He Said, G Said
When a Love Is Blind fan-favorite and a Bachelor alum turned a reality TV connection into a real-life love story, it only made sense to bring that chemistry to the mic.
He Said, G Said is your go-to destination for all things love, dating, reality TV, music, sports and more, hosted by Giannina Gibelli and Blake Horstmann. From what really happens behind the scenes to the moments you didn’t see on screen, nothing is off limits. They’re also opening up their own world, sharing life updates, navigating parenthood together, and giving fans a closer, more personal look into their dynamic as a couple.
Each week, G and Blake break down modern relationships with unfiltered honesty. Whether they’re debating dating double standards, reacting to fan-submitted confessions, hosting “double date” conversations with fan-favorite couples, or sitting down with your favorite culture-defining stars to spill what really went down, every episode pulls you deeper into the world of celebrity romance.
And they’re not just talking about love, they’re putting it to the test. Through their signature Star Crossed matchmaking format, G and Blake give reality stars a second chance at finding something real, pairing unexpected matches and seeing if chemistry can spark the second time around.
New episodes drop every Thursday. Come for the tea, stay for the chemistry… and maybe another chance at love.
He Said, G Said
G & Blake React to the Jax & Lori K Drama, Nicolandria Split & Your Wild Relationship Confessions
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There has been no shortage of pop culture headlines lately, and G and Blake have a lot to unpack.
This week, they share a surprising personal encounter with Lori K and Jax Taylor just days before news of their relationship broke, and give their unfiltered thoughts on the drama surrounding their headline-making romance. They also weigh in on the Nicolandria breakup and who they see Olandria and Nic dating next.
Plus, G and Blake debut a brand new Relationship Confessions segment, reacting to your wildest dating stories, relationship fails, and awkward dating moments. The stories are hilarious, the hot takes are honest, and the banter is exactly what you'd expect.
Grab a drink and join the conversation! This episode is packed with laughs, pop culture, and plenty of relationship chaos.
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Y'all won't believe what happened when we were in LA right before the uh Lori Krebs and Jack's um news dropped. I was represented by Lori for four years, maybe five years. Very long time. We were super close. I defended her for you know that those those uh rumors, and now I'm kind of like, I don't know.
SPEAKER_04These men, they're not worth it.
SPEAKER_01The Nickelandria split.
SPEAKER_04There have been rumblings for a while. So now that they're both single, if Nick and Olandria were on Starcross, dream.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, that would be fun.
SPEAKER_04Uh, who would we pair them up with? This week we asked you guys to send us your most shocking, awkward, and unbelievable relationship stories. The juicier the better.
SPEAKER_01We are fully nude. Oh my god.
SPEAKER_04He said what?
SPEAKER_00No way she said that.
SPEAKER_04Hey everyone, I'm Gianina.
SPEAKER_01And I'm Blake.
SPEAKER_04And here is another episode of He Said G Said.
SPEAKER_01Hey, welcome back, you guys. Uh, we got a little solo episode today. Just me and G.
SPEAKER_04So you're dating us today.
SPEAKER_01Yes, a little double date with us. Uh no, but we got a lot of things to talk about. I feel like a lot has happened over the last like week or two that we have had front row seats at.
SPEAKER_04So weirdly enough, we've run into a couple people that a couple of days later, big news has broken out about them. I mean, there has been a few. Weirdly enough, like Katie Holmes, her new boyfriend, um, Kenzie and Dylan from Love Island, and Laurie Krebs and Jack Spoil.
SPEAKER_01We're getting into that. We will get into that a little later in the episode because we got a lot to say about that.
SPEAKER_04So we were there. Keep listening. Kind of.
SPEAKER_01Um, but let's talk about uh our New York trip. We just go back from New York. 11 days.
SPEAKER_0411 days out in New York.
SPEAKER_01Um I love New York. I want to move there now. I'm obsessed with that city, man.
SPEAKER_04I'm uh I'm happy for you because the way that you feel in New York is how I feel in Europe. Like I feel inspired in Europe, I feel refreshed, I feel like there's a whole other world out there. I don't really get that with New York. New York to me just feels so congested.
SPEAKER_01I I get all the things you just said about. I get like when I there, I get motivated and inspired, and I'm like, I need to work harder, I need to do more with my life. I need to, that's just how I feel when I'm there every time I'm there. So I always say, like, what happened would I, if I had I didn't start for the record, I didn't start traveling at all until I was like 29. Till the bachelorette, pretty much. I'd gone like Mexico, I think, twice. So had I gone to New York like earlier in life, like it's so interesting. I wonder what I feel like I would have gone more into like business and entrepreneurship and all that really early. Uh, but I loved it. We had a great time.
SPEAKER_04We went to Well, I just want to interject because there's something that I always see and it always reminds me of you. Gary V always says, like his whole shtick at this point, he really honed his brand down. And his whole shtick at this point is if you're 25, 28, 30, 32, you are just getting started. Like it's never too late. And he always says he's like, I wish I could tell people in their 40s, like say I'm 37, I'm not 32. So I know, I know this man would literally sit here and slap you in the face and be like, You're just you're a baby, like you're just getting started. And it's true because like you also never know, like when your next like great idea or something is just gonna pop off, like literally around a corner. Age is just a number, it doesn't matter. Keep going.
SPEAKER_01No, yeah, I mean, I completely agree. I still feel like, and I feel like I'm just I'm hitting my prime, you know, I'm hitting my prime. Especially career and business, not just life, but like career and business and like everything and training for a marathon, and like I feel like I'm having a little midlife crisis with that.
