Trailer - A First Phone Date And Real Talk From The Tub

TubTalk with Jill & Tam : Episode 1: “The Phone Date”

Welcome to the very first episode of TubTalk with Jill and Tam, the podcast where real conversations, unfiltered laughter, friendship, dating, life over 50, and spontaneous chaos all happen from a bathtub. 

In this debut episode, Jill returns to social media after years away and opens up about something completely new for her… her very first PHONE DATE. 

Join Jill and Tam as they dive into the hilarious realities of dating over 50, navigating modern relationships, Facebook “research,” personality types, love languages, and the nerves that come with putting yourself back out there again later in life.

From wondering what to wear for an audio-only date to debating whether hair should be up or down in case it turns into FaceTime, this episode is relatable, funny, vulnerable, and packed with authentic girl talk.

If you’re a woman over 50 navigating dating, relationships, healing, reinvention, confidence, or simply learning to laugh again — this podcast is for you.

In This Episode:

•  Dating over 50 
•  First phone date experiences 
•  Modern dating conversations 
•  Love languages and connection 
•  Personality types in relationships 
•  Confidence after heartbreak 
•  Starting over later in life 
•  Friendship, laughter, and real talk 
•  The “Rebirth of Jill Birth” 

Whether you’re single, dating, divorced, healing, or just love honest conversations between two women figuring life out in real time — welcome to TubTalk.

✨ New episodes coming soon.
 And remember… “Talk Blonde to Me.” ✨

Transcript

Back Live And In The Tub

SPEAKER_01 0:01

Hey guys. We we are coming to you live. Jill, how long has it been since you've gone live?

SPEAKER_00 0:08

Oh my gosh, it's been years. It's been at least a couple years since I've gone live. So hello everyone. I'm back.

SPEAKER_01 0:15

She is back. I think this is the rebirth of Jill Birth.

SPEAKER_00 0:18

You know what? It's something. You guys, it's been a long time since I've even been here with all of you. And I'm so excited to be back. So it is the rebirth of Jill Birth for sure.

SPEAKER_01 0:29

You guys don't know this. Jill has been living with me since October.

SPEAKER_00 0:34

Yeah, since no October. And the funnest, the funnest part about living with Tammy is that we just don't even know what's gonna come out of her mouth. So this is called tub talk because we're in the tub, if you can't tell. In the big do this. Here we go. We got Marilyn in the background, of course. Yes. Look, look, look. Okay. So we're in the tub. We got some tub talk going on with you.

SPEAKER_01 1:05

And you've got your support pillow from Anne Baronte.

SPEAKER_00 1:09

Yes. Thank you, Anne. Love it so much.

Tub Talk Setup And Dynamic

SPEAKER_00 1:12

Anyway, so the best thing is that we never know what's going to come out of Tammy's mouth. So here we are. What's up, Tam?

SPEAKER_01 1:19

Here we are. Well, you guys, Jilly has planned tub talk with Jill and Tam for four months. Finally, I said, get the hell in the tub. I'm sick of hearing about it. We've ordered our theater curtain behind us. We've done everything. So we finally tonight got in the tub. We're going to have a little conversation here. We're going to play with Jill for a second. Oh no. Yeah. And we're just going to throw it at you. What? So, for those of you that know, Jill is very literal and everything is planned out. Oh, all the time. And I'm fly by the seat of your pants, and you never know what I'm going to say.

SPEAKER_00 1:54

Oh gosh. Okay. I don't know where this is going. She just said, let's jump in the tub and let's start talking. So here we go. What's up, Tam?

SPEAKER_01 2:02

We're going to, Jilly, we're going to start having these sessions. You know, episode

Why Dating Over 50 Matters

SPEAKER_01 2:06

one, season one. Okay. So we're going to have this for you guys, and we're going to give advice and life experiences. But tonight, this is going to be about dating over 50. That's our topic.

SPEAKER_00 2:18

Oh, geez. Okay, well, you go because you're over 50. Yeah. So let's talk about you and your dating over 50.

