Your identity is the TUNER. Here's which reality you're currently collapsing...

Most people think reality is solid, fixed, and external.

They think life “just happens.”
They think circumstances are random.
They think the visible world is the whole story.

But there is a deeper law operating beneath what most people see.

A quantum law.

And 99% of people will never understand it, not because it is too complex, but because they are looking at reality from the wrong level.

In this episode, I break down the hidden mechanics behind the quantum law that shapes your perception, your identity, your energy, and the reality you experience.

This is not about shallow “manifestation hacks.”
This is about the deeper architecture of reality:

how observation shapes experience
how identity influences perception
how emotion changes your signal
how internal alignment shifts external results
why the reality you experience is not separate from the system you’re running within yourself

The quantum law points to something profound:

Reality is not just something you live inside.
Reality is something you participate in.

And once you understand that, everything changes.

In this episode, you’ll learn:
What the “quantum law” really means in practical terms
Why most people never access its power
How your identity affects the reality you notice and create
Why perception, emotion, and observation matter more than people think
The connection between internal state and external outcomes
How to stop living reactively and start working with the deeper structure of reality
Why consciousness and attention may be shaping far more than you realize

This is where psychology, manifestation, identity, and metaphysics begin to overlap.

Because the real shift is not “believing harder.”
The real shift is understanding the law and becoming the kind of person who can live in alignment with it.

Once you see the hidden structure, you stop feeling powerless.

You stop seeing life as chaos.

And you start understanding that reality has deeper rules than most people were ever taught.

