How a Gratitude Journal Can Transform Your Daily Routine

How a Gratitude Journal Can Transform Your Daily Routine

Discover how a gratitude journal can boost your focus, fuel your goals, and help you become your best self — starting with just 5 minutes a day.

Get Going in Life

Transcript

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Get going in Life is the podcast that pairs journaling and productivity because clarity without action is daydreaming and action without clarity is just noise.

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I'm Marcus.

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And I'm Camille. Every episode we give you small practical shifts that actually compound no 47-step routines, no fluff.

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This is for anyone whose to-do list keeps winning.

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Grab your journal. Let's get into it. Okay, Marcus, I want to ask you something. When someone says gratitude journal to you, what's your honest first reaction?

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Honestly, a couple years ago, I would have rolled my eyes a little. Like, write down what you're thankful for. Great, very nice. Now what?

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Right. Exactly. And I think that's where a lot of people are. They hear gratitude journaling and they think it's just soft. Like a nice thing to do, but not really connected to actually getting stuff done.

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And and I get that instinct. But here's where I landed, and this took me a while. You know, gratitude journaling, when it's structured right, is actually a productivity tool. It's not separate from your goals. It feeds them.

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Say more about that because I think that's the piece people miss.

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So when you start your morning by writing down what's going well, even small things, you're literally training your brain to look for wins during the day instead of scanning for problems. And that shift changes how you show up at work and your relationships, all of it.

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It's like you're setting the filter for the whole day.

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Exactly. And the research backs this up, but honestly, you don't even need the research. Just try it for a week and notice how differently you walk into a Monday morning.

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Okay, but here's my pushback. And I say this as someone who has started and stopped journaling more times than I want to admit. Knowing it works doesn't mean it sticks.

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That's fair. That's a real thing.

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Like I have bought beautiful journals. I have sat down with my coffee feeling very motivated. And then by day four, I'm staring at a blank page, going, okay, what am I even supposed to write?

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The blank page problem. That's actually the number one uh reason people quit journaling. Uh not laziness, not lack of motivation. It's the absence of structure.

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Yes, and that's why I think the design of the Get Going in Life journal is such a smart approach because it removes that friction entirely.

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Walk me through it because I know you've been using it. What does the actual routine look like?

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So it's built around two sessions. Five minutes in the morning and five minutes in the evening. That's it. Ten minutes total in your day.

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Ten minutes. Most people spend longer than that scrolling before they even get out of bed.

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Don't call me out like that, Marcus, but yes, true.

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So what happens in those five morning minutes?

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Three things. You write down three things you're grateful for. And they don't have to be profound, they can be tiny. Then you identify your single most important goal for that day, just one. And then you write one positive intention to carry into your morning.

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I like that it's one goal, not a list of 12, because if everything is a priority, nothing is.

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Right. And that's where a lot of people go sideways with their mornings. They write this massive to-do list and then spend the day feeling scattered because they're trying to do all of it at once.

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So the morning session is really about anchoring. Gratitude anchors your mindset, the single goal anchors your focus, and the intention anchors your energy.

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That's a really clean way to put it. And then the evening session is different. It's more reflective. You write down one win from the day, something you're proud of, one thing you learned, or one way you grew, and then something you're looking forward to tomorrow.

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Okay. I love that last one because most people end their day with a mental loop of everything they didn't finish.

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The running to-do list in your head at 11 PM. We've all been there.

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And ending instead with something you're anticipating, that's a completely different way to close out. You're going to sleep with forward momentum instead of a sense of unfinished business.

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And the win reflection is important too, because we are so bad at celebrating ourselves. Like something good happens and we just immediately move on to the next thing.

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Or we minimize it. Oh, it wasn't that big a deal. But writing it down makes it real. It becomes evidence that you're actually making progress.

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Evidence. I like that word. Because on the days when things feel slow, you can literally flip back through your journal and go, uh-oh, wait, look at all this.

