How I manifested a $30,000 project for free

I had an emergency in my household that was potentially going to cost me $30,000. I absolutely manifested a completely free fix within two hours. 
These are the moments practicing these mindset shifts matter. I’m gonna tell you how I did it!

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Hello and welcome back to the Beauty and Positivity Podcast. My name is Alyssa Skinner. Over the years, I have been working on becoming a master manifester because I've always believed in the law of attraction. I've always manifested experiences that I desire. But that self-doubt creeps in. We're human. And sometimes I just feel like completely removing any voice of doubt. And so that's become my main goal in life to actually master creating my life experiences. So I feel like I'm getting there, if not there, because I'm very impressed with myself with how much ease I feel in creating what I want. So that's what today's episode is going to be about. I'm sharing my story about how I manifested a $30,000 plus problem to be completely free. So I shared on my social media story how I had that water leak in my main pipeline, our uh water supply line in the yard, and how we found out was my husband checked the water bill, and it was like four times the amount it normally is. So he immediately knew there was a leak somewhere. He ran outside, shut the water off, and our meter said three gallons per minute. That actually made me so sad because I'm someone who does not like to waste water. I don't leave the water on while I'm doing dishes. It actually like eats at me when I see other people doing that. And I just use what I need and that's it. I'm not a long shower girl. Five to ten minutes, you can absolutely get an everything shower done if you stay focused. But I'm not here to tell anyone what to do. That's just backstory on how I view water because it matters in this story. And so the leak was very sad to me, let alone the bill, you know, that was gonna be due for we don't even know how long we had been losing three gallons per minute. Oh my gosh. So, first, I'm gonna tell you how we manifested the problem because nothing's random. We didn't just manifest a solution, right? We manifested the problem in the first place. So, first step is ownership. What did I do to create this in my experience? Life is mirroring us. So my husband and I created this problem. We co-created this problem. So my husband has everything off of auto pay. None of our bills are on autopay. And I'm a I'm an auto pay girl. I'm like, I don't want to look at my bill every single month. Like, it it makes me feel wealthy to have everything on autopay and know everything's paid. Never late, never have to worry about it. That does not mean I don't check my account and I'm I make sure my money's going where it's supposed to, everything's on time, etc. So it's not carelessness, it's a mindset of wealth that I'm wealthy enough to have everything on autopay. So that's just how I view it. And my husband's not an auto pay dude. So I'm I always kind of give him shit. I'm like, why don't you put our stuff on auto pay? Like, it doesn't make you feel good to look at that bill every single month and then you want to manually pay it. That's like so much work. And there's chance of forgetting one month, right? So I'm like, take advantage of your resources. Nah nah nah. I kind of, you know, I let him hear it. And he's like, no, absolutely not. I like to see what our bill is going to be every month. I want to see, you know, if something's off. Did it change? Did it go down? Did it go up? So this is important to how he co-created this issue with our pipe. So that's step one. He's constantly looking at the bill, right? Because I think subconsciously he expects something to be off, or the company raised the price or price gouge us or some made-up reason, right? That's kind of a masculine trait. They think that car mechanics are always gonna screw you over, electrical companies are just making up numbers that month, and water companies and mortgage companies not gonna pay your property tax if you don't go make sure they paid it every month. And I just want to say these are valid, these things happen, but does it serve you to think about that and think about that every month at that? No. So him looking at the bill every month, I think, manifested an even better reason for him to look at that bill every month. Am I right? I mean, our bill was four times the amount it should have been. So now this experience has made him feel validated in not having auto pay on and looking at, and of course, I agree. Like, I'm so glad in this moment he did not have auto pay on because I ate my words. However, I do think that created a future experience. So that's my belief. How I played into this because we co-created. I'm not gonna go too deep into this topic because I don't want to talk about it. Um, so I will give little hints as to what this is about. But with stuff going on with the oil currently, I stepped into fear a little bit, unintentionally, of course. I started getting nervous how that could potentially affect us, our water, our electricity. I thought about that too long. And I remember talking to my husband, I was like, I