The Cuckold Marriage
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The Cuckold Marriage
Her Key. Her Rules. Her Cuck.
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What does power really look like in a cuckold relationship when she’s the one holding the key? In this episode of The Cuckold Marriage Podcast, we bring together five cuckoldresses for a candid panel discussion about power, control, chastity, and what they personally enjoy about taking the lead. Each woman shares how her dynamic began, how long she’s been exploring it, and how her approach to control has evolved as she and her partner have gone deeper into the lifestyle.
We also get into the practices behind the dynamic: how chastity fits into their relationships, the rules and rituals they’ve developed, how their partners respond to giving up control, and what they find most satisfying about being the one who decides when—and whether—the key gets used. Five women, five different relationships, and five perspectives on what happens when her key, her rules, and her cuck become more than a fantasy.
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SPEAKER_10Welcome back to the Cuckhold Marriage Podcast. I'm cuckholder Lexi Meadows, and today we're doing something a little different. I'm joined by four other cuckholesses for a conversation all about something the five of us know very well. Power, control, and having the key to our cucks chastity. We're gonna talk about how each of us got started, what chastity actually looks like inside our relationships, the rules and rituals that we've developed, and how our dynamics have changed over time. But I also want to get into why we enjoy it. What is it about that control that feels so darn good? And what happens to our cucks when we take that control away from them? And just how much power are they willing to hand over? You're gonna hear from five different women, including myself, with five different relationships and five different approaches to being cuckoldresses. And I have a feeling we're gonna learn a few things about each other along the way. So, cucks, you might want to pay particularly close attention to this one. And cuckholdresses, grab your keys. This is her key, her rules, her cuck. But before we get into today's discussion, I have a couple of quick announcements. First, if you love what we're doing here and want even more of the Cuckhold Marriage Podcast, come join us on Patreon. That's where you'll find our Patreon-only episodes, additional content, live Q ⁇ A's, and a community of people who actually understand this lifestyle and want to talk about it openly with us. And also make sure that you're following us on X. That's one of the best ways to keep up with Chris and me between episodes, see what we're up to and hear about our upcoming guests and our episodes, and join the conversation with other listeners. And remember, everything Lexi Meadows is now in one place. Head over to cuckolderslexie.com where you can join our Patreon, follow me on Fansly, or sign up for a private chat with me. All right, announcements are done. Let's get into it, Chris.
SPEAKER_04All right. I am really um I I'm almost uh I'm almost scared right now on what is gonna come out of this panel and the ideas. So every other cuck out there should be bracing. Yeah, yeah. I'm kind of terrified. I I am outnumbered here by a team of very powerful women women. We got Lexi over here, we've got cuck holdress Anne, we've got Indy Vixen, we've got Miss Baja, and we've got Mrs. Cuttail. Welcome to all of you. Thank you all so much for being with us tonight. So this is gonna be a challenge in facilitation, um, but I will do my best to kind of um hit everybody with with some of these questions, and we'll see how much we can get through in an hour. So here we go. This is our this is our episode on um on chastity leading into um leading into Locktober. And I want to say thank you, first of all, to KD and Kink3D for for sponsoring this episode. Um, as you know, they're the leader in chastity devices across the world and really had just do an amazing job. Um, I know I use their products and have gone through all their fitting and all that stuff over email, and they're just fantastic people and make a fantastic product. So I really encourage everybody as we approach Locktober to support Kink3D. Um, and by the way, uh I know you're gonna hear this in the pre-roll um uh and in the uh in the sponsorship uh ad that that we put out there. But if you go to Kink3D and you put in code Luxie, you get a free uh nether nudger, nudger. Nether nudger. Nether nudger. I'm having a hard time saying that. But men, you probably know what this is, is that you get all out of place when you're when you're wearing the case for a long time and it helps you kind of shove it back in there without without having to take out the so that this is this is definitely a cuck problem, right? This is a cuck problem that we don't have to deal with this. You know, women do not have to deal with this, but I will say you do have to deal with more shit than we do. So I guess this is our this is you guys giving us some payback. Okay, let's so let's start at the beginning. So let's start at the beginning. How so I'd love to know just from each of you, how long have you been incorporating power and control into your relationship? And how did this dynamic first develop between you and your cuck? So, you know, you you're all in cuckold relationships, and I'm curious when the chastity part started. So I'm just gonna go this time in the order that's on my my computer. Um, so Ann, um, how did it get started for you all with the chastity?
SPEAKER_01Well, I mean, I think as far as power, as far as the power question, I think that's always happened, um, even before the internet, because I'm just the social butterfly. I've always had a leg up on it literally and figuratively seeking and developing the connection of my sex partners. Um, but as far as the chastity, well, you know, when we we've been exploring our sexuality since the day we met. And um, so from swinging to discovering cuckolding, um, when we discovered the term cuckolding, probably 15 years ago, we soon after we were following a site called cuckold marriage. It was like the only credible site at the time, it seemed, and they talked about chastity, and so that's when James ordered his first cage. And so um, it was quite a while ago, but it's can chastity does not define our relationship at all. It's a piece of it, but it's not um it doesn't define it, who we are. It's a nice symbol and we do use it occasionally, but um, it's not the most powerful thing in our relationship.
SPEAKER_04So Indy Vixen well what are your thoughts, Indy Vixen?
SPEAKER_03Well, uh a lot like Ann. Um we we've been doing this for a while now, um, because we've been on lifestyle for 20, 21 years. Um, we've been incorporating more power dynamics in our relationship probably four or five years. Um that we actually acknowledged what it was and discussed it. Now I have a everything is about me personality. So um I think a lot of times um that power dynamic just comes out naturally, being the youngest child. I kind of do that. But um it uh it developed naturally over time. Um our lifestyle didn't dynamic evolved, like like Ann said, from swinging to open marriage to what we're doing now. And and I just kind of the roles kind of switched a little bit for us.
SPEAKER_04Thank you. And Mrs. Baja. Miss Baja.
SPEAKER_05Miss Baja, yep. Um, I would say we've been in the lifestyle about 15 years, and it probably took five years in for that to kind of develop. Um, and my cuck um introducing that to me. So it wasn't something that I was looking at. He was the one who discovered it. And so doing that, uh, him introducing it, and it probably took another three, four years before I totally embraced it and knew the power that I had um was given before I just, you know, started to really flourish with it. So it it took a bit.
