Episode 3 - Basketball, Boys, & Bravo

This week's episode is all over the place, in the best way. Join us we're catching up on all the chaos including the Knicks parade energy, a funny CVS interaction, a blood donation fail, and dads being petty. Then we get into our Summer House takes before discussing what it really means to decenter men and why women are basically born to be private investigators. It's a little basketball, a little Bravo, a little social commentary, and a lot of laughs.

Transcript

Julia 0:00

It's petty girl time. These are your hosts, Sarah. And this is Julia. Julia, how was your weekend? So on Thursday I was a Nick's parade and we went into the city. And some people try to be in the city at 2 a.m. And that just was not something I was willing to do. So Josh woke me up at like 5 a.m. and I still laid in bed. And then he was like, come on, we need to get up. And then finally I got dressed at 7. We ended up leaving at 9. It went from 5 to 9. Yeah, I told him I was like, I'm not waking up this early to go to a parade in the city. So we missed a parade. Like we didn't go to the actual parade. The truth comes out. The truth comes out. We went to a bar, which is, you know, where everyone ended up. Okay. Everyone went to the same bar as us. Even Wes Wilson was outside the bar. I just didn't see him. He probably looked like every other generic white guy, and I just wouldn't recognize him. We needed you to be on the ground reporting. Yeah, boots on the ground. So we went to this bar and we watched like Mamdanny have his speech. And he talks about how in that 4% New Yorkers come to work every day because in the fourth game, the Knicks were slated to lose. It's a 99.6% chance that the Spurs are gonna win. Yeah, they were down by a lot. They were down by a lot. And listen, I barely understand what's going on in basketball, but that game made me a believer. Okay. Now I know what a three-pointer is. And hearing his speech just brought back memories of the Avengers because I'm an Avengers fiend. I love everything Marvel. The Knicks are the Avengers. Mamdanny is Nick Fury, and he's protecting us against Donald Trump. And Donald Trump is Hydra. I knew him before he was famous. Really? Why? Yeah, he was a rapper called Young Cardamom. I'm not joking. I know, I know. I've seen the videos. His songs were amazing. I thought that was like a joke that he was a rapper. It was legit. No, it was a legit. Like I knew him because of his rap songs.

Sarah 2:06

How was your weekend? I had a bunch of friends visiting me this week. It was super fun. We went to the beach like every day. I always have so much fun when people visit me because then I actually get out of my house and do stuff and do touristy things. And we went surfing. Remember when you visited me, Julia, and we tried to go surfing?

Julia 2:23

We did. I wasn't a great swimmer, but like I feel like you always inspire me to go into the water and try swimming.

Sarah 2:30

The main issue we had was that you just got your nails done and the wetsuit you were trying to wear was like a kid's size, and it took us like a fucking hour to get your wetsuit on.

Julia 2:41

It was so tiny and I couldn't breathe, and it was cold.

Sarah 2:45

It was really cold. Happy late Father's Day. And shout out to our boomer dads for being the original blueprint on how to be petty. Do you have a story, Saddam? Yeah, my dad is just petty in like the weirdest ways. He's very nice and agreeable, but then it'll randomly come out. Let's tell the story about the thing that happened between my dad's car and your dad.

Julia 3:09

Yeah. So my dad hit Sarah's car. This was post when we graduated high school and you were in your first year and you you were picking me up because I still didn't drive. Like I was not allowed to drive.

Sarah 3:24

Yeah, I was home from college and I didn't have a car. We were like, let's go to the gym. So I asked my dad to borrow his car and I drive to Julia's. And I think you didn't tell your dad that I was coming, right?

Julia 3:39

No, I I didn't tell my dad you were coming.

Sarah 3:42

I was pulling into your street at the same time that your dad was leaving. In his rear view, he saw me pull into your house driveway. So I think he was like, hmm, who is this? And he didn't recognize my dad's car. He came back in to the driveway. So we pulled up right next to me and he saw it was me. He's like, Oh Sarah, oh, it's so good to see you. Okay, that's great. You're going to the gym. And then he hits reverse right back into my taillight. And he we just both got really quiet. And then he started blaming you.