Transcript

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There's a quantum law that's so fundamental, so embedded in the fabric of reality, that once you truly understand it, your entire life reorganizes around it. And here's the interesting part. It's not hidden. It's published. It's taught in physics classrooms around the world. But 99% of people would never connect it to what I'm about to show you today. Because this law doesn't just explain how atoms function, it explains why your life keeps repeating, why your manifestations don't land, and why some people seem to bend reality while most people stay stuck in the same loops for decades. And by the end of this video, you'll understand this law, the three forms of observation that control your reality, and the exact method to collapse any timeline that you want in your life. And so this law is called the observer effect. Okay. And this is a very powerful law, and it's one of the most studied phenomena in quantum physics. And a lot of people don't really understand it. But here's what it says in plain language that what you observe, okay, what you observe becomes real. Okay. And then what you stop observing dissolves. Okay. So what you observe becomes real, and what you stop observing dissolves. Very important distinction there. So it's the ability for us to make things happen through observation, and then when you no longer have your intention, your visibility, your view, right, your perspective on something, it essentially dissolves, right? So it needs an observer in terms of reality for it to function, for things to happen. Because here's the thing in quantum mechanics, particles don't exist in a fixed state before they're observed. Before observation, they exist in probabilities, waves of potential, infinite options, all happening simultaneously. And the moment an observer looks, focuses, or engages with one of these possibilities, it collapses from potential into form, into reality. And this is not a theory, this is not some kind of spiritual woo-woo thing. This is actually pure science. And this has been tested and demonstrated in different laboratories all over the world for hundreds of years. Think about the double slit experiment, Bell's theorem, quantum decorents. So this has already been proven. But here's the thing that nobody in physics classrooms, no professors, are going to tell you. You are an observer. Every thought, every emotion, every belief about who you are is an act of observation. And your observation is collapsing potential into form every single day. You're not just stumbling into reality. You collapse it by what you observe to be true. So observation goes to collapse. Okay? That's the next one here. So you observe it, it collapses in terms of the probability into form. And then what happens after the collapse, right? What happens next? Well, from here, this is the creation. This is where it actually starts to manifest itself in the external world in terms of you collapsing something into form, into matter, right? Probability, potential. So this is essentially your experienced reality, your relationships, your bank account, your health, your daily life, all of it. And it's collapsed from infinite potential by the way that you observe. And here's the thing: you don't attract reality, you collapse it into form. Okay. So you don't attract reality, right? Because what you're using to attract your reality is your frequency, your positive mental state, right? In terms of who you are that is being reflected out and coming back to you. But this is where you are observing something based off of your views, your beliefs, your emotions, right? Your environment, and then you are collapsing that into an actual physical form, right? Because those are just the filters, right? The filters are who you are as an identity figure in terms of how you see yourself in this world, and then your emotions, and then your behaviors, your environment, right? All of those are just filters that are then you are engaging with in the real world, which then is collapsing your reality into actual form, right? So you are observing situations, experiences, okay, through the lens and the filters of your identity, your emotions, right, your narratives, your beliefs, all of that. And then it's collapsing the probabilities, the potential in your life to happen based off of these filters, and then your reality is created by the observation that you are doing to all of those different things, right? To all of those different experiences that you're having that are getting you a certain reality, and this is why this law controls your life. So let's put a barrier here, okay? Let's put two sides. This is the infinite possibilities, okay. Infinite possibilities, and then on the other side, we have your reality, okay? So we have infinite possibilities, and then we have your reality. Now, the infinite possibilities goes into your reality based off of here in the middle, there's the observation, okay? So infinite possibilities is essentially creating your reality based off of how you are observing them. Okay, so the main component here is that the observation is what creates everything here because your infinite possibilities are just literally out there in the ether, they're just infinite, right? It's just like there's no limit to them, okay? To anything that can happen, right? And so your reality is collapsed, right, based off of your observation. And the biggest component here is your identity because your identity determines what you observe, and what you observe determines what you collapse into your life. Think about it this way: imagine reality like a large radio frequency spectrum with every station playing simultaneously. Every possible outcome is broadcasting for you right now. Wealth, scarcity, love, isolation, purpose, confusion, all of it playing at once. Your identity is the tuner. It selects what frequency that you tune into, which station you hear, and which reality you experience. And you can't tune into a frequency that your identity doesn't recognize. A scarcity identity cannot collapse an abundance reality, and a not enough identity cannot collapse a loving relationship. The tuner has to match the signal. That's why two different people can live in the same exact city, same economy, same opportunities, and experience completely different realities because their identities are tuned to different stations, and their observation, shaped by that identity, collapses different timelines into form. And so this is the chain here. We have at the very top we have identity, okay. The identity is the main factor here, right? This is the chain, and this is how it always happens. Your identity is then used to observe reality, okay, probability, potential, then it's collapsed, and then this is created in terms of the outcome of your current experience, of your current reality. Now, here's