The Magic of Manifesting | Episode 6

Manifesting Love, Abundance & Your Dream Life ✨😂

What if the life you truly want is already waiting for you… and you just need to believe bigger?

In this powerful and hilarious episode of TubTalk with Jill & Tam, the girls dive deep into manifestation, abundance mindset, visualization, meditation, positive energy, and creating the life you truly desire.

From vision boards and Bob Proctor teachings to dating after divorce and attracting the right relationship, Jill and Tam share real-life stories about how manifestation completely changed their lives.

In this episode:

•  Manifestation for beginners 
•  How to manifest your dream life 
•  Vision boards & visualization 
•  Abundance mindset 
•  Bob Proctor manifestation techniques 
•  Meditation & subconscious programming 
•  Positive thinking & energy 
•  Dating after divorce 
•  Manifesting healthy relationships 
•  Raising your standards in dating 
•  Personal growth & self-development 
•  Women’s empowerment & healing 

Plus:
 ✨ Jill shares how she manifested winning a $120,000 transformation challenge
 ✨ The story behind manifesting her dream bed in just 2 weeks
 ✨ How manifestation led to a surprising new relationship 👀
 ✨ Why you need to “raise your lid” and protect your energy
 ✨ The “Christmas List” exercise for creating your dream future

You’ll also hear:

•  “Whatever you can hold in your head, you can hold in your hand.” 
•  “Thou shalt not HOW.” 
•  Why being a little delusional may actually be the secret 😂 
•  The importance of surrounding yourself with positive people 
•  How your subconscious mind shapes your future 

If you love:

•  manifestation podcasts 
•  self-development podcasts 
•  Bob Proctor teachings 
•  mindset & abundance conversations 
•  women’s empowerment 
•  healing after divorce 
•  funny girlfriend conversations 
•  spiritual growth & personal growth 

…this episode is for you.

Grab your favorite drink, hop in the metaphorical tub with us, and get ready for laughs, healing, abundance, manifestation, and full blonde chaos.

✨ Talk Blonde to Me ✨

Transcript

SPEAKER_01 0:02

Okay, guys, welcome to Tug Talk with Jill and Tam. And tonight we're really excited, you guys. If you've been following us, we hope you have. We are talking about the magic of manifesting. And Jill has had some really great luck with manifesting. So has Tam. I have too. So I'm going to give you we can end with my story. Oh, we're going to start with your story. Oh, on manifesting. Okay. Okay. So kind of bring everybody to face right now for the last couple and let them know what's been going on in your life. And if any of you don't don't know what manifesting is, Matt Jill has taught me something. What you can hold in your hand, you can hold in your hand. So what are your thoughts? What are you wanting to come to you? Jill has been doing an amazing 30-day exercise, thanks to Bob Proctor. Yes. Jill tell him about it.

SPEAKER_00 0:55

Yeah, so I'm on like day 36 now. Good. Oh, so good. And just so you know, this is like no script, no filter. I just barely walked in the door, and Tam's like, we're gonna jump in the top. So when she says, Jill, go to your first, I'm like, oh, here we here we go. I'll go to me first. Okay, so I love manifesting. Um, and I've been doing it through a meditation um recently with Bob Proctor. Um, it's called the magic of manifesting. And um I just I listen to it at night before I go to bed and in the morning when I wake up, because that, my friends, is the time where when your subconscious mind is the most readily available to be able to manifest your dreams and goals. It's like that little space in between you're kind of asleep, kind of awake. And if I listen to a meditation and I fall asleep, I know I'm good with that too, because your body's your mind still processes and goes through all the meditation, even if you are asleep. So it's perfect. Um, but I Tam, I've had amazing results, not just in the last 30 days, but throughout my whole life with manifesting, with um just putting my dreams and goals out there, you know, whether it's a vision board, whether it's, you know, writing affirmations, writing in a journal, um, and things like that.

SPEAKER_01 2:22

So I want to ask you, because people ask me this what is the difference in manifesting and meditating? So kind of share with that a little bit.

