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<v SPEAKER_01>Turn your Bibles this morning to 1 Samuel chapter 18.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And last week we looked at the story, probably the most familiar story that's used in Scripture, David and Goliath.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And I kind of purposefully jumped past some things about him, but I want to just build you up a little bit of a character of David this morning as we jump in.

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<v SPEAKER_01>David is probably a lot more like you and me than we think.

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<v SPEAKER_01>David is a roller coaster of a Christian, and we'll see that through his life story.

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<v SPEAKER_01>You know, he started out, what we know of him is he's a shepherd boy.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He goes from shepherd boy just minding the sheep out in the field, sort of nothing little kid, who then is called to be a cheese carrier to war, right?

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<v SPEAKER_01>And he brought these sandwiches to his brothers, and he goes from shepherd boy sort of nothingness to giant slayer.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I mean, what a hill on the roller coaster of life.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And he goes from giant slayer into becoming Saul's captain in an army.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He goes giant slayer, captain of an army.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Thank you, Joe.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And then he becomes an in-law who becomes an outlaw.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Y'all got anything like that in your families?

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<v SPEAKER_01>So he's an in-law who becomes an outlaw.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He goes from that to become a king, to become a king who's an adulterer, who's a murderer, but he's known throughout all of this as a man after God's own heart.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And so, really, when we look through slave for the next several weeks, we want to get to that.

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<v SPEAKER_01>How can we go through life's hills and valleys and ups and downs and relate to us where we're at and still, in the midst of all that stuff, be after God's heart.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And so that's what I hope through the story of David and all that he is that we figure out in these next few weeks.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So in 1 Samuel chapter 18, we're gonna park there for a few minutes and go back and build some of the characters before Goliath a little bit this morning.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Let me pray.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Father God, uh we just thank you for your presence already.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And we thank you, God, that we do not take for granted when you show up in a place.

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<v SPEAKER_01>God, that is special, that's needed.

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<v SPEAKER_01>God, otherwise, if we're here and we don't meet with you, then God, what are we doing?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Lord, we don't need a habit, we don't need a ritual, we don't need a tradition, we need the presence of your spirit in this place.

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<v SPEAKER_01>God, the people that came in here, I have no doubt, came in carrying luggage and baggage from the weeks before them.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Maybe a lot of weeks.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And then we hear worship of you being the way maker, God, who's working and we don't even understand.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So, God, I pray that you would continue to bless us with an overwhelmingness of your presence this morning.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Let this word speak to us and get us out of our own way.

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<v SPEAKER_01>In Jesus' name.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Amen.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So in 1 Samuel chapter 18, I want you to look down at verse number 7.

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<v SPEAKER_01>This is where we're gonna kind of build the text.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And uh look at what it says.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So the women sang as they danced and said, Saul has slain his thousands, and David his ten thousands.

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<v SPEAKER_01>This is gonna become a marker of some pretty crazy things that happen throughout this text, but I want you to understand, number one this morning is this man creates measurements.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Man creates measurements.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And so when Saul heard this song, it says right after that, verse 8, then Saul was very angry.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He did not like this song that was being sung, and it's because it felt to him like a comparison.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And so I brought you some of my tools today.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Uh, very lightly used, looks brand new, okay?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Right?

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<v SPEAKER_01>So Saul, this is what's happening.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Man makes measurement.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Man looks at the tape, right?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Man takes measurements, and so when man looks at man, man goes, okay, let's see how we size up here.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Okay, tall.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Uh-uh.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Okay.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And so man makes measurements, and man uses the tape.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And so we see man creates measurements, and he hears this song, and this is what I want you to know about it.

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<v SPEAKER_01>There's an outward appearance, letter A.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Outward appearances are a big deal in the culture and life that we lead.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And it's going all the way back.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I want you to look.

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<v SPEAKER_01>We're going to build some background here.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Look at 1 Samuel chapter 8.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I want you to see a couple of verses and see what's happening.

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<v SPEAKER_01>How do we get to this point in place?

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<v SPEAKER_01>1 Samuel chapter 8.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Okay.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Verse 4, we're going to start at and look at a couple of verses.

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<v SPEAKER_01>But the outward appearance thing, this is what happened.

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<v SPEAKER_01>In Israel, verse 4, then all the elders of Israel gathered together and came to Samuel at Ramah and said to him, Look, you are old, and your sons do not walk in your ways.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Now make us a king to judge us like all the other nations.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Okay?

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<v SPEAKER_01>You see that verse 6 and 7.

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<v SPEAKER_01>This displeased Samuel when they said this, give us a king to judge.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Samuel prayed to the Lord.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And the Lord said to Samuel, listen to the voice of the people and what they say to you.

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<v SPEAKER_01>For they have not rejected you, Samuel, and your words, but they have in fact rejected me.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Verse 19, as you go through that text, it builds, but this is what it says.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Nevertheless, the people refused to obey the voice of Samuel.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And they said, We will have a king over us, like all the other nations.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So outwardly, Israel is watching the rest of the world and judging what the rest of the world is doing, and they're saying, We want a system like theirs.

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<v SPEAKER_01>We know, maybe they're not understanding that they have the God who creates kings, but they want a king to judge them.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so they say, We want what everybody else has, Samuel.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We want what they got.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We don't have that, we want that.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Sound like some children, right?

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<v SPEAKER_01>It's heartbreaking how we settle because of how we measure things.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Right?

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<v SPEAKER_01>They're taking a measurement.

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<v SPEAKER_01>This is what the rest of the world has, Samuel, and we don't have it.

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<v SPEAKER_01>We need what they got.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And so it's a measurement of things.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I want you to understand the measurement doesn't stop there.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Turn over to 1 Samuel chapter 9.

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<v SPEAKER_01>We're building here.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Stay with me.

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<v SPEAKER_01>We're going to get somewhere.

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<v SPEAKER_01>1 Samuel chapter 9.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So Samuel goes out looking for a king.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Well, what does he do looking for a king?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Look at 1 Samuel 9, 1 and 2.

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<v SPEAKER_01>There was a man of Benjamin whose name was Kish, the son of Abel, the son of Zarar, the son of all these sons with big names.

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<v SPEAKER_01>A Benjamin, a mighty man of power.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And he had a choice.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Listen to this.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And he had a choice and handsome son, whose name was Saul.

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<v SPEAKER_01>There was not a more handsome person than he among the children of Israel.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Listen to this.

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<v SPEAKER_01>From his shoulders upward, he was taller than all the other people.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And so Samuel went out looking for a king.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And he said, This one, shoulders and measured high above any other.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And he looked at his outward appearance, and it said, How many times?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Two, three times.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He's handsome.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He was good to look upon.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And so there was a measurement.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Here is Saul.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Saul is tall and handsome.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And I bet when Saul walked by, the women went, woo! They probably cat called him, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Woo! Woo! Look at Saul.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And then the children, the children, he walked by and they're like, There's Saul.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Guys, look, here comes Saul.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Big Saul.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Here he comes.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Big tall Saul.

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<v SPEAKER_01>The men, when Saul walked by, they felt more like men.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And when they saw Saul, they tried to throw out Fence Bump Saul.

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<v SPEAKER_01>You still lifting, bro?

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<v unknown>Yeah.

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<v SPEAKER_01>There goes Saul.

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<v SPEAKER_01>In fact, in all of my research this week, I found a picture.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I had to go through a lot of digging and finding, and I actually found what I think is a real close replica of what Saul looked like.

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<v SPEAKER_01>If you guys would throw that up.

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<v SPEAKER_01>There's Saul right there.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I've seen some ladies.

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<v SPEAKER_01>They got ready to have their cat call right there.

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<v SPEAKER_01>You see, the problem for us is we take the tape and we measure life based on this outward appearance.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And so the problem with the tape is this, 1 Samuel chapter 16.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I want you to turn there real quick.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I know we're bouncing around.

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<v SPEAKER_01>We'll get back to the text.

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<v SPEAKER_01>We got a bill.

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<v SPEAKER_01>1 Samuel chapter 6, 16, verse 6 and 7.

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<v SPEAKER_01>You remember last week I said I'm not going to get into it, but we have a story of when Samuel came and he was looking to anoint the next king.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And he came to Jesse's house and he said, It must be Eliab, right?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Eliab the oldest one, the one that looked the part, and he got to Eliab verse 6, and when he came to him and said, Surely the Lord's anointed is before him.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Listen to this, because this is going to be a big thing throughout the text.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Verse 7.

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<v SPEAKER_01>But the Lord said to Samuel, Do not look at his appearance or at his physical stature, because I have refused him.

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<v SPEAKER_01>For the Lord, listen, does not see as man sees.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And so even Samuel the prophet, who walked with the Lord, still, when he came to anoint, the first thing he did, huh?

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<v SPEAKER_01>This fits the mold.