where things get practical because observation isn't just one thing, there are three forms, and most people only know about the first one. So let's walk through the three forms of observation. So let's go ahead and erase the board here. Okay, and we're gonna walk through the three different forms, types of observation. Okay, so three forms of observation. Number one, this is the mental observation, okay, this is the thoughts. Okay. And then number two, this is the emotional observation. Okay, this is the feelings. Anytime you have a feeling, okay, whether it's good or bad, or whether whatever you have decided to attach in terms of a meaning to your feeling, okay, you are continually observing that and you are acting or reacting in a certain way, or you're not taking any action. And then number three, this is your identity observation, which is the deepest here, okay. This is your self-concept. What you think about yourself, how you see yourself, okay? Do you see yourself as limited, as capable, as competent, or do you see yourself as not somebody who can make things happen, who is just an average, let's say, chill guy, right? Is that how you see yourself? Well, that's gonna manifest itself in the reality because of what you are observing. And let me break down each one of these individually because each one of them collapses reality a little bit different. Okay, so let's look deeply at this number one here, mental observation. And this is probably most popular because it's centered around like the law of attraction, where it talks about think positive things, think positive thoughts, and you know, positive things will happen to you. Yes, that's one part of it, but it's not the complete picture. So your attention activates the potential, and then where your mental focus goes, your observation collapses. This is how the quantum field works at a very basic level. But here's the problem. And let me give you a scenario. So there's a woman, and let's call her Jane. She wants to start a business and she's reading all the books, she creates a vision board, she has affirmations every morning, she's telling herself I'm successful, I'm a millionaire, there are no limits to my abilities, all these different affirmations. She's always thinking positive thoughts, right? So her entire manifestation strategy, right, is in effect. She's thinking the positive thoughts, she's reading the books, she's you know doing different affirmations that are convincing and telling herself that she's a successful entrepreneur. But every time that she actually sits down to write and to build, in terms of building her website, doing her product research, setting up her website, picking her domain name, picking up her business name, like all of these different things that need to get done in terms of setting up a new store or starting a new business, right? You have to do a lot of groundwork in the very beginning. And so every time that she's sitting down to do this, she's freezing up, she's getting anxiety, she's planning everything to make sure that she knows exactly what she needs to do and when to do it. But it's more of the planning and more thinking about what needs to get done versus actually physically getting it done and executing. And there's a voice in her gut that says, Who are you to charge people thousands of dollars or even hundreds of dollars for a product or a service? You've never done any of this before. Like, how do you know that somebody's going to pay you that? Or what if people judge you? What if people think that you're not experienced enough or that you don't know enough? Right? All of these limiting beliefs and these voices that are there that are not allowing her to take action. And so when we think about this, it's one of those where her thoughts, right, are thinking abundance, and she's doing all of the kind of mental things that she needs to do. And really, when we think about this, this is really the feminine aspect of manifestation. Quick little side tangent here. The feminine aspect of the manifestations is the vision, is the imagination, the creativity, right? The inspiration, the emotion. That is one piece of the puzzle. She's missing the masculine, which is the execution, the logic, the structure, the frameworks. And so she's just using one side of it. She needs to use the other. But her body is not letting her because her body's telling her, hey, don't do this, you can get judged. Who are you to, you know, charge people these, you know, absurd amounts of money of hundreds or even thousands of dollars, right, for your services when you haven't done this and you don't know enough. Right? So a lot of limiting beliefs there. And here's the thing she can think positive for hours upon hours a day. But if her emotional observation is collapsing a fear timeline, then that's the reality that she gets. Paralysis, procrastination, self-sabotage, dressed up as I'm not ready yet. This is why affirmations alone don't work for some people. You have to remember, it's just one part of the equation, it's one side of it. You need the execution, you need to be able to actually get the structure of the logic, get the masculine side of the manifestation, right? You need to have both of those. And with the mental observation, this is just the surface layer. It's necessary, but it's not sufficient because there's a deeper observer that's running underneath. So thoughts activate potential, okay? So they're really important, okay, because they're activating your potential, but they don't collapse it into form alone, okay. They are important in terms of thinking positive things, right? This is to help with your frequency and what you're looking to attract and collapse into reality. But if you have underlining issues and operating systems that are running that are not conducive of your desired reality, then you're going to do all these things on the feminine side in terms of the vision boards, the imagination, the affirmations, right? Vision board, all these different things, but it's not going to allow you to execute on the masculine because you have underlining programs that are running that are blocking your collapse of your desired reality. Okay, so let's go number two here. Let's go with the emotional observation. Now, this is also extremely important. And here's the thing your emotional state is a form of observation, very, very important here, right? Because we're looking at these three different lenses. Your emotional state is very important and it's actually far more powerful than just thought because emotion is actually what the quantum field responds to. Think about it this way: this is a lot like just placing an order through like an Uber app or through DoorDash, right? It's just like placing an order even through like Amazon. You're just picking something and it's being delivered to you, and then you're paying for it with