SPEAKER_04You are because life inspectancy is 85.
SPEAKER_01So you're halfway there. I'm like looking up Iron Man stuff and like bikes and sweat. I know, but uh, I did run a lot in New York, and that's another reason that I've I the history of the New York is just I love it. I went to Francine's Tavern, which was super cool. It's where George Washington gave a victory speech, and like I don't want to get into it because I feel like it's gonna bore the listeners a little bit, but it's where he said goodbye to all of his officers after the Revolutionary War in Nobel.
SPEAKER_04And he's still talking about it, and he's still talking about it. That's enough of that. But we did go to the Espies, we went to the Espies, which was so cool.
SPEAKER_01So we this is our second time in the Espies. Last year was in LA. I just felt like this year was so much better, right? We were on the red carpet, like standing next to like Steph Curry, Mike Tyson, Jake Paul.
SPEAKER_04Jordan Woods.
SPEAKER_01Jordan Woods. Um, it was just it was so cool. This this time, I think some of that was it rained so much, and so everybody just came to the red carpet at the exact same time because it rained so much. Um, so we had a blast. I must have cried half the damn.
SPEAKER_04No, the entire time. It's always inspiring, so inspiring. It's always uh like I always say it's like the rawest talent. Like there is no, you know, you can't you can't fake this at all. Either you have this talent, either you have the numbers or you don't. And so to be in a room that's filled with so much pure talent is insane. And then also I think the way that Marcello hosted it and me, I mean, I'm Latina obviously, and this was just such a great, he highlighted Latino athletes in such a way that it was just yeah, Latin culture general, that was just so inclusive in a funny, not in your face, but just hey, we're here too. And it was just fantastic. I mean, even your quarterback, your your white little quarterback, the the white one, they're all most of the quarterbacks. The one that has that's white with the Spanish name. The new one.
SPEAKER_01Oh, uh Fernando Mendoza, Fernando Mendoza.
SPEAKER_04Hello, even that man, like so there was just a lot of um like pride, really. Let's say that's what I'm saying. No, it was really cool.
SPEAKER_01It was a cool night, and he did such a great job. He did a great job, and we met a lot of cool people. The after party was really fun, and we got to see you know a lot of friends, old friends, and stuff. So, all in all, SP was really fun, and then we just kind of hung out in the city, you know. Heath enjoyed it, um, and then we took some meetings and worked on a really fun project that will be coming out that we're super excited about. Um, and you guys will see that soon. But um, real quick, let's give a Starcross update. What do you say? Uh, I don't think this is gonna be a shocker of an update, unfortunately. Um, but probably one of our fun, one of like one of the cooler episodes we filmed. Um, because obviously Jesse from Or and Wide's super popular, everybody kind of knows her and her name. But then we got somebody who's maybe not quite as popular, and we didn't know him before the show. Um, but that was Weston, and we fell in love with Weston, yeah, which was a really fun during the filming. We were like, oh my god, Weston's so cool, and we still DM a lot, but um, they're not together.
SPEAKER_04Um no, because I think she was in the midst of trying to figure out what to do with Marcello and uh Marciano. Marciano what to do with Marciano, Marcelo, Marciano, what to do with Marciano, and I think that Starcrossed helped her realize that or him, or him. I feel like that would help solidify the relationship in the world.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, because they were they're like full-blown in a relationship now. They're everywhere, they're going on trips together, and that's the goal. We just want people in happy, healthy relationships. Yes, we're always super happy uh for Jesse. Um, it was a lot of fun filming with her, and we got to know her really well, and we really liked her and still do like her. And uh, but I will say we really want to bring Weston back for another Star Cross episode. So bad. So bad. So if you guys can think of anybody who Weston might, I don't know, you know, because I feel like he's ready. He's ready, he's great. I I just loved him so much. So we want to bring him back eventually, not right now. Um, but uh he and he and he had a blast, and he, you know, he he was very much like, hey guys, like I would, you know, I would do this again if you guys think you can find me my actual.
SPEAKER_04But it was such a successful date. No, they had a blast literally, and they they would do like FaceTime dates after. Yeah, it was really, really successful. And I feel like that one would have lasted a little bit longer if the whole Marciano build.
SPEAKER_01I think it was a great match, but yeah.
SPEAKER_04So, like, we're still good at our jobs, okay.
SPEAKER_01And we got some really cool matches, you guys. We we were in contact with a few people that like would be so fun.
SPEAKER_04I'm actually really excited.
SPEAKER_01So we just logistically we gotta kind of match it up, but there are more sarcasts coming your way, you guys.
SPEAKER_04Because this has to it has to make sense. Like we have one great guy and another great girl, but together they don't make sense. So we have we have great people, so we're trying to figure out who makes sense.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, so we're we're working on it, but we got more sarcasts coming to you. So stay tuned.
SPEAKER_04My question is do you guys want to see kind of like behind the scenes a little bit of how we go about matchmaking? Like that'd be fun, just even on social media. Right, like if we can have like maybe like a little game on social media on how kind of like what we look into when we're trying to find a match.
SPEAKER_01That'd be fun, right?
SPEAKER_04I don't know. You tell me in the comments. We could do that, bring him in behind the scenes a little bit, just a little bit, but yeah, just our brainstorming sessions, yes, yes.