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<v SPEAKER_01>This is going to be the next king.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And so he had an outward appearance thing.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And listen, I want you to understand something today.

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<v SPEAKER_01>God is not about human measurement.

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<v SPEAKER_01>God is about heaven's measurement.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Okay, hear me.

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<v SPEAKER_01>It's not about human outward measurement with God.

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<v SPEAKER_01>It's about heaven's measurement.

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<v SPEAKER_01>People will look at you and say, They're that tall.

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<v SPEAKER_01>People will look at you and look at your shoes.

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<v SPEAKER_01>People will look at you and look at your clothes.

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<v SPEAKER_01>People will look at you and look at your walk.

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<v SPEAKER_01>They'll look at your purse, ladies.

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<v SPEAKER_01>They'll look at your wallet.

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<v SPEAKER_01>They'll look at your car.

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<v SPEAKER_01>People will measure every which way, trying to figure out what they are based on outward appearance.

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<v SPEAKER_01>But God says, listen to me, Saul was tall, but God doesn't look at height, he looks at heart.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And let me tell you, Ephesians 3 says that you may be able to comprehend the width and length and depth and height of the love of Christ.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Not your faith, but your faith.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Not your followers, but your faith.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Not your fans, but your faith.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Not your fitness, but your faith.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Not your friendships, but your faith.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He's looking at your faith, not your finances.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He's looking at your faith, what's in here.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And so God has a different measuring system.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He gets this out, right?

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<v SPEAKER_01>And he goes, let me check.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Let me check there.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Let me see what's inside.

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<v SPEAKER_01>God's measurement system isn't the tape.

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<v SPEAKER_01>You see, church, he's checking about what's in that heart.

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<v SPEAKER_01>What's beyond your appearance?

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<v SPEAKER_01>He can use anyone for anything.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He doesn't care about your height, your weight, or what advantage you think you have or what's in your wallet.

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<v SPEAKER_01>It got there because of him anyway.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He is concerned about that heart.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And so, man, his measurement is off.

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<v SPEAKER_01>The measuring tape.

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<v SPEAKER_01>We're all about the measuring tape.

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<v SPEAKER_01>But he measures with a scope.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He measures the heart.

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<v SPEAKER_01>You see, the measuring tape, this is all about comparison.

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<v SPEAKER_01>When I use this, all I can do is look at someone and say, Well, this is what I'm like, this is what they're like, and I'm comparing.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And I want you to know this.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Comparison is the thief of contentment.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I'll say that again.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Comparison is the thief of contentment.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And as long as you're looking at the measuring tape, you won't measure up.

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<v SPEAKER_01>You're never going to be able to measure up as long as you're looking at the tape.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So we see, even starting into Saul's story, there was an outward appearance problem, there was a measurement problem.

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<v SPEAKER_01>But then we get to this point where he hears this singing.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And let me read again.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Saul has slain his thousands.

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<v SPEAKER_01>David is ten thousand, eighteen, verse seven.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Then Saul was very angry, and the saying displeased him.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And he said, They have ascribed to David ten thousands, and to me they have only ascribed thousands.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Now what more can he have but the kingdom?

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<v SPEAKER_01>So Saul eyed David from that day forward.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And so letter B is this this morning.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Saul was concerned about open approval.

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<v SPEAKER_01>This open approval was at issue for him.

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<v SPEAKER_01>When that song went off, he heard that approval and he was wroth with anger.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He was filled with rage.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And these women, they had no idea what this little song was doing.

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<v SPEAKER_01>They had no clue.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Have you ever just blurted out something and you went, oh, every man better just go ahead.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Let me see a hand raise, okay?

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<v SPEAKER_01>If you're married, whatever, you've blurted some stuff out.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And so they blurted this song out singing.

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<v SPEAKER_01>They didn't think nothing about it.

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<v SPEAKER_01>One lady at my former church said to the pastor one day, she was saying, I can't believe it still.

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<v SPEAKER_01>She said, You know, you remind me of somebody.

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<v SPEAKER_01>When I hear you preach, you remind me of somebody.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And she goes, she's like thinking about it.

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<v SPEAKER_01>She goes, That's who it is.

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<v SPEAKER_01>You remind me of Joyce Meyer.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And I'm like, bro, no, what she means is like a more manly version of Joyce, brother.

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<v SPEAKER_01>That's not what she means, but she meant like, you know, the way that he was speaking.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I'm like, dude, why would you blurt that out?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Don't say that.

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<v SPEAKER_01>A lady in the lobby at church one time to my very beautiful pregnant wife said, Do you think you have triplets in there?

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<v SPEAKER_01>I'm like, don't listen.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I'm gonna give everybody a favor here.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Just don't talk to pregnant ladies about their pregnancy.

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<v SPEAKER_01>It's just always dumb.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Unless you're gonna say something nice, just keep it shut.

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<v SPEAKER_01>You don't know what it takes to do all that.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Man, just don't go there.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Triplets.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I'm like, oh lady, come on.

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<v SPEAKER_01>The next three days are gonna be bad because of you.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Why?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Don't just blurt something out.

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<v SPEAKER_01>This song became David's run and hide theme.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Because of this song, the rest of David's life around Saul would change.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Now, I want you to understand something today, church.

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<v SPEAKER_01>People need, we have the need of affirmation.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And there's nothing wrong with affirmation.

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<v SPEAKER_01>In fact, there's a book called The Five Love Languages, if you haven't read it, words of affirmation, they say will keep your marriage.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And so, listen, husbands, if you're married today and your spouse hasn't received much affirmation, she might be tempted to go find it.

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<v SPEAKER_01>You give your wife affirmation.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Sir, tell her she's pretty, even if you've done it 150 times.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Tell her again.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Tell her she's appreciated, even though it's become natural and normal.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Say thank you again.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Say she's done good again.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Ma'am, listen to me.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Tell him all he wants to do is be your hero.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Tell him.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Tell him he's handsome.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Even if you just think it and you hadn't said it.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Tell him.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Words of affirmation are important.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So affirm.

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<v SPEAKER_01>We need affirmation.

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<v SPEAKER_01>We need all that.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Well, I can tell you this.

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<v SPEAKER_01>In 16 years of working in church ministry, I haven't had one wife or one husband on the other side of my desk saying, Pastor, they just over-affirm me.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I'm so sick of it.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Compliment.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Thanksgiving.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Compliment.

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<v SPEAKER_01>It's just too much.

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<v SPEAKER_01>One more compliment, and it's going to be last draw.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I've never once, Pastor, have you had this?

00:16:27.519 --> 00:16:27.840
<v SPEAKER_01>No.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Man, she's just filling my cup up too much.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Listen, but Christians, hear me, Christians, if someone else gets affirmation, you don't have to get all in your feelings measuring, well, what about me?

00:16:44.720 --> 00:16:47.120
<v SPEAKER_01>They did good, but hold on.

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<v SPEAKER_01>What about what about what I did?

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<v SPEAKER_01>You see, that's what happens here.

00:16:51.360 --> 00:16:53.360
<v SPEAKER_01>Saul gets all in his feelings.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Why are they saying that?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Why do they even have to bring up numbers?

00:16:57.840 --> 00:16:59.679
<v SPEAKER_01>Why are they bringing up numbers in their song?

00:16:59.759 --> 00:17:00.799
<v SPEAKER_01>Why does that have to happen?

00:17:00.960 --> 00:17:02.240
<v SPEAKER_01>What about me, the king?

00:17:02.480 --> 00:17:07.279
<v SPEAKER_01>The only thing left from here is David's gonna be had the whole kingdom.

00:17:07.920 --> 00:17:08.240
<v SPEAKER_01>See?

00:17:08.880 --> 00:17:13.839
<v SPEAKER_01>Saul is king, but he wants what David has.

00:17:15.759 --> 00:17:18.559
<v SPEAKER_01>He is the king of all of the land.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I mean he has everything, but he looks at the shepherd boy who's slain a giant and goes, but I want what he has.

00:17:26.799 --> 00:17:33.359
<v SPEAKER_01>I got a picture that I want you to see of Michael Jordan when he was here in Birmingham.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Um look at this picture, okay?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Looks like Michael Jordan's trying to play baseball there, doesn't it?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Y'all see that?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Michael Jordan, the greatest arguably basketball player that ever has lived, played baseball for a season and uh had had uh batted 2-0.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Two out of ten tries, he would get a hit.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He had 114 strikeouts in his minor league season.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Like, Mike, you're the greatest there's ever been in basketball.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Stay in your lane.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Y'all with me?

00:18:09.440 --> 00:18:13.119
<v SPEAKER_01>It's amazing, though, in professional sports that he did what he did do.

00:18:13.279 --> 00:18:15.440
<v SPEAKER_01>Like, what he did do was pretty incredible.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Not many people could even do that, but he wasn't great at it.

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<v SPEAKER_01>It's like, stay in your lane, know who you are, and be content with what you're great at, what God gave you.