your emotion. Instead of paying for it with dollars, you're using your emotions to pay for it, okay? As a form of currency. And you can order things all day, but if you never pay with your emotions, then you're never going to get anything in your actual reality in terms of getting exactly what you want. And your emotional baseline, right? This is where I always talk about having a mental positive attitude all the time, no matter what happens, not getting too high, not getting too low, because this baseline is what's the most important here in terms of what you're actually attracting, what you're collapsing, and what you're observing. And so this emotional baseline, which is where you're normally at throughout the day and where you're at most of the time, this frequency here, this baseline is constantly selecting which frequency of reality that you're collapsing. And when you have a fear baseline, okay, where you're just rooted in fearing everything that's happening in your life, you don't want to get outside of your box, you fear that if you step outside your comfort zone, people are gonna laugh at you, people are gonna judge you, all of these different things. So you're gonna continue to collapse scarcity, see things as threats, and create different isolated types of timelines, right? Those types of timelines where you have those things actually happening for you because that is what you are observing. And when your baseline is that of confidence, then you're collapsing opportunity, you're collapsing connection and momentum, those types of timelines. And when you have a baseline of gratitude, you're collapsing abundance, synchronicity, and everything just flowing to you, because gratitude, I would say, is probably the most powerful one here, okay? Where you know, obviously, you want to have this like a hierarchy, and you want to look at if one of these were the most important and had the most pull, okay, which one would it be? And from my experience and for what I've researched, gratitude. Gratitude is the base baseline to be at because you're happy for everything that you have, you're grateful for everything that you have, and that you're grateful for all the things that you don't yet have here physically that are already yours in your mind, right? Because that's the beautiful thing. When you're looking to collapse timelines and collapse reality, a lot of times it's in your mind, it's in your head, and you only see it. Others can't see it, but you know that it's already a reality, just a matter of time. And when you have gratitude, okay, and then you mix that in with confidence and competence, and then just a naturally positive mental state, that's the perfect mix. And let me give you an example so you can see how this works. You have two different guys that are both starting and building their YouTube channels, they're in the same niche, same skill set, same amount of content. The first creator, creator A, is checking their analytics every couple hours. And every time a video underperforms, his stomach drops, he spirals, and he asks himself, is the algorithm suppressing me? Am I just wasting my time? Maybe I'm not cut out for this. His emotional baseline while creating is that of scarcity, anxiety, and comparison. That's his emotional observation every single day. Now, creator B, he's checking his analytics every week. When a video underperforms, he feels this thing, but then he reframes it. This is an interesting data point, right? He's just seeing it as just inputs, data that he can observe, that he can analyze, and then learn from, right? Look at the picture in terms of what is going on here, what is the situation? Is there something that I could fix, right? Something that I can modify, adjust, instead of just sitting there feeling anxiety, having scarcity, right? Not really thinking if they're cut out for it, right? They're looking for ways to help and improve because they already know that they're going to be successful regardless, and it's probably gonna be a little bit of a bumpy road, but they're okay with that, they've already accepted it. And so his emotional baseline is curiosity, play, and trust in the process. Same platform, same opportunity, but the first creator, right? Creator A is emotionally observing from scarcity and collapsing a timeline where growth feels impossible, and every setback confirms his fear, and creator B is. Emotionally observing from curiosity and collapsing a timeline where each video is a step forward while momentum is building naturally. And six months later, Creator B is growing, and it's not because he's more talented, it's because his emotional observation was collapsing a different reality the entire time. And so think about it this way: emotion, okay, is your energetic vote for the future. Okay, this is your vote of like, okay, this is actually going to happen. This is gonna happen in physical reality and it's going to manifest no matter what. Okay, because you already know that it's a done deal in terms of that outcome, that reality. Right now, you're just going through little bumps, you're figuring it out, but you know, at the goal line, right? At the end of the destination, it's already clear, like you already see that. And then now you just have a little bit of roadblocks to go through and overcome, and that you're going to meet at your final destination the reality that you want. And so your emotions are not reacting to reality. What they actually are are instructions to reality. They're telling the quantum field which probability to collapse next. And if your emotional baseline is fear, the field collapses fear-based timelines. And if your emotional baseline is certainty, it collapses the certain confirming timelines. You are voting for your future with every feeling that you sustain. Okay, so let's go over the last one. This is the identity observation. This is the deepest one, and this is the most important in terms of all of these different three. So, really, you think about in terms of the most importance, okay? It would actually be identity and then your emotions, and then your mental observation. So, this is not in an actual order in terms of hierarchy, but the identity, this is super powerful here for you to really understand because this is really something that only 1% of the population truly understand because this is the one that controls the other two. Okay, the identity is really the most powerful potent, right? This drives everything here, okay. This dictates, in terms of your self-concept, who you believe to be in this experience of reality, right? It's essentially the master filter, okay. We can even draw a little filter right here, okay. Little box, and just put little things here, like uh let's say like a little car filter, okay? That you got to change your filter out and it collects dust, right? But this is the master filter that everything is going