Episode 1 Summer Sleepover

Some call it girls' night in or self-care... Amy and Melanie have a summer sleepover. From great food and wine to truth or dare you get to relive your childhood. 
The ladies check in with Robyn Nelson of Horror Pop After Midnight to hear about a locally shot independent film.
This week's movie of the week is a romantic drama: A Reluctant Heart.
Join in the fun!
What's your go to necessities for a sleepover? 
What's the craziest dare that you did?

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Transcript

SPEAKER_06 0:48

Hey guys, welcome to Not Your Dudes Podcast. I am Melanie, Duddy Boop IRL. And I'm Amy, your not so classy mom. And tonight we're having a sleepover. Yay! Sleepovers. I haven't done one in so long. Same. Well, a few months. The girls' sleepover. No. It's a different kind of sleepover. But I haven't done a sleepover in so long. It's gonna be fun. It is gonna be fun. Okay, so what was your, like as a kid, let's talk about when you were a kid first. What was your ideal slumber party as a kid?

SPEAKER_04 1:24

I just, you know, hanging out with all my friends, staying up all night, watching movies, getting like, you know, high on sugar, sodas.

SPEAKER_06 1:34

I didn't know where we're going with that for a second. I'm like, like every as a kid, Amy.

SPEAKER_04 1:39

Like, like every I remember, you know, you go to your friend's house and there's all that soda and candy. Yes.

SPEAKER_06 1:46

Like it's that one parent that just does not care and God love them. Right. They're just trying to get you sugared up so you run it out and go to sleep. And like honestly, kind of a good plan. It is. However, I was never that parent. All right, that's okay. I mean we would have sleepovers, but all the sugar and all that. Like, oh yeah, yeah. I I agree with you. Like sugars, um, talk about boys. Yes, there's that. Talk about boys. Um, definitely that pranks. There were the pranks, and I think like it, if you got pranked, you were a cool kid. Yeah. Yes, so it was cool to get pranked. I I don't know, it made sense in my mind at that time. I was a kid. Um but yeah, I think there was some movie watching, but mostly it was like gossiping. Yes, it was gossiping. It was gossiping.

SPEAKER_04 2:41

Now, speaking of sugars and snacks, what was the most like the like must-have important snack to have?

SPEAKER_06 2:50

Oh, I would say probably Oreos or like a big snack at the time was like fruit by the foot. Had to have fruit by the foot. Okay, like for like it was always chips, like junk food, just straight out junk food. Pizza. Yeah. Your parents would always order pizza.

SPEAKER_04 3:08

Because it's cheaper than and it's easy.

SPEAKER_06 3:10

Yeah. Yeah. I agree. Yes. Okay, so um, as a kid, what did you think adult sleep burgers would be like? I never really thought of it as a kid, I think. Did you think like as an adult we'll be doing the same thing? No, no, probably not.

SPEAKER_04 3:28

I mean, I think maybe as a kid, you know, of course, you would have the drinks, the good drinks, the adult drinks.

SPEAKER_06 3:34

The adult grape juice. Cheers. Cheers. Fruit salad in a glass. Hey, there's antioxidants in there. Exactly. Practically health food. I don't think I ever really thought of adult sleepovers. I mean, I've seen them on movies, more like high school. Yeah, like high school girls, like when we'd actually have boyfriends that might sneak into the house. Yeah, and then yeah. I mean, I guess I thought as a kid, I guess I thought like these kind of sleepovers would continue. We'd just have different snacks. Yeah, in dreams.

SPEAKER_04 4:09

So okay, so what part even then and now do you still love about sleepovers?

SPEAKER_06 4:17

Um, I think it's like a good opportunity to connect with your girl buds, right? Like catch up. Yeah, we still want to talk about boys. But but for real, like it's a good at that time, like the only drama in our lives was school. School, right, like the neighborhood. Right. Yeah. So um, so the the stuff going on in our lives is different, but I think it like equally important to connect. Yeah. So it is. What do you think? I I agree.

