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<v SPEAKER_00>We serve a great God.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You know, singing that song, I was just standing there thinking, it takes me back to when I was growing up.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And my pastor growing up, that was his favorite song.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And we could he could be in the middle of a sermon, and uh he he could sing, and he would break in the middle of a sermon and just sing how great thou art.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I was hearing his voice, and man, it just takes me back to the foundations of my faith and to think about how great our God is.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now you don't have to worry today about me breaking out and singing in the middle of preaching.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But uh we we would really have an altar call then.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Be praying for me.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But praise the Lord, we have a great God, we have an awesome God, and a God whose greatness does not depend on my works.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Aren't you glad about that?

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so let's pray together this morning as we open up God's word.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Father, we are so thankful.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Lord, we don't have enough words, we don't have enough language to get to the depths of your greatness.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You are a great God, and God, we can't heap up enough good works to match an ounce of your greatness.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Thank you, God.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We thank you for your love, we thank you for your mercy and the depths of it, Lord, that your word says that it fails not, that it's new every morning.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And Lord, great is your faithfulness.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Lord, we're thankful for the God that you are, and the God, Lord, that we can call Abba, that we can call our Father, Lord, that we can cling to in hardship, that we can walk through a struggle with, Lord, that we can depend on your strength when we're weak.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So, God, thank you for being that great God.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now, this morning I pray, Lord, that you would move in our hearts.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Make us sensitive to your word.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Lord, I pray now that you would rebuke any work of Satan in this place.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Lord, distraction, activity.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Lord, we pray that this just be your time, that your Holy Spirit would move, and Lord, that our hearts would be ready and prepared.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Lord, every person in here be ready for your word.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Lord, I pray that you would just make me a speaker and get me out of the way.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Lord, let your agenda be the agenda this morning.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And God, I pray that as we leave here, we will have met with you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We ask these things in Jesus' name.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Amen.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You may be seated.

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<v SPEAKER_00>If you got a Bible this morning, turn it to Ruth chapter 3.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Thank you, uh, Steve and Niva and Ace and Ben and worship team.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's awesome at our church that we have people that will just fill in the gaps when needed.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so appreciate you guys leading the worship today.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Ruth chapter 3.

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<v SPEAKER_00>As you're turning there, by way of introduction, I just want to ask you a question to think on.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Have you ever gotten to a place where you just wish in life that you could hit a reset button?

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<v SPEAKER_00>That there was a button that you could just press to change the trajectory of where things had gotten.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You gotten into a stretch where there had been bad news and struggle, and it seemed like at every turn another obstacle, and you just thought to yourself, God, can I just have a restart?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Can I just have a reset?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Well, as we look at the story of Ruth where we've gotten to, in chapter one, it was devastation.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And we saw that that devastation took Ruth and Naomi back to Naomi's homeland of Bethlehem, and they came back, and Naomi said, I left here and I was full, and I'm coming back, and I'm empty, I'm bitter.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so she comes back to Bethlehem that way, and she has Ruth with her, a picture of her affliction because she was a Moabite woman whom her son had married.

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<v SPEAKER_00>She came back with her.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And at the end of chapter 2, we saw that Ruth went out to glean some food.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They were hungry, they were destitute.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so she went out into a field.

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<v SPEAKER_00>She did it God's biblical way.

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<v SPEAKER_00>She went out to glean from a field.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And we remember, as we looked at last week, he said the steps of a good man are ordered by a Lord.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So she went out biblically, she went to a field, and as chance would have it, she went out to that place, and it was Boaz's field.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And we get to the end of chapter 2, and it hits Naomi like a light bulb, and she said, Boaz, did you say Boaz's field?

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<v SPEAKER_00>This is a good thing that you've bumped into this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>As it should happen, this field, Boaz, as it should happen, he is our kinsman.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I don't know why before in Scripture it doesn't show that Naomi knew this or thought of this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I don't know if she had just forgotten.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But that's where we pick up in chapter 3, and we see an alignment that has come from God, it seems.

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<v SPEAKER_00>When God aligns a window, you've gotten to that point where you just wish you could reset, and it appears that God's aligning a window of new opportunities.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So I want to share from you, to you, from Ruth, chapter 3, today, three ways how to reset.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And those three ways that we see in this passage are there's a strategic arrangement for the OCD people.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You can fill in your blanks early.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Here you go.

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<v SPEAKER_00>A strategic arrangement, a serious and sensitive approach, and the third point will be a suspenseful accommodation.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So I want to take you almost cinematically to the climax of the chapter for a moment.

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<v SPEAKER_00>To start this out, I want to take you, and then we'll just like a movie, we'll go in reverse.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Sometimes you get to a climactic point at the beginning of a movie, and then it says, six months before.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay?

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<v SPEAKER_00>So I want to take you to the climactic point of the chapter so we can introduce the title.

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<v SPEAKER_00>To do that, I want to show you what I think will be a familiar clip to many of you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>If it's not familiar, you're probably very young.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So watch this clip.

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<v SPEAKER_00>As you fast forward to chapter three in the climax of the chapter, we see Ruth and Boaz lying together, looking into the stars in a romantic, if nothing but suspenseful moment where nothing short of cinematic here, where there's one decision, and that one decision will be the hinge of their future.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So as they're laying there in the still of the night, we're going to talk about how that unfolds.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So, Ruth chapter 3.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I want you to see the first point this morning.

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<v SPEAKER_00>A strategic arrangement is made.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I want to cross-reference, if you'll turn with me to 1 Corinthians chapter 13, hold your place in Ruth.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay?

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<v SPEAKER_00>A strategic arrangement.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I want you to know that God is a God of order.

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<v SPEAKER_00>God is a God with plans and strategies, and he never takes off.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He's always at work.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And it says this, for God, 1 Corinthians 14, 33, and we're going to read verse 40, for God is not the author of confusion, but of peace, as in all the churches of the saints.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And then verse 14, it says, Let all things be done decently and in order.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And all my type A people just got excited.

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<v SPEAKER_00>God has a strategic arrangement.

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<v SPEAKER_00>God is into planning.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Even in Scripture, when God says to be still, it's a part of a plan.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Benjamin Franklin said this: to fail to plan is a plan to fail.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Ziegler says, if you aim at nothing, you will hit it every time.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So if God is calling us to something, let me give you some theology this morning.

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<v SPEAKER_00>If he is calling in your life, if he's arranging some things in your life, and you suppress what he is calling you to, that's called quenching the Holy Spirit.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Quenching the Holy Spirit is when God is calling, okay, we'll have an altar call later, and maybe God will be working on your heart.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Maybe God, through some people in your life, will be calling you towards a direction, a job, a change, a new reset.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And if we quench the work of God, if we suppress what he's doing, it's called quenching the Holy Spirit.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And that causes some things in your life.

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<v SPEAKER_00>If you're here this morning and you felt spiritually indifferent, just cold, apathetic, and you don't know how to get out of it, okay, that could be quenching of the Holy Spirit.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It causes indifference, it awakens worldly appetites.

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<v SPEAKER_00>If you say, man, I didn't used to feel like this about sin in my life, but it's tempting me more and more.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Quenching the Holy Spirit does that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It causes infidelity in marriages, it causes unknown stress.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's a strategic arrangement that God has planned in your life, but if you quench what he plans, you can expect some issues in your life.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But Hebrews says this, okay, for those, okay, it's not easy.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Hebrews 5 14 says that solid food belongs to those who are of full age, and that is those who by reason of use have their senses exercised to discern both good and evil.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It takes discernment to follow God's plan.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It takes wisdom to follow his plan.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But we see here in Scripture as we start off, there is a strategic arrangement.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I want to read verses 1 and 2 of Ruth chapter 3 for you so we can see what's happening here.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Look there in chapter 3.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Then Naomi, her mother-in-law, said to her, My daughter, shall I not seek security for you that it may be well with you?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now Boaz, whose young women you were with, is he not our relative?

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<v SPEAKER_00>In fact, he's winnowing barley tonight at the threshing floor.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So what we see here, letter A, is a matchmaking at midnight.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay?

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<v SPEAKER_00>We see some matchmaking, and we pick up with Naomi giving a gentle nudging, if you will, to Ruth.

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<v SPEAKER_00>She says, in other words, you read it there in verse 1, but in other words, today's terminology, she said, Ruth, you need a man.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And as it should happen, you've been working in this field.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now there's some time from chapter 2 to chapter 3.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Some people try to link it like it just happened right after she said this is a good thing.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They had gone through harvest season.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Naomi had given Ruth ample time to figure it out for herself.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so finally she says, Ruth, you need a man.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Boaz, he's a man by all counts, and he's single.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so we see this nudging.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You remember, he's a strong man, he's a wealthy man, he's a dependable man, he's a loving man, and that would make a good husband.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so she says, Um, Ruth, have you thought about Boaz?

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<v SPEAKER_00>And not only that, but but verse number two, she says, but there's a window tonight.

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<v SPEAKER_00>There's a window.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He will be widowing tonight.

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<v SPEAKER_00>If you can picture Naomi's eyes, fingers, okay, and she is just saying, Ruth, tonight is an opportunity.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now she didn't stop to say, Ruth, um, do you find Boaz attractive?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Is uh do you does Boaz treat you kind?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um does he uh have all of his teeth?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Does Boaz wear white after Labor Day?

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<v SPEAKER_00>She didn't ask him all the important things, okay?

