For Stepper's Only Podcast: Raw UnCut and Unedited
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For Stepper's Only Podcast: Raw UnCut and Unedited
Delete My Browser History
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Your friend says “pull it up on my phone,” the browser opens, and suddenly you know way more than you ever wanted to know. That one moment is the spark for a no-filter talk about privacy, sexual preferences, and what it really means to say “I don’t judge” when the screen in front of you tests that claim. Jack leans into the discomfort and the comedy, because sometimes laughter is the only way to talk about the stuff people usually hide.
We go from that browser-history nightmare straight into a Guam nightlife story with a club called Denial, blurry decisions, and a realization that hits hard once the lights come on. It’s funny as hell, but it also raises real questions about consent, assumptions, and why clear boundaries matter even when you’re just “vibing.” Along the way, we share more personal stories about awkward hookups, performance pressure, and the kind of panic that comes when intimacy goes sideways, plus the rare value of having a dad or mentor you can call when you don’t know what to do.
Then we shift into our “No Face, No Case” segment with a listener message that’s painfully relatable: a long-term partner comes out as bisexual, then the truth comes out about cheating with a woman who was treated like a friend. We talk trust, honesty, and the difference between someone’s identity and someone’s choices. We also dig into the hard conversations couples avoid, like what counts as cheating, what boundaries look like, and whether “exploring” together is even on the table.
If you’ve ever wondered how much of your desire should stay private, how to react when you learn something unexpected, or how to rebuild after lying, you’ll have opinions on this one. Subscribe for more, share this with a friend who tells the truth, and leave a review telling us what you’d do if that browser tab popped up on your screen.
Unfiltered Opening And Host Intro
SPEAKER_02And I know damn well I can't speak, but baby, I'm a dog down.
SPEAKER_00Put the wet and dripping up and like trippin', I think put it, dripping bitches. I don't gymnasi put the break and flip.
SPEAKER_02I don't think y'all motherfuckers are ready this morning for four only. I'm Jack, by the way. That little motherfucker, like y'all always say all the time, but hey, we tell y'all like this all the time, no matter how big or how small I am. We tell you to sit back and watch a motherfucker step for step. But I don't think y'all are ready for this episode at all. I mean at all. Because I mean shit, we gotta hit y'all with this. Uh-oh. I know y'all, a lot of y'all freaky motherfuckers out there know what that sound means. But hey, I just got a preference. Cause I mean, like I'm gonna tell y'all like this
The Browser History Premise
SPEAKER_02right now. The name of this episode is Delete My Browser History When I Die.
unknownWhoo!
SPEAKER_02Delete my browser history. So there's a reason why I came up with this concept. Because I mean, we were having a discussion the other day. Um, and me and my couple of my partners, you know, we were just talking about the shit. And we was like, shit, man, there's some freaky motherfuckers out here. There's some real freaky motherfuckers out here. I mean, shit, I mean, like I say to people all the time, I don't judge shit. I mean, because why would I want somebody judging me off my situations? Um, because like shit, like a philosophy of mine is if you buy a plan B, you better make sure you use that motherfucker to the fullest at maximum extent. Because I mean, you got what is it, 24, 48 hours? Do that motherfucker goddamn start gesturing and doing it, whatever you gotta do. So you better goddamn get your money's worth your 52.95 out of that motherfucker. We talking about down at the local CVS. So what we're saying is this is my question to all the masses out there.
When The Search Bar Snitches
SPEAKER_02So I asked one of my sisters, and I asked a couple of my partners. I even asked my 19-year-old son this. Hey, what would you do if you know you you you you and your partner kicking it and you need to look up something? Now you tell me something, hey bro, look at this X, Y, Z. And the motherfucker pulls up his browser, and the first thing you see is this motherfucker been looking at chicks with dicks. Them lady boys. Them, I come in you, you come on floor. Type shit. What do you say? What is your response? Because I mean, to me, I was just like, whoo. I just try to shrug that shit off like it's regular porn, you know what I'm saying? But in my mind, it's like, bro, what type shit you on, bro? Shit, man, because I don't want I don't want to be goddamn hitting something from the back and I feel this, hitting but hitting back on my leg. What the fuck, what the hell is that? What the hell is that? So I we were having a discussion, and one of my one of my friends, she, she, she out there. She out there. Um, and the the biggest thing that that she said was, you know, Jay, you know I'm I'm bisexual, so woo-woo, woo-woo, woo-da woo. Bit, come on. Be for real. There's no way in hell you gonna sit there and tell me that you would be okay with your your boyfriend, your husband, this, that, and the third. Hitting some with a penis, but has titties up top and real pretty in the face. But it still has a penis. I mean, if that's your faute, that's your faute.