SPEAKER_04 4:48

Like, I mean, now our drama is different that we've got going on. It's more like actual life problems, yeah. Versus, you know, being young, you're just oh, I mean, you all you're worried about was school and boys and your friends, and that was it.

SPEAKER_06 5:08

Yeah, yeah. So, what do you think adults secretly still need from from that friendship time?

SPEAKER_04 5:15

I the connection, like being able to bond with your friends and take like, and I think having the sleepovers then it was in a way a form of self-care.

SPEAKER_06 5:26

So I mean you're not wrong. Like, we call it self-care now, but as a kid, you know, that's not what you think it is.

SPEAKER_04 5:33

No, you kind of got to escape from everything and hang out with your friends, and I think as adults, we kind we need that, we need more of that.

SPEAKER_06 5:42

I think so too. I think there's a lot more responsibility, like being an adult, what a trap. Yeah, we're so ready to be adults, right? Energy, all this money. I like there's just so much responsibility, and I think we don't take time. No, and we need to. Yes, it's important. We need more sleepovers. Yes, we do. Yes, okay. So, did you ever prank someone at a sleepover? Yes, I did.

SPEAKER_04 6:10

Okay, yes, I did.

SPEAKER_06 6:11

And one, okay, so one prank I did that did not work, I put somebody's hand in hot water. Um, and wait for them to pee. Yes, except for right after I did it, I was like, oh, but I don't want to clean that up. And so thank God it didn't work. Yeah, but um, but yeah, I did that prank, and then of course the prank of like drawing things on people's faces. I think that was like the biggest prank we did.

SPEAKER_04 6:35

Okay. Speaking of drawing on people's faces, I don't really remember doing any pranks as a kid. I want to say, yeah, 10 years ago, I went to Colorado with uh, we were doing this um event with WTF Nation Radio. We all got an Airbnb up there, and the first night, we literally the first person who fell asleep, which is my good friend Jay Reddy, we the usual draw dick on the face because he fell asleep first, and I went in to go do his makeup and he like he woke up.

SPEAKER_06 7:11

Uh but it was we we had it on video, we Facebook live it, it was great. It was it was absolutely hilarious. Oh, that's fantastic. I love that. I love that. So, is that your funniest sleepover memory, or do you have another?

SPEAKER_04 7:24

Yeah, that's that was a good time. That weekend was great.

SPEAKER_06 7:28

Okay, so I think my funniest prank was not on a fellow sleepover. This is my funniest sleepover moment, was not on a fellow girl like kid, but um, I went to my parents' bathroom. I saran wrapped underneath the toilet seat. So I don't know if you've ever done this before, but if you stretch it, it's it's pretty see-through. Yeah. So you can stretch it over the toilet seat and keep it from opening? No. Then you put the toilet seat down, and then when they pee, it splashes back on. Oh my god. So me and my friend did this to my parents' bathroom. And my mom like goes, like she's goes upstairs and she comes back down. Like, she played it so cool. She came back down, she's like, Does anybody need any laundry done? And we're like, How did she how did it not happen? She's like, Because I just paid myself. So, like, it was really funny.

SPEAKER_04 8:28

It's funny that it's pretty funny.

SPEAKER_06 8:32

I know it was a good one. It was a good one. I paid for that for a while.

SPEAKER_04 8:36

Did you really?

unknown 8:36

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 8:39

So have you or anyone in your sleep overs had to go home early?

SPEAKER_06 8:44

Um, I never had to go home early, but I did have like a friend who like even at like 12 years old, just could not spend the night away from home. And like it was almost like I feel bad now, but at the time we're like, oh, she's coming. Uh at 10 o'clock, she's gonna break it all up. We're gonna have parents come in the room, you know. Yeah. Cause we knew she's like, I'm gonna stay this time. We knew. We knew about her. I don't think I think the only time I went home early is because I got sick.

SPEAKER_04 9:18

Not like growing up sick, yeah.