Julia 4:09

He did. He started blaming me. He messaged me and he was like, This is your fault. You didn't tell me your friend was there. He was basically blaming me for everything. And he was really upset.

Sarah 4:19

I just remember we were both so stressed.

Julia 4:21

Yeah, we were.

Sarah 4:22

Because of course this happens the one time I'm driving my dad's car. So he probably thinks it really was my fault too. And your dad's yelling at you, blaming you, even though it was totally his fault. Let's be honest.

Julia 4:34

100% his fault. And then, you know what ended up happening is that Sarah's dad and my dad became best friends.

Sarah 4:40

Yeah, they met up and they got the car fixed. And then they were both like, oh, you go to church? Okay, you're a good person.

Julia 4:46

Yeah, you're a good person. It's two Catholic men.

Sarah 4:48

So it worked out great for them. Listeners, if you have any funny dad being petty stories, send it to us in the DMs because we know that your dads are also petty.

Julia 4:58

Yeah. Everyone's dad is petty. They they they have their stories. I was picking up my my meds at CVS Pharmacy, and there's a long line for a fucking Tuesday. There's, I don't know, I guess it's like the geriatric people coming in, old people. And then there's this guy that looks around. Honestly, he looks around like late, late 30s, right? He goes straight up to the counter and is like, which one do you think is good for my foot? Takes the sock off of his foot. And this is a pharmacist, by the way. She's not like a doctor, she's not a dermatologist, a pharmacist. And he's like, Do you think tiger bomb would be good for this? What do you think this is? It's like open skin. And literally like takes his shoe out from his sneaker, takes his sock off, and shows his bare foot at CVS pharmacy. And I'm I'm looking around and I'm like, is this normal? Like, is this like a normal thing? Because like no one is no one is judging this man.

Sarah 5:58

And I just I know old people get away with being fucking crazy all the time.

Julia 6:02

But he wasn't old. He was 30, like 36, 38. He was middle-aged.

Sarah 6:08

It's probably because he has no health insurance and he's like desperate. But also, bro, just like chat GBT it at this point. Like, that's embarrassing. Chat GBT it. I don't I don't understand. You can't just be pulling your dogs out and CBS. Especially to a pharmacist. Did I tell you when I tried to give blood the other day what happened? Okay, so I was leaving the gym and they had a sign in one of the blood bank fans that was like $70 if you donate blood. So you know my broke ass was like $70. And I was, you know, I'm like so afraid of donating blood, never done it before, but $70 is what did it for me. That was above the threshold to conquer my fears. You were like, $70? Let me donate like two pints of blood. I know. So I go up to it and I'm like, it's gonna be great. I'm just gonna donate blood. I'm gonna listen to a TV show while I do it and I'm gonna get paid. Yeah. It's gonna go great. So I go in there and the people are really nice. When I first came in, he was like, Did you eat anything? And I was like, Oh, not really. And he was like, Oh, well, you know, this burns like 600 calories. And I was like, damn, they need to put that in front of the gym. I'm like doing the intake form, and they ask you a lot of fucking questions on that thing. They ask you like, you know, crazy shit. Uh so I've done like a hundred questions now. And I start to get a little hot, start to get a heat flash, and he takes out like the blood bags and smacks them down on the counter. And I think that's what did it for me. But I started to have like the vasovagal, vasovagal response where like I didn't faint. So I know when this is happening because it's happened to me so many times before, but usually it happens after my blood is taken or after the needle, not just from nothing, not just from thinking, you know? So I look at him, I'm like, yeah, I need to lay down right now because I know if I lay down, then it'll go away and it'll be fine. Like that's the best thing to do because the blood's like rushing from your head. So I lay down, I'm covered in sweat. The other guy was like, Girl, it's not even hot in here. Like, what? They were literally making fun of me. They put ice packs on me and then it ends, and I'm like, I'm all good. That wasn't even a bad one. I'm ready to go. It was inevitable. It was gonna happen. Now I feel great. Yeah, give me my 70 bucks. Yeah, he looks at me, he goes, Um, I really don't feel comfortable taking your blood today. He was like, the fact that that happened without even pricking you, I don't want to take your blood. I was like, Okay, well, I try. It was a fail. And he was like, Don't be embarrassed. And I was like, Well, I wasn't, but now I am now I am. Now I am. I I guess I just I don't know if I'll ever be successful with the blood donating, but I mean, it it I feel like it's like a hit or miss. How are you when they draw labs? I'm fine, but I tell them now, like, I'm gonna lay down when you do it, and then nothing happens. And I think I've just never experienced it happening when I'm just filling out forms. So I didn't, I was sitting when I was filling out the forms.