SPEAKER_00 2:31

Yeah, so um and piggyback on this with me for sure, so they know what you think. Got it. Okay. So I feel like meditating is when you're you're just listening and and and you're kind of asleep almost sometimes. Yes. But when you're meditating, you are manifesting because you are taking what you're holding in your head and putting it in your hand. Meaning, if you are visualizing in your head exactly how you want things to happen, then it can kind of you can hold it in your hand, which means it can come to pass, right? It can come to real life. So, for instance, can I give a for instance? Uh-huh.

SPEAKER_01 3:13

And I wanted to say one thing, you guys. When Jill is talking to you about listening, if you are listening to an audio at night as you go to sleep, you that goes into your subconscious. Yes. This the conscious blocks everything, which would say to Jill, that is not true. Why are you thinking you're going to date someone who has a plane or is a pilot, right? Right. The subconscious, whatever you tell it, it does not know the difference between truth and fiction. Yeah. And so um, if I can say this, my son.

SPEAKER_00 3:47

Oh my gosh. He This is really the like, sorry. Dedicated. Yeah, this is dedicated. But her son's vision of everything that's just happening, right? Um, that really got me into DJ. If you're watching, that's really what got me right back into being like, I haven't been manifesting. And so that's when I started my 30-day challenge. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 4:11

And Deech kind of helped us, you know, and he he and we'll talk about things, but he did share with us that before he goes to sleep, he listens in his voice what is his, remember? It's in his hand. He's placed it in his hands. Yeah. So sorry to interrupt.

SPEAKER_00 4:26

No, you're not interrupting. We're doing this together. We're together. It's great. Okay. So what I love, well, I take people through a few different processes. Well, that I'm can I talk about vision boards for just a minute? Yes. Because that was my very first experience with manifesting was vision boards, clear back in I don't even know what year, in the 90s. And um, but really, it started in 2010 when I decided that my dreams mattered. And um, even though I'd had someone, I made a vision board and um they took my vision board. Okay. She took my vision board and she ripped it up into two, like ripped it in half, put it in the garbage can outside, and she made me feel like it was like voodoo-ish. And I knew it wasn't. So I re it took me a couple of years, but I rebuilt my vision board. And on that vision board, um, back in 2010, I had that I was gonna run the half marathon, and I was pretty overweight at this time. And I had on there that I was gonna win this big challenge with the company that I was with, and that I was gonna win the challenge out of all the all the people that were going through this body transformation challenge. And at night, before I'd go to bed and in the morning, I would just visualize, I would use all of my five senses, and I would visualize what it smelled like when I won that challenge, what what it looked like. I visualized streamers going off and them announcing my name. The more that you can use your five senses when you're visualizing your dreams and goals, that is where the magic happens, right there. So, long story short, uh, well, let me okay, long story short, but then I got to move on to another. Yeah, but tell them what happened on that visualization. So, on that visualization, um, I ended up being one of the semifinalists for this contest. And I, but I knew it. I'd already held it in my head. I knew I could hold it in my hand. You could smell it. I could smell it, I could taste it, please, I could just, I could visualize the entire the entire thing. Um, and when I was standing up on that big stage in front of thousands of people, um, and they called my name is the winner, I the streamers went off exactly how I visualized it and everything. Like it was exactly, exactly how I visualized it. And um, I ended up winning a lot of money that year.

SPEAKER_01 6:55

Um the interesting thing, you guys, is Gill, we met through my company. I'm gonna say my company because I'm I've been here 20 years and I'm well it was called the Ice Abody Challenge. I think yours is trying to reconnect. Okay, there we go. It was the Isa Body Challenge, and Jill, I would do meetings, and Jill would come down from Salt Lake, and she pulled me aside and she goes, I'm gonna win the 120,000. It was 120. What in the world? And I'm looking at this girl, and I I know the transformation. I'm thinking, do you know how many people are pushing for the 120,000? But she kept telling me, I'm winning it. It's done. And I was on the front row when you won that. I'll never forget the streamers and everything. Oh my god. But she taught me talk about it, talk about it, talk about it.

