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<v SPEAKER_00>Well, tonight we're doing something a little different than usual.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm swaying off of the Gospel of Mark.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We're only a few weeks away from finishing up Mark.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And then we're going into a series in the summer called War.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I'll be talking about spiritual warfare.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So I'm going to be talking about what I'm calling strategic frontiers or strategic operations, strategic assaults.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We'll be talking about air assault and we'll be talking about ground assault as it relates to spiritual warfare through the summer.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So in the past, I've done that in seminars and conferences where I've kind of had to reduce it down to kind of the irreducible minimum.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And we've had enough situations within our body, within our city, and people we're ministering to with the road, that we felt it would be beneficial to take the whole church through it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So we'll start with the origins of Satan and demonic angels, where that all began, and then we'll work through down to how we struggle with areas of shame and oppression and strongholds in our own life.

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<v SPEAKER_00>All of us have shame.

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<v SPEAKER_00>All of us have areas where there's potential for there to be demonic encounters and demonic strongholds.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Well, how do you get set free?

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<v SPEAKER_00>How do you break through those barriers?

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<v SPEAKER_00>We're going to talk about all that throughout the summer.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And then in most cases, I'm going to make QA.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So there'll be a QA time after each sermon for anybody who has questions and if seems appropriate to answer that, or I can say, well, next week we're going to cover that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We'll do a QA.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So it's really going to be a great summer in regards to this area of war and the fact that all of you are in war.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Has anybody figured that out yet?

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<v SPEAKER_00>I mean, it's amazing to me how many believers are clueless on the battle.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And they're just getting taken out, especially men.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Men, you guys are getting taken out all the time because you're not aware that you actually are in a battle and you're in a fight.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Tonight, though, I want to talk about the road, the church that you're actually a part of right now, and that you've entered into by coming into the sanctuary tonight.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We've been doing these things called roadmaps, and we felt like so many people haven't been through the roadmap that we would just do it again.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And we're going to do it as a series here right now, tonight, just this one time, with what I'm calling God's opus, the road.

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<v SPEAKER_00>There's two ways to look at church.

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<v SPEAKER_00>One is through the eyes of the people, and the other is to look at it as an organization.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And too many times it becomes a spreadsheet or it becomes a building.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Like even tonight, I said to a group of girls that were over at my house that were playing with my daughter, we're now going to church.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now I wish I'd said that 30 minutes before because I waited outside in my truck for 20 minutes.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So I said it, you know, church like it's a building.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We're the church.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And we often might even think of it as in terms of the church being both an organization and an organism.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The problem with that distinction is that we tend as Americans to go toward and think toward organization almost like it's a spreadsheet.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So I'm using a term called opus.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Let me give you a definition.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I think it's on your notes for opus.

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<v SPEAKER_00>A musical composition or set of compositions by a particular composer.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Any artistic work, work of art, creative work.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Jesus said in Matthew 16, I will build my church, and the gates of Hades shall not prevail against it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I give you the keys of the kingdom of heaven, and whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Isn't it interesting that Jesus is building his church?

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's the church could arguably be said to be the magnum opus of God.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so I have two pictures up here.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And when we were starting the road about 11 months ago, we went into 40 nights of prayer.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And during that 40 nights, people gave me some stuff, and one of them was this picture.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This was given to me by someone here in the road, and it is a picture of a grassy kind of dirt road, and it says journey.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Then someone else gave me this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This is a photograph, also, and it says, Let's start the journey.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And someone took a picture.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I thought it looked like that road in Forest Gump when he was running down the road there and decided he was going to stop.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That was a great part of the movie, wasn't it?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Just it's like a total with hairs all grown out and everything.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Everybody's following.

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<v SPEAKER_00>All the hippies of the 1960s and 70s are following him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so I brought these up because to me this is more of a picture of an opus.

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<v SPEAKER_00>These are photographs.

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<v SPEAKER_00>My son Samuel, who won state in piano today.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Samuel, I grabbed this off of your piano.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Chopin pieces, complete preludes.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And what do you say?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Is it etudes?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Etudes?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay, of Chopin that he is working on.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I opened it up, and you'll see prelude in C major, and then it's OP28 number one, and going all the way down, you'll see the numbers with the OP, and that is an abbreviation for opus.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The plural of opus is actually opera.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And the reason I like this better than thinking in terms of an organism and organization is because it's a master's work of creativity and beauty.

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<v SPEAKER_00>When my son plays the piano, it's beautiful.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Some of you are artists, and when you paint, you bring your mind and your heart into this work on a canvas that expresses your heart in a creative form that's different in every part of the whole picture.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so you look at Chopin when he was writing these works, and it's super complex.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This to me is a better picture of the church than anything else.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Because it brings forth the creativity of the master, Jesus Christ, in a creative work of which I'm looking out right now and it's really colorful.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I mean, so many of you are wearing different colors, and some of you have sparkles on your shirts.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Hopefully, there's no guys with sparkles, but some of the ladies have sparkles on their on their blouses and on their shirts.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Some of you have dark hair, some of you have gray hair, some of you are wearing glasses, some of you have had LASIK surgery, like me, and you don't have to wear glasses anymore.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Some of you are bald and the light is shining off your head.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But you're all creative works of art.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so this opus that is made up of each of us creating the image of God coming together corporally is the church.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And too many times we see the church by numbers or by giving or by a building.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And it's an inaccurate, incorrect view.

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<v SPEAKER_00>There's no images in the New Testament that describe the church as a business.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's a work of art.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It is the creativity of all of us coming together into this mosaic, this rainbow of colors and different expressions.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so I'm kind of a mini composer by being the pastor teacher.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I get to be a composer.

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<v SPEAKER_00>In a sense, I'm not even the leader.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He's the leader.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Jesus is the chief shepherd, and I'm an under-shepherd, but in a way, I've kind of got my composing sticks.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so we compose, and like earlier, before the service, a bunch of men were over here praying.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And then the worship team had just been practicing.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And if you put me on the worship team, it'd be a disaster.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But I can pray.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And then, and then out in the lobby when I first came in, all these different groups of people, young people, women, men, were meeting.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It looked like they might be having D groups and stuff like that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But there was this mosaic of color and vision and creativity and artistry.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's the opus of God.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And to the extent that we tap into that is the extent that we then get to experience God's opus in our hearts by being around these other works of art that God calls people, that are called men and women created in the image of God.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And that's really what the road is all about.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So during that 40 nights of prayer, God gave us a theme.

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<v SPEAKER_00>A theme for the opus of God, the road, of building wholehearted disciples of Jesus.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's our purpose.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's why we're here is listen to build children, to build young people, to build men, to build women, and to being disciples of Jesus.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Not just Jesus' followers, but Jesus' disciples.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And we got that from Jesus.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So turn in your Bibles to Matthew 28, the last words that Matthew recorded of Jesus, and I believe they probably were the last words of Jesus, his last injunction to his opus that was waiting on him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They weren't sure what to do.

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<v SPEAKER_00>By the way, are any of y'all watching AD on TV?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Is that NBC?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Is it NBC?

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<v SPEAKER_00>NBC.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Man, I'd highly encourage that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Romy Downey and her husband produced it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's excellent on the early church.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And everything, we've seen the first three.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I think we've still got one in our in our recording that we haven't looked at yet.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But anyway, in Matthew 28, Jesus, knowing that he was leaving, gave these words, verse 18, all authority has been given to me in heaven and on earth.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all things that I've commanded you, and lo, I'm with you always, even until the end of the age.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's the last command of Jesus.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's the command to the church to build disciples.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Well, Jesus made it his focus to go after men.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now, women, I love you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I think you're beautiful.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You're definitely more beautiful than the men in this room.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But the reality is that Jesus chose to go after men, and one of the objectives in this magnum opus called the road is to build men.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And to build women too.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But I found that if we're not intentional about men, the men won't get discipled.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so Jesus made it his objective to build men.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I want you to write down something on your, I don't know, I forget what's on your notes and what's not.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Do you have one, three, twelve?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Is that in your notes?

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<v SPEAKER_00>I want you to write along the side one, and then underneath one, write three.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Underneath three, write twelve.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Underneath 12, write 120.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And under 120, write 3,000.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So 1, 3, 12, 120, 3,000.