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That's actually one of the most underrated benefits of keeping a physical journal. The look back. Weeks later, months later, you read an entry and you realize how far you've come.

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Okay, so let's talk about the habit side of this because I think that's where people need the most practical help. Like, how do you actually make this stick?

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So the first thing I always tell people is habit stacking. You attach the new habit to something you already do automatically.

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Like your morning coffee.

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Perfect example. You already make coffee every morning without thinking about it, so you pair the journal with that. Uh coffee's brewing, journal's open, it becomes part of the same sequence.

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And the key is you pick something that's non-negotiable for you. For me, it's breakfast. I'm always going to eat breakfast, so that's my anchor.

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Right, and the anchor has to be yours. Don't copy someone else's morning routine just because it works for them. Find your own non-negotiable and attach to that.

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The other thing that sounds almost too simple, uh, but genuinely matters. Keep the journal somewhere you can see it.

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Out of sight, out of mind is so real. I've watched people buy a journal, put it in a drawer, and then wonder why they never use it.

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Nightstand, kitchen counter, desk. Wherever you're going to be, first thing, it needs to be right there.

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And here's the one I want to push on a little because I think people get this wrong. It's starting smaller than you think you need to.

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Oh, say more about this.

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People think they need the perfect entry. Like they sit down and they feel like they should write something meaningful and profound, and if they can't, they just don't write anything.

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And then they feel bad about not writing, and then it becomes this whole thing.

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Exactly. But one grateful thought written down, that's a win. That counts. Progress beats perfection every single time.

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I actually had a week recently where I was traveling and my routine was completely off. And some days I literally just wrote three words. Three things I was grateful for, no explanation, nothing fancy.

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And did you feel better for doing it?

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Yeah, actually. Even that tiny version of it helped me feel grounded when everything else was kind of chaotic.

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That's the habit doing its job. And this is actually why an undated journal format is so smart for people with real lives. Uh, travel, long weekends, unexpected stuff comes up.

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Because with a dated journal, if you miss a day, you feel like you're already behind, and then you're less likely to pick it back up.

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Whereas undated, you just pick up where you left off. No guilt, no catching up, you just continue.

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Which honestly removes one of the biggest mental barriers to journaling consistently.

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Okay, I want to zoom out for a second, though, because I think we've been talking about the daily routine, and I don't want people to miss the bigger picture of what a well-designed gratitude journal actually does.

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Right, because it's not just the daily check-ins.

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It's layered. So you've got your daily goals. What's the one thing you're doing today that actually moves the needle? Then you've got weekly reviews, be reviewing at the end of the week, you look at your progress and set your focus for the next one.

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And then the long-term vision layer, which is where it gets really powerful.

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Because your daily gratitude practice has to be connected to something bigger. Otherwise, you're just writing nice things and feeling good, but not actually going anywhere.

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And I think that's the distinction between a gratitude journal that's just a feel-good exercise versus one that's actually a goal-setting tool.

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The Get Going in Life journal is really both it's a self-care journal and a goal-setting journal in one. And that combination is what makes it more than just a notebook.

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Because you're not just tracking what you're grateful for, you're tracking whether your daily actions are actually aligned with where you want to go.

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Career, relationships, health, personal growth, whatever your big aspirations are. The journal keeps pulling you back to those. Are you moving toward them? Are your daily choices reflecting them?

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And that's a question most people never actually ask themselves in a structured way.

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They think about their goals sometimes, but thinking about them and writing about them consistently are very different things.

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Writing makes it real. Writing makes it a commitment.

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There's something about putting pen to paper that your brain treats differently than just thinking or even typing. It registers as more intentional.

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Okay. I want to talk about who this is actually for, because I think sometimes people self-select out. Like they think, oh, that's not for me. I'm not a journal person.

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What does a journal person even mean? I feel like that's just a story people tell themselves.

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Right. Like if you're someone who feels like your days are just kind of slipping by without much direction, this is for you.