SPEAKER_00 7:43

But before that even happened, I just need to backtrack a little bit. Um, I needed a new bed. I needed a new bed, and um, so I put on my vision board a picture of a four post-king size bed. And um, because I thought it was cool. So, like just it, this one happened like in two weeks. So two weeks later, my brother-in-law, who worked at the Hotel Utah at the time, um, he it was closing down. And he called me, he said, Do you know anyone that would need a it's a brand new king size four-post bed? And I'm like, Oh, I just manifested that thing. Right. So that happened within two weeks, and that really put the drive and the faith and the hope and the trust in really what I was doing. Um, and it can happen for you too. I love that, right?

SPEAKER_01 8:38

And I want to say, because we're talking about how DJ's really got us back in this, it's been very interesting. He's kind of our coach. And I'll never forget the jazz was doing their draft. Oh, yeah. DJ, I think he said 2,000 people. You already picked the two people they were gonna draft. And DJ picked who he thought it would be. And he called me and goes, Mom, I've put this in because the winners are going to be flown to Salt Lake and meet the jazz and blah, blah, blah. So, and he'd been doing this, you guys. He had been doing manifesting and visualization and meditating. And he calls me the next morning, he goes, Mom, I got up in the middle of the night, I looked at my email, they chose me. And I said to him, Of course they did, son. So there's another example of putting out what you want, yeah, breathing it, believing it, writing it down, seeing it happen. So absolutely. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 9:33

And just it's been a blessing raising my kids as well, because it's helped them to put things out there too. To, you know, some people call it the universe, to God, whatever you believe in. Um, for us, we call it God, but to put it out there, um, there's a can I go spiritual for a second? Absolutely. Okay. So there's a story in the Bible where Jesus and his disciples are walking along the road and there's a blind man who wants to be healed. And the disciples were a little bugged because they were in a hurry to get somewhere. Um, but Jesus, of course, stopped, went over to the blind man, and he asked the blind man, he said, What do you want? Well, obviously the disciples were like, Oh, here we go again. Like, we know what he wants. He's blind, he wants to be healed, right? He wants to be able to see. But Jesus wanted to know if the blind man really knew what he wanted. Um, and the same goes for us. Uh-huh. Like, we're we're like, oh, please, you know, we're saying our prayers, like, please bless us, please bless us. And at the same time, we don't even really know what we want. And so Jesus is, you know, he did, he does the same thing with the blind man as he does for us. He's like, do you really know what you want? Right. So that's why it's so important to either write, you we know what written goals are like, right? If you don't write it down, it's kind of like a wish. And but if you write it down, then it's gonna happen for you, right? Right. So take me forward.

SPEAKER_01 11:07

So you've done one Ice the Body Challenge. That was amazing. I that I became a believer in that. Thank you. I've at uh attended the bliss retreats we attended together. Yes. And one thing we got from that I loved is some of you are sitting there going, but how's it gonna happen? Right and Jill raised her hand in the meeting and she said, Thou shalt not howl. Thou shalt not howl. Powerful guys, don't worry how it's going to happen. It is going to happen when you really believe. But let's go fast forward. Where are you at with this now? With manifesting. Manifesting. What are you doing with it? Well, I 36 days in. Right, 36 days in.

SPEAKER_00 11:50

And tell them how you do it. What do you do night and morning? Yeah. I do it in the morning, I do it at night, and sometimes if I wake up in the middle of the night, I do it then too. Just to do it. Yeah. So I just turn on my app. I have a map called Mine Valley, but you can turn, you can go to YouTube and find a meditation that you love or manifestation, you know, man meditation. And um, and just and I listen to it. And um sometimes I fall asleep, but um, it's super, super powerful. And so many things are falling into place for me. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 12:27

Jill and I, Jill lives here in my home for the time being, and it has been so.

SPEAKER_00 12:32

It's her favorite place, it's her favorite part of her life, is how can you live here?

SPEAKER_01 12:36

It is, yeah. It it no, it really is you guys. I'm gonna give you words of the whys. You will resonate at the energy of the people you're with. That you've been around. Yeah. If you're with somebody negative, guys, good luck. Jill is always up. Good morning. You look like you had a hard night, Tim.

SPEAKER_00 12:56

Some some mornings we do cheers.