SPEAKER_04That's interesting how long it took. Um that that's really interesting. I can't wait to hear more about it. Mrs. Cocktail, what about you?
SPEAKER_02Well, for the lifestyle speaking, I'm the baby of the group. Um along um we we've only been in the life three years or yeah, three years. Um my um husband brought it to my attention um right before we got married, six years ago, um, just saying, like, you know, he would like to see me um play with others or have sex and things like that. And I had no idea what he was even talking about. Um, but so obviously not the chastity part then, but he did bring in chastity and a cage um prior to us actually playing before we even stepped into the lifestyle. And I really, at that point, I was like, they make what? And for what? Like, why would they even that that cannot even exist, you know, type thing. So he bought one to show me that it actually is real. And um, I didn't really know what to do with it, kind of like Miss Baja said, like took a little while to develop. And at the same time, I wasn't really playing, so I didn't really have um, couldn't really tap into that. So for us, for the um Cassidy piece, it took me playing probably about a year for me to like, oh, okay, I can figure this out. I now have some fuel to use, you know, because I just didn't know what to do with it. It's like fine, lock yourself up if you want to. I didn't know what to do with it. And it didn't work very well in the drawer. But um, after about a year of experience, this is like, oh, okay, I've got some fuel. I kind of figure this out. I know what he kind of wants and his desires. And so it's kind of like, okay, let's take that thing out of the drawer again. Let's try this again. So that's kind of where the momentum of the chastity started for us. So a couple of years ago.
SPEAKER_10That's really interesting. You know, I I rarely hear about it being in that order. You know, normally I hear about it being there, the playing has already been happening for a while, and then the chastity is brought into it. So that's really interesting to hear about it being kind of the opposite. And the chastity was brought in first, and then the actual playing with others came along after. Yes, yeah.
SPEAKER_02So um, and we didn't swing or anything before, too, because that when he approached me about the lifestyle, it was really about him, him knowing and identifying as his cuckold tendencies. So that's how he brought it, that's how we came in. So typically, you know, people will go into swinging and then they kind of evolve, but kind of backwards, or we would just fast forward.
SPEAKER_10So I I heard, you know, Ms. Baja and Mrs. Cocktail say that it was him who brought the chastity into uh, you know, the the realm of possibilities. Was it was it the same for you, Anne and Indy Vixen?
SPEAKER_03Yes. I was like, what are we doing with that? And what do I get out of it? And I had to learn what I was going to do in the lifestyle, and it took me a while. Actually, and he was the most patient man in the whole world because it took me a while to figure out, okay, how am I gonna navigate the lifestyle? Because we've been doing it. And I've been doing this all on my own. Okay, how do I pull him into it more? And how do we do this together and we incorporate chastity? And I'm gonna have to be in charge. I don't even know what I'm in charge of in my own life with this stuff right first. So it took me, oh, a good year of playing and frustration for us all to go, okay. He's like, Are you gonna include me in this at all? And then we had to step back and we talked about it, and then I had to figure out my place in the lifestyle and what I wanted out of it, and then I could be in charge and more um leading of both of us and handling all that. So, but I was not not for it right at first until I figured out how we were gonna do it.
SPEAKER_01Yeah. Well, I think I think for us, oh yeah, I think for us, um, our whole life has been just this discovery together. So it was never I'm gonna bring this to you, you know. And but when it came to the chastity, you know, he we read about it and he ordered a cage and I'm like, okay, let's just roll with it. I never, I didn't overthink it. Um, we didn't use it a lot, but I remember his first cage was too big and he was out like side doing some yard work and it fell off, you know, through his sweatpants or whatever, which happens. But um as far as the it but we did start incorporating it when I had a date. But I think now, you know, when I'm looking back, now I enjoy it even more. I mean, as women, like and me in particular, I evolve and I feel like my confidence is just is soaring, it's growing, and uh it's not stagnant. Like you learn how to embrace whatever it is. And a lot of it for me, when I enjoy chastity is when I have an amazing sex partner, and when my have that afterglow and I have that the buildup for it, and then it happens and it's great, and that afterglow, that's when I really break, you know, chastity is really important to me, and I think he loves it too, and he loves it too.
SPEAKER_10I think we lost Dan. We lost Dan, but for poor internet connection.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, poor internet connection, but we'll get we'll get it back.
SPEAKER_10I do find it extremely ironic and like hilariously so that because if I remember correctly, we were maybe a year in. Um, and I believe you were the one that also brought this up. So I how how delicious that these guys are all the ones that are like, hey, torture me. Like, please put me in a damn cage. And we're like, I mean, I guess, honey, if you want to.
SPEAKER_05Sure.
SPEAKER_10That's so funny. And then over time, we we see the value in it, and suddenly we start really enjoying that power, and we get that bit, you know, bit of a power trip, and um, we start enjoying it too, and then it becomes something that we both enjoy together. Um, I I find that so funny that you guys like it's you have put forth your own self-inflicted prisons upon yourself.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, I I mean, it I think I think clearly anybody outside the dynamic would wonder what the hell we're we're thinking. But um, so Anne is back, um, which is good. Uh, and so the next question is what does having power over your um so the next question is what is having power over your cuck mean to you personally? Um, what part of uh the authority is the most satisfying to you? So this is one. Um maybe I'll start with you, honey, on this one. So what is what is having power over your cuck mean to you personally? And what what part of the authority is most satisfying for you?
SPEAKER_10I mean, there's nothing more beautiful than having like what can I say, domination over your orgasms and when you're allowed to get fully erupt. I mean, how beautiful is that? Um there's there's the power is is intoxicating, it's invigorating um the the authority and the ability to decide when you've get when you've been a good boy and when you deserve to get out of it. And when I see um a benefit, whether it's for you or for me, to let you out of it. Um, you know, sometimes I let you out solely for selfish reasons because I want to have sex. I want to do it, you know, and so I but I have the power to decide when we get to have that sex and when you get to enjoy yourself. And if we're not having sex, then I get to decide when you get to come and how you get to come. Um it's a beautiful thing.
