Mismatched thoughts on feeling of luv

Mismatched thoughts

Feeling of luv, can hurt..

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Same color, just mismatch. It's time for mismatch thoughts. Just a quick thought. Like I'll really like ask yourself, ask this question. Like everybody deserves love, right? Like whether it's like true love or like puppy love, like real true love. Whereas like a real blessing is for myself, I believe a real blessing is to be able to be loved equally. Like, because you know, you could be in the same relationship with somebody and they do not value it the same way you do. Maybe more, maybe less, you know? Where you're like, How doesn't this hurt? Or like how don't you care? Like when we're both been through it or we're both going through it, like this doesn't affect you, like this doesn't hurt you. Like and it makes you feel like, have they been absent? Like, literally, or or what is it? You know, and it could be a lot of different answers. It's just like how people cope. It could be how they just uh perceived it. It's like a little fucked up sometimes. But you know what? Like, that's when we gotta just value ourselves and love ourselves. And I know that's easier said than done. Trust me, like, for sure. It's always easier said than done. But you know what? It just starts with like the little things, like just like not calling yourself stupid or like putting yourself down, like, or like, oh, that's dumb, or like, oh, that's retarded. Like, take those words out of your vocabulary. And also, like, take out the words out of like I can't, and like sorta, and like kinda, and like I tried. Those words all fucking suck. They suck big, but like and not in a good way. Like, take those words out, like, because those are like words that are like just making hurdles for oneself. And for what? Like, why make it harder for ourselves? You know, just like starting with our vocabulary. Like, I'm just saying, like, do this, do this, no. Like, I'm saying like like let's be realistic, like just start with something small. You know, and then like, you know, like just build yourself up and like look at yourself and just know like you're you are badass, you are something you are or you are, you know, and like don't forget that like it's usually like they you they should be happy that they were with you. You know, not the other way around. Sometimes it's the other way around. But you know, love yourself and when somebody like doesn't value you, like next, move on, you know, because like I don't know, some people are like crabs in a bucket in miseryless company, but you don't have to just put up with that and like you don't have to you don't deserve it. And if you feel you do deserve it, then like why even be in a relationship if you want to self-sabotage? Like it's stupid. Like we need to like start thinking about what we do, like maybe out loud, maybe. But acknowledge and accept our own our own actions, you know? Like, and I know it sucks because like when you do everything right or you feel like you do everything right, like like I fix all these things from all my ex-boyfriends and like or my ex-girlfriends or whatever, and then like I did it right with this person, and like that that person dogged me out. Shit, that happens too. And like just because it happens does not mean it's karma, it means there's a lesson out of it. So don't forget that. There is a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. But yeah, like just know that like sometimes things aren't understood, like, and sometimes we aren't like there to understand them. You know, some things we shouldn't understand because like all the pieces will snap together when they need to. So just let you know, okay? Same color, just mismatch. This is mismatched thoughts. I gotta go to work right now, boys and girls. Bye bye.