Julia 8:57

Yeah, you know, here's a fun fact. If you don't go to the doctors for a couple years and you donate your blood, like they can they test your blood for anything, right? So, like that, they're like the first people that know if you're sick or not. And like if you get a call being like, we didn't donate your blood, you should probably get that checked out. There's a reason for that. I used to call them being like, Hey, did you guys end up using my blood? And they're like, Yeah, you want to donate more? And I'd be like, Okay, then then because they they do like an in-depth check of what's going on and everything in your blood works. That's a good hack.

Sarah 9:27

Another hack around not having insurance. God, it just sucks the system we're in, but we gotta find these hacks.

Julia 9:34

Well, we're transitioning into summer house because as you guys remember from our last podcast, that's what we were talking about. There was like a surprise episode that aired the aftermath. They filmed this after the reunion.

Sarah 9:47

I feel like it was because Amanda and Wes were so out of it during the reunion and they kind of looked bad. I feel like they're trying to give Amanda another chance. They want to see if they can continue having her on shows, but I don't know. She still didn't really look good.

Julia 10:01

I don't really feel sorry for her. I think she needs like help. I, but I don't feel sorry for her. I also feel like she was in a relationship with a guy that she shouldn't have ever been in a relationship with, and multiple people came to her and was like, you should break up with him. You should break up with him. Like, you have every opportunity to break up with him.

Sarah 10:17

The whole conversation, it just proved to me that Amanda acts exactly how someone would act in high school. She has the emotional maturity of a high school girl. She still chooses male validation over friendships, which is just crazy if you're 32 years old. Like, girl, come on. She's no, she's older than that. She's 34. Oh, 34. Well, not that it it matters, but I had some friends kind of pull what Amanda pulled, mostly in high school and beginning of college. Like I had a couple different friends who would try to go for the guy that I was interested in, or just you know, cross the line a little bit. If I had someone do that at this age, I don't think I would forgive them.

Julia 10:57

I don't think I've ever had a friend go for someone that I was interested in. Oh, must be nice. Wait, I did. Actually, I did. I did, I did, I did. I was, do you remember? I was at, you know, my freshman year, and there was a girl who was hooking up with the same guy that I had liked secretly with that I liked. And then I found out at the end of my school year, and it turns out that she had a boyfriend the entire time and was also hooking up with this guy. But the entire time I was always talking to her about, oh, I really like him. I really think he's so cute. And she betrayed me.

Sarah 11:36

And that was she knew it was wrong because she was hiding it.

Julia 11:38

Yeah. If you know something's wrong and you're hiding something, then yeah, you're a shit friend for that.

Sarah 11:44

That's some whack shit. That's that's really some whack shit. There's also plenty of men to go around. Why would you need to ever go for a guy that your friend was interested in? Like, in my opinion, if you if your friend was interested in a guy, I feel like the statute of limitations on that is forever.

Julia 12:01

It's forever, babes. It's forever. Even in all the toxic friends that I've had, close friends, no one's ever done me that dirty.

