Single and Burning

“Get back” sounds powerful until you ask one question: what are you really getting back? We go all the way there on revenge sex, bruised egos, and why chasing a petty win can cost you peace, your reputation, and sometimes your health. Our take is blunt: if someone crosses the line, we do not need a dramatic comeback. We need distance, clarity, and a life that looks better without the chaos.

We also talk about social media after a breakup and why posting “single” or dumping your drama online often reads like bitterness, not strength. We share why we’d rather stay quiet, let people reveal themselves over time, and focus on the only “get back” that lasts: leveling up. If you’ve ever felt the urge to prove a point publicly, this will challenge you to play the long game and keep your dignity intact.

Then the conversation pivots into sexual health and dating boundaries, including a no-filter debate about period sex, “running red lights,” pH balance, BV, and how fast reckless habits can turn into consequences. We also raise a modern trust problem: what would you do if someone close to you found your partner’s secret page or private account while things are already rocky?

If any of this hits home, press play, share it with a friend who needs to hear it, and leave a review so more people find the show. Where do you draw the line: get back, or move on?

Transcript

Welcome And The Drunk Jeep Story

SPEAKER_01 0:43

Everybody in the morning.

SPEAKER_00 0:50

I don't want to welcome y'all to step up only. Well, we tell you to sit down and watch a motherfucking step of steps.

SPEAKER_01 1:00

I'm Jack. That little motherfucker that rolls down heels. Because he got his legs too short to jump out of a goddamn sitting goddamn trike. What what the hell did I fall out of that night? I think I fell out of my Jeep. True story. I tried to jump in my Jeep drunk as fuck. Next thing I know, I was rolling down a goddamn hill. Right in front of a goddamn club. Still don't remember when I got ribs. I just I don't even remember how I got home. I just remember I got I woke up in my homeboy's living room that next morning, that nigga gonna wake me up talking about something, well, you want some eggs?

SPEAKER_00 1:41

Fuck you. But anyway, I just want to welcome y'all to Four Steppers Only.

SPEAKER_01 1:47

Um, one of my listeners hit me up one time, and I just want to let y'all know I do appreciate that when people, when I put a poll out and people give me a give me a topic or whatever, whatever. But I'm gonna go ahead and be honest with y'all. I'm sick and tired of fucking relationship shit. I don't want to hear that shit. I don't want to talk about that shit. Whatever. Shit. I just want to hear some funny shit. Where I crack jokes, whatever, whatever, whatever. Put my little dark twist on it, whatever, whatever, whatever.

Is Get Back Worth It

SPEAKER_01 2:13

But anyway, he hit me up talking about some uh Hey, do you think it's worth getting get back? I don't feel like get back is really I feel like get back is childish. To be honest. Because I mean, what are you actually getting back out of shit?

SPEAKER_00 2:36

A nut. A STD. Herpes, Gonneria, Chlamydia, some shit like that. A baby. Shit. Disappointment?

SPEAKER_01 2:46

Shit, because hey, nothing's more disappointment than you you got down thinking you about to get your uh your boyfriend back, everything goes, and woot the woo, woot the woot, you about to goddamn go over there, or you about to get your girl old lady back, you get over there, and the pussy is weak as fuck. That shit dry. That shit damn near like you rubbing your dick across goddamn sandpaper. Or the shit goddamn got an echo to it. That motherfucker, you only thing you hear is hello, hello, hello, hello, hello, all the way through that motherfucker, because that shit just ran through. Like, feel like goddamn uh like a whole goddamn line of uh football players done ran up in this motherfucker. Like this motherfucker been on one on one of them goddamn bangbust episodes where you see like 50 dudes versus one. Hey, shall have been through that whole thing, like one versus gorillas, a hundred gorillas, and you already know what type of type of goddamn you see them but anyway, what are you gaining out of get back? Just just I'm sorry, I went on my tangent. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I know I drove that shit out too long, but anyway, what are you getting out of get back? I want to hear what y'all get out of get back because I don't believe in get back. I believe on uh believe in moving the fuck on, stop talking to the person. Shit, dead that shit, dig a ditch, let that motherfucker lie in it. Piss on them, hey, rest in piss. I mean, shit. Because I mean, from that point on, shit, you just dead to me. Shit, there's no need to get back. Somebody that's not worth no, that's no longer in your realm. Because hey, shit, say the shit does, you know, shit, shit that just happened, and y'all goddamn end up working some shit out. Now you gotta go to the goddamn grave with some bullshit, and god forbid you get that goddamn bullshit, that goddamn itchy and scratchy, that goddamn ran and stippy, that Rick and Morty, that as I die slowly, huh? Because I mean, how you how you gonna go goddamn see say okay, y'all go back for makeup sex, and next thing you know, you goddamn uh what's that shit called? We are the crabs, your pupils will grab, we be on bed seats and toilet seats. But but I mean, how do you how do you explain that to your partner? They're saying, Oh shit, I ain't been fucking around, but shit, we've been broken up two hours, and now I got the clap. Now my goddamn dick dripping, goddamn green pus. Now I gotta take these goddamn pills because of it. I'm just asking. Because I mean, people people out here try to get back, play that shit.