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<v SPEAKER_00>She just said, he is available and tonight he is winnowing.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Tonight he'll be can you believe it?

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<v SPEAKER_00>He'll be winnowing tonight.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Go while he is winnowing.

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<v SPEAKER_00>What luck he'll be winnowing tonight?

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<v SPEAKER_00>What is winnowing, you ask?

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm glad you asked.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So winnowing was a process during the harvest where they would take grain, and there were small chaffs of the grain that they wanted to get out of it, and so they would go to a secluded part of the field or an empty space and throw grain in the air so the wind would catch it and separate the chaff.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So he would be out there winnowing the grain.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And if I may, I think there's some times where God aligns something.

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<v SPEAKER_00>There's a moment, he'll place something on your heart, and we start to try to consult with logic.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I think we have a window here, and we start to try to figure out, well, does this make sense?

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<v SPEAKER_00>I don't know if this plan is good enough.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And God tells us, put something on your heart, and he says, pass an offering, and you say, Okay, God, you said 100, and you pull out your wallet and you say, Oh, 50 looks good.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And we start to consult with logic.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And God tells you, well, maybe you should go on that missions trip, and you say, Um, God, I've got mission right here.

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<v SPEAKER_00>God, I don't think you've got the right person.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Let me give you another address.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And we start trying to consult with logic, and I don't know if the plan that follows, okay, I'm gonna read it for you, and then I'll go on, is shady or smart, okay?

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<v SPEAKER_00>As I read it, I really don't know.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It ends up in a good way, but when I read it, okay, listen to what it says, verse 3 and 4.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Therefore, wash yourself and anoint yourself, put on your best garment, and go down to the threshing floor.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But do not make yourself known, so hide, until the man has finished eating and drinking.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Then it shall be, when he lies down, that you shall notice the place where he lies, and you shall go in, uncover his feet, lie down, and then he will tell you what you should do.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So at midnight, when the clock strikes, he'll be winnowing.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He's gonna go fall down to sleep, and then you go in.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Listen, if you got a single daughter here and she's looking for a man, I'm not saying this is the best advice.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay?

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm not saying tell your daughter when a man goes camping, climb in the tent at midnight, and then wait for him to tell you what to do.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay?

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm not saying, okay.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And when the clock strikes midnight, in today's society, people say, what?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Nothing good happens at after midnight, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um I know from a particular instance that's funny as I was studying this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I have shared this uh probably with hundreds of teenagers.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Never once had an opportunity with adults, so I hope it's okay if I get a little undignified.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But I, when I was about 15, me and my friend uh were playing video games, and at midnight we we stopped, we looked at each other, I look at my friend and I go, donuts.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he goes, I was thinking the same thing.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so my parents are asleep, and I'm like, How are we gonna get to this?

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<v SPEAKER_00>So we climb out my window.

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<v SPEAKER_00>My friend had his car, a 1988 Buett Cutlass boat.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We even made fun of it for being a boat.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Someone would get in, we say, pull anchored.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so we got in the boat and we put it in neutral and pushed it out of my driveway so as not to awake my parents or my six beagles.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay, I had six beagles growing up all the time, and they would, that's when they woke up at midnight.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so we get on down the road, we go to what's called Wa Wa, which is a convenience store.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We get in there, we get our donuts, everything's great, we're excited, we're gonna go back and eat them all, and then continue playing video games like any 15-year-old's world should be.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so we get our donuts and we're coming back, and as we pull down the drive, my friend turns off his lights because we don't want to wake up my parents.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And as we're going down the drive, he tries to do a burnout.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay.

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<v SPEAKER_00>In this car, if you can imagine, you know, like after the fact, I'm like, what is wrong with you?

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<v SPEAKER_00>That car cannot produce a burnout.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Like, we're lucky to have made it there in 15 minutes when you can walk in 10.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Like, it's just an old messed-up car.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so he tries to do this thing, and the next thing that happens, we see red and blue going off behind us, and I'm like, oh my.

00:17:05.440 --> 00:17:08.000
<v SPEAKER_00>And I get like freaked out.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Like, this is going off.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so he hits his brakes, and he the the cop is instructing us through some kind of megaphone.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so he's yelling something, and the car moves forward.

00:17:21.359 --> 00:17:27.519
<v SPEAKER_00>He put he goes to put in park, but it moved forward, it rolled, and he said, I said, put your hands where I can see them.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I've got canines.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I look over in front of, I'm like, canines?

00:17:30.880 --> 00:17:32.000
<v SPEAKER_00>What does he need dogs for?

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<v SPEAKER_00>What are they gonna do?

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<v SPEAKER_00>What does he think we have done?

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<v SPEAKER_00>And the guy comes over, he rips me out of the car, throws me against the door, and he's doing the frisk thing.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He's up, down, everywhere, and I'm like, Whoa, okay, he's done this thing, had a hat on, he puts it back on and it's sideways.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He goes over to my friend and he pulls him, I mean, throws him hard against the car, and he starts going off on him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he looks over at me for a second, and I start to adjust my hat and he says, Put your hands where I can see.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm like, oh my god.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Oh my god, I'm going to jail tonight.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so he's doing that, and another cop pulls up.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Another cop, I'm like, who do they think we are?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Like, another cop car pulls up, and the first thing he said, Have you frisked them yet?

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm like, I have been frizzed.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I don't need it anymore.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So he comes, they get talking to us.

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<v SPEAKER_00>All this time, lights are going.

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<v SPEAKER_00>My dogs have gone off.

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<v SPEAKER_00>These beagles, off, going off.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he's checking the car, checking the trunk, and he looks down and he says, I promise you, couldn't have set this up.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He says, What's in the bag?

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I'm like, There's doughnuts.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he said, Is that some kind of joke?

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm like, no, you can have one.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He he the his explanation, we were all done.

00:19:02.400 --> 00:19:04.240
<v SPEAKER_00>There was nothing, no charge, nothing.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He says, when people turn off their lights and go down a lane and drive like that, that's what bad people do.

00:19:10.480 --> 00:19:11.359
<v SPEAKER_00>That's a sign for us.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm looking at our phone, yeah, that's what bad people do, dummy.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You know, like the whole time my parents never woke up.

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<v SPEAKER_00>After midnight, I understand the saying, okay?

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<v SPEAKER_00>When it says nothing good happens after midnight.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Look, I was so scared that night.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But if you go to some places in Scripture, some really neat things happen at midnight.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay?

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<v SPEAKER_00>At midnight, we see that Gideon took an army with very little equipment and have what I like to call the midnight musicals.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He lets go of a trumpet.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He says, In the name of the sword of the Lord in Gideon, and a whole army awakes in disarray and starts attacking one another and flees and runs, okay, with God's power and his instruction.

00:20:00.160 --> 00:20:05.920
<v SPEAKER_00>In Psalms 119, we see that David awoke often and gave praise at midnight.

00:20:06.160 --> 00:20:13.279
<v SPEAKER_00>Paul and Silas had a prayer meeting and a hymn sing at midnight, and God sent an earthquake that shook open the jail.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They got free, and a jailer got saved.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That happened at midnight.

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<v SPEAKER_00>In the middle of the night, Scripture says, as when Jesus walked on water, and he bid Peter to see a place where his faith had never taken him before, at midnight.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And in Matthew 25, verse 6, it says that the bridegroom will return at the midnight cry.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So Naomi says, Ruth, there is a window.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But first she says, Let her be.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Remember, we read it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>She gives her some instruction.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And at first it just looks very practical.

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<v SPEAKER_00>She says, spruce up.

00:20:47.119 --> 00:20:49.119
<v SPEAKER_00>Let her be as spruced up and scheming.

00:20:49.359 --> 00:20:50.160
<v SPEAKER_00>She says, spruce up.

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<v SPEAKER_00>She says, take a bath.

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<v SPEAKER_00>She says, take a bath, go get anointed with oil, put on your best.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And if there's some singles out here today, can I give you some practical advice?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This is good advice if you're going to go on a date.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay?

00:21:04.160 --> 00:21:05.200
<v SPEAKER_00>Smell good.

00:21:05.359 --> 00:21:06.640
<v SPEAKER_00>Get a good deodorant.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Brush your teeth.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And if you got a job and you put on a nice shirt, you're ahead of the game.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay?

00:21:13.519 --> 00:21:14.240
<v SPEAKER_00>Nothing wrong.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Listen, there's nothing wrong with being the best Jew.

00:21:17.200 --> 00:21:21.039
<v SPEAKER_00>But there is a principle here that we could miss if we just read over that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay?

00:21:21.599 --> 00:21:23.200
<v SPEAKER_00>And I don't want you to miss this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>She tells her to go clean, go exchange her garment, go anoint.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I want you to see Isaiah 61, verse 3.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay, we could totally miss this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And it's a tender moment, and we've talked throughout the story of Ruth and Naomi, there's all these tender moments between their relationship.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We'll see it with Boaz.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But this is a very tender moment.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Isaiah 61 3 says this console those who mourn in Zion to give them beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, and exchange the garment of prayer.

00:22:00.240 --> 00:22:05.200
<v SPEAKER_00>Praise for the spirit of heaviness, that they may be called righteousness.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I want to show you one more verse if you'll flip over to 2 Samuel, chapter 12, verse 20.

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<v SPEAKER_00>David's little boy just died.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Verse 19.

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<v SPEAKER_00>When David saw that his servants were whispering, David perceived that his child was dead.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Remember, David had put on sackcloth and ashes.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He was fasting.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now he's found out his child was dead.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Therefore David said to his servant, Is the child dead?

