We Took Them How Far?! The Next Chapter Gets Real

Welcome back, Sexy Vampires… the Origin Story isn’t cooling off—it’s heating up.

In Part 2 with Clay and Leanne, we pick up right where things left off. The poolside tension, the blurred lines, the “did that really just happen?” moment… yeah, we’re diving straight back into it.

But this time, we go further.

We talk about what happened after that unforgettable night—how everyone processed it, what was said (and what wasn’t), and whether that spark turned into something more… or got tucked away.

Then we take it beyond that moment:

•  Their first real glimpse behind the curtain into the lifestyle 
•  Walking into a swinger club for the first time—nerves, curiosity, and all 
•  A wild trip to Costa Rica that may have pushed boundaries even further 

And of course, we get real about the emotions that come with it all:

•  Jealousy vs. excitement 
•  “What the hell did we just do?” moments 
•  Reconnecting, reclaiming, and whether it brought them closer 

So where do Clay and Leanne stand now?
 Was that just a chapter… or the beginning of something bigger?

We wrap it up with gratitude, honesty, and a reminder that everyone’s journey in this space looks a little different—and that’s exactly what makes it real.

Because trust us…
 this story might be wrapping up—but the conversations are just getting started.

Transcript

SPEAKER_01 0:00

This podcast is intended for adults 18 years and older. We keep things honest, open, and sometimes we get a little spicy with conversations about relationships, lifestyle, and experiences meant to be fun, entertaining, and oh very real. Everything shared on the sexy swinging vampires is based on our personal opinions and experiences. We're not professionals or experts. We're just having sexy, fun conversations and inviting you in along for the ride. Listener discretion is advised, and a sense of humor is highly recommended.

SPEAKER_05 0:51

Brittany Bitch, it is episode three. Welcome back, all you sexy vampires. I'm Brad, and this is my wife.

SPEAKER_01 1:00

Hi, I'm Britney Bit. Welcome to Sexy Swinging Vampires.

SPEAKER_05 1:05

We are sexy swinging vampires. Thanks for downloading our episode three. Yes, we're young, but we're not new to podcasting, right? No. We've been doing it for a while.

SPEAKER_01 1:17

We started with two plus two, if you heard us in the past, Brad and Brittany.

SPEAKER_05 1:21

Yep.

SPEAKER_01 1:21

And we were with um Zach and Josie before, and now we are taking on a new flavor.

SPEAKER_05 1:27

Doing our own deal.

SPEAKER_01 1:28

And bringing others along with the colour.

SPEAKER_05 1:30

We love people around. Yes. Other sexy vampires too. So we have something very cool I want to share. I did this in the last podcast. I gotta make sure you guys all know this too, because we have that thing called fan mail. I'm not kidding. Like that is the coolest fucking thing I've I have done so far.

SPEAKER_01 1:45

Love fan mail. Okay, really quickly before you go into this.

SPEAKER_05 1:48

Sure.

SPEAKER_01 1:48

So I will say when we were even on two plus two, or if we weren't on for a week, or even when we left, everybody was reaching out saying, What the hell? Where did Brad and Brittany go? So I appreciate you guys. We're here. Please reach out to us. And Brad, how do they do that?

SPEAKER_05 2:06

Well, when you're in the fan mail, it is a link that's actually in the platform that you're probably listening to right now, whether it's Spotify or if it's uh Apple or even if you're on Buzz Sprouts or some other one, it's always in the show notes. So you click on it, and it gives you two options. You can either leave us a voicemail or you can actually text us. And we go, it goes directly to our phone into the app, and then we can respond to you right away.

SPEAKER_01 2:28

I would love to hear what our listeners want to hear if they have questions. And I mean, ultimately, again, we are not the experts. No.

SPEAKER_05 2:38

Oh no, I say we are.

SPEAKER_01 2:39

Well, yeah. I am definitely the experts.

SPEAKER_05 2:41

Everything that I tell you, you should do.

SPEAKER_01 2:43

And please don't.

SPEAKER_05 2:45

Don't. Okay. So uh so give it a try. And uh one other thing too. I want you guys to give us a rating. I mean, you're in there, you might as well. There's the stars are right there. Whether we're a one, whether we're a five, whatever, go right ahead. I'm I'm listening and I'm open to it.

SPEAKER_01 2:58

Okay. Don't give us a one. Like, let's be clear. I mean, I'm sexier than a one.

SPEAKER_05 3:03

Okay, I would agree. There's no doubt about it. So, all right, how else can they find us, Brittany?

SPEAKER_01 3:07

Um, so I prefer Instagram. If we do have an Instagram page, look up vampires, Brad, and Brittany. You can follow us, like us. Um, we will showcase where we're going, what we're doing. You can also message us. Um, we'll show our episodes, anything you want to know.

SPEAKER_05 3:25

Absolutely. So awesome. That's good stuff. So you guys have your marching orders, so do it. All right. So when we left, the last time we talked to you guys, when we left on episode uh number two, it was our origin story, which, you know, was a little different than most people's, but you know, everyone has one.

SPEAKER_01 3:42

I don't, I mean, is it? Because you kind of have to step in one way or the other. True.

SPEAKER_05 3:47

Right? Right, yeah. But we did it differently. We brought our great friends that we were there. So we have back again is Leanne and Clay. Thank you guys for sitting in one more time.

SPEAKER_01 3:58

Hi, guys. Hello.

SPEAKER_05 3:59

Were we gentle the first time? Did we make it easy on the video? No, so easy.

SPEAKER_02 4:03

So easy. Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 4:04

Yeah. You went.

SPEAKER_02 4:05

We're not scared anymore.

SPEAKER_04 4:06

But you're not scared. I am gonna say people have to know that we are the original vampires. Oh, tell us more. Good, Clay. I'm just saying. Share with us. I think the first time it wasn't quite a vampire bite, it might have been more like a mosquito bite.

SPEAKER_00 4:25

Or like you you tasted me and then you had to bite.

SPEAKER_04 4:29

There, there you go. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 4:30

Oh, actually, I tasted Leanne. You tasted Leanne.

SPEAKER_05 4:34

That's right. All right. So does it so did you does everybody here feel like we covered all the bases in the original, like in episode two from our origin story?

SPEAKER_01 4:43

Does anybody have a different view?

SPEAKER_05 4:44

Yeah, like after I mean, we left and now we're back. So were you guys thinking about it? Anything that we might have left out?

SPEAKER_04 4:50

No, no, no. No, I think I was extremely pretty accurate.

SPEAKER_05 4:52

How about you, Brittany Bitch? What do you think?

SPEAKER_01 4:54

No, I so it's so interesting. I still have a clear view, and maybe it's because it's that one moment in time that changes your life. Right. Yeah. It was fascinating. You guys changed my life.

SPEAKER_05 5:06

It changed our life, and you know what? We can't go backwards on this, and I don't regret any of it. I don't either. You guys seem like you're okay with that, true?

SPEAKER_04 5:11

Oh, yes.

SPEAKER_02 5:12

Oh, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 5:13

I I do have one question.

SPEAKER_04 5:14

Does this um video from your camera still exist? Oh, what a great question.

SPEAKER_05 5:22

You're right, because we had a security camera. I was like, yeah, we never saw the video.

SPEAKER_04 5:26

Okay, so there's still evidence out there.

SPEAKER_01 5:28

I don't think so. But I will say, so part of it was the I think the next couple days, because going back, if you haven't listened to episode two, there was an episode or a scene that happened in the pool. And with that, we had cameras throughout our yard. So the next day, Brad and I were like, what the fuck happened? Right. So we were like, okay, rewind, rewind, rewind, and then we kind of watch through what happened, and then, you know, it is what it is.

SPEAKER_05 5:59

Like Brittany Bitch always does, though. She only watches a video. If we ever record ourselves like having sex with another couple, she barely watches it. I watched it.

SPEAKER_01 6:08

I like, or I watch the parts I like.