The Best Revenge Is Leveling Up

SPEAKER_01 5:32

Like I was I was telling one of my partners, the best get back you can ever do to somebody is level up, be better than what you were when when you were with them. Which sounds bad, but I mean shit, because a lot of times it's like, oh, because I I I love to hear when a motherfucker talking about something, oh girl, after I let that nigga, that nigga ain't shit. That motherfucker goddamn went back home to his mama, or or that motherfucker ain't got a pot to piss in, he ain't got no job, he ain't got no car, shit. That nigga, he been like that for the last 10 years. I don't know why I still fought with him anyway, girl. Like, you don't want to be that person, man. Cause I mean, shit, that shit sounds bitter as fuck. I mean, absolutely bitter. Because I mean, like, who the fuck, who the fuck thrives off that shit? Because I mean, the way I look at it is nobody really wants to hear that bullshit except for another bitter motherfucker. Because in my mind, it's like, shouted, what okay, what are you doing now since you done left this man alone, left this dude alone, what what are you going what are you doing now? What do you got going on now? Because and but I oh oh another thing. Shit, as soon as the mother hey, this is hey, just FYI for y'all individuals out there.

Stop Announcing Breakups Online

SPEAKER_01 6:57

Don't go run to social media and type in single. Single as soon as y'all break up or y'all get to arguing or putting y'all shit on social media. Yeah, that shit is play the fuck out. And I just want to let y'all know, y'all be up there talking about some single ASF. Oh no, no, no, it's not ASF, it's AF. Shit, you wonder why when dudes got down see that shit, they they herb and got down getting your inbox because that single AF means single and fucking fucking and fucking that mean that's all that means. Because I mean shit, why do you have to broadcast if you even worth something or you even worth anything? Why, why, bro? And and for y'all dudes out there, let me tell you, quiet is kept, bro. Sometimes you gotta sit back and watch a pot stew. Because why you gotta go back and dirty air out all the dirty laundry of what this person done went through, or all the bullshit, just to paint a picture of this individual or how bad they are, or the fuck though shit they done did in their life, the bullshit they done went through, or the trials and tribulations they done went through. That shit weak for bro. Like I tell folks all the time, man. Shit, if you goddamn fuck me over, you do me wrong shit. I ain't gotta air out your shit. I don't. Because you're gonna air out your shit, your damn self. When people start fucking with you and they start realizing the truth insides of you, you you ain't you ain't you ain't shit. That's what they won't say. You really weren't shit. Because like I tell people, shit, hey, there's a line in the sand. You choose which side you're gonna be on. You either gonna be on this side or you're gonna be on this side. You choose you choose sides regardless, or you can say no neutral. Like I tell I like I tell people all the time, man. I don't draw, I don't choose sides. Cause everybody got a story. Everybody might tell their story fucked up, but there's always truth in the middle. Because if you listen to this side, this side, there's always truth in the middle. But but I mean, why sit there and entertain the bullshit anyway? Cause that shit, that shit weak as fuck. Cause I mean, shit, like like like I remember that one dude was out there talking about some bruh, man,