00:22:37.039 --> 00:22:38.400
<v SPEAKER_00>And they said, Yes, he is dead.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So David arose from the ground, washed and anointed himself, and changed his clothes.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Don't miss this, listen.

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<v SPEAKER_00>She says, without saying a whole lot, Ruth is telling her to go clean up.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But this is what I'm picking up.

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<v SPEAKER_00>There's a movement from mourning to moving on.

00:23:01.200 --> 00:23:04.880
<v SPEAKER_00>There's a movement from exchanging the garments I've had on.

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<v SPEAKER_00>She says, Ruth, honey, listen.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's time.

00:23:10.079 --> 00:23:14.960
<v SPEAKER_00>She says, Ruth, you were good to my son, Malin.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You're a good wife.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I know, like you know, the last ten years have been horrific and it's been hard.

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<v SPEAKER_00>She says, but it's time.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's time to move on.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's time to exchange that.

00:23:31.359 --> 00:23:36.799
<v SPEAKER_00>It's been despair, but let's wash your hands clean of this struggle.

00:23:36.960 --> 00:23:40.240
<v SPEAKER_00>For some of you here, that's what you need to hear from God today.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's time.

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<v SPEAKER_00>There's a window for a reset.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's time to cleanse.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's time to exchange that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Not to hold on anymore.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Maybe that bitterness, maybe that struggle, maybe that trial has had a hold of you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And it's time to let go, to let go and exchange that spirit.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Anoint with new oil and make a reset.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Today is time for a reset.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Will you say reset?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Look at verse number three again.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now she gives her some more instructions.

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<v SPEAKER_00>She says, put on the garment and go down to the threshing floor and don't make yourself known unto the man until after he's finished eating and drinking.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Wait until he is in a good mood.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's what she says.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now, a lot of people here would try to twist this scripture and say, wait until Boaz is good and drunk.

00:24:29.519 --> 00:24:33.440
<v SPEAKER_00>And I want you to understand from everything I've looked at, people want to debate this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>In every area, Boaz has shown himself to be an upright man.

00:24:39.519 --> 00:24:44.799
<v SPEAKER_00>And people want to twist this and say, oh, well, God made this happen through a drunken man.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I just don't believe that.

00:24:46.319 --> 00:24:48.000
<v SPEAKER_00>I believe that's flat, false.

00:24:48.160 --> 00:24:49.279
<v SPEAKER_00>I believe that's made up.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And that's what we see there at the end of verse 3.

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<v SPEAKER_00>She says, wait until he's eaten, wait until he's tired and in a good mood, and he's going to bed.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And then verse 4 is nothing less than rated R Old Testament.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay?

00:25:04.160 --> 00:25:05.359
<v SPEAKER_00>It's nothing less.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay.

00:25:06.000 --> 00:25:09.759
<v SPEAKER_00>The conjunction even in verse 4 raises the tension.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Then it shall be.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Or and then.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You can see Naomi.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And then when he is lying down and he's good and happy, he's full.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And then, oh my goodness, uncover him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uncover his legs and then lie down.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now I want you to understand the original readers that would have read this would have looked at each other and thought, this is scandalous.

00:25:39.759 --> 00:25:44.400
<v SPEAKER_00>This, I've never even seen the likes of this in the bold and beautiful Bethlehem.

00:25:44.880 --> 00:25:47.920
<v SPEAKER_00>Never have we seen anything like this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>A woman sneaks in at midnight to uncover a man and then lay with him?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Oh, I wish I could have been a part of that original group of readers who got this.

00:26:01.920 --> 00:26:06.400
<v SPEAKER_00>But it's kind of funny what she says in verse 4 that follows.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Then it shall be when he lies down that you shall notice the place where he lies.

00:26:10.880 --> 00:26:16.160
<v SPEAKER_00>So Naomi says, make sure that you check and it's Boaz.

00:26:16.319 --> 00:26:18.000
<v SPEAKER_00>Notice the place where he lies.

00:26:18.160 --> 00:26:21.519
<v SPEAKER_00>None of this walking up, uncovering, say, oops, wrong legs.

00:26:21.839 --> 00:26:24.799
<v SPEAKER_00>Make sure it's Boaz.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And this is Naomi's steamy strategy.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay?

00:26:32.559 --> 00:26:35.920
<v SPEAKER_00>And an old proverb says this, though.

00:26:36.160 --> 00:26:38.880
<v SPEAKER_00>Remember, God has a plan.

00:26:39.039 --> 00:26:43.519
<v SPEAKER_00>An old proverb says, vision without action is a daydream.

00:26:44.480 --> 00:26:47.359
<v SPEAKER_00>Action without vision is a nightmare.

00:26:48.559 --> 00:26:50.720
<v SPEAKER_00>Vision without action is a daydream.

00:26:50.880 --> 00:26:53.039
<v SPEAKER_00>Action without vision is a nightmare.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so we see what follows.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The second point this morning, a serious and sensitive approach.

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<v SPEAKER_00>There's an arrangement.

00:27:00.480 --> 00:27:02.319
<v SPEAKER_00>We can take it or we don't have to.

00:27:02.480 --> 00:27:04.079
<v SPEAKER_00>But now how do we act?

00:27:04.319 --> 00:27:06.079
<v SPEAKER_00>A serious and sensitive approach.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I want to read to you verses five through nine.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And she said to her, All that you say to me I will do.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So she went down to the threshing floor and did according to all that her mother-in-law instructed her.

00:27:17.279 --> 00:27:25.599
<v SPEAKER_00>And after Boaz had eaten and drunk, his heart was cheerful, he went to lie down at the end of the heap of grain, and she came softly, uncovered his feet, and lay down.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now it happened at midnight that the man was startled and turned himself, and there a woman was lying at his feet.

00:27:31.599 --> 00:27:32.799
<v SPEAKER_00>And he said, Who are you?

00:27:32.960 --> 00:27:35.599
<v SPEAKER_00>So she answered, I am Ruth, your maidservant.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Take your maidservant under your wing, for you are a close relative.

00:27:39.359 --> 00:27:41.920
<v SPEAKER_00>So we see here Ruth's serious and sensitive approach.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The first thing about that that we see, Ruth stands with respect.

00:27:45.920 --> 00:27:49.759
<v SPEAKER_00>She could have looked at Naomi and said, I'm not doing that.

00:27:50.000 --> 00:27:52.319
<v SPEAKER_00>I'm not, that's that's not the right plan.

00:27:52.400 --> 00:27:53.440
<v SPEAKER_00>Let's go for another plan.

00:27:53.599 --> 00:27:54.880
<v SPEAKER_00>But she has respect for her.

00:27:55.039 --> 00:28:01.200
<v SPEAKER_00>And 1 Peter 5, verse 5, it talks about how that we should have respect.

00:28:01.440 --> 00:28:02.640
<v SPEAKER_00>Do we have that verse?

00:28:02.880 --> 00:28:04.079
<v SPEAKER_00>I'm gonna turn there, if not.

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<v SPEAKER_00>1 Peter 5, 5.

00:28:05.680 --> 00:28:10.079
<v SPEAKER_00>We see how Ruth had respect for Naomi.

00:28:10.480 --> 00:28:12.799
<v SPEAKER_00>And we see that in the tender moments throughout.

00:28:13.279 --> 00:28:24.240
<v SPEAKER_00>This is a moment that if she follows it, she could be in trouble, she could get hurt, she could get taken away, but we see here what happens.

00:28:24.480 --> 00:28:31.119
<v SPEAKER_00>The Bible says, 1 Peter 5, 5, likewise, you younger people, submit yourselves to your elders.

00:28:31.359 --> 00:28:38.240
<v SPEAKER_00>Yes, all of you, be submissive and be clothed with humility, for God resists the proud, but he gives grace to the humble.

00:28:38.400 --> 00:28:49.279
<v SPEAKER_00>We already talked about last week Ruth's humility, but she looks at Naomi and she sees this plan and she gives her the respect that she is deserved.

00:28:49.440 --> 00:28:54.000
<v SPEAKER_00>And so she looks at her loved one, and you gotta see the friendship here to understand.

00:28:54.160 --> 00:29:12.400
<v SPEAKER_00>Now, if anyone just throws you a plan like this that you don't have a relationship with, like, I don't know, but if you've got a relationship and you trust somebody, after she gives this matchmaking plan, I think Ruth goes back and she said, I said, Naomi, wherever you go, I'll go.

00:29:12.880 --> 00:29:18.319
<v SPEAKER_00>I said, Your people, they'll be my people, your God, my God, where you die, I will die.

00:29:18.480 --> 00:29:22.640
<v SPEAKER_00>I said that and I meant it, and I'm gonna go.

00:29:23.119 --> 00:29:30.720
<v SPEAKER_00>And at least if I do this with your wisdom and discernment, then I'm doing it with someone that I trust.

00:29:30.880 --> 00:29:36.319
<v SPEAKER_00>And if I lose my life, I did it listening to someone that I love and trust.

00:29:36.559 --> 00:29:41.839
<v SPEAKER_00>And so Ruth stands respectfully, let her be, she walks with risk.

00:29:42.480 --> 00:29:50.720
<v SPEAKER_00>As you see this plan unfolding, it is a risky plan, if at the least full of risk.