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<v SPEAKER_00>1.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The power of 1.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I think didn't army have that as a slogan for a while, you know, the power of one.

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<v SPEAKER_00>When I say one, I'm speaking of intimacy with Christ.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It all starts there.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We believe that Christ came to set your heart free, and only he can set it free.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And your relationship with Jesus Christ is the most important thing in your life.

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<v SPEAKER_00>How many of you have your bookmarks with you?

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<v SPEAKER_00>The P B and J.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Just raise that up.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Everybody just grab their bookmark and raise that up.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay, so pick that up.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Everybody look around.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Those are our P B and J.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Those are our bookmarks for the road.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Those are designed that every day of the month you have a passage that everybody in the church is reading that you can start having P, B, and J.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So I brought my weather journal with me.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This is my favorite journal.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I like this journal.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And it's got a long string on it, so I can attach it to myself and go and drag it wherever I go.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Like Napoleon dynamite with a little soldier hanging out of a bus in the back.

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<v SPEAKER_00>No, this actually wraps around my Bible.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So I do it like this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You can see.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I take my Bible, I stick it in like that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I've got my pen, and then I can loop it up, kind of the old book style, kind of the way it used to be in America, I think in the 19th turn of the century, kids would carry their books this way.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But I've always got my journal, and I've got an insert that goes in the journal for when I fill that up.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so it's called P, B, and J, Prayer Bible, Journal, Prayer Bible Journal, Prayer Bible Journal, Prayer Bible Journal, Prayer Bible Journal.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Yeah.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And that's how we grow.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I don't care how anointed you are, I don't care how gifted you are, just like we read in 1 Corinthians 13, you can prophesy, you can preach the gospel, but if you're not spending, on most days, I don't think it's, I don't even think it's possible every day, but on most days, spending time in God's Word, writing what He's saying to you in your journal, and spending time in prayer, you will dry up and die spiritually.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You are not made, your body and your heart especially and your spirit is not made to withstand the warfare that we have in this world without getting refilled with Jesus on a regular basis.

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<v SPEAKER_00>To have the filling and the power of God working in your life.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I've known evangelists, I've known pastors and leaders of major organizations that do not regularly have time in the word and eventually they burn out.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I don't, and no counselor is worth his salt to me if the first thing he doesn't delve into in his counseling with a believer is how's your relationship with the Lord?

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<v SPEAKER_00>It all starts there.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We can learn all the communication skills we want, we can learn all the different ways to handle our finances in marriage.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But if we're not having regular time in the word as a married couple, what happens is you start to just suck the life out of your partner.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Because you expect your partner to provide something they're not created to provide that only God can.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so as we're growing in our relationship with God and spending time with him, our hearts come alive.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We experience the freedom for which Christ set us free, Galatians 5, 1.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That freedom comes as we spend time with Him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So that's one.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now, three.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I wrote, had you write three.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I want you to write next to that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Peter, James, and John.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Peter, James, and John.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Jesus, though he had 12 disciples, had three guys that were kind of his best friends.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They had a relationship with each other.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Do you have three men, three women in your life, men with men, women with women, that know you, that care about your heart, that care about your spiritual life.

00:17:04.880 --> 00:17:10.720
<v SPEAKER_00>Not just hunting and fishing together, not just going to coffee together, but that's great too.

00:17:10.799 --> 00:17:11.279
<v SPEAKER_00>Have that.

00:17:11.440 --> 00:17:14.400
<v SPEAKER_00>But do you have three, and I'm going to use the word allies.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Do you have three allies that will battle for your heart?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Men, you need three men in your life that will battle for your heart.

00:17:23.519 --> 00:17:29.680
<v SPEAKER_00>Women, you need three women in your life that will battle for your heart that you can be vulnerable with, that you can be honest with.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They know pretty much everything about you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Gotta have that.

00:17:35.359 --> 00:17:37.200
<v SPEAKER_00>Jesus needed that.

00:17:38.000 --> 00:17:39.759
<v SPEAKER_00>Jesus needed that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>How much more do we need that?

00:17:42.559 --> 00:17:47.279
<v SPEAKER_00>And so we call those D groups, discipleship groups here at the road.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Ours are more like three or four, sometimes five, six, I found is a little bit big, a little bit too large.

00:17:54.559 --> 00:18:00.400
<v SPEAKER_00>But you need, you need three to four guys in your life that you're meeting with regularly.

00:18:00.480 --> 00:18:02.079
<v SPEAKER_00>And that's how we use the P B and J.

00:18:02.240 --> 00:18:05.119
<v SPEAKER_00>We use that bookmark to follow our D groups.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Well then Jesus had 12.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So then he had 12 men that he poured into, and that's getting larger, and now there's maybe not quite as much intimacy, but there's still a relationship of accountability and love.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And we call that a C group, a community group.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We have 11 C groups right now.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And these are more like husbands and wives coming together, or young couples coming together, or young people who are unmarried coming together.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's these groups, they're multi-age, they're multi-ethnic, they're multi uh they're multi.

00:18:44.799 --> 00:18:49.519
<v SPEAKER_00>And so people coming together in that kind of a frame of reference, that's the 12.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Then 120.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So when Jesus made the pronouncement we just read, probably, we don't know for sure, but possibly there were 120 there.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So the women and the men who'd been following Jesus to the end were there, and that formed the nucleus of this group of people that were up in the upper room.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And a couple weeks ago in AD, they showed that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They kind of had a cool scene with the clouds parting and the fire coming down and the fire circling and everybody speaking in tongues.

00:19:18.960 --> 00:19:20.319
<v SPEAKER_00>It's a really cool scene.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um, but 120, that's the church.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now we're already bigger than that, but the reality is that that represents the early church.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Well, then God came, he filled this group of 120 with the power of the Holy Spirit.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Peter went out, preached, and suddenly they had 3,000.

00:19:40.960 --> 00:19:44.000
<v SPEAKER_00>And here's what's unique about that, and this is bothering me just a second.

00:19:47.119 --> 00:19:48.799
<v SPEAKER_00>I didn't set it right.

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<v SPEAKER_00>There we go.

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<v SPEAKER_00>3,000 were saved.

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<v SPEAKER_00>What's most interesting about that in Acts chapter 2 is they came from all over the world.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They came from all over the Mediterranean area where there were Jews and proselytes at that time.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That represents the worldwide church.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Do you realize you're part of a big family?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Men and women, listen, if you go to China today, let's say you're going there to teach English, and you start asking some questions, you're gonna find believers in China.

00:20:21.359 --> 00:20:28.400
<v SPEAKER_00>If you go to Papua New Guinea and you're doing something in Papua New Guinea, and you ask around, you will find a church in Papua New Guinea.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Anywhere you go in the world, you'll probably find a fellowship of believers, and they'll welcome you.

00:20:37.839 --> 00:20:39.039
<v SPEAKER_00>They will welcome you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I've been to 30 nations of the world, and every Christian I've ever met just rolled out the red carpet with love and affection and grace and goodness and care.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You're part of this, you're you're a part of this local congregation, but you're a part of a worldwide congregation that loves you and accepts you until you do something really dumb in their fellowship, they just think you're great.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They really do.

00:21:05.359 --> 00:21:10.079
<v SPEAKER_00>And so that's part of the strategy, that's the strategic thinking of Jesus.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Was one, three, twelve, one twenty, three, we need to be a part of all of that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And even as we hear from Victor next Saturday, he's he's coming from that perspective of the three thousand.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He's coming in from what's happening with believers in Iraq that are a part of our fellowship.

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<v SPEAKER_00>In one sense, that we are part of that same body of Christ with them.

00:21:35.039 --> 00:21:36.960
<v SPEAKER_00>I mentioned that we're targeting men.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Listen to these statistics.

00:21:39.440 --> 00:21:49.279
<v SPEAKER_00>Five out of six men in the United States call themselves Christians, but two out of six go to church.

00:21:49.920 --> 00:21:59.680
<v SPEAKER_00>Sixty one per nationwide is made up of women, and three out of four married women attend church alone.