Oversharing Creates New Problems

SPEAKER_01 9:17

shit. The big can't show nigga anyway, but the pussy was hidden and then get mad. Three of her homeboys don't try to go over there and goddamn back door his ass. Try to goddamn hit it. How can you be mad at them? They probably been eyes spine shot before you started fucking with her, or they used to fuck with her, but you just didn't know about it. But then you find out, then you somehow, bro. That fork daughter, you shouldn't have told them how good the pussy was. That's your dumb ass fault. Talking about some shit, shall be goddamn shit, she the pussy star. Shit, the motherfucker ain't got no grip at all, man. Shit, it motherfucking ain't got no tread in that motherfucker, bro. But shit, that head hitting. I ain't even gonna lie, man. Shit, I need to go back over there for that head. I might not fuck with y'all no more, but they got them head on point. So why be mad at the dude that you just told that to if he get curious? Honestly, why get mad at him? Because I mean, that's y'all weak ass niggas' fault. Shut the fuck up sometime. Stop telling too much information on the motherfucker. Because once you start telling too much information, that's when motherfuckers get curious. That's when motherfuckers start plotting, that's when motherfuckers start connecting the dots. Tell my son, shit, shit. She ain't fucking with hey bro. You mind if I dah da? I mean shit, it depends on like woo-woot woo-woot. But it it it it's a it's it's a fault door situation. So y'all tell me, do y'all believe in get back? Because I don't. I don't. Once I'm done with you, I'm done with you. I ain't even hold you. Because I mean, shit, I sit there and watch shit. I just sit back and watch. Because you'll see somebody like, like I watch people, they they movements tell it all, they mannerisms tell it all. Because I mean, like, shit, you can tell when motherfuckers are insecure about certain shit, they hover. They hover around their goddamn. It's like it's like sharks in the water. This, that, and third. Oh, I know what I want to talk about today.

Period Sex And Running Red Lights

SPEAKER_01 11:16

So I got a question. So I posted something the other day. It's a little clip from you know, finding Nemo. About when the shark, shark bait, ooh, aha, you know, swim upon Nemo, and the little goddamn blood goddamn came out, right? Or was that Dora? The little blood came out. But they ended up the shark goddamn got turned on by the smell of blood. Bro, I just I just got a question. Do y'all really be hitting shit on folks' periods? Because if so, y'all some nasty motherfuckers. That's the time the body cleanses out. So why you can't wait a week? You can't wait a couple of days, and don't be and and and man, I'm so tired of female talking about something. Oh, when you get in the shower, it stops bleeding. For real. For real. Are you fucking serious? No, it don't stop bleeding. You just don't see the blood because you goddamn washing it away with water. What makes you think it's gonna stop bleeding? It ain't like you putting a cold compress on a motherfucker, it ain't like you you holding it with pressure unless your kegels that strong shit. Well, I can't lie, some some motherfuckers' kegels are that strong because shit. I done heard a couple stories. It ain't me, I done heard from other folks' experiences. How they goddamn, you know, get that gripple and they got them rubber come off with the goddamn, and you gotta go in there fishing for the motherfucker. You know, you gotta go in there, you know, goddamn acting like you a goddamn surgeon or OBGYN or gynecologist trying to find that motherfucker in there. You look like you goddamn Harry Potter trying to find that motherfucker, and you goddamn pull that motherfucker with them two fingers. But anyway, because I I got a funny story about that. This this acquaintance I know. It ain't a friend, it ain't a homie, he's an acquaintance. He was goddamn panicking one day, and and we were at work. Why you panicking, bro? Man, oh my god, oh my god, I got a girl going over my house. I said, okay, shit, what's so bad about that? But I just I just I was I was fucking somebody earlier, and and the bloody rubber still in the trash can. What nigga, you run red lights? Bro, that's how niggas catch shit. I know. Oh my god. If y'all can see my motherfucking face, but you can see my face over on YouTube or Spotify, where I post a videos off this also. Um it's just disgusting to me because I don't want to get in nothing and it smells like straight pennies. It don't smell, it smells like alkaline. It smell like goddamn, it smelled like some goddamn blood. I I just can't get off. I mean, I just can't do that. But the the the idea and the fact of the matter is, is you just hit somebody two days prior and knocked their rag on, ran that red light, and then now you about to knock down another motherfucker. Bro, that's how motherfuckers get BV. That's how motherfuckers get bacterial vaginosis, that's how motherfuckers get that stanky older, bro. But you by you adding goddamn throwing off bitches' pH balances and shit. Because and you want to get mad when a motherfucker burn your ass, nigga. You dirty your dirty dick bastard, you deserve to get burned. Goddamn dick over here looking like a goddamn red highlighter. But in my in my aspect, it's like what is what do you like? You can't wait. Cause I mean, that's a natural flow of a goddamn uh uh vagina or the person's body cleaning all the toxins out of their body, so why not wait them let them recover for that little period of time? Then shit, you cuz I don't know. Shit, I got another got a lot of male listeners out there. I'm gonna go ahead and peep y'all on some male listeners, y'all steppers. This ain't for the step its. So hey, y'all stepets, use ear muss. Hey, bros, hey, steppers, listen