00:29:51.359 --> 00:30:01.279
<v SPEAKER_00>Pastor Dietrich Bonhoeffer was a man of God, and his life of Christianity led him to being executed on June 9, 1945.

00:30:01.440 --> 00:30:09.680
<v SPEAKER_00>Let me tell you, he was executed because he was involved in a July 20th plot to see Adolf Hitler assassinated.

00:30:09.920 --> 00:30:20.160
<v SPEAKER_00>Bonhoeffer staunchly opposed Hitler's treatment of the Jews, and as a Christian pastor, he thought, I cannot sit idly by and just watch this unfold.

00:30:20.400 --> 00:30:28.400
<v SPEAKER_00>All of the treatment, all of the murdering that was going on senselessly, Bonhoeffer was hanged just two weeks before soldiers from the U.S.

00:30:28.880 --> 00:30:32.079
<v SPEAKER_00>came and liberated their concentration camp.

00:30:32.240 --> 00:30:35.279
<v SPEAKER_00>But he was someone willing to take a risk for the cause.

00:30:35.519 --> 00:30:38.640
<v SPEAKER_00>John Huss was martyred on July 6, 1415.

00:30:38.799 --> 00:30:42.640
<v SPEAKER_00>He refused to recant his position of the charges that were brought against him.

00:30:42.799 --> 00:30:52.240
<v SPEAKER_00>He said, In the same truth of the gospel which I have written, taught, and preached, drawing upon the sayings and positions of holy doctrines, I am ready this day to die.

00:30:52.960 --> 00:30:58.559
<v SPEAKER_00>William Tyndale was choked to death while tied and stake, tied to the stake and his dead body burned.

00:30:59.119 --> 00:31:00.720
<v SPEAKER_00>John the Baptist was beheaded.

00:31:00.880 --> 00:31:04.480
<v SPEAKER_00>Peter was crucified upside down for his living for Christ.

00:31:04.640 --> 00:31:08.559
<v SPEAKER_00>To live, the Bible says, is Christ, and to die is gained.

00:31:08.799 --> 00:31:10.880
<v SPEAKER_00>Scripture says, I'm crucified with Christ.

00:31:10.960 --> 00:31:13.440
<v SPEAKER_00>Nevertheless, not I, but Christ who lives within me.

00:31:13.680 --> 00:31:15.519
<v SPEAKER_00>Scripture says that I die daily.

00:31:15.759 --> 00:31:23.680
<v SPEAKER_00>Church, I don't think God is concerned with us amassing a great big life on this earth full of worldly treasure and worldly living.

00:31:23.920 --> 00:31:26.799
<v SPEAKER_00>Scripture says, lay not up for yourselves treasure on this earth.

00:31:26.960 --> 00:31:31.680
<v SPEAKER_00>God wants people who are willing to risk having risk takers.

00:31:31.839 --> 00:31:34.640
<v SPEAKER_00>I don't think pick up your cross and follow me.

00:31:35.119 --> 00:31:36.640
<v SPEAKER_00>Sounds risk-free.

00:31:37.039 --> 00:31:42.079
<v SPEAKER_00>This is not a hassle, no hassle, no money down, zero interest, risk-free living.

00:31:42.319 --> 00:31:46.160
<v SPEAKER_00>This is if you love me, Scripture says you'll be persecuted.

00:31:46.480 --> 00:31:50.160
<v SPEAKER_00>They hated me before you, they're gonna hate you too.

00:31:50.480 --> 00:31:52.960
<v SPEAKER_00>And Jesus took the greatest risk.

00:31:53.200 --> 00:31:54.240
<v SPEAKER_00>He took the cross.

00:31:54.400 --> 00:31:55.039
<v SPEAKER_00>Listen.

00:31:55.680 --> 00:31:58.079
<v SPEAKER_00>He took your strap and my strap.

00:31:58.319 --> 00:32:00.160
<v SPEAKER_00>He took your nails and my nails.

00:32:00.319 --> 00:32:01.839
<v SPEAKER_00>He took our payment.

00:32:02.000 --> 00:32:09.759
<v SPEAKER_00>And I think what we've had happen in our American way is we have this myth of security that we hang on to.

00:32:10.000 --> 00:32:12.240
<v SPEAKER_00>That somehow we have control.

00:32:12.640 --> 00:32:15.759
<v SPEAKER_00>When Scripture says this life is a vapor, it's here and it's gone.

00:32:15.839 --> 00:32:19.680
<v SPEAKER_00>And we don't even control that vapor, the very breath we have.

00:32:19.920 --> 00:32:23.599
<v SPEAKER_00>We don't control the blood flowing through our body.

00:32:23.680 --> 00:32:27.759
<v SPEAKER_00>We have no control, yet we try to live under some certainty of control.

00:32:27.839 --> 00:32:32.160
<v SPEAKER_00>And it's this huge enchantment that we live under when God is in control.

00:32:32.319 --> 00:32:35.519
<v SPEAKER_00>We can't control traffic and an accident from happening.

00:32:35.680 --> 00:32:39.200
<v SPEAKER_00>We can't control things happening in our work.

00:32:39.359 --> 00:32:45.359
<v SPEAKER_00>We have no control, but we say it would be a risk if I lived for God the way that I'm supposed to.

00:32:45.680 --> 00:32:51.759
<v SPEAKER_00>While what we're really doing is risking every moment not living for Him in the way that we should.

00:32:52.640 --> 00:32:55.519
<v SPEAKER_00>I want to ask you a question as we move on to letter C.

00:32:55.680 --> 00:32:59.200
<v SPEAKER_00>What is the last risk you took for Christ?

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<v SPEAKER_00>What's the last risk you took for him?

00:33:04.720 --> 00:33:06.799
<v SPEAKER_00>You see, Ruth walks with risk.

00:33:06.960 --> 00:33:07.920
<v SPEAKER_00>Letter C.

00:33:08.559 --> 00:33:12.079
<v SPEAKER_00>She goes forward, Ruth marches towards a rendezvous.

00:33:12.880 --> 00:33:19.680
<v SPEAKER_00>Verse number six, it says, so she went down to the threshing floor and did according to all that her mother instructed.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay, she makes her way down, is hiding in some rock pile, some cleft along her journey, and is watching and waiting and heart racing, as you can imagine, some moment soon Boaz is gonna go to sleep.

00:33:37.279 --> 00:33:43.359
<v SPEAKER_00>He's been winnowing and she's watching him, and he's throwing up the grain, and she's just waiting.

00:33:43.599 --> 00:33:44.720
<v SPEAKER_00>Heart is racing.

00:33:44.960 --> 00:33:50.960
<v SPEAKER_00>Verse 7, it says, and after Boaz had eaten and drunk, his heart was cheerful, he lied down, and she came softly.

00:33:51.119 --> 00:33:53.200
<v SPEAKER_00>Her heart again just full.

00:33:53.359 --> 00:33:56.960
<v SPEAKER_00>And he finally, the moment happens, he lies down.

00:33:57.119 --> 00:33:59.279
<v SPEAKER_00>And I thought about this.

00:33:59.440 --> 00:34:00.640
<v SPEAKER_00>How many of you have children?

00:34:00.799 --> 00:34:00.960
<v SPEAKER_00>Okay.

00:34:01.839 --> 00:34:04.880
<v SPEAKER_00>You ever tried to put a small child to sleep?

00:34:05.839 --> 00:34:06.160
<v SPEAKER_00>Okay?

00:34:07.039 --> 00:34:11.519
<v SPEAKER_00>If you've tried to put a small child to sleep, it can happen a lot of different ways.

00:34:11.679 --> 00:34:19.360
<v SPEAKER_00>But I can remember taking one of my boys up and having them lie on my arm because they need somebody there.

00:34:19.519 --> 00:34:20.079
<v SPEAKER_00>I need that.

00:34:20.639 --> 00:34:25.840
<v SPEAKER_00>You're just patting their back and you're trying every process, rubbing head, patting back, rubbing head.

00:34:25.920 --> 00:34:27.199
<v SPEAKER_00>You might hum, hmm.

00:34:27.360 --> 00:34:30.239
<v SPEAKER_00>You're doing everything you can trying to get that kid to sleep, right?

00:34:30.400 --> 00:34:32.639
<v SPEAKER_00>And finally you think it's happened.

00:34:32.800 --> 00:34:45.760
<v SPEAKER_00>So you pull now your sleeping arm out, and and you try to creep back so that nothing changes the atmosphere.

00:34:45.840 --> 00:34:50.800
<v SPEAKER_00>And you get four steps away and a little head pops up, and you're like, oh no.

00:34:51.519 --> 00:35:03.360
<v SPEAKER_00>So you creep on back, put dead arm back, padding, waiting, and finally the child goes to sleep, and you can go hope to get two hours before they wake back up and wake you up.

00:35:03.440 --> 00:35:03.760
<v SPEAKER_00>Okay?

00:35:04.000 --> 00:35:07.360
<v SPEAKER_00>And so this is Ruth waiting, just watching.

00:35:07.519 --> 00:35:08.559
<v SPEAKER_00>He's winnowing.

00:35:08.719 --> 00:35:11.280
<v SPEAKER_00>He's any moment, he's gonna go to sleep.

00:35:11.440 --> 00:35:12.159
<v SPEAKER_00>Heart racing.

00:35:12.239 --> 00:35:20.639
<v SPEAKER_00>I know I gotta do something crazy in a few minutes, and she's just watching, and finally, Boaz falls asleep.