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<v SPEAKER_01>You see, Saul's pouting and can't be happy when the war that David is out there fighting, slaying the ten thousands is directly benefiting him, king of all the land.

00:18:37.839 --> 00:18:41.920
<v SPEAKER_01>His enemies are staying at bay, and he's jealous.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He's jealous, church.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Jealousy reveals our deepest loves.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And Saul was in love with himself.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And so we've seen that, that it was about outward appearance and open approval.

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<v SPEAKER_01>That takes us to the second point this morning.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Popularity conceals purpose, popularity.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And so he heard this song and got so angry, got so consumed.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I was thinking about popularity and purpose, and God gave me this thought.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I would sacrifice, I would rather sacrifice popularity on the altar of man's hand clap than one moment of God's purpose in my life.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I can have every day filled with man's hand clap, and I'll sacrifice it on the altar of purpose.

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<v SPEAKER_01>You can lose all your status, I'll give it all up.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I want God's purpose in my life.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Saul had a purpose.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He was missing the mark.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He was concerned more about ovation than obedience.

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<v SPEAKER_01>That's letter A.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Ovation.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Saul chose ovation over obedience.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I want you to go back because there's a little history with Saul in this.

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<v SPEAKER_01>It's not just falling apart at this moment.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Saul became king, and for a while Saul led the nation well.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He was walking with the Lord.

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<v SPEAKER_01>But in 1 Samuel chapter 15, some things started to fall apart.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I want you to see these scriptures here.

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<v SPEAKER_01>13 through 19, we'll read through.

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<v SPEAKER_01>It's a little story about what's happened.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Then Samuel went to Saul.

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<v SPEAKER_01>There had been a fight, there had been a battle, and there were instructions about it.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Okay, and Samuel went to Saul, and Saul said to him, Blessed are you of the Lord.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I have performed the commandment of the Lord.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Verse 14.

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<v SPEAKER_01>But Samuel said, Well, what then is this bleeding of the sheep in my ears?

00:20:38.960 --> 00:20:41.039
<v SPEAKER_01>And the lowing of the oxen which I hear.

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<v SPEAKER_01>They were supposed to get rid of all of it, but Saul held back.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And Saul said, They have brought them from the Amalekites, for the people, look at what he does, he points a finger.

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<v SPEAKER_01>The people spared the best of the sheep and the oxen to sacrifice to the Lord your God, and the rest we have utterly destroyed.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Then Samuel said to Saul, Be quiet.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He puts him in his place.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And I will tell you what the Lord said to me last night.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And he said to him, Speak on.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So Samuel said, Were you, when you were little in your own eyes, were you not head of the tribes of Israel?

00:21:11.519 --> 00:21:13.759
<v SPEAKER_01>And did not the Lord anoint you king over Israel?

00:21:13.839 --> 00:21:20.319
<v SPEAKER_01>Now the Lord sent you on a mission and said, Destroy the sinners, the Amalekites, fight against them until they are consumed.

00:21:20.559 --> 00:21:23.599
<v SPEAKER_01>Why then did you not obey the voice of the Lord?

00:21:23.759 --> 00:21:28.480
<v SPEAKER_01>Why did you swoop down on the spoil and do evil in the sight of the Lord?

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<v SPEAKER_01>And so we see this back and forth.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And what Saul greets Samuel, right?

00:21:32.960 --> 00:21:35.759
<v SPEAKER_01>And he's trying to get ovation, even in his greeting.

00:21:35.920 --> 00:21:38.640
<v SPEAKER_01>He's trying to give them spiritual words that he puts on.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Greeting in the name of the Lord, brother.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I'm so glad to see you.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And Samuel's no dummy.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He sees through it because he hears what's going on, the sheep in the background.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And Samuel hears and sees it.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And Saul, what happens is he struggled being told what to do.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So he blames it on the people.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And you know what that does?

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<v SPEAKER_01>It sets off the preacher.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Samuel gets angry with him.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He says, Be quiet, Saul.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Like I can't hear these animals back here.

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<v SPEAKER_01>You are not the king, and now you're blaming this on the people.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Look at verse 22 and 23.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Now the preacher's about to preach to him, so get ready and hear what he has to say.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Listen to him.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So Samuel says, As the Lord has great delight in burnt offerings and sacrifice.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Yes, you've got these animals to sacrifice, they're here.

00:22:24.160 --> 00:22:33.119
<v SPEAKER_01>But as in obeying the voice of the Lord, behold, to obey is better than sacrifice, and to heed than the fat of rams.

00:22:33.279 --> 00:22:35.519
<v SPEAKER_01>And this is where it gets preachy at him, verse 23.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Rebellion, Saul, is like witchcraft.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Stubbornness is like sin and idolatry.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Because you have rejected the word of the Lord, he also has rejected you from being king.

00:22:49.759 --> 00:22:53.920
<v SPEAKER_01>And so Saul's choice in this moment, right?

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<v SPEAKER_01>It was a slip-up, it was a mess up.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He says, This is costing you the kingdom.

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<v SPEAKER_01>What you've done here, God said to do something, you didn't do it, and you've got a consequence.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Well, look at verse 24.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Then Saul says to Samuel, I've sinned, I've transgressed from the commandment of the Lord and your words because I feared, it was because I feared the people.

00:23:16.960 --> 00:23:18.720
<v SPEAKER_01>He's still making an excuse.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And obeyed their voice.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Please, therefore, pardon my sin, listen, and return with me that I may worship the Lord.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He says, Let's go back.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And here's why.

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<v SPEAKER_01>You think, well, that sounds nice.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He's making a confession.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He wanted to go back before the people and have a worship celebration of the battle.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And the people look at the king and go, here is our king.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And he says, Samuel, come on.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I'm sorry I sinned.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Let's go back and have the celebration.

00:23:45.680 --> 00:23:47.200
<v SPEAKER_01>You say, Well, where do you get that?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Go down to verse 30.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Samuel turns around and he says to him, I will not go with you.

00:23:55.359 --> 00:23:57.359
<v SPEAKER_01>I will not have any part of this.

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<v SPEAKER_01>In verse 30, he says, I have sinned again.

00:24:00.400 --> 00:24:02.960
<v SPEAKER_01>Yet, listen to this, I have sinned.

00:24:03.359 --> 00:24:06.960
<v SPEAKER_01>Verse 30, yet honor me now.

00:24:08.000 --> 00:24:14.160
<v SPEAKER_01>Please, before the elders of my people and before Israel, return with me that we can worship the Lord.

00:24:14.400 --> 00:24:18.079
<v SPEAKER_01>He says, please, no, Samuel, we got to go back.

00:24:18.480 --> 00:24:21.359
<v SPEAKER_01>Honor me in front of the people for what I've done.

00:24:21.440 --> 00:24:24.160
<v SPEAKER_01>You've got to have forgive me and honor me.

00:24:24.240 --> 00:24:27.920
<v SPEAKER_01>They need to see outwardly what I've done.

00:24:28.240 --> 00:24:29.680
<v SPEAKER_01>You see what he's doing here?

00:24:29.920 --> 00:24:35.279
<v SPEAKER_01>He's giving a false confession so that he can go before the people and be honored.

00:24:35.440 --> 00:24:38.319
<v SPEAKER_01>And Samuel says, I am not having it.

00:24:38.400 --> 00:24:41.519
<v SPEAKER_01>You see, Saul kept looking at the tape.

00:24:41.759 --> 00:24:43.119
<v SPEAKER_01>He kept looking at the tape.

00:24:43.200 --> 00:24:45.519
<v SPEAKER_01>And Samuel left after this moment.

00:24:45.680 --> 00:24:46.480
<v SPEAKER_01>Listen to this.

00:24:46.640 --> 00:24:50.880
<v SPEAKER_01>And Saul would never see Samuel again until Saul.

00:24:51.039 --> 00:24:54.480
<v SPEAKER_01>Saul, Samuel was never in his presence again until his death.

00:24:54.799 --> 00:24:56.720
<v SPEAKER_01>Saul kept looking at the tape.

00:24:56.880 --> 00:24:58.000
<v SPEAKER_01>He kept looking at the tape.

00:24:58.160 --> 00:25:07.759
<v SPEAKER_01>Listen, Church, Heather and I have a son in elementary school, a son in middle school, and a daughter in high school.

00:25:08.079 --> 00:25:09.920
<v SPEAKER_01>Prayers appreciated.

00:25:11.039 --> 00:25:12.960
<v SPEAKER_01>Advice not welcome.

00:25:13.359 --> 00:25:14.880
<v SPEAKER_01>There is no advice.

00:25:15.119 --> 00:25:17.039
<v SPEAKER_01>There is no advice, okay?

00:25:17.200 --> 00:25:18.720
<v SPEAKER_01>It's just survival.

