you guys approach women? I mean, back in the day, did you did you approach women that you like thought were cute or did you go up to like you were shy or anything?

SPEAKER_03 39:55

I had the mindset. If they said no, they said no.

SPEAKER_04 39:57

That was just like you you took that as an answer.

SPEAKER_03 40:01

Right.

SPEAKER_04 40:01

Yeah. Here Augie's like, well, let me just uh see how she feels, really. Like let me see if I tell her I'm like going to Austria if she responds.

SPEAKER_06 40:13

Okay, so so and okay, so not being creepy organically, okay. So can I I I'm so sorry. I I need to touch on that. So not being creepy because that's the issue. So, like, how did you focus on not being creepy? P.S. A dick pic is fucking creepy. Unsolicited.

SPEAKER_03 40:29

Unsolicited dick picture. It's like, hey, hey, you want to see this? Yeah, that's creepy.

SPEAKER_04 40:34

Yeah, no, that's usually your first sign that the guy's not in it for a relationship. Oh no, duh. Um but you know, you keep them, you keep them in your your little back bank, bang, bank, bang.

SPEAKER_03 40:47

You're gonna keep them on the back end just in case your little string just in thing.

SPEAKER_06 40:52

I'm not gonna ghost you just yet. That dig fine. That's what I do, but it's fine. We're not gonna talk about me right now. We're going into it. Okay, all right. Sorry I interrupted.

SPEAKER_04 41:03

I do that quite frequently.

SPEAKER_03 41:06

No, it's just like that whole creepy scenario part would be where it's just like you can't randomly just say, hey, how's it going? Just to random, you know, females while you're at a bar because it's definitely awkward, I guess. You know what I mean? So that's why I said it was cool.

SPEAKER_06 41:21

Okay, so and here I'm gonna get in there. Okay, you get in. I'm sorry, I'm I'm writing notes. Okay, so sorry. Here's the thing though. So we were just talking about this. We just based this on it was yeah, yeah, we just literally this episode, you know, so that you listen to it. Anyways, uh, so we literally were saying that men do not approach us.

SPEAKER_04 41:43

They don't when we're out, I

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SPEAKER_04 41:45

we're unapproachable, I guess. I don't know.

SPEAKER_06 41:47

I and I said that we're not unapproachable.

SPEAKER_04 41:49

I it's just I don't know the situation of why we're not so so the question it that comes up do you approach a woman if they're in a friend group? Is that still game for you? Or you're like, fuck no, her friends are too that'll be too crazy and I'm not doing nothing.

SPEAKER_06 42:06

Okay, but if it's just two two friends out and about, two of us to approach one of them, dose or both of them.

SPEAKER_03 42:14

No, I think it depends on how the other two are reacting. Like I notice like when we just kind of hang out and just going somewhere, you can always tell by your other friend on who might be a little bit more high strung than the other one. So if that other person is trying to talk to the quiet one, that loud one is definitely like what scare the other person away. And I've seen that happen like in my eyes and everything with a homie.

SPEAKER_04 42:39

Okay, that kind of makes sense. Like, yeah, you're like one's approachable, but the other one fucking scares the shit out of you, so you should be like, you're like no, especially nowadays, anxiety is like high, high, high, high.

SPEAKER_03 42:52

So it's just like people's anxiety is times 10.

SPEAKER_04 42:55

So okay, so all right, I love this. So, question for you. If if me and Ivy were out based not on our looks, obviously, you haven't seen us.

SPEAKER_03 43:06

No, the black screen is perfect. I love it.

SPEAKER_04 43:09

What'd you say?

SPEAKER_03 43:10

I was like, the black screen is perfect. I love it.

SPEAKER_04 43:12

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Well, your wife is probably appreciative. Anyway, so when you guys are if you guys are out, let's say you go out and based off our personalities. Yeah. Based off me and Ivy, who do you feel like is approachable?

SPEAKER_02 43:30

Both.

SPEAKER_04 43:31

Okay. Yeah.

SPEAKER_06 43:32

Well, we don't like that answer. That wasn't the answer I was going for here.