SPEAKER_01But let's get into some pop culture talk because y'all won't believe what happened um when we were in LA right before the uh Lori Krebs and Jack's um news dropped. Let me say this before we get started. Obviously, if you guys have known me for a while or followed me for a while, you'd know that I was with Lori. I was represented by Lori for four years, maybe five years. Very long time. We were super close. Um, and I will say she was there with me and for me through some of the hardest times of my life. She would, during the Paradise Um fiasco, she uh she would sit on FaceTime with me for three, four, five hours a day, like literally walking me off the edge. Um, so for that, I'll always be grateful. Um, but we were in LA.
SPEAKER_04Well, and I just also want to say she's always been so supportive of you, always like instantly the moment we met, she was so supportive and so encouraging to me because she knew exactly what you'd gone through. And she would always just like tell me, she's like, You are just not what I expected, but in the best way, because Blake really needs somebody like you. Like, I always wanted him to be with someone like you. And and so I like hold her near and dear to my heart because of that. Um, I just think that maybe right now.
SPEAKER_01Well, we'll yeah, that's all I yeah.
SPEAKER_04We'll uh these men story time story. They're not worth it.
SPEAKER_01Story time. So we were in LA, uh, it would have been what, three weeks ago now? Yeah, three weeks ago. Um, we're staying at the Amarano Hotel, and uh we were meeting our manager in the lobby to leave for a meeting. We walk, I walk out of my room holding Heath, and I turned the corner and Lori's standing there. And I haven't seen Lori or even really talked to her in probably two years. And so it was one of those moments where I was like, Lori, and she turned around, she's like, What? And she was actually in a towel, her hair was wet, and she was like, she had jumped out of the shower to hand a uh hotel card to her friend or whatever to go to the pool. And I was like, Oh my god, what the this is crazy. It was the first time she had seen Heath. So she was freaking out, she's like, Hey, we're gonna catch up. I was like, We're headed to them to a meeting, um, but we'll catch up later. So we didn't think anything of it, you know, I could catch her later. We go to the we go to the lobby, and not 10 minutes later, Jax walks into the hotel. And honestly, at the time, we were just like, Oh, didn't think anything of it. She reps Jack. Yeah, Jax, we didn't think anything of it. She's she's very close with her, a lot of her clients to the point where she would be like, hey, come to the hotel and we'll go to dinner, you know, would be like, let's meet here. So they're super tight.
SPEAKER_04And also, like, there have been rumors before, like, there have been like a Reddit post here and there, maybe a TMZ thing here and there, of someone being like, Oh, getting cozy with a client. And it's just like, no, that's just how their relationship is. They do everything together. I mean, we're very close with our manager.
SPEAKER_01Um, and I defended her a lot when those rumors came out because I was like, no, that's just how she is.
SPEAKER_04Also, she was married at the time. Yeah, at the time. Yeah.
SPEAKER_01But we were like, that's I was like, that's just how she is. She was really close with me. She was really close with Blake Moyne. She was really close. Like, it's just how she is. That's how she runs her business. Okay, there is a certain line, obviously, you can't cross. And then not more than four or five days, no, four days later.
SPEAKER_04Not even, yeah.
SPEAKER_01The TMZ article drops with her and Jax, and we were like, just like cuddling. I got literally canoodling in the pool and everything. We were like, oh my god, no way. Um, and yeah, it's it's it's hard because obviously, you know, I defended her for you know that those those uh rumors, and now I'm kind of like, I don't know now.
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SPEAKER_04You won't regret it. My theory, my theory is okay, she's divorced now. I feel like, and obviously, Jackson Britney divorced that whole debacle, honestly. I feel like they are each other's rebounds. And maybe there was always a little flirtatious here and there, hence like the old TMZ rumors, right? But like flirting's, you know, flirting's okay. It's not okay, but it's just maybe there's always been something there, like in the air. And then now that they're both divorced, they both felt vulnerable and like they could relate to each other because of a divorce, and they've been in each other's circles for years, that they just decided like, well, let's just like hook up.
SPEAKER_01It's wrong, no matter if they're each other's rebounds or not. It's a sh punch to the gut to Britney.
SPEAKER_04Yeah.
SPEAKER_01Britney's the only victim in this situation. Like, you cannot, I cannot defend Lori. I cannot defend Jax. Brittany is the victim in this. She you went to Mexico with Britney and Lori.
SPEAKER_04Well, while Britney and Jax were still together. Yeah, while they were still together.
SPEAKER_01You went on like a trip with all of them. Like family stuff. I can't express to you, having been on Lori's roster, how close Brittany and Lori were. Like they were so close. Like she went to her for advice during the divorce. Actually, friends, actually friends. Like actual friends, not just work associates, actual friends. Oh my god. So in my opinion, the only person, I don't care if everybody, right? Everybody was single. I get it. Everybody was single. They're grown adults. If they want to hook up, they can hook up. But man, it seems like a big slap to the face to Brittany, and that's really hard. And I hope that they've chatted. Um, I hope Britney and I hope Lori have at least talked. It sounds like she warned Britney that the news was coming out. Yeah, yeah. It sounds that's what it sounds like. Um she knew it was coming out and warned her. But yeah, I mean, obviously it's it's it's hard, man. It's I just feel for Brittany. I feel for Britney. Because I mean it would be like I it would, I can't even.