00:35:20.880 --> 00:35:36.320
<v SPEAKER_00>And so you go back there, and and and Ruth creeps in, uncovers his feet, hoping the breeze doesn't wake him in that moment, that he doesn't turn and hit her, but she pulls back.

00:35:36.480 --> 00:35:39.519
<v SPEAKER_00>This is insanity, I want you to understand this moment.

00:35:39.840 --> 00:35:41.199
<v SPEAKER_00>I wish we could see it.

00:35:41.440 --> 00:35:44.480
<v SPEAKER_00>Nothing provocative happens, nothing immoral happens.

00:35:44.639 --> 00:35:48.800
<v SPEAKER_00>But Ruth pulls back the sheet, and now she's in.

00:35:49.039 --> 00:35:50.079
<v SPEAKER_00>What next, Ruth?

00:35:50.159 --> 00:35:51.280
<v SPEAKER_00>What do you do after that?

00:35:51.519 --> 00:35:53.840
<v SPEAKER_00>Verse 8 and 9 shows us what happens.

00:35:54.079 --> 00:35:57.199
<v SPEAKER_00>Now it happened at midnight that the man was startled.

00:35:57.360 --> 00:35:58.639
<v SPEAKER_00>Okay, she's been laying.

00:35:58.800 --> 00:36:02.880
<v SPEAKER_00>The man was startled, turned himself, and there a woman was lying at his feet.

00:36:03.039 --> 00:36:04.960
<v SPEAKER_00>And he says, Who are you?

00:36:05.199 --> 00:36:06.639
<v SPEAKER_00>And she answered, I am Ruth.

00:36:06.800 --> 00:36:08.559
<v SPEAKER_00>Verse 8 and I, so Boaz is startled.

00:36:08.639 --> 00:36:10.000
<v SPEAKER_00>You better believe he is startled.

00:36:10.159 --> 00:36:10.320
<v SPEAKER_00>Okay?

00:36:10.559 --> 00:36:14.639
<v SPEAKER_00>Boaz, and we don't know why, but he is a single man up to this point in life.

00:36:14.800 --> 00:36:18.559
<v SPEAKER_00>He does not know the warmth of a woman crawling in bed with him.

00:36:18.719 --> 00:36:30.159
<v SPEAKER_00>And he's laying there, and all of a sudden, we don't know if it's a breeze, we don't know what woke him up, if it was just her, but he wakes up and he turns over and he says, What?

00:36:31.199 --> 00:36:31.840
<v SPEAKER_00>Who?

00:36:33.119 --> 00:36:33.440
<v unknown>Who?

00:36:33.679 --> 00:36:34.639
<v SPEAKER_00>Who are you?

00:36:34.800 --> 00:36:36.079
<v SPEAKER_00>I wish we could.

00:36:36.800 --> 00:36:38.000
<v SPEAKER_00>Have you ever been?

00:36:38.320 --> 00:36:39.360
<v SPEAKER_00>Back to the kids, okay?

00:36:39.519 --> 00:36:49.360
<v SPEAKER_00>A couple weeks ago, I'm asleep, and if you ever, you that have a child, have you ever been asleep and somehow you sensed there was a body there staring at you?

00:36:49.679 --> 00:36:51.119
<v SPEAKER_00>You woke up and you knew it.

00:36:51.280 --> 00:36:53.760
<v SPEAKER_00>So this is what happened this has happened just a few weeks ago.

00:36:53.840 --> 00:36:59.280
<v SPEAKER_00>I wake up and why its big eyes are staring in my eyes, and I'm like, wow, what are you doing?

00:36:59.440 --> 00:37:01.440
<v SPEAKER_00>Why are you staring at me?

00:37:01.760 --> 00:37:02.239
<v SPEAKER_00>Right?

00:37:02.480 --> 00:37:07.360
<v SPEAKER_00>And so Boaz turns over and there's Ruth.

00:37:07.760 --> 00:37:08.159
<v SPEAKER_00>Right?

00:37:08.239 --> 00:37:08.960
<v SPEAKER_00>There's Ruth.

00:37:09.039 --> 00:37:12.000
<v SPEAKER_00>And he said, I wish we knew, I wish it would tell us the sound.

00:37:12.159 --> 00:37:13.360
<v SPEAKER_00>Like, is he surprised?

00:37:13.440 --> 00:37:15.280
<v SPEAKER_00>Is it, who are you?

00:37:15.519 --> 00:37:16.960
<v SPEAKER_00>Is it a whisper?

00:37:19.199 --> 00:37:20.239
<v SPEAKER_00>Who are you?

00:37:20.480 --> 00:37:21.599
<v SPEAKER_00>Does he scream?

00:37:21.679 --> 00:37:23.599
<v SPEAKER_00>But he says, Who are you?

00:37:24.159 --> 00:37:24.480
<v SPEAKER_00>Right?

00:37:24.639 --> 00:37:25.119
<v SPEAKER_00>Who are you?

00:37:25.280 --> 00:37:26.239
<v SPEAKER_00>Was it fear?

00:37:26.480 --> 00:37:28.960
<v SPEAKER_00>And Ruth in verse 9, this is great.

00:37:29.119 --> 00:37:29.440
<v SPEAKER_00>Okay.

00:37:29.760 --> 00:37:34.639
<v SPEAKER_00>In a gutsy moment in verse 9, Ruth departs from Naomi's game plan.

00:37:34.719 --> 00:37:41.840
<v SPEAKER_00>Because Naomi said, Go, uncover, lie down, and wait for him to give you instruction.

00:37:42.159 --> 00:37:42.800
<v SPEAKER_00>Right?

00:37:43.760 --> 00:37:46.800
<v SPEAKER_00>And Ruth, in this gutsy moment, she departs from it.

00:37:47.360 --> 00:37:48.719
<v SPEAKER_00>Ruth says this.

00:37:49.280 --> 00:37:51.760
<v SPEAKER_00>She says, I am Ruth, your maidservant.

00:37:52.079 --> 00:37:54.800
<v SPEAKER_00>Take me under your wing.

00:37:55.440 --> 00:37:56.239
<v SPEAKER_00>Take me.

00:37:57.440 --> 00:37:58.719
<v SPEAKER_00>She says this.

00:37:59.760 --> 00:38:05.599
<v SPEAKER_00>In essence, if you want to marry me, it's okay with me.

00:38:06.480 --> 00:38:08.159
<v SPEAKER_00>Now, don't miss this.

00:38:08.480 --> 00:38:24.320
<v SPEAKER_00>A homeless gal asking a wealthy landowner, a boss, if you want to marry an employee, the Moabite woman laying herself next to a Jew, she says, spread your wing over me.

00:38:24.400 --> 00:38:28.880
<v SPEAKER_00>And I want you to go back for just a second to chapter 2 and verse 12.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This is the same language, okay?

00:38:32.159 --> 00:38:36.000
<v SPEAKER_00>She's using Boaz's words.

00:38:36.480 --> 00:38:38.000
<v SPEAKER_00>Look at verse 12.

00:38:38.320 --> 00:38:44.559
<v SPEAKER_00>Boaz said this to her when she remembers she was on the ground, crying humbly before him, saying, Why would you show me this kindness?

00:38:44.719 --> 00:38:55.519
<v SPEAKER_00>And he said to her, The Lord repay your work, and a full reward be given you by the Lord God of Israel, under whose wings you have come for refuge.

00:38:55.760 --> 00:39:00.079
<v SPEAKER_00>And she says, Spread your wing over me.

00:39:01.599 --> 00:39:03.119
<v SPEAKER_00>A gutsy move.

00:39:03.679 --> 00:39:09.199
<v SPEAKER_00>Not knowing how he might respond, Ruth puts all of her cards on the table.

00:39:09.679 --> 00:39:13.920
<v SPEAKER_00>And she says, Boaz, I need you.

00:39:15.119 --> 00:39:17.920
<v SPEAKER_00>If you would have me, I sure would have you.

00:39:18.960 --> 00:39:21.599
<v SPEAKER_00>And so we're left suspensefully waiting.

00:39:21.679 --> 00:39:23.119
<v SPEAKER_00>Well, what's the next verse say?

00:39:23.599 --> 00:39:24.159
<v SPEAKER_00>What happens?

00:39:24.320 --> 00:39:25.599
<v SPEAKER_00>What follows?

00:39:26.239 --> 00:39:33.840
<v SPEAKER_00>Emerson said this: All I have seen teaches me to trust the Creator for all I have not seen.

00:39:34.559 --> 00:39:38.239
<v SPEAKER_00>All I have seen teaches me to trust the Creator for all I have not seen.

00:39:38.480 --> 00:39:43.519
<v SPEAKER_00>That takes us to the third point this morning: a suspenseful accommodation.

00:39:44.400 --> 00:39:47.280
<v SPEAKER_00>Again, verse 10 and 11 will read.

00:39:47.440 --> 00:39:48.800
<v SPEAKER_00>Look at what Boaz says.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Then he said, Blessed are you of the Lord, my daughter.

00:39:52.880 --> 00:40:00.639
<v SPEAKER_00>For you have shown more kindness at the end than at the beginning, in that you did not go after young men, whether poor or rich.

00:40:00.719 --> 00:40:02.800
<v SPEAKER_00>And now, my daughter, do not fear.

00:40:03.119 --> 00:40:06.079
<v SPEAKER_00>I will do for you all that you request.

00:40:06.239 --> 00:40:10.800
<v SPEAKER_00>For all the people of my town know that you are a virtuous woman.