Fertility Window And Risky Hookups

SPEAKER_01 15:22

to this. That first seven days is a most fertile period that they ever gonna be in. So if you're trying to goddamn trap a bitch, that's the time you're both nut. I'm just fucking with y'all, but anyway, shit. But that's a true statement that that that is their most fertile period. So shit. If you ain't hey, if you ain't if they ain't on that pill, they ain't on that goddamn contraceptive bro shit, bro. Steer clear shit. That's why them vampires be goddamn talking about some and the fangs be coming out, and then motherfucker be talking about some I'm in heat. Yeah, that motherfucker ain't heat because that motherfucker finna be pregnant, bro. Don't jump in that shit. It might be warmer, it might be wet, or just don't jump in it. I'm just gonna tell you, but shit, we just we just gotta do better, man. Shit, because there's no way in hell you smoke because fellas, let me tell y'all some steppers that y'all that got down, do all their goddamn I'm fucking like sick bitches. How y'all do it? I'm just trying to figure out how y'all do it. My mental capacity, my my level of frustration, my my my lame, my lane of focus ain't there. I'm gonna go ahead and tell you, my shit don't be there at all. Because it's like, man, I gotta remember this, I gotta remember this, I gotta remember this, I gotta remember this. Oh, she don't like this, but she do like this. Man, I ain't got time for it. Or, oh, this like chess, bro. I gotta move these chess pieces or this, bro. That's too much work. Shit, uh I can't do it. I can't. It's too much work. What what what's the point of doing it? Just so you can go get another piece of ass? Mm-mm. It's not worth it. I mean, that's why I tell people, fuck with people how you fuck with them, or how they how you want them to fuck with you. Because a lot of people don't want don't understand that because people out here don't really fuck with you the way you thinking it sometimes. But the person that really fucked with you, you might not even know it. That motherfucker worrying about you, goddamn looking out for you, doing this, doing that, goddamn cooking for you, make sure you fed, make sure you goddamn got clothes to go to work, make sure you get rest, make sure you feel well. It's it's it's that aspect to life. You just can't be got them just out because I mean you can't be out here jacking off trays because that's how niggas get burnt. That's how females get burnt. And now, shit. Oh my god, feet these these these demonized females out here doing this do they on they on attack mode, bro. They talking about them, they the new, they the new niggas. I mean shit, for real, for real. Because I mean shit, bro. I was I was joking with my partners the other day. I said, boy, these these females out here moving like we used to we in our 20s. What do we do? How do we y'all want me to y'all want me to settle down with goddamn john Rambo over here? She goddamn trying to trying to let every nigga shoot up the club. She trying to go for every nigga pocket, she robbing niggas blind. She got boy, I can't even I can't even hold you. Oh, I got a I got a question.