SPEAKER_06 9:19

Yeah, but other than that, no. Okay, that's fair. Yeah. So did you ever stay up way too late? I think when you're kidding. Yeah, like I don't think you ever did. Okay. What's the longest you ever stayed up? 24 hours. Same. Same. Yeah, like all night. It was all nighter. Yeah. Now I really can't do that anymore. I don't think I can do that anymore. Yeah, I'm old. Yeah, we're we're old. Um, okay, so what do you think was the most dramatic thing to ever happen at a sleepover? Hmm. Is there ever friend drama at a sleepover? Did you ever have one of those? No, not really. Oh yeah. I remember like somebody getting upset and like running off to another room, and then we all had to console her. Like, there, I I remember some friend drama occasionally. Like, I don't really remember like all of my sleepovers that I have are pretty taint? Taint for that? Yeah. I feel like hormonal girls, like, yeah, that's gonna happen. So anyway, yeah. So that was my my experience with the drama.

SPEAKER_04 10:28

Okay. Um, what about adult sleepovers? Have you had any drama? I don't I mean, really, I don't think we just drink and just crash now.

SPEAKER_06 10:36

Okay, yeah. So yes, but also I do I actually wish that that kind of drama was gone now, but I think some people just don't grow out of causing drama. And so then you add alcohol to the mix and it's and then it's hormonal teenagers all over again.

SPEAKER_04 10:55

Yes, you know, we're in cougar puberty now.

SPEAKER_06 10:59

Exactly. Um, okay, so do you think girl time is as important as an adult as it was when we were kids? I think we kind of touched on this.

SPEAKER_04 11:08

Yeah, I I agree. I mean, it is. It's I think it's more important.

SPEAKER_06 11:13

I actually agree with you. Yeah. I actually agree with you. And I think if you think about the correlation between like um coming of age as a young girl, right? And like how you're trying to find yourself and you're trying to, you know, like, who am I in this world? I think when we're younger, we have the benefit of like, well, we don't have to know who we are. Our parents know who we are. But then once we start becoming more independent, trying to figure ourselves out. Right. Yeah, I think I think as an adult. I know, and we're in our yeah, we're uh we're ladies of a certain age.

SPEAKER_04 11:48

We're a cougar puberty, so anyways. Um, I have to agree, like it's definitely more important now than then.

SPEAKER_06 11:56

Yeah, I agree with you. Okay with you.

SPEAKER_04 11:59

Let's talk about our local movie of the week with Robin Nelson.

SPEAKER_06 12:03

Yeah, we're gonna hear from Robin Nelson, Horror Pop After Midnight. Hey Robin!

SPEAKER_08 12:08

Hello, ladies. This week's movie is by director Lana Reed, A Reluctant Heart. Check it out. I may as well bring this up now, then.

SPEAKER_07 12:18

Valentine's Day is a few weeks away. Maya and I are hosting a holiday dinner for the first time.

SPEAKER_09 12:24

We're doing a Valentine's Day dinner. Who does that? Isn't it like a couple things?

SPEAKER_01 12:31

We're inviting you. Have you met the new woman who bought the house down the street? She's very attractive and apparently single. Who's that? I don't recognize her, do you?

SPEAKER_07 12:47

You should find out who she is.

SPEAKER_09 12:50

Hi.

SPEAKER_07 12:52

Hi. Do you like my dad? Um yes, sure. Yeah, he's um weird. Oh my god.

SPEAKER_02 13:04

Hello, Claire.

SPEAKER_01 13:07

Stuart? What are you doing here?

SPEAKER_02 13:10

Ex-husband, but not ex-businessman. The short of it is, your dumb little project for your shelter will not be done this year or ever.

SPEAKER_09 13:21

If not, Claire, then who? Guess I forgot everything that went into this, all the talking. Oh, so I I talk too much? No, not you. Me too. Oh, you talk too much. I'm just saying, like, I just even thinking of things to say. It's in all the listening, it's exhausting, you know.

SPEAKER_02 13:42

You could have called him.

SPEAKER_07 13:43

No, it's it's gotta be his idea. I mean, not something he wants. I'll see you at the Valentine's Day dinner.