SPEAKER_04I feel for Britney, but I also know that when when like shit like this happens, like those people weren't serving you, and they were probably just draining her of like her energy and her time. Oh Brittany, they were draining Britney, yeah. And so, like at that point, it's like good riddance, like go be together and go. So I 100% I feel bad for Britney. I can only imagine like what this must feel like, but I do feel like maybe it was necessary to just, I don't know, cut the cord those relationships because you we don't know what's happening behind the scenes, but that's really hard. That's a really hard one.
SPEAKER_01Do you think you know there's rumors out there, and I could see, do you think this was a ploy? Do you think this was a setup? So the theory I've heard, and like if you look at those photos, there are moments where I'm like, like she's she's got a certain pose, and like there's certain things in some of those photos. I'm like, was this planned?
SPEAKER_04There's so the ones in the pool I don't think were planned.
SPEAKER_01Agreed.
SPEAKER_04The reason why, also because we do know you know, one half of this equation. And I know she likes to look pretty in her photos. And I don't think that she would be like, yeah, when my hair is wet and like no makeup and like whatever, let that be the way that this is announced to the world. One of those photos in the tea at dinner did seem a little weird. Um, I don't know why that one was included. I don't know how that one was included. If it is a ploy, what's the end game?
SPEAKER_01To get Jax back on the valley and Lori on the valley. That's the end game.
SPEAKER_04Lori lives in Canada. What the fuck is she gonna do on the valley?
SPEAKER_01She clearly moved to LA. She spends half the year in LA anyway.
SPEAKER_04Her family is in Canada. Like, you can't do that.
SPEAKER_01That's true. Yeah, I don't know. I guess I don't know. Unless it really is just to get Jax back on the Valley. I don't know.
SPEAKER_04It's it seems like Jax will never be back on the valley. Never. Never. He will never be back on the valley.
SPEAKER_01There's been worse people on reality TV that have been let on shows. The batch right. But uh yeah, I don't know. We'll see. We'll see what the ploy is. I don't think there's I don't think I don't necessarily think it is a ploy, but we're gonna I'm waiting on pins and needles for a statement. I want a statement. There's been nothing from more than nothing from the case.
SPEAKER_04It's gonna happen on the show.
SPEAKER_01Oh, it's gonna happen on the show.
SPEAKER_04This is all gonna explode on the show, on Britney's podcast, on Britney's terms. I think they're gonna give her the the the stage to really just talk about this and finally put it to bed. Okay. Um, I mean, I just think that I don't know why the theme of this year's reality TV, like couplings, is like throw it all away for a man, that's not worth it. Like, I don't get it. I really like literally some of these people that these women are throwing their like careers away for would never do the same for the the women in their lives, ever. Literally, it's been proven. Like, they do not, they're not stand-up men. So, why are you gonna do that to yourself, to your friend, offer this for like a hookup? Because like this shit ain't gonna last. It's not, they're toxic. I'm just confused. Yeah, I get it. Like, chemistry chemistry is so, so like like intoxicating and so so inviting, and like you just want it. But that shit is not worth it on a on a public scale, even on a pro personal one, like that's your friendship. I agree anyway.
SPEAKER_01Well, and then uh the other huge news, obviously, the Nicolandria split.
SPEAKER_04Nicolandria split huge news, okay. But is it surprising news?
SPEAKER_01Listen, I am terrified of the Nicolandria stands out there, so I am going to not speculate. On their relationship.
SPEAKER_04All right.
SPEAKER_01Um, I will say this is the only thing I want to say. When there's smoke, there's usually fire.
SPEAKER_04Um there have been rumblings for a while.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, there's been rumblings for a while. And it really is. And this is a whether it's a public relationship, a private relationship, whatever kind of relationship, if you don't spend a lot of time together, it's hard to make a relationship work. And I feel like they didn't spend a lot of time together. And don't get me wrong, that's because they were crazy busy. Of course. They're like the it couple, the it people, even individually. But yeah, if you if you don't get to spend a lot of time together, like it's hard to make a relationship work. And they were obviously, you know, I mean, I don't follow them a ton. They would pop up here and there, obviously, on things, red carpets and things like that. But I know that that was that's a huge that was one of the, if not the biggest, Love Island relationship to come out, probably with them and like maybe Leah's Leah, um, a couple other here and there. But yeah, I mean, obviously that's huge news in Love Island. And I am really interested to see what happens next.
SPEAKER_04I want to know who Alandra's gonna date next.
SPEAKER_01Like, that's who I I think Alandra goes private next. I think even if she's with a celebrity, I think it's private.
SPEAKER_04Well, she's been she hasn't put out a statement. Like Nick put out the statement. Or he, you know, commented on the statement. She hasn't even commented on it. No, she turned off her comments. She turned off her comments.
SPEAKER_01Which is crazy.
SPEAKER_04I think I mean what I'm gonna say is there are rumors that he had a girlfriend because there was like this blonde girl that would follow them around, and then his friend like stepped up and said, No, that's my girlfriend, that's why she's always with us. But turns out it wasn't her. I don't know.
SPEAKER_01I don't want to speculate again on, but and then there were rumors that Nicolandry was hooking up with Travis uh oh yeah.