through, okay, and that goes through in terms of building upon everything else because this determines your thoughts, this determines your emotions, and it runs the entire show from underneath. And so let's draw this out in like a hierarchy through like an actual pyramid, okay? So we have the very top here, identity. Then we have the middle portion here. This is gonna be your emotion, okay. Then down here we have your thoughts, okay? So your identity controls everything below, so your emotions are shaped by your identity, okay, and then your identity gives your emotions in terms of how to feel about certain things and certain experiences, and then this goes into your thoughts, okay. You have different emotions, and let's say you're feeling bad, you're feeling sad, you're feeling negative, okay. Well, then you're going to have negative thoughts, you're gonna have negative thoughts about your experience, your reality, a circumstance, right? Whatever it may be. And so let's say something happens to you. Let's say that you get into a fender bender, okay? Somebody hits you uh from the side, or somebody rear-ends you, okay? If you're an identity in terms of somebody who believes that, you know what, it is what it is, you know, it happened, what can I do? You know, what can I control, right? Is naturally somebody with gratitude, confidence, he's gonna go through this experience and say something like, dang, that sucks. It's really unfortunate. And then he thinks about, okay, well, what can I do? Okay, uh, what can actually I do to change the circumstance, the event? Well, I can't do anything, I have to just accept it that I got rear-ended, okay. And then his emotional baseline is going to be very calm, very still, right? It's not going to be up or down. He may have a small little spike whenever the you know situation happened, but then he's gonna get back to the baseline of like, you know, at least I'm alive, at least I'm here, okay. The cars can get replaced. Yeah, it's gonna cost me a little bit of money to you know fix my car or whatever, but it's you know, nothing significant, it's not a big deal. I'm still alive, I'm still here. Okay, so he's gonna feel an emotional baseline of just like it is what it is, okay? Very calm. And then his thoughts are gonna be as we've gone through this example, his thoughts are just gonna be, hey, it is what it is, okay? At least I'm alive, right? So this is the main hierarchy. It all starts with the identity, okay? Most important here, and then it's ran through the emotions and then the thoughts. And let me give you another example of this. So let's say there's this guy, his name is Mark, okay, and Mark grew up in a household where money was always tight. His parents always thought about bills, about this bill needing to get paid, or about this bill that is late 30 days, right? All of these different discussions that he saw his family, his parents go through. And his father always told him, Hey, people like us don't make a lot of money. People like us are not business owners, we're not entrepreneurs. That's not for people like us. And so, all growing up, he experienced this, and then now, by age 12, his identity is locked in and set that he is a person that struggles with money. And so let's fast forward to now. So, Mark, he's 35 years old. He reads money books, he reads books on business, entrepreneurship, he's tried affirmations, he's created vision boards, he's thinking positive thoughts, right? So, all of that is being done right now. But every time that he wants to actually take action and actually do something completely different in terms of earning more money or starting a new business or starting a business, he unconsciously self-sabotages himself without even knowing it. He overspends, he doesn't think things through all the way, he just hopes and wishes and thinks that it's going to work out. Wow, that is important, but you need to have logic, you need to have structure, you need to have frameworks, and so he's unconsciously just sabotaging himself and not able to get exactly what he wants to be done. And the reason for this is because of his identity. Remember, he at age 12 set the identity unknowingly that he is somebody who struggles with money, and it is the deepest form of observation that he has because remember, identity is the most important and the most powerful. And so no matter what his thoughts say or how he feels in terms of you know, maybe feeling all fired up about doing something, starting a business, but if his identity isn't in the right place, then he's not gonna be able to get ahead. He'll see the obstacles, but he won't see the opportunities. He'll play the victim mentality, he'll blame others, he'll think that it's the economy or that people don't like his products, or that maybe his pricing is too high, and just kind of over-analyzing and overthinking and just ultimately self-sabotaging himself. Now, just think about it and imagine if Mark were to change his identity, not change his goals, not change his affirmations, but just the identity shift itself, where he begins to observe himself as someone who creates wealth naturally, someone who money flows through. And that one shift in his mental observation, he starts to notice opportunities that previously he was unaware of and he was blind to. It then changes his emotional observation. He starts to feel calm and confident around money, and it changes the timeline that he collapses because the tuner has been changed. And so your identity is the ultimate observer where you're not manifesting from desire, you're manifesting from who you observe yourself to be. That's the quantum law that 99% of people don't fully understand. Not because it's hidden, but because it requires you to change the deepest part of yourself, not just your thoughts. Okay, so now you understand the law. You understand the three forms of observation. The question now is how do you use this? How do you deliberately collapse the timeline that you want? Now I'm gonna show you exactly how to do this. I call this the quantum collapse method. So let me go ahead and erase the board here, and we'll walk through the quantum collapse method. Okay. So this method is called core. And it stands for collapse of reality engineering. It starts with C. So C is where you are choosing the future timeline. Then you have the O. This is where you observe through identity. And then you have the R. Remove counter observation. Okay. And then the E. Embody the timeline. Okay. So it's four steps, and let me walk you through each one of these individually. So step one, this is where you want to choose your reality, your future timeline. And this is not about choosing a goal or a specific outcome that you want, it's about choosing an identity. And most people, when you think about it, they're starting with things like I want to build a six-figure business, I want to make