SPEAKER_01 0:00

Welcome to my first podcast. So I'm with my sister, and we're currently in my closet. Qui enough to do this because this microphone literally gets everything. Say hi. Hello. So today I was going to talk about wait, I have it in my notes. I was going to talk about breakups, because who doesn't love to talk about breakups? And then a friend of mine, a little cutie pie, um, he suggested I talk about basically following your passions and yeah. Um, but his name is Justin. Hi, Justin, if you're listening to this. So I guess we can just jump on right in. Okay. We can just jump right in, I guess. Right on. But you've never had a breakup, you said.

SPEAKER_00 1:20

No, not really. I've only I told somebody that I didn't like want to date them. How did you say it? Well, I was a little bit scared to tell them because I didn't want to hurt his feelings, but um I didn't tell him in person. I texted him. Of course. And told him this is like last year, and I told him that um I wasn't in the right spot in my life to date him, and that he deserves somebody that's gonna really be um in that, I don't know, in the right position in life to um have a boyfriend and um treat them the g uh the right way. So I I told him I I didn't want a boyfriend and I wasn't in that position in life, and um it's nothing that he did, but I just didn't want to um date anybody.

SPEAKER_01 2:15

Well, I've I've had a few breakups. And I think probably this is like a bad breakup story, so I guess we're doing bad breakup stories. Is that your only um is that your only like bad story?

SPEAKER_00 2:31

Like Well, the other guy that I was talking to and went on a few dates was the most awkward human being I've ever met in my entire life. Oh and he just uh I'm like the first girl he probably ever talked to. And so every time I hung out with him, I felt like we were just really good friends and um never felt the romantic chemistry at all. The romantic chemistry. Yeah, there just wasn't any. So um I was like, you know what, I'm gonna stop talking to him and like making the moves first, and if we keep talking or if he reaches out again, then maybe I'll see if um give him another chance, but he didn't, so we never talked after that. And uh it was a little bit awkward and uncomfortable for a while, but then after that it was kind of like whatever, so interesting. Yeah, didn't have to break up with that one.

SPEAKER_01 3:26

Well, uh, I have a bad breakup story. It was the most recent one. You already know this. Oh yeah. But I doubt he's ever going to listen to this ever in his life. But if he does, it's really awkward. But uh basically, I was dating this guy for like four months, and towards the end it got really bad. Like I was it was just not a good relationship. And I kind of brought it up first that he wasn't like treating me well basically, and uh he broke up with me on Valentine's Day over text message. But me being a super nice person, I just like I'm almost too nice to a fault, and like I still gave him his Valentine's gifts. Like, that's pretty bad. But like I didn't want it, so I wasn't gonna keep that. What like I don't want that stuff, so I gave him his stuff back. But uh yeah, that was pretty much the worst breakup story I have. I mean, there's a lot more to it, but yeah. I think that's probably the worst one. Do you have any advice on moving on, Regan? Well, how do you move on from things? And if you like if you were to go through a bad breakup, how would you move on? I know that's kind of hard because you've never gone through one.

SPEAKER_00 5:17

Um, I would probably Like how do you think you would get rid of the things that remind me of them. So, like, if they just left stuff or gave me like a present or something, I probably wouldn't keep it. I would either like just give it away if it was like a super nice gift, or I would just like throw it away because you don't want to be reminded of that person, and if they weren't good for you, then um yeah, I would just not have those constant reminders of negative things that happened. But if it was like a good person and things just didn't work out, then um I don't think it would be bad to have reminders of that because they were a part of your life for a while and a part of who you um are, like they helped you change in a certain way. Yeah. Whether it was good or bad. Everybody's growing and changing, so I feel like it's okay to have reminders of somebody who genuinely had good intentions in talking to you, but if they were just a butthole, then you don't need any of their stuff.

SPEAKER_01 6:21

Um my advice. Hold on, I gotta don't say what I'm saying here because we're gonna play this game at the end, but okay. Um so for me, moving on, like if I know that I shouldn't be with someone, it's kind of easier to move on because you have all these reasons why you should move on, but uh I don't know.

SPEAKER_00 6:55

I'm scatterbrained. Like, in terms of feelings, how how long did it take you to move on? And like be like, okay, well that person really wasn't for me, and well, I knew that from the moment I feel better now.

