ALL ABOUT MONEY (PT 4)

Continuing the series of releasing your limiting money beliefs to bring in more cash flow. 

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Hello and welcome back to the Beauty and Positivity Podcast. My name is Alyssa Skinner, and in today's episode, it's going to be All About Money Part Four. If you've not yet listened to All About Money Part 1, 2, and 3, go listen now and start manifesting more money with ease. I did all of these things as well, and I promise it all works with consistency. This series is all about breaking down your limiting beliefs around money because they were given to you growing up and it's time to release them because they're all false and they are all holding you back. Especially if these beliefs were given to you by someone who does not have a lot of prosperity. Why keep carrying them, right? So maybe you've heard the following statements growing up and you've taken on some of these beliefs. Money doesn't grow on trees. Money is the root of all evil. The rich get richer and the poor get poorer. I might be poor, but at least I'm clean. Meaning people who have a lot of money step on others to get there or do bad things to get there. It's still insinuating that money is evil or makes you evil. Money can't buy you happiness. Money goes faster than it comes, or it never sticks around. It's hard to make more money. Save your money for a rainy day. A depression could come at any moment. Money only comes from hard work. Okay, we're done. That was really bad vibes. So some of these might feel true, but they are completely false. 100% false. And if you don't feel that you deserve more money, you will never accept it. Your subconscious will sabotage you receiving more. Subconscious means you do not realize you're doing it. You might consciously think, no, I would absolutely accept more money if it came to me. I want more money. I'm open to money. But subconscious means you don't know you're doing it, and basically your nervous system does not feel safe to hold more money, whether it believes it won't stick around, or it doesn't know how to manage that amount of money, or you're afraid of taxes, whatever your subconscious fears are deep down, it will refuse it. It will push away opportunities of you receiving more money. So if you truly feel that evil people have the most money in this world, then you should be doing everything in your power to manifest more of it. More money needs to be put in good people's hands. So you have a duty to yourself and to your family and to society to manifest more money and to heal your beliefs and to seek prosperity. So release any guilt for wanting more money because that's another limiting belief. People just want you to feel guilty so that you never have more money. Imagine that. I shared on an Instagram story one time that just a couple things that I do that sound funny, but it helps me receive more money. I believe everything's energy, so I believe that these things work for me because I believe they will work. So I do receive money through these little practices. I never go to bed with a dirty stove. In Feng Shui, your burners represent your lines of income. And so if you're going to sleep with a dirty stove or one of your burners is covered or dirty, or there's pots on it, you're blocking your lines of income. Basically, it's just messy and chaotic. It's an environment. And I don't know, I chose to believe it one day. It's feng shui. And I like feng shui for you know the direction of my bed and where I sleep at night and where my plants are and things like that. So I tried it and I truly felt like more abundance started coming into my life. Next, I blow cinnamon into my house off the porch. So I want you to know this is why I believe that whatever you believe is true for you, because I was doing this quote unquote wrong for years. I was standing at my front door and blowing it off my porch, and so many people were DMing me, like, oh, I thought you were supposed to blow it in your front door. No, am I doing it wrong? And I was like, oh no, you are supposed to blow it in your front door. I just never knew that. However, I hit my dream income blowing it off my porch for years because I didn't know. So that just tells you intention is all that matters. I now blow it into my front door because I can't simply ignore new information. But I just want you to know it worked even though I didn't do it correctly, quote unquote. And then I charge my money in the sun and in the moonlight. I know that's kind of crazy, but whenever I have cash lying around, I just put it somewhere to lay in the sunlight or in the moonlight, and I just thank it for multiplying. I don't know, I just thought of that one day. It's so random. I just felt it. I was like, it was kind of intuitive. I didn't read it anywhere or see anyone do it. I just thought, you know what? My money should not be in a dark wallet all day. Like it deserves light too. So I just started doing it and I truly believe it multiplies. And then another big, big one is your space. If your space is very chaotic and you have a lot of clutter or things you never used in the last year, you're surviving without it. Just get rid of it, girl. Get