SPEAKER_04Oh, and she got mad. She like sent Dumois like uh, hey, buckle. Yeah, so at this point, yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_01My Laura's gonna be calling it. Yeah, yeah. So at this point, I don't want to speculate a ton, but like I'm really interested to see where their careers go individually now. Uh, I think she'll be just fine. I think she's gonna continue with the fashion thing she's doing. I think I think she does date a rapper or an athlete or something, um, or even an actor, maybe, or you know, a big time model, whatever it is. And then he, you know, he's got the DJ thing going for him. Um, he's got obviously he's he's now a single it guy in the reality TV world. God knows what shows and what things he could also get on. So I'm just really interested to see where their careers go now.
SPEAKER_04And I mean, it's all one thing for sure is it's been very amicable.
SPEAKER_01Well, we'll see.
SPEAKER_04I think so.
SPEAKER_01We don't know. I mean, we don't without a statement.
SPEAKER_04We don't know, but I think that they always, regardless if it was real or PR, they always knew what this was. They always knew that Love Island brought them together. They always knew that this world was crazy and that, you know, whether you're trauma bonded or this or that, like this is your person to go through this with, and there is love there. How deep was that love? I don't know. But I do feel like there was love.
SPEAKER_01Oh, for sure. For sure. You know, I feel like it's been very difficult.
SPEAKER_04I feel like they were partners in crime. Yeah, yeah. Do you know what I mean? I feel like they were really just there for each other during this crazy time, which is really nice to have. And so last thing I'm gonna say about it is I mean, Love Island, a year later, it ended, and then they broke up. I feel like it's perfect timing. So moving on. Okay, so now that they're both single, if Nick and Olandria were on Starcrossed, dream, that would be fun. Uh, who would we pair them up with?
SPEAKER_01God, so I'll start with Olandria. Olandria is hard because like she's so big now that like to match her with a reality star, I think, would be really hard.
SPEAKER_04I feel like she's also a little bit of an enigma because she's been the she went straight to like A-list vibes of I'm not gonna talk about my personal life, but I'll walk all the red carpets. So as and I didn't watch all 300 hours of Love Island, I just did it. And someone can change a lot in a year. It's been a year.
SPEAKER_01Oh, yeah, especially in this industry and like the way her life explored.
SPEAKER_04But my question is is Nick her type? What is her type now? I mean, I don't have a type of is she gonna go like flag? Is she gonna go artist?
SPEAKER_01I see you're going artist. If I had to pick a reality TV star, it would have I actually think it'd be I I'm gonna go a little crazy here. I think it's gonna be like a UK. Like I like the idea of her going like with a Love Island UK, somebody big in Love Island, UK.
SPEAKER_04I don't think she will ever touch anyone from Love Island ever again.
SPEAKER_01Maybe not, maybe not. Okay, love up Love is blind, UK. I don't know. I just feel her, I see her going like overseas. Overseas. I don't know why. That's just how I feel. Or I see her with a musician. I think I see her with an artist, like a musician.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, I don't see her going reality. I would love to pair her with somebody from reality, but I do not see her going reality.
SPEAKER_01You're right, she's a bit of enigma, so I don't know what she's doing.
SPEAKER_04I see her going with like a basketball player. I see her doing like the Jordan Woods thing. I see her going model swag.
SPEAKER_02Okay.
SPEAKER_04I see that.
SPEAKER_01I would not be shocked at all. What about Nick? I could see Nick going still reality TV.
SPEAKER_04Nick could go reality. Nick could go reality. Nick could go, Nick could also pull like a Tyler Cameron and do like a random supermodel and just like peace out from reality TV. And then like date his hometown Hottie and move in with her. But like years.
SPEAKER_01I never met Nick. Tyler, now that I I mean I've known Tyler for a while now. That doesn't shock me what he did. He stepped away and then went with his like no.
SPEAKER_04That sounds very good.
SPEAKER_01But I don't, I don't know, Nick. I don't know if Nick and Tyler have the same personality, but I could no, I don't think so. I think I think I've no Nick would go supermodel. I see no, I've seen Nick going back to shows in two two to three years. Yeah, yeah. I see Nick doing a Mary Harry style.
SPEAKER_04Mary Nick?
SPEAKER_01It would be, I don't know. I'm trying to think of something really clever right now.
SPEAKER_04No. I see, oh my god. I see him Bachelor. I see him bachelor. I see he he is giving like hairy jowsy.
SPEAKER_01Very hairy joy.
SPEAKER_04Very hairy.
SPEAKER_01I could see that. So I think he could lead his own show as far as like, and I know that you know, Netflix.
SPEAKER_04Does he have the personality for it? I mean, besides like the Mamacita thing.
SPEAKER_01So I think he's really funny. I just think he doesn't show it on social media. Like, from what I understand, is he's like he's like a cool dick. And for the people who have hung out with him, yeah, he is his persona on online is more of like I'm a chill, chill dude, but I think he's really funny. Um, so I think I think it'd be I think it'd be fun. I think it'd be fun to see girls fall over themselves for him because I think they love him. How old is he? Six's five. Six five. He's tall, he's tall, he's you know, he's good looking, good hair, head of hair. I think this man's got a lot of ego left in him. He's a nick one too, man. They're both mysterious in their own ways. I would yeah, it'll be interesting. I'm excited. I'm like weirdly excited to see. I know.
SPEAKER_04I want to see, I want to see who goes.
SPEAKER_01And I get I get the Nickelangrius stands and everything because it's it's exciting. So we'll see. Okay, uh, let's get into the fun part. Let's get to some relationship confessions.
SPEAKER_04Yep. This week we asked you guys to send us your most shocking, awkward, and unbelievable relationship stories. The juicier the better. And today we're reading them out loud and giving you our unfiltered opinions.