SPEAKER_05 6:11

Yeah, so I I watch it all the time. And I was literally like, okay, rewind. I zoomed in, I tried, and it was like looking at a fucking blackberry. You know what I'm saying? It was such so granulated. I couldn't see a goddamn thing.

SPEAKER_01 6:21

There wasn't a lot to it that is exactly. Wow, it was terrible. And that's all it was.

SPEAKER_05 6:25

I'm like, did Brittany Bitch touch his fucking dick? I know she touched his dick. I swear to God, there's two hands on that fucking thing. God damn it, she lied to me. She did two off. She didn't. She put two on there, Clay.

SPEAKER_01 6:35

But Clay, going back to it, I know that DVR is it's gone. Sorry. I know. And we didn't, I don't think we shared with you like that. Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 6:44

I know. Well, we were well again. So we talked about on the last episode. We really didn't talk about it that much afterwards, right? We did not explore it anymore. We didn't sit down. And even at dinner, I don't remember. Maybe we did, but I don't remember us talking about it. Like sitting other outside of text, and maybe that few minutes in the morning when they came over to grab their clothes, it wasn't a big conversation, was it?

SPEAKER_01 7:06

No. Yeah. I mean, for us, it would so Brad, you brought it up. Like, how do you have a conversation about I'm thinking about somebody else during sex? Or like what does that look like? So I mean, here we are.

SPEAKER_02 7:20

Obviously, today now we talk about it a lot, but the next time that it was actually brought up to us, you guys were in Vegas. And I got a text from Brittany for us to come to Vegas. Okay. And I was like, I mean, we can't. I think I had a broken arm, if I remember right. I don't remember. Maybe break your wrist. Yeah. Something happened, but but it was insinuated why you wanted us to come to Vegas. And I was like, oh shit. Oh yeah, I think so. So I think that honestly was the the next time we actually talked about it openly.

SPEAKER_01 8:02

I think yeah. Like it was dead silence for a couple years. So all right, let's fast forward a couple years. Brad and I didn't really talk about anything. Um, and we hadn't so it did spice up our sex life, and we started talking a lot more about what do we want, how do we want our sex life to go? So I will say, and I'll give you guys credit, like that opened up a lot of conversation once I got through my mental like elements of okay, what does sex mean? How do you have sex? What like is it okay to think about another guy or a woman? Right. Um, and then from that perspective, I still wasn't thinking lifestyle. However, we did go to Vegas and a couple approached me in the pool and was like, hey, we're here. Um, we usually come here and we're seeking out couples to have sex with. So what do you think? And the funny thing was, and we will get into this next, we were with my cousin and his wife, who happened to be getting married that weekend. You guys know my cousins, and they were or so I was just kind of like after this uh approach of them, I walked up to all of them and was like, they're fucking hot, but what do I do?

SPEAKER_05 9:26

So we didn't know what to do.

SPEAKER_01 9:28

Yeah, and then my cousin's like, Well, you can have our cabana if you want.

SPEAKER_05 9:32

I know he was so open to that, which was amazing. So now, so the journey isn't done for Brad and Brittany, as you guys all know. Everybody listening that knows that with that Brad and Brittany, we have been in this lifestyle five, six years now, right? So we are full swap, we go on trips.

SPEAKER_01 9:48

Let's hurry and clarify this. So our experience started in 2019 with these two, yes, and I would say that's kind of the first lick, okay, as you call it.

SPEAKER_05 9:59

The mosquito bite.

SPEAKER_01 9:59

Okay, the mosquito bite. And then two years, so that was Labor Day, two years later, New Year's. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 10:07

So that was COVID bullshit. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 10:10

So 2021 in Vegas, New Year's Eve. So now we're 2026, so five years, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 10:18

Yeah, so five years. I think that's when we we might have come home, I think, after that, and I was going down on you while you were watching porn, right? And I asked you what kind of porn do you like? And you said, I like group.

SPEAKER_00 10:33

Porn.

SPEAKER_05 10:33

Porn. You will watch that.

SPEAKER_00 10:36

Did you guys know this?

SPEAKER_05 10:37

Did you guys know this? We did not. What kind of porn do you guys like, real quick? I just want to hear this.

SPEAKER_01 10:41

Yeah, what do you what do you watch when you're probably more group?

SPEAKER_05 10:46

Clay, would you agree?

SPEAKER_04 10:47

I would agree. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 10:48

Clay watches more porn than I do. Yeah, it's not Brad is like a stepmom.

SPEAKER_05 10:55

I do like stepmom. I like step something porn. I do. I'm such a perv. I know that. So what? But but what about you, Clay? So you like do you like watching two-on-two? Do you like two girls, one guy?

SPEAKER_04 11:06

No, it just, you know, it would have to be like one-on-one.

SPEAKER_05 11:10

One on one? Yeah. So everybody has a partner, is what you're saying. Yeah, exactly. Gotcha, gotcha, gotcha. So yeah. I mean, that's fine.

SPEAKER_01 11:15

So Leanne, you're the same. Your group just free for all? Or I would say more free-for-all, yeah. Okay.

SPEAKER_05 11:21

Okay. All right. So it's our so that's our journey. So what about you two? So where's your journey at this moment? I know we touched a little bit on the last episode, but at this moment, has your brain starting to like, okay, you're more open-minded? Like, what is what might be next for Clay and Leanne? And it could be we're we're good where we're at. It could be like, eh, we'll look at some more, or I don't know.

SPEAKER_04 11:48

I think right now we're kind of in the adjacent area. Yep. Um, we like being around everyone. Uh it doesn't bother us when things are going on and we're cooking dinner. We always call it dinner in a show.

SPEAKER_02 12:04

We could I think it definitely turns us on.

SPEAKER_04 12:07

Yeah, absolutely.

SPEAKER_02 12:08

But we don't necessarily have to join in, join in, I guess, is kind of where we're at. Like we enjoy watching and enjoying the atmosphere of it and the people because I, you know, but I don't think at this point we're not ready to join in.

SPEAKER_05 12:22

Jump in at that point.

SPEAKER_02 12:23

So but that doesn't mean we're like completely closed off from it either.

SPEAKER_05 12:26

We're just kind of like, well, listen, I think that this sneaks, I would say, I wouldn't say sneaks up on you, but I'm trying to say the word sneaks up on you. But it it literally is all of a sudden one day you kind of go, Okay, you know what? For us, I know Britney and I, we're like, okay, one day we're vanilla, and then shortly thereafter, we're like, we have the conversation, like real deep, authentic conversation of should we do this? And I I was terrified to ask Britney that question. Like, what kind of I was. I mean, I know I had you in a vulnerable state because I mean Well, you were in my crime. I was, but I mean, that's I mean, listen. He was going down on me and like You know, I know how to if I asked you this like right after work, like when you came home, yeah, exactly. Yeah, I'd be like, no, that's not a good time.

SPEAKER_01 13:12

Leanne, if you're giving Clay a blowjob and you want something, you know you're gonna give him a blowjob and be like, hey, baby, I need this. And he's gonna be like, Yeah, whatever, baby. I'm good. Right? I mean, we all know what each other if if I want something, I know what to do to Brad.

SPEAKER_05 13:30

Right, and you guys know, you guys are you now you guys, as as you said, you guys are are fine, you have no problem. But let's touch on some other lifestyle stuff that we exposed you to, or at least I thought we did. Right? So after after our Okay, really quick.

SPEAKER_01 13:44

So okay, just backing up.

