Divorced Dudes Podcast
Divorce wrecks you in ways nobody prepares you for. Divorced Dudes is a podcast where men can be honest about that. The grief, the identity crisis, the slow process of figuring out who you are on the other side. No performance, no having it together. Just real conversation for guys who are going through it.
Divorced Dudes Podcast
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Divorce can knock out way more than your marriage. It can strip your routine, your social circle, and the version of you that knew what tomorrow looked like. Zach and Matt start Divorce Dudes with a simple promise: no pity, no pressure, no pretending, just a real space where guys can talk about what divorce actually does to you and how to start rebuilding.
We get honest about the parts men don’t always say out loud: the loneliness after the paperwork is done, the weird silence when friends drift away, and the feeling of losing your “structure” along with your relationship. We also share why the old advice to “rub dirt on it” doesn’t work, and what a judgment-free divorce support space for men can look like when it’s built for real life, not performative toughness.
You’ll also hear what we’re building next: a community of dudes helping other dudes get their lives back on track, plus practical guidance from professionals. Think divorce advice you can use, including conversations that may include a divorce lawyer, and everyday reset topics like cooking, dating after divorce, and basic hygiene and self-care when life feels upside down.
If you’re looking for a men’s divorce podcast, support after divorce, or a place to ask the questions you don’t say in public, hit play. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs it, and leave a review with the one topic you want us to tackle next.
Welcome To Divorce Dudes
SPEAKER_00Welcome to episode one of the Divorce Dudes Podcast. I'm Zach. And I'm Matt. We're just two dudes sitting here having cocktails talking about the divorce we've gone through. Yeah, they really suck.
A Judgment Free Space For Men
SPEAKER_00Oh shit, dude. Um we just want to uh create a space where guys can have a judgment-free zone about talking about emotions and feelings and all that girly shit that we've gone through that we we need to do um instead of just you know rubbing dirt and getting over it.
Losing More Than A Marriage
SPEAKER_01Yeah, it's one of those things I didn't have someone to talk to. So post-divorce, you lose the friends too. You didn't just lose the wife, you didn't just lose the kids in the house. It was the structure and the people and everything else, and we want to give a space that you can come to both listen and talk to and send us questions and maybe even talk to other people that
Building A Practical Support Community
SPEAKER_01we have a guest on.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, we're gonna set up a community to where we can give advice from professionals on uh cooking and dating and hygiene and I mean, you know, there's some and and maybe even a divorce lawyer to be able to talk about the happenstance of things that we go through and what we should avoid. And yeah, we're just trying to build a community of dudes. Sorry, it's uh the cocktail we were talking about earlier. Uh community of dudes helping other dudes get their lives back on track. And giving us a place to do it. Yeah.
The No Pity Outro
SPEAKER_00And on that note, Matt's chat GPT an outro for us. Go ahead.
SPEAKER_01This is divorced dudes. No pity, no pressure, no pretending. Just real space to be human again. Catch you on the next episode.
SPEAKER_00I'll cheers to that. All right, dudes. Ow.