00:25:18.960 --> 00:25:26.640
<v SPEAKER_01>Because I remember when I was in middle school and I walked through the door in middle school, and the girls began to call me short.

00:25:26.799 --> 00:25:31.279
<v SPEAKER_01>And I remember they looked at me and they said, huh, he's a little chubby.

00:25:31.599 --> 00:25:36.799
<v SPEAKER_01>And immediately upon my arrival into middle school, the tape was handed to me.

00:25:36.960 --> 00:25:38.640
<v SPEAKER_01>And so I'll be honest with you.

00:25:38.799 --> 00:25:41.920
<v SPEAKER_01>Look, I haven't grown one inch since sixth grade, okay?

00:25:42.559 --> 00:25:43.680
<v SPEAKER_01>Not one inch.

00:25:43.839 --> 00:25:47.680
<v SPEAKER_01>And so why would a Yankee from Delaware always wear cowboy boots?

00:25:47.839 --> 00:25:50.400
<v SPEAKER_01>Because it gives me a quarter inch on my girl over there, okay?

00:25:50.559 --> 00:25:52.720
<v SPEAKER_01>If you want to get in my business, okay?

00:25:52.960 --> 00:25:58.240
<v SPEAKER_01>But I can remember going in and the struggle to compensate.

00:25:58.720 --> 00:26:00.160
<v SPEAKER_01>The struggle, right?

00:26:00.400 --> 00:26:03.680
<v SPEAKER_01>Because I'm this and I'm this, and they handed me the tape.

00:26:03.839 --> 00:26:08.559
<v SPEAKER_01>Look, if you come meet with me today and you're tall, you're gonna sit in a chair with me because that's how I cope.

00:26:08.799 --> 00:26:09.119
<v SPEAKER_01>Okay?

00:26:09.440 --> 00:26:12.079
<v SPEAKER_01>So I was handed the tape, right?

00:26:12.240 --> 00:26:13.440
<v SPEAKER_01>The measuring tape.

00:26:13.680 --> 00:26:16.079
<v SPEAKER_01>And so when you go into school, this is what happens.

00:26:16.160 --> 00:26:17.519
<v SPEAKER_01>They say, here's your tape.

00:26:17.759 --> 00:26:26.880
<v SPEAKER_01>You gotta be this tall, you gotta wear this clothes to fit in, you gotta do this to be popular, you um have to play this sport, you have to do this thing.

00:26:27.039 --> 00:26:31.440
<v SPEAKER_01>Um, and if you want to be really popular, you gotta fit in, you gotta be with that group.

00:26:31.519 --> 00:26:34.160
<v SPEAKER_01>And they hand your child a tape.

00:26:34.400 --> 00:26:41.680
<v SPEAKER_01>You must get a girlfriend, you must get a boyfriend, you have to do these things to fit, and everything is measured by popularity.

00:26:42.160 --> 00:26:45.039
<v SPEAKER_01>Popularity, church, is not purpose.

00:26:45.440 --> 00:26:47.519
<v SPEAKER_01>It's all about the tape in that world.

00:26:47.680 --> 00:26:49.680
<v SPEAKER_01>This is obsolete.

00:26:50.079 --> 00:26:52.640
<v SPEAKER_01>Oh, someone's heart, oh, what's going on in here?

00:26:52.720 --> 00:26:53.920
<v SPEAKER_01>This is obsolete.

00:26:54.079 --> 00:27:01.200
<v SPEAKER_01>But the tape is handed to them as soon as they walk in, and so the measurement of the heart is kicked to the side.

00:27:02.319 --> 00:27:04.319
<v SPEAKER_01>And that's where Saul was.

00:27:04.559 --> 00:27:06.559
<v SPEAKER_01>He says, I need ovation.

00:27:07.039 --> 00:27:11.200
<v SPEAKER_01>I need people to clap for me, I need my name to be sung.

00:27:12.000 --> 00:27:14.319
<v SPEAKER_01>That's what the world has told me I need.

00:27:14.720 --> 00:27:16.319
<v SPEAKER_01>Isn't that what I need?

00:27:17.680 --> 00:27:21.680
<v SPEAKER_01>Well, scripture says it's about the scope, the heart.

00:27:22.160 --> 00:27:43.759
<v SPEAKER_01>Um my kids were young, they would come often and climb my lap, and I would tell them, give them something to do, tell them uh to go maybe pick up something that they left out, and and and often they would come back to me little, and they'd come jump in my lap and hug me and kiss on me, and I'd say, Hey, did you get done the thing that I asked you to do?

00:27:44.079 --> 00:27:44.400
<v SPEAKER_01>No.

00:27:46.079 --> 00:27:47.519
<v SPEAKER_01>Maybe kiss me, Daddy.

00:27:47.599 --> 00:27:48.000
<v SPEAKER_01>I love you.

00:27:48.079 --> 00:27:57.200
<v SPEAKER_01>And I say, Yeah, those words are good words, and I like this affection, but you know what's better than that?

00:27:57.759 --> 00:27:59.279
<v SPEAKER_01>When you obey me.

00:27:59.519 --> 00:28:02.720
<v SPEAKER_01>Obedience shows me that you love me.

00:28:02.960 --> 00:28:07.759
<v SPEAKER_01>Your words tell me something, but your obedience shows me something.

00:28:07.920 --> 00:28:11.119
<v SPEAKER_01>And so go do the thing that I told you to do.

00:28:11.680 --> 00:28:20.799
<v SPEAKER_01>And so Saul's actions were continuously showing that Saul was in love with himself, he was not obeying.

00:28:22.000 --> 00:28:24.960
<v SPEAKER_01>So Paul had, or Saul had these comparison issues.

00:28:25.039 --> 00:28:28.000
<v SPEAKER_01>I want you to go back to chapter 18.

00:28:28.400 --> 00:28:30.480
<v SPEAKER_01>Let's see how the story unfolds a little more.

00:28:30.559 --> 00:28:36.799
<v SPEAKER_01>What Saul chose, letter B, is this Saul chose adversary over advisor.

00:28:38.480 --> 00:28:46.480
<v SPEAKER_01>And it happened on the next day, verse 10, that the distressing spirit from God came upon Saul, and he prophesied inside the house.

00:28:46.559 --> 00:28:50.880
<v SPEAKER_01>So David played music with his hand, as at other times.

00:28:51.039 --> 00:28:58.559
<v SPEAKER_01>But there was a spear in Saul's hand, and Saul cast the spear, for he said, I will pin David to the wall.

00:28:58.799 --> 00:29:02.000
<v SPEAKER_01>But David escaped his presence twice.

00:29:02.160 --> 00:29:07.759
<v SPEAKER_01>Now Saul was afraid of David because the Lord was with him, but had departed from Saul.

00:29:07.920 --> 00:29:14.079
<v SPEAKER_01>And so these comparisons in his life made Saul snap.

00:29:14.559 --> 00:29:16.000
<v SPEAKER_01>It overtook him.

00:29:16.400 --> 00:29:18.880
<v SPEAKER_01>It says he was afraid because of it.

00:29:19.119 --> 00:29:27.759
<v SPEAKER_01>He was afraid that no longer now, because of his disobedience, the Lord was not with him, and so anywhere that David was, he was fearful.

00:29:28.960 --> 00:29:31.279
<v SPEAKER_01>Isn't that what comparison really is?

00:29:31.839 --> 00:29:36.160
<v SPEAKER_01>I look at somebody else and I fear I'm not as good as them.

00:29:36.720 --> 00:29:38.240
<v SPEAKER_01>I'm not as strong as them.

00:29:38.400 --> 00:29:40.720
<v SPEAKER_01>I can't do what they do like they do it.

00:29:40.880 --> 00:29:47.039
<v SPEAKER_01>I can't sing how they sing, I can't teach how they teach, I can't build how they build, I can't do what they do.

00:29:47.119 --> 00:29:50.559
<v SPEAKER_01>And really, it's an insecurity issue.

00:29:51.279 --> 00:29:54.880
<v SPEAKER_01>And so Saul the king has snapped.

00:29:55.359 --> 00:29:57.519
<v SPEAKER_01>So he puts David in battle after this.

00:29:57.680 --> 00:29:58.960
<v SPEAKER_01>Because what do you do?

00:29:59.200 --> 00:30:01.200
<v SPEAKER_01>You try to get rid of him, right?

00:30:01.519 --> 00:30:03.200
<v SPEAKER_01>And so he puts David in battle.

00:30:03.359 --> 00:30:08.079
<v SPEAKER_01>He even goes as far as giving his daughter Michael to David.

00:30:08.160 --> 00:30:13.599
<v SPEAKER_01>And this is we don't have time to go through all the scripture, but he says maybe it will draw him away.

00:30:13.680 --> 00:30:21.200
<v SPEAKER_01>And so he tries to use his daughter and get David pulled away through love.

00:30:21.920 --> 00:30:30.000
<v SPEAKER_01>How twisted to manipulate his own daughter in hopes of the gain of man's applause.