SPEAKER_04Wow, that was hot. Indy Vixen, um, what what are what are your thoughts around, you know, what is having power over your cuck mean to you personally?
SPEAKER_03Well, uh to me, it's what I I mean, we started out swinging, so I mean, he's had sex with more people than I could ever imagine, probably. I don't know. But, you know, um he does this just for me. It makes me feel special. It it satisfies me because I know he adores me and that he trusts me with that power. And that that gives me a sense of, I don't know, it makes me feel good just to know that he he gives me the power over something that the majority of men naturally cannot give up or won't aren't won't aren't willing to give up. That's what they that's what most men crave, and he's giving that to me. So it's it's kind of a you know, you feel kind of adored. Yeah, absolutely.
SPEAKER_04100%. Miss Baja, what about you?
SPEAKER_05Um, I would say it's um liberating um to be able to have the power to do this and marry to someone who's more of a type A, and I am totally not that way. Um, but it gives me um the ability to have that control over him in a good way. Um, it just is very um fulfilling, you know, just to be able to tell him when he uh can have it off and when he can be out of it to um when he can have an orgasm or when he can't. So I just find it very empowering to be able to have that control over somebody else and them allow me to do that.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, I I I completely agree with you. It it is very empowering. Mrs. Cocktail, what about you?
SPEAKER_02Um, I agree a lot with Indy. Um, you know, my my husband cherishes me and he loves me and to give that, like you you think like the person that gives up the power really does have the power, right? So he he's giving it freely. So he really is in the power, but in the moment, it's you know, obviously I have that. Um, so um for that, and then just obviously, yes, I love um teasing him and and and giving them those sexual pleasures. He gets a lot more sexual pleasures from being caged and um wearing the chastity and me edging him and um denying him than he does with you know the usual PIV um sex. So just uh that that chemistry and the um tension there really is built, you know, is built around that. So um the other thing too, though, I do love the way it symbolizes, you know, that I am and I do have the power. Like if there's a couple of times like I didn't know he had it off to shower or something, and I see him and it's like, hey, something's missing, you know. That's not the normal look, you know, but um and and things like that. But it's also he's a very good-looking man, if I do say so myself. And so partly it's kind of nice too. We go to places and you know, like even swing events or or different places, right? And females look at him, they should, right? And I'm glad they do, but then there's that cage there, and it's like, nope, there's a barrier, he's mine, you know. And so I I kind of I like that too, you know, just kind of taking the ownership a little bit of him that way.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, yeah. And and we we know that. I mean, if if we're at an event or something like that, and the the the chastity cage is on, I mean, we like it is so in our head like who we belong to, and I love that. Um, okay. So walk us through how chastity actually works in your relationship today. Is it occasionally, is it occasional, something to use for specific situations? Is it ongoing? Is it 24-7? Like, what does it actually look like day-to-day for you all? So, Mrs. Cucktail, we'll start with you on this one.
SPEAKER_02Well, um, in the last year, he has been, he's caged continuously, 24-7. Um, and that has only been about the last year. Of course, we started small, like one day or one date, couple days, you know, a week, um, October, um, those kind of things. But it just was like, it was kind of like a challenge. Let's see, can I go three weeks? Can I go 30 days, you know, and like making a date. Like this is the date you'll come out, right? I'll give you a full release or something like that. So it started slow, but we both really enjoy the full-time chastity. Um and it has, we've worked our, we've incorporated like our sex life, our intimacy is all encompass that plus all the other things, right? So um, it just is part of it. So he's very comfortable and he misses it actually, if he's uncaged for a weekend for some reason or for a day for you know, something's going on. But and I always tell him that's okay, because you're mentally caged, you know. It's true. And he's like, Oh, he puts it back on it. He feels like it's like um just a constant reminder, you know. So he likes it.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, 100%. Um, An, uh, if you if you can hear us, um, the the the question is, um, what does it look like for you, chastity, look like for you two on a daily basis? So is your cuck always caged? Is it occasional? What does that look like?
SPEAKER_01Um, can you hear me? I really apologize for my um internet today, this evening. Um he's not caged 24-7 um when he is.
SPEAKER_04I'm sorry, and we're we're it's it's not coming through. Okay, I am really sorry. You know, I can just I'm sorry, Ann. Um okay, how about um how about Indy Vixen? What does it look like for you all in your relationship?
SPEAKER_03It's not all the time with us. It's at my discretion. We actually uh we have a shared notes and I put rules out there, and so he knows when I'm going here or here, the cage goes on. If I'm you know, because we work different schedules sometimes. So I'll write out a schedule where it needs to go on, send me a send me a picture or whatever. If it got if if I'm not there, if I am, it's fine. I put my necklace on and we go. It is situational. It depends on who I'm playing with, um, at a minimum, once a week, just for consistency. But if um when we started this out, I was I have a I have a main main guy that I play with all the time. And I was he was one week here on a on a night, and I was one what the other week I was there on a night for oh gosh, a year, a year and a half. So if I'm gone. The the cage goes on, you know. And I the guys kind of cringe when I say this. Um I went to I went to Orlando for a week. I happened to be on a on a an event weekend in Orlando last summer. I went and picked my date up for the next two days at at the end of that event, you know. And I ordered a time lock safe. And I'm like, okay, the keys go in here on these days and push the button, show me how it times it. And I know how you can get out of it. And I know there's a key hidden in the house, but I'm, you know, we're uh 1200 miles away, but it it's just at my discretion and how we want to do it. He'll know when it goes on, but he doesn't know when it comes off.
SPEAKER_04I love that at times time lock safe. That's intense.
SPEAKER_03What about you, Miss Ba? You should have seen his face when it came in in the mail from Amazon. What about you, Miss Ba?
SPEAKER_05Indy, can you send me that link?
SPEAKER_03I will. It's a phone safe, but it works perfectly for keys.
SPEAKER_05Oh no, um, we've been pretty much 24-7 for as long as I can remember. Early on, it wasn't that way while we're getting used to it. And what is it all about? Uh, but it certainly has evolved to a full-time chastity. Um, he can be out when um, you know, he gets a little sore or ball slippage or um cleaning, definitely. You know, he'll take it off, he'll shower, clean the cage, but it goes back on, and shaving, of course. Um, and then um even um when I'm we're not totally active in the lifestyle, I had some health-related stuff for a few months and he was still in it. That wasn't a time for him to just put it to the side and and not use it. We still were in the lifestyle, um, regardless of playing or not, um, 24-7. So um, you know, it's that's all the time. That's just our our life right now. And for as long as, you know, we we can do it, we're gonna do it.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, yeah. Honey, do you want to talk about uh us?