00:40:11.599 --> 00:40:22.000
<v SPEAKER_00>And so this suspenseful moment, now Boaz speaks, and the first thing, letter A, that he does is he shows Ruth that she's a desirable woman.

00:40:22.480 --> 00:40:24.000
<v SPEAKER_00>Boaz is stunned.

00:40:24.159 --> 00:40:25.039
<v SPEAKER_00>Now, rightfully so.

00:40:25.119 --> 00:40:27.360
<v SPEAKER_00>He's already kind of shocked at what's happened.

00:40:27.519 --> 00:40:31.360
<v SPEAKER_00>But now, after she says what she says, he is stunned.

00:40:31.519 --> 00:40:33.679
<v SPEAKER_00>He's literally taken aback by her words.

00:40:33.920 --> 00:40:37.599
<v SPEAKER_00>Remember, as far as we know, he has been single up to this point.

00:40:37.679 --> 00:40:45.440
<v SPEAKER_00>And there's a lot of things you could think about that it would have been lawful for him to have been married and to still take Ruth in during this time.

00:40:45.599 --> 00:40:45.840
<v SPEAKER_00>Okay?

00:40:46.000 --> 00:40:51.599
<v SPEAKER_00>But we have no reason to believe that he was, because as you find out, I give away too much if we got into chapter 4.

00:40:51.679 --> 00:40:56.719
<v SPEAKER_00>But if you find out later, there's a reason that a man can't take Ruth.

00:40:56.800 --> 00:40:59.599
<v SPEAKER_00>And so we don't think he's been married.

00:40:59.679 --> 00:41:04.159
<v SPEAKER_00>And he's looking at her and he says, You could have had any young man.

00:41:05.840 --> 00:41:09.920
<v SPEAKER_00>The kindness that you're showing now, it's blown him away.

00:41:10.079 --> 00:41:11.280
<v SPEAKER_00>He's taken aback.

00:41:11.440 --> 00:41:13.679
<v SPEAKER_00>And then I gotta show you something.

00:41:13.760 --> 00:41:18.480
<v SPEAKER_00>If you'll take your Bible and turn to Proverbs chapter 31 just for a second.

00:41:20.639 --> 00:41:28.320
<v SPEAKER_00>Everyone that's been a Christian or been around church for a long time knows in Proverbs 31 is all about the virtuous woman.

00:41:28.559 --> 00:41:35.280
<v SPEAKER_00>In Proverbs 31, verse 10, it says, Who can find a virtuous wife?

00:41:35.679 --> 00:41:40.480
<v SPEAKER_00>For her worth is far above rubies.

00:41:41.280 --> 00:41:48.880
<v SPEAKER_00>If you go down even into verse 30, it goes through this whole end of this chapter talking about what makes a woman virtuous.

00:41:49.039 --> 00:41:52.320
<v SPEAKER_00>But it says, uh, well, look at verse 27.

00:41:52.559 --> 00:41:54.800
<v SPEAKER_00>Things that that would make you think of Ruth.

00:41:54.880 --> 00:41:56.719
<v SPEAKER_00>She watches over the ways of her household.

00:41:56.800 --> 00:42:00.320
<v SPEAKER_00>She's been taking care of Naomi, does not eat the bread of idleness.

00:42:00.400 --> 00:42:01.199
<v SPEAKER_00>She's willing to work.

00:42:01.280 --> 00:42:01.519
<v SPEAKER_00>Okay.

00:42:01.679 --> 00:42:03.679
<v SPEAKER_00>When her children rise up, they call her blessed.

00:42:03.760 --> 00:42:05.199
<v SPEAKER_00>Her husband also and praise her.

00:42:05.280 --> 00:42:06.800
<v SPEAKER_00>Many daughters will have done well.

00:42:06.960 --> 00:42:07.920
<v SPEAKER_00>It says verse 30.

00:42:08.079 --> 00:42:13.920
<v SPEAKER_00>Charm is deceitful, and beauty is passing, but a woman who fears the Lord shall be praised.

00:42:14.639 --> 00:42:24.239
<v SPEAKER_00>And so we see in the same language Boaz saying, You are a virtuous woman, you're a desirable woman.

00:42:24.400 --> 00:42:25.440
<v SPEAKER_00>And this is interesting.

00:42:25.599 --> 00:42:27.039
<v SPEAKER_00>Okay, I found this out this week.

00:42:27.199 --> 00:42:35.199
<v SPEAKER_00>The Hebrew Bible had a different grouping of scripture, a different order of scripture than we have today.

00:42:36.000 --> 00:42:45.920
<v SPEAKER_00>There was a section called the writings, and many Hebrew historians believe that in the Hebrew Bible, Ruth was actually written right after Proverbs.

00:42:46.800 --> 00:42:51.519
<v SPEAKER_00>Wouldn't that be interesting using the same language, same phrasing?

00:42:51.840 --> 00:42:57.360
<v SPEAKER_00>Could this have been the perfect lead-in, Proverbs 31, the virtuous woman, and then Ruth.

00:42:57.599 --> 00:43:02.400
<v SPEAKER_00>It goes on to describe a very portrait of a virtuous woman.

00:43:02.559 --> 00:43:04.719
<v SPEAKER_00>Now all this is beautifully coming together.

00:43:04.880 --> 00:43:11.599
<v SPEAKER_00>Everything's working out within Naomi's plan and how Ruth thought it might work until verse 12.

00:43:12.800 --> 00:43:16.239
<v SPEAKER_00>Verse 12 we see a hitch in the plan.

00:43:16.480 --> 00:43:20.079
<v SPEAKER_00>Boaz says, Now it's true that I am a close relative.

00:43:20.320 --> 00:43:23.360
<v SPEAKER_00>However, we hate this, however.

00:43:23.679 --> 00:43:28.079
<v SPEAKER_00>However, there is a relative closer than I am.

00:43:28.800 --> 00:43:31.760
<v SPEAKER_00>Boaz now, let her be, is a disoriented man.

00:43:31.920 --> 00:43:38.719
<v SPEAKER_00>You see, Boaz is such a good man that he won't even do what you and I want him to do right here.

00:43:38.960 --> 00:43:41.920
<v SPEAKER_00>We want Boaz to take Ruth and run.

00:43:42.480 --> 00:43:44.800
<v SPEAKER_00>We want them to elope.

00:43:44.960 --> 00:43:50.079
<v SPEAKER_00>We want them to make a family, have three kids, two dogs, and live happily ever after.

00:43:50.239 --> 00:43:51.679
<v SPEAKER_00>That's what we want.

00:43:52.000 --> 00:43:55.760
<v SPEAKER_00>Boaz could have made this the most romantic movie of all time.

00:43:55.840 --> 00:43:59.599
<v SPEAKER_00>If he'd have taken her right there, it'd have been a great country song.

00:44:01.360 --> 00:44:05.280
<v SPEAKER_00>But Boaz is too godly.

00:44:06.400 --> 00:44:06.880
<v SPEAKER_00>That's right.

00:44:07.199 --> 00:44:08.800
<v SPEAKER_00>Boaz is too godly.

00:44:09.119 --> 00:44:10.880
<v SPEAKER_00>He says, there's another man.

00:44:12.159 --> 00:44:14.400
<v SPEAKER_00>I wonder what Ruth thought in this moment.

00:44:15.280 --> 00:44:16.559
<v SPEAKER_00>She could replay the record.

00:44:17.760 --> 00:44:19.519
<v SPEAKER_00>Another kinsman.

00:44:19.679 --> 00:44:20.559
<v SPEAKER_00>Another kinsman?

00:44:20.719 --> 00:44:21.679
<v SPEAKER_00>Are you kidding me?

00:44:21.760 --> 00:44:23.840
<v SPEAKER_00>Do you know what I just went through?

00:44:24.079 --> 00:44:26.480
<v SPEAKER_00>Like, I almost had a heart attack, Boaz.

00:44:26.800 --> 00:44:28.960
<v SPEAKER_00>What are you talking about somebody else for?

00:44:29.519 --> 00:44:31.119
<v SPEAKER_00>And so there's this moment.

00:44:31.440 --> 00:44:33.920
<v SPEAKER_00>But go on to verse 13 and 14.

00:44:34.480 --> 00:44:36.480
<v SPEAKER_00>We see a time for discretion.

00:44:36.800 --> 00:44:38.559
<v SPEAKER_00>Verse 13 and 14.

00:44:39.360 --> 00:44:45.840
<v SPEAKER_00>Stay this night, and in the morning it shall be that if he will perform the duty of a close relative for you, good.

00:44:46.559 --> 00:44:47.599
<v SPEAKER_00>Well let him do it.

00:44:47.679 --> 00:44:56.480
<v SPEAKER_00>But if he does not want to perform the duty, now I like Boaz again for you, then I will perform the duty for you as the Lord lives.

00:44:57.039 --> 00:44:59.119
<v SPEAKER_00>And he says, Lie down until morning.

00:44:59.280 --> 00:45:01.039
<v SPEAKER_00>So she lay at his feet until morning.

00:45:01.199 --> 00:45:03.519
<v SPEAKER_00>She arose before one could recognize another.

00:45:03.679 --> 00:45:07.440
<v SPEAKER_00>Then he said, Do not let it be known that the woman came to the threshing floor.

00:45:07.599 --> 00:45:10.239
<v SPEAKER_00>So we see a time here for discretion.