00:30:30.559 --> 00:30:32.319
<v SPEAKER_01>Can you imagine, dads?

00:30:33.359 --> 00:30:40.640
<v SPEAKER_01>Throw your daughter at some man so that the world around you will clap for what you do.

00:30:41.599 --> 00:30:43.440
<v SPEAKER_01>Saul has snapped.

00:30:44.000 --> 00:30:47.519
<v SPEAKER_01>Say, well, I don't really, I don't, I'm not using my child in that way, Pastor.

00:30:47.599 --> 00:30:54.000
<v SPEAKER_01>We don't, but I think sometimes people are living vicariously through the applause of their children.

00:30:55.839 --> 00:31:00.079
<v SPEAKER_01>We are over-sported in this generation, church.

00:31:00.640 --> 00:31:02.640
<v SPEAKER_01>And I know that it gives us a thrill.

00:31:02.720 --> 00:31:05.039
<v SPEAKER_01>I watched my child, and I'm like the rest of you.

00:31:05.200 --> 00:31:10.640
<v SPEAKER_01>As soon as they could lift their foot to kick something, I'm like, the power in his kick.

00:31:10.880 --> 00:31:12.160
<v SPEAKER_01>He's amazing.

00:31:12.480 --> 00:31:14.160
<v SPEAKER_01>This child can do anything.

00:31:14.400 --> 00:31:17.039
<v SPEAKER_01>This girl can, she's like the flash.

00:31:17.279 --> 00:31:19.759
<v SPEAKER_01>You've never seen nothing like it, right?

00:31:22.559 --> 00:31:31.119
<v SPEAKER_01>But I've heard parents over the years say, my kid can't come to church because of this sport.

00:31:32.720 --> 00:31:34.160
<v SPEAKER_01>They can't, they just can't.

00:31:34.319 --> 00:31:34.799
<v SPEAKER_01>They can't.

00:31:34.880 --> 00:31:37.200
<v SPEAKER_01>This thing is in the schedule already.

00:31:37.599 --> 00:31:42.640
<v SPEAKER_01>And my Bible said to train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it.

00:31:42.960 --> 00:31:44.319
<v SPEAKER_01>Proverbs 13.

00:31:45.200 --> 00:31:50.640
<v SPEAKER_01>But the training that I see is much about the ovation for the parent.

00:31:50.799 --> 00:31:54.240
<v SPEAKER_01>The parent feels that joy in their accomplishment.

00:31:54.480 --> 00:32:04.079
<v SPEAKER_01>And I gotta tell you, the stuff, the training that goes on, and the stuff that gets pushed aside for the low percentage chance of a child being sports scholarshipped.

00:32:04.319 --> 00:32:06.000
<v SPEAKER_01>That's the big dream.

00:32:06.319 --> 00:32:09.279
<v SPEAKER_01>One day they're gonna get a scholarship.

00:32:12.559 --> 00:32:16.400
<v SPEAKER_01>And what's happening here is the parents going like this.

00:32:19.039 --> 00:32:22.480
<v SPEAKER_01>And we say, I can't believe Saul would do that with his daughter.

00:32:23.680 --> 00:32:32.559
<v SPEAKER_01>If I do this and my kid gets to this point, then it came from that parent.

00:32:32.799 --> 00:32:34.400
<v SPEAKER_01>That's who it came from.

00:32:34.640 --> 00:32:36.240
<v SPEAKER_01>They're so great.

00:32:36.960 --> 00:32:39.359
<v SPEAKER_01>And so we're using the tape.

00:32:39.759 --> 00:32:43.119
<v SPEAKER_01>Listen, I want you to understand something today, church.

00:32:44.079 --> 00:32:47.200
<v SPEAKER_01>As a parent, your job is not to measure up.

00:32:47.599 --> 00:32:49.200
<v SPEAKER_01>Your job is not to measure up.

00:32:49.359 --> 00:32:52.799
<v SPEAKER_01>Your job is not to measure up to some junior high measuring tape.

00:32:53.039 --> 00:32:57.119
<v SPEAKER_01>Your job today is not to be your child's best friend.

00:32:57.759 --> 00:32:59.359
<v SPEAKER_01>Maybe they don't like you right now.

00:32:59.519 --> 00:33:05.680
<v SPEAKER_01>Maybe they don't understand you right now and your rules, and maybe they don't like the pressures that are in their life right now.

00:33:05.839 --> 00:33:12.960
<v SPEAKER_01>But one day, when they have lived a little more life, they're gonna look back and say, I'm glad I had a parent and not a best friend.

00:33:13.759 --> 00:33:16.319
<v SPEAKER_01>Because you're where you're at to protect.

00:33:17.680 --> 00:33:18.640
<v unknown>That's good.

00:33:19.359 --> 00:33:21.440
<v SPEAKER_01>They don't need you to be a friend.

00:33:22.240 --> 00:33:24.400
<v SPEAKER_01>You see, Saul could have repented.

00:33:24.720 --> 00:33:29.920
<v SPEAKER_01>He could have been a help to David, but he chose from that day forward to be an adversary.

00:33:30.079 --> 00:33:35.039
<v SPEAKER_01>He throws javelins, he plots, he ploys, he schemes, he gives his daughter.

00:33:35.279 --> 00:33:37.039
<v SPEAKER_01>They love David, right?

00:33:37.279 --> 00:33:43.039
<v SPEAKER_01>His son, Jonathan, loves David, and Saul is literally losing his family.

00:33:43.279 --> 00:33:43.920
<v SPEAKER_01>Why?

00:33:45.359 --> 00:33:47.039
<v SPEAKER_01>Because of the measuring tape.

00:33:47.279 --> 00:34:00.960
<v SPEAKER_01>And listen to me, if you hadn't heard nothing else today, church, if you don't check the stethoscope of your family and you live by this tape, you cannot keep up with the Joneses enough to get this heart built.

00:34:01.200 --> 00:34:07.039
<v SPEAKER_01>You can't do enough, you can't buy enough, you can't sport enough to keep up.

00:34:07.359 --> 00:34:09.760
<v SPEAKER_01>So you will always fail in comparison.

00:34:10.000 --> 00:34:13.360
<v SPEAKER_01>Saul was losing his family because of the tape.

00:34:14.400 --> 00:34:17.440
<v SPEAKER_01>Drop the tape so you don't lose your family.

00:34:18.400 --> 00:34:19.840
<v SPEAKER_01>Verse 29.

00:34:20.480 --> 00:34:22.239
<v SPEAKER_01>Look at verse 29.

00:34:24.639 --> 00:34:29.519
<v SPEAKER_01>And Saul was still afraid of David, so Saul became David's enemy continually.

00:34:30.079 --> 00:34:31.039
<v SPEAKER_01>Continuous.

00:34:31.280 --> 00:34:33.039
<v SPEAKER_01>This continued and continued.

00:34:33.199 --> 00:34:35.360
<v SPEAKER_01>You think you got in-law trouble?

00:34:36.400 --> 00:34:39.599
<v SPEAKER_01>You ever said, I just wish I could.

00:34:39.840 --> 00:34:42.079
<v SPEAKER_01>Don't you fill in the blank, you in church.

00:34:42.239 --> 00:34:42.559
<v SPEAKER_01>Okay?

00:34:44.000 --> 00:34:45.679
<v SPEAKER_01>But you think you got in-law problems?

00:34:45.920 --> 00:34:50.079
<v SPEAKER_01>Saul was actively, continuously trying to kill his son-in-law.

00:34:50.239 --> 00:34:51.519
<v SPEAKER_01>That's a big one.

00:34:52.079 --> 00:34:53.360
<v SPEAKER_01>That's a big one.

00:34:55.199 --> 00:34:56.480
<v SPEAKER_01>All about that tape.

00:34:56.639 --> 00:34:58.320
<v SPEAKER_01>It's all about that tape.

00:34:58.639 --> 00:35:05.119
<v SPEAKER_01>Well, we need to talk about point number three this morning: cures to cancel comparison.

00:35:05.280 --> 00:35:06.800
<v SPEAKER_01>How do we deal with this?

00:35:07.039 --> 00:35:08.559
<v SPEAKER_01>How do we deal with comparison?

00:35:08.719 --> 00:35:12.159
<v SPEAKER_01>And I gotta tell you, you're not gonna get away from it.

00:35:12.400 --> 00:35:13.760
<v SPEAKER_01>So you have to deal with it.

00:35:13.920 --> 00:35:15.519
<v SPEAKER_01>You have to deal with in front of you.

00:35:15.599 --> 00:35:17.039
<v SPEAKER_01>You can't get away from it.

00:35:17.199 --> 00:35:18.880
<v SPEAKER_01>And here's what I found out about David.

00:35:19.039 --> 00:35:23.519
<v SPEAKER_01>David did not achieve greatness because he nurtured narcissism.