SPEAKER_01 13:50

Valentine's Day dinner.

SPEAKER_02 13:56

Thank you so much for bringing me on this little trip. It is right. I love it.

SPEAKER_00 14:08

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SPEAKER_08 14:25

Hey Amy, what's your favorite movie? Shut up, Robin.

SPEAKER_06 14:34

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SPEAKER_04 14:47

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SPEAKER_06 14:55

We do, and it is 513-720-4640. Contact us soon. We're back. Okay, so one of the games that we always used to play at sleepovers, did you play Truth or Dare? It was Truth or Dare and the Ouija board. And the Ouija board. We're not doing that. No, no, we're leaving that juju there. I I don't need any bad karma. So, but we can do truth or dare. We have the game right here.

SPEAKER_04 15:25

I just don't want my grandma to be like bitching at me. Like she'd be like, you're not doing this right, whatever, but yeah.

SPEAKER_06 15:31

Yeah, I'm sure there's plenty of people who want to come back and haunt me. Um, okay, so truth or dare. So we've got truth cards. We've got dare cards, and we have punishment cards. Punishments, punishment. Punishment. So I will ask you truth or dare, and then you have to either do the truth or dare if you refuse. I have to do the punishment. You must do the punishment. Okay, we're just gonna not do the punishments tonight, I think. We shall see. We shall see. Okay. All right, who's going first? Oh, I'm gonna ask you. Okay. Truth or dare, Amy. Truth. Okay. It's a do it's a different question. Okay, I'm not giving my social security number.

SPEAKER_04 16:14

I mean, I can, but you're not gonna get shit from it. I'm just saying.

SPEAKER_06 16:18

Okay, so what's the most unhinged thing you've ever done while overtired?

SPEAKER_04 16:26

So, like call an ex a bitch.

SPEAKER_06 16:31

Text an ex. Always. Or call, text, whatever.

SPEAKER_04 16:35

Just like it just when you're how did that go? Not well.

SPEAKER_06 16:39

Not well.

SPEAKER_04 16:40

Just not well.

SPEAKER_06 16:41

Did you wear slur your words? Like, what was the situation there? Um, just I don't know, just things came to mind and and you felt like you needed to say them. Did you feel better?

SPEAKER_04 16:52

No.

SPEAKER_06 16:53

I you never feel better. I feel like that's true. You don't ever feel better. So dare. Dare. Okay. I'm so nervous. Because I know what's on these guys. Oh, she's shuffling. Okay. Right.

SPEAKER_04 17:14

Oh, pretend you're giving a TED talk about something ridiculous.

SPEAKER_05 17:19

I don't watch TED Talks.

SPEAKER_06 17:22

Oh no. I don't, I don't even okay, like I know TED Talks are super popular, and I should and have pretended that I know what they are, but I in fact do not.

SPEAKER_04 17:33

Just say welcome to my TED Talk. That's it.

SPEAKER_06 17:36

No, I think I have to refuse. Because I don't know how to do it. Okay. So that means you have to give me a punishment. I've been dead.

unknown 17:47

Okay.

SPEAKER_04 17:50

Okay, the punishment.

SPEAKER_06 17:53

Admit your most irrational adult fear. My most irrational adult fear. Okay, so if I mean super truthful, my most irrational adult fear is that I'm constantly afraid that everything is my fault and I will do something and people will hate me and never speak to me again. Like it's irrational, totally irrational. But like there's always that worry in the back of my mind. Gotcha. Some days it gets more vote voice than others. Yeah. Okay, that's my thanks, anxiety. Yeah. Thanks, adult anxiety. Yes. Okay. Okay, truth or dare? Okay, dare. Oh, she's brave. Being brave. What's this?

SPEAKER_04 18:41

Uh-oh. We better take a drink.