SPEAKER_05 13:45

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 13:46

So we go to Vegas, Brad and I are there, and granted, we had not even really dabbed or dabbled in it. It was kind of like, okay, this was sexy. But then also too, and correct me if I'm wrong, Brad, but like there's a high and a low in sex in life. So I think we were coming down kind of after our two our two years of just kind of getting into a complacent rhythm rhythm. Nothing wrong with that, if that's what your life is. Um, but also too, so we go to Vegas and now people are hitting on us. It's like, well, this is fucking hot. Like, what do we do? Do we want this? I'm experiencing this, like somebody's hitting on me. Is Brad okay? Whatever it may be. So then, of course, because I'm like, okay, what's my comfort level? Let me reach out to people that I'm comfortable with because we've already dabbled in somewhat of this. And it's like, okay, now where do we go next? And that's where I think it opened up more conversation for Brad and I to be like, okay, is this a possibility? So from that perspective, are we now? We're Brad and I are talking about like, okay, would you have sex with Leanne and would you have sex with Clay? And what does that mean? And where do we go? And what does it mean for anybody else? So just kind of painting that picture of how do we evolve into our next steps of questions? And I think even just the conversation of us having an open conversation, and Brad, correct me if I'm wrong, but now it opened up the conversation for you to be like, yeah, I thought about Leanne and this is hot. And then I felt okay being like, yeah, and I was okay grabbing Clay's cock and thinking about this.

SPEAKER_05 15:30

No, I think no, I'm not gonna correct you because you're not wrong. Because you are absolutely right. Because that's the thing. It's you know, it it's it's literally that that sensitive time or that window of opportunity to actually talk to your partner about this. Because I had no that's I think that was probably one of our biggest fear. Maybe it was just for me, but Oh, I was afraid too.

SPEAKER_01 15:47

We were terrified. I didn't want to put you down.

SPEAKER_05 15:50

No, I you want to make me feel insecure, you don't want to make me feel and vice versa. I don't want you to think that I'm like, because I fantasized about Leanne, right?

SPEAKER_00 15:57

And then all of a sudden, fantasized about her too much.

SPEAKER_05 15:59

I'm sure you did, but like we didn't say the words. That's the hard part about it. But if we did, do you think we would jump in sooner? I think yes, we might have. Probably, maybe, you know, I don't know. So all right, let's quickly touch on some of the other lifestyle stuff that we exposed you guys to. So we we talked um we didn't talk about this yet, but we went to a lifestyle club. So Brittany Bitch and I were two years now since our our very, very soft swap origin story, we're in, and now we're going to these lifestyle clubs. And then you guys joined us at that point, right? We went to a place called the sweet spot. It was the hive at the moment at that time. You guys walked in through the curtain of this basically this secret society. Did you guys know it existed at the time that there's they that we actually have these swinger lifestyle clubs in this time?

SPEAKER_04 16:56

I was not aware of it.

SPEAKER_05 16:57

What about you, Liam?

SPEAKER_02 16:58

No, oh I mean, I knew there were worlds out there besides yes and no, yes. Uh we had friends that you know dabbled in different not that maybe, yeah, but spaping parties.

SPEAKER_04 17:16

I didn't realize there was something so close by to it.

SPEAKER_02 17:18

So yeah, I guess it was more like, yeah, that it was we're like, oh, yeah, okay. Right. But I knew there was like an underground world. There we go. Like a secret world of like you know, yes.

SPEAKER_04 17:29

Eyes Wide Shut.

SPEAKER_00 17:30

Yes.

SPEAKER_02 17:31

With these.

SPEAKER_00 17:31

Okay, wait, really quickly, have you watched Eyes Wide Shut?

SPEAKER_04 17:35

I love that movie. You do? Oh, yeah.

SPEAKER_00 17:37

It is the craziest serious horrible. Oh my god.

SPEAKER_04 17:41

No, it is the craziest thing because yeah, it opens your eyes to the possibility, but there truly are oh yeah, cultish society these cultist societies and and things like that. I I'm very aware of that, but I guess where we live, I didn't realize there was something so close by. Sure.

SPEAKER_01 18:03

And you know, and now your eyes are wide open. My eyes, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 18:08

So that that by the way, you know, I'm glad, Clay, that you like that. Um we're still gonna be friends. Just that's why I laugh at that movie because I I thought that was the biggest fucking waste of time.

SPEAKER_04 18:19

Okay, well, Nicole could be in the street. I love I mean she's hot.

SPEAKER_01 18:22

Somebody told us, like, hey, that's a swingers movie. So of course Brad and I were like, well, we better watch it. And then the entire time we're like, what the f so bad.

SPEAKER_04 18:30

But see, I didn't, I guess I don't take that as a swinger or lifestyle movie. Good. Yeah, I take that as that's a secret society cult, yeah. That's yeah, which is completely different than what I would consider the lifestyle.

SPEAKER_01 18:44

Okay, and that I guess is the good differentiator, right? Whereas people were like, oh, that's a swingers show, and we're watching it going that is not the swingers, yeah.

SPEAKER_04 18:57

Who with power and money bring all these women in to do their thing. That's not the lifestyle.

SPEAKER_01 19:03

That's yes, I would that's a different thing, but the whole piano thing, sorry.

SPEAKER_05 19:08

Yeah, well if you keep talking about that, that fucking ding, that D note that's still in my brain. So, Leanne, when you walked in to the sweet spot, the hive at the time, you walked into this room, right? And you're like, okay, we're going into this lifestyle place. What did you think you were going to see the very first like you walked in there and you know it's kind of dark. It's you know, there's a bar and there's music playing and all this kind of stuff, and there's people sitting. What did you see though? Like, what was your initial thought when you walked in the door?

SPEAKER_02 19:39

Um, I can't say that anything I was like surprised by. Like, it wasn't crazy, I guess in your head, crazy orgy fest, right?

SPEAKER_05 19:49

Were you expecting that though at all?

SPEAKER_02 19:50

Kind of, maybe.

SPEAKER_05 19:51

You were okay. Like people were gonna be naked right away.

SPEAKER_02 19:53

I think there were rooms that people could keep the door open or close the door. Yeah. Um there was some kind of the one room where they were, I don't know if they were hanging, like whatever they were hitting the girl with whips. Yeah, crossed St.

SPEAKER_05 20:07

Andrews, right?

SPEAKER_02 20:09

I was like, That's hot. Yeah. And that one I was like, ouch. Oh, really? See, I'm like, remember I said ouch, and the guy was like, Why are you watching then? I was like, Oh, I'm sorry. Like, I guess I shouldn't watch.

SPEAKER_05 20:19

I'm new, motherfucker, leave me alone.

SPEAKER_02 20:20

Yeah, I was like, Oh, okay, never mind. Um, but it wasn't like I guess I'm not shocked by anything in life. No, I guess I don't know. Is that bad? No, maybe that's bad. No, I don't think so.

SPEAKER_05 20:33

How about you, Clay? You walked in the door and you walked through the curtain where all the vampires hang out together. Because you know, we only hang out, we only hang out at night. I mean, we hang out, we hang out with each other, and once you're bit, you're always a vampire. We're a sacred society, and you cannot tell anybody that you are a vampire. That's how we're discreet. So, what did you see?

SPEAKER_04 20:53

And and it wasn't it wasn't like a bunch of naked people running around having a giant orgy. There there were the rooms, and I know Leanne and I talked later, like Okay, we could go into one of them rooms and have sex, and if people watched, okay.

SPEAKER_02 21:12

Yeah, and we did have really good sex that night. We did have a lot of time. Oh my god. Did you? Yeah. Oh yeah, we had amazing sex. Okay.

SPEAKER_04 21:17

It wasn't, it was kind of one of those things where we thought, all right, we're we're not gonna go in there and play with other another couple or anything like that, but if someone wanted to watch us, I'm okay with that.

SPEAKER_01 21:29

You guys are almost exhibitionists.

SPEAKER_04 21:31

Exactly, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 21:32

Yeah. Which is super hot too, just so you know.

SPEAKER_05 21:35

Well, f what fired you guys up though? Like what what that night? Why'd you guys get all like sexy and everything? Like, what made you guys was it the the environment or was the fact that Britney threw a woman on top of me and instantly I had to make it. Remember that one? She was she was really pretty.

SPEAKER_03 21:52

She's really pretty.

SPEAKER_05 21:53

What and what did what did you what did uh remember Brittany what Leanne said to you?

SPEAKER_01 21:57

Leanne's like, um, so how do you Really feel about this.

SPEAKER_05 22:01

Are you okay with this?