00:22:00.960 --> 00:22:05.920
<v SPEAKER_00>So if you're here with your husband, you are blessed.

00:22:06.160 --> 00:22:08.160
<v SPEAKER_00>You are mightily blessed.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Because most men are dropping out a wall with their faith.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So we're targeting men.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So this Saturday, Victor's gonna open up our first men's breakfast.

00:22:19.839 --> 00:22:24.559
<v SPEAKER_00>And then September, guys, write this down, September 10th through the 13th.

00:22:24.880 --> 00:22:27.759
<v SPEAKER_00>September 10th, 11th, 12th, and 13th.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We're having our first, we're not, we don't use the word retreat here.

00:22:32.559 --> 00:22:34.240
<v SPEAKER_00>We use the word advance.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We're having a men's advance, and we'll be letting you know about it at the men's breakfast.

00:22:41.359 --> 00:22:44.880
<v SPEAKER_00>It's called Whole Heart Advance, September 10th through the 13th.

00:22:45.039 --> 00:22:49.119
<v SPEAKER_00>I'm saying it here because I want to make sure the women hear it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Women, you have permission.

00:22:52.960 --> 00:22:55.759
<v SPEAKER_00>This is the only time I give you permission to be a nag.

00:22:56.480 --> 00:23:00.559
<v SPEAKER_00>The only time you can be a nag is to get your husband to this retreat in September.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's gonna be awesome.

00:23:01.519 --> 00:23:04.160
<v SPEAKER_00>It's gonna be a Thursday night to a Sunday afternoon.

00:23:04.400 --> 00:23:06.880
<v SPEAKER_00>It's gonna be really, really fun.

00:23:07.279 --> 00:23:08.799
<v SPEAKER_00>So that's the theme.

00:23:09.279 --> 00:23:15.920
<v SPEAKER_00>The theme, the opus of the road is building wholehearted disciples.

00:23:16.079 --> 00:23:30.720
<v SPEAKER_00>Right now, just below us, Billy and Liz and their team, with Jay as the Apostle Peter, are discipling your kids.

00:23:31.200 --> 00:23:33.920
<v SPEAKER_00>Your kids are going to love these classes.

00:23:34.079 --> 00:23:37.359
<v SPEAKER_00>There's going to be characters like this every week.

00:23:38.160 --> 00:23:39.680
<v SPEAKER_00>Themes will change.

00:23:40.160 --> 00:23:42.400
<v SPEAKER_00>Particular themes right now are prophecy.

00:23:42.559 --> 00:23:46.079
<v SPEAKER_00>That's what they're going over for the month of April is prophecy.

00:23:46.720 --> 00:23:48.799
<v SPEAKER_00>And then what is it in May?

00:23:49.279 --> 00:23:49.839
<v SPEAKER_00>Who knows?

00:23:50.400 --> 00:23:51.920
<v SPEAKER_00>What's the theme in May?

00:23:52.240 --> 00:23:54.000
<v SPEAKER_00>Oh, the reliability of the Bible.

00:23:54.160 --> 00:23:56.000
<v SPEAKER_00>Okay, reliability of the Bible.

00:23:56.319 --> 00:23:59.279
<v SPEAKER_00>And I think they're also doing a thing on Worldview, right, Linda?

00:23:59.839 --> 00:24:01.680
<v SPEAKER_00>With uh Paul.

00:24:01.839 --> 00:24:03.359
<v SPEAKER_00>I think Paul's coming in.

00:24:03.440 --> 00:24:04.960
<v SPEAKER_00>Paul Austin's coming in with that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So that's our theme.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Thesis.

00:24:07.599 --> 00:24:12.319
<v SPEAKER_00>Thesis of the opus of God, the values of the road.

00:24:12.480 --> 00:24:18.079
<v SPEAKER_00>Now there's a lot of them here, so I'm going to go through these really quick, and then you guys can read this later.

00:24:18.240 --> 00:24:19.200
<v SPEAKER_00>I'll read it to you.

00:24:19.279 --> 00:24:21.440
<v SPEAKER_00>And if I want to comment on something, I will.

00:24:21.680 --> 00:24:24.799
<v SPEAKER_00>But first is discipleship, and I already covered that.

00:24:25.039 --> 00:24:26.079
<v SPEAKER_00>Transparency.

00:24:26.240 --> 00:24:36.960
<v SPEAKER_00>We openly face and embrace the wilderness, darkness, and shame of our life and place it under the cross and love of Christ.

00:24:37.200 --> 00:24:46.960
<v SPEAKER_00>In my D group, we went through a lot together, us men in our D group this year, with some with some pretty pretty bad stuff.

00:24:48.000 --> 00:24:52.640
<v SPEAKER_00>Pretty heart-wrenching stuff, but we hung in there together and we walked through it together.

00:24:52.720 --> 00:24:54.799
<v SPEAKER_00>And so we value transparency.

00:24:54.960 --> 00:24:56.400
<v SPEAKER_00>Number three, community.

00:24:56.640 --> 00:25:05.599
<v SPEAKER_00>We value gathering, enjoying, and hanging out together as wild, wholehearted, joyful lovers of God and each other.

00:25:05.920 --> 00:25:08.880
<v SPEAKER_00>And you just have to ask some people around what that all means.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Four, men.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We value the building up of men of God who will develop into servant leaders at work, in the home, and in the church.

00:25:18.319 --> 00:25:21.440
<v SPEAKER_00>If I was rewriting this, I might say warriors.

00:25:22.240 --> 00:25:23.519
<v SPEAKER_00>Building warriors.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Warriors who go into their jobs.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Do you men and women know that God has an assignment?

00:25:29.920 --> 00:25:32.079
<v SPEAKER_00>Sometimes we talk about the assignment of the enemy.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Do you know there's an assignment from God?

00:25:35.039 --> 00:25:38.960
<v SPEAKER_00>Every one of you in this room has an assignment from God.

00:25:40.160 --> 00:25:57.680
<v SPEAKER_00>I mean, some of you are engineers, some of you are mechanics, some of you are school teachers, some of you are stay-at-home moms, some of you homeschool your kids, some of you drop your kids off at school, some of you are lawyers, some of you are doctors.

00:25:57.920 --> 00:26:03.839
<v SPEAKER_00>We have an assignment from God to be a warrior in that environment.

00:26:04.079 --> 00:26:04.880
<v SPEAKER_00>It's from God.

00:26:05.039 --> 00:26:06.799
<v SPEAKER_00>Nobody can do it like you can.

00:26:07.039 --> 00:26:18.160
<v SPEAKER_00>You're a work of art by God, given a brush, to paint the beauty and the love and the grace of God where you work and what you do.

00:26:18.720 --> 00:26:21.119
<v SPEAKER_00>And so it's an assignment from the Lord.

00:26:21.279 --> 00:26:22.319
<v SPEAKER_00>Number five, word.

00:26:22.720 --> 00:26:28.640
<v SPEAKER_00>We value the whole counsel of God through expositional preaching of God's word, chapter by chapter and verse by verse.

00:26:28.799 --> 00:26:33.279
<v SPEAKER_00>So normally we are going chapter by chapter and verse by verse through the Bible.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Holy Spirit.

00:26:34.720 --> 00:26:48.240
<v SPEAKER_00>We value the Holy Spirit's power to change and transform lives through conversion, conviction of sin, sanctification, empowerment for ministry, and the ongoing work of God on the earth.

00:26:48.480 --> 00:26:53.279
<v SPEAKER_00>Men and women, we can't live the Christian life without the power of the Holy Spirit.

00:26:53.759 --> 00:26:57.279
<v SPEAKER_00>Impossible without surrendering to Him.

00:26:57.519 --> 00:27:04.400
<v SPEAKER_00>And so we are always growing and learning how to be surrendered to the power of the Holy Spirit in our lives.

00:27:04.720 --> 00:27:05.279
<v SPEAKER_00>Prayer.

00:27:05.440 --> 00:27:13.759
<v SPEAKER_00>We value the power, contemplation, and life-transforming nature of deep prayer in knowing and loving God and changing the world.

00:27:14.000 --> 00:27:17.119
<v SPEAKER_00>Now that that's going to be an interesting concept in the years to come.