SPEAKER_10Yeah, I mean, obviously when you shower, you get to take it off and clean it really well. Um you uh when you are like working from home, you're in it. When you're not working from home, I I don't think that you're you're wearing it, but um I otherwise, aside from like special certain events, um, you know, you're I expect you to be in it.
SPEAKER_09Yeah.
SPEAKER_10And I I do random and frequent crotch checks. So I will just like walk by him or just walk up to him and just like tap his crotch and just be like, there I better feel some some something there besides just your dick.
SPEAKER_04She does. She does. All right. So the next one I'm excited about this question. So are there specific like rules, rituals, or expectations you've created around chastity and control, which have become especially important and meaningful to you? Like, are there certain are there certain rituals when you take it off, when you put it on, like what you're doing? I know Indy was talking about when you're away. Um, that's my favorite time to be in chastity, is when she's like that that was done kind of out of necessity for us because we had a bad night when she was away when when post-nut clarity took place.
SPEAKER_10That was before we did chastity.
SPEAKER_04This was before we did chastity. So she learned her lesson from that.
SPEAKER_10That I Yeah, in that you uh you came while I was gone, and then you were like blowing up my phone because you were having anxiety about it. And I was like, dude, calm down. We're gonna take some deep breaths and I'm gonna continue with the night as planned, and you're gonna be okay, and I'm gonna be back in the morning and you're gonna pick me up, and everything's gonna be fine. And I thought for sure that night that it was over, like we were never gonna be able to do an overnight again. He would never be able to handle it. There there was just no way in hell. I was like, Well, I I I enjoyed this one night out, like the full night, not just a night out, but the full night. Um, it will never happen again. And to my surprise, when he picked me up, he was like bubbling with joy. He was so happy. He was just like, that was the best. Can we do it again? When can we do it again? You know, so but it did teach us a valuable lesson in that um, you know, from that point until you did start chastity, there was no jacking off while I'm gone. Like it's not happening.
SPEAKER_04Yeah. She's very strict about that one. So would you say that's our our rules and ritual? Is there anything else?
SPEAKER_10Um, no, I mean you you're in it from you're I mean, you're in it most of the time. So there's there's really no uh room for error. There's no taking it off while I'm gone. I I do hide a key in the house so that if there was some sort of an emergency, something happened, he was in pain, not from just really like being hard and ready to burst out of his cage, but like something went wrong that he would be able to get out um if absolutely necessary. But again, it's a hidden key, so it's not like he can just do whatever he wants all the time.
SPEAKER_04Yeah. And what about you guys? Do you guys have any rules, rituals, games you play with um with with the chastity?
SPEAKER_01Well, I think it it's you know, I paint to use rules rules because it's a little bit different every time. But you know, I mean, one of the things that, you know, when you're talking early on when I had my first away, I remember James was not in chastity. And he confessed that he, you know, jerks himself off and he was pegged, he was punished for that. Um, I did communicate with him, but it was it was a new experience, and that's a whole nother, you know, it's a whole nother thing. But now, um, you know, we just what I love is when I come home, he's rarely with me. Um, when I come home, you know, he's waiting for me. Sometimes he'll have dinner ready, or you know, if I have an intense sex night, he'll give me an ice pack, but I'll tell him everything that happens. And I love just seeing his cage swell, swell to the brim. And it's just so gratifying. And he loves that. But I'm not necessarily gonna release him, I'm just gonna let him feel that sensation. Um, and that, you know, and that continues on, you know, it's not like he's like I said, we don't cage 24-7, but he's always caged for whenever I have a date. And like I said, when I have amazing encounters, he that cage stays on longer because he's caged as that afterglow, you know, because it takes a while. The drop, you know, takes a while for you to come down. Um, so absolutely.
SPEAKER_04Wow, that's a good answer. That was hot. Um, Indy, what about you?
SPEAKER_03We have rules. Like I said, we have a shared rules. I I say, you know, this is when you're gonna cage, this is where what I want you to do. Um we we do have a ritual that if I'm gonna go on a play date, we go out maybe for a cocktail or an appetizer an hour before or whatever, before I leave. I mean, I may be traveling out of town, but we go out together and do something as a couple or a small date together. And then when I get back, we reconnect by doing the same thing. I mean, um, our reconnection is not always sexual. It's sometimes it's intimate, sometimes it's just going and um just spending some time together at a winery or something. But as far as expectations, one of the things I think we we struggled with at first is I am the world's worst picture taker or video person. I get in the moment and I'm playing and I'm doing things. We're uh, you know, I was going down um, you know, every other week for dates and an hour and a half away for a night or two. And I'm like, oh shoot, we forgot to get pictures for him. So, you know, we learned to both of us, one of us take pictures. I actually he's better than I am at taking pictures, but I had to set the expectation that, you know what, pictures and videos are a treat. They're not a norm because I would I knew I would fail. I knew that was where my point was where I wouldn't be able to handle it. So I had to set those expectations of what I could handle for myself because if I'm if I'm in and in and playing, I'm not thinking about picking up my phone to be honest, if it's a really good session. So there's that. Um and you know, we just we just kind of our rules change depending on who I'm with. It's simpler.
SPEAKER_10Yeah. Agree. There have been many times where if I'm really having fun, I I I get lost in the moment, you know, and and I I will not really be thinking um about everything that's going on that's not right there in front of me.
SPEAKER_03And so it's not my strength, and I know it isn't. Yeah, yeah, absolutely.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, I feel like anything.
SPEAKER_04Go ahead.