SPEAKER_02 22:02

I did say that. I did say that. I was like, yeah, it's a little bit more than that. Because I was I was noticing that the women were very attractive. Yes. They were very pretty girls. But the men, not so much. So I was like, We talk about that. So we did talk about that. I was like, you gotta, you know, I remember you telling me after you'd have to lower your standards. And I was like, what?

SPEAKER_05 22:24

I didn't say that. Did I say that?

SPEAKER_02 22:25

You did.

SPEAKER_05 22:26

Well shit.

SPEAKER_02 22:27

You told me that nines and tens don't necessarily exist. This was early on.

SPEAKER_05 22:32

Okay.

SPEAKER_02 22:32

That sometimes you have to come down to fives or sixes. And I was like, oh, I don't think I'm okay with a five or six. If that do you remember you don't know what to do, I remember that conversation.

SPEAKER_05 22:41

But I it's possible I said that. I'm sure. If you if you said it, I I'm I believe you. But I think now things have changed, obviously, because it to your point, it's that was like early on for us.

SPEAKER_02 22:49

That's what I mean. So it was early.

SPEAKER_05 22:51

So Brittany Bitch is my nine and ten. You know what I'm saying? So who's gonna get better for that? You know what I'm saying? So I guess maybe that's where I was going with it. Like, okay, listen, you gotta exp if you're looking for a clay, and that's what you told me. You're not gonna find a clay. And you did tell me that.

SPEAKER_02 23:04

You're like, well, you're and that's when you said you might have to lower your standards. And I was like, well, but the women are pretty, that's not fair. Why does he get a prettier girl? And I get this, like that's what you think.

SPEAKER_05 23:13

That's your that's just fat girls. No, you don't.

SPEAKER_02 23:16

Which they're very good looking men, don't like you're very handsome.

SPEAKER_05 23:20

Thank you.

SPEAKER_02 23:21

So that's not, you know, but that's in that atmosphere that night. That's what I was noticing.

SPEAKER_05 23:27

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 23:27

And I was like, ooh, no, thank you.

SPEAKER_05 23:30

It can happen that way for sure. And I think as we evolved, Brittany and I, we have gone to this, you know, we we whether uh I don't know the word, it's not a five or six type of thing, but it could be. But you can elevate because of your energy, your personality, your well, so what we talk about, there is a scale, right?

SPEAKER_01 23:48

But everybody's scale is subjective. And in addition, so I will say, even this weekend, and I'm just gonna use this as an example, Brad was looking at a gentleman saying, God, he is a nine, and I was looking at him going, it doesn't do it for me, right? Like what I perceive as a nine or what he perceives as a nine is completely different. So what this the sliding scale, right, can be physicality plus personality plus all these other things. And that's what we're learning in this lifestyle, is it's not necessarily the onset of somebody from a physicality standpoint, and it goes for me, and this is the hard part for poor Brad, is I have to look at both the men and the women where he's like, Oh, I just look at the woman. That's what I mean. I feel like for us, it's a little yeah, would be a little different.

SPEAKER_04 24:40

I I think that night when I looked around the rooms and stuff like that, there were several very attractive women, there really were.

SPEAKER_01 24:49

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 24:50

But I didn't see a guy that I thought And you have to be attracted to that too.

SPEAKER_01 24:55

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 24:56

For her to be attracted to. So it it was kind of like, okay, well, not that this was going to happen anyway, but that's in the back would be in the back of my mind is well, and here's the one thing you have to consider.

SPEAKER_01 25:11

So when I say man and woman, I look at what I want to see Brad fucking. If I give him a woman that I don't want to see him have sex with, that's not going to be a term. Brad ain't having sex with her. Yeah, exactly. And that's it. So same thing with Brad. He's not going to give me a man that he's like, that's not gonna be attractive to see her have sex with. Because at the end of the day, it is a life porn in my mind, right? Where like you want to see each other having sex and you want to see all of these things happen, whether you do or don't, you're still going to see it happening. If you're with somebody that you do not find your spouse attractive with, then it doesn't turn you on.

SPEAKER_05 26:02

And here's the hard part, Clay, though. This is what I've learned as I've evolved into this lifestyle is I cannot find the right guy for Britney Bitch. Like, I can't I'm all over the place. I it's well, it and I it's it's so what you to your point though, you're like, I I don't know, I want to see my wife with XYZ person, right? And I've seen her play with amazing guys, I'm like, yeah, that's totally her style. And then I see another guy, I'm like, all right, dad bod guy, I'm like, what's going on over here? I'm like, now she's like, no, he's really nice.

SPEAKER_01 26:31

He pays attention, he pays attention, he does he like fully attentive to the body.

SPEAKER_05 26:34

So my point to you, Clay, though, is never ever assume what Leanne might like. That's the whole thing. And so, and I'm I'm kind of funny, but not funny with this type of thing. But it is the truth, right, Brittany, because I if I serve up a nine to you, right? A guy, I'm like, oh, total stud. He's gotta be her type, like muscular guy can throw me around, blah, blah, blah. And she's like, I'm not talking to him. I'm like, you don't even know his fucking personality. I'm like, and in that in that particular night.

SPEAKER_01 27:01

You tried that this this last year. This past weekend, though. We were there. Whatever.

SPEAKER_05 27:05

But I think you were you were not in the mindset too. I think you were a little, you were grumpy pants that time, that night, too. You were not, you were not. If I served it up, it was because the so the wife, she immediately I was not attracted to the wife. She was not bad looking, though. But she made out with me. She came up to me and she started kissing me. And so I'm like, oh, I saw the husband. I'm like, this ain't gonna be bad. Like, we got a shot at this. I don't know. But it's not unusual that Britney will make out with a guy and I'm standing there kind of talking to the wife, and vice versa. But it was just, it was not the right vibe at that moment. So totally and then we moved on from that point a bit, right, Brittany? Yes, it was okay. I mean, it's fine, it happens, it's so weird.

SPEAKER_01 27:39

But my point to you play the energy vibe moment of like what happens. And I mean, unfortunately, uh Brad does have to deal with my moments of time. Like, if and especially the women, if they do something at the moment in time and they just like jump all over my husband without my consent, I'm automatically shut off just the entire to the entire event. And whether it's right or wrong, like that's just me.

SPEAKER_02 28:10

So that's how I think I would feel.

SPEAKER_01 28:12

And you know, at the same time, and we're working through that. Like, how does how do we get through that? But you know what? We're in it together, and that's the only thing that's matter that matters, is at the end of the day, we both have to be consensual, we both have to be on board, and that's when we have fun. If we're not on board, we're out.

SPEAKER_05 28:31

So we brought you guys to a foreign country. That was another fun one.

SPEAKER_04 28:37

So um a foreign country that we happen to love, which you guys happen to love.

SPEAKER_05 28:41

I wrote that down on my notes here too, yes. And it was you guys were kind of our our you know, our our chaperones. Kind of our chaperones, uh, made sure that we weren't gonna get murdered with this.

SPEAKER_00 28:50

No one's gonna die.

SPEAKER_05 28:52

We went to a very secluded uh sex house in Costa Rica.

SPEAKER_01 28:55

Well, let's paint this picture a little bit. Please do, Brittany, go for it. So Brad and I go to Desire, right? Yeah, and this is November. We go to Desire and we meet this couple. Now, mind you, you guys know we're in the lifestyle, but like, I mean, just kind of conversations here or there. Um, and then we meet this couple, we form a fast and furious friendship with them, but they're like, hey, we have a house in Costa Rica, you guys should come over in January. Well, of course, I'm like, well, yeah, let's go because it was fun and that we like them, but at the same time, like, this is a jungle. They could murder us and like drop our bodies off somewhere. A little bit little Texas, big Texas, yes, we're talking about you. Um, but we've already told them this too. So then we're like, okay, do we what do we do? How do we navigate this world of like we're going to this country, like third world country? We could be dropped off in a in a uh jungle jungle somewhere. And then what what happens next? So of course we're like, who else can we bring? Well, I mean, Leanne and Clay come to mind of our security blankets. They love they love Costa Rica, they're not judgmental, nope. They'll come along for the ride.