feel some fear, and I'd really like to talk about it so I can release it because I know this is not serving me and I need to get it out of my body. And I was like, I'm really scared, our water will get shut off if this happens and that happens. Oh my god. So he was like, Oh, you know, he kind of put me at ease, but not quite. So I manifested us not having water because I was scared we would not have our tap one day, okay? And that's why I don't want to go in go into it. I don't want to put that in your head, and I it's just not, it doesn't serve either of us. So he co-created a skyrocketed bill. I created the lack of the water leak, losing water, having to shut it off for God knows how long to fix it. So ownership. We co-created the problem. So we go out to the front yard and it's like a 20 by 20 gosh space of just three inches of water in our grass. Mind you, water pipes are like two and a half feet below ground, so that's a lot of water to come up to the earth's surface and spread out 20 feet. It actually like makes my stomach hurt to think about. The grass, the whole front yard was completely sopping wet. So I'm immediately researching how do I find a water leak so we're not digging up 400 square foot space. And at this point, I did figure it out. Oh my gosh, I felt so smart, by the way. I went and I walked around the yard. I was like, okay, I think it's right here. And he dug up and boom, right there. I was right on the money. So you girls, she's a smart pants when she tries to be. I am at this point, I am feeling like, damn, I did not want to deal with this, right? This sucks. But I'm not quite defeated, and I'm a little bit in denial. I'm a little bit, we're just like neutral, and I'm like, okay, this sucks. We have to fix it, and we're gonna get it fixed. That's what happens when you have a water leak. You get it fixed. So I'm trying to just stay neutral and I'm kind of in disbelief that this is gonna be a big problem for us because my I my brain couldn't go there. I was like, no, I I decline this. I unsubscribe to this problem. So of course, this is giving me a little comfort because I'm like, okay, we are very blessed to have savings. We can pay someone to fix this. Does it suck? Yes, but we're past that point. I'm not gonna sit around and think about how much it sucks. Like, we gotta move forward. So I'm like, okay, we have savings, we can pay for this. Of course, our savings were saving for certain purposes in life. This is not just to look at and feel good. So yeah, spending that on a water leak was not the plan, and it's not fun. It still sucks. But I'm like, okay, this is it is what it is. We are going to use this to pay for this. We own a home. This comes with owning a home sometimes, and I'm so grateful we can pay for it. So my husband is like freaking out a little bit. He's like excavating, it's $30,000. Our water bill is gonna be a thousand dollars, emergency services, I'm not calling them, they're gonna charge me this much. And you know, his brain is emergency, emergency, 9-1-1. Like his ego is taking over, and I talk about this in my Enlightenment Babe Academy in depth. So if you want to know more about that and how to tame that, that's for you. So this is not to shame his emotions at all. Our ego keeps us in survival, it's absolutely necessary, it's our problem solving. But I knew I had to balance us out because I had to stay in my neutrality, positivity, maybe a little delusion. Because if both of us step into that ego, that survival, that emergency emergency mindset, we're just gonna co-create another obstacle, right? We're gonna make this so much harder. Because when two or more people focus on something, it happens 10 times as fast, it feels like it absolutely manifests quicker. So I knew I could not like subscribe to those emotions. And one of us had to kind of stay on the other side of it. So when there's a problem, um, and you're in that like problem energy, like this is a problem, you are not in solution energy. I hope that makes sense. So I'm doing my best to not be annoying because when someone is stressed out, they don't want to hear your delusion and be like, it's okay, we'll figure it out. No, something's just magically gonna happen and we'll be fine. No one wants to hear that, especially from your spouse, I'm sure. So I'm doing my best to practice what I preach, help him get into that mindset without glossing over a real issue that we're experiencing, right? And I did not want to invalidate his feelings because they were absolutely valid. So when he's saying this is gonna cost this much, emergency services, our water bill, blah, blah, blah, I'm like, okay, let's just take a second, and that's just it. I'm being short because I'm not gonna invalidate him, right? So I'm like, I don't want to be annoying, but I also I gotta get us on the other side of this. So I'm like, okay, hold on. We we don't want to pay $30,000. No, we don't want that. We don't want to pay $30,000 in excavating, and that's it. I'm just kind of like saying little things here and there. And I'm slowly easing into a potential new perspective. And he was receiving it beautifully. I was so proud of how he received it. I even watched him and felt him like come down a notch where he just kind