SPEAKER_01 7:08

I knew that from the moment we broke up, but uh you still like like for me, like even though I knew that I wasn't supposed to be with this person, like he wasn't the kind of person I wanted to be around gen like generally. Like he's just not a great person. But um I'm talking about the last person I just talked about about the bad breakup, he just wasn't great. And so I was even though I was oh my god, I can't think. This is how my brain works. I'm just like everywhere. But um, even though I felt like a sense of relief when we broke up, I was also sad, and that's just I'm a human being, I guess. This happens. But yeah, I deleted pictures, I deleted anything that had to do with him. And this is probably bad, but I st we still follow each other on social media. So I feel like that wasn't the greatest thing, but I'm strong, I can handle it. But yeah, I just hung out with my friends, and I had to figure out what I learned from the relationship because that also kind of helps me like move on, and yeah, that's pretty much it. And then it just takes some time for you to not be sad anymore. Like you move on, you change. People change. You just gotta let time heal your wounds. Okay. Okay. So the next thing we're talking about, because we're pretty much done with the breakup crap, but Justin suggested I talk about following I don't have my phone with me right now, but it was something like working your actual job versus your passions and your like side hustles or whatever. What do you do you think someone should follow their dreams or do you think they should play it safe and have an actual job?

SPEAKER_00 9:32

I think that in order to um well, I definitely think you should always follow your dreams. Never give up on the thing that you wanna do the most, because if you can end up doing things you love to do, then that's just a dream in itself because it won't feel like a job. Like if you're super into music, um and you go into like a field working in music, it's not gonna be all perfect all the time, but you won't mind because it'll be something that you truly genuinely are passionate about and what you love to do. Just like people who are into photography or into art, like if they can be an artist, like that's amazing, but I think maybe um it takes time to get there. Like maybe you have to go through a few jobs that you don't like, so to set yourself up to um be able to follow your dream in that way. I think everybody finds their dream differently and follows it differently, so yeah. You can definitely go down different career paths before you get there, I think.

SPEAKER_01 10:34

Yeah. I think pretty much the same thing, and it just depends on the person you are. Like for me, I went to I went to college for a semester a few years back, and like the kind of person I am is it if if something's not making me happy, like I can't do it. Like I can't do something that I know isn't making me happy, or else my mental health goes down the drain. So I think it just depends on the kind of person you are, but I nanny right now, like I nanny kids, and like I like doing that, so if I'm doing something that I like and don't hate, then I'll be okay, and I still I'm still working on my passions, like doing this podcast, that's one of my passions. YouTube videos. Follow you follow your dreams. Never go back. Alright, we're done. No, I'm just kidding. Okay. And forgive me, guys, because this is my first podcast ever, so sorry if it's a little uh not the best. I'm gonna work on it. But I think we're doing pretty good for our first one. It's obviously not that long. Some podcasts are like hours long. And like 30 minutes. This is gonna be like 10 minutes long, not even 10 minutes. I wanna play a game. A game. A game. It's called F Mary Kill. And we're going to give each other options, F Mary Kill, and we just say who we wanna F Mary and Kill. Okay, I'm gonna ask you first. Okay. Okay, F. Mary Kill, Zach Efron, Michael B. Jordan, Miles Teller. Oh, um.

SPEAKER_00 12:29

Oh man, Zach Efron's in there. But I also like uh Miles Teller a lot. Like I love him. Um But Michael B.

SPEAKER_01 12:39

Jordan.

SPEAKER_00 12:40

I know, but like What? I like Miles Teller more than I like him. What? I'll pause it. And I like Zach Efron, like, obviously. You can't. But Michael B. Jordan. No, I like Miles Taylor. Okay, I'll marry um Zach Efron, F. Miles Taylor, and I'm sorry, I'm gonna go back. I'm gonna send you the other way.

SPEAKER_01 13:09

No, mine would be Mary Michael B. Jordan, F Zach.

SPEAKER_00 13:15

No, I can't kill Miles Teller, he's freaking funny. I'm killing him. So is Michael B. Jordan. I know, but it's Zach. I can't I can't.

SPEAKER_01 13:25

You need help. You need serious help. Okay, do me. Wait. Okay. Okay, do me. We're on my computer right now. Figuring out Options. Oh my gosh, there's f You can do girls too.

SPEAKER_00 13:46

Okay. Uh is that Emma Watson?

SPEAKER_01 13:51

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 13:52

So F. Mary Kill, Emma Watson, um. I don't remember her name. That's really bad because she's in Pitch Perfect, um, the star of Pitch Perfect, and um Okay, yeah. Emma Watson, Anna Kendrick, or Emma Stone. What will you do? Oh god. I think I already know who you're gonna kill. Anna Kendrick.

SPEAKER_01 14:22

Yeah. Sorry. Sorry, Anna. Don't care about you as much as the other two. Yeah, I'm gonna kill Anna Kendrick. I'm going to probably. This is hard because I'm a huge Harry Potter fan. I also love Emma Stone. Oh my god, this is really hard.

SPEAKER_00 14:47

You already know what you want to do. No, I don't.

