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S1E13: Heartbreak in Chicago: Mr. Playboy’s Provincial Past
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A trip to Hef’s hometown pulls back the curtain in a way the show doesn’t fully explain. What’s presented as nostalgia starts to feel more like context—about him, the mansion, and the dynamic we’ve been watching all season. And once you see it through that lens… it changes everything.
Oh my god, it's so nice seeing Hef get back to his roots. It almost made me want to cry like walking in his footsteps.
SPEAKER_00Welcome back to more Girls Next Door, where I recap, review, and rehash your favorite Y2K reality series, The Girls Next Door. I'm your host, Mega Fan, and Y2K Survivor Megan. Come on to my house. Episode 13 titled My Kind of Town aired on November 20th, 2005. Earlier that year, a unique beat hit number one on the Billboard charts and was the first digital single to sell over 1 million copies. Since I don't want to get a copyright strike, I had to come up with a little disguise for today's Y2K reference.
SPEAKER_01I heard that you were talking shit and you didn't think that I would hear it. People hear you talking like that, getting everybody fired up. So I'm ready to attack. Gonna lead the pack, gonna get a touchdown, gonna take you out. That's right, put your pom-poms down, getting everybody fired up.
SPEAKER_00Did you get it? Gwen Stefani's solo hit Hollaback Girl was B-A-N-A-N-A-S. The ultimate teenage nostalgia fever dream, if you ask me. So go ahead, put your pom-poms down, kick off your candies, hang up your trucker hat, and silence your sidekicks. Let's get into my kind of town.
SPEAKER_05We are in Chicago to continue promoting Playboy.
SPEAKER_00In opening scene, the girls and Hef step off of their flying hotel jet, which has landed in Chicago, Illinois. It makes sense to continue their Playboy cover promotional tour in Hef's hometown, the Windy City. We can gather the show was really gaining momentum and popularity now because the accommodations keep getting swankier, and the girls take notice. Hef's brother Keith is along for the trip, and they all take a tour of the city and the surrounding suburbs the men grew up in. Holly explains that Hef's dreams were born in Chicago, as it is where the magazine was started and where the original Playboy mansion still stands. More on that shortly.
SPEAKER_05Hef grew up in Chicago. It's where he went to school. It's the whole first half of his life. I think Hef's dreams were born in Chicago. It's where he first started Playboy. It's where he had the original Playboy mansion. It's where the first Playboy Club was. So I was really interested to see all the sites I'd heard so much about.
SPEAKER_00This scene does an interesting little switcheroo on us with the group leaving the hotel in a black stretch limousine, but on their first stop, they exit a luxury mobile RV. The girls are even wearing different outfits now, with Holly trading her jeans and moon boots for a schoolgirl pastel plaid sweater, skirt, knee socks, and Mary Jane's. Somewhere an old Delia's catalog is dog-eared on this exact look. Very Y2K fantasy. This episode quietly reframes Hef, not as the man he became, but the man he was before all of it. They visit Hef and Keith's former grade school, high school, and childhood home. Kendra is emotional witnessing Hef getting back to his roots. We've seen this before. Kendra was not an overtly sentimental person, but when it came to Hef, sometimes she couldn't help herself. I believe it was just the kind of love that she had for him. It wasn't jealous love like Holly's or dependent love like Bridget's. It was loving another human being just the way they are. The connection of two souls. I don't know. It's even hard for me to explain, but I see it.
SPEAKER_02Oh my God. I it almost made me want to cry. Like going through the you haven't walked through like in the beginning of his lifetime. It was just so amazing to me, you know? Like walking in his footsteps.
SPEAKER_06Return for the ebb.
