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<v SPEAKER_00>Well, good morning.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We are continuing our study through the book of Romans.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So this is Paul's letter to the church in Rome in the New Testament.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We've been saying that it is Paul's theological masterpiece in the New Testament as he is helping us see our own sinfulness and depravity or imperfection as for us to increase our joy in the gospel and in Jesus.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So last week Paul begins to take away the religiosity of the Jewish people, that they're trying to use their religious performance to feel secure with God rather than trust Jesus.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He continues the same thing today as we jump in, Romans 2, verse 25.

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<v SPEAKER_00>For circumcision indeed is of value if you obey the law, but if you break the law, and he's saying, hey, like hint, hint, all of us, your circumcision becomes uncircumcision.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Point number one is this doing religious things does not always equate to knowing God.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now it's possible, possible that your religious activities are entirely about knowing God.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's wonderful.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's amazing.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's how we would want it to be.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But it's also possible for your religious activities to be more about your control and your reputation as a religious person.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So to talk about that, we get to talk about circumcision, which I know you're so excited about because that's why you woke up and came here on a rainy sun.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Is that let's talk about circumcision?

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<v SPEAKER_00>So just to be clear, technical, not crude, circumcision is the removal of the foreskin of the males, you know.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so I'm uncomfortable in ancient biblical times, this was performed on all male babies on the eighth day.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It was it was a marking of God's people.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It was a symbol of the removal of sin and a symbol of the purity of those people.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They live differently.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They are different.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And practically speaking, it was a much healthier way to live.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now, Paul's point in this is that you don't have to fix yourself with external works.

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<v SPEAKER_00>In fact, you can't.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You can change some external things, you change some behaviors, but you can't change the heart.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We don't need a new religious rule, we need a new heart.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That biblical word heart is deeper than emotions, it's encompassing the core of who we are, our inner person, our thoughts, our desires, our affections, our wills, our motivations.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's the core of who you are.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We need a new heart.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Paul's entire argument exists because religion continues to fail us.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We can be moral, we can be Bible-believing, obedient, but our hearts can still be about ourselves.

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<v SPEAKER_00>In this way, Romans 2 is a clear picture of the elder brother from Luke 15.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>So if you think about our Rembrandt that hangs in the back lobby of the prodigal son, that Luke 15 story, the wild, rebellious brother has returned home.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He's broken, he's fallen before the father just to receive grace, he has nothing to offer.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The elder brother is up to the right.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And my friend Michael, he told me in between services, you notice the elder brother's dressed like the father?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Like the elder brother has all the exterior lined up, but he has a heart problem because the elder brother's self-righteous.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The elder brother thinks, shouldn't this younger brother have to earn his way back into the father's love?

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<v SPEAKER_00>The elder brother doesn't get it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He doesn't understand the father's love.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So Romans 1, we have the little brother.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Romans 2, we have the elder brother.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But both of them are lost.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Both of them are rebellious in their own ways.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The elder brother just trying to establish his security with the father based on his performance and his external Romans 2, just like the Jewish people.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So in Tim Keller fashion, as we often review, that Luke 15, the Rembrandt, Romans 1 and 2, what it teaches us is it teaches us that irreligion, I don't need God, I'll live my own way.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Younger brother, Romans 1.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Religion moralism, elder brother, Romans 2.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I've obeyed God, so God owes me.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Look what I've done.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now you owe me.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You owe me with forgiveness.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You owe me with righteousness.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You owe me with a good life or a comfortable life.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And Paul is saying, no, no, no, no.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We need a third way.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We need a third way.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We need a new heart.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Verse 26.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So if a man who is uncircumcised keeps the precepts of the law, will not his uncircumcision be regarded as circumcision?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now that's time out.

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<v SPEAKER_00>An ancient Jew hears that, so offended, incredibly offended, talking about a Gentile dog outside the Jewish family could be like me, secure and righteous elder brother.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I mean, how dare Paul say this?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Verse 27.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Then he who is physically uncircumcised but keeps the law will condemn you who have written the code and circumcision but break the law.

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<v SPEAKER_00>For no one is a Jew who is merely one outwardly, nor is circumcision outward and physical.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Point number two is this God's law moves past external behaviors and it moves to the heart.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It goes into our hearts.