SPEAKER_02 43:38

We basically have the same personality and you know sound really cool to talk to. Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 43:42

All right. Well, that was a nice compliment. Thank you. Thank you. We definitely don't have I mean, we do, but we do. Okay, so here I I will clue you in on this, which our listeners already know. We have different tastes in men, completely different taste in men. Thank God. So when I Do branch out, like for one, we always have to check with each other and see like, do you know this guy? Are you sure that you haven't talked to this guy over here? Um we're gonna get something straight right here because we ain't are you sure we ain't doing on top of doing here. So even if you put a pink thing towards that man, I don't want him.

SPEAKER_03 44:21

Yeah, so we won't get lucky then so yeah.

SPEAKER_04 44:27

Well, I mean, I can't even remember what I was saying there, but no, we were just going off of that. So that's it. Yeah, so anyway, so we're both approachable. That's good. So what the fuck's the problem? So you guys feel like based off our personalities, we're approachable.

SPEAKER_01 44:41

For sure.

SPEAKER_04 44:42

Yeah, okay. Thank you. All right, I appreciate that. Who do you think that you would like more? Augie or Ant, answer the question based off of our personalities, even though Augie pretty much said we have the same personality.

SPEAKER_03 44:54

So I would have to hear you guys like talk for like a good two minutes to figure that out.

SPEAKER_04 44:59

So we haven't been doing that.

SPEAKER_02 45:03

Both of you say Augie one time and say it kinda like uh uh sexual. Yeah, let's let's go with that.

SPEAKER_04 45:12

Okay, oh Augie. What do you oh Augie? God damn Augie.

SPEAKER_03 45:18

Augie. Wait, we're in the Siri one. He said he said one time.

SPEAKER_05 45:25

No, but Ivy's like, fuck off, Augie.

SPEAKER_02 45:28

Okay, so the first one for sure.

SPEAKER_04 45:29

Yeah, well, she understood the assignment. I was like, I'm winning this, bitch. That's how it's gonna go.

SPEAKER_03 45:37

I'm definitely going with Siri because that Siri voice was definitely right on.

SPEAKER_02 45:41

That was Siri for sure.

SPEAKER_05 45:42

Who? Which one? Ivy was Siri?

SPEAKER_02 45:44

The second one, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 45:45

Ivy came up. When I oh hold on, I'm gonna do it again. Okay, Augie.

SPEAKER_04 45:51

Oh, that was not like the first one, right, boys. I know I feel that one was a little bit.

SPEAKER_03 45:58

The first one killed it. Uh oh.

SPEAKER_04 45:59

Well, we're gonna remember it.

SPEAKER_06 46:00

We're gonna replay it. Yeah, we'll have to go back anyway. Yeah, so it's been a lot of fun with you guys. Yeah. Do you guys have any questions, feedback, anything that you want to say to us? Yeah, you guys have asked really great questions.

SPEAKER_04 46:16

Yeah, you guys have been a lot of fun, by the way.

SPEAKER_03 46:18

I'm just I'm just chilling.

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SPEAKER_04 46:20

Just chilling, all right.

SPEAKER_02 46:21

I think the next time y'all guys go out and yeah, give us some fucking advice here.

SPEAKER_04 46:26

Come on, throw it at us. Next time you go out, let us have it.

SPEAKER_02 46:29

That's fine. If next time you go out, look less cute. No, no, no, no, no, don't do that. Go to the closest church on Sunday, sit in there and look cute.

SPEAKER_04 46:40

Well, burn at the steak.

SPEAKER_02 46:42

Oh gosh.

SPEAKER_04 46:43

No, I'm kidding.

SPEAKER_02 46:44

Well, you're just there for a man. You're just there for a man, that's it.

SPEAKER_06 46:46

A church? So we sit in church. Okay, tell us. So we look little innocent and cute and a pew, and then what?

SPEAKER_02 46:54

And then just let let God work his magic.

SPEAKER_04 46:56

So I have to wear a sundress.

SPEAKER_02 46:59

Yes.

unknown 47:00

Okay.

SPEAKER_02 47:01

Don't believe it.