Sarah 12:10

And that's a good thing. That means you're picking the right friends. But yeah, we don't need to we don't need male validation. We don't need to seek attention from men. These men don't have good taste, anyways. Yeah. When we're dressing cute, we're dressing for the girls. We're dressing for ourselves. Not dressing for a man, I'm dressing for all my haters out there. Anytime I ask Mark for advice on my outfit, I'm like, why am I even? He doesn't know. That's yeah.

Julia 12:36

If Josh says that I what I wear is ugly, I think it's actually the cutest outfit that I've ever worn. So I don't I do the opposite of what he thinks.

Sarah 12:44

Literally.

Julia 12:46

So I feel like Amanda really like centers herself around any guy. It just seems like when she gets that little bit of attention from a man, she has to go for it 100%.

Sarah 12:58

And that's the way that a lot of women act when they're younger, but you know, they they learn not to base their whole life around male validation. But we're all guilty of centering men in our life. You know, we live in a patriarchy, we've been socialized this way. So we want to share some ways that we can all de-center men.

Julia 13:19

I feel like in the beginning of your relationship, it's okay, you're in the honeymoon stage to hang out with your with your significant other. But yeah, if I don't see you for like a year, that's that's a problem. If I only hear from you when you have a problem with your man's and you're just always hanging out with, you know, your boyfriend, and then always hang out with his friends, I'm gonna be like, okay, cool. So you just are centering yourself around a man.

Sarah 13:46

Even me when I first say started dating Mark, I remember I just wanted to hang out with him like 24-7. And you kind of just get, yeah, you're just blinded. You're blinded. But you have you can't forget about your friends. You have to make time for them.

Julia 13:59

Yeah, you do. You you really do have to make time for them. And especially if there's a big life moment with your friends, you should be there.

Sarah 14:06

You gotta prioritize those things. This doesn't mean, you know, hating men or not being in a relationship. Like you can still very much be in a loving, healthy relationship with a man and just make sure that you're prioritizing yourself and doing things for yourself, not necessarily the approval of others. So, one one major way is I always get so annoyed when people are like, you need to have long-term goals and short-term goals. And short-term goals, just goals in general. This doesn't have to be serious things, this can be simple, easy things. You want to learn something new, right? Like I learned how to surf. That was a big thing for me to overcome. And it took a lot for me to get there. It took me quitting my job and you know having all this free time and just questioning things. But I joined the all-women surf camp and I kind of forced myself to have that routine and to learn and threw myself into the deep end. And I learned and I really enjoyed it. And now, you know, I do it for fun. But the other part of it is with hobbies, I have a really hard time starting a hobby. If I think I'm gonna be bad at it, you can be bad at it and it could still be your hobby.

Julia 15:10

Yeah, that is true. I feel like I take joy in taking classes. I took like a random chorus class and it was it was a lot of fun. And it was kind of nice because everyone was on the same level as all of us. We're all novice, and we like did this song, and I haven't trained like this since high school, and it was like such a refreshing experience. But even doing things alone, you should learn how to be happy on your own and do things on your own because you are the person that makes yourself happy, not other people and even friends too.

Sarah 15:42

Yeah, don't wait for a friend to do something. It's easier said than done because I know I have a lot of social anxiety, but you can start small. Like, start as small as just going to a coffee shop alone and sitting there and coloring in a coloring book. You know what I mean? Yeah, keep it small, keep it simple, and work your way up to bigger things. Yeah, it's true. And go to the movies alone. It's actually really fun, especially in the winter. You just sit there and have like some good ass snacks. No one cares, no one notices, you know what I mean?

Julia 16:08

No one notices. No, I just I feel like I have really bad ADHD, so like I don't even pay attention to the movie. So I need someone to yap with. But if you're someone like me that doesn't do that, like go take a dance class, take an improv class. My next goal is to take like another improv class, go to more social events and meet different people that are aligned more with my goals and just I don't know, make yourself uncomfortable.