those things out of the drawers, cabinets, in any corners, and go donate it, please. Because you must create room for new, for receiving. If there is no room to receive, you simply won't receive. And I mean that metaphorically and physically. Physically, your space should be open, spacious, clean. Allow things to come in, allow space. When there's energetically space, you receive more. When there is no space in your life, you're too busy, you're never gonna meet the love of your life, and your your house is too cluttered, you're never going to receive the new car or whatever it is, you have to take care of that and start energetically with your space, your physical space. And then metaphorically speaking, if you're secretly resenting money for not sticking around, or you don't believe you you'll receive more, or because you don't you can't think of a reason how you would receive more, step one, don't worry about the how, okay? That's what's holding you back. The how is not your job. But whatever the case may be, each person is different. So if you're metaphorically speaking, upset and resenting money because whatever your limiting beliefs are, you're standing there with closed fists. So you have to open your hands to receive, right? So that's my metaphor there for y'all. But you simply cannot receive because you're not open. And so you are purposely blocking the connection because you you fear receiving more or actually being rich, you don't know what that looks like, or you know, people are afraid of taxes when they open a business. Like there's so it could be a number of things, it could be multiple things too. If you're dreading checking your bank account and you're fearful of the low number you're gonna see, or you're afraid that a bill went through unexpectedly. First off, no bill should be unexpected. Take a moment one day and just go through everything and write it in your calendar and then put repeat on your calendar. That's what I do. I never have a bill that is a surprise. Also, I put everything on auto pay. You do not have to do that. But when I was working on my money beliefs, just like you are here now, I was here in this one point when I first started, and I was I was like, you know, rich people don't think about money, and we think that they think about money more, but you know, quote unquote poor people think about money more because they're always wanting more of it, there's never enough of it. Money's always on the mind, right? And I was thinking how rich people don't think about money. Everything's on auto pay, they just swipe without thinking. And I know this sounds irresponsible, but I started living my life that way, and all of a sudden I started getting richer. Like I make the most I've ever made, and it doesn't make sense. People are actually shocked, like mouth open when I tell them what I make, and it makes no sense, and it doesn't need to make sense. I don't need to know the how. That is God, that is the universe. My want, my desire was all I was responsible for. What do I want? So, anyways, if you're open to that and you feel safe doing that, or you want to feel safe doing that, put your things on auto pay and just make sure you look at your calendar so that you don't get put in a bad spot. I'm just sharing what worked for me. I put all my things on auto pay and all of a sudden I never had to check my bank account before paying for something. So, just out of sight, out of mind kind of thing, but in an abundance way, right? So, anyways, when you're checking your bank account and you actually want to become this default person of like being confident, knowing there's more money in there, then close your eyes before you open this your bank app and get excited about seeing the amount of money you're gonna have in there and pre-pave the way. That's what Abraham Hicks says. Kind of pre-pave the experience you want to have. And so you think it in your mind first, and then you open the app and you decide how you're going to feel and let yourself be surprised by how much is left in there, or maybe you had an unexpected deposit that you forgot about, or a refund, or maybe you just didn't spend as much as you thought last week. Whatever it is, get into a good vibration before opening your bank app and just decide it's going to be good. Do this every single time before you check your bank account. This will become your default vibration and you will start to see more money in your bank account. Again, you don't need to know the how. Be open to the surprises because you are a co-creator. You are not a creator by yourself. You and the universe create together. So when you send the universe an idea of, hey, I want to start being more surprised by the amount of money in my bank account, the universe goes, okay, I got you. Let me pick the vehicle on how that will happen. And then next, I get it so off track, but I'm so passionate and excited about these things. If you are resentful that other people have more money than you, or got a bigger bonus, or got a raise and you didn't, and you're a harder worker, that is a money block for you. If you are judging how other people use their money or spend their money, that is a money block for you. Just work on