00:27:17.200 --> 00:27:19.839
<v SPEAKER_00>I can't wait to teach on it when it's the appropriate time.

00:27:20.000 --> 00:27:26.400
<v SPEAKER_00>You know, there's a prayer that involves the edification of our own hearts.

00:27:26.720 --> 00:27:32.720
<v SPEAKER_00>But there's also a prayer that's very, that's very intentional in warfare.

00:27:32.880 --> 00:27:33.839
<v SPEAKER_00>Do you realize that?

00:27:34.319 --> 00:27:37.920
<v SPEAKER_00>Sometimes when you pray, it's about your relationship with the Lord.

00:27:38.079 --> 00:27:42.079
<v SPEAKER_00>But sometimes you come into prayer, and it's not about your relationship with the Lord.

00:27:42.319 --> 00:27:45.359
<v SPEAKER_00>It's about God changing structures.

00:27:45.519 --> 00:27:48.720
<v SPEAKER_00>It's about God pulling down strongholds.

00:27:48.880 --> 00:27:56.720
<v SPEAKER_00>If you'd have been over here in our prayer time with about 15 men here before the service, it was not about our relationship with the Lord.

00:27:56.880 --> 00:27:58.799
<v SPEAKER_00>It was warfare prayer.

00:27:59.440 --> 00:28:05.920
<v SPEAKER_00>It was crying out to God that when we come tonight, the power of God would show up in our lives.

00:28:06.240 --> 00:28:16.880
<v SPEAKER_00>That people that come tonight who don't know Jesus Christ as their personal, intimate, dynamic, loving Lord and Savior, they would come to know him tonight.

00:28:17.039 --> 00:28:26.880
<v SPEAKER_00>For some of us that come and we're just overwhelmed with shame and brokenness, that God would begin to reveal that tonight.

00:28:27.519 --> 00:28:32.480
<v SPEAKER_00>Because we were praying against an enemy as much as we were praying to God.

00:28:33.359 --> 00:28:35.279
<v SPEAKER_00>That leads into number eight, war.

00:28:35.440 --> 00:28:42.880
<v SPEAKER_00>We believe we were created for spiritual warfare, to fight against Satan and demons and gaining victory for the church in the cause of Christ.

00:28:43.119 --> 00:28:50.319
<v SPEAKER_00>Beloved, we value all people as beloved, created in the image of God, whether a Jesus disciple or not.

00:28:50.880 --> 00:28:51.680
<v SPEAKER_00>Finances.

00:28:51.839 --> 00:29:03.839
<v SPEAKER_00>We value wise use of all finances by not going into debt, but trusting God to provide for all of our needs, enabling us to give generously to the mission of changing lives and expanding the kingdom of God on earth.

00:29:04.000 --> 00:29:08.720
<v SPEAKER_00>So 10% of all the giving that happens here at the road goes out to missions.

00:29:08.880 --> 00:29:14.319
<v SPEAKER_00>And so we have missionaries that we currently financially support.

00:29:14.559 --> 00:29:18.400
<v SPEAKER_00>But we also have some stuff coming, and we'll unveil that in the fall.

00:29:18.559 --> 00:29:30.319
<v SPEAKER_00>But there's something coming that I've learned about in LA that I'd like to bring here that's going to relate to a ministry here in the city that's going to be very, very powerful.

00:29:31.039 --> 00:29:34.640
<v SPEAKER_00>We're here at this church on Saturday night.

00:29:34.720 --> 00:29:37.599
<v SPEAKER_00>I mean, we could probably double our church if we went to Sunday morning.

00:29:37.759 --> 00:29:42.799
<v SPEAKER_00>But right now, God's called us to Saturday night here at this facility, and it's very economical.

00:29:42.880 --> 00:29:45.920
<v SPEAKER_00>It's a blessing to Chapel Hills Church, and it's a blessing to us.

00:29:46.160 --> 00:29:51.839
<v SPEAKER_00>And so I want to just say hats off to all of you that are here on a Saturday night, because I know some of that's really hard.

00:29:51.920 --> 00:29:52.960
<v SPEAKER_00>I know it is for us.

00:29:53.119 --> 00:29:57.440
<v SPEAKER_00>We've got kids who do piano, we have kids who do gymnastics, we have kids who do baseball.

00:29:57.599 --> 00:30:06.000
<v SPEAKER_00>And so there's a lot of people on these teams that help us out by driving, and Josh is going to get dropped off here because of his second game at 3 o'clock today.

00:30:06.400 --> 00:30:08.319
<v SPEAKER_00>I got to go to the first one, but I missed the second one.

00:30:08.480 --> 00:30:16.559
<v SPEAKER_00>But that's what God's called us to do, and it's financially really a good situation so we can be generous with our finances by doing it that way.

00:30:17.119 --> 00:30:19.920
<v SPEAKER_00>Unity, I'll cover that in a moment.

00:30:20.160 --> 00:30:20.799
<v SPEAKER_00>Beauty.

00:30:21.039 --> 00:30:28.960
<v SPEAKER_00>We value beauty and creativity in all its various forms, whether in forms of art and worship, website, or structures we build.

00:30:29.119 --> 00:30:33.279
<v SPEAKER_00>Now, we built a website, and it's not like a church website.

00:30:33.920 --> 00:30:36.400
<v SPEAKER_00>Um, because I wanted to do it different.

00:30:36.720 --> 00:30:40.960
<v SPEAKER_00>And so, and so if you go to most websites, you've got all the announcements kind of flipping through.

00:30:41.119 --> 00:30:42.079
<v SPEAKER_00>I think that's really cool.

00:30:42.240 --> 00:30:46.720
<v SPEAKER_00>But I wanted something that when you came there, it just kind of caught your eye as something beautiful.

00:30:46.880 --> 00:30:49.759
<v SPEAKER_00>And so, you know how we got the road and we got that mountain scene.

00:30:49.839 --> 00:30:50.480
<v SPEAKER_00>I love that.

00:30:50.640 --> 00:30:51.920
<v SPEAKER_00>Um, that is just so cool.

00:30:52.000 --> 00:30:53.920
<v SPEAKER_00>And we'll be switching that out every once in a while.

00:30:54.240 --> 00:30:57.920
<v SPEAKER_00>But I, man, we love beauty around here.

00:30:58.240 --> 00:31:05.599
<v SPEAKER_00>And we're still thinking this through, but I think there's gotta be a, there's gotta be a venue in the church for artists.

00:31:06.640 --> 00:31:13.599
<v SPEAKER_00>I mean, why does, you know, why does it seem that the kind of junk, I mean, I get Time magazine.

00:31:15.039 --> 00:31:17.119
<v SPEAKER_00>My dad pays for it, I don't pay for it.

00:31:17.279 --> 00:31:17.599
<v SPEAKER_00>Okay.

00:31:18.240 --> 00:31:21.279
<v SPEAKER_00>But I get Time magazine because I kind of want to know what's going on and everything.

00:31:21.440 --> 00:31:24.319
<v SPEAKER_00>And seriously, they have a, I've never seen this before.

00:31:24.400 --> 00:31:25.839
<v SPEAKER_00>It's only happened the last couple years.

00:31:26.079 --> 00:31:30.480
<v SPEAKER_00>Culture and art is like a third of the magazine now.

00:31:30.640 --> 00:31:33.039
<v SPEAKER_00>It was like three pages years ago, it's now a third.

00:31:33.119 --> 00:31:36.000
<v SPEAKER_00>I mean, more stuff on culture and art.

00:31:36.559 --> 00:31:44.640
<v SPEAKER_00>Church, do you realize that what moves nations is musicians, artists, and poets.

00:31:45.279 --> 00:31:45.920
<v SPEAKER_00>Proven.

00:31:46.559 --> 00:31:48.000
<v SPEAKER_00>Again and again.

00:31:48.319 --> 00:32:00.240
<v SPEAKER_00>Philosophers, musicians, poets, men who write, writers, that's what moves the hearts of nations.

00:32:02.720 --> 00:32:05.839
<v SPEAKER_00>And so you look at any nation and you look at how it was built.

00:32:06.000 --> 00:32:13.039
<v SPEAKER_00>It was built by artists, it was built by musicians, it was built by writers, it was built by philosophers.