SPEAKER_01Well, I did what I do is well, first we started, I would just run because I'm terrible at pictures. And also, like James doesn't need to see a blow-up of a dick going in, my pussy. You know, we started out swinging. I've been with him, he doesn't need to see that. He loves seeing the intimacy. And so what I started doing was just recording an audio, you know, with my phone. So I just turn the audio on and I forget about it. But then we'd be listening together. And he's like, okay, what's happening? What's happening here? And then of course I can't remember because so then I started just I just put the video on the the iPad up in the corner of the room and let it run, and then we'll watch it together and then I can explain it to him. And sometimes I'll have the audio, so we'll listen to the audio and then we'll listen to the video. But that's our way, that's my way of sharing, and it really turns him on. And then he'll edit the videos in a way that satisfies him as a couple, like the things that he likes to see. And so that's something that we I guess uh if you call it a ritual, it's something that we do. But it really he's caged, obviously, but it has really nothing to do with chastity, it's more just what we do, you know?
SPEAKER_04Yeah, I like that a lot.
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SPEAKER_03But a video of a window.
SPEAKER_01Well, I've I've done that and I forget to flip it, so I forget to reverse it. So he just gets an audio, he just sees a black wall, you know, because it's yeah, I don't reverse it.
SPEAKER_00Or you forget to turn it on, or you forget to turn it on.
SPEAKER_04Miss Baha, what what what is uh do you have any rituals or anything like that?
SPEAKER_05Yeah, we do. Um, like when he he's here around the house, um, he's not allowed to wear pants. So um he can wear a top. Um that way I can see it. It reminds me um that he has his cage on. Um when he gets home from work, there are times where I will um give him a clue in the garage um that he has to strip down in the garage, comes to go into child pose and wait for me to to come and find him. And then he rubs my feet and um then we go about our our day and he puts stuff away and we we do our thing. Um when I'm out and um coming home, he greets me in child pose and removes my shoes and um things like that. He also um when he's putting the cage back on, I I relock him. So those are just some of the little things that we've established that um we've incorporated into our dynamic that work out really well.
SPEAKER_10I love that. No, no need for the frequent crotch checks when he's not wearing pants.
SPEAKER_05Exactly. That's an idea. Oh no, yeah. I mean, and sometimes he's wearing uh he could have panties on, you just never know.
SPEAKER_04But uh this is what I was worried about coming on to this episode is that Lexi was gonna get a lot of good ideas from you ladies.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, new ideas.
SPEAKER_04What about what about you, Mrs. Cocktail?
SPEAKER_02Um, I would say our probably our number one ritual, the one that's um, you know, t is is more frequent, is the edging and the denying of um teasing and the denying of a full release. So um several times a week, multiple times a week, like I will take him out um and give him a hand job and you know, we'll talk or whatever, you know, it's just as we don't really have to say much because he's ready to go pretty quick. Um but um that and then um I've asked him to like, he has to tell me, like, please don't, please don't let me come. Um, and so I have to stop in time and things like that. And um, it really kind of is a fun thing to like like a ruined orgasm or like a we call it a dribble. Um, it's not a full release, you know, and a little comes out and it's like, okay, you're all done now, put it back in. Um, and things like that.
SPEAKER_09That's brutal.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, and we do that most often. I mean, that's a good three, three times a week or so. Um, and then I love the pants idea because I um we just became, you know, empty nesters. And so I was like, hey, we he actually had to hang up the hook in the garage. He hung it up yesterday. Um, and I told him when he comes home from work, he has to put his pants on the hook before he walks inside. And today was the first day he did that. It was so funny. He's like, I was so excited. I thought about it all the way home, you know. And it's something new we're kind of incorporating. And we'll we're gonna try to do some other things too now that we can do things obviously in the full household, you know.
SPEAKER_04Wow. So fun. You ladies are so fun. This is just like a whole group of women who are GGG. I love it. Um, so next question. What changes do you notice in your cuck when he's been in chastity for a while? Does it affect his attentiveness, submission, attitude, or the way he responds to you? Honey, do you want to go first on this one?
SPEAKER_10Yeah, so um I definitely I I love when you've been in it for a little bit. Uh, but especially, you know, it's not it's kind of in conjunction with if I'm going out. So when you've been locked up for a while and I have a date in a few days, um suddenly you're just so sweet. You're just at my beck and call. And um, you know, especially like the day of, it's just, you know, like this excited nervous energy. And afterwards, whether or not I let you out afterwards to have a release or not, there's this um sort of um submission, attentiveness, and um this just general sense of like gratefulness and you're just like in awe of me. I mean, it's it's you know, I don't I try not to let it go to my head, but it's also pretty freaking awesome.
SPEAKER_04Oh I'm glad you feel that way. That that's my intent. Indy, what about you?
SPEAKER_03Well, I'm just about the same. I mean, he dotes on me. If he's if he's in chastity or, you know, if he hasn't had a release in a while, he dotes on me. I mean, I get it whatever I want, you know. I everything in life changes, including like doing things for me. Um, I'll come home from work. Hey, I got this done, I got this done, or that honeydew list is worked on solely all the time because that's where his frustration goes, is into doing things for me rather than what he needs for himself and pleasuring himself. So his whole attitude in general changes. I love it.
SPEAKER_04How about um Hammet Ms. Baja?
SPEAKER_05Um, he is extremely attentive when I don't lock and forget him. And I think that's where, you know, some people struggle with is that, you know, when when you're doing it on a day-to-day basis and you don't have any play going on and you're just living your life, working or or whatever you got going on, sometimes that does happen. So I can tell when I we've gone down that road. He gets a little more grumpier, he gets a little, you know, he'll suck and, you know, read his book, you know, he'll just I could just tell. And it takes a hot minute for me to uh realize what I have done. Um, so that's where the communication is so key. And uh when you're in this type of chastity situation that you just can't assume it's all just great and every day it's gonna be roses. Um if you just don't forget about it, then you can work on it and really enjoy it. Yeah.
SPEAKER_01Cause he's he's he's cage 20 all the time, right? Correct. Yeah. Yeah.
SPEAKER_05Yes.
SPEAKER_04Mrs. Mrs. Cucktail, well, what about what about you? What changes in your cup?