SPEAKER_01 14:53

Yes, you do. I really don't know. Okay. I can't make decisions. Okay. I'm going to kill Anna Kendrick. I'm going to marry Emma Watson and F. Emma Stone. There we go. Okay, I want to give you girls. Ooh, here we go.

SPEAKER_00 15:21

Do you know who those people are? Oh, that was Megan Markle for a second. I was like, why?

unknown 15:26

F.

SPEAKER_01 15:26

Marikill, Kira Knightley, Amanda Seafrid, or is it Seafred or?

SPEAKER_00 15:31

I think it's Cyfred.

SPEAKER_01 15:33

It's not Cyfrid.

SPEAKER_00 15:35

I think it's like Cyfried.

SPEAKER_01 15:40

Say Fred. Amanda. Or Karen Gillen. Amanda Seyfred. Gillen Gillen. Seafried? I used to say Seafred. Karen Gillen is the girl. What?

unknown 15:50

Hmm. What?

SPEAKER_01 15:53

Karen Gillen is the girl from the new Jumanji movie. She's the cute redhead in it. Oh, okay. Hopefully people know who she is. Well, because I've just She's also in in the Afinity War. I don't know what you're talking about. She's what's her face's sister. She's bald. Okay, anyway. Which one?

SPEAKER_00 16:20

Okay, well, I'm obviously gonna marry Amanda because um I love her. Um I'm going to I have Karen Knightley because Kieran Knightley, and then I'm gonna kill Karen Gillen because um I've just met her, so I just met you, Karen.

SPEAKER_01 16:34

You gotta go.

SPEAKER_00 16:37

You are new to me. Okay, do me betrayal. Ooh. Okay. Why? It has Mila Kunas.

SPEAKER_01 16:47

I know, but I don't know which one.

SPEAKER_00 16:49

Oh no, I'm doing it. Okay. F. Mary Kill, Zoe Saldana. Then that tried to say her name and accent. Saldana. Natalie Portman or Mila Kunas.

SPEAKER_01 17:02

Well, I'm gonna marry Mila Kunas immediately. I'm going to F. Natalie Portman. I'm gonna kill you, Zoe Saldana. You killed Zoe Soldana. I love her, but yeah, she's gotta go.

unknown 17:14

Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_01 17:15

Okay.

unknown 17:16

F.

SPEAKER_01 17:16

Mary Kill, Adam Levine, Jared Leto, Justin Timberlake. This is a hard one.

SPEAKER_00 17:23

Oh no.

SPEAKER_01 17:24

I know what I'd do.

SPEAKER_00 17:27

Okay. Um. Hmm. I'm gonna marry Adam Levine. I'm gonna have Justin Timberlake, and um, I'm gonna name my Jared Leto. Oh, Jerry, how can you? I'm a letto, you go. Oh my dear God. Okay, do me. Okay. Oh my gosh, those look photoshopped. I love all these people. I'm doing this one. F Mary Kill, Benedict Cumberbatch, Idris Elba, or Tom Hiddleston. Okay.

SPEAKER_01 18:07

Man. Okay, I'm gonna marry Tom Hiddleston because look at that face.

SPEAKER_00 18:13

No, you have to choose between Benedict and Idris. I'm gonna kill Benedict Cumberbatch. No, you're not! You cannot kill Sherlock Holmes! No, you can't! I just did it. He can't die. Well.

SPEAKER_01 18:28

Well, then he's just gonna have to go away. And then I'm gonna F Idris Elbow. You killed. You killed Benedict. I'm sorry. I love him. Tom Hiddleston. My main squeeze now. Rest. Well, I hope you enjoyed this little podcast. I know it wasn't super long. I'm just getting started, so.

SPEAKER_00 18:51

What if it like wasn't recording the whole time? I would literally kill myself.

SPEAKER_01 18:54

Kill self. But uh thank you for listening. If you listened, I don't know if this was funny. It probably wasn't very funny. Probably or helpful, but I'm gonna post it anyway. Uh yeah. So thank you for listening. Um, I'm gonna try and do this pretty often. We'll just see. But thank you and thanks to Justin for uh helping me out. He's a little cutie. And you can follow my Instagram at Savannah Boehm. And uh yeah. Thanks, Reagan. For being on my podcast. Yeah, I scheduled you in, and that's another appointment today, but it won't. I'm gonna try not to have my sister with me at the time. Like, I wanna get different people. But um I can be different. I'm just gonna be all weirdo. But I'm gonna try and get my one of my best friends, Jessica, to be on here with me. She'll probably be on here a lot, or at least I'm gonna try. And I was going to try and like video record these, but I don't quite know how to do all that yet. So it's just gonna be the uh vocals right now, not the video. But yeah, thank you for listening. And I hope you tune in for my next one. Alright. Bye. Bye.