00:35:25.280 --> 00:35:25.920
<v SPEAKER_01>Say that again.

00:35:26.079 --> 00:35:29.679
<v SPEAKER_01>David did not achieve greatness because he nurtured narcissism.

00:35:29.920 --> 00:35:33.440
<v SPEAKER_01>David became great because David was humble.

00:35:34.719 --> 00:35:38.320
<v SPEAKER_01>How do we see a canceling of comparison in his life?

00:35:38.480 --> 00:35:39.519
<v SPEAKER_01>Letter A is this.

00:35:39.679 --> 00:35:42.320
<v SPEAKER_01>David assessed things with deference.

00:35:44.800 --> 00:35:46.000
<v SPEAKER_01>With deference.

00:35:46.800 --> 00:35:48.239
<v SPEAKER_01>See, David looked at his life.

00:35:48.320 --> 00:35:53.519
<v SPEAKER_01>I want you to see verse 18, a couple of different verses that talk about how David saw himself.

00:35:56.320 --> 00:35:59.679
<v SPEAKER_01>So David, verse 18, said to Saul, Who am I?

00:35:59.920 --> 00:36:07.039
<v SPEAKER_01>And what is my life or my father's family in Israel that I should even be son-in-law to a king?

00:36:07.760 --> 00:36:10.480
<v SPEAKER_01>Go down to verse 23.

00:36:10.639 --> 00:36:18.400
<v SPEAKER_01>So Saul's servant spoke those words in the hearing of David, and David said, Does it seem to you a light thing to be a king's son-in-law?

00:36:18.639 --> 00:36:22.800
<v SPEAKER_01>Listen to this, seeing, I am poor and lightly esteemed.

00:36:25.199 --> 00:36:27.280
<v SPEAKER_01>See how David spoke of himself?

00:36:27.599 --> 00:36:32.079
<v SPEAKER_01>Who am I that I should be son to a king?

00:36:32.400 --> 00:36:34.800
<v SPEAKER_01>Who am I to receive this great thing?

00:36:35.039 --> 00:36:37.280
<v SPEAKER_01>Verse 23, he says, I'm poor.

00:36:37.599 --> 00:36:40.239
<v SPEAKER_01>I just come from a family of Jesse.

00:36:40.400 --> 00:36:42.000
<v SPEAKER_01>I've just been a shepherd boy.

00:36:42.159 --> 00:36:45.039
<v SPEAKER_01>It, you know, it was God's hand that killed Goliath.

00:36:45.280 --> 00:36:46.239
<v SPEAKER_01>I am I'm nothing.

00:36:46.320 --> 00:36:47.840
<v SPEAKER_01>I'm just slightly esteemed.

00:36:47.920 --> 00:37:02.159
<v SPEAKER_01>And and and David learned from all his days sitting out there in the field what it was to love on something that was just God's creation, a little sheep, and what it meant to work hard, and what it meant to be somebody who was just quiet and humble before the Lord.

00:37:02.239 --> 00:37:04.400
<v SPEAKER_01>And David was just humble.

00:37:05.039 --> 00:37:05.920
<v SPEAKER_01>Are you?

00:37:07.760 --> 00:37:09.679
<v SPEAKER_01>David was not jealous.

00:37:10.559 --> 00:37:14.159
<v SPEAKER_01>He probably understood the Old Testament command, do not covet.

00:37:14.639 --> 00:37:16.400
<v SPEAKER_01>He was just a shepherd boy.

00:37:16.559 --> 00:37:18.960
<v SPEAKER_01>He was anointed to be king, but why?

00:37:19.199 --> 00:37:23.199
<v SPEAKER_01>Because David was right inside the stethoscope.

00:37:23.599 --> 00:37:24.960
<v SPEAKER_01>His heart was right.

00:37:25.280 --> 00:37:27.360
<v SPEAKER_01>He was not concerned about this.

00:37:27.599 --> 00:37:28.960
<v SPEAKER_01>He wasn't looking at this.

00:37:29.280 --> 00:37:32.079
<v SPEAKER_01>He says, Who am I?

00:37:32.320 --> 00:37:33.440
<v SPEAKER_01>What am I?

00:37:33.679 --> 00:37:35.199
<v SPEAKER_01>To be in that place.

00:37:35.840 --> 00:37:43.840
<v SPEAKER_01>He would have been an illustration from the book of James when it said, God gives more grace to the humble and resists the proud.

00:37:44.880 --> 00:37:52.559
<v SPEAKER_01>See, church, I believe this that comparison is for us downright, it's antithetical to the faith that we profess.

00:37:53.280 --> 00:37:53.679
<v SPEAKER_01>Right?

00:37:53.920 --> 00:37:57.039
<v SPEAKER_01>The gospel, yes, is a message of radical acceptance.

00:37:57.280 --> 00:38:03.920
<v SPEAKER_01>God accepts you, but it starts with recognizing not that we're great, not that we're beautiful, not that we're amazing.

00:38:04.079 --> 00:38:09.280
<v SPEAKER_01>The gospel starts with us recognizing that we are sinners in need of saving.

00:38:10.480 --> 00:38:15.440
<v SPEAKER_01>He will accept us, but it's not because we're better, because we measure something, right?

00:38:15.599 --> 00:38:18.239
<v SPEAKER_01>For by grace you're saved through faith, not of works.

00:38:18.400 --> 00:38:20.079
<v SPEAKER_01>It's not something you heap up.

00:38:20.320 --> 00:38:22.480
<v SPEAKER_01>You don't do this to get to him.

00:38:22.960 --> 00:38:25.920
<v SPEAKER_01>It starts with recognizing I'm not okay.

00:38:26.800 --> 00:38:30.800
<v SPEAKER_01>We are all sinners, every one of us in need of a savior.

00:38:32.079 --> 00:38:36.880
<v SPEAKER_01>And the gospel says this that Christ died for our sins and rose from the dead.

00:38:37.440 --> 00:38:40.159
<v SPEAKER_01>He did that for you and for me.

00:38:40.400 --> 00:38:43.840
<v SPEAKER_01>But David understood and assessed with deference.

00:38:44.159 --> 00:38:48.079
<v SPEAKER_01>One big problem about comparison and the measuring tape is this.

00:38:48.320 --> 00:38:53.440
<v SPEAKER_01>I don't think many people really get deep inside and figure out who they are.

00:38:54.079 --> 00:38:56.480
<v SPEAKER_01>We don't figure out who we really are.

00:38:56.639 --> 00:39:01.119
<v SPEAKER_01>And we're all the time looking at other people and we're measuring up and saying, well, I'm not like that.

00:39:01.199 --> 00:39:03.039
<v SPEAKER_01>I'm not, it's okay because I'm not like this.

00:39:03.199 --> 00:39:08.480
<v SPEAKER_01>And we're looking at other people when what God wants us to do is to know our role.

00:39:08.880 --> 00:39:11.599
<v SPEAKER_01>For us, the problem, we get into this thing, right?

00:39:11.840 --> 00:39:28.960
<v SPEAKER_01>And we go, oh, and there's this magical world in the screen, and we compare on the Instagram and we compare on the Facebook or some magazine of these perfectly sculpted people and these edited airbrush pictures of magical scenes of living, and we go, huh.

00:39:29.199 --> 00:39:42.079
<v SPEAKER_01>And we compare clothes and we compare skills and we compare relationships and we compare body and we look at height and we look at weight and we look at skin and we look at hair and we look at strength and we compare with all these things.

00:39:42.880 --> 00:39:47.280
<v SPEAKER_01>I want you to even know, church, comparison is not limited to social class.

00:39:47.599 --> 00:39:48.000
<v SPEAKER_01>Right?

00:39:48.480 --> 00:39:57.039
<v SPEAKER_01>The blue collar look at the white collar and go, I wish I had that car, that house, that yard, that servant to clean the yard.

00:39:57.360 --> 00:40:06.400
<v SPEAKER_01>And the white collar goes, I wish my life were more simple and I had more time and I was able to do the things that they do.

00:40:06.559 --> 00:40:10.800
<v SPEAKER_01>And so we compare and we compare, and no one is exempt from it.

00:40:11.039 --> 00:40:15.519
<v SPEAKER_01>And then we get to the mirror, and let me tell you something about the mirror, the mirror is gonna betray you, right?

00:40:15.840 --> 00:40:19.199
<v SPEAKER_01>One day you're gonna get old enough and you wanna slap the mirror in the face.

00:40:20.719 --> 00:40:23.280
<v SPEAKER_01>But what you do in the mirror, it's gonna betray you.

00:40:23.440 --> 00:40:34.639
<v SPEAKER_01>It's really a vain and prideful thing to get caught up in the comparison of the use to you, who you used to be, right?

00:40:34.880 --> 00:40:37.440
<v SPEAKER_01>And we'll compare ourselves to our former younger so.