SPEAKER_01And as always, you guys delivered. There were some juicy ones in there, and we picked a few out for you. Uh, so the first one, uh, this was submitted by Gabe Gabrielle C, my ex-fiance and I were each other's first. I joined his family on a trip to California to visit him when I graduated high school. I was 17, he was 20. His family went out to a wine bar one night. We stayed home and decided it was time. Whoa. Put a chair under the doorknob and everything. Oh my god. That's so that's great. We are fully nude. Oh my god. We are fully nude. They came home. His mom breaks down the door and throws the sheet off of us as we pretend to sleep.
SPEAKER_04Naked? Pretend to sleep naked!
SPEAKER_01He panicked and goes for a run around San Francisco while I'm naked, getting absolutely yelled at by his mom. He abandoned her? Had to fly home with them the next day, like nothing happened. That is a nightmare, especially if you're 17 years old. That is a living nightmare.
SPEAKER_04I'm literally traumatized for that.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, that would give me such a bad stigma and fear of sex.
SPEAKER_04Yeah.
SPEAKER_01As a 17-year-old woman, like I'd be so scared.
SPEAKER_04Well, the thing is, it's like the I just find it really unfair that the mom was yelling at her and like let her son run around fuck the fuck San Francisco and she's yelling at the like as a woman, I wouldn't ever shame another girl.
SPEAKER_01Hold on.
SPEAKER_04I really wouldn't.
SPEAKER_01Hold on. I know you as a mom.
SPEAKER_04If I am taking Would you yell at Heath? Listen, if I am taking my son who's 20 and his girlfriend who is 17 on a trip.
SPEAKER_01Also, why'd you do it on the trip? That's kind of crazy.
SPEAKER_04I mean, whatever. They're kids. Do whatever you do. You fucking lose virginity in the backseat of a truck. Who cares? But like at the end of the day, if you you know what you're doing, you're taking these kids and you're giving them a private time and a private space, and then you go and yell at the girl. That's a crazy girl. That's not your daughter. You don't shame her. If anything, you tell her how to act as a woman. And maybe, hey, this isn't this is how this is not how you act, honey. You're on a family trip, put it in your pants. I know you love my son, but this is not how you don't yell at her and berate her. No, you're not. If anything, you grab the kid, your son, who you birthed by the ear, you make him sit down and listen to your shit, not the girl.
SPEAKER_01No, and uh Am I right or am I wrong? I think you're right. I think you're right. And obviously, uh ex-fiance, so I don't think it was meant to be.
SPEAKER_04It sounds like my ex-fiance and I have each other's first.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, so uh obviously they're ex-fiancé. I forgot about clearly it didn't work out. So I don't know, it could have been you never, I mean, we don't know details, but yeah.
SPEAKER_04Well, did it end up being like a funny story now that after they were?
SPEAKER_01I mean, it was probably a funny story, I would think, after I don't know, laugh about it after. I don't know, or maybe it was one of the things they could never get over.
SPEAKER_04I just see things so differently now that I'm a mom. All right, next. This is from Ashley B. My boyfriend and I have been together for six years. One day I was putting away laundry in our apartment. Oh, I feel like this is gonna be juicy. When I found an engagement ring buried in the back of his sock drawer, okay? I immediately called my mom because I was convinced he was about to propose. Obviously. Fast forward one year later, and he still hasn't asked. Every once in a while I check, and the ring is still sitting in the same exact spot. At this point, I don't know if I should laugh, cry, or just propose to him myself. What do you think as a man?
SPEAKER_01I think as a man, so I will say this. I called to get like to set up I basically had our ring picked out a year before. A year and a half before, but I didn't have it in my physical possession. So I didn't have it until only like a month, I think.
SPEAKER_04Okay, but why?
SPEAKER_01Because you custom made it or well, I guess I just knew that we weren't, I wasn't gonna propose until after Heath was born. So maybe that's a different situation for me. Right.
SPEAKER_04Like I wanted to.
SPEAKER_01So my thing was like, I'm not gonna have her find this, or it's not gonna sit here for a year and a half when I know I'm not gonna propose for about a year and a half.
SPEAKER_04So you like timed it so that you would have it in your possession. Right. Like, is this a ring that maybe he saw and was like, you know what? This is a ring, I'm gonna buy it, but I'm not gonna propose just yet.
SPEAKER_01Okay, so that is a great point. It could be one of those things where he like she mentioned the ring, kind of ring she likes at some point, and he found it. He saw, he was wearing a few. Or it was like a family heirloom, family heirloom, and he was like, I'm gonna get this. It was a really good deal. Yeah, I don't know when I'm gonna propose, but I'm gonna put this here. But a year? And they've been dating six? Bro.
SPEAKER_04You just said a year and a half.
SPEAKER_01They've been dating six years.
SPEAKER_04How old are they?
SPEAKER_01I don't know. I need we need to have eight. I don't care if you start dating at 21 and you're 26 now, 27 now. Six years? That's happened. I don't know. I I will say this. I would I would start dropping hints like crazy.
SPEAKER_04I yeah.
SPEAKER_01If she really wants to get engaged with the channel, I would not propose to him.
SPEAKER_04No, I would not do that. No, honey. Absolutely coming from someone who kind of did it. I mean, I was like, give me a shit.
SPEAKER_01Especially if she if he has the ring, don't propose to him.