of was like, okay, he took a breath and was just like, yeah, you're right. I don't want to spend $30,000. So I don't want to think about that right now. So it's one step at a time. I was like, let's all research a plumber while you do whatever you're gonna do. Um, he was like at the meter, kind of walking around trying to find the leak. So I'm doing my half and what I could do. And I look at him and I'm like, I want special treatment. I don't want to pay emergency services and I don't want to pay for excavating. I don't want that. And I don't want you to be stressed out to do this, this, and that either. I want special treatment. And I'm like, I don't want, we don't need to experience a situation that other people have experienced or a situation that comes from logic. Like, why do I want why do I want that? Who says I have to have that also? So that's a great thing is to start questioning it. Like, yeah, logically, this is probably gonna happen, but says who? Right? Just question it. Step one. So I'm like, no, I don't want that. And I felt him receive that as well. His tone changed, I felt his stress go down, he was just like his body language changed, and it was like a little bit more joy. It was like, all right, let's just figure it out. So we're on our way to Home Depot because we did a little bit of research, had to temporarily stop the leak because, of course, I have a full schedule in the salon, right? And I just want to say too, the water leak, it it does, you know, affect my business, but that can happen anywhere. I've known girls in commercial spaces who absolutely were out of work because pipes burst or the water froze in their pipes and they couldn't see clients. So it can't happen anywhere. So we're going to Home Depot to get the things we need. We're trying to stay positive. And in the car, we're talking positively and a little delusionally, of course. And I'm like, okay, we need a timeline jump. I want to talk about this issue on the other side of it. I want us to talk about like it's already done. We're on the other side of it. Thank goodness that's over, type of energy. And he was open to that. So we're like, oh, remember when that happened? So glad that's fixed. That's crazy. And I we're both like embodying this feeling of like looking back on it. And then we saw two two two on the license plate of the car next to us. And I like screamed. I was like shaking him. I was like, two, two, two, that means everything's working out. And I was just like, Don't worry, that's that is confirmation. We are good, we are good. People laugh at angel numbers, but I mean, when I tell you the solution to this story, 2 2 2 was 1000% confirmation. Don't worry, you did it. You decided in your mind 10 minutes ago it was gonna be fine, and that is your future. So I loved it. And um I shared with him, you know, what the angel number mount meant, and I told him, every problem I have in my life, I visualize being on the other side of it. Anything, anytime I have to do something I don't want to do, I just visualize myself on the other side of it, it's done, oh, that's over. And it always comes to fruition that way. It's always easy, it's always like, oh yeah, I did it, that was easy. So if you don't have a partner, by the way, who is quite as willing to feed into this delusion with you or have these positive conversations, please know one second. Okay, sorry, he is turning the water off, just updating me. So please know you you I don't want you to feel like your partner is going to block you because that's just simply not true. They may not be on the same vibration as you, and that's okay, because you create your reality, which means you are creating the character your partner is being in that moment. So absorb that for a second. You are absolutely getting what you expect from your partner, you're getting what you've always expected to get from them, always, and usually that's based on the past. Well, they've always acted this way, so of course they're gonna act this way. And it's if they don't feel open to it, that's okay. You can create all on your own. You can visualize yourself all by yourself on the other side of whatever problem you're experiencing, and even in that visualization, have a conversation with your partner on the other side of the problem. And you're talking to them, and you can even be like, I told you, I told you it was gonna be easy, I told you manifestation was real. Like, don't let a closed-off partner make you feel blocked. You can absolutely do it by yourself. So after we get back from Home Depot, we get some like epoxy and pipe wrap, and it definitely was not for the type of pipes we had, but I mean it's a band-aid fix, it's what we gotta do for now, right? So it felt like our only physical action we could take in that moment and just stay positive. I'm like, okay, I'm gonna go get water and blah blah blah. And he texts me, you're a freaking master manifestor, and I smiled so big because I was like, something happened, something got figured out. He just realized that this whole situation's gonna be easier somehow. So I get home and our neighbor is in our yard helping him, and I'm like, awesome, cool. And he goes, Guess what he does for a living? So, of course, our neighbor ended