SPEAKER_06 18:44

Do your best evil laugh everyone every time someone says your name, Amy. Is that your evil laugh? Yes. That's a terrible evil laugh, Amy. It's one of those laughs, like, that's Amy. Okay. Like, I laugh like that when I'm mad. Amy, you have to, every time I say Amy, you had to evil laugh. Oh, someone says my name. Okay. Yes, Amy. I get it now. She doesn't have an evil laugh. She doesn't have one. No, but like my thing is when I'm really pissed off, if I start laughing. Oh, you know. You know. You know. All right. I'm gonna hand this to you, Amy. Because that's a permanent, that's a permanent fixture. Yes. Okay. Uh all right. Truth or dare. Dare. All right. Not a TED Talk one. And when I wrote out that card, I'm like, please don't get this. And you go. And it's the first fucking one.

SPEAKER_04 19:49

Do your best seductive shampoo commercial hair clip. You gotta take it all out. Just be like, okay.

SPEAKER_06 20:01

Like you're just like like this, just oh, okay. Like, and then just we're making sound effects with it too. What is that? What is that? I mean, do you do people really do that? No. Do you do that? No. Maybe I do do that. I said do do. I don't know. All right. Next time in I'm in a sexy mood. I'll see if I go, mmm. We'll see. Okay, true the dare. Let's see truth. Okay. Have you ever snooped through someone's house? No, not really. Good girl. I haven't either. However, I have been present when someone else did it and I didn't stop them. I didn't participate, but I did not stop them.

SPEAKER_04 20:52

To me, like my I my parents taught me it's not your shit. Don't stay out of it.

SPEAKER_06 20:58

Yeah, yeah, yeah. We were teenagers and I felt peer pressured, and I'm like, I'm not participating. But anyways, sorry, that was your truth. Okay. So do you want truth or dare? Dare was fun. Let's do that. Okay. You know, my failed dare.

SPEAKER_05 21:21

I'm nervous.

SPEAKER_04 21:22

Call someone and say I need rail money and then immediately hang up. We're going to jail.

SPEAKER_06 21:38

Oh Ghostbusters. All right, okay, all right. I know long and hard. If somebody comes busting in the door halfway through our game here, you're gonna know why. Mm-hmm. Okay. Here we go. Here we go. Are we gonna like I don't know? Oh I guess I should put it on the sneaker.

SPEAKER_05 22:23

We're waiting.

SPEAKER_06 22:26

Oh watch them be sleeping. Leave a voicemail, that's even better. I will. Oh wait, does this have voicemail?

SPEAKER_04 22:35

It should. You should voice mail.

SPEAKER_06 22:39

This here is not nearly as fun when they're gonna be.

SPEAKER_04 22:41

You should leave a voicemail. Because that leaves a lot. Like they'll check it out in the morning and be like, I don't know that there's voicemail for Telegram.

SPEAKER_05 22:56

This is very uneventful. Alright. I'm gonna try their other phone number.

SPEAKER_06 23:03

And this is the one person he would that I would call for bail money. Okay. Okay. I hope to god there's voicemail off this. I need bail money. Oh, I'm gonna pay for that later. Alright, that was fun. Okay. So if your phone starts blowing up, we know why. Yes, we know why. Okay, so truth or dare? I'll do a truth. Truth. She's like, after that, dare, I don't want another one. Oh, have you ever sent a text and instantly regret it? I mean, who hasn't? Right?

SPEAKER_04 23:47

Okay, what the same thing about being overly tired and calling an ex.

SPEAKER_06 23:53

What is it with late night texting the ex? It's never a good plan. No, it's never. It never works out. I'm just saying. Okay, are you an iPhone person? Yes. Have you ever done the unsend? Yes, but sometimes it's too late. Oh, yeah, that's true. And I have found that it says message deleted, and then they're like, What did you delete? Yep. Now do I say what I deleted or do I make something up? So I said the wrong person. Okay, all right. Okay. Truth or dare? Truth. Okay. She's doing that. One's pulling from the bottom. No. All right.

SPEAKER_04 24:33

What's a totally irrational fear that you have? We just said we did that one. Okay. Well, I'll pull another one. Okay. Style together down. Have you ever cried over something ridiculous?