ten thousand dollars a month, and then from there, they work backwards from the goal. Now, with the core method, this starts completely different. We start with the question, okay? And the question here, who is the version of me that already has this? Okay, that is the question that we start with, okay? Choosing the future timeline. What is the version of me that already has this? And so it's completely different than what normally happens here, right? Where you're thinking about what do I need to do? What are the tasks, the action items, the planning, right? All of that, the strategy, the tactics. Like, what is all of that that I need to do? But that's not the case here with this method and with actual real reality. It all starts with who do I need to be? Who do I need to become for this to be normal? And let me show you the differences here. So you have a goal-based approach, okay? And you say, I want to make 20k a month. So you grind, you hustle, you force, you're in a constant state of trying, reaching, and your identity is that of which you don't already have what you want, right? You're working towards it because you don't already have it. So it's this constant thing of like, I need to hustle more, I need to work, work, work more, versus already knowing that you have it, and then you're working calmly and cautiously, optimistically, because you know it's already an inevitability, and then that identity that you have in terms of not already having it, then that keeps collapsing realities of you not having it, and then reinforcing that. And then we have the identity-based approach where you are thinking to yourself and as someone who makes$20,000 a month. Now ask yourself, what does that person do on a Tuesday or Wednesday morning? What is that experience, what does that reality look like? How do they respond to setbacks? How do they make decisions? What do they spend their time on? How do they feel about money? And the answer to those questions becomes your blueprint, not a to-do list, an identity blueprint. So don't choose the goal, choose the self that already has it. So let's go to step two. This is where we are observing through identity. And the thing here, this is where you train all three forms of observation to fully align, where you ask yourself three questions every single day. What would this version of me think about in this situation? What would this version of me feel right now? How would this version of me interpret this setback? And let me give you a practical example here. Let's say that you're building a business and you post a piece of content that doesn't get any type of engagement, any type of interactions. No likes, no comments, no shares, nothing. Your current identity observes this and says, see, nobody cares. I'm invincible. This isn't for me. Your chosen identity, the one with the thriving platform, observes that exact same event as day 47 of building. The data is telling me ABC. It's telling me that I need to adjust the message, I need to adjust the image, the thumbnail, whatever it may be, right? They're taking it in as just data. No emotional spiral, no identity crisis, just data. Same event, different observer, different reality collapsed. This is what I mean by the observing through identity. You're not pretending that the situation is different, you're interpreting it from a different self. And that interpretation, that observation is what determines what collapses next. And so the observation must match the identity. Okay. Very, very important here. Okay, so now that we have gone through the observation and understand that it's important to go through the observation through your identity lens and not looking at it in terms of goals or outcomes. And in step three, this is where we remove the counter-observation. Okay, and so this is the step here that a lot of people and most people skip, which is why their manifestations keep glitching. Counter-observation is essentially anything that collapses your old timeline, anything that reinforces the old identity that you're moving away from. Think of it like an interference in quantum mechanics. When two wave patterns collide, they can cancel each other out. And that's what happens when you affirm I am abundant in the morning and spend your day scrolling through Instagram and TikTok and reaffirms that you feel broke. Two conflicting observations, and so they cancel each other out, and then nothing happens. And here are the most common forms of counter-observation. So you have number one, you have the doubt loops. Okay. What if this doesn't work? What if it doesn't happen the way that I envision it? What if this happens? What if that happens, right? Anything in the world can happen, and so you're consistently running these loops, convincing yourself that it can't happen, so it doesn't. Number two, you have old stories on repeat. Okay, this is where you have been essentially doing a lot of this different stuff previously, perhaps, right? Maybe you've tried different businesses, maybe you've tried different opportunities, maybe you've tried before to do something, but you've always come up short. All of those things are just stories and narratives that are keeping you in the same place because it's telling you, hey, remember that one time when you did and tried ABC and it didn't work? Why are you gonna try again? We already know that it's not gonna work, right? So very important to be aware of that. And then number three, you have the environmental triggers, okay? Very, very important here as well, in terms of you have your family, you have your friends, you have maybe your co-workers, people around you that bring you down to their level, right? And a lot of times it's just by love that they're doing it, in terms of, you know, hey, don't put yourself out there, don't risk too much, try to play it safe because it's just kind of the projections of themselves onto you, right? Um, but it's a big thing because especially if you're someone who's really swayed by other people's opinions, and maybe you don't want to hurt your parents' feelings or your friends' feelings, or whatever, right? Whatever that may be. Environment is a big component here. The final one here is the emotional addiction. You know, maybe you are uh addicted to feeling a certain way, like almost like always feeling negative or being like in a toxic relationship where you get off on like the emotional highs and the lows, right? And that's something that also is something where it's like it's familiar to you, right? Like this is all you know. All you know is toxic relationships where there's emotional ups and downs, and then you get excited, it becomes familiar, right? And then it's just like you're addicted to it. And with the emotions here, this is something where your nervous system can get used to your old identity in terms of your emotional state from your previous