00:40:37.760 --> 00:40:39.440
<v SPEAKER_01>How fair is that?

00:40:40.079 --> 00:40:42.719
<v SPEAKER_01>It's not, right?

00:40:43.440 --> 00:40:44.559
<v SPEAKER_01>Don't mishear me.

00:40:44.639 --> 00:40:47.039
<v SPEAKER_01>I'm not saying you shouldn't be your best you.

00:40:47.280 --> 00:40:48.880
<v SPEAKER_01>Be the best you you can be.

00:40:49.039 --> 00:40:57.280
<v SPEAKER_01>Exercise, eat well, be fragrant, smell nice, be the best you, work hard, make money, be excellent in your field.

00:40:57.440 --> 00:41:00.880
<v SPEAKER_01>But you don't need to compare to anybody else.

00:41:02.719 --> 00:41:04.079
<v SPEAKER_01>Let me tell you this.

00:41:04.320 --> 00:41:14.400
<v SPEAKER_01>You can waste all these moments, but I would say God would want you to hear, don't waste one minute listening to the enemy lying about you need to be this.

00:41:14.559 --> 00:41:16.239
<v SPEAKER_01>It's never gonna be that.

00:41:16.400 --> 00:41:18.480
<v SPEAKER_01>It's never gonna be what it used to be.

00:41:18.719 --> 00:41:22.320
<v SPEAKER_01>You're supposed to be you and not any other person.

00:41:22.639 --> 00:41:25.519
<v SPEAKER_01>You're the you that God equipped you to be.

00:41:25.679 --> 00:41:33.760
<v SPEAKER_01>You are given exactly the amount of things it takes to be just you and exactly nothing to be anyone else.

00:41:33.920 --> 00:41:36.159
<v SPEAKER_01>You're the you that God wants you to be.

00:41:36.400 --> 00:41:40.079
<v SPEAKER_01>I want you to look at a person next to you and say, I can't be you.

00:41:41.360 --> 00:41:47.039
<v SPEAKER_01>And now I want you to look at them again and smile, kind of smirk and say, but you can't be me.

00:41:52.639 --> 00:41:54.880
<v SPEAKER_00>You're who you're supposed to be.

00:41:55.760 --> 00:41:57.599
<v SPEAKER_01>Listen to me, church.

00:41:58.320 --> 00:42:00.079
<v SPEAKER_01>Do you know your role?

00:42:00.480 --> 00:42:03.679
<v SPEAKER_01>In the movies, there's something called a supporting actor.

00:42:03.920 --> 00:42:08.960
<v SPEAKER_01>And a supporting actor is supposed to go in and be just that a support to the film.

00:42:09.119 --> 00:42:18.320
<v SPEAKER_01>Now, what would it be like if the supporting actor kept reading through scripts and stuff and got in and said, started just spouting off the lead actor's lines?

00:42:18.719 --> 00:42:19.920
<v SPEAKER_01>That's not your role.

00:42:20.079 --> 00:42:21.199
<v SPEAKER_01>That's not your lane.

00:42:21.280 --> 00:42:22.559
<v SPEAKER_01>That's not what you're supposed to do.

00:42:22.639 --> 00:42:25.840
<v SPEAKER_01>So don't try to be the lead actor if you're the supporting actor.

00:42:26.000 --> 00:42:28.800
<v SPEAKER_01>Don't try to be the supporting actor if you're the lead actor.

00:42:29.119 --> 00:42:31.280
<v SPEAKER_01>Be who you were made to be.

00:42:31.440 --> 00:42:33.119
<v SPEAKER_01>Listen, I want you to hear me about this.

00:42:33.360 --> 00:42:34.960
<v SPEAKER_01>God never made one mistake.

00:42:35.119 --> 00:42:36.239
<v SPEAKER_01>And he made you.

00:42:36.480 --> 00:42:37.360
<v SPEAKER_00>That's right.

00:42:38.559 --> 00:42:40.639
<v SPEAKER_01>He never made one mistake.

00:42:41.679 --> 00:42:45.679
<v SPEAKER_01>The potential that you have is to be you and not anybody else.

00:42:46.000 --> 00:42:47.920
<v SPEAKER_01>So be what you're supposed to be.

00:42:48.159 --> 00:42:51.519
<v SPEAKER_01>Genesis 1.27 says, we're made in the image of God.

00:42:51.679 --> 00:42:57.039
<v SPEAKER_01>If you're here today, listen to me, and you're struggling with thoughts of inadequacies.

00:42:57.280 --> 00:42:59.760
<v SPEAKER_01>I want to tell you something from my heart.

00:43:00.800 --> 00:43:02.559
<v SPEAKER_01>You're God planned.

00:43:02.960 --> 00:43:04.480
<v SPEAKER_01>You're not an accident.

00:43:04.719 --> 00:43:07.840
<v SPEAKER_01>Your hair is the way your hair's supposed to be.

00:43:08.159 --> 00:43:10.960
<v SPEAKER_01>Your skin is the way your skin's supposed to be.

00:43:11.199 --> 00:43:13.840
<v SPEAKER_01>Your size is what your size is.

00:43:14.159 --> 00:43:15.679
<v SPEAKER_01>God didn't make an accident.

00:43:15.840 --> 00:43:17.199
<v SPEAKER_01>He's never made an accident.

00:43:17.360 --> 00:43:18.960
<v SPEAKER_01>So listen to me, ladies.

00:43:20.079 --> 00:43:20.880
<v SPEAKER_01>Stop.

00:43:23.119 --> 00:43:24.639
<v SPEAKER_01>Stop comparing.

00:43:24.880 --> 00:43:29.199
<v SPEAKER_01>Guys, your abilities, your strengths are what God made you to be.

00:43:29.280 --> 00:43:30.079
<v SPEAKER_01>So stop.

00:43:30.559 --> 00:43:34.079
<v SPEAKER_01>You can stop today comparing.

00:43:36.000 --> 00:43:38.719
<v SPEAKER_01>By the way, I was in the lobby, and I'll just say this.

00:43:38.960 --> 00:43:40.719
<v SPEAKER_01>Not one ugly person walked in.

00:43:40.960 --> 00:43:42.239
<v SPEAKER_01>I looked over all of you.

00:43:42.320 --> 00:43:44.000
<v SPEAKER_01>There wasn't one ugly person.

00:43:44.159 --> 00:43:44.480
<v SPEAKER_01>Okay?

00:43:44.880 --> 00:43:45.920
<v SPEAKER_01>There wasn't.

00:43:46.159 --> 00:43:50.239
<v SPEAKER_01>The Bible says that you are beautifully and wonderfully made.

00:43:50.480 --> 00:43:53.280
<v SPEAKER_01>You were thought out before you were ever thinking.

00:43:54.800 --> 00:43:59.760
<v SPEAKER_01>And I want you to hear me when the world and everyone else is trying to fill and feel.

00:44:00.320 --> 00:44:02.719
<v SPEAKER_01>Your ears with the garbage about your worth.

00:44:02.880 --> 00:44:06.719
<v SPEAKER_01>I want you to know I might be young, but I'm about to say something with authority.

00:44:07.039 --> 00:44:09.199
<v SPEAKER_01>You are important to God.

00:44:09.599 --> 00:44:11.119
<v SPEAKER_01>You are valuable.

00:44:11.440 --> 00:44:18.239
<v SPEAKER_01>God loves you so much so that he decided he was going to send his son and give everything just for you.

00:44:20.239 --> 00:44:22.000
<v SPEAKER_01>He gave a cross for you.

00:44:22.159 --> 00:44:27.360
<v SPEAKER_01>That's how lovely, how wonderful, how good he thought of you.

00:44:27.679 --> 00:44:29.280
<v SPEAKER_01>Well, David knew who he was.

00:44:29.599 --> 00:44:31.440
<v SPEAKER_01>David knew who he was.

00:44:32.400 --> 00:44:38.000
<v SPEAKER_01>Letter B is this David acted not only assessing with deference, but he acted with discernment.

00:44:44.400 --> 00:44:45.440
<v SPEAKER_01>And chapter 18.

00:44:45.599 --> 00:44:49.280
<v SPEAKER_01>So David went out wherever Saul sent him, and he behaved wisely.

00:44:49.440 --> 00:44:51.760
<v SPEAKER_01>And so Saul set him over the men of war.

00:44:52.480 --> 00:44:53.280
<v SPEAKER_01>Verse 5.

00:44:53.440 --> 00:44:54.559
<v SPEAKER_01>Verse 14.

00:44:55.599 --> 00:44:59.360
<v SPEAKER_01>It says, And David behaved wisely in all his ways.

00:44:59.519 --> 00:45:01.440
<v SPEAKER_01>And then the Lord was with him.

00:45:02.239 --> 00:45:03.599
<v SPEAKER_01>Verse 27.