SPEAKER_06 24:48

Yes. And recently. So it was like a run of back-to-back travel and flights and all of this thing. And something like something had happened with a family member. And so um, but there was just like no downtime, no rest. And then um somebody was like, and tomorrow you don't get, you don't have to do anything, you get to rest. And I started crying, and I was like, Yes! It was just for a second, like just a few little crocodile tears. But man, it was ridiculous, like so stupid. But I mean, who has it?

SPEAKER_04 25:29

Like, who has it?

SPEAKER_06 25:30

It's like the tired cry, like infants do. It was terrible. Oh, truth or dare, Amy, dare? Dare. Oh good, because that's what I was gonna pick for you anyway.

SPEAKER_04 25:45

Uh-oh.

SPEAKER_06 25:47

Well, this is gonna be hard. Okay, so let the other host rename you for the rest of the episode. But if I do that, then I can't make you laugh, Amy. That is not an evil laugh. An evil laugh's like, I can't do an evil laugh. Uh, we'll teach you. Right.

SPEAKER_04 26:10

I'm too, I'm too kind.

SPEAKER_06 26:12

Alright, well, then we'll call you the perfect little princess for the rest of the perfect little princess.

SPEAKER_04 26:22

I am not a princess.

SPEAKER_06 26:24

Okay. Okay. Alright. So truth or dare. Uh dare. Okay. I think this will be our last round. So it's gotta be. If you don't like it, put it back.

SPEAKER_04 26:36

Great famous fictional sleepover slash movie friend groups. Kind of like, um shoot.

SPEAKER_06 26:48

Do we want to pick another one?

SPEAKER_04 26:49

Yeah, that one's not as fun. Okay. I can't blame like any of those movies on the top of my head, but draw an extra eyebrow on your face.

SPEAKER_06 27:00

Draw an extra eyebrow on my face. Alright, friends. I'll be right back. So you're gonna put in the middle like a unibrow? I I don't know. Do you want a unibrow? Do you want a unibrow? That's up to you. Like, you gotta sit here for the rest of the episode. With whatever eyebrow. I guess that's true. Alright. So, oh god, you're probably getting my audio from the mic. So, are you gonna draw in the mirror or are you gonna do it like right in front of the camera? Oh no, I'm doing it in the mirror. Oh, I think it would be better if you did it in front of the camera. Well, it's too late, it's already on there. No. She's coming back. Plus, I need the mirror, and it's still bad. Oh my god, this is terrible. It's so bad in here. Okay, all right. Truth. Hold on, I gotta sit down with my fancy new eyebrow. Okay, truth. Alright. Mike it deep, guys.

SPEAKER_04 28:15

Very deep.

SPEAKER_06 28:16

Okay, so what is your biggest relationship red flag? Not what somebody else has, but what do you think your red flag is?

SPEAKER_04 28:25

Oh, that's a tough one.

SPEAKER_06 28:28

This kind of um you could always pass and take a punishment.

SPEAKER_04 28:35

Biggest relationship red flag is somebody that is self into themselves.

SPEAKER_06 28:40

Is that your red flag then that you have? Yeah. You're into yourself? No, like themselves. Okay, but what is if somebody was looking at you, what's your red flag? I'm stubborn as fuck. No, I get it now.

SPEAKER_04 28:54

Yeah, I'm stubborn. Like just.

unknown 28:56

Okay.

SPEAKER_06 28:57

That's fair. Yeah. Alright, awesome. Well, I think this wraps up Truth or Dare, but clearly you guys can see there's more cards here. Yeah. I'm date. You get these questions. The internets. Yes, the internets. The internets. The interwebs. The interwebs. So this game will definitely be back there with fun. This was fun. And there's like more dare cards that I want to see you do. And I can't believe you didn't do a punishment. Okay, I don't want to spoil it for you, but what um, so for sleepover stuff, what's the wildest dare that you were done?

SPEAKER_04 29:37

And what is like your like must-have item, whether it's wine, food, what's your sleepover must have? Yeah.

SPEAKER_06 29:46

Okay, awesome. Well, thank you guys so much for joining us. See you next time. Bye.