00:32:13.440 --> 00:32:18.799
<v SPEAKER_00>Do you realize the Puritans and the pilgrims and the separatists, they wrote stuff.

00:32:18.960 --> 00:32:22.240
<v SPEAKER_00>They wrote a thing called the Constitution.

00:32:22.480 --> 00:32:29.519
<v SPEAKER_00>And they influenced and they impacted and they and they made an indelible mark that we're losing.

00:32:32.000 --> 00:32:34.880
<v SPEAKER_00>We're losing the foundations of our nation.

00:32:35.200 --> 00:32:40.960
<v SPEAKER_00>We need artists, we need believers that are musicians, we need writers.

00:32:42.640 --> 00:32:43.839
<v SPEAKER_00>That's beauty.

00:32:44.079 --> 00:32:49.759
<v SPEAKER_00>The right beautiful works of art that impact the hearts and minds of our young people.

00:32:51.200 --> 00:32:51.920
<v SPEAKER_00>Beauty.

00:32:52.240 --> 00:32:52.880
<v SPEAKER_00>Home.

00:32:54.000 --> 00:32:58.240
<v SPEAKER_00>Most valuable institution of a nation is the home.

00:32:58.559 --> 00:33:04.720
<v SPEAKER_00>We value the home as the foundation of society and the first place for living out our discipleship.

00:33:04.880 --> 00:33:08.720
<v SPEAKER_00>If you don't live it out at home, you lose.

00:33:10.799 --> 00:33:13.759
<v SPEAKER_00>If you don't live it out at home, you lose.

00:33:14.000 --> 00:33:16.240
<v SPEAKER_00>And so we start there, don't we?

00:33:17.519 --> 00:33:18.799
<v SPEAKER_00>Building the home.

00:33:19.039 --> 00:33:21.279
<v SPEAKER_00>And then lastly, spiritual disciplines.

00:33:21.440 --> 00:33:30.880
<v SPEAKER_00>We value abiding in Christ through the disciplines of prayer and fasting, biblical meditation, solitude, retreat, and Sabbath rest.

00:33:31.200 --> 00:33:35.200
<v SPEAKER_00>Really, John 15, I put that there because that's the abiding in Christ.

00:33:35.279 --> 00:33:38.640
<v SPEAKER_00>That's practicing the powerful presence of Christ in our lives.

00:33:38.799 --> 00:33:40.000
<v SPEAKER_00>Well, what's our tune?

00:33:40.160 --> 00:33:41.759
<v SPEAKER_00>What's the tune of God's opus?

00:33:42.079 --> 00:33:42.960
<v SPEAKER_00>Harmony.

00:33:43.200 --> 00:33:46.240
<v SPEAKER_00>The tune of the opus is harmony.

00:33:47.039 --> 00:33:53.599
<v SPEAKER_00>When a gifted pianist takes this work, it sounds beautiful.

00:33:54.640 --> 00:34:00.720
<v SPEAKER_00>And so the theme of the road is that we be a harmonic people.

00:34:01.599 --> 00:34:03.440
<v SPEAKER_00>Harmony, concord.

00:34:03.680 --> 00:34:13.119
<v SPEAKER_00>The definition is a combination of simultaneously sounded musical notes to produce chords and chord progressions that have a pleasing effect.

00:34:13.760 --> 00:34:23.119
<v SPEAKER_00>A harmony is the combination of different sounds into a unified agreement that produce a beautiful sound and a beautiful symphony.

00:34:23.920 --> 00:34:25.679
<v SPEAKER_00>We're a symphony.

00:34:26.559 --> 00:34:30.159
<v SPEAKER_00>The road is a symphony of God.

00:34:30.559 --> 00:34:32.960
<v SPEAKER_00>Turn in your Bibles to Matthew 18.

00:34:37.679 --> 00:34:44.800
<v SPEAKER_00>The great symphony of God has to have harmony and agreement and concord.

00:34:45.840 --> 00:35:08.000
<v SPEAKER_00>In Matthew 18, Jesus obviously knowing that we tend to bicker and fight and struggle in relationships, gave us his way of bringing agreement between people.

00:35:14.400 --> 00:35:24.639
<v SPEAKER_00>If your brother sins against you, when your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone.

00:35:25.039 --> 00:35:28.320
<v SPEAKER_00>If he hears you, you've gained your brother.

00:35:28.639 --> 00:35:36.880
<v SPEAKER_00>But if he will not hear, take with you one or two more, that by the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established.

00:35:37.119 --> 00:35:40.719
<v SPEAKER_00>And if he refuses to hear them, tell it to the church.

00:35:41.039 --> 00:35:46.559
<v SPEAKER_00>But if he refuses even to hear the church, let him be to you like a heathen and a tax collector.

00:35:46.800 --> 00:35:49.519
<v SPEAKER_00>Now look at the context of verse 18.

00:35:49.679 --> 00:35:51.440
<v SPEAKER_00>That's the context.

00:35:52.159 --> 00:36:11.679
<v SPEAKER_00>So much of the time we take it out of context, we just independently quote verse 18 out of context, but the context is there being conflict between two people that they come together and they start to work it out.

00:36:12.159 --> 00:36:17.440
<v SPEAKER_00>He says, if you come together to work it out, look what can happen.

00:36:17.760 --> 00:36:24.719
<v SPEAKER_00>Assuredly, I say to you, whatever you bind on earth, he's talking about the binding that comes through forgiveness.

00:36:25.119 --> 00:36:27.360
<v SPEAKER_00>Is what George spoke of last week.

00:36:27.679 --> 00:36:35.119
<v SPEAKER_00>The timing of his and I's message is to be that of how powerful forgiveness is in relation to conflict.

00:36:35.280 --> 00:36:38.480
<v SPEAKER_00>Assurely I say to you, you bind on earth, it will be bound in heaven.

00:36:38.639 --> 00:36:40.239
<v SPEAKER_00>You forgive on earth.

00:36:40.559 --> 00:36:42.480
<v SPEAKER_00>He forgives you in heaven.

00:36:42.719 --> 00:36:48.079
<v SPEAKER_00>And whatever you loose on earth, forgiveness, will be loosed in heaven.

00:36:48.320 --> 00:37:01.440
<v SPEAKER_00>And so there's this binding and loosening that happens through men and women coming together in a marriage or a family or the local church, where we start working things out because we're honest.

00:37:02.639 --> 00:37:13.840
<v SPEAKER_00>Again, I say to you, that if two of you agree on earth concerning anything that they ask, it will be done for them by my Father in heaven.

00:37:14.079 --> 00:37:20.000
<v SPEAKER_00>For where two or three are gathered together in my name, I'm in the midst of them.

00:37:21.039 --> 00:37:26.639
<v SPEAKER_00>So, church, when you come together to work out stuff, God's there.

00:37:27.199 --> 00:37:29.199
<v SPEAKER_00>It's its basic heart.

00:37:29.679 --> 00:37:33.280
<v SPEAKER_00>The heart of God is forgiveness.

00:37:33.519 --> 00:37:38.480
<v SPEAKER_00>The heart of God is agreement, it's harmony, it's unity, it's love.

00:37:39.920 --> 00:37:41.760
<v SPEAKER_00>Do you guys realize just right there?

00:37:42.000 --> 00:37:47.360
<v SPEAKER_00>If we as a church were doing that, it'd bring a revival.

00:37:47.679 --> 00:37:49.519
<v SPEAKER_00>Because nobody's doing it.

00:37:50.239 --> 00:37:53.599
<v SPEAKER_00>And the worst place is most churches.

00:37:55.920 --> 00:38:03.039
<v SPEAKER_00>Because we haven't learned how to walk in a spirit of forgiveness, in a spirit of unity, in a spirit of love.

00:38:03.199 --> 00:38:05.360
<v SPEAKER_00>Because as soon as, here's what Americans do.

00:38:05.519 --> 00:38:10.880
<v SPEAKER_00>I've now been a part of this institution called the Church in America for about 23 years.

00:38:11.199 --> 00:38:15.679
<v SPEAKER_00>And then I was 18 years in the Lutheran Church before I became a missionary.

