Get clear on what you want in life

This short and sweet episode helps you get clear on what it is that you want to manifest

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Hello, gorgeous souls. Welcome back to the Beauty and Positivity Podcast. My name is Alyssa Skinner. Today is a short and sweet episode. It's for those of you who don't know what you want to manifest yet. Just a quick little hack to get you clear on what it is that you are bringing in. So if you're unsure of what you want to bring in, maybe you don't know what characters and qualities, characteristics and qualities your dream partner has. Maybe you don't know how much money you're comfortable manifesting right now and holding. Maybe you don't know what you want to do for work or what your career is going to be, or if you want to work. Maybe you don't know where you want to live, what city you want to be in. The simple hack is looking at what it is that you don't want. Hear me out. Let's say you don't want a partner who is controlling. That means you want a partner who trusts you, who sees your heart and knows who you are and sees your character. Let's say you don't want the amount of money you're making right now. It's definitely not enough. I need at least double, right? Start there. Let's say you want to live in a beach house and you're like, okay, let me look at these homes on the beach. What do they cost? That's the amount of money I'm bringing in. That's the amount of money I would like to have the things that I would like. Let's say you don't know what you want to do for work or what your career will be. You definitely don't want to be in the receptionist job you're in now. So you, or you work at a bar and you're like, I'm a bartender, I love it, but I don't want to do it forever. I don't want to be around drunk people every single day. It's kind of exhausting. Or I don't want to go to nursing school like I thought I did. So that's off the list because I don't want to work under someone. I want to be my own boss. Okay, so now you're manifesting being your own boss. Now you know you don't know what the business is, but you definitely want to feel freedom or feel rich. There is tons of journals that I wrote over and over again. I'm going to work for myself. I want to work for myself. I want to make this much per month. And I did not know how I was going to do that. I didn't know what I wanted to do for work. So speaking from experience, I just said I want to work from home. I want to have slow mornings at home. I don't want to rush. And that's all I wrote. I only knew what I wanted to feel. I definitely want freedom. I want to work for myself, or I don't want to have a boss. I don't want to leave my house early and rush to work every single day. So what I'm manifesting is no longer rushing to work and not having to leave my house if I don't want to. So this is how you can narrow down what you want by looking at what you absolutely don't want. I absolutely don't want a partner who doesn't have a job and asks to borrow my car. Meaning, I want a partner who has a career, has their own hobbies, has a good head on their shoulders, has goals, and can meet me where I am. I do have a job, I do have a car, I do have goals, I do have friends, I do have desires I'm going after. I want a partner who has the exact same. I want to chase our goals and success together. So you don't know where you want to live. Give yourself options. This helps remove the chaos, the indecisiveness. Give yourself two options. Do I want to live in Florida or California? Well, Florida's really humid, California's really expensive. Give yourself the options to narrow it down. Do I want to live in the mountains? No, it definitely has to be coastal. Now you know. Now you're narrowing it down and looking at coastal cities. So look at what you don't want and look, what is the exact polar opposite of that? That is what you want to bring in. That's your answer. That's what you're manifesting. Use this trick to help slow down your thoughts, gain clarity, one area of your life at a time. You don't have to manifest everything all at once. That's the beautiful thing. You have your whole life ahead of you. And always remember you don't have to know the specifics. Not everyone is a specific manifester. I teach this in my Line Babe Academy. You do not manifest the same way I manifest. And in my academy, I show you exactly what type of manifestor you are and how you should be going about your dreams and desires. Maybe the practices I do don't work for you because we manifest differently. So I do show you your uniqueness and how you take the path based on that. I go through every single one. There's about five different types of manifestors, and I help you learn which one you are. So when I try to think of the specifics, I am not a specific manifester. That stresses me out. It makes me feel lost, it makes me feel pressured. So don't focus on that. Don't focus on the things that stress you out. And what do you want to feel about your career? I want to feel stable. I want to feel important. I want to feel like successful. Manifest those feelings. The house, or I'm sorry, the rest is already done for you. I um had a typo. The vehicle and how it comes is done for you. The universe will choose the rest of that. You only have to know what it is, and what it is counts by what it feels like. Or what it feels like counts as what it is. You only have to know what the rest is done. I did not know what I wanted my career to be, but I knew what it would feel like. I knew I would know I was in it, if that makes sense. I knew that I would feel like I was in it. I was there, I was at the destination. This is my career. That's all I knew. I knew I'd have confidence when I arrived. I'm not a specific manifestor. My dad is. So, for example, he loves to pick the color of the house, how many square feet it's gonna be, the exact location it is. He could drive in a neighborhood and be like, that house, I'm manifesting that house right there. Me? No, thank you. That's so much pressure, that stresses me out. But we don't manifest the same. We don't achieve our desires the same. You are not meant to receive the way I receive. You receive in your own unique way. So you can go find my light babe academy in my bio. I love you so much. I hope this tip works for you. Let me know if you found some clarity. I'm sending you so much love and success. Bye.