Guam Nightlife And A Sudden Realization
SPEAKER_02Because I'll tell y'all a funny story that happened um when I was stationed out in Guam to one of my buddies. He's gonna kill me when I talked about this. I know for a fact he's gonna kill me. So, you know, we it's our first night on the on the island. If y'all, a lot of y'all don't know, I'm five fucking six. I'm um motherfuckers be telling me I'm short all the time. I don't give a fuck. I still bite your motherfucking ankles. But anyway, we're gonna go back to this story. So it's our first night on the island, our first weekend of Liberty, as we done got checked in, everything in it said and the third. So we hit up this club called Denial in Tuman. If anybody knows about Tumon, they got one, they got one bar down there that used to sell drinks when I was there for what was it? It was like, it was like you paid $10 to get in and you get free will drinks until 12, as many as you can handle, as many as you can, you know, digest. So that was our first spot for hidden. So we ended up, we we walked outside, you know, we walking down the strip. It's a lot of fucking clubs, strip clubs, you know, shit like that on this strip. So we see this one bar, we see this one club bar, whatever the fuck you want to call it, and the line is like like it's like one of those spots you be like, God damn, what the fuck is going on in there? I need to be in that motherfucker. So we end up going standing the line. So we ain't paying no attention, no attention at all. The name of the club is fucking denial. So, I mean, shit, we just know my motherfuckers be got down naming clubs, weird shit just to get motherfuckers' attention, this, that, and the third, whatever, whatever. So we ain't paying no never mind to that shit. Because we we are highly inebriated. When I tell you we are highly inebriated, we got to that fucking club at like what was it, like like nine o'clock, and we were drinking until 12 till they cut off the freewheel drinks. So we like I'm double fisting shit. I'm talking about two cups, one in each hand, type shit. So I'm I'm I'm I'm good and we're gonna say liquid or lubricated or you know, highly hydrated, you know what I'm saying? But so we get inside, but we vibing. They got I'm talking about the music is on motherfucking point. I'm I'm talking about I'm in that motherfucker just got them. I'm talking about just vibing. So I look over my homeboy, he just got them over there grinding with a motherfucker. So after I drank all this the liquor, now I'm just drinking water and beer, you know, just to keep, you know, just to keep myself hydrated so I won't have a hangover in the morning. So boom, I'm starting to look around. I'm trying to figure out why all these fucking females are taller than me. I'm talking about my homeboy over there, goddamn telling my I said, boy, he he got them getting it. So the shit about that, so the lights come on. I'm starting to realize these motherfuckers are a little tall. And I'm not saying that like like by a couple inches, I'm talking about these motherfuckers like a couple feet taller than me. I'm like, God damn, these motherfuckers, hands big, feet big. But I ain't paying it, no, never mind, because you know I'm fucked up. So my homeboy got done. We he got we got outside, he's talking about something, hey Jay, you saw that little motherfucker out with she talking about taking me to the hotel. I said, Okay, bro, what hotel you gonna be at? You got your little, you know, your little goddamn um international phone on you, so we can, you know, if you need us, come pick you up. Cause we had a little guam bomb, um, which is like a little, like a little beatle car that you pay a little bit of close to little to no money for when you get on the island. So you know, you can move around and you ain't gotta rent no car. So boom. So, you know, it's a little beetle, man. I'm talking about that motherfucker like that type shit. Like the motherfucker look like it'd been through some world wars and shit. Um, so we out there. And next, so we get all the way back to the compound. My little guy international phone starts ringing. I'm like, shit, who the fuck calling me this late? So I'm because remind you, back in the States, it's 16 hours ahead. I'm thinking it's my mama or somebody else that just wants to see how I'm doing and whether I made it or not, whatever, whatever, whatever. It's my partner. This motherfucker sounded like he got them running for his life. I'm talking about I said, nigga, what's wrong with you? Hey, hey man, hey man, can you can can you come pick me up? What's wrong with you? Don't worry about it, don't worry about it. Just come pick me up, please come pick me up. Okay, so we we get there, and the motherfucker is only in a like a hotel robe, his tennis shoes, I ain't even pay attention whether he had drawers on or not. I really didn't give a fuck. I was just trying