00:45:05.119 --> 00:45:10.320
<v SPEAKER_01>It says this that therefore David arose and he went and his men and killed 200 men.

00:45:10.400 --> 00:45:11.519
<v SPEAKER_01>It goes to that story.

00:45:11.760 --> 00:45:15.840
<v SPEAKER_01>Verse 28, and it says that Saul became an enemy to him.

00:45:16.079 --> 00:45:20.719
<v SPEAKER_01>But verse 30 it says, And the prince of the Philistines went out to war, and so it was whenever they went out.

00:45:20.960 --> 00:45:25.599
<v SPEAKER_01>David behaved more wisely than all the servants of Saul.

00:45:25.679 --> 00:45:28.480
<v SPEAKER_01>So we see that David acted with discernment.

00:45:29.039 --> 00:45:30.559
<v SPEAKER_01>Church, this is the thing.

00:45:30.880 --> 00:45:35.920
<v SPEAKER_01>We won't be distracted by comparison if we're captivated by purpose.

00:45:36.239 --> 00:45:41.920
<v SPEAKER_01>David knew his lane, he knew his role, he knew what he needed to be doing, and that's what he was doing.

00:45:42.079 --> 00:45:47.440
<v SPEAKER_01>He was wisely doing what God called him to do, so he was living his purpose.

00:45:47.599 --> 00:45:53.280
<v SPEAKER_01>He didn't have time to look around and say, Well, I'm not him, and I'm not them and I'm not like them, and I'm not like this.

00:45:53.440 --> 00:45:57.039
<v SPEAKER_01>He was doing what he was supposed to be doing, full of purpose.

00:45:57.199 --> 00:46:00.320
<v SPEAKER_01>He didn't have time to cook up a bunch of evil schemes.

00:46:00.480 --> 00:46:03.679
<v SPEAKER_01>He went from killing Goliath to being right on the battlefield.

00:46:03.840 --> 00:46:07.920
<v SPEAKER_01>And it says, Because he did that and he behaved wisely, then he became a captain.

00:46:08.079 --> 00:46:11.360
<v SPEAKER_01>David, no matter where he went, he just kept getting bumped up the ladder.

00:46:11.519 --> 00:46:12.559
<v SPEAKER_01>Isn't it crazy?

00:46:12.800 --> 00:46:17.119
<v SPEAKER_01>Somebody who behaves wisely, living their purpose, keeps getting promoted.

00:46:18.400 --> 00:46:21.519
<v SPEAKER_01>And Saul, I'd say this, keeps getting demoted.

00:46:22.000 --> 00:46:24.079
<v SPEAKER_01>Because he keeps on with the tape.

00:46:24.800 --> 00:46:30.159
<v SPEAKER_01>David, even it got to the point he behaved so wisely that he's become royalty.

00:46:30.480 --> 00:46:33.760
<v SPEAKER_01>Saul thinks it's, you know, his part of his scheme.

00:46:33.920 --> 00:46:38.480
<v SPEAKER_01>But David just got another promotion and he keeps acting wisely.

00:46:39.039 --> 00:46:40.480
<v SPEAKER_01>Well, I thought about that.

00:46:40.719 --> 00:46:42.559
<v SPEAKER_01>I thought about for you and me.

00:46:42.880 --> 00:46:49.599
<v SPEAKER_01>When the comparisons of life hit us, what are some ways we can act with discernment and avoid comparison?

00:46:50.320 --> 00:46:52.079
<v SPEAKER_01>These would be good to write down.

00:46:52.400 --> 00:46:55.440
<v SPEAKER_01>Number one is this stay in your lane.

00:46:57.119 --> 00:46:58.639
<v SPEAKER_01>Know who you are.

00:47:00.960 --> 00:47:03.360
<v SPEAKER_01>How do we act wisely and avoid the comparison?

00:47:03.519 --> 00:47:04.960
<v SPEAKER_01>We have to know who we are.

00:47:05.519 --> 00:47:08.719
<v SPEAKER_01>Two, decide to be happy in your own skin.

00:47:10.239 --> 00:47:13.360
<v SPEAKER_01>Be comfortable with who God made you to be.

00:47:13.440 --> 00:47:15.440
<v SPEAKER_01>You're not supposed to be anybody else.

00:47:15.679 --> 00:47:18.239
<v SPEAKER_01>So be comfortable in this skin.

00:47:19.039 --> 00:47:20.800
<v SPEAKER_01>Be happy to be you.

00:47:21.920 --> 00:47:23.440
<v SPEAKER_01>Be thrilled to be you.

00:47:23.599 --> 00:47:26.880
<v SPEAKER_01>It's the only you this world ever is gonna get.

00:47:27.119 --> 00:47:28.880
<v SPEAKER_01>Isn't that exciting?

00:47:29.760 --> 00:47:31.599
<v SPEAKER_01>Number three, serve.

00:47:33.360 --> 00:47:35.599
<v SPEAKER_01>David played a harp for Saul.

00:47:35.760 --> 00:47:38.159
<v SPEAKER_01>He fought and organized and led battles for Saul.

00:47:38.239 --> 00:47:40.639
<v SPEAKER_01>He killed a giant for Saul.

00:47:40.800 --> 00:47:46.480
<v SPEAKER_01>It's really hard to be stuck on yourself when you are serving other people.

00:47:46.639 --> 00:47:52.800
<v SPEAKER_01>When you're meeting other people's needs, it's real hard to go look in the mirror and go, oh my life, I'm just not good enough.

00:47:53.039 --> 00:47:57.599
<v SPEAKER_01>It's really hard to be serving other people and stuck on yourself.

00:47:57.920 --> 00:47:59.119
<v SPEAKER_01>So serve.

00:47:59.519 --> 00:48:01.920
<v SPEAKER_01>Number four, get to work.

00:48:02.320 --> 00:48:03.360
<v SPEAKER_01>Just get to work.

00:48:03.440 --> 00:48:06.159
<v SPEAKER_01>Everywhere you look at David, he's behaving while he's just working.

00:48:06.320 --> 00:48:07.280
<v SPEAKER_01>He's just busy.

00:48:07.519 --> 00:48:09.840
<v SPEAKER_01>You know, we'll find out in a few weeks.

00:48:10.159 --> 00:48:12.000
<v SPEAKER_01>David does get idle.

00:48:12.880 --> 00:48:19.199
<v SPEAKER_01>He should have been working, and instead, it causes him to fall into some rough sin.

00:48:20.000 --> 00:48:22.480
<v SPEAKER_01>He wasn't working, he wasn't fulfilling his purpose.

00:48:22.559 --> 00:48:27.519
<v SPEAKER_01>When he walked away from his moment of purpose, temptation set in.

00:48:27.840 --> 00:48:29.119
<v SPEAKER_01>He got idle.

00:48:30.079 --> 00:48:31.119
<v SPEAKER_01>So get working.

00:48:31.360 --> 00:48:37.599
<v SPEAKER_01>And Satan would love to use this time over here to just distract you.

00:48:37.920 --> 00:48:39.119
<v SPEAKER_01>He wants you depressed.

00:48:39.199 --> 00:48:40.000
<v SPEAKER_01>He wants you down.

00:48:40.079 --> 00:48:42.400
<v SPEAKER_01>He wants you wallowing about in your sins.

00:48:42.559 --> 00:48:49.280
<v SPEAKER_01>And God says, Alright, if you've messed up, alright, get it right and get back to work.

00:48:50.239 --> 00:48:51.599
<v SPEAKER_00>Know your purpose.

00:48:51.840 --> 00:48:53.679
<v SPEAKER_00>Know why I've created you.

00:48:54.559 --> 00:48:57.440
<v SPEAKER_01>And the last thing I thought about is this, number five.

00:48:57.920 --> 00:49:00.320
<v SPEAKER_01>David had a quiet time with God.

00:49:02.719 --> 00:49:04.159
<v SPEAKER_01>Quiet time with God.

00:49:04.400 --> 00:49:11.280
<v SPEAKER_01>Scripture says in Psalm 16, 11, that right next to the Lord are pleasures forevermore.

00:49:11.519 --> 00:49:15.039
<v SPEAKER_01>David daily, I have no doubt that David daily had a walk with the Lord.

00:49:15.119 --> 00:49:18.400
<v SPEAKER_01>You'll see scripture all throughout the Psalms about his walk with the Lord.

00:49:18.559 --> 00:49:20.320
<v SPEAKER_01>Daily, he cried out before God.

00:49:20.480 --> 00:49:22.159
<v SPEAKER_01>Daily he walked with God.

00:49:22.559 --> 00:49:25.679
<v SPEAKER_01>How do we avoid comparison in our life?

00:49:25.840 --> 00:49:28.960
<v SPEAKER_01>We've got to be so filled with God and purpose.

00:49:30.960 --> 00:49:32.800
<v SPEAKER_01>I want you to bow your heads and close your eyes.