00:45:10.800 --> 00:45:11.119
<v SPEAKER_00>Okay?

00:45:11.679 --> 00:45:19.199
<v SPEAKER_00>Ruth has come, she lays down, and you can imagine there's no sleep the rest of the night for Boaz.

00:45:19.599 --> 00:45:21.199
<v SPEAKER_00>Not a wink of sleep.

00:45:21.519 --> 00:45:24.000
<v SPEAKER_00>He's sitting there heart racing, head spinning.

00:45:24.079 --> 00:45:25.840
<v SPEAKER_00>Will the other kinsman take her?

00:45:26.079 --> 00:45:27.519
<v SPEAKER_00>What's gonna happen?

00:45:27.679 --> 00:45:38.719
<v SPEAKER_00>Um and Ruth, the same way, could be married in 24 hours and is most likely gonna be married very soon to Boaz or someone else she hasn't met.

00:45:38.960 --> 00:45:40.800
<v SPEAKER_00>Heart racing, head spinning.

00:45:40.960 --> 00:45:46.239
<v SPEAKER_00>But in this moment, Boaz still sees that discretion is important.

00:45:46.320 --> 00:45:47.599
<v SPEAKER_00>And he thinks a couple of things.

00:45:47.679 --> 00:45:52.320
<v SPEAKER_00>People will take this scripture and twist it and say, oh, well, they consummated the marriage that night.

00:45:52.480 --> 00:45:55.599
<v SPEAKER_00>Oh, they they filled out the rest of the scandal.

00:45:55.760 --> 00:45:58.880
<v SPEAKER_00>And I don't believe those things to be true.

00:45:59.039 --> 00:46:01.119
<v SPEAKER_00>I think Boaz is using discretion.

00:46:01.199 --> 00:46:06.320
<v SPEAKER_00>If he sends Ruth back off in the middle of the night, could she be harmed physically?

00:46:06.559 --> 00:46:08.880
<v SPEAKER_00>Could somebody hurt her on her way back?

00:46:09.039 --> 00:46:14.480
<v SPEAKER_00>Um if he sends her off and she's not harmed physically, what about her reputation?

00:46:14.719 --> 00:46:17.440
<v SPEAKER_00>People would wake up and see it and talk about her.

00:46:17.599 --> 00:46:26.400
<v SPEAKER_00>She's already a Moabite woman and they already come from that past and that background, and so he's lovingly told her to stay the night.

00:46:26.719 --> 00:46:41.840
<v SPEAKER_00>And we see in that climactic moment the song that I played for you in the still of the night, hearts racing, suspense, somebody's decision that's coming is gonna affect the future of this relationship.

00:46:42.000 --> 00:46:45.840
<v SPEAKER_00>We'll go on to verse 15 through 18.

00:46:47.119 --> 00:46:48.800
<v SPEAKER_00>It's a time for decision.

00:46:49.039 --> 00:46:52.000
<v SPEAKER_00>And I want you to understand, for you and for me, let's apply this.

00:46:52.239 --> 00:46:57.039
<v SPEAKER_00>For you and for me to have a reset, we've got to make a decision.

00:46:57.360 --> 00:47:01.760
<v SPEAKER_00>In your spiritual walk, for you to have a reset with God earlier, some of you're like, Yeah, that's me.

00:47:01.840 --> 00:47:02.639
<v SPEAKER_00>I need that button.

00:47:02.800 --> 00:47:03.840
<v SPEAKER_00>I need to be able to push it.

00:47:03.920 --> 00:47:04.800
<v SPEAKER_00>I need a reset.

00:47:04.960 --> 00:47:06.159
<v SPEAKER_00>I need a restart.

00:47:06.480 --> 00:47:10.000
<v SPEAKER_00>It takes a decision, it takes a time for decision.

00:47:10.239 --> 00:47:15.039
<v SPEAKER_00>Joshua 24, 15, we see the great general who rallied his troops together.

00:47:15.280 --> 00:47:23.599
<v SPEAKER_00>And in Joshua 24, 15, he's kind of giving them a farewell speech and he says, This you can serve the idols which your father before have served.

00:47:23.840 --> 00:47:36.880
<v SPEAKER_00>You can serve yourself, you can serve the world's idols, you can serve and live for money, you can serve and live for trophies, you can live for the 401k, you can live for retirement, you can live for anything you want to live for, Joshua says.

00:47:37.039 --> 00:47:39.199
<v SPEAKER_00>You can serve all of those idols.

00:47:39.440 --> 00:47:44.400
<v SPEAKER_00>He says, But today, if it seems right for you to do that, do that.

00:47:44.480 --> 00:47:47.199
<v SPEAKER_00>He says, if you want to serve our God, fear and love our God.

00:47:47.360 --> 00:47:49.039
<v SPEAKER_00>He says, but you gotta choose.

00:47:49.280 --> 00:47:51.440
<v SPEAKER_00>Choose you this day whom you will serve.

00:47:51.599 --> 00:47:55.920
<v SPEAKER_00>And he said this, for me and my house, we're gonna serve the Lord.

00:47:56.320 --> 00:47:58.000
<v SPEAKER_00>There was a time for decision.

00:47:58.639 --> 00:48:06.159
<v SPEAKER_00>Um David Wilson used to say something a lot that just kind of impacted my life and my thinking.

00:48:06.320 --> 00:48:07.599
<v SPEAKER_00>He was the owner here.

00:48:07.840 --> 00:48:13.920
<v SPEAKER_00>Um, and he said, Rick, sometimes in life you've got to think slow and act fast.

00:48:14.559 --> 00:48:15.920
<v SPEAKER_00>And that just impacted me.

00:48:16.079 --> 00:48:20.719
<v SPEAKER_00>Think things three through, think things through slowly, but be willing to act fast.

00:48:20.880 --> 00:48:22.559
<v SPEAKER_00>When there's a window, act fast.

00:48:22.639 --> 00:48:24.639
<v SPEAKER_00>When God prompts your heart, act fast.

00:48:24.800 --> 00:48:27.760
<v SPEAKER_00>There's times where you don't get time to think all of that through.

00:48:27.840 --> 00:48:30.400
<v SPEAKER_00>And so he said, think slow, act fast.

00:48:30.559 --> 00:48:35.599
<v SPEAKER_00>In Psalms chapter 1, 1 through 3, it says, Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of ungodly.

00:48:35.760 --> 00:48:36.639
<v SPEAKER_00>And it goes on further.

00:48:36.800 --> 00:48:45.360
<v SPEAKER_00>It says, The person that delights in the word of the Lord will be like a tree planted by rivers of water, a fruitful tree.

00:48:45.599 --> 00:48:47.519
<v SPEAKER_00>That's what Boaz is here.

00:48:47.679 --> 00:48:48.960
<v SPEAKER_00>He's this fruitful tree.

00:48:49.119 --> 00:48:52.800
<v SPEAKER_00>He didn't have to go back and make up time because he'd already been living right.

00:48:52.960 --> 00:48:58.960
<v SPEAKER_00>He knew the Lord, and when a window of opportunity came, he was ready to choose.

00:48:59.440 --> 00:49:04.880
<v SPEAKER_00>I've got to ask you, when God sends that, and in a little bit there might be an altar call.

00:49:04.960 --> 00:49:08.639
<v SPEAKER_00>If God sends that in your life, you say, I need that button.

00:49:08.800 --> 00:49:09.840
<v SPEAKER_00>Are you ready for it?

00:49:10.079 --> 00:49:12.400
<v SPEAKER_00>Are you willing to make a decision?

00:49:12.639 --> 00:49:14.480
<v SPEAKER_00>So verse 15 we see.

00:49:14.960 --> 00:49:17.840
<v SPEAKER_00>Also he said, Bring the shawl that is on you and hold it.

00:49:18.000 --> 00:49:21.840
<v SPEAKER_00>And when she held it, he measured six effas of barley and laid it on her.

00:49:22.000 --> 00:49:23.840
<v SPEAKER_00>Then she went into the city.

00:49:24.079 --> 00:49:28.239
<v SPEAKER_00>And verse 16, when she came to her mother-in-law, she said, Is that you, my daughter?

00:49:28.400 --> 00:49:31.039
<v SPEAKER_00>Then she told her all that the man had done for her.

00:49:31.119 --> 00:49:37.679
<v SPEAKER_00>And she said, These six effas of barley he gave me, for he said to me, Do not go empty-handed to your mother-in-law.

00:49:37.840 --> 00:49:41.760
<v SPEAKER_00>And so, first thing we see is a gift that is given to her.

00:49:41.920 --> 00:49:46.559
<v SPEAKER_00>Um, and symbolically, almost like a dowry in their time.

00:49:46.960 --> 00:49:51.760
<v SPEAKER_00>He takes that shawl, he fills it up, and he says, Go back to Naomi.

00:49:52.159 --> 00:49:53.920
<v SPEAKER_00>I'm not sending you back without nothing.

00:49:54.079 --> 00:49:56.159
<v SPEAKER_00>Now, I want you again, just for a moment, to think.

00:49:56.400 --> 00:49:58.480
<v SPEAKER_00>Verse 16, we get back to Naomi.

00:49:58.719 --> 00:50:00.800
<v SPEAKER_00>Now, this is not a day and age of cell phones, okay?

00:50:00.880 --> 00:50:06.559
<v SPEAKER_00>Ruth is not like texting as she's going, walking past winnowing man.