to figure out where the fuck his clothes were at. So I'm like, hey bro, shit, he he gets in the car. I was on boom, you hit a goddamn door closed. I said, bro, what's wrong with you? Man, I don't want to talk about it. What you mean, bro? If I just can't pick you up, it's me and my other partner rut in the front seat. We trying to figure out what the fuck is going on with this shit. And it's like, we like, what the fuck is going on with this dude? What what the fuck is what the fuck is his problem? So boom, he tells us, hey man, y'all just y'all, yeah, hey, y'all gotta take this shit to y'all grave. Y'all gotta y'all gotta promise me y'all take this shit to y'all grave. I say, what the fuck, man? Promise me. Well, hey, okay, bro, what's up? He told me something, man. So I was up there, you know, you know, kissing and shit. And boot the woot-woot-woot. I said, okay, y'all. Um, next thing you know, he told me something, man, we got, you know, making out and shit. I ain't paying no not mine. Cause we still up in a hotel taking shots. He told my son, bro, I was fucked up. I had to go take a shower to bounce back, you know, just you know, tighten up. I said, okay. He told me I came out, you know, in this little bathroom that when I got on, and the motherfucker just pushed me down and you know, got the quirk whoa. I said, ooh, bro. So I said, what's the problem? You you down, you, you called us like you were in an emergency. What the fuck happened? Tell me about this motherfucker gonna tell us, man. I'm talking about, man, I got the rubbing. He tells me, I'm feeling titties, I'm feeling woo-doo-woo. He said, I started trying to grab the ass. Motherfucker kept pushing my hand down. He said, No, you know, I'm trying to grab the ass, you know, just trying to, you know, grab a grab, you know, do the pet pet shit. He tells my son, the motherfucker might have wiggled a little bit, and he felt something slap against his leg. I said, bro, you feel something slap against your leg. What you mean, what you mean, her hell or something? He tells my son. Bro, I ain't realize the motherfucker was naked in the room because all the lights were off. But I'm I'm, you know, I ain't feeling no clothes when I'm feeling the titties. I said, okay, well, that's that's cool. That's what I want. He told my song. Bro, I went to reach down there, you know, try to play with the the P, the pussy. Motherfucker ain't got no pussy. I said, what? I said, I said, what it was, what it was like a barber doll? Like the motherfucker just got them a piece of plastic and ain't nothing. He said, no, Jay. No Jack, no Jackson. The motherfucker ain't had no pussy. I said, nigga, I'm slow. Tell me what the fuck it what the fuck? He said, nigga, it had a dick. It goddamn had a motherfucking penis. It had a cock. I said, oh shit. I said, I said, so what did you do? He said, I panicked. I said, well, I said, dude, and I said, well, it's too late to panic. You already got them got your dick in his mouth. I said, you already enjoying it, so why not finish it off? So I'm making a mockery of this shit. If you know me, I make jokes of shit to make shit lighter. Um, because we all get placed in traumatic situations where we cannot function off of bullshit. Um, so I'm making, I'm making a joke of this shit. So I I'm bad about
Dark Humor And Bedroom Preferences
SPEAKER_02that. I got a dark, a very dark sense of humor because I find funniness in the worst of shit. That's like with me on a previous episode about narrowing my balls and other things. Um, that's like somebody asked me one time, like, this is another thing. Um, I mean, I mean, I understand people have their own preferences. Like, one of mine is, they told my something, Jack, would you ever hit a skinny chick? I said, nah, dog. I said, I'll never sleep with a scenic person. I did that shit one time. They said, why? I said, Why, Jack, what was so wrong with it? I said, bro, have you ever hit the edge of a couch? They said, What you mean, the edge of a couch? I said, bro, hitting a skinny chick is like hitting the edge of a couch. I said, You're gonna feel nothing but bone every time you hit that motherfucker. If that motherfucker ain't got no curvature, he talking about something, oh my god, only your ass would think about that shit. Uh, because I'm ignorant. I'm I'm gonna tell y'all like that. I'm ignorant. I I don't have a filter in real life. In certain situations, I do have a filter, in other situations I don't have a filter. And it and it and it gets me in trouble sometimes, but I sometimes I don't just I just don't give a fuck. But because like I remember this one time, this shit pissed me the fuck off. I remember I was, I think I was early 20s because I had just started, yeah, I would I started going to well, I started going to a club at 16, but we ain't gonna talk about that. But um, so I had met this chick, and I think it was was it