SPEAKER_00Holly and Bridget are responsive. They oh, and cool, look over there. But Kendra has a deep awareness and truly wants to be in the moment, absorbing everything she can through all senses. And here's where it really clicks for me. Kendra doesn't love Hef for what he built. She loves him for where he came from. That's a very different kind of connection than what we see from the others. Holly equals aspirational love. Bridget equals participatory love. Kendra equals acceptance. That's why their dynamics feel so uneven. They're not in the same relationship. They're in three completely different ones. I want to say a little something here, guys, and I should probably give a trigger warning. Since his death in 2017, Hugh Hefner has come under a lot of fire. With shows like Secrets of Playboy and Memoirs authored by ex-girlfriends, the man's skeletons were publicly dragged out of the closet, but not into a court of law. I support the victims who made statements. I do. I'm glad they were given a voice, and I hope using it has brought them some modicum of peace. I also think there are times when it's appropriate to hear the other voices. With allegations of sexual misconduct and manipulation swirling in the media, many of Hefner's ex-girlfriends spoke out in defense of his character. And it's not just Kendra Wilkinson who has adamantly refuted abuse reports. Kimberly Hefner Conrad, Hefner's wife from 1989 to 2010, publicly defended her late husband, characterizing the accusations as attempts to rewrite the truth and stating that she felt compelled to speak on behalf of someone who could no longer defend himself. Brandi Roderick, playmate who dated Hefner 1999 to 2000, rejected accusations that he hosted pig parties. If you know, you know, calling him an amazing person and questioning the motives of those speaking out years after his death. Renee Sloan Bayo, a former girlfriend who lived at the mansion 2001 to 2003, along with hundreds of former Playboy employees and ex-girlfriends, signed an open letter defending Hefner, describing him as a person of upstanding character, exceptional kindness, and dedication to free thought. Tina Jordan, Sandy Kaufman-Bentley, Trisha Frick, Joy Jameson, Barbara Hedden, all witnesses to the lifestyle Hugh Hefner perpetuated who have come forward to protect him against what has been labeled as regret becoming revenge. And then there's Crystal Camden. Crystal was a recurring guest featured on The Girls Next Door. She dated Hefner from 2000 to 2003, but remained close even after the breakup. She was also a dear friend of Bridget, Holly, and Kendra. If you want to know about Crystal's position regarding Hugh Hefner's reputation and legacy, then I encourage you to watch her video interview on how he saved her life. Crystal Camden reveals how Playboy icon Hugh Hefner saved her from eating disorder, is the title of one article on the topic. But the interview was picked up and reported on by many news outlets. In summary, Crystal discusses suffering from an ED starting at age 16. She kept the condition a secret even throughout her time dating Hefner. Upon their breakup, she moved from the mansion into the playmate house across the street. That's when Hef got wind of what she was hiding through her former roommates. It's unknown whether the girls who exposed her did so in support or out of spite. But when Hefner learned Crystal was sick, he carefully confronted her and offered to help. On Hefner's dime, Crystal spent eight months in a treatment center battling her ED and practicing new coping methods. Today she's healthy, happy, and credits Hugh Hefner for saving her life. Okay, why did I go off on that tangent while recapping Kendra's love for Hugh Hefner as a parent to me in this episode and the girls next door's trip to Chicago? Simply to give more context to a sensitive subject that still creates public divide. I want to be honest about where I stand. I don't give Hugh Hefner a pass for the alleged accusations that have come to light, but I do understand that there are many layers to a person. We are a complex species. It is possible for a person to do bad things and not be a bad person. I hope the info I just shared made you think a little bit. Let's get back to the episode.
SPEAKER_06Many wonderful memories here. I hope this is as wonderful a neighborhood now as it was when we were kids. Thank you very much.