SPEAKER_05 30:15

We outnumbered those guys, as so we thought, at that moment. You know what I mean? Yeah. So it worked out great. But one of the things, Leanne, that you saw probably the very first, first, like really like up close porn type stuff, is watching Britney Bitch blow big Texas on the edge of the pool. Remember that one? Yeah, oh yeah. How did that make you feel? Britney Bitch, you okay?

SPEAKER_00 30:36

My hand got caught in the cookie jar.

SPEAKER_05 30:38

Yeah, no doubt about it. Was that like the first you saw? I mean, you saw me making out with the one girl. We didn't go too far. I might have kissed her tits a little bit.

SPEAKER_02 30:45

Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 30:45

But you literally saw like Oh yeah, she was having a good time. She was having a great time. Yeah. Clay, you saw the same thing.

SPEAKER_04 30:51

I did see the same thing.

SPEAKER_02 30:52

Okay.

SPEAKER_05 30:53

And what did you guys get spicy at that very moment?

SPEAKER_02 30:56

Pretty close after.

SPEAKER_05 30:58

You guys were in the shallow end of the pool.

SPEAKER_02 30:59

Because we were in the shallow end of the pool. Us in pools.

SPEAKER_01 31:02

I was gonna I was about to say, like, what is our interesting pools?

SPEAKER_04 31:07

Interestingly enough, it was maybe Well, we got there really late the night before. Right. Yes. So the next day when we got up and kind of had a chance to everybody meet and get into the pool. I think it took about 10 minutes for the tops to come off. That's true. Because the girls were like, Why do we have tops on? And away they went.

SPEAKER_02 31:27

I'm like, which was which was a first for me.

SPEAKER_05 31:29

Was that right? Yeah, you were off too, right?

SPEAKER_02 31:31

Yeah. Well, I was like, Well, they're doing it, I might as well do it. And I do like to be topless. I mean, I definitely enjoy my backyard, topless. So do you know?

SPEAKER_05 31:41

That's good.

SPEAKER_02 31:42

Yeah, I love it.

SPEAKER_05 31:43

So you felt comfortable just being like what were you guys thinking though? Like, again, so this I know you're I know you're comfortable, but at this is like the very first time you just saw your best friend put her mouth on another guy's dick on the edge of the pool.

SPEAKER_02 31:55

I mean, it happened quick for sure. I was like, oh, okay, here we go. Two feet in.

SPEAKER_05 32:01

Did you think that was gonna happen that fast?

SPEAKER_02 32:02

Not that fast, no, not that fast. But I mean, we were all feeling good at that point.

SPEAKER_01 32:06

I think um Big Texas was making margaritas, maybe they they had been serving margaritas. Yeah, I mean, we were uh we we had been drinking again, pulls drinking, it all kind of a social libertarian in the best fucking um house in Costa Rica. Well, and I mean beautiful exactly like their house is a phenomenal. Costa Rica is just yeah, but also too, let's just give props to Big Texas, Little Texas walking into their house. I don't think any of us realize like what we were walking into, and all of a sudden we're like, oh right?

SPEAKER_02 32:42

Oh yeah, yeah. I mean, the scenery is just would put anybody in a mood, so I fair. Yeah, so we didn't get me there.

SPEAKER_05 32:48

We kind of got down in dirty life. Probably like late morning or early afternoon.

SPEAKER_02 32:52

Yeah, it was definitely early afternoon.

SPEAKER_05 32:53

Yeah, it was it was eight. Yeah, it was early. It was very, very early. I had I I was playing with Little Texas on her. I was and that was so impromptu. I was not thinking that it was gonna happen right then and there.

SPEAKER_02 33:03

No, it happened quick for sure.

SPEAKER_05 33:04

It happened very, very quick.

SPEAKER_02 33:06

So and then so we were like, all right, let's go on the steps.

SPEAKER_05 33:08

And you guys went on the steps.

SPEAKER_01 33:10

So I did see you guys. Yeah, I think you were giving him a blowjob. Um, obviously it turned you guys on. She was really Leanne was giving Clay a blowjob on that. She was, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 33:23

So I must have been busy.

SPEAKER_01 33:25

Oh, you were busy. You were busy. You were on the other side. Because I would have lost the colour. Yeah, your head was in somebody's call.

SPEAKER_05 33:31

Oh, that's right. Yeah. Little Texas had me on the edge of the pool at that time.

SPEAKER_01 33:34

Yes. Yeah. So you can't just blame me. You always blame me.

SPEAKER_05 33:38

You're you are the starter. Yes, I are shenanigans. You are, exactly. What are the shenanigans that we have though in uh in Costa Rica as well? Because I think you hit on a little bit, Clay, right? You you were at dinner and a show. Because you guys weren't obviously playing with us and Big and Little Texas, but you guys were certainly in the environment.

SPEAKER_04 33:59

Oh yes. We we listened quite quite a bit.

SPEAKER_02 34:04

Well, I mean the door was open, so we definitely no, I don't know.

SPEAKER_05 34:11

What am I doing?

SPEAKER_01 34:12

I know. We didn't know what you guys were. No, we definitely would walk by and we're like, huh.

SPEAKER_05 34:17

Was that crazy though? Was that crazy to hear and see though?

SPEAKER_02 34:20

Holy shit.

SPEAKER_05 34:21

Really?

unknown 34:22

Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 34:22

What what m what what did you see? Describe it just for a second, like when you peeked in the door.

SPEAKER_02 34:26

I mean, we're just I mean, what do you see when people are having sex, like bouncing around and screaming? I was like, are you guys good? Did you see a blow going? A lot of screaming.

SPEAKER_05 34:35

Was Brittany bent over?

SPEAKER_02 34:37

I don't remember on that one. I might have been stirring the pasta that at that point.

SPEAKER_05 34:40

That's code for something.

SPEAKER_02 34:41

I mean, because we were definitely stirring the we were naked cooking pasta, which was great. Yeah, we were naked the whole time.

SPEAKER_01 34:47

I think all of us were naked for the most part the entire time. Yeah. I mean a little close here and there, but we'd come out and close and then they would come off.

SPEAKER_05 34:56

And so we were down there for probably about what five, six days, all of us together. And then there was one night where you guys were both on the balcony.

unknown 35:05

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 35:05

Yeah. We went to the biggest thing.

SPEAKER_05 35:06

Listening, hearing, and fucking up there in that magical place. Yes, it was.

SPEAKER_02 35:11

Our balcony was great. Yeah, we had a great time that night.

SPEAKER_05 35:14

You guys were busy.

SPEAKER_02 35:15

But you all were gonna have a good time, but it didn't happen as you think something.

SPEAKER_01 35:23

So I think we had at the end of the day. Too much to drink exactly at the end of the day, but there comes to a point in time where it's like we could hear and observe you guys on the balcony too, and that's super hot. So I think there is something to be said about sitting back and watching people or observing people and being in that moment, understanding like kind of that uh carnal um just carnage, yeah, sexual, primal like you're just jungle sex, right?

SPEAKER_05 35:54

Everybody's that's exactly what it is.

SPEAKER_01 35:57

Um, and then we did call it dinner and a show. So there have been times we have talked about you guys every night, I think. Yeah, exactly. And all of us. So little Texas, big Texas, us were like, oh, poor Clay and Leanne. Like they they cooked us dinner, but thank God for you guys because I've been otherwise, you guys would never have eaten.

SPEAKER_03 36:20

That's true.

SPEAKER_01 36:21

It would have been bad. Yes, we would not, it would have been like, oh, we're just having sex, let's go to bed. Yeah, no. I don't know. We're just having too good of a time. Clay, I will say one of my most favorite moments, and I mean, granted, sex was hot there, but one of my most favorite moments is we got done having sex. It was late at night, and Clay walks out of the room and he is buck ass naked, and he is chasing this bird. Fucking bird. Fucking bird. There's a lot of birds in this bird. Yeah, at night, the birds do not stop in Costa Rica. And this bird was sitting outside your window. It was freaking phenomenal.