the day before Valentine's Day or Side Chick Valentine's Day. If y'all don't know, Valentine's Day falls on 14th. Side check Valentine's Day is the 15th. But anyway, um, that's because you can get everything on discount. Um But to go ahead and put it blatantly, so I had, you know, this, you know, did some of this chick. And I wasn't able to finish, you know, release, feel bliss, feel that little floating motion. He did, oh, just you know, feel that emotion. So it was oblivious to me to the point where it's like, okay, whatever, whatever, whatever. She told me something, hey, can you take me home? I said, okay, cool, I'll take you home. This motherfucker tells me, I gotta go, I gotta go sit in the bathtub. For what? Motherfucker talking about something. Next thing though, motherfucker gonna call me back, talking about something. Um, I mean, like, dog, I ain't even gonna lie to you. The motherfucker sounded like she was having a full-blown asthma attack. I have asthma. I said, Ask the motherfucker, do you want to use my inhaler? Do you want to goddamn, you know, whatever, whatever, whatever. Man, the motherfucker got down, yeah, it was too much. But anyway, it I just found it fucking hilarious. This motherfucker talking about some she had to go take up goody power and a hot bath to eat eat some shit. And I was like, what the fuck? I don't I've never heard about this shit before. Um, so I'ma I'm gonna I'm gonna tell y'all another little thing. I'm gonna tell y'all the funniest shit that I've ever been through in my life.
First-Time Fear And Dad Advice
SPEAKER_02Um, so when I was like, I was younger, I think I was like 15, 16. I think I was trying to lose my virginity for the first time. And the the there was this female that was in my neighborhood. Like she would come down every summer to spend time with her grandparents. So, you know what we would all look forward to seeing each other during the summer. So she came down, we chilling. Next thing I know, shit, my mom was at work, so shit, what's all? Let me I'm I'm nervous. I'm trying, I'm trying to do something. What's up? So I'm trying to do something, say. Next thing I know. We trying to do some, blah, blah, blah. And I'm gonna go ahead and tell y'all. I got a lot of fucking stories. I don't know, understand why this bad shit happens to me, but it happens, but it is what it is. Um, one of my uh so we trying to do the world. So I'm I'm I'm I'm happy. I got my little Durex. You know, that guy from the little health clinic. I'm talking, well, I think I'm about to do something. I'm trying to I'm trying to see what it's like. Cause I hear all my cousins talk about it. Shit, but ooh-woo woo-woo. Next thing I know, I'm trying to go to slide in. Only thing I hear was and I feel something pop in my penis. It immediately sends me into tears. I don't know what the fuck just happened. I said, oh my god, I done broke my shit. I done broke my shit, I done broke my shit. So I fuck around and take off running to the bathroom. And I'm like, I'm in tears. I'm I'm panicking, like, oh my god, I'm gonna have to go to an emergency room. I done broke my shit. What I'm gonna tell my mama, blah, blah, blah. So I'm sitting here going this this all this shit is running through my mind, running rapid through my mind. And she comes in and told me something, it's okay, it's okay. I'm like, motherfucker, you saying like you done, you done been through this shit before. I I've never experienced this shit. I think my dick broke. So that was the end of it. So I just, you know, I just chalked that shit up. And I I mean, I shit, I was scarred for a while. Next thing I know, my cousin calls me later on that night. Because I done called my uncle. No, no, I didn't call my uncle, I called my daddy, and I told him what happened. He talked about something, baby boy shit. I ain't never had that happen. Hey, you you is your shit swollen? Is it curved? Is it crooked? Is it you know, is it is it excuse me? Is it pointing to the left? Blah, blah, blah. I'm like, no, no, daddy. He's talking about something, does it hurt when you're pissed? I said, no, daddy, I ain't got no STD. He's on good, good, good. He said, you might have just sprained it. He said, you might have just sprained it. You ain't, you ain't probably, you ain't probably hurt it that bad. You probably just sprained it. Just put some ice on and it'll be all right. I mean, I I appreciate my daddy doing shit like that. That's what daddy's a for. When you go through some bullshit that you can't tell your mama because you know what the fuck your mama's gonna say to you, you can't do that sometimes. So it's it's it's good to have those type of father figures in your life that understand the bullshit that you go through as a man. So, I mean, shit, rest in peace, Jimmy Hull. Shit, I miss you, I love you forever. But it's it's just amazing of what we go through as men and as children.