SPEAKER_00The crew is allowed to enter the home Hef grew up in, which he says is much smaller than he remembers. I don't need to state the obvious contrast to the Playboy mansion and how even the nicest of upper middle class homes probably felt like dollhouses to him. When they come to the mas excuse me, excuse, sorry, when they come to the primary bedroom where Hef and Keith's parents slept, Hef informs everyone that this was also the bedroom he shared with Millie, his first wife. Back then, the parents gave up their bedroom to the married son and daughter-in-law. Whoa, pause. What was that about Hef's first wife? If you haven't done a lot of research on Hugh Hefner, pre-Playboy, it might surprise you that Kimberly Conrad, whom he married in 1989 when he was 63, was actually his second wife. Before the mansion, the robes, and the girlfriends, there was a very different chapter in Hugh Hefner's life, one rooted in post-war Midwestern normalcy. He met Mildred Milley Williams while they were students at the University of Illinois, Urbana-Champaign in the mid-1940s. Hefner had recently returned from service in the U.S. Army, where he worked as a military newspaper writer during World War II. Both came from conservative Midwestern backgrounds, and their relationship followed the traditional path of the era. They married on June 25, 1949, when Hefner was 23 years old. Shortly before the wedding, Williams confessed that she had been sexually involved with another man while Hefner was overseas. By Hefner's own later accounts, this revelation deeply affected him and altered his views on love, jealousy, and fidelity. He would often describe this moment as a formative emotional turning point, one that shaped the philosophy he later associated with sexual freedom and non-monogamy. While the narrative largely comes from Hefner himself, he consistently cited this experience as foundational in understanding his later outlook. The couple settled in Chicago and began building a family. Hefner worked as a copywriter for Esquire, spent time in advertising, and took graduate sociology courses at Northwestern University. During this period, he began developing the concept that would become Playboy. The couple had two children: Christy Hefner, born in 1952, who would later become CEO of Playboy Enterprises, and David Hefner, born in 1955. In 1953, Hefner launched Playboy from his Chicago apartment, making the beginning of a cultural shift and his transformation into a public figure. As the magazine grew in popularity and influence, so did the strain on his marriage. Hefner later acknowledged that he was unfaithful, and by 1959, after 10 years together, he and Williams divorced. So maybe you can't understand Playboy without understanding pre-Playboy Hef. Before the mansion, there was Millie, his first wife, his first heartbreak. She admitted to being with someone else before they married, and by half's own account, that moment completely rewired him. And suddenly everything makes more sense. The philosophy, the non-monogamy, the control, the need to build a world where he never felt that powerless again. So when we ask why was the mansion the way it was, the real question is what kind of heartbreak creates a man who builds the Playboy Mansion? Butterfly effect, baby. No Millie confession, no Playboy Empire, no girls next door, no podcast. You're welcome. We just trace the entire show back to one conversation in the 1940s. Back to the episode. A slew of paparazzi, press, and curious neighbors are awaiting the group as they leave. Hef graciously addresses them all, wishing them the best of memories living in the neighborhood. Back at the mansion, Hank of Construction and Maintenance describes the renovations being done while Hef is gone. The grand staircase will get a total overhaul, replacing the grimy carpet with refinished natural wood. The tile in the mansion's commercial kitchen will also be updated. Next stop, Playboy Headquarters Chicago, where Hef's daughter Christy guides the group throughout the massive corporate building.
SPEAKER_04Christy, Hef's daughter, is the big boss in Chicago, and she's wonderful. She showed us all around and introduced us to everyone.
SPEAKER_00They walk in on Playmate Monica Lee shooting her Cybergirl pictorial. There in the studio with Monica stunned and in the nude, Hef herds the girls and himself around her for a candid snapshot. And click, that one's going in the scrapbook whether she likes it or not. But don't worry, Monica will resurface in future episodes. There's some tea to pour there. Oh, hallelujah, it's dinner time. I'm even getting hungry. After a quick change of address, they are wined and dined at Japana's. Kendra is entranced by the concept of cooking strip steak on a hot rock. But Holly appears subdued again. I wasn't going to mention this, but in later years, Holly announced publicly her diagnosis on the autism spectrum. On her podcast, Girls Next Level, she often cites her condition when reviewing scenes like the one in question. So she always has a very good excuse for moments that appear to the audience as her being rude or disengaged. How much of what viewers interpreted as boredom was sensory overwhelm. Let me be clear, it's not that I don't believe Holly's on the spectrum. I do You know what? I'm just gonna leave it for now. Moving on. A party of four women sitting across the way at dinner captures Hef's attention and he compares them to Sex and the City. He saunters over with a smirk and a pickup line, and they are putty.
