The Art of Badassery with Jenn Cassetta: Mindset, Motivation and Empowerment for Women

63 | Empathy and Humor: Tips for Men Supporting Menopausal Partners with Matt Hyams

Jenn Cassetta Season 1 Episode 63

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Have you ever wished your partner truly “got it” when perimenopause, mental load, and everyday stress hit?


In this episode, I welcome Matt Hyams as the first male guest in Art of Badassery history, a comedian whose perimenopause videos went viral by helping women feel seen through humor, empathy, and honest communication. Matt shares how a “Tips for Men Whose Wives Are Going Through Perimenopause” video unexpectedly exploded into millions of views, how reposting and following “cosmic breadcrumbs” led to more viral wife-themed content (including Mel Robbins reposting one), and why reading comments has shown him the deeper impact. We talk about common partner mistakes, the need for patience and self-awareness, and what’s next for Matt, including a podcast with his wife, Nicole, tentatively titled “Whatever, It’s Fine.” 


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