SPEAKER_04No, you don't propose to him. I would I would probably do a mix of like laughing and crying. I'm just being like, well, honey, what the fuck is going on? But yeah, drop hints, kind of ask, like is this gonna happen? Or just be like, hey honey, like, do you see yourself getting married? I'm sure they've had these conversations six years later, but I would like re-up those conversations and just kind of instead of expecting an answer, just listen about what this man is saying.
SPEAKER_01Also, do you have like some dope vacations coming up? I was just gonna say that. Like, are you guys planning like also, dude, the sock drawer? The sock drawer. That was bound to be found. You gotta put it somewhere better than the sock drawer. Go bury it in the backyard. Like, you gotta do something at the sock drawer.
SPEAKER_04Men are not stealthy men. No, that is not good.
SPEAKER_03That is not good.
SPEAKER_01Oh no. But uh, I I feel good for you, Ashley.
SPEAKER_04I mean I mean, here's the thing.
SPEAKER_01I think he's gonna propose.
SPEAKER_04Just feeling I think depending on, I don't know, your culture, there's a lot of where you guys are, it could be a Christmas wedding. I mean, it could be a Christmas proposal.
SPEAKER_01You never know.
SPEAKER_04Uh, or Thanksgiving. It's the later half of the year.
SPEAKER_01I feel like it's really common though that women find the rings at low-key and then are like waiting and waiting and waiting.
SPEAKER_04And then you get the same manicure for this for like all year. That's exactly I would just and I would do that too. I would I would start dropping hints.
SPEAKER_01Ready and drops.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, I would be like, oh my god, like my nails are perfect.
SPEAKER_01I would, I would still that would not be a hint to me, though. You did do that a couple times. I did. You need to drop, it needs to be more can't be subtle. It needs to be more in my face. It needs to be more in your face. Yeah.
SPEAKER_04All right, you hear that, Ashley? Look at my nails, I'd be like, cool. Yeah, tell him we want that ring now.
SPEAKER_01All right, I'll do the next one. Um, the story was sent in by Katie K. Uh, I matched with a guy on Hinge and we went on three really great dates. Then he completely disappeared. No texts, no calls, nothing. I figured he ghosted me. A year later, I turned on Netflix and nearly dropped my popcorn because there he was on a dating show looking for love. The craziest part, after the season ended, he reached out to me out of the blue asking if I wanted to grab dinner to catch up. This is so common. I feel like this is so common. I mean, three dates isn't a ton. Like, let's not act like they were dating.
SPEAKER_04Or in a relationship.
SPEAKER_01Or in a relationship or anything like that. They were dating dates. Yeah, but that I nowadays people say dating. But yeah, I get what you're getting at. Three dates, not a lot, so let's not sit here and act like he was in a relationship or whatever. And I will say, like, it is one of those things where it's like when you start to apply for these shows, it's such a lose-lose situation. I mean, it's only just I was I was I was in the whatever admissions to the show, whatever you want to call it, the the process to get on the bachelorette for nine months.
SPEAKER_04And you were hooking up with people during the start.
SPEAKER_01Was I not supposed like was I not was I supposed to never was I not supposed to go on dates? Because I didn't know if I was gonna get on the show. If I met a girl that I liked, was I gonna be like, hey, see in nine minutes.
SPEAKER_04Did you, I've never asked you this. Did you have like a girl that you were consistently talking to?
SPEAKER_01I went to a really rough breakup before no. I went through a really rough breakup before the show. Not right before, but it that relationship caused me to give my mom and sister permission to.
SPEAKER_04So because you were heartbroken within those nine months, you were just like fucking around, but not I was going on dates, but no, I was I was not like when was the last date before you went?
SPEAKER_01This was 2018. I had to.
SPEAKER_04Okay, I can tell you.
SPEAKER_01I would say probably the beginning of 2018, and then I started filming in March.
SPEAKER_04So not three months later.
SPEAKER_01I told her, I told her that I was going on the show. I didn't know. You told her? Yeah, yeah. I didn't get on the show. Okay. Yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_04He told her.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, I told her. I told, yeah. Like, even like I picked a good one. I told my exes, even. You know what I mean? You told your exes?
SPEAKER_04Why? Because were you scared that they were gonna come out with some shit?
SPEAKER_01No, I didn't want them to be abrupt. No, I have no shit for any of my exes. I had no bad relationship with any of my exes.
SPEAKER_04I can name a couple.
SPEAKER_01Pre-show. Pre-show. Okay, pre-show. Touche.
SPEAKER_04Uh, okay, wait. Okay. So you told the person. All right.
SPEAKER_01So that's the difference in the that is the difference, but I will say the the crazy part that she said about him then reaching out and asking for dinner. Again, is he supposed to not date again if after the show?
SPEAKER_04That's the lose-lose of it all, unless he did find love on it, which the statistics and the odds and everything. Right, but that's what I'm saying. Like, it is such a lose-lose situation where because you're not like, like, what is she supposed to be? Oh, like you didn't like me enough to not go on this dating show, but now you do like me enough to go out on a date with me afterward, after you like fucked it up. She he's done.
SPEAKER_01And well, unless she really liked him, I would, yeah. I don't know if I'd go on a date with him.
SPEAKER_04But uh he's I feel like that would be like the start of your relationship, and that's but it's happened a ton.
SPEAKER_01You know how many people go back to their exes before the show and marry them?
SPEAKER_04Yeah, it does work.
SPEAKER_01It happens a lot.