SPEAKER_05I don't get jealous of other girls because I was raised in a cloning lab to be the perfect woman for Hugh M. Hefner. So other than the fact that my IQ is probably a little higher than he would like, I have nothing to worry about.
SPEAKER_00Holly announces that she's not jealous, though her actions on tape may translate otherwise. It's another early morning wake-up call, and the girls rise at 5 a.m. to make an appearance on ManCal's radio show. The girls will be interviewed and then given scripts to read for listeners. Definitely sounds like a setup. Turns out it was. At first, all seems smooth sailing. Man Cow is the typical testosterone-driven straight male, so the girls are welcomed with lots of compliments, some a little naughty, but they're used to it. It seems that was the goal of the entire program.
SPEAKER_03Say five hit her as the White Sox beats Los Angeles two to one. Oh god, see a good one.
SPEAKER_00But somewhere along the line, the show's co-hosts start to feel bad. They begin to encourage her when she visibly loses control. I suck, she says. No, no, you're doing great. When she takes it slow and her voice inflections sprinkle in her personality, it's an A plus. I didn't give up, she proudly announces. And here's the thing Kendra isn't dumb. She's unpolished. There's a difference. And the moment she slows down, leans into her personality, and stops trying to perform smart, she actually does great. Which leads to my takeaway. It's not about sounding smart, it's about sounding like yourself with confidence. We get a little filler clip of Butler Bryant attending to the mansion dogs, feeding and exercising Holly, Bridget, and Kendra's fur babies. It's mostly barking sound bites again, so let's move on. We are well aware the girlfriend's mansion key cards come with 24 7 white glove service, even for the animals. The original Playboy Mansion Chicago is visited. It's lovely. Set against dusk, a sturdy 1905 built multi story colonial brick structure is behind wrought iron gates. Hef reminisces about where it all started. The sheer size of the living room, which he reveals, doubled as a ballroom dance floor. He points at the windows, referencing White House-inspired labeled rooms, the blue room, the red room.
SPEAKER_05Hef looked really happy to be back in Chicago, and he just looked like a little boy who's so excited to be back.
SPEAKER_00He recalls it all in floor plan memory. Right through there was an indoor swimming pool with an aquarium viewing glass, and a fire pole led down to an underwater bar. Amazing. Hef's flare for the opulent. It was always there. And for those interested, 1340 North State Parkway in the Gold Coast was converted into seven luxurious high-priced private condominiums after Hugh Hefner moved to California. The cherry on the group's excursion to the original Playboy mansion? A wild bunny rabbit spotted in the yard behind the gates. There might be some symbolism unconsciously edited in there, don't you think? Bunnies behind gates? Come on. Last on the itinerary, it's the club, where Hefner and Entourage are welcomed warmly with a DJ intro, champagne, cake, and Kendra gets to shake it. As if we don't know by now, it's a beeline to the plane in club clothes after tearing up Chicago's nightlife.
SPEAKER_05Thank you. The trip to Chicago was one I'd wanted to take for a really long time to get to see where Hef grew up, and it was just a great experience to be able to share that with them.
SPEAKER_00We end back at the mansion. Refurbished staircase, updated kitchen, their newly renovated foyer filled with barking dogs and scattered in puppy pee pads. Because no matter how glamorous the trip is, you always come home to chaos. Rewatching this hef-centered episode all these years later sure brings some themes to the surface. It shows you hef before the persona, the emotional blueprint behind the empire, and why each girl relates to him so differently. And once you see that, you can't unsee it. The mansion stops being just a party house and it becomes a system, a reaction, a worldview. Built by one guy from Chicago who decided he'd never feel small again. Thanks all for joining me today. The realization of how close we are to ending season one is really hitting me. And I want to encourage you guys to let me know if you've enjoyed this journey. Throw this podcast a like or a share, subscribe if you can. Should I continue into season two? It is a hundred percent up to you guys. While I really enjoy this as a hobby, it's quite an undertaking, and I have a full time job. So help me decide if it's worth continuing these recaps. I hope you've been enjoying them. I love you guys, and I'll see you next time.