00:38:15.760 --> 00:38:17.599
<v SPEAKER_00>But then 10 years I was in Japan.

00:38:18.000 --> 00:38:20.400
<v SPEAKER_00>And by the way, they have the same struggle over there.

00:38:20.800 --> 00:38:25.119
<v SPEAKER_00>It's a worldwide universal issue with all of us, right?

00:38:25.280 --> 00:38:29.199
<v SPEAKER_00>And that is we run from our problems, we don't face them.

00:38:30.960 --> 00:38:45.199
<v SPEAKER_00>And so the reason we're doing this tonight is I want us to be a body from the very beginning where we have an understanding within our fellowship that it's okay to work things out.

00:38:45.840 --> 00:38:50.000
<v SPEAKER_00>And it's okay to be messy, because it always gets messy.

00:38:50.800 --> 00:39:06.000
<v SPEAKER_00>Quantitatively, the fact is, if you're hanging out with that same woman or that same man on a regular basis, except for the work part, you're almost 24-7 with that person, there's quite a few opportunities to actually have some conflicts.

00:39:06.400 --> 00:39:22.480
<v SPEAKER_00>But if we start learning a skill at not just the heart level, but actually a physical skill, where we talk about those issues because Jesus tells us to, and he shows us how miracle would occur.

00:39:22.800 --> 00:39:27.679
<v SPEAKER_00>Even the rafters here rejoice over that word from the Lord.

00:39:27.920 --> 00:39:33.199
<v SPEAKER_00>The Bible says of the early church, Acts 4, 32, they were of one heart.

00:39:34.079 --> 00:39:37.440
<v SPEAKER_00>Unity characterized the early church.

00:39:37.599 --> 00:39:48.800
<v SPEAKER_00>I would say that it is virtually impossible in the passage we just read for verses 18 and 19 and 20 to occur if the first part hasn't occurred.

00:39:49.119 --> 00:39:54.960
<v SPEAKER_00>So we might ask the question how many of you, how many of you men fish?

00:39:55.760 --> 00:39:57.199
<v SPEAKER_00>Raise your hand if you fish.

00:39:57.360 --> 00:39:57.679
<v SPEAKER_00>Okay.

00:39:57.920 --> 00:40:02.719
<v SPEAKER_00>I was fly fishing this week at Spinney, and I prayed.

00:40:03.280 --> 00:40:06.400
<v SPEAKER_00>I said, Lord, I've been abiding in you.

00:40:07.199 --> 00:40:08.719
<v SPEAKER_00>I've been trusting you.

00:40:08.880 --> 00:40:12.079
<v SPEAKER_00>I don't know of anything in my life that's not right.

00:40:12.480 --> 00:40:14.719
<v SPEAKER_00>I want to catch 20 fish.

00:40:16.400 --> 00:40:18.000
<v SPEAKER_00>I caught two.

00:40:21.519 --> 00:40:43.519
<v SPEAKER_00>But I sometimes wonder, I sometimes wonder if the reason we don't see revival in our country is because at the very core level, the context in which Jesus is saying two are more gathering together and agreeing, and then God giving it to us is because our relationships are so broken.

00:40:44.719 --> 00:40:52.719
<v SPEAKER_00>I think you could arguably say in the Sermon on the Mount, Matthew 5, 6, and 7, that that whole passage, that whole sermon is about relationships.

00:40:52.960 --> 00:40:55.039
<v SPEAKER_00>Really, the Sermon on the Mount's all about relationships.

00:40:55.119 --> 00:40:55.519
<v SPEAKER_00>Just read it.

00:40:55.599 --> 00:40:57.360
<v SPEAKER_00>It's all about relationships.

00:40:58.159 --> 00:41:01.440
<v SPEAKER_00>The fruit of the kingdom is righteousness, peace, and joy.

00:41:01.760 --> 00:41:02.639
<v SPEAKER_00>Well, that's right.

00:41:03.039 --> 00:41:06.079
<v SPEAKER_00>Righteousness, peace, and joy is all about relationships.

00:41:06.400 --> 00:41:14.639
<v SPEAKER_00>Seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, right relationships, another definition for righteousness in the Greek.

00:41:15.840 --> 00:41:17.280
<v SPEAKER_00>Isn't that exciting?

00:41:17.599 --> 00:41:21.360
<v SPEAKER_00>We could see our prayers answered if we were walking in right relationships.

00:41:21.440 --> 00:41:24.719
<v SPEAKER_00>We could see a revival in our country if we had right relationships.

00:41:24.960 --> 00:41:31.679
<v SPEAKER_00>I believe Jesus is ready to release a mighty move of his spirit on our country.

00:41:32.000 --> 00:41:38.800
<v SPEAKER_00>If we would begin to ask God to give us the power for developing and building right relationships.

00:41:39.039 --> 00:41:40.639
<v SPEAKER_00>Now turn to Matthew 5.

00:41:40.800 --> 00:41:42.400
<v SPEAKER_00>Matthew 5.23.

00:41:44.320 --> 00:41:47.519
<v SPEAKER_00>Now I'm running a little bit late, so I'm going to go a little bit faster here.

00:41:47.679 --> 00:41:49.360
<v SPEAKER_00>Matthew 5.23.

00:41:49.840 --> 00:42:01.199
<v SPEAKER_00>Therefore, if you bring your gift to the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar and go your way.

00:42:01.519 --> 00:42:05.199
<v SPEAKER_00>First, be reconciled to your brother, and then coming off your gift.

00:42:05.360 --> 00:42:10.159
<v SPEAKER_00>So worship is actually secondary to harmony in relationships.

00:42:10.239 --> 00:42:11.599
<v SPEAKER_00>Isn't that interesting?

00:42:11.840 --> 00:42:15.039
<v SPEAKER_00>That, and I can't tell you how many times, I'm sure we've all experienced this.

00:42:15.119 --> 00:42:23.039
<v SPEAKER_00>You know, you got the person next to you, I mean, they're just worshiping the Lord, and oh, praise God this and praise God this, and they're having an affair.

00:42:23.920 --> 00:42:31.519
<v SPEAKER_00>And oh, praise God and bless you, and they're there to serve at all times, and they're just ripping people off in their business left and right.

00:42:32.079 --> 00:42:38.000
<v SPEAKER_00>Folks, I'm just gonna tell you, that's not gonna happen on my watch.

00:42:38.239 --> 00:42:40.960
<v SPEAKER_00>If I hear that kind of stuff happening around here, I'm gonna come.

00:42:41.039 --> 00:42:45.760
<v SPEAKER_00>I'll be loving and kind, but I'll say, look, dude, that is not discipleship.

00:42:46.079 --> 00:42:59.440
<v SPEAKER_00>If you're cheating on your income taxes, and believe me, I am I am no great supporter of income taxes, but if you're if you're cheating, ripping people off in your business, you will be found out.

00:43:00.079 --> 00:43:01.039
<v SPEAKER_00>I mean, you will.

00:43:01.760 --> 00:43:05.119
<v SPEAKER_00>You may think that the millions you've made nobody sees.

00:43:05.280 --> 00:43:07.440
<v SPEAKER_00>God sees it, and you will be found out.

00:43:07.679 --> 00:43:09.519
<v SPEAKER_00>You're gonna get busted.

00:43:11.039 --> 00:43:15.199
<v SPEAKER_00>And if you're betraying people on a regular basis, you will get busted.

00:43:15.519 --> 00:43:16.480
<v SPEAKER_00>So why not?

00:43:16.800 --> 00:43:22.239
<v SPEAKER_00>I guess I would rather, I would rather come clean with God than men.

00:43:23.519 --> 00:43:26.559
<v SPEAKER_00>Because with God, there's always forgiveness and love.

00:43:26.880 --> 00:43:28.159
<v SPEAKER_00>With men, there's not.

00:43:28.320 --> 00:43:30.159
<v SPEAKER_00>They send you to prison.

00:43:33.119 --> 00:43:34.960
<v SPEAKER_00>I've said this before, I'll say it again.

00:43:35.119 --> 00:43:38.079
<v SPEAKER_00>Drugs is a cruel taskmaster.