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<v SPEAKER_00>A couple months ago, I went out fishing with a group of my fishing buddies, and we were gonna go out for the whole day.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So I rigged my rod, I packed up my bag, and we're gonna be out for the day, so I packed my lunch, which is always salami and cheese and pretzels in a Snickers bar.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I love a Snickers bar on like a fishing day.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so I put it in my bag.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We're out fishing, we we broke for lunch, and I ate the salami and the cheese and the pretzel.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I forgot about the Snicker bar.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I just forgot about it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So fish all afternoon, it gets pretty hot, got pretty hot.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Get back to the truck, and I remembered that I was so hungry, there was nothing in the truck, but I remember I had the Snickers bar in my bag.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I was so excited.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I was like, oh, I got the Snickers bar.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's amazing.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I went and got it, and it looked beautiful.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It looked, I mean, pristine elder brother rapper.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I mean, it looked great.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And you know what happened, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>You broke it open.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's just, it's a mess.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It was nasty.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It was horrible on the inside.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The outside looked great.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You ever feel like that?

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<v SPEAKER_00>You ever feel like on the outside you couldn't get the elder brother look going?

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<v SPEAKER_00>You can get all the religiosity going, but on the inside, if anybody knew, you're really a mess falling apart.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Of course, you see my point.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The Jewish people are like the shiny Snickers bar.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The exterior was right with all the religious rules, but Paul's saying is always deeper.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And if we go into our hearts, we all have problems.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We all need God's grace.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's about the heart.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Verse 26 uses the word regarded, the Greek word regarded as loye setu, and it means be counted, reckoned, or regarded.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And this is about what God counts and how he regards us.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now he regards us as righteous in Jesus.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's amazing.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he's not regarding us based on what we look like on the outside or our performance or our record.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now we like to do that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We like to count and regard based on heritage and religious credentials and you know, net worth, and your grades, and your friend group, and your talents, and your net, you know, your club memberships.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And God cuts through all that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He just wants to go to the heart, the inner core.

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<v SPEAKER_00>What's going on in your heart?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Point number three is that God's heart is for us to know him, not just know of him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>There's a difference there between knowing somebody and knowing of somebody.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And in this way, in church, it's so easy that we can turn all the good stuff like quiet times and Bible knowledge, church membership, communion, uh, family heritage, moral behavior into substitutes for knowing God, for being a spiritual person that knows God.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Who would y'all say is the most famous CEO in the world?

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's just a chattel.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Musk, thank you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I took a big chance in the first service and I got it on the first guest.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Elon Musk is probably, there's other famous, famous CEOs, but Elon Musk was might be the most famous CEO in the world.

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<v SPEAKER_00>There's Elon as a kiddo.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He was born in South Africa in 1971.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He sold his first company in 1999 for$22 million.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He didn't start Tesla, I didn't know that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He bought into Tesla.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He started SpaceX.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He has 12 children born to three different women.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That was new information to me.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He works a lot, like a lot, a lot, a lot.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he's the richest man in the world.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now, I know of Elon Musk, the CEO.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I know of him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I do not know him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now, here's another CEO.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh on the right, that's Casey Queen, Chrissy's little brother.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's my brother-in-law.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He's CEO of a small construction company.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I've known him since he was a little boy.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I know he's very fast.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Like speed.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He's very fast.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He'd run fast.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he was very fast when he was little.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He was safety on the football team.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I went to his high school football teams.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I remember he was a little boy.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I remember the first time he brought his wife to meet our family.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I know all five of his children.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I know he loves Sid Mashburn clothing.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He loves Auburn University.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He loves Jesus.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He loves his family.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He loves construction products.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I can call him anytime I want and he'll pick up.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now I know of Elon Musk, but I know Casey.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's the difference in relationship.

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<v SPEAKER_00>To know of versus know.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Religion and moralism is a way of knowing of God.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But not knowing God.

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<v SPEAKER_00>A personal relationship, an inner core connected to your creator.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And Paul says we need a new heart, but the way we do it is not by religious performance or rules.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's a death and a resurrection.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's a surrendering into.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's a Lord help me.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And that's when God shows up into our lives and our hearts, where the transformation begins.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Verse 29, but a Jew is one inwardly, and circumcision is a matter of the heart by the spirit, not by the letter.

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<v SPEAKER_00>His praise is not from man, but from God.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Point number four is this true spirituality is a spirit-transformed heart.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This is the climax of argument in Romans 2.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Paul doesn't merely call us to another set of better rules or performance.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The fundamental issues, the heart.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And Paul writes, circumcision is the matter of the heart.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I mean, we're going to get to in Romans 3 that this is going to be by faith.

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<v SPEAKER_00>By faith, by grace.