SPEAKER_02Well, you know, the typical what they, you know, all say is like, you know, they're more horny or right, they're more sexually enthusiastic, should I say. But um uh Mr. Cucktail gets more sexually adventurous as well. So he might tap into some other little kinks and things, and and that's kind of fun, and that we can explore those. Um, the other thing it really does for us too, which is one reason, you know, the main reason to or we've really made it our own. It really doesn't have to do with playing with others. Yes, I do play with others, but um, it's really become it's part of our sex life. So for us, it's more like our sex drive is more equally complementary. I would say without it, um, you know, he's has a less, less sexual drive, sex drive. And so it kind of compliments each other when he has been caged for a duration. And so that's why we choose the full-time, or that's what we've noticed, right? With exploring it, and that's what we like. Um, he said to me, like, I love the chastity state of mind more than the post-net state of mind. I guess you know, and he likes to stay in that frame of mind. So by me putting that power, it's it's still like he he is still kind of in charge, right? He that's what he wants, and that's what I'm gonna give him, right? And it also gives me things, but like he would rather stay in that chastity state of mind.
SPEAKER_04I love it. It's you know what I I love in Ann, I'm about to call on you next, but I just love how all the ladies on here, I I you can hear that they are helping their husbands um live out their husband's fantasy. Um there's a lot of benefits on both ends, but I just um I I just I just want to say, like, I can see the care. You know, we're not gonna release the video of this one, but I see it on all your faces, how much you love your husbands. And what about you? Um, what do you what do you uh what changes do you notice in your cuck when he's been caged for a while?
SPEAKER_01I mean, I I think a sense of calm washes over him. He's very calm and relaxed. He's a you know, he's very uh intense. I wouldn't call him type A, but he's meticulous and he just he calm it calms him down. Um his shift focuses towards me, you know, he's got a lot going on and he his shift focuses toward me. Now we're kind of in a routine where he always when I'm when I don't get up early to go swim or whatever, he always brings my coffee. You know, he's always doing the dishes, you know, he allows me to cook because that's my deal. But I feel like he feels more connected to me and stronger as my champion. He's my champion, right? Like he champions what I do. And I'm the driver and he's in the backseat happily. And I just feel like it centers everything. Um there's just a sense of calm about it. I know that's not kinky and crazy, but it it's kind of a mental calmness. But I understand what Mrs. Baja was saying about, you know, you're caged, and so you or even if he's not caged and you don't have a date, you're in a dry spell, if you will. And you can kind of forget like the importance of your relationship. You know, the cuckolding dynamic doesn't change whether you have a date or not. Like that piece is really powerful for the two of us. And I think it's just making sure that he's always feeling like he's, you know, part of it, you know, and not that he's always not he's he's I'm his number one, but he's my number one too. And I have to remember and check myself, okay, things aren't happening. I need to make sure remind him that he's still the most important. Cage you're not, you know.
SPEAKER_02So that's beautiful.
SPEAKER_04That was really nice. Okay, so every cuckoldress develops her own style. What's something that you do with power control or chastity that feels distinctly yours? And how did that particular practice develop? And and you may that that's a that's a lot in that question, but also like what do you get out of this? Like, like what what is in it for for you? I'm curious about that too. So, you know, what's your style? You know, something that is just kind of yours, your trademark move. And then what do you get out of uh out of the chastity piece? What why do you like it? Um, let's start with um Miss Baja this time.
SPEAKER_05Oh, I knew you were gonna start with me. Um that that I struggled with that one. I mean, I feel like the the rituals we have in place, uh, you know. I rely on him to do my vetting for me and then I take over. Um it's just always moving and evolving. I don't think there's any one particular style that I have um that um I rely on. So that that was a tough one for me to articulate.
SPEAKER_04Yeah. And but what do you what do you get out of the the chastity? So what's in it for you? What why do you like it?
SPEAKER_05It's the I think I said earlier, it's uh the empowerment uh and the confidence that it gives me. Um, knowing that he's entrusted me with this and he's allowing me to make decisions for the two of us. We, you know, he wishes I would do that more. Um whether it's just okay, where are we gonna go on vacation, to where are we gonna have dinner, to, you know, what are we gonna do tonight? You know, so he's given me that okay to to do that. And um, I just hold myself back. And yeah, the the the power it's it's given me and the confidence, and it has allowed me in the lifestyle to be even that much more um happy, us happy.
SPEAKER_04I love it. And and what about what about you? Um, do you have a signature move? And what do you love? What what what do you get out of the chastity?
SPEAKER_01My signature move, well, I love he's so James selects what I wear because he knows my body better than everywhere, and he's a very creative person. I do the same with this cage. I like selecting his cage. He's got a ton to choose from, you know, based on he's got his tuxedo, which is, you know, black and spit chrome and ran really cool. And so, you know, that would be, I mean, my thing. But it I love the comparison that Chastity gives us between him and then the partners I see. It's just that comparison. But as far as my style, you know, it um I drive the car. You know what? I do every I've I've always done the vetting and found my partners. I've always done that. I've always decided, even in the swinging thing, I was the one circling the clubs and figuring out who we were gonna bring in. Like, um I just I think I'm not really answering the question very well, but as far as my thing, you know, I I'm continue to be the lead and I like telling him what to wear. Like he likes telling me what I should wear. So I'm the driver.
SPEAKER_04I like it. I like it. Mrs. Cocktail, what about you?
SPEAKER_02Well, first I think just being in this lifestyle and doing the the between the cutholding and the chastity, obviously it's brought us we were already close. Like I didn't think we could get closer, and of course we have like the authentic the authenticity of it, you know, and the transparency and everything and the just the intimacy because you could be 100% yourself with each other. I think um, and you know, and that does include the chastity and what we get from that too, is that I can pleasure him ways that no one else can. And, you know, I can give him that. And so um that's one thing it personally gives me is that real and and him, that intimate, very intimate connection between us, um, and just being very vulnerable with each other and open communication and being able to trust. We might say we might might want to try something, but maybe we're nervous or we're not not sure how the other one might take it, but we now know like we can say it and it will be received. And then, you know, what do we do with that? How can we make that happen for each one of us or whatever, right? And so we work those three, those, those things out. Um, I would say something for myself of what I've done to make it my own is um my own natural characteristic is just giving. I give a lot. I've actually overgived a lot in my life, and I've actually hurt myself in the meantime of overgiving. And so really learning um in my past of like my best yes or when it is okay to give, when it's not okay, like you know, harmful to myself. And so for me, giving him and taking the power that he wants me to have, and what I try to I call it like um, I take this giving characteristic, but I put it through a power exchange filter. Don't it's just something. So he wants something, but then I can put it through this power, I just don't give it freely or whatever, right? It's like this little power exchange filter, and so it kind of is like edgy, you know, it's naughty, it's uh sexy, it's selfish. And I'm ne I'm not a selfish person. Like, like I said, I overgive a lot. Um, and so like I for one, then I get to like think of myself or my needs, right? Even though I'm also giving him what he needs. So that's somehow that's how I think I kind of played on my own characteristic in our dynamic of the chastity and the cuckolding.
