Dating After Divorce | Episode 4 Part 2 - with guest Marilla Garcia

Blind Dates, Dating Over 50 & Blonde Logic 😂

Dating after divorce over 50? Apparently it now includes blind dates, power rings, “power panties,” and therapist-approved advice. 💀

In Episode 4 Part 2 of TubTalk with Jill & Tam, the girls are back in the tub with licensed therapist Marilla Garcia for another hilarious and unfiltered conversation about dating after divorce, first dates over 50, relationship expectations, confidence, religion, and what questions you SHOULD ask on a date.

This episode takes a wild turn when Tam reveals she secretly set Jill up on a blind date… and chaos immediately follows. 😂

In this episode:

•  Dating over 50 
•  Blind date advice 
•  First date questions to ask 
•  Dating after divorce 
•  Confidence after heartbreak 
•  Religion & relationships 
•  Red flags on first dates 
•  Masculine vs feminine energy 
•  Self-worth & standards 
•  Funny girlfriend conversations 
•  Therapist advice vs blonde logic 😂 

Plus:
 ✨ The importance of “power rings”
 ✨ Why Tam thinks church dresses are ruining Jill’s dating life 💀
 ✨ What to ask someone on a first date
 ✨ Debating Applebee’s first dates 🍔
 ✨ The return of the chaotic cookie sponsorship 🍪

If you love:

•  relationship podcasts 
•  dating podcasts for women over 50 
•  funny real-life dating stories 
•  women supporting women 
•  healing after divorce 
•  unfiltered girlfriend conversations 
•  self-growth with humor 

…this episode is for you.

Grab your favorite drink, hop in the metaphorical tub with us, and get ready for laughs, dating disasters, therapist wisdom, and full blonde chaos.