00:50:07.039 --> 00:50:09.039
<v SPEAKER_00>Update 10 minutes later, okay?

00:50:09.199 --> 00:50:10.320
<v SPEAKER_00>He's lying down.

00:50:10.480 --> 00:50:11.920
<v SPEAKER_00>There's no Facebook, okay?

00:50:12.079 --> 00:50:13.840
<v SPEAKER_00>She's not tweeting something out.

00:50:14.000 --> 00:50:18.159
<v SPEAKER_00>Like Naomi's just back there waiting, waiting, waiting.

00:50:18.400 --> 00:50:22.079
<v SPEAKER_00>And she has no update, and she comes first with a question.

00:50:22.239 --> 00:50:24.400
<v SPEAKER_00>And there's something interesting about this question.

00:50:24.559 --> 00:50:28.000
<v SPEAKER_00>She says, Who art thou?

00:50:28.719 --> 00:50:32.239
<v SPEAKER_00>When Ruth is walking back, she says, Is that you?

00:50:32.639 --> 00:50:39.840
<v SPEAKER_00>And the language of this question literally is asking her, Are you a Jew?

00:50:41.119 --> 00:50:42.559
<v SPEAKER_00>Are you a Moabite?

00:50:43.039 --> 00:50:45.199
<v SPEAKER_00>Have you come back different?

00:50:45.360 --> 00:50:46.320
<v SPEAKER_00>Is that you?

00:50:46.880 --> 00:50:48.880
<v SPEAKER_00>Did he take you?

00:50:49.599 --> 00:50:50.960
<v SPEAKER_00>An important question.

00:50:51.119 --> 00:50:56.559
<v SPEAKER_00>And verse 17, Ruth shares something that was not said earlier.

00:50:57.119 --> 00:51:02.800
<v SPEAKER_00>Boaz does this, and Ruth shares something that he, the the narrator doesn't tell us.

00:51:02.880 --> 00:51:11.360
<v SPEAKER_00>In verse 17, she says, and she said, These six effas of barley he gave to me, and he said to me, Do not go empty-handed to your mother-in-law.

00:51:11.599 --> 00:51:12.880
<v SPEAKER_00>Hold on just there.

00:51:13.360 --> 00:51:16.639
<v SPEAKER_00>He says, Don't go back to your mother-in-law empty.

00:51:17.280 --> 00:51:19.519
<v SPEAKER_00>We've seen that word before, haven't we?

00:51:21.760 --> 00:51:23.440
<v SPEAKER_00>Not just grain.

00:51:23.599 --> 00:51:24.639
<v SPEAKER_00>It's a message.

00:51:24.960 --> 00:51:26.239
<v SPEAKER_00>You are not empty.

00:51:26.400 --> 00:51:28.559
<v SPEAKER_00>There is something more.

00:51:29.679 --> 00:51:30.800
<v SPEAKER_00>You're not going to be empty.

00:51:30.880 --> 00:51:37.599
<v SPEAKER_00>Remember, Naomi says, I left here full and I came back just empty.

00:51:37.920 --> 00:51:39.199
<v SPEAKER_00>I have nothing.

00:51:39.840 --> 00:51:44.320
<v SPEAKER_00>And Boaz says, take her this, you're not going back empty.

00:51:45.119 --> 00:51:47.039
<v SPEAKER_00>I left here full and I'm empty.

00:51:47.199 --> 00:51:51.519
<v SPEAKER_00>Little did she know Ruth was not the picture of her affliction.

00:51:52.320 --> 00:51:55.119
<v SPEAKER_00>Ruth was the picture of her redemption.

00:51:56.320 --> 00:52:00.320
<v SPEAKER_00>God was going to use this, Ruth, and God wants to fill you.

00:52:00.480 --> 00:52:12.320
<v SPEAKER_00>I don't know who is here and who needs a word today, but I want you to understand, I'm telling you that today what you thought was the picture of your affliction could be the same thing that God will use to redeem you.

00:52:12.480 --> 00:52:19.280
<v SPEAKER_00>Maybe you had an alcoholic addiction, and God wants to use that in your life to be a minister for sobriety.

00:52:19.599 --> 00:52:29.519
<v SPEAKER_00>Maybe you've had self-image problems as you've looked in the mirror, and I want you to understand maybe God wants to use that as you've looked in Psalms and you've found out God made me fearfully and wonderfully.

00:52:29.679 --> 00:52:32.320
<v SPEAKER_00>I am the image expressly of God Himself.

00:52:32.480 --> 00:52:38.079
<v SPEAKER_00>And maybe you'll minister to thousands who are cutting, self-harming, bulimic, and anorexic.

00:52:38.239 --> 00:52:39.360
<v SPEAKER_00>God wants to use you.

00:52:39.519 --> 00:52:44.000
<v SPEAKER_00>Maybe you were in an abusive relationship and God's gonna let you walk someone out of one.

00:52:44.320 --> 00:52:45.440
<v SPEAKER_00>God wants to use you.

00:52:45.519 --> 00:52:51.760
<v SPEAKER_00>Maybe you've had a bad relationship with a parent and you felt an emptiness, and God's saying, I'm gonna use you, I'm gonna help you.

00:52:52.000 --> 00:52:53.599
<v SPEAKER_00>You don't have to be empty.

00:52:53.840 --> 00:52:57.360
<v SPEAKER_00>Scripture says he will not leave you comfortless.

00:52:57.679 --> 00:53:00.159
<v SPEAKER_00>God is always good with a reset.

00:53:00.559 --> 00:53:02.400
<v SPEAKER_00>He's always good with a fresh start.

00:53:02.559 --> 00:53:03.599
<v SPEAKER_00>It's not too late.

00:53:03.760 --> 00:53:05.840
<v SPEAKER_00>That is a lie of Satan, church.

00:53:05.920 --> 00:53:07.280
<v SPEAKER_00>That it's too late.

00:53:07.599 --> 00:53:11.599
<v SPEAKER_00>The righteous fall, Scripture says seven times, but they can get back up again.

00:53:11.920 --> 00:53:20.320
<v SPEAKER_00>1 John 1 9 says, if that He is faithful and just to forgive us and cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

00:53:21.599 --> 00:53:23.360
<v SPEAKER_00>You can leave emptiness today.

00:53:23.599 --> 00:53:25.440
<v SPEAKER_00>God wants you to be filled.

00:53:25.760 --> 00:53:28.559
<v SPEAKER_00>You don't have to leave this church feeling empty.

00:53:29.280 --> 00:53:31.519
<v SPEAKER_00>You don't have to leave feeling empty.

00:53:32.000 --> 00:53:34.880
<v SPEAKER_00>But you'll have to follow his plan for a restart.

00:53:35.360 --> 00:53:38.320
<v SPEAKER_00>And it's probably gonna take some risk on your part.

00:53:39.360 --> 00:53:42.079
<v SPEAKER_00>May be risky for you to move this morning.

00:53:42.239 --> 00:53:48.239
<v SPEAKER_00>It may be risky to have the conversation you have to have with a family member, a wife, your kids.

00:53:49.360 --> 00:53:56.719
<v SPEAKER_00>You may not know what the outcome is gonna be, but I can promise you, if God arranges something in your life, it's a time for decision.

00:54:00.320 --> 00:54:03.360
<v SPEAKER_00>As we close, I'm gonna ask the pianists just to pause.

00:54:03.440 --> 00:54:13.440
<v SPEAKER_00>I want you to see how some people made a decision that impacted their life and how that changed the outcome of their life.

00:54:13.599 --> 00:54:16.239
<v SPEAKER_00>There was a window, and they took it.

00:54:16.400 --> 00:54:17.519
<v SPEAKER_00>Watch this video.

00:54:38.320 --> 00:54:43.519
<v SPEAKER_01>I wonder if my life could really change.

00:55:02.159 --> 00:55:06.960
<v SPEAKER_01>Could a God come up from the spround?

00:57:25.679 --> 00:57:26.079
<v SPEAKER_00>Amen.

00:57:26.400 --> 00:57:29.039
<v SPEAKER_00>Heads are bowed and eyes are closed this morning.

00:57:31.280 --> 00:57:33.039
<v SPEAKER_00>See, God is all about new.

00:57:35.599 --> 00:57:37.760
<v SPEAKER_00>He wants you to be able to have that reset.

00:57:41.679 --> 00:57:45.199
<v SPEAKER_00>God wants to fill your empty soul.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Sin separates us and makes us feel far from God.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Separates us from his fullness, makes us dependent on all those other things.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Looking for constant filling, never feeling actually filled.

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<v SPEAKER_00>There's nothing of this world that can fill the God-sized hole in your heart.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Nothing.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Not even your husband or wife, not your child.

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<v SPEAKER_00>There's so many things that get idolized.

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<v SPEAKER_00>God wants to fill your empty soul.

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<v SPEAKER_00>God sent Jesus for that reason.

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<v SPEAKER_00>John 3 16, we know it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But it says, For God so loved the world, he loved you and he loved me, that he gave his only begotten Son on the cross at Calvary.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He took my punishment and yours so that we could have everlasting life.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And not just everlasting and eternal life.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But John 10 10 says that we could have an abundant life right here and right now.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He took that so he could fill you and have a relationship with you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But it only happens, church, listen, through repentance and faith.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Today can be your day of decision.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The window is open.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And God, it's saying in scripture that He's a gentleman, He'll come to the door and He'll knock.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But He's not going to barge you and you've got to open that door of your heart and let Him come in.