SPEAKER_04Indy, what about you?
SPEAKER_03I think we all have similar styles. Um, you know, like I we we communicate to our husbands in different ways um of how we want to do things that they're they're similar. Um I don't I don't know that I have a certain style as much as it just appeals to me that we can we can do this, and he is uh open, honest, and communicates with me everything he wants out of this. I can do the same. Um and and we can create a different level of intimacy than than a lot of the people we we know that have been married 20, 30, 40, 50 years. We have a lot deeper level of intimacy. Like, I mean, a lot of times, and this is gonna sound really selfish. I make it about me, but I incorporate how we can do it intimately about us both. Um one of our rules is on Monday nights we have date nights. We voice on it since we were little. God love my grandmother, was married way too many times and said, you need a date night. So that's what we did. But um, we don't, we have dinner, no media, no phones, no, no boyfriends, no nothing for you know, for our whole dinner. And that gives us a level of intimacy and a connection. But also, one of our rules and one of our things, and one thing I like to do is um find a different ways to do intimacy. Like right now, one of our rules is Sunday. I get a massage every Sunday. Now that seems kind of rude and everything, but thinking about it, I mean, that gives us a time, at least what, an hour together, lights out, doing massage, having time together, just chatting. And um I think I think I've I've been growing to make this more about both of us instead of just about me. And I think I think that's what that's where we're going with it. Because it hasn't been that long that we've been in the in this cuck holding lifestyle. Like and we did go to a cuck holding event what a year and a half ago or so. Um, and I thought, oh gosh, we're such newbies at this. And I get there and I'm like, oh, we've been doing this for a long time. So, you know, I mean, we're I'm I'm just trying I guess I'm just trying to get my style and figure out what I want out of it and what he wants out of it right now.
SPEAKER_01But don't you think it evolves? It changes.
SPEAKER_03Don't you think it changes? It does evolve. Yeah. It evolves like daily. I mean, didn't any of you guys think you would see me in Houston by myself for five for six days at a at a take-ver over event? Oh no. But it happened. So, you know, we we we evolved to what we can do and what we can handle.
SPEAKER_04What were you gonna say, honey?
SPEAKER_10Um, I'm loving this idea of Sunday night massage night.
SPEAKER_04Oh, you're known.
SPEAKER_10I mean, you have to make him buy the massage table and pick it out. I don't want to give me a massage.
SPEAKER_04Of course I do. I love that idea. We will be on it immediately.
SPEAKER_10Sorry, Chris. I can I I can sense sarcasm.
SPEAKER_04Okay, last quite last question here. Um, are there any special rules or anything you're adding for Locktober?
SPEAKER_05What would change if he's already in it 24-7?
SPEAKER_04Yeah, yeah. I don't think I don't think like that, like like that's that's the thing that Lexi said. Lexi, do you want to just share our I mean our rules are pretty I guess there's one adjustment, right?
SPEAKER_10Um I mean, yeah, for Locktober, there's no sex.
SPEAKER_06Yeah.
SPEAKER_10You're you're you're in it. You're in it except to shower and go to work. Um you're we're gonna we're gonna we have to change something because you're you're in it for a lot of it, but there's some things that we can't change. And you know, because of your job, you can't really be walking around in it. But um, so we we decided that in in honor of the fabulous Locktober, we had to change something. So you're gonna go the entire month completely abstinent.
SPEAKER_04That's okay. We will agree that anybody else have any any other rules? Uh fun things, fun traditions for Locktober.
SPEAKER_01Well, I don't we don't have any traditions, but our first Locktober, just warnings to everyone out there. Um, James was locked. I think he did it maybe a week or two, extended, started early, maybe extended it. But when he did remove the lock, and he did have to take it off for like doctor's appointment and maybe going to something where there was gonna be a you know, a sports event where he felt like he would didn't want to be the scanner to go off, you know. But um I gave him a hand job right away, and he swears I broke his broke his penis. So warning to every anxious person. Um don't go, don't be too eager once that uh cage comes off.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, well, thank you all. And and we're gonna we're gonna do a listener question, have you all weigh in on this? We're just gonna do one listener question here, but I think it's a good one. Um so the question was written in, and it is what happens when she catches feelings only to have her bull ghost her? How do you convince her that she's still hot and that she should try again? Um, this I did does this happen to you all? Like me, because it's hard to find good bulls. Um, have you had a guy ghost you? Have you had a guy that that maybe you you caught a little bit of feelings like then he went away or something like that? And how did you all deal with that? Has anybody dealt with that?
SPEAKER_02I have not necessarily caught feelings, but um, I had been speaking to a gentleman for several months, and um this is the time I met Anne and we went out to um to to visit and not necessarily you know, and she she's in the same place, and we we've had um a group together, and so I was like, hey, let's finally meet and everything. But in that, in that space of time, there was a gentleman at the same in the same city, and I, you know, we had a date planned and everything for the evening, and I cut dinner a little short with Ann so I could get back in town, get back to the hotel or where we were staying. And, you know, I still didn't hear back from him and it's like all day, and I kind of I had that instinct, you know, something was happening. And um, so, you know, I reached out first saying, hey, you know, it's like within an hour, you haven't even asked like location of like where we're meeting or anything like that. And he's like, you know, has the excuse of, you know, he's busy doing something else. Um, and so that was it was disappointing. And my my husband, my husband did have to support some of those disappointed feelings that I had. Um and, you know, that's that's kind of hard. I that that's a pretty good uh cuck hold uh question for the men to have to, you know, so console their wife um when things didn't work out as was expected, you know. But we just like, okay, well, let's go out. We just went out and we had fun and you know, and it was just, you know, so I haven't talked to him since. I just basically told him, shame on you, you know. I heard I heard from him today.