SPEAKER_01 2:25

Did she have to say I'm over 50? Yeah. Well, she wanted to throw it in the 60s, but she didn't. But but let's not talk about my dating. No, let's talk about your dating. It's all. I don't, I I have no dating. I'm just here with you, you know, doing fun things. But I'm not dating. So I don't know what she's talking about. You guys, tonight Jill has a special occasion, a first. Jill birth is rebirthing and having a first. What's the first, Jilly?

SPEAKER_00 2:55

You guys, I have why are you bringing this up? He's not watching. Go. I

Jill’s First Phone Date Nerves

SPEAKER_00 3:02

have my first phone date tonight. First phone date.

SPEAKER_01 3:06

What the hell is a phone date?

SPEAKER_00 3:07

Well, I don't know. I said, you know, I have really high expectations for this because I've never had a phone date. And I said, what should I wear for the phone date? And he said, Well, it's gonna be audio only. But then I'm like, well, what if he turns it into a FaceTime? Like, what should I wear?

SPEAKER_01 3:25

So What if it turns into phone sex? Can't you don't know you guys? This if you ever have a lot turned into that.

SPEAKER_00 3:34

What in the world?

SPEAKER_01 3:36

Okay, so let's think just how did you make this guy? What do you know about him?

SPEAKER_00 3:40

So I don't know much about him, but I know that he is a great guy. I'm not gonna give away who it is. No, you can't. What if things don't work out?

SPEAKER_01 3:51

Like what if he dumps you? It's gonna be totally embarrassing. You guys are all gonna ask about Jill's phone date because of this. Okay, so tell me a little bit. How did you meet him? Was it through the the app hookup or no?

SPEAKER_00 4:04

Oh, I am not sure. Did someone know him? Well, my friend knows Ann. Okay. And I know that he is a great person.

SPEAKER_01 4:14

Oh, that's good. And how do you assume that, Julie? Exactly. How do you know that we're talking about it?

SPEAKER_00 4:20

Well, you do a little Facebook stalking. Why are we talking about this? Okay, so you just do a little Facebook stalking. What does that look like? Facebook stalking. Well, you just kind of go on and see what they're about a little bit.

SPEAKER_01 4:33

Oh, so you don't just trust the universe.

SPEAKER_00 4:36

Well, no, I trust the universe. That's why I'm trusting to do a phone date tonight.

SPEAKER_01 4:42

Okay, so what happens if he gets on the date? He gets on the phone date. Yeah. And he doesn't like what you're wearing. Well, it's not gonna be a FaceTime. It's just voice. Just voice. Oh, like a voiceover. Would you rather I pretend like I'm you with that book says? What do you think? Oh my gosh. He would probably run the other way. You think? Maybe. Why do you think that? What what do you think? What type of personality is he? A red, a blue, a white, a yellow?

SPEAKER_00 5:12

Oh my gosh, I don't know, but he's so into family for sure. Blue.

Vetting A Date And Better Questions

SPEAKER_00 5:18

So into foo. That's you. Yeah, but he's a professor, a business professor. So smart. Smart. Smart smart and white. He's blue-white. No, because he's funny. He's super funny. Yellow. He's all the colors. What do you think, Tam? He's he's the perfect date. I mean, maybe you should be on the phone date with us, like a like a three-way.

SPEAKER_01 5:40

We're having a three-way date. This would be fun. What should I wear?

SPEAKER_00 5:45

Well, it's not a FaceTime. You could just wear this. Like, we're fine. Oh my gosh.

SPEAKER_01 5:51

Okay, so now we're gonna talk. How long does a phone date last?

SPEAKER_00 5:54

Well, I don't know. Okay, so for all of you that are watching, you tell us. Like, what is a phone date? What does that even mean? How long should it last? What qu what are your best questions that I should ask on this phone date to get to know someone, right?

SPEAKER_01 6:13

And just you'll play hard to get. Oh, this is good. Okay. So what do you do? The guy's nice. Are you overly nice and complimentary? Do you like be a yellow and tell him how handsome he sounds? Because it's all about sounds. So what does she do, you guys? What does she do now on her phone date?