up being a plumber. He walked over at 10 o'clock at night in the dark, saw my husband digging in the yard in a ditch, and was like, Do you need any help? Do you remember when I said I want special treatment? I don't care what other people experienced, I don't care what logic says, I want special treatment. I didn't literally mean I want someone to come work for us for free, I want special treatment. I was not even trying to figure out the how whatsoever. So I just I meant I want special treatment from the universe, like the universe is going to take care of us because it always does. So, of course, he walks over and has the part that we needed, the correct piece, and just offered to help my husband fix it, which is an angel set from heaven. Of course, we're going to take care of him. Like he absolutely did not ask for any of anything, but we are absolutely going to do that because why wouldn't we? So I posted the pipe leak on my Instagram story, and I said, I'm gonna use this as an example to show you guys how I do it, to show you how it manifests through the hard moments, the moments where you're like, no, I can't even think about that right now. Like, this is a big problem. That is the moment that matters. That's the moment to practice all of this. And just to be real, a tiny part of me was like, Oh, I hope I can figure this out. I hope this gets fixed, right? But that's why I'm sharing is because I've as long as I've deliberately created my reality, my experiences, it's a surprise every single time. It's never, I mean, imagine how boring that would be if it wasn't a surprise. It just never gets old. Every single time you create a future experience, it it's like an addicting feeling. It's it's like, wow, it actually worked. And it it never gets old. And that's the fun part. I believe that we're not meant to know how something's gonna happen. Because imagine if our plumber, their our neighbor walked over, and or I just knew he was a plumber and I knew he could help us fix it. Like, where's the manifestation in that? So the universe absolutely chose the vehicle of how it would happen, and all I needed to do was decide it was gonna be easy, and I don't have to experience anything I don't want to experience. If it doesn't sound fun, I'm not gonna think about it. It's not gonna be my focus. So that's what I was practicing. But in hindsight, I was practicing the law of assumption. So I go into this in depth in my Enlightened Babe Academy, so you can learn way more about that and all laws of the universe and how to use them through your manifestation experiences, your practices. But exactly what I said about the version of your partner, you're receiving that, you're receiving that because it's what you're expecting, it's what you're assuming is gonna happen based on a past experience, so that can be changed, absolutely. But the point is, I practice the law of assumption by assuming it was just gonna be fixed. I assumed the universe was gonna do something about it. It always does. And I just have so much love in my heart saying that the universe always takes care of us, and it really is truly because we accept it with open arms. And what I mean by accept it, because of course you're like, yeah, I want the universe to take care of me, yeah, I want things to be easy. No one is denying that on on purpose, intentionally, everyone wants to receive help and love and ease and flow. But the way we shut ourselves off to it on accident is through doubt. It's through doubt, it's closed arms, it cuts off the flow of receiving from the universe. It's always doubt or faith, fear or faith. So, in any hard moment that you ever experience, just decide that the universe takes care of me and it's gonna figure it out for me. And don't even think about a single how it could happen. That's when doubt comes in, that's when ego comes in, that's when control comes in. You just have to decide, okay, this is gonna be easy. And that type of mindset is not rewarded in society, of course. It's just like, oh, just your feelings, like you're just you're turning your head from the problem. Yeah, that's what works for me. So just decide it's always going to work out for you, it's always taken care of, and decide it's done. So my husband and our neighbor are and his wife, absolute angel, letting him spend his Sunday over here helping him. I'm so grateful for them working on it, and they are just gonna replace the whole thing so that another leak doesn't happen in the future. And that's how we manifested our $30,000 problem for free. But thank you so much for listening. And if you want to learn more about my journey and do the same journey I did, changing your identity, doing that mindset work, shifting your perspective, and actually mastering how to manifest your future. Um, you can go to my Light Babe Academy in my bio and learn all the mindset practices and everything I did over a course of six months that absolutely changed my life. So if you want to start even smaller, I have journal prompts. You can I see you girls do the journal prompts all the time. LinkedIn my bio, $11.11. And you can kind of just get the wheels turning and see what you want out of your life. But I love you so much. I'm sending you love and success. Bye.