SPEAKER_04 36:57

I'd go out the front door and throw rocks at the bird.

SPEAKER_01 36:59

It was one of my I mean, just seeing your ass like run through, and I'm like, we're we're walking out, we're like, what's going on, Clay? And you're like, fucking bird.

SPEAKER_05 37:09

Lily white ass running through the house.

SPEAKER_02 37:11

I was like, his white ass.

SPEAKER_01 37:12

Oh my god. But no, it was phenomenal. Like, if you were just picture at the end of a sex session, and then all of a sudden here comes Clay like running out, like fucking bird. That was hilarious. We had a lot of shenanigans in in Costa Rica.

SPEAKER_05 37:26

And yeah. So did you guys ever do anything uh further sexually other than our very, very soft swap Labor Day pool party since then?

SPEAKER_02 37:39

With anybody else?

SPEAKER_05 37:41

Anybody else? Or who? If you did.

SPEAKER_02 37:45

Well, there was one night.

SPEAKER_05 37:47

There was one night. There was. Tell me. You everybody's on the edge of the seat. Let us know what you're doing. Once again.

SPEAKER_02 37:52

Somehow boobs came out again.

SPEAKER_04 37:54

It was another pool party.

SPEAKER_02 37:57

No, we don't. Was it a pool party?

SPEAKER_04 37:58

It was a pool party with Brad and Brittany.

SPEAKER_02 38:00

I don't think it was a pool party. No, it wasn't a pool party. Dinner night. No, there was no pool. We were all dressed.

SPEAKER_05 38:07

There was a lot of wetness going on. There's no doubt about that.

SPEAKER_00 38:09

So we are gonna go there. I mean, there was alcohol.

SPEAKER_01 38:12

There was alcohol social lubrication. Um, so you want to talk about our first night?

SPEAKER_05 38:18

So we did full swap. Dun dun dun. So we all did.

SPEAKER_01 38:21

That one did.

SPEAKER_05 38:22

That one had so that was so interesting to me because I know Britney and I, this was again, this was a night that we were not expecting. Didn't know that this was a probably from our first time that we did that very, very soft swap. This was like three, four, five years, right?

SPEAKER_01 38:38

Since I think it was four years or like four years.

SPEAKER_05 38:42

It was it was a couple years ago from today.

SPEAKER_01 38:44

So you guys licked us and we bit you.

SPEAKER_05 38:46

Oh, yeah, that's so what happened that night though, Leanne? Because it was it was all of a sudden. I know that Clay and I were sitting on opposite ends of our very, very big couch, and I cannot remember how I know it had to start with you and Brittany because uh here we go, the fingers pointed again.

SPEAKER_01 39:04

It was that was me. That was Britney.

SPEAKER_05 39:06

Were we talking about your vibrator, Brittany? Is that what it was? She was talking about and you wanted to know about it.

SPEAKER_02 39:12

Yeah, so I was like, Well, let me see it. She's like, Well, do you want to try it? And I was like, take your pants down. Okay.

SPEAKER_05 39:19

And literally, your your pants came off so fast.

SPEAKER_01 39:21

Really fast. Okay, so I have to say this vibrator, the wand, right? And I will say, Nashville couple actually turned me on to this wand, so shout out to them. But this wand is fucking phenomenal. So of course I had to share it with my friends.

SPEAKER_05 39:38

And so how did that happen though? Like, so it literally goes from we're having drinks on the couch to like sh so Leanne's naked. Yeah, and then all of a sudden we started messing around again. What was the trick? You guys did you guys talk about it, Clay and Leanne? That night?

SPEAKER_01 39:52

Did you know that you were trying to have sex? No.

SPEAKER_05 39:55

No, no, no, that was nothing led up to it. Nothing.

unknown 39:59

No.

SPEAKER_05 39:59

And you guys just all of a sudden you were in the moment, and you're like, Britney says, Hey, you want to see my new vibrant?

SPEAKER_02 40:04

And you're like, Yeah, and then everything is like So there was another couple over. Who was that? I can't remember. No, there was another couple, and we were vanilla friends.

SPEAKER_01 40:14

Like it might have been a vanilla.

SPEAKER_02 40:15

But there was boobs again. Boobs started it. She had good boobs, you had good boobs, and I was like, You guys both have great boobs, and I have these little boobies. No, you don't have little boobs, but it's your perfect that kind of what started it. But that couple left, and then Brittany was telling me.

SPEAKER_05 40:32

So, were you you so you're you're mildly turned on at that point? Is that what it was? Probably Leanne loves boobies. I love boobs. Yeah, I mean, I mean, I get that part, but I'm talking about us though. Like, so in that moment, though, you're sitting there, and we I guarantee you that Britney and I were not gonna be like, oh, Clay and Leanne are coming over. Do I need to like get ready? Should I get a condom? Should I get the dick shot ready? What do I need to do? We were like, no, we're just drinking whiskey and talking shit like we always do. And then what happens, Clay?

SPEAKER_02 41:00

Too much alcohol. Leanne's pants came off.

SPEAKER_00 41:03

But we've we've but okay.

SPEAKER_04 41:08

Yeah, and I I think it just kind of progressed from there. And I really want to blame alcohol all day long, but we had to. But she looked at me and she's like, Are you okay with this? And I said, Yeah, I'm okay with this. Are you okay with this? And she says, Yeah. Okay.

SPEAKER_05 41:22

So then what happened after that? So we so we actually played. We that was our very the one and only time that the four of us have played. Yes, and it was a great experience for me. Did you guys have a good time? If you said no, I'd be kicking you right the fuck off this podcast. Ready, bitch. What did you do? You had a good time. I know you, I know you and Clay were on the other side of the cast.

SPEAKER_01 41:41

Yeah. I don't know.

SPEAKER_05 41:42

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 41:43

It was fun for me.

SPEAKER_05 41:44

Yep.

SPEAKER_01 41:44

So I'll take it.

SPEAKER_05 41:45

I think uh one of us had an orgasm out of the four, which is very unusual because we normally orgasm.

SPEAKER_01 41:51

Who wait, who you didn't?

SPEAKER_05 41:54

I did not.

SPEAKER_02 41:55

Oh, I did not. Yes, you did. I did. That was you, Liam. The vibrator. Unless you lied to me. Oh no, the vibe. Yeah. Oh yeah. Well, I think you were on his own.

SPEAKER_05 42:03

You were holding your breath again. Remember, that's what I think Clay.

SPEAKER_03 42:06

She holds your breath.

SPEAKER_05 42:06

Oh, that's right. It's almost almost like an auto-exphyxiation type of orgasm type of thing. No, I do have my breath.

SPEAKER_01 42:13

But we all had fun.

SPEAKER_05 42:14

That was the whole thing. And so that again, that was the first full swap for you two. And only, right? That's why I asked you guys have done anything. No, that's our only swap. Only swap you guys have ever done. So how did you guys process that one? Because we different from the very, very soft swap. Now it's a full swap. This is like physically. I was inside Leanne, and then uh and and Brittany uh had clay. So you were in each other. We physically touched, we were did everything to the very end. How did you guys feel when you left that moment? Was there processing? We went home and had sex.

SPEAKER_02 42:46

Yeah, we did go home and we had great sex that night too.

SPEAKER_05 42:48

Sure.

SPEAKER_04 42:48

I feel like so you were claiming to be a good one.

SPEAKER_02 42:50

Maybe that one we didn't process as much. I think that one we didn't really talk about much. Wow. No, I know. And I maybe that's where we're kind of where we're at right now. Kind of emotional.

SPEAKER_05 43:00

Where we're like so you weren't worried that, like, oh, so Clay, did you have a really good time with Brittany at all? Or maybe Clay, did you say, wow, you really had a good time with Brad over there and holding your breath again?

SPEAKER_02 43:12

No, I think I just don't think I wish I wish we could say that we're like that type of jealousy, but it just doesn't exist.

SPEAKER_05 43:22

It's not necessarily a jealousy.