00:43:38.800 --> 00:43:42.159
<v SPEAKER_00>Adultery is a cruel taskmaster.

00:43:42.480 --> 00:43:53.519
<v SPEAKER_00>Constantly ripping people off, breaking relationships, running from relationships, making fun of other people that didn't agree with you is a taskmaster that you will get caught up to and you'll get burnt.

00:43:53.599 --> 00:43:59.679
<v SPEAKER_00>And I would rather go to God and say, Lord, I have, I, I'm really um not right in these areas.

00:44:00.320 --> 00:44:06.639
<v SPEAKER_00>Get some allies, get some other men, get some other women with you as allies and start making things right.

00:44:07.599 --> 00:44:10.559
<v SPEAKER_00>Because God will forgive, men don't.

00:44:11.280 --> 00:44:14.320
<v SPEAKER_00>Our legal system is not very forgiving.

00:44:15.280 --> 00:44:20.960
<v SPEAKER_00>And here, and you know, we talked about it a couple weeks ago when I was in Mark 13 about the restrainer.

00:44:21.440 --> 00:44:31.360
<v SPEAKER_00>There's a restrainer upon the earth where the Spirit of God is actually restraining lawlessness right now until the last days before Christ comes.

00:44:32.320 --> 00:44:34.800
<v SPEAKER_00>Well, there's also a restrainer on our lives.

00:44:34.880 --> 00:44:38.800
<v SPEAKER_00>I think God gives you opportunity to repent, opportunity to repent.

00:44:38.880 --> 00:44:42.239
<v SPEAKER_00>You're hearing a message tonight you may have never heard before.

00:44:42.480 --> 00:44:56.960
<v SPEAKER_00>This is a word, maybe a prophetic word to you tonight, and God gives you, there's a restraining of not being found out because of his love, because he wants you to repent and bring restitution and make things right.

00:44:57.119 --> 00:45:02.559
<v SPEAKER_00>But if you don't, the restraining lifts because of the love of God.

00:45:03.199 --> 00:45:13.840
<v SPEAKER_00>He loves us so much that he'll break our heart if we want to allow our relationship with him to break it enough to restore.

00:45:14.000 --> 00:45:16.719
<v SPEAKER_00>So what is a covenant of harmony?

00:45:16.960 --> 00:45:24.559
<v SPEAKER_00>It is our belief that all of us have a conviction to follow Scripture in all conflicted relationships according to Matthew 5 and 18.

00:45:24.880 --> 00:45:27.199
<v SPEAKER_00>Why is a covenant of harmony needed?

00:45:27.440 --> 00:45:32.559
<v SPEAKER_00>It provides an avenue for each of us to examine the scriptures and our own heart.

00:45:33.360 --> 00:45:37.599
<v SPEAKER_00>So there are four primary causes of conflict in the church, I believe.

00:45:37.840 --> 00:45:41.519
<v SPEAKER_00>Number one, is this in your notes, by the way?

00:45:41.840 --> 00:45:42.880
<v SPEAKER_00>Is that in there?

00:45:43.119 --> 00:45:44.239
<v SPEAKER_00>Okay, I don't think it is.

00:45:44.320 --> 00:45:45.760
<v SPEAKER_00>Let me give you jot these down.

00:45:45.920 --> 00:45:48.320
<v SPEAKER_00>Number one, misunderstandings.

00:45:49.519 --> 00:45:52.719
<v SPEAKER_00>These are four primary causes of conflict in the local church.

00:45:52.800 --> 00:45:56.880
<v SPEAKER_00>I think it's everywhere, but I'm speaking here of the opus called the road.

00:45:57.039 --> 00:46:00.480
<v SPEAKER_00>Number one, misunderstandings resulting from poor communication.

00:46:00.639 --> 00:46:04.239
<v SPEAKER_00>I mean, sometimes you just, you mean your heart is totally right, but you just miscommunicate.

00:46:04.320 --> 00:46:09.119
<v SPEAKER_00>Or someone reads you wrong when you said something and it hurts their feeling.

00:46:09.360 --> 00:46:20.559
<v SPEAKER_00>Number two, differences in values, differences in goals, gifts, calling, priorities, opinions.

00:46:21.360 --> 00:46:28.719
<v SPEAKER_00>Have you ever been in a church where it's like everything that the senior pastor has an opinion about becomes like doctrine?

00:46:30.159 --> 00:46:35.920
<v SPEAKER_00>I mean, really, we have to be careful and understand that a lot of things are just not doctrine, they're just your opinion.

00:46:36.480 --> 00:46:43.519
<v SPEAKER_00>Okay, but so remember that because if you make everything like a doctrine, you're gonna have no friends.

00:46:44.000 --> 00:46:47.599
<v SPEAKER_00>Except for this little close group of idiots like you.

00:46:47.840 --> 00:46:48.400
<v SPEAKER_00>You know?

00:46:48.639 --> 00:46:53.280
<v SPEAKER_00>And so you you need to realize that's my opinion, and you can have a different opinion, but we still love each other.

00:46:53.360 --> 00:46:55.760
<v SPEAKER_00>It's okay to have differences of opinion.

00:46:56.079 --> 00:47:02.559
<v SPEAKER_00>Number three, competition over limited resources, such as time or money.

00:47:02.719 --> 00:47:06.800
<v SPEAKER_00>So that can sometimes cause conflicts, competition over limited resources.

00:47:06.960 --> 00:47:14.639
<v SPEAKER_00>And then fourthly, sinful attitudes and habits that lead to sinful words and actions.

00:47:14.960 --> 00:47:20.719
<v SPEAKER_00>Sinful attitudes and habits that lead to sinful words and actions.

00:47:20.960 --> 00:47:22.480
<v SPEAKER_00>And that's just the way it is.

00:47:22.639 --> 00:47:23.679
<v SPEAKER_00>We're just sinners.

00:47:23.840 --> 00:47:26.000
<v SPEAKER_00>And so we are gonna hurt each other.

00:47:26.880 --> 00:47:35.360
<v SPEAKER_00>So we developed, this came from actually from Dick Eastman, one of our overseers, who is the president of Every Home for Christ.

00:47:35.519 --> 00:47:52.559
<v SPEAKER_00>And they went through a thing about 2006, if I remember what Dick said, where there were some pretty major issues at EHC, and they put together this covenant of harmony, and I copied almost verbatim all of it, and I really like it.

00:47:52.719 --> 00:48:00.880
<v SPEAKER_00>So let me read it to you, and this is a covenant of harmony that we encourage you to sign as a member of the road.

00:48:02.000 --> 00:48:08.079
<v SPEAKER_00>As a member of the road, I recognize we represent Christ and his church.

00:48:08.480 --> 00:48:27.280
<v SPEAKER_00>As such, we function on clearly defined biblical principles regarding interpersonal relationships both within the road as well as without, including how and what we communicate from on-the-job experiences and situations with other believers and even non-believers, whether within or without the church.

00:48:27.360 --> 00:48:32.559
<v SPEAKER_00>So this is not just about the church, this is about your relationships with people in society.

00:48:32.960 --> 00:48:42.719
<v SPEAKER_00>I hereby pledge, in all I do, to follow biblical principles that would seek always to foster harmony throughout fellowship of the road.

00:48:42.960 --> 00:49:06.639
<v SPEAKER_00>In accordance with the biblical mandate of Matthew 18, 15 through 17, if I question the conduct of another, or if I hear of accusations that may be shared with me or others regarding a fellow brother or sister, no matter his or her position, I will go first to that specific person to discuss this matter with him or her before going to any other individual.

00:49:06.880 --> 00:49:10.159
<v SPEAKER_00>So, in other words, when there's issues, go to that person.

00:49:10.559 --> 00:49:14.239
<v SPEAKER_00>Begin to talk to him, and I'll guide you in a second about how to do that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>If there is a clear rejection of a genuine attempt to offer spiritual correction or admonition, I will further follow Matthew 18, 15 through 17 pattern and take with me another brother or sister to mediate the situation, carefully refusing to allow the matter to become a potential seed of discord or dissension that once planted will ultimately become an abomination to God.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Proverbs 6, 16 through 19.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Do you realize if churches did this, I mean, God would show up.