identity, right? You can get used to that, and so it wants to go back to what's familiar, even if it hurts in terms of you don't want it, you actually want success, you want bigger and better things, it's a protective mechanism for your identity that's trying to maintain and keep itself safe, right? Keep you safe, it's looking out for your best interest, but I would say that something that you can do to help with this is to separate yourself from it in terms of it just being an identity, like a mask that you put on, and talk to it and say, hey, listen, I understand your role, I understand that you played a significant role in my life, and I'm grateful for that, but I'm moving on to another role, right? I'm moving on to a different version of myself. But I'm grateful and thankful for everything that you did in the role that you played, and I understand that you're just trying to keep me safe. Thank you for that, and then move on and move forward. And so when you can get to a point where you realize that voice is just there trying to protect itself and protect you, you just no longer pay attention to it and you acknowledge the role that it played, and you continue to move on to what you're doing, right? It doesn't bring you down anymore because you've moved past it and you accepted it, you've acknowledged it, and that's how you get your power over it. Okay, so now we want to go over the last step here. This is the embodiment of the timeline, super important here. This is the step that turns the quantum theory into physical reality, where you are embodying the timeline, taking action and acting as if, right, you are that identity. Because this is how you collapse timelines. This is how you get exactly what you want, and you understand that it takes time to manifest and happen in the physical reality, in the physical realm, but you internally already know that you are someone. Who does ABC, who is financially responsible, who is confident, who is competent, all of that. And so you start internally acting, thinking, feeling, behaving this way, and then it all starts to manifest itself externally. And here's the thing: like, you have to physically make this happen in reality, right? Like, you need to take action. And a lot of times it's just simply little micro actions. Doing what you say you're going to do. Take an action on a plan that you put together, getting structured, have a plan of attack, lay out your week, your month, your next six months, your next year, right? When you have everything structured and logical, this is the masculine aspect of the manifestation, right? Where you are physically making things happen because you can have the manifestation on the feminine side, right? All the vision, the imagination, the vision boards, all of that. But if you can't execute and embody the identity that has all of that, then you're not going to get your desired reality. And so let me give you an example of this. So now you have updated your identity as somebody who is a valuable provider who's contributes a lot of value, and that's how you build wealth. So you build wealth through the value that you provide to the marketplace. And so, since you now have embodied that and have started to act that way, that doesn't necessarily mean that you, let's say you're working, you know, a full-time job, doesn't mean that you need to quit your job tomorrow and you know burn all the bridges and just take massive risk. No, that's not what that is. Because that's pure desperation. That's really dressed up as boldness. The aligned action here might be where you are, let's say, researching, planning, structuring your website, right? Doing things that are moving the needle forward, right? Moving the needle so that you can ease your way into that business, into creating value, right? Whatever it is that you're trying to do there, instead of just trying to start the next day, right, and completely be that person in terms of your identity and just burn all the bridges and be desperate and take all these bold risks. You want to be somebody who has all of that in terms of you provide value to the marketplace and people compensate you fairly and adequately, but you also need to look at your initial situation, use first principles thinking. Like, what is my current situation here? Okay, I have stepped into this new identity, but also I understand my current situation is that I'm working a nine to five. And then you look at second order thinking, okay, and then what? I want to start a business, right? In terms of I'm gonna be providing value to the marketplace. What does that look like? Okay, here's the plan. I'm gonna do A, B, and C, right? Because I've already stepped into the new identity, but now I need to execute and I need to plan, I need to strategize. Okay, and then we look at the third order thinking. So, what are the long-term implications of this, right? So once you step into that new identity, you also need to have the awareness and the acknowledgement and acceptance of your current situation of like, hey, this is where I'm at, and this is what I need to do to get to my destination in terms of what I already have in my mind and internally as my identity, right? I need to do these things here in the physical reality to make sure that everything is aligned. And so this is where the synchronicity starts showing up. This is where the opportunities start to show up, where you just start seeing things happening moving and shaking because of your internal reality and your internal identity being shifted, right? Like you've expanded your lens of what you see and what you're capable of actually collapsing in terms of your reality, right? Because once you change the identity, your lens is now completely different. Things that you may have overlooked are now right there in front of you, and you're like, wow, I never saw that before. But likely they were there the entire time. You just didn't have the conscious awareness to see that because it wasn't from the identity that has that potential to see this, to see these new things, right? And so ultimately, here your actions are the ultimate expression of your identity. Okay, so now that we've gone through the entire core method, let's look at the full application of how we can use this core method in practice. So let me go ahead and erase the board here. Okay. Okay, so let's look at putting core into practice. Okay. Let's walk through a full application for core for relationships, okay? Relationships. Okay, so let's apply core to different types of relationships. So here's the thing: let's say that you keep attracting the same type of partner, somebody who is emotionally unavailable, they're very polarizing, they're very hot, they're very cold. You feel like you have to earn their love and you constantly put them on a pedestal. And every relationship starts really the same. So it starts with the honeymoon phase. You