SPEAKER_02 43:23

I don't mean it like that, but like I think it's because we're comfortable with you guys. Yeah. Maybe maybe if it was a different couple, then I'd be like questioning it or be like, I'm not okay with this. But again, I have no fear of her coming. Trying to steal clay. No, none whatsoever. Like I'm comfortable with my friendship. So again, I think that's where it's at. Like we've been here before. Again, if it's another, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 43:51

Somehow we've been here before. How for? How much how would you say? Give me that. Labor Day. Labor Day wasn't the same, though. That was no being a lot of people.

SPEAKER_02 43:58

It was different, but it was still different. Just know, like, yeah, it was and I think you guys I know you guys were in the lifestyle, yes. So you guys had already had your partners, yeah. We've done it, so that yeah, so I don't think it was there's no insecurities when it comes to that.

SPEAKER_05 44:15

Interesting, you know.

SPEAKER_02 44:16

I'm like, I love that.

SPEAKER_05 44:17

Does that surprise you at all, Brittany?

SPEAKER_01 44:19

Because I think it would be for me, it does, and only because when people have like their first experience, and even when we talk about um people that are entering the lifestyle and they have their first experience, or even our first full swap experience, like there was a lot that we talked about and processed, um, and conversations from a perspective of like what did this feel like, or and even now, so as funny as it is, like every time we're with somebody new, I'm like, what did she do? Like, tell me how did that feel? Like, you know, did she give you a good blow job? Did she do something different with her hips? Like, how did she move? What are these things? And so I'm always processing like what was your experience versus um the emotional aspect. And I think that's probably where you go in, Leanne. Like after me contemplating like what is happening in my head, I mentally I don't have those connections anymore, more than I want the physical aspect of like how did that how did Yeah, and I think it's more of a comfortable thing for us.

SPEAKER_02 45:27

So, like maybe if we did with somebody else, I would have those questions, but because we haven't, I don't have those questions.

SPEAKER_05 45:36

What would happen if what if um if Clay had a massive orgasm with Britney and you and I we did what we did and we had a fantastic time?

SPEAKER_01 45:45

But it didn't, so I don't want to go like no.

SPEAKER_05 45:48

This is the question that we have to ask the question. Like, so how would you feel there? Because it's and this is not about necessarily you, this is about our listeners going in there going, How would I feel? Because if you had an amazing orgasm, right? And I couldn't get Leanna, I couldn't do anything, you know what I'm saying? And then I'm going to your point of well, what did he do that was so amazing? But we're we're a little more tenured though. These two are both.

SPEAKER_01 46:10

And that's the thing, like that's a first thing, like that's a first thing question where until you go through those experiences, I would struggle for somebody to have to process that. Like because you don't know what you're gonna feel.

SPEAKER_02 46:26

And I think men can get off of way easier than women. For sure. So for me, I don't think it would be a still maybe a jealousy thing because like he can get off by porn. Yeah. So if you can get by off by porn, he can get off by somebody else. So he's well, I mean, so from now personally, totally you know what I mean. And maybe maybe not.

SPEAKER_03 46:49

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 46:49

But I think he would probably have a harder time because he knows my spots. I have certain spots that the a lot of people can't, you know. I'm not that I've been with a lot of people.

SPEAKER_04 47:00

A lot of people did 30 years ago, right?

SPEAKER_02 47:01

Yeah, exactly. Twenty some years ago.

SPEAKER_04 47:04

But it, you know, well, but you like I think it's uh like I know how to touch her in the small of her back or how how to read her breathing or when she's holding her breath and I know that she's getting close and in which way to move or not move. Like because just as quick as it comes, it can go that fast. Like we move, or we're gonna switch and get a m me get on top, or something like that, and then it's completely gone.

SPEAKER_05 47:40

Right.

SPEAKER_04 47:40

So I've learned to read her over the years and know how she's progressing and and how long it's gonna take me, or what what moves that I need to do to get her to that point.

SPEAKER_05 47:54

That is so true. And we hear this a lot in the lifestyle where we're where the like the the female will say, I can't come without my husband makes me come. And I'm going, Really? I'm doing all my little tips and tricks and everything, but I've only been with you once or twice. So it makes total sense, right? You've been with somebody for let's say 20, 30 years, and you're like, you can get her off in probably, you know, no time if you wanted to. And now, but but you maybe let it go a little longer or do whatever you guys are doing. That is what that's what a marriage and a solid a solid marriage and a solid um sex life is all about. Right. This is all fantasy. So my question to you guys, you reclaimed each other that night. There was no jealousy, there was no envy. Did it spice up your sex life after that? So obviously we had our night. Did you guys think about it a little bit, going, you know, whether it was the next couple of days, weeks, months, things like that, thinking, oh man, I remember when we did that, the four of us, did anything ever. Oh, for sure.

SPEAKER_02 48:52

I mean, it definitely keeps it. It spices up for a long time. Oh, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 48:56

You have more sex, more sex than normal.

SPEAKER_01 48:58

You're thinking about my husband.

SPEAKER_02 49:00

Well, I mean, say please say yes. Please fucking say that. I'm totally teasy, Leah. Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.

SPEAKER_01 49:10

Wait, are you thinking about me? I mean, maybe both.

SPEAKER_05 49:14

I mean, you were involved too, pretty big.

SPEAKER_01 49:16

I know. I'm teasy.

SPEAKER_05 49:17

I totally played with basically three people that night.

SPEAKER_00 49:21

I myself included.

SPEAKER_05 49:22

You know, I should have asked that first. But no, that's pretty hot though. I love that. I I'm glad you guys did. And I that and that's kind of the thing where you know, you've got these um young vampires early in the lifestyle or not in the lifestyle, trying to figure out what to expect, right? No jealousy, no envy. You guys were with a very comfortable couple, and it made the situation really, really, really, really fun. And then uh going forward after that, but you guys didn't do anything else after that. Like, there's there hasn't been anything, and that's totally okay. Like, again, I this I mean I've kissed a few girls. Have you?

unknown 49:56

Uh yeah.

SPEAKER_05 49:57

What how did give me a little bit of the scenario?

SPEAKER_02 49:59

Me and Brittany will kiss like that's a normal.

SPEAKER_05 50:02

I'm talking makeout type stuff.

SPEAKER_02 50:04

Uh me and Little Texas. Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 50:06

In Costa Rica, you guys did.

SPEAKER_02 50:07

Oh my god, yeah. So in Little Texas for sure.

SPEAKER_01 50:16

I'm like, what the fuck?

SPEAKER_05 50:17

I know. Right. And I remember I mean out with you too. Yeah. In the hot tub.

SPEAKER_02 50:21

In the hot tub. And you were asking Clay if he was okay with it, and he was just leaning back saying, Yeah, I'm good with it.

SPEAKER_04 50:29

I mean, is that a turn-on for you? I love that. It is a turn-on for me.

SPEAKER_01 50:33

Okay. I should have just started making out with you. Would that have been okay?

SPEAKER_04 50:37

Absolutely.

SPEAKER_01 50:38

Okay. Shit.

SPEAKER_04 50:39

Would you have cared, Leanne?

SPEAKER_01 50:40

Probably not. Okay. No. Next time I'll start making out with you.

SPEAKER_05 50:44

Would you want to make out with Little Texas at all?

SPEAKER_01 50:46

Absolutely.

SPEAKER_05 50:47

Yeah, for sure. And I did you make out with Big Texas at all?

SPEAKER_02 50:50

Oh, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 50:50

You did?

SPEAKER_02 50:51

No, oh no. Me and Big Texas never did. I probably would, you know, so I'm the one who's a sexy man. He's very good looking. Yeah. Very handsome. But I think he Clay is more I'm the I'm the more like reserved one.

SPEAKER_05 51:06

Reserved.

SPEAKER_01 51:07

Who said Clay would have some stuff that you're rightfully so. It's it's tough to get through.