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<v SPEAKER_00>What a novel thought that God would show up at church.

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<v SPEAKER_00>What a novel thought that God might show up at his own church.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I further acknowledge that God's biblical pattern of settling disputes among believers is never to seek a secular public forum, 1 Corinthians 6, 1 through 8.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But rather to go to a responsible leadership in his church for a full resolution of the situation.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I do recognize that to violate the above would be to openly declare my lack of trust in God's biblical plan for harmony, and would therefore, would thereby position myself in opposition to what God Himself has declared to be his way of working healing in his church.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We could put lawyers out of business, gang.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I mean, if every believer in the country followed this, there'd be a lot of uh courts that would have nothing to do.

00:50:42.800 --> 00:50:47.280
<v SPEAKER_00>They'd be just sitting around twiddling their thumbs and trying to figure out what to do with most of their day.

00:50:47.440 --> 00:50:50.719
<v SPEAKER_00>Because it's most of the time it's believers bringing lawsuits.

00:50:51.679 --> 00:50:55.119
<v SPEAKER_00>88% of Americans say they're Christians.

00:50:55.760 --> 00:51:01.840
<v SPEAKER_00>Now we know that's not true, but the reality is, if we followed this, what a powerful impact it would have.

00:51:02.079 --> 00:51:10.000
<v SPEAKER_00>To be in such opposition would potentially disqualify me from future blessings of God because of my open disobedience to his word.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I therefore, in the true spirit of Christ, who became a bond slave with the attitude of a servant, Philippians 2, 5 through 8, hereby covenant with the members of the road to expose the accuser of the brethren, that's Satan, Revelation 12.10, whenever he attempts to gain a foothold among us.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now there was a number of years ago when I was a pastor at Mountain Springs Church, where um we were building the third building there.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I mean, it's a multi-million dollar deal.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And um the builder we were using increasingly was just not able to keep up, and it was obvious that we we kind of had positioned this particular company in a place where they just they couldn't get the job done, so we basically released them from their contract, and a lawsuit ensued, and um, and we had to go to mediation and do some stuff with mediation, and hundreds of thousands of dollars were involved in it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And about three, I'm gonna say like three months later, I was in a quiet time with the Lord, and God specifically spoke to me that I needed to go and say I was sorry to this company.

00:52:40.960 --> 00:52:45.440
<v SPEAKER_00>And you know, from my viewpoint, they screwed up and we were right.

00:52:46.719 --> 00:52:56.000
<v SPEAKER_00>But in reality, as I went back and did kind of an autopsy of the whole situation, I could see our faults, I could see where we made mistakes, I could see where we didn't communicate right.

00:52:56.719 --> 00:53:02.719
<v SPEAKER_00>I think both hearts, I definitely believe both hearts were right, but we we just missed it and stuff.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so I called the president, and there was a there was a um uh an obvious silence on the other end of the phone as I identified myself.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I said, I want to come over and I want to meet with you, it won't take long.

00:53:22.159 --> 00:53:23.760
<v SPEAKER_00>And uh, do you have the time to do that?

00:53:23.920 --> 00:53:24.639
<v SPEAKER_00>And he said, Yes.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So I came over and he had all his team there, and I brought, I think I have one guy with me.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I just looked him straight in the eye and I said, I'm so sorry for the way that thing went down at the church.

00:53:39.280 --> 00:53:45.519
<v SPEAKER_00>And um, and we made a lot of mistakes, and uh I just don't think we handled that well.

00:53:45.599 --> 00:53:47.119
<v SPEAKER_00>I don't think it ever should have gone to court.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I think we could have done this thing between parties, individuals.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So I'm so sorry.

00:53:52.719 --> 00:53:54.239
<v SPEAKER_00>Dude started crying, man.

00:53:54.400 --> 00:54:02.079
<v SPEAKER_00>I mean, this big, burly, successful um leader in the community just started crying, and I started crying.

00:54:02.159 --> 00:54:23.599
<v SPEAKER_00>We were both crying, and and uh it was pretty cool because I think it was about two years later, there was another guy, another friend of mine, who was building a church somewhere, and he was using that company, and and that guy said in the conversation, what a cool guy I was, and what a great church Mountain Springs was, and stuff like that.

00:54:23.760 --> 00:54:27.280
<v SPEAKER_00>And you know, it just it brought bridges, and we've worked together since then.

00:54:27.440 --> 00:54:31.280
<v SPEAKER_00>And a lot of people in the church have used them, and I've always said good things about them.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We're gonna make mistakes, we're gonna blow it, and there's always value, I believe, in apologizing and saying you're sorry and owning your part in mistakes that are made.

00:54:41.519 --> 00:54:49.840
<v SPEAKER_00>So here's some seven practical ways of resolving conflicts, and this is, I mean, you could do two hours on each point, but I'll just go through them real quick.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Number one, we will meet face to face to resolve conflicts.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That right there is a pretty big deal because we tend to like we just write a letter or we text, we say we're sorry, and I'm just saying in most things it'd be really good to go eye to eye.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's very, it's much more meaningful because you can see the other person and you can feel their heart better.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Number two, we will not use email or texting for resolving conflicts.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now, I'm not talking about like, you know, you just a little thing, but I'm talking about this is kind of a major thing that you try to work it out face to face.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Number three, we will not write a letter unless the person reads it during the face-to-face meeting.

00:55:27.519 --> 00:55:35.440
<v SPEAKER_00>Um, letters, I mean, that's a good start for things, but the reality is, is man, there's just so many ways you can misinterpret a letter.

00:55:35.599 --> 00:55:40.079
<v SPEAKER_00>Well, if you've got to write a letter, because maybe you're not as good verbally, um, craft the letter.

00:55:40.320 --> 00:55:45.119
<v SPEAKER_00>Have someone help you craft the letter, and then you could read it with the person there.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Number four, we will use I messages, not you messages in communication.

00:55:50.079 --> 00:55:55.280
<v SPEAKER_00>Now, my mom and dad were certified trainers of PET, parent effectiveness training.

00:55:55.360 --> 00:55:58.320
<v SPEAKER_00>So I grew up around this I and you stuff all my life.

00:55:58.880 --> 00:56:05.920
<v SPEAKER_00>And my mom was really good at it when she was teaching it, but she was lousy when she actually did it at home.

00:56:06.239 --> 00:56:07.280
<v SPEAKER_00>You, you, you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay, so it's easy it's so it's kind of easy to say, but then what happens is you get in the you said this, and you said instead of I felt or I was hurt when you, you know, and that's what that means.

00:56:17.280 --> 00:56:25.599
<v SPEAKER_00>And again, that's that's a whole bunch of uh communication that we could talk about in relation to that, but leave it at that for now.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Number five, we'll be willing to admit our error and contribution to a problem before speaking the truth about a conflict.

00:56:31.920 --> 00:56:36.159
<v SPEAKER_00>So own it first and then uh get into whatever the issue might be.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Number six, we'll choose to let the unity of love be our highest goal, not being right.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Love over rightness.

00:56:46.400 --> 00:56:48.079
<v SPEAKER_00>That's really hard, isn't it?

00:56:48.239 --> 00:56:55.920
<v SPEAKER_00>That's a tough one because sometimes you are totally right, but you begin to realize that maybe unity and love is more important.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And then seventh, we will not we will forgive the other person, even if all the issues are not completely worked out.

00:57:02.239 --> 00:57:06.159
<v SPEAKER_00>So sometimes it's impossible to work everything out, but you'll choose forgiveness.

00:57:06.320 --> 00:57:09.760
<v SPEAKER_00>Uh but the reality is you don't have to be best friends, and you don't even have to trust the person.

00:57:09.840 --> 00:57:12.000
<v SPEAKER_00>Sometimes you don't trust, but you forgive.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Does that make sense?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Because not always is your forgiveness received.

00:57:16.559 --> 00:57:22.800
<v SPEAKER_00>And not always is your forgiveness going to turn out to be changing their behavior.

00:57:22.960 --> 00:57:32.079
<v SPEAKER_00>But you can be forgiven just as just as George had that that ball and chain, you can be set free even if the other person isn't.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And that's your goal is to walk in freedom in Christ.