being completely neutral, work on being excited for people that have more money or that receive abundance because that means you are so much closer for that happening to you when you feel good looking at that experience. Does that make sense? You are seeing someone succeed and you are happy for them. That is how that happens for you next. All of these things will be a practice, like I said, but you have been on a default for so many years, and it's hard to change that, but it's not impossible. And I'm proof of that. I never thought I would be on a podcast, and here I am because I'm like, wow, all of this worked. I need to tell people that's how I feel. So just remember, you have the ability to change your identity and your vibration. So, with that being said, I would like to remind you that money is simply a means of exchange. That's it. We make this such a big deal. It's just paper we exchange for shit we want, okay? You exchange it for something you want in return. So many people say that they want a lot of money. I just want more money. I want to have, you know, I want to be rolling in dough. It's like, let's say you're given a hundred thousand dollars, would you just roll around in it? Absolutely not. It would be useless sitting there. It would look pretty, but it would be useless sitting there. It is not changing your life at all if you just want to store it and stare at it. So I want you to start appreciating all of the resources that money brings you. When you see that electric bill, I want you to smile and thank money for that whole month of that resource. How easier life was because you had electric that month. I want you to start thanking your bills, thanking the resources that money is bringing you. Appreciate money like a relationship, like a friend, right? A support system. Stop focusing on what the companies are charging and if they should or shouldn't be charging that and if they're price gouging. It doesn't matter. It doesn't. That is a um, I'm trying not to say poor. It's such a like horrible word. I don't like that word, but that is not a wealthy mindset. Thinking this company is price gouging me. That's just bad vibes. Literally a low vibration. You are not going to receive abundance in that vibration. So just stop caring. Because I promise that is the identity that gets you to the point of actually not caring and feeling like it's fair, being like, wow, my electric is way cheaper this month. I promise you will get there. You just have to change your identity first. Start doing these things because the price of the bill really doesn't matter. If you had millions of dollars, you wouldn't even think twice about your$200 bill, your$400 bill, because it's relative. Everything is relative. If you had more money, if you had a more of an abundance of money, you would not care about your bills that way. So, in fact, you wouldn't even think twice about it. So we've talked about identity work because it's how you become the abundant, richer, wealthier version of you. And so when you will become the kind of person who pays the bill without even thinking about it. And if you want to be the person who just went, whoop, that was easy, paid, done, didn't even have to look at the bill. I just know the money's in there. So hit pay without even checking, you have to become that person today. We start by thanking the money and all the resources that it brings us. That is how you start that journey. And it includes being grateful for a bill because when you see that bill, the bill means you have electric, you have water, you have food, you have shelter, you have transportation. It's all a perspective shift. So, what do you want money for? What do you want to exchange it for exactly? Why are you trying to manifest more money? Do you actually want freedom? Travel? Do you want your food cooked for you? Do you want your house cleaned for you? Do you want to make your family feel good and just take their bills off their plate because that makes you feel good to give? Gifting is one of the highest vibrations that exists. It feels so good to give. Not a single person I've ever met did not enjoy the feeling of giving. It makes you feel abundant. Why do you think I go around grocery stores hiding cash all the time? It's so fun. And I started with$100. Okay. I just was in a bad place and I was like, I have a hundred dollars left. Yikes. Like, what am I gonna do? And someone that I care about asked me to borrow$50. And I my immediate thought was, oh, well, no, I cannot that, like, absolutely not, was the first thought in my head. I was like, I can't do that. That's half of what I have left. And then I thought back to all the books I've read, all the podcasts I've listened to, all the work I've done. And I realized it was time to put it to the test. And I said, Oh, okay, if I give this person$50, I am not going to ask for it back. And trust me, I was fighting with myself and I was like, I should, like, I should ask for it back. This is borrowed money. Like, I need the money too. We all need money. We're all trying to make it, right? And I decided, yep, I'll Venmo it to you. And I didn't say anything. I was pretending. I was pretending to be the person that I wanted to be. I