SPEAKER_01I'll I'll I'll DM you. I heard from him today, as a matter of fact. Oh yeah.
SPEAKER_02So anyway, you know, and then Ann asked me about him, and I just told her my experience, you know. I, you know, it could work for different people for different reasons. And so it's just like, this is my experience. That doesn't mean, you know, whether you meet him or not or whatever. But um, yeah, it just maybe just he's not in the right frame of mind or mindset, and it's just something I was like not gonna spend more time on because we had talked like nine months, and it was I it I mean, I I was it was a for sure, I thought on my side of things, it was a for sure thing, a meetup. And that day came and less conversation happened, and that's when I was kind of oh, you know, he's not as forward as his as he's been, and yeah, so that sucks. May happen, but it hasn't happened to me too much. I think I get the instinct a little sooner, and so I can kind of read the situation, but so it wasn't too terrible, but it it was there was disappointment there for sure.
SPEAKER_01But I think you know, our cucks are there, they're also our biggest, they're our you know, our biggest fans.
SPEAKER_04I'm sorry, and we're were you speaking in? I'm sorry.
SPEAKER_01Sorry, I just think our cucks are our biggest fans and they're there for us when we need them, you know, and we have to be vulnerable with them when we're upset about something, or we think, oh my god, like if you feel like you're you're getting a big crush, I don't know if you're catching feelings, but you have some it's building something's building, and then it falls apart. You know, they're there for us, you know. Keep us reasonable and not going off a ledge or anything.
SPEAKER_10Absolutely. The other thing is James thinks like a guy.
SPEAKER_01You know, James thinks like a, you know, he's a guy. And he, you know, he can read between the lines sometimes more than I can because he's a man.
SPEAKER_10So yeah.
SPEAKER_05Yeah. My my my husband never thought that uh he would have to console me. I had a long-term uh guy early in the lifestyle that we were together like five years, and then his life was changing. And I came home from a date with him, and that the end of the date, he told me that he had to break it off. And of course, I'm devastated. And so never would uh my husband realize that he's consoling me from somebody else, you know, having to make sure I'm okay. But but they do, they they're there for us and they take care of us and we move on. Yeah, but we have to remember to take care of them. Oh, very true. That's the thing.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, and I I mean, I would definitely say, guys, if this is part of your job as a cuck, if if you are if you are encouraging your partner to go out and date other people, the odds are they're gonna catch feelings at some point. And if that doesn't work out, it's our job to stand by them, to take care of them, to comfort them, not to blow it off, all that kind of stuff. Honey, do you have any thoughts on this one?
SPEAKER_10Yeah, um, you know, as you know, over the years, I I've I feel like I I have this like I've had this happen a few times, this kind of rule of three curse. Like I'll I've had um a few different guys now that um I'll meet with them once and they're like head over heels, and then the second time they're head over heels, and afterwards the second time they're telling me that they can't wait to see me again. It was the best ever, they can't stop thinking about me, they can't wait to see me again, like, you know, and then they disappear. I don't know what it is, but this has happened two or three times now over the years. Um where like, I mean, they're just they're they're telling me like how they're just you know, they can't wait to see me again. And then they they cancel plans, they disappear off the face of the planet, depending on, you know, who like I don't know, I don't know what it is. And I'm like, okay, I get it. You met someone, you you know, something changed, what have you. Um, but it still hurts. Even if I'm not like falling for them, even if it's just a fun time, I enjoy their company. Um, I would like to see them again. Something as simple as that can still be a little bit, you know, a little bit of a, you know, twist of the knife. Even if you're not like crazy about them like they pretended to be about you, you know, you're just kind of like, oh, really? So that's how it's gonna be?
SPEAKER_04Yeah. I mean, and that's when my that's when my alpha comes out, and I just want to just beat the crap out of them, to be honest with you. It makes me so mad when guys do this in general, and especially when they do it to to Lexi. I just I don't get you. Guys, guys, be better. Come on, men. Like, we can do better than this. Like, just treat women with respect. If if it's not working out, that's okay. Just communicate that.
SPEAKER_10But don't say like, I'm crazy about you, I can't wait to see you again. Oh my gosh, that was the best. I can't wait for it again. Like all this crap that was unnecessary to start with. And then they're like, bye. I don't know. I think fresh wound, fresh wounds.
SPEAKER_01Yeah. I think you could probably talk for hours on this. I also think depending on, you know, this format or that wherever you're meeting them, some of these guys are just hunters, you know. They do what they want and then they move on. And it's hard to find emotionally mature men who want to just form a, you know, I'm looking for men who want a deep connection. I'm not leaving James. Guess what? I'm not like leaving James, but having that deeper connection is just more, is bottom line, it's just more fun, you know, in all ways, whether I'm it's for me sexually or cuckolding James, you know. The deeper the connection I have, the more intense the cuckolding and the chastity and whatever we're doing is that much more special.
SPEAKER_10So absolutely.
SPEAKER_04Truly, truly. And I can't believe it took me the entire episode to realize that Indy, you're wearing the key around your neck.
SPEAKER_06Is anybody else wearing wearing the key?
SPEAKER_04Oh, I'm not.
SPEAKER_06I too. Yeah.
SPEAKER_04Oh, there we go. So I was talking about you can order.
SPEAKER_02I changed it for tonight.
SPEAKER_04I was never very nice. I can't believe it took me the whole episode to realize that. But, you know, a huge thank you to all of you who joined us today and are willing to share about your relationship, the power, the control. I really appreciate all of you. I think that it was a really fun conversation. I think it was a hot conversation. I think it was also educational. Um, and I love conversations like this because they show how just different these dynamics can be and how personal they are to every couple. There's a lot of stuff that we do the same, a lot of stuff we do different. I think we all got good ideas from each other tonight. Um, and especially leading into uh Locktober, because this is gonna drop the first episode to drop in September. Um, so if you enjoyed this episode, please make sure you're following the show, leave us a review and come to join us on Patreon for even more from Lexi and me. And you can find Patreon fans, Lexi's Fansley, private chats with Lexi, and everything else we're doing at cuckholderslexie.com. Thank you all for joining us tonight. Lexi, you want to say bye to everybody?
SPEAKER_00Bye, guys.