SPEAKER_05 51:12

And I would always say though, I say, you know, go whoever's the most conservative in the group, follow your partner that way because you will get into less and less trouble from that. Because in the beginning, I know I was like, oh my God, this is amazing. Oh, this is so great. I'm going to start making out everybody, kissing everybody, and all of a sudden they're Brittany Bitch is like, uh, no, I no, where'd she go? She disappeared, she's gone. And because of just not being on the same page, not communicating with that. Now, when I let her lead and let her, you know, find the girl, find the guy, or whatever it is, it becomes a lot easier and more acceptable, and our and our moving toward a potential play session is easier that way. Would you not agree, Brittany? It's probably a smart play.

SPEAKER_01 51:53

It is. I do feel bad sometimes where I feel like I'm holding him back from certain well, no, okay, let me rephrase this. Okay. I do feel sometimes I drive the situation more and that holds you back from some of the situations you could have, but at the same time, I know walking in, I need to be fully on board because that's what creates a good situation overall. If we're both not on board, it's not going to be fun. I will never take one for the team, nor will I ask Brad to take one for the team. And we've learned that through the years of we both have to be okay. And that's where I think some of the challenges with like Brad wants experiences, which I absolutely love, and I'm learning to understand. Um, but from the aspect of it's not necessarily all looks for me, it's more of connections and how do I connect with a person? And then when I connect with the person, which has to be the man and the woman, and for at the end of the day, for all honesty, I am more looking at the woman because how is she going to treat my husband and me? Um, that's where I struggle the most. If the woman is not connected to me, I'm out.

SPEAKER_02 53:20

Period. Well, and almost like a respect thing.

SPEAKER_01 53:22

Uh a thousand percent.

SPEAKER_02 53:23

And that's what I think I would have a hard time with. Yeah. And maybe that's why I've only allowed it to with you guys. Because I know you respect me and I respect you.

SPEAKER_01 53:33

A hundred percent.

SPEAKER_02 53:33

So there's, you know, and that's where I think, you know, my boundaries are. Um, because if you just meet a random couple, I don't know this person. Right. It takes a while. Is she gonna respect me? It does. And if you don't respect me, like it's done. And then I will shut down. That's so like that's where I don't want to.

SPEAKER_05 53:52

That's a really good point, though. And I think just for all the young vampires that are listening to this, right? This is where this is probably the biggest challenge. It doesn't matter if it's the guy or the girl in this, but I think it's more than female, is you're wondering what the person's angle is, right? And if you are not in this lifestyle like Britney and I are right now, five, six years into this, where we can kind of size people up pretty quickly, you're brand new to this, you're like, oh, hell no. I didn't something felt awful. It smelled different. It was like, nope, I am out. It's so much easier. And I think it's wise, though, to back out of that kind of stuff, but really analyze your feelings as to why you're getting to that. But I think it's really wise what you did.

SPEAKER_03 54:32

Agree.

SPEAKER_05 54:32

You know what I'm saying? Like, and I think that, you know, but as you evolved, Brittany, correct me if I'm wrong here, like now we're a bit long, you can kind of smell it earlier or sense it a little sooner, right?

SPEAKER_01 54:43

I know my feelings a little sooner. So, what am I feeling versus what am I observing? So if I have a feeling of something just isn't right, or I see this, like if I see a woman go directly to Brad and she has no consideration for me, sorry, that's I'm out. Like if you don't see anybody else but my husband, that's not gonna be a good play session. And it's only because of my style of play. I do not want individual play. My style of play or our style of play, sorry, let me rephrase that. Our style of play is we play together and because we enjoy the the fun banter and the enjoyment of like I played with you, Leanne. Like that should be fun, and we're experiencing new things. And if I'm kissing you, Clay, while you're high-fiving Brad, that's fun. Like, those are the things that are exciting and fun. If you guys are off in your own sections because the woman only wants to be with Brad, I'm out. Like, that's not exciting to me. I'm not lending my husband to you. Yeah, I think that's where I would be at. Yeah. And you, I think going through time, like that's what I've learned, and that's what we both learned. Like, this is our playstyle. And again, if people don't mix with that, that's fine. If you want your own separate rooms, if you want a date, I have no judgment. That's what you do for your play style. And it's so amazing how this lifestyle journey has opened our eyes for those various things. For for instance, adjacent people. There are so many adjacent lifestyle people because they just want to be in the vibe and or exhibitionists. Like, I think you guys would love being in the exhibitionist standpoint. I do love exhibitionism. Um, Brad and I have experienced that I'm more of an exhibitionist than Brad is, and he's he's coming along for the ride where I enjoy people watching me have sex um because it's fun. And then if I just happen to call a woman over to kiss me, like Georgia, like I will.

SPEAKER_05 57:02

But it I think I think both of us too, like I think what you're saying there is yeah, that's not in my comfort zone, but I'm getting more comfortable with it.

SPEAKER_03 57:08

Yes.

SPEAKER_05 57:09

But I know that you'd like it, so I'm gonna do that, and that's pretty exciting, you know, in this lifestyle and what we've been experiencing together, and we're still evolving into this.

SPEAKER_01 57:16

And there's so much that you can learn from the evolution of what you like, what you don't like, but also finding the people that match your lifestyle.

SPEAKER_05 57:24

So true, so true. All right, well, guys, this has been fucking amazing. I'm really excited. I'm gonna speak for Britney here, and I and and I just want to say I'm so grateful for you guys accepting us who we are.

SPEAKER_01 57:36

Agree. You know, we're continuing to be friends on this lifestyle journey with us and openly. Like the amount of times I've called Leanne, I'm like, hey, don't judge me. But here's what happened. She's like forever.

SPEAKER_00 57:49

She's like, I don't never, ever judgment.

SPEAKER_05 57:51

And that's really one of the best friends that you can really have in this lifestyle because I can't tell anybody else. All I can talk to is other vampires. And while you guys are still vampire, you guys are considered vampires in my mind, because you have been mosquitoes. Nope.

SPEAKER_03 58:03

You've been oh, we have been between baby vampires.

SPEAKER_05 58:07

You guys can do your own mosquito, get your own podcast. But at the end of the day, I call you guys vampires because you guys have you guys are in it. You know it. It's not gonna hurt you guys to understand where we're from, right? And you guys will accept us. I can tell you anything, and you guys and Clay and I will like we'll high-five and that kind of stuff, and you can see stuff. And next day we'll be like, cool, where are we going for brunch? It's not a big deal, exactly. Yeah, and so we're so happy about that. So thank you guys, and thanks for coming on to this podcast. Thanks for having us. I know this had to been weird for you guys.

SPEAKER_02 58:38

It was a little, we were a little nervous.

SPEAKER_05 58:40

What'd you think, Clay? How about you?

SPEAKER_04 58:43

No, I I think I mean we said let's do it. We had conversations about it, but you know, it's like, okay, where is this gonna go? You know, who's gonna know?

SPEAKER_05 58:53

Right. Yeah, we got nobody listens to this thing anyway, so don't worry about that.

SPEAKER_01 58:58

Only a couple hundred people.

SPEAKER_05 58:59

Only a couple, yeah.

SPEAKER_04 59:00

But we just fun. It's still it's still exciting to actually talk about it and and maybe even relive it a little bit.

SPEAKER_05 59:08

That's what it was about.

SPEAKER_01 59:09

So you're he's gonna go home and have hot sex tonight.

SPEAKER_04 59:11

Well, yeah, because good. And uh and I'm sure the dogs will allow it.

SPEAKER_01 59:15

I'm blind.

SPEAKER_04 59:16

The dogs will totally allow this.

SPEAKER_01 59:17

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 59:17

Any final thoughts, Brittany Bitch?

SPEAKER_01 59:19

Send us text messages tomorrow morning about how hot it was.

SPEAKER_05 59:23

Any final thoughts, Brittany Bitch? You wanna you wanna share this with any on this again? Thanks everybody for listening. We love you guys. Thanks for doing that. Happy swinging, happy swinging, and we'll catch you guys all of you, sexy vampires, the next time.

SPEAKER_00 59:37

Bye. Bye.