Finding A Partner’s Secret Page

SPEAKER_01 18:24

This is this is my question for all y'all. Say y'all living somewhere, and you know, you and your you and your significant other, your your spouse, whatever, whatever, and y'all having rocky times. What would you do if one of your kids' cousins find your significant other's secret page? They secret or private remembers only Snapchat. Like, what would you do? Like, we talking about or you shit, hell, not even just goddamn they cousin. What about your neighbors? Or motherfucker or your homeboy at work or one of your partners, what, or your cousin, or your or your goddamn paymas uncle? They're talking about hey, hey, baby, what you gonna do for these 250? Shit, ain't nobody gonna know shit. It's our little secret. See, I'm just I'm just curious, what would you do if your significant other somebody in your family or somebody you know closely tells you that your significant other has a secret page? Or shit, that motherfucker selling pussy on the back page. Or that motherfucker, oh shit.

Secrets, Labels, And Letting People Live

SPEAKER_01 19:44

I ask you, shit. The other day, this streamer, I can't remember what his name is, got exposed for being on a male, like male on male site at 19. I mean, I don't I don't I don't condone nobody's choices, I don't can I don't I don't hate on nobody's lifestyle or the way they choose to be happy. But this dumbass motherfucker talking about some oh yeah shit. I was just trying something out when I was, you know, finding myself back then. This dumbass motherfucker talking about some, yeah, but I ain't like that no more. Nigga did that nigga done sucked the dick. What y'all think? I think he done sucked the dick. He either sucked the dick or took the dick. I'm just saying, just because you tell him someone some, oh, he soaked mine shit, they don't make it gay.

SPEAKER_00 20:33

Please, please, please.

SPEAKER_01 20:38

Hey, tell my something, hey, it don't make it gay if you don't make eye contact.

SPEAKER_00 20:43

Please, please, please. I don't know who lied to your motherfucking ass.

SPEAKER_01 20:48

But because I mean, I believe 90% of all females out here done had a uh um uh lesbian experience. So I mean, if that's you, that's you, that's that's woo-doo woo woo

Do What Makes You Happy

SPEAKER_01 21:00

doop. Cause I got a homegirl. This motherfucker tells me every time, like, tell me something, hey, I success successfully completed a mission this weekend. I said, Oh shit, for real. What kind of mission you done got down completed?

SPEAKER_00 21:13

Shit, that mother, fucking Chinese finger trap. Fucking Chinese finger trap.

SPEAKER_01 21:20

I was the force in between the lightsabers. Oh shit. And I'm just like, holy shit. And this ain't this motherfucker, like, bro. I mean, this motherfucker be recruiting motherfuckers. I mean, recruiting, making dick appointments, making goddamn, like she this motherfucker get gets turned on by getting tossed up. I mean, there's no judgment. I'm just like, shit, but hey, do you boo? Do you boo? She's talking about some goddamn Big John got a goddamn third leg. I don't I don't give a fuck about listening to this motherfucker dick size, but shit. I'm glad you goddamn got hit with a rotor rooter. I'm glad your inside just got churned like some butter back in the 1970s. I'm just saying. Do you bullshit? I love it for you. Sometimes you gotta do what makes you happy, not what other people find or judgments last or what they're gonna say about you and shit, man. Fuck their opinions. Fuck their thoughts and opinions. Because sometimes it don't even shit. Sometimes it don't even fucking matter about their opinions. Because people have opinions are like assholes. Everybody has one and everybody feels like they're entitled to one. No the fuck they're not entitled to have an opinion based on your life, your happiness, and what makes you happy and makes you smile at the end of the day, knowing that your life is fulfilled. Why why should I why why should I place judgment? All I say is goddamn, go get your dick wet, have a little fun, jump off in that swimming pool, goddamn get in that motherfucker stroke some shoulders, drip some sweat off in somebody's mouth, spit in somebody's mouth. I mean shit, tie a motherfucker up, restrain them shit. Do whatever you gotta do, shit, pop a thumb in the ass. Do do whatever makes you fucking happy. Hell, do even goddamn even goddamn while you in there stroke until I'm reaching the top drawer, get that little zzz zzz, and goddamn you both them at the same time. But hey, at the end of the day, do what makes you motherfucking happy, and that's all for here at Fold Steppers. Only we out. Peace.