have great times, great experiences, but it always ends painfully. You have the same patterns with different faces. Here's the thing with this: most people are gonna naturally blame the other person for what they're going through, or they're gonna blame the dating pool or the environment, the society, the economy, right? Think of anything that you can blame for whatever dating experience that you have, right? You could just even also make up stuff, right? Like it's you know, the time of the month and all this stuff, right? That you can essentially create in your mind as to justification, reasoning why you keep attracting the same types of partners. And here's the thing that's happening that they're unaware of. They keep collapsing the same timelines that reinforce the observer effect that they are having on relationships, on partners, right? From an identity, from an emotional, and from a mental standpoint. And this is all because their observation hasn't changed. So let's walk through each step individually and with some depth. So, number one, okay, they need to choose the future timeline, right? This is a step one. Now, this is where they actually deliberately, consciously need to choose the version of them that is deeply connected, that is secure and a loving partner, right? That's the version of themselves that they need to collapse in terms of the timeline, right? The timeline that has them as that type of individual, because then they're going to attract those types of relationships. And so you begin to ask yourself, what does that version of me, what are they doing in terms of the dating and relationships? How are they thinking about themselves? How are they communicating? How are they coming across? How are they showing up? What are the things they're putting up with? What are the things that they're not putting up with? And what are like the deal breakers, right? All of these different things that are important to that future version of yourself that has all these great loving relationships and partnerships. And so this is where you really need to get specific here. You need to get specific as to what that person looks like, that version of you. Go through all those different questions and get very specific about what that looks like for you. So, number two, right? Step number two, this is where we are observing from identity. Okay. And here's the thing with this. So, an example, when somebody is not texting you, okay, and you're trying to court them, and for whatever reason they ghost you, or whatever it may be, your old identity is telling yourself that, man, they're not interested in me anymore, or what could they be doing that they're not texting me back? Like, do they even like me? So, all of these different things that are going on in your mind, all these different thoughts, because that is what your old identity is thinking, is feeling. And so now you start thinking about, well, I need to do something to win back their interest. I need to keep texting, and then you start thinking that you're not enough and that nobody ever really cares about you, and all these different negative thoughts that are coming into your mind, right? Because of the identity lens. Now, with your new identity, you start to think a little different. Your new identity is thinking and observing, like, okay, you know what, they're living their life. I'm living mine. We'll connect when we can. I'm secure in who I am. It's the same event, but it's a different observer, it's a different emotional cascade and a different reality collapse downstream. And then we want to remove the counter observation. Okay, this is the hard one here where we're going to be going back to our old identity and it's going to try to protect us. But this is where we stop like the late night scrolling on your exes or the person that you're talking to's profile on Instagram, right? Like they haven't texted you, maybe they ghosted you, maybe you're feeling a certain way, and then you're stalking them on Instagram or TikTok, whatever that may be. You're looking through their profile, their pictures, all of that. And then your buddies or your girlfriends are reinforcing that reality that all men are this or all women are that, right? And so it's this constant reinforcing of your old identity. Now, the most important part here is to catch yourself when you're doing this and noticing, whoa, hey, what's going on here? Like, why am I thinking this way? Like, nah, I don't I don't think this is the case. I think the case is, and you fill it in with an empowering identity lens and perspective, right? And then number four, this is the final one here, okay. This is where we are embodying, okay, the identity. So this is where we want to embody the person, right? The identity of someone who's already in a successful loving relationship. And we're embodying that right now. Not when you find them, but right now. This means setting boundaries for your current connections. It means not abandoning yourself to people, please. It means filling up your weekends with something fun and exciting to do instead of waiting for somebody to text you or to get back to you or to see what's going on so you can go out and party and try to go after somebody, right? Whether that be trying to go out on a date or trying to go out to a club or something that may take away from your overall goal, right? And strategy of maybe running a business, whatever that may be. I'm not saying that, you know, don't go out and have fun, have a good time, but I'm saying think about it. Is it going to be conducive to what you ultimately want? And I would say yes. But if it's in any way limiting to you, then I would really question it. And if you're completely single, this isn't about attracting the right partner right here, right now. It's really about collapsing a reality where you're already whole. And that is the reality where the right person shows up. And this core method is really applied to any different part of your life, whether it be love, relationships, money, success, fulfillment, whatever that may be. The architecture is the same. You change the identity, you change the observation, and you change the collapse. You were never missing the power to change your life. You were missing the understanding of what actually collapses your reality into form. The 1% don't manifest harder. They don't hustle more, they don't wish more intensely, they observe differently. They hold an identity that's so clearly defined and outlined with so much emotional certainty that the quantum field has no choice but to collapse around it. This is the quantum law. Observation collapses potential into reality. Identity determines the observation. Change the identity and change everything that collapses downstream. Now that you understand it, the question isn't whether it works. The question is what are you going to collapse next?