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<v SPEAKER_00>To summarize verse 29, the letter or the law tells us externally what God requires, yet the Spirit performs that inner work of transformation in our hearts.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Christy, I married 22 years ago, and for her wedding present to me, she contacted a friend of ours who was doing some art on the side and had a piece of art done for me.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It hangs in my office.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Here's a picture of that piece of art.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It hangs behind my desk chair.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's called Circumcision of the Heart.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And on the back, our friend Jason wrote this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Paul talks about a circumcision of the heart.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So he's in Romans 2.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We have received new hearts in the Spirit.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And these new hearts mark a wonderful new beginning.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now, I don't notice this piece of artwork every time I walk into my office.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's on the wall, it's always there, but it's kind of always there, so I don't always notice it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But when I do notice it, it definitely reminds me that I don't need another religious rule.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And my report card to God is not going to ever be good enough.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I need his grace to me.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I need a new heart.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I need Jesus for me.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Point number five is this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This would be like, what's the implication of all this?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay, great, great.

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<v SPEAKER_00>What does this mean for me today?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Point number five: our new heart is free from the addiction of people pleasing.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And maybe you notice it there at the end of verse 29, almost like a tag on.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It feels like the argument's been made, and then Paul just sort of tags on this implication.

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<v SPEAKER_00>His praise, meaning the praise we receive and we desire, is not from man but from God.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That Greek word praise meaning praise, commendation, approval.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So the question for us is whose approval is ultimately governing our lives?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Whose approval helps us decide our direction?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Whose approval are we living for?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Human approval or God's approval?

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<v SPEAKER_00>My mentor Scotty Smith, he always says this is like the umbilical cord of the baby back to the mama.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The baby receives the nourishment from mom.

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<v SPEAKER_00>When it comes to people's approval, that is like us walking around connecting our umbilical cord to other people, trying to suck life from them to feel fulfilled.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Here's what he wrote in a prayer entitled A Prayer for People Pleasing.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I can see how people pleasing plays out in two directions.

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<v SPEAKER_00>On one hand, there are people to whom I attach my umbilical cord, metaphorically speaking, inspect them to give me life.

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<v SPEAKER_00>On the other hand, there are people whose umbilical cords I grab and plug into me, assuming the role of life giver.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I grieve both of these patterns, Father.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Lord Jesus, I don't want to live as an approval suck.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I want to love others as you love me and as you love them.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's flat out wrong for me to give anybody the power to control me through their affirmation or their rejection.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's because of your life of perfect obedience that I can be free from living as opposer, pretender, and performer.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's because of your death for me on the cross that I can live with the absolute assurance of God's everlasting approval and his steady kindness.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So, God the Holy Spirit, keep gossiping this gospel to my heart.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Keep bearing witness with my Spirit that I am a beloved child of Abba Father.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Keep giving me the power to repent of all forms of living for the approval of people, a life-sucking snare indeed.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I pray in Jesus' liberating name.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Amen.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So the Holy Spirit will apply the gospel to our hearts, and slowly and imperfectly we will begin to live from God's approval as our definition, the core of who we are, and even our motivation rather than other people's.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So I've been preaching weekly for 20 years.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So say 20 times 50 is a thousand.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um it's probably not 50 a year, so maybe 800.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I've probably preached 850 sermons.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It feels really good when people say some sort of praise, but what I have found is it only lasts so long and it can only go so deep.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now, the reverse is also true.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It stings a little when I get criticism.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I I do.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They are 22 minutes.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I I know how long they're.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The sermons aren't long enough.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It stings a little because you want something, I'm not delivering it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I want to learn from that, but you know that criticism can only go so deep.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It works both ways, doesn't it?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Like when our approval is from God, the praise only has so much ability to actually fulfill me.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The criticism has only so much ability to like deflate me if I'm living plugged in to God's approval.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But that's the gift that we have.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's the grace that we have, that's the freedom that we have.

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<v SPEAKER_00>When the umbilical cord is not connected to each other, we can hear your praise and you can hear my praise.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I can hear your criticism and you can hear my criticism, but it only has so much effect because the core of who you are is governed and motivated by God's regard to you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And that's where we're headed in Romans and three and four, and it's gonna get better and better because all of this has just been about us seeing our need as to increase our joy in the gospel.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Church, your praise is not from man, but from God.

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<v SPEAKER_00>If you have any questions about the sermon, there'll be a pastor down front afterwards to answer those or pray with you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Let's pray together.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Heavenly Father, we're so thankful that you know us, you love us, you regard us as you regard Jesus.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You don't regard us based on our performance or what we look like or how obedient we are.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You regard us of Jesus' righteousness that's put on us.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And when we think about Luke 15 and Romans 1 and Romans 2, we're all a little bit of Romans 1 and we're all a little bit of Romans 2.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We're all a little wild when we shouldn't be, and we're all a little self-righteous when we shouldn't be.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so we thank you that you love us, anyways.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And that Jesus' forgiveness is enough for us, and Jesus' righteousness is enough for us.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Holy Spirit, do a new work in us, a new heart with a new source of affirmation.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Pray this in Jesus' name.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Amen.