No Face No Case Starts
SPEAKER_02So I got a new segment to do today. This shit's called No Face, no case. So I had one of my listeners message me the other day um and ask me a question or to tell me to talk about it. And he told me, hey, bro, please don't put my name out there, blah, blah, blah, woot, woo, woot, woot. I told him, bro, I would never do that to you, uh, blah, blah, blah. So, you know, we just we so I just want to talk about his situation that he was telling me about, and then I want y'all to give me y'all feedback after I give me give me y'all's. But I want to tell y'all, y'all can reach out to me through any platform that you see my podcast on. I mean, if you're on Apple Podcast, it says send me a text message. That means you can reach out to me directly and I'll be able to answer your questions. Um, or you want to give me feedback and you want to tell me it's a good episode, you can send me a straight a text message and it comes straight to my cell phone. It doesn't go to anybody else, it comes straight to me. Um, so this is this is what he told me. Now
Bisexuality Disclosure And Cheating Fallout
SPEAKER_02I'm reading this verbatim now. Don't get me fucked up because I I mean shit. I'm I'm I'm old. Imagine you was with a girlfriend for three years, and a week after her birthday, she comes out to tell you to you as bisexual. Then comes February, a week after Valentine's Day weekend, y'all just came from back from a vacation that you paid for. You found out that she had sex with a woman last summer. Remind you, he's been with her for three years. The same women woman that you considered your friend and played in your face after they cheated. Also, did you you did also you asked her, did you have did you did you had sex with a woman or is there a woman you want to have sex with? And she said no after she came out. Came out. Hey bro, let me tell you something. It's fucked up. I ain't even gonna hold you. Because some shit like that happened to me one time. Shit, I found out one of my exes was talking dirty to a goddamn female. Then I didn't know nothing about it. Tell my son, she couldn't handle this shit and third. I flipped out because it was a younger version of me. Um, and sometimes you just gotta you gotta talk to them about it, talk them through that situation. But this is the this is the question
Boundaries Trust And Hard Questions
SPEAKER_02Why um Did you ask four threes? Did you ask them to be included in anything so y'all could explore those boundaries? So y'all could do certain things and go about it that way so y'all could have fun together. And and so y'all wouldn't have to be so hellbound on just her sleeping with another woman. Because a lot of times that's made it fun. That makes it more fun, that makes it a little bit more interesting. Um, because a lot of people don't know how to get into that realm or get into that situation to where they can explore those boundaries, explore those situations, because we we get lost in the sauce, we get lost in the escapade, we get lost in the adventure. Because I mean, I'm gonna go ahead and be honest with you. It is an adventure, it's a full-blown adventure that you're experiencing with this other individual. Because a lot of times we don't know how to explore. Because I mean, I get asked all the time, Jack, have you ever done a threesome? Nah. I mean, shit, because I'm I'm I it's not because I'm I'm not curious about it, it's because I'm like, okay, man, I got ADHD. I like to focus on shit because if I don't focus, it's like, bro, I'm I'm I'm I don't know what to do. It's like it's like squirrel. It's like, which way do I go? Which way do I go? Which way do I go? Do I go here? Do I go there? Do I go here? Do I go to there? I I just have never done that in my life. So it's like, what do what do we go from here? Where do we go to experience these things? Because I mean, it's hard to.
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