SPEAKER_00 6:33

Yeah, I don't even know. So you guys are gonna have to tell me. I've never done this before. This is the first of a first. So give me some good questions I can ask on the phone date. And how long should it last?

SPEAKER_01 6:47

Okay, another question. Is he married or single?

SPEAKER_00 6:50

Well, he's single. How do you know? Well, because it says on his profile. But someone could lie. I don't know. You know what? We never know these days. We don't know.

SPEAKER_01 7:01

That was the wrong answer. You stalked him.

SPEAKER_00 7:03

I well, I stalked him, but it says on his profile that he's that he's single. So I'm assuming because I'm I'm literal. Yes. I'm literal, so I'm assuming that he And trusting. And trusting. I think that's a good thing. That could be too. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And our mutual friend says he's single, so that's good too. Oh, that's good. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 7:23

So this is gonna be a so we're looking at a really good phone date. Okay. What are you gonna eat?

SPEAKER_00 7:31

Well, I don't know. Maybe we'll have like hot chocolate together or something.

SPEAKER_01 7:35

That would be fun. Like as you're talking, you're drinking your hot cocoa. Well, we wouldn't know because it's just audio. Okay, you guys, do you think she should like say to him, so what are you drinking? You know, just to see if they connect or not. Like what if he's having something really funky, like root beer and Dr. Pepper? Is he in or out? Well, I don't even know. You haven't thought that out?

SPEAKER_00 7:58

No, no, I don't know.

SPEAKER_01 8:01

You're just flying by the seat of your face.

SPEAKER_00 8:03

I'm fly, I'm a fly by the seat. Well, I'm literal, but I like to f I love surprises. So let's see if he surprises me.

SPEAKER_01 8:09

Do you wear perfume? I mean, let's pretend like this is the guy. Guys, how many of you think what phone date this is gonna be? Oh my god. Like I can't. I don't want to build you up that he's gonna like it. He might not.

SPEAKER_00 8:23

He might not.

SPEAKER_01 8:24

But look your best for the breakdown.

SPEAKER_00 8:26

I will. I'll look my best for the breakdown. I mean, I hope what I'm wearing is fine because this is what I've been wearing all day. So I'm not changing. What about your hair? Up or down? Up or oh, I don't know. You guys, should I wear my hair up or down? Like if he turns it into a FaceTime, should I have my hair up or down? Should I put on something different? I mean, I don't even know what to think about. What about glasses? Because you said faster. Well, maybe I should wear glasses so

Love Language And Date Update Tease

SPEAKER_00 8:54

I look smarter and a pocket protector. Uh that will oh, that pocket protector.

SPEAKER_01 8:59

You're a you're a sealed deal, baby. Ugh, I think this is gonna be a fun night. What do you think? It's it is gonna be so fun. So, what we want you guys to know, this is episode one, it's kind of our trailer, Jill's phone date, uh, two blondes in a tub with Marilyn. It it's gonna be great. You're gonna hear a lot from us. And it's two gals single, over 50s. I'm later 50s, but anyway, that's another thing. Not really single. It's just all what it is. Jillie, this is gonna be an amazing date for you. You know what? I can't wait, you guys. We'll let you know how it goes. And one last thing we want to know. What is your love language? So let's know if you connect.

SPEAKER_00 9:43

What would be my love language is words of affirmation.

SPEAKER_01 9:47

Mmm. So he's gonna affirm you over the phone. There we go. He'll say, You sound so pretty.

SPEAKER_00 9:54

I'm sure you will smart. Yes. Oh, yes, I'm sure you will.

SPEAKER_01 9:59

Well, it's been fun, you guys. Wait. We're going to have the update of the phone date. Something you've never experienced. I love that update of the phone date. I love it. We're coming soon. Watch us. All right. See you. Good luck, Jilly. Good luck to the date. Thank you. Have a great night. Love talk. Love talk. We love ya.