Sarah 16:34

Yeah, Julia's definitely more extroverted. So I feel like your idea uh, you know, having hobbies and stuff always involves more extroverted things. Me, it's more introverted, clearly. I'm like, go color, go to a movie by yourself.

Julia 16:46

The fact that you did that entire surfing camp and that woman surfing camp, like kudos to you. You should be so proud of yourself. You came so far.

Sarah 16:53

Yeah, I have come far. And also that's another thing. Writing down your goals is actually, you think it's stupid, but for example, in the beginning of that camp, my goal was to just stand up on the surfboard. And I forgot that that was my goal. And by the end of it, I was like frustrated because I wasn't surfing as good as I wanted to. But I had stood up on that surfboard a long time ago. A lot of times you mentally move the goalpost as you improve in life. Yeah. And so you kind of forget, wait, I'm way further than I even thought I would be. I need to stop and reward myself or stop and pat myself on the back for that.

Julia 17:24

Yeah, and really think and manifest the life that you want without centering yourself around a man or anyone.

Sarah 17:32

Yeah, and if a man ever makes you feel like you're too much or your personality is too much, don't become smaller. You will feel like a shell of yourself. Don't ever let a man tell you what you should be doing and what you shouldn't be doing. Even if it's illegal. So, yeah, do we think Amanda could ever come back from this? Do we think that it's possible she could have a redemption arc?

Julia 17:53

No, I mean she could. I just don't even I I don't even empathize with her. My thing is if you own up and you apologize and you're like, listen, I did mess up. I'm really sorry, and I'm not gonna date Wes anymore. But it's the fact that she didn't own up to that and then stopped dating someone that she knew manipulating her and clearly lying to her.

Sarah 18:14

It makes no sense because in this conversation, she almost started to win me over a tiny bit because she was like, Oh, yeah, he manipulated me, I was vulnerable. But after this, she still went to Italy with him. Yeah.

Julia 18:26

So, like, you look dumb. You look really dumb. Yeah, it's not adding up. No, it's not adding up. I just I think she wants to be seen as a victim, and she can't because she's done so many like shitty things.

Sarah 18:39

She can't spin that. And yeah, it was so funny when Lindsay was like, think about how bad you fucked up that we forgot how bad of a husband Kyle was.

Julia 18:48

It's so true. When I go back and I watch like some of the scenes, I'm like, wow, he was a really shitty husband, but you almost forget that completely. Yeah, you almost completely forget how shitty of a person he was because of what she did.

Sarah 19:02

I know. And part of that is sexism for sure. Like we forgive men so easily, but it's also because she's just doing, she's doing such a bad job. I don't think Amanda's gonna, I think Amanda's done. I think if you really take her apart from Kyle, she's she's kind of got nothing. I hate to say it because before all of this happened, like I'll admit, I was rooting for Amanda. I was like, hell yeah, she's breaking up with Kyle. Like, she's about to be her own person. This is gonna be her glow-up. And no, now I'm like, ugh, she kind of has a bad personality.

Julia 19:34

I think it's sad when you wake up to the realization that like you you surrounded yourself with this one person. Like that one person was your entire life. And then when that ended, you messed over of the friendship that was the best friendship you probably ever had. And now your entire personality is just based off of men. You feel some type of validation with men fawning over you. And I just never understand women like that. And I feel really bad for them because I feel like no one's ever taught them anything, and it's really sad. It's it's like a sad thing.

Sarah 20:04

It's sad because as much as she is totally at fault for how she treated Sierra, like she is also a victim of the patriarchy. She is the way she is because she thinks that men matter more than women, she respects them more, she is constantly and she's never gonna be happy. She's never gonna be happy until she fixes all these like deep-rooted issues. Yeah. But I do think it was ridiculous how like she could have done so much better in that reunion and the aftermath. She never once actually showed true and but they didn't seem like she really felt bad for Sierra at all. All she had to do was seem apologetic, and instead she seemed like annoyed and resentful of Sierra. Yeah.