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If you're working towards something big, uh promotion, starting a business, a fitness goal, and the right guy, and you need consistent motivation to keep going, this is for you.

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If you want to be more present and less reactive, if you find yourself just kind of running on autopilot and then wondering where the week went.

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Or if you're building new habits and you just need one simple daily anchor, the five-minute morning and five-minute evening routine is that anchor.

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And honestly, it doesn't matter where you live or what your life looks like, whether you're in a fast-paced city or a smaller community. The practice meets you where you are.

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The practice doesn't care about your circumstances. It just uh asks for 10 minutes and a willingness to show up for yourself.

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I do want to push back on something though, Marcus. Um, because I've heard people say, Okay, I'll start when things calm down, when my schedule is less packed, when I have more mental space.

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Ah, the waiting for perfect conditions trap.

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And I want to gently call that out because that moment of when things calm down, it doesn't come. Life doesn't suddenly get less busy.

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And honestly, the busier and more chaotic things are, the more valuable those ten minutes become. Because that's when you most need the anchor.

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The structure is most powerful when everything else feels unstructured.

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Exactly. You don't need a perfect morning routine to start. You don't need a completely clear schedule. You need five minutes and a page.

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And I think that's what I love most about the five-minute morning and five-minute evening routine as a framework. It's designed for real people with real schedules, not for people who have two hours of free time every morning.

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Because most of us are not those people. We've got jobs and kids and commutes and all the rest of it.

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And five minutes is genuinely achievable. You cannot tell me you don't have five minutes in the morning.

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I mean, someone's gonna try, but no, you have five minutes.

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You have five minutes before you open your phone. That's all we're asking.

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And that's actually a good tip. Do the journal before you check your phone in the morning. Because the moment you open your phone, your attention is gone. Someone else is setting your agenda.

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Oh, that's a good one. Journal first, phone second. That's a rule I've been trying to live by, and it genuinely changes the morning.

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Because you've already set your own agenda. You know what you're grateful for. You know your one goal for the day, you've got your intention. Now, whatever comes at you, you've got a foundation.

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You're not reactive, you're already oriented.

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And that's the sharpened focus piece that I think people underestimate. Gratitude journaling is isn't just about feeling good, it's about starting the day with your attention pointed at what matters.

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And then the evening session closes the loop. You came in with intention, now you're reflecting on how it actually went. What was the win? What did you learn? What are you looking forward to?

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And that the self-awareness that builds over time by spotting your own pattern, seeing where you're growing, noticing what's working, that's genuinely valuable. That's how you course correct with confidence instead of just hoping things get better.

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Because you have actual data, your own data from your own life.

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And you start to see the connection between your daily habits and your bigger goals. Like, oh, on the weeks when I was consistent with this, I also made more progress on that thing I care about.

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The discipline spills over. That's real.

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It does. You know, because when you build one consistent daily practice, it it strengthens your belief that you can build others. You start to see yourself as someone who follows through.

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And that identity shift is huge. Like I'm someone who shows up for myself every day. That changes how you approach everything.

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So let's land this plane. If someone is listening right now and they're thinking, okay, I want to try this, what what's the actual first step?

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Open the get going in life journal to today's page, or if you don't have it yet, grab any notebook and write down three things that are going right in your life right now. Not big things, just three things.

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And they don't have to be impressive. Your coffee was good this morning, you you slept okay, you have a plan for today, those count.

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They absolutely count because the practice isn't about the content of what you write on day one. It's about the act of showing up.

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And then tonight, before you go to sleep, write down one win from today. One thing you're proud of. It doesn't have to be a big win.

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Um, you made the bet, you drank enough water, you had a good conversation, you started a gratitude journal. That last one counts as a win.

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That's actually a really good point. Day one of the journal, I win uh the win is that you started.

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First steps, no matter how small, are how every great journey begins. And this one takes five minutes.

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You've got this. Let's get going. That's a wrap on today's episode. Thanks for spending some time with us.

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See you then.