✨ Talk Blonde to Me ✨

Transcript

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Okay, I we're back. Are we back? I don't know if this is part two. I don't know if part one even posted. We don't even know, but we're back. We're back. Okay. So this is a good question for you guys. Okay. The hat's too hot. She it looks so good on you. Could you show them your power ring? Every girl, here's a tip. Okay. You need a power ring, something you can point at people, get your point across, wear your power ring. They're very powerful. Yes. Another tip I'm gonna give you guys power panties. Oh, I love power panties. Power panties are amazing. Yeah. I think that if if you have a good butt, oh the thong with rhinestone. Then I probably shouldn't wear that. Well, I I don't want to hear about your butt. But anyway, you guys saw I think you have a great butt. Oh, thank you. You're like the best friend. Do therapists always make you feel good about yourself? We try. That's that's what that was good. But oh let's calling. Well, so we're not taking that. But when we're back to deal with dates, what I've done, you guys don't know this, but I have found her a date. What? I was waiting for the for this to end to tell you. I found you a date. Okay. And tell me more. I can't. Oh. It's a secret. Okay. It's a secret to a Mormon ex-wife. Have you dated him before? I was in high school, he was in sixth grade. Anyway, it's no big deal. Is this the secret lover that you have? That you talked about last time? She's trying to line me up. I would hope she's not lining me up with her secret lover. Good, because I'm talking about that secret lover from last time. He was really good. But anyway, so Jilly, I have someone for you. Oh, geez. Let me tell you you're going tomorrow night. What? Okay, well. And I got I we you know, Rella, I started to feel bad for her. Oh. It's a it's a like mercy date. It's like a pity date. Kind of. And I ask him, he's really nice, and I asked him if he'd take you out. What color is he? Like, okay, Caucasian. Is that what you meant? That's not what I meant. Oh. We have talked about color codes in the past, right? So we've talked about personalities. Like the yellows are fun and outgoing, right? Uh very fun. Okay, blues. Blues. Loyal. Yeah. He's he's a yellow. He's a yellow? Okay. Oh. Yeah. And he's been my friend forever. So blue, loyal. Okay, loyal. But he's not bossy. Is he white? Oh. He's not bossy. He's not red. He's not bossy red. Is he uh white at all? Like analytical? Is he that won't work for you? Is he good in business? Like, I don't know. I thought she was gonna say something else. Yeah, Marella, thank you for saying it. I wouldn't know. Um I think he's really good in business. I think I think my friend's really good in business. Okay. So I am taking care of you. But fun? Like my little sister. Okay. It's gonna be so fun. You're not gonna believe it. I can't wait. I'm gonna put a sirel. Very good looking. Very, very good looking. Yeah. We can't, I can't let her go on with someone who's not good looking, very good in business, fun. Oh, fun. Smart. He is smart. Okay. Like a good leader, somebody who listens and like takes into considerations. Just really quick, what are some good questions I could ask him on a date then? Oh, if I'm going on this day, it's a blind date. Hopefully, he's not blind. I don't know. I mean, he could be. We'll find out. Really pretty eyes. He's not blind. Oh. Really pretty eyes. So, but what what are some good first date questions that I could ask? Okay, let's think. Some good first date questions. I think you have to ask him what his religion is. Okay. We did we didn't really talk about that. We were gonna talk about that tonight. A little bit about religion. Yeah, we could talk religion. That's really good. Um, I think they'll get along in religion. I think at this point, dating after divorce, dating after 50. You kind of just gotta jump in and know the things. Oh, you don't think he's married? I don't think so. Oh, good. Well, we don't know for sure. Well, I haven't seen him for a while. Okay. Yeah. But it'll be good. But that's important. But religion. I would just ask him the questions right up front. All the things you need to know. What are his goals for the rest of his life? Oh. You know, ish. Like he doesn't know like exactly, but kind of what is he thinking? What are his hopes and dreams? And um because she answered that like right at the front door when I introduce him. So what are your aspirations, hopes, and dreams? Well, just so they'll like warm up. I mean, how do we do it? Well, that's really awkward, you know, for those first dates, especially after 50. Like, what do you say? What's your favorite color? Yeah. How many kids do you have? Yes. Yeah. Yes. How many times have you been married? Yes. Why did you get divorced? I I Oh, I just, you know, you can kind of talk about that, but I'm like, let's just move forward. Like, everyone has a story. Yes. Just kind of asking what kind of car do you drive. Well, he'll be driving it. Is he picking me up? Well, he's I think he's picking you up. I said, do not bring your bands. Oh. Don't bring your bands. Come in something a little bit more comfortable. All right. And I think he's going to open the door for you guys. I can tell. If he doesn't, then what happens? Do you walk back in? Rilla, do you walk back in if they don't open the door? No, I think it's just one of those things like we talked about last time. Mental note. Oh, mental note at the door. Remember that for next time. That's gonna be big. And what if he takes a like to Applebee's for the 1095 hamburgers, which I think are very good, by the way. But what about that, Marilla? What do you think about that? Because somebody might be okay with that. I can't tell you if that's good or bad or right or wrong for you, but if you are okay with that. Oh, what we got going on? Yeah. Wow. Yeah. That's a real link. Maybe I should wear that tomorrow night, Tam. Got the housing. L H D is my grandma. She can't wear just this on a first date, Tam. What kind of guys do you think she's she can pan this? Oh my gosh. All right. Okay. Wears modest. Yes. Modest is modest. She is modest. She's very modest. Yeah. Modest is not the hottest, but it'll be fine on the date. He asked me, he said, Tammy, is she really religious? I'm like, oh, I kind of lied. I said she's fine. Okay. Does she kiss on the first date? I'm That depends. Oh. You might be lucky back that night. This might be good. Her date, you guys, tomorrow night. I'm really excited because he's my friend. Oh, okay. Well, Sam. You're well. So we'll be back here in the tub. Talk blonde to me. Yeah, talk blonde to me. What we don't know what we're gonna talk about next time, do we? We don't. But we're gonna plan, we're gonna do that. We're gonna figure it out. Maybe if you guys have any ideas or questions, things quite that you want to know about us or about dating after divorce or dating after 50, um, any uh questions or concerns you have for Tam. Learning to dance, we can help. You have dance lessons here, Marilla. We could do that. Okay, yeah, we could do dance lessons. Sure. We can cheer. We can share. Like coaching. Yeah. We could tell you about retreats that we know about. Oh, for sure. Yeah, yeah. Products. Yeah. Products, the retreats we're gonna put on. Yeah. Yes. Yeah, and you guys are welcome to sign up as soon as we get it going. Yeah, for sure. That would be great. Well, we want to thank our our sponsor, Elisa. Let's have the taste test. All right. Here we go. Taste it, Nick at least. Thank you so much. This one's my favorite. It's the peanut butter chocolate. It's so good. Maryland try the, I'm telling you. Lemon. Sugar cookie lemon is the best. Tam and Kat how many. She's already had the high. I've already had one and a half. It's too much. I love it. Anyway, we're excited, you guys. Thanks for joining us in In the Tub with Jill Tam and the therapist Marilla. I love it. And remember. A little bit of logic. Logic. Send us some questions. We're gonna ask Marilla because you guys, she doesn't know. We're not paying her. It's free. It's free. Ask us the questions. She's not getting paid. No. Have the cookie, Marilla. They pay me. It's on us. It's on us. Love you guys. And remember, talk to me to me. See you soon. Hey, will you click the little footage button? Yeah, and I think I need some tower panties. Oh guns. We'll have them next week. We'll be selling those, girls.