Julia 20:44

And do you feel like race has a lot to play? Like do you think Amanda is low-key treating Sierra this way, but and like she treats her other friends this way? Because someone did mention, like, you didn't treat Katie this way, so why would you treat Sierra this way?

Sarah 20:58

I think she also tokenized Sierra, whether it's conscious or not, you can't take race out of it, right? And I think that she wanted to be friends with Sierra because Sierra got really popular and she was the queen of the show. So she was like, Oh, I need to be friends with her. And in Amanda's mind, I feel like it was like a show friendship to her, but to Sierra, it wasn't. It was real.

Julia 21:21

Yeah, because Sierra stood by her side. Sierra was like a really good friend to her, and Amanda wasn't what type of friend does this to another friend?

Sarah 21:34

I want to give my current psychoanalysis on West as someone who is not a psychiatrist or qualified, but I'm gonna do it anyways. So West is main MO, like his main thing is that he's a people pleaser, and his goal in life is to win people over, whether that's friends or romantic partners. He wants to get people to like him. That's the most important thing. And so So usually when he's a c in a crowd, he's very charismatic. Everyone likes him, he makes friends easily. And he does the same thing in romantic relationships. When he first met Sierra, he wanted to win Sierra over. And he did. And then once Sierra liked him and he won, meaning got her to sleep with him, he realized, oh, maybe she's not my person. And this pattern that he has of people pleasing, love bombing, and then dropping them, it's because he's so caught up in trying to get people to like him. He's not stopping to think if he actually likes them. He doesn't know what love is. Because if you see in the conversation with Kyle, when he asks him, Do you love Amanda? He's like, Yeah, I've told Amanda even since last year that I love her. And Kyle's like, Yeah, but that's like as a friend, all of us friends say I love you to each other, but that's different from being in love with someone. And it almost was like he didn't know the difference. And when he talked about why he got caught feelings for Amanda, remember I talked about this last week. I just couldn't understand his explanation of it. And his explanation was, oh, I saw Amanda so happy and glowing post the Kyle divorce. And I felt like I did that. And I was like, that's not a way to have feelings for someone. But that's exactly describing the people-pleasing behavior where he's thinking the feelings of just making someone else happy. It's him liking someone, like romantically. And so then once he wins this person over and he's with them and he feels that reward in his brain, he thinks that's liking someone. Then he drops them and he downplays the relationship because in his mind he doesn't even realize what he's doing half the time. That's why he can come across as the good guy because he might not be intentionally doing this. He just thinks, oh, I'm gonna win this person over. I just think he needs to be off of TV.

Julia 23:45

I don't want to see him on my television.

Sarah 23:47

He needs to be off TV, he needs therapy, he needs to not be in a romantic relationship until he can figure out this toxic cycle of love bombing and dropping and then downplaying.

Julia 23:58

I just think it's so crazy that Kyle can sit down and have a conversation with someone that's like was sleeping with his ex-wife. I know, wasn't that crazy? I thought that was really crazy because I I wouldn't even ask those questions. I wouldn't want to even sit down with someone. So it just shows me that their relationship has ended for a long time and Kyle just was outliving his life long before this marriage has ended. Like he just didn't care.

Sarah 24:24

Yeah, don't you think that if he had feelings for Amanda still in a romantic way, I think he would have been way less willing to invite him into his apartment.

Julia 24:33

Yeah, I thought that was weird, but I also feel like everything that man does is is weird. I know. What did you think about this week's episode of In the City?

Sarah 24:42

I watched it very briefly and I fell asleep. All right. Honestly, that's that's the summary. This week's episode was kind of meh. Not much happened. You know, they went on a trolley ride, they got drunk, got in a fight. The funniest thing I thought was when Kenny was trying to find his dad and he hired a PI. And the PI gave him two phone numbers, and he went to call the two phone numbers, and neither of them worked. And then his girlfriend, Whitney, was like, give me the computer. She took over within a minute, found the wife on Facebook, found phone numbers, called his wife, connected them. Girls are the best PIs.