SPEAKER_04An ex. They weren't even exes, which is more of okay, okay.
SPEAKER_01Do you know what I mean? But also, Katie, uh, name drop. Can we get the name of whoever this person is?
SPEAKER_04What show?
SPEAKER_01What show was it? What show was it? Let us narrow it down. I'm curious. But that happens a lot, but I do think it happens where they'll go back to an ex. Because I feel like you learn a lot through the you learn a lot, and you're like, oh my god, I know what I want, I know who I am, I know what's wrong with me. It's therapy.
SPEAKER_04Yeah. I mean, there's a daisy name I was gonna say Daisy, she's about to get married to him. She's about to get married to him, yeah. There's a few, there's a few.
SPEAKER_01There's nothing you'd be shocked. Uh-huh. So I don't think he's like this terrible person.
SPEAKER_04I don't think he's a terrible person. I just think it's such a common story in the reality TV world. Yeah, yeah, it is. Yeah.
SPEAKER_01So at least she's not out there dropping, like, I don't know, trying to like get the tea and get insta-famous or something. Right. And like just saying. So shout out to you, Katie, for being a good one. Yeah.
SPEAKER_04Shout out to you, Katie, for not taking the opportunity that isn't really an opportunity. To have a few TikToks go viral. Post a TikTok and say, well, we dated, and now he doesn't talk to me anymore.
SPEAKER_01And try and make him look oh, yeah. No, shout out to Katie. Uh, okay, it's your last one.
SPEAKER_04The story was sent in by Michelle A. I went to my boyfriend's family's house for the first time and noticed there were pictures of him and his ex everywhere. Not just one or two. It was like an entire wall. Oh no. His mom apologized and said she hadn't gotten around to updating the pictures yet. It's been a year and she still hasn't taken them down.
SPEAKER_01That's crazy.
SPEAKER_04Okay, this is what you do. You give her new photos. I get it. It's a pain. It's a pain.
SPEAKER_01No, it's not on her. It's on him, the boyfriend. You can't. It would be weird as hell if I went to my mom's house and there was still a picture of me on the wall with my ex from a year ago. No, no, it'd be on me. I'd be like, mom, you gotta change that. I'll give you a photo. Like put a family photo, put my baby picture, something. That's on him, not on the mom.
SPEAKER_04Or just like even fold it. Like keeping it. Take the film off and like cut her out.
SPEAKER_01Oh, don't do the old cut out.
SPEAKER_04Cut her out.
SPEAKER_01But I that's another thing. Like, what kind of photos? Because like are we talking like, is it like a big family photo that everybody looks really cute and she just happened to be in it? Or is it like a photo of just them? Because that's crazy.
SPEAKER_04Oh shit.
SPEAKER_01That's crazy. That would be gotta take that down.
SPEAKER_04I would if I were Michelle, I would have taken it down for it.
SPEAKER_01Or just say, like, how would you feel as Michelle? Would you would you have said something? It sounds like her mom said something about her ass.
SPEAKER_04I mean, a year later.
SPEAKER_01A year's crazy.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, I would say something. I'm just thinking about the relationship with like with my mother-in-law. Like, I would probably be sitting there having a glass of wine and just being like, So can we take these down now? I feel like I'm gonna eat it. Yeah, I'll make a joke about it.
SPEAKER_01I'd be like, she Michelle should make a joke out of it.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, just like be silly about it. It's literally not that serious.
SPEAKER_01Or it would be funny too to bring a bunch of photos up. Yeah, yeah. Like, so I made it easy for you.
SPEAKER_04I would be cute and silly and quirky because at the end of the day, short maybe these maybe she really likes the mom, really likes the way she looks in these pictures. Exactly, exactly. That's what I'm like.
SPEAKER_01But that is weird. That would be awkward. I would be feel very awkward if I walked into your house and you had pictures. You and Damien all over the freaking house. That would be rough. I'd be that'd be that'd be weird. That'd be weird.
SPEAKER_04I don't think we have no.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, bring bring photos to change the frames for the show.
SPEAKER_04And be cute and funny and like make a wine night out of it with his mom.
SPEAKER_01Uh cool. Well, that was fun. We need to do those more often. We have the questions, obviously, you guys send in by like.
SPEAKER_04I mean, they're getting juicier and juicier. These are great, but I do, I am gonna request something else from you guys. I need to know, I need to know a little bit more. I need to know. I need to know more details. A little bit more details, like ages, uh, maybe where you're from. Like, maybe, like, you know how Dumois has like her little like subject line. I feel like we should have something like that. I want to know ages, where you're from. And if you have something juicy, like this man was on a show, name the show. You're not under NDA. It's fine, no big deal.
SPEAKER_01No, that's fun though. Uh, we won't do more of those. And we love interacting with you guys, obviously. Thank you so much for all the support and stuff because it's always it's always fun to hear from the fans out there. And we're just getting started, man. We're 11 episodes in. 11 episodes in. We're just getting started.
SPEAKER_04Um, that's my second longest relationship besides you.
SPEAKER_03Oh no, so great.
SPEAKER_04Thank you guys so much for hanging out with us. Um, always like, comment, and subscribe because we have so many more fun guests, conversations, and weird behind the scenes too, though. We just stumble in a pod. So you don't want to miss it. And let us know what you thought about this one.
SPEAKER_00Yeah. See you next time.
SPEAKER_04See you next Thursday. Said what?
SPEAKER_00No way she said that.