SPEAKER_01 12:58

Yeah. We do whatever it takes. Raise your vibration. So we've I've been watching her for 36 days since she's been listening. DJ has been coaching us. So go ahead with what's new. What is new, Tim? What do you mean? Well, if you followed us, uh we've been trying to line Jill up. And men have been hard. We're going back into this again? I don't know. What? I don't know, but but we were here, two single women here alone for months. Yes. And then Jill starts doing her meditating and manifesting.

SPEAKER_00 13:29

And then I have a phone date, and then I have two phone dates. Then I have a second phone date, which turned into a FaceTime, and then I had a real date. Yeah, she had the real date.

SPEAKER_01 13:40

And the real date is the part of why we're doing this. Yes. So I don't know what you want to share, what you don't want to share. Go ahead, Jill, hit him with that. Well, what do you feel free to share?

SPEAKER_00 13:51

Well, what I feel free to share is that, as you know, you heard that the date went amazing. And I really like him. And he really likes me. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 14:03

And that well, who knew? No. And I've got to tell you what was really fun about this, like watching Jill and going on this and manifesting. We talked one day, and the thing about manifesting, and we're going to share this with you at the end of this, but you have to be delusional. You have to say things. Jill popped up with something.

SPEAKER_00 14:25

People would think you were crazy. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 14:27

They want to think you're crazy. And we used to play, like, I would call her and say, when she didn't live here, I'd say, So how is that guy you're dating that's on the jazz? Is he flying you in by the way?

SPEAKER_00 14:37

I mean, like, oh he's in he's picking me up in a limo town. And like we were delusional. Delusional.

SPEAKER_01 14:44

But it was fun. It was fun. And so Jill went on a real date, and she had said around here, okay, Tammy, I'm raising my sights really high. I know I'm not going to stay in here anymore. I need someone who really wants to pay attention to me, that wants to communicate. And she said, they're going to have a plane.

SPEAKER_00 15:02

Well, and I said the it's not about the plane. It was just setting the bar high. I'm like, whoever I'm going to be with, he's going to have a plane. And I said to her, Well, what if he has like a pilot's license?

SPEAKER_01 15:14

I'm like, oh, I'll settle for a pilot's license. But it was interesting, guys, because she said, I am raising my bar. And so she went on the date last week, and I will say I was allowed to answer the door. And he's very handsome and very kind and very charismatic. But go ahead with what you've put on paper and what you're looking for.

SPEAKER_00 15:37

Yeah. So, well, he has his pilot's license, which is hysterical. I love that. So, Tam, I'm gonna take it one step further. Okay. And um, I teach women how to do what I call ideal life vision. Thank you, Anne Webb, if you're watching this, because she taught me this. So I learned ideal life vision when I was going through my first divorce, and we were going to trial. And we didn't need to go to trial. And I she I was at a business lunch and she heard me talking. I didn't know Anne at the time, and she heard me talking. And after it was done, she goes, I can help you change the outcome of that. I'm like, Woof, that would be so great. So she helped me write a little paragraph about the court and that we wouldn't need to go to court, and you know, and as if it was happening or already happened, record it in my own voice and listen to it, just like DJ's been doing. Yes, right. So for years, I've taught women how to do this in five different areas of um their lives. We'll go into that another time. I think I should do a course on vision boards. Let's do one. We'll do we'll do a vision board course and an idea life vision. Anyway, um, so I did the same thing with manifesting my the love of my life. And um I haven't read it for a while, but uh, but I do listen to it from time to time. For a little while there though, I was like, oh, this isn't happening. Like I'm not bringing them in and or bringing him in by manifesting. So I kind of stopped doing it. But as I was getting ready this morning, I'm like, he is everything I've asked for.

SPEAKER_01 17:18

It is, and you guys, I being on the sidelines watching this, I'm shocked. Like it's I knew I've been shocked by Dijin and Jill with just the funness of watching him over little things, is so magical. And so Jill, can I, because we've been here a minute, can I kind of close this out when you come in? Yeah. Okay. What I want to tell you, Jill and I were talking about this. Do you guys remember when you were a little child? And it was going to be Christmas. Oh, and you wrote the Christmas list. Yes. You know, you wrote that one gift you wanted, and you didn't doubt that you were not going to get those gifts. You knew those presents would be under the tree from Santa. And I was always a dreamer. I've always been a dreamer. I'm of Pisces. I dream, everything's delusional. But remember when you went out and it really happened. Yeah. And so what we wanted you guys to do is make your Christmas list right now of what you want to happen.