Julia 25:21

Yeah. I used to stalk people all the time on Facebook. I would find their families' families. I would find like weird connections, like things that I thought I could never find.

Sarah 25:32

One time we, me and my friends, my roommate was seeing this guy, and he was really scary looking, and he was like a bouncer at a bar. And so we were like, let's dig up some research on this guy. And so we looked him up and we found he had an arrest record for assault. So then we were like, okay, we have to figure out a way for her to find this information. So it's not like we found it. And so we faked this whole thing where she stumbled upon it. I think she still ended up seeing the guy. She didn't care. But we will find the truth.

Julia 26:02

Yeah, that is true. We will always find the truth about men. Guys that I was dating in this city, I would literally look them up on Facebook and I would be like, Are they a creep or are they not? Before I invest my time into you, am I going on a date with someone that's creepy? There was this one time where I missed a date with someone, or I was lay. And I already got really bad vibes because I was like, Oh, I want to meet up at this pizza place. Let's get pizza here. And he's like, No, I brought it back home and I brought six pack or whatever of some beer. And I'm like, I don't even drink beer like that. You know, I'm 20s, I'm in my young 20s, I'm hot. And I was like, no, I'm I'm busy. I'm gonna go actually go out with my friends. I don't really feel comfortable with you. And then he sends me a really vulgar picture. And then he was like, come here with your bird face.

Sarah 26:48

And I was like, wait, I remember not the insult.

Julia 26:52

Not the insult. And then I use Facebook and I found that he got his master's in public health at Columbia. I knew his professor, I knew his mom. And I was like, I know who your mom is. I know that you're at Columbia Masters of Public Health. You do not want to go there because I know some professors that work there, and I will end your career by you sending me this text and a picture of you know what, I will end you. Don't think I won't. And I blair, I Blair Waldorf in. Good. As you should. Yeah. So it's really easy for me to be my own PI.

Sarah 27:27

Yeah, hire a woman. Also, can some astrology person tell us why we've been having so many technological issues? Because like we need something to blame our life on right now. We've been having a rough, a rough week.

Julia 27:39

Julia's been having a rough week. I have a flat tire. I just I couldn't. Like, I didn't even feel well this morning. I was feeling ill, but I also had like a couple bad days. You had a flat tire, your computer's malfunctioning. Oh, but I did go to my the psychiatrist and she tested me positive for obviously ADHD.

Sarah 27:58

Tested positive, like it's like a COVID test. I know. Have you seen the videos where people are like, oh, me on my way to my diagnostic appointment for autism or ADHD? And you walk in and they're like, Yep. And you just walk out.

Julia 28:13

I know. And it was like, even during my therapy appointment, she was like, if they don't diagnose you with ADHD, she's like, I don't really know what you have.

Sarah 28:21

If you don't get diagnosed with ADHD, they should have their license revoked. Oh my God.

Julia 28:26

Yeah, we all know you have ADHD and Julia. That's very you're like the classic. Yeah. I mean, I knew I had ADHD when a patient saw me running around and he's like, Do you have ADHD? He like screamed it. And I'm like, no, why would you say that? And he's like, because you're running around. Like my wife has ADHD and she does the exact same thing. And I'm like, no, no.

Sarah 28:45

Well, I'm happier on your journey to addressing that. I think we're gonna talk about, you know, both of our journeys with medications and mental health on our next episode. So looking forward to that.

Julia 28:57

We're gonna be talking about celebrities who have mental health issues, how how they've overcome it, you know, how it was taboo back in the day. It's gonna be a very interesting podcast. Anyways, guys, we would like to hear more of your petty stories.

Sarah 29:12

So if you guys can comment on Instagram or if you want to DM us, we need more inspiration so that we can do petty things in our lives and we can embolden each other to be more petty. And thank you guys for listening and putting up with our crazy shit. You know, we're learning how to do this, but we're having a great time. So thanks for all your support. Yes, and please like, comment, and follow. Love you guys. Bye.

Julia 29:35

Bye.