was nowhere near that. My evidence in front of me, the life I was looking at, was nowhere close to being the version of me I wanted to be. And I lied to myself and I pretended and I took action because I felt in my gut, in my intuition, that I was like, you know what, if I prove myself to the universe that I know I'm good, I know like I'm on my way to abundance, I'm gonna do this and prove it. And I did, and I started making fast money and it made no sense. It was like one step led to another. So I just want to share my story because I know how it feels to feel like everything's against you. I know how it feels to look at your life and be like, none of this is going how Alyssa said it was going to on the podcast. That's okay. That's the time to do it, anyways. That is the time to prove your faith, okay? Anyways, a lot of the time we're manifesting money because we want to manifest a thing. We want to exchange it for something, right? So if you feel like breaking down your limiting money beliefs is hard and it can take some time, especially depending on how you were raised and what you were taught to believe, it can feel easier sometimes to just manifest the thing that you want. If you want to have more money because you want a new house, manifest the house. If you want the more more money because you want to manifest a new car, just manifest the car. Like sometimes it's easier to manifest the thing, but regardless of what you're manifesting, you must be abundant today and give without thought. Being wealthy or becoming wealthy happens when you are a wealthy person. You take on the identity first and it's challenging, but it doesn't matter. That it's challenging to be in the place you are, right? So if you're gonna do the challenging thing, do the thing that's working towards getting richer. It's challenging to stay where we are sometimes. I talked about this in a previous episode about how becoming a wealthy person, you have to be wealthy first. And that can be confusing, but my example was when you are done being upset, you're done arguing with someone, you're just done. You decide at some point, okay, this is not worth my energy anymore. Like, I'm just gonna be happy. I'm over it. I'm done feeling that. Now I'm gonna feel this. You just decide to be happy. You didn't go out and try to get happiness. Happiness isn't a thing. You didn't try to go pick up a bucket of happiness, you didn't try to go find happiness and then bring it with you. You happiness is just a state of being. Wealth is a state of being. A wealthy person is simply vibrating at wealth, a happy person is simply vibrating at happiness, a hungry person is vibrating at hunger. So you get to choose your state of being. And it might not feel that way all the time, and it will be challenging, but it's only because you're so used to choosing your state of being, the same state of being as yesterday, over and over again when you wake up. And maybe that state of being is just dreading going to work. You wake up every morning and you realize I have to go to this job again, I'm so over it, or you wake up and you realize that bill was overdue, or you can't afford this, or whatever it is. Maybe your work's not that bad and you're content. Maybe you're like, yeah, everything's fine. I'm just not excited. You're just not in the vibration of excitement. You're not in this state of being of joy. And so Joe Dispenza talks about how people wake up every day thinking the same exact thoughts they thought yesterday. That is terrifying. And the day before, and the day before, everyone's just thinking the same thoughts when they wake up. This means you're choosing your state of being every single day, and you're not consciously choosing the vibration or state of being you want to be in because it's all subconscious. We just wake up and we're the same identity we were yesterday. So, this is what I mean by be deliberate. Actually, choose the state of being you want to be in. Abundant, joyful, peaceful, happy, excited. It doesn't matter. You can choose any state of being. Wealth. Most people just want to be a wealthy person. So go for that every day. Just start waking up saying, I stepped into my highest timeline of wealth today. I wake up every morning and I say that, I just entered my highest timeline. And it takes a second to remember, but I wake up every morning, it's the first thought in my head now. So it takes practice, but there's no better time to start than today. You are the youngest you will ever be right now in this moment. I talk a lot about identity work because that's just who you have to become to be who you want to be and live the life you want to live. But I want to end this episode on an affirmation, and that is I deserve the best and I accept the best now. And so it is. I want you to say that all day, repeat it. If you find one that works better for you, use that. But this is a great one to start with if you can't think of an affirmation that you want to say. I deserve the best and I accept the best now. It is done. I am sending you so much love and success and wealth and health and happiness. I hope you enjoyed today's episode. I had two cups of coffee today before editing this. So I love you. Bye.