SPEAKER_00 18:18

What you want and go be it. And nothing that's too big and nothing that's too small. Put it all on paper. That's your first homework, is put it all on paper. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 18:29

And you and you're gonna watch your Christmas list. Yes. And you I want you to watch the five people you surround yourself with. This is a very important. If you have to lift your lid, right? You gotta lift your lid. And remember, everything's energy. So if you're here and they're here and they're pulling, it's hard.

SPEAKER_00 18:46

But what happens if one of those people is your spouse and you cannot get away from that? Like they're your spouse. What do you do then?

SPEAKER_01 18:54

Right. So what I need you to do is I have a saying, uh, so I'll throw this out there. Be still in grace. Uh don't nag. Yeah. Don't be rude. Be still.

SPEAKER_00 19:08

And maybe go into your corner. I love that. And I love what Mel Robins, we are not a Mel Robbins for sure. We were we're not as cool as her, but I love what she says in the book, let them. Um, that you have to let your spouse be where they're at, but you can focus on your own self, right? And sometimes as you start coming up, they're they're gonna start kind of watching what you do, and they start coming up too.

SPEAKER_01 19:34

Yeah. And they understand one of the great things sometimes, and it's it's the best thing you can do for someone is let's pretend like Jill was negative every day, every day. I could say to Jill, Jill, this might work for you, but it doesn't work for me anymore. Yeah. And then I would walk away. And that is a great statement to lift the bar.

SPEAKER_00 19:57

So and my kids back when they were growing up, they would we would call each other out. I'd be like, Is that your story? Is that your story you're telling yourself? And if I was in a Debbie Downer mood, Annie, my daughter, or someone would be like, Is that your story? And I'm like, Oh, that is not the story I want to put out there, right?

SPEAKER_01 20:16

And Jill and I live by if you say so. Yes. I love that saying, if you say so. If someone says to me, I don't have any money, I'm like, if you say so. Yeah. Because both Jill and I have been independent in our lives and creating what we create. And you when you're on that, you have to be a little bit delusional and do something. So I want to share my personal story that happened just really quickly is that um when we bought this home here in Bloomington 25 years ago, I was earning maybe $3,500 a month. And we bought this beautiful home, and my husband didn't.

SPEAKER_00 20:53

Has a pool, it's so pretty here, you guys. I mean, you only see the bathtub, but the rest of the house is beautiful.

SPEAKER_01 20:59

So pretty. And so I signed the papers on it, and then I remember asking him a month later, how much is my house payment? And the response was it was $25.64. Now remember, I'm making about $3,500. And I looked at him and I just said, How long can I keep this home? And he said, You should have told me that before you signed the papers. Well, I remember just really being sick to my stomach, and I started walking through my entry, and I would say, a large abundance of money is coming my way. Thank you, God. I am so blessed. Thank you. I said it eight and ten times. I would tell Tara, honey, a large abundance of money is coming my way. We know, Mom, DJ, a large abundance of money is coming my way. Mom, we're sure. And it came. It did. And it came from through belief and my work, my work ethic, and everything. So I want to close with this story. Is this okay? Yeah. We want You guys to do your Christmas list, your wish list, what you want. But when Mark Twain and Walt Disney, Walt Disney had filed bankruptcy twice. And Mark Twain says to him, Walt, how's it going? And he said, It's not good at all. I'm going to lose everything. They said that flowers can't dance and animals can't talk. And that Mark Twain looked at Walt and he said, Walt, we dreamers gotta stick together. That's right. Guys, you gotta stick with us. We're going places with you. Yes, we will. Make that wish list, make that Christmas list, speak it at night, speak it in the morning, lift your lid, raise your energy, and the best is yet to come.

SPEAKER_00 22:46

I love that.

SPEAKER_01 22:48

If you say so, we love you guys. We'll see you again. And remember, talk blonde to me. Love you guys. Have an amazing week. We'll see you soon.