SPEAKER_04 47:02

I don't believe it.

SPEAKER_06 47:03

Okay, so here's the kicker on that. I is that where you guys met you? Hold on. Now I have questions. Okay. So is it really religious? Is that where you guys met your wives?

SPEAKER_02 47:14

No, I met mine at McDonald's.

SPEAKER_06 47:16

Oh my god, Augie. But then you're saying to go to church. They're like Big Macs. Are you saying that we need church and Jesus in our lives? Thank you.

SPEAKER_02 47:24

So basically, that's where I would go if my wife, me and my wife ever divorced knocking on wood, I would go to church.

SPEAKER_06 47:31

I'm knocking on wood for you. Okay. Okay. Well, good luck with that one. If that's you guys super Are you guys, are you are Augie? Are you uh like what a religious person? No, not really, no. Super what the fuck is the word? I know what I'm thinking of right now. What are we going off about? Suspicious. Suspicious. Not suspicious, but superstitious. There we go. Holy shit, I long. Superstition.

SPEAKER_04 47:53

I shipped my brain to Califragia acting. What was that? What is that? Come on. It's on uh Barry Poppins.

SPEAKER_06 47:59

No, superstitious. Anyways, are you superstitious? Is that why you knock on wood?

SPEAKER_02 48:04

No, no, no. It's I don't know. I just people do it, I guess.

SPEAKER_06 48:09

Oh, we do it. We do it all the time. I'm very superstitious. Not orticious.

SPEAKER_02 48:14

I walk under ladders. I break mirrors at, you know.

SPEAKER_04 48:18

Okay. You break you're scared of broken mirrors?

SPEAKER_02 48:21

No, no. So in no job, we break mirrors sometimes.

SPEAKER_04 48:26

Oh, yeah. Distraction.

SPEAKER_02 48:28

Distraction scenario.

SPEAKER_04 48:29

Yeah, daddy got you that job, so you're fuck this. I'm fucking this mirror right now.

SPEAKER_06 48:34

So, Aunt, where would you meet your next bride to be if you ever knock on some wood, Aunt?

SPEAKER_03 48:40

Uh man, I don't even know. Probably somewhere sketchy.

SPEAKER_04 48:46

So, Aunt, are you religious?

SPEAKER_03 48:48

No.

SPEAKER_06 48:49

Okay.

SPEAKER_04 48:50

So, not a church like Augie. Augie can get those fucking wholesome one wholesome ones. You're like, I'm going to a strip club. You know what? I'm not woman.

SPEAKER_06 48:58

Sunday. Listen, Sunday coming off of a hangover. We're going to dress up in our best Sunday dresses, and we're going to church.

SPEAKER_04 49:04

We're going to church, bitch.

SPEAKER_06 49:06

And see what we can find. That could be a whole episode. Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 49:09

We should do it. Yeah, we should. We're doing it.

SPEAKER_01 49:11

Augie for sure. And then we're gonna we're gonna come back.

SPEAKER_04 49:14

We're gonna go to Florida church and see what kind of what we can screen better than our churches right here.

SPEAKER_06 49:21

But anyways, okay. Well, do you guys have any plugs? Yeah, plug your pod now.

SPEAKER_02 49:27

Just really the the no filter podcast on Spotify and Apple Podcast.

SPEAKER_06 49:33

Okay, perfect. Nice. I mean, do you guys have an email or anything like that that people can reach out to?

SPEAKER_02 49:38

Yeah, how do your fans get in touch with you? So they can get in touch with me. How do they get in touch?

SPEAKER_06 49:44

Oh, okay. Your email?

SPEAKER_02 49:46

I am Augie10 at iCloud.com.

SPEAKER_06 49:50

All right. All right, love it. And do you have a separate email that you want fans to reach out to you on?

SPEAKER_03 49:57

No, we just share the same scenario.

SPEAKER_06 49:59

Okay, beautiful. Nice. So for our besties out there, please continue to like, subscribe, and email us at nothing untouchedpod at gmail.com. And this is nothing untouched, and we love you all. Yeah, we love you, bitches.