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<v SPEAKER_00>Hello everybody.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I am pumped to be here with you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>A little while ago, Caitlin asked me if I would be willing to speak on Philippians 1.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I said, um, yes, I will be there.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The first time I went to Thrive was about a year ago, and Holly Robbins invited me, and I remember just feeling such um authenticity and love in the house during that Thrive meeting.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so I'm so excited to be here.

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<v SPEAKER_00>My name's Ashley, if you don't know me.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I'm married to Trey Adams, and we have four kids.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They are nine, eight, four, and one year old.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And fun fact, today is my birthday.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So, you know, go me.

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<v SPEAKER_00>All right.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So uh today I'm gonna start with a little bit of background.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I know that Caitlin covered it um last week, but I'm gonna start with well, what is this book of Philippians?

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<v SPEAKER_00>So it's a letter that Paul wrote to the first Jesus community that he established in Philippi, and he wrote it while he was in prison and he was passionately preaching that all authority belonged to Jesus because Jesus was king, and uh and so the Roman government was a little offended by that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>While he was in prison, every day, you know, he could be he could be released or he could wake up to being executed.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so this was the place that he was writing from.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh and we're gonna frame Philippians 1 as we talk about what it means to take your thoughts captive.

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<v SPEAKER_00>What does Paul say about this topic?

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<v SPEAKER_00>So, first I'm gonna start off with some science, okay?

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm a little bit of a nerd when it comes to science, and so we're gonna talk about the brain.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So I just got done reading this book called Switch on Your Brain by Dr.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Caroline Leaf, and she says in the book she teaches about how God just marvelously crafted and created our brains to do wonderful um feats.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So the brain is separated into two parts it's the conscious and the subconscious.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So your conscious is what happens when you are awake, it's happening uh or uses about 10% of your brain power versus your subconscious, which is happening and working, operating 24-7, even while you're sleeping, and it works at a speed of 400 billion seconds per, or 400 action, billion actions per second.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Isn't that just incredible?

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<v SPEAKER_00>So um there's also this cool science-y phrase called quantum xeno effect, which basically says that wherever you direct your attention, that that thought or belief will grow stronger.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And that makes common sense as you think back to school.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um, I'm a teacher, and I promise you, teachers, we you're working hard.

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<v SPEAKER_00>When you went to school, your teachers were working hard to repeat, repeat, repeat, um, and help you to see, learn the concepts through, you know, reading, writing, listening, and so on.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so repetition, we know, helps us to learn.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh, this quantum xeno effect can happen in the positive and it can happen in the negative.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So it works for us when we are um affirming ourselves in a positive way.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Like, say we are telling ourselves, I can do all things to Christ who strengthens me.

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<v SPEAKER_00>When you come up against an obstacle and you feel stuck, and you're starting, you start to say things like, um, everything depends on me, but then you stop in your tracks and you remind yourself that Jesus' strength is in you and you can do the thing that's in front of you, then that's the positive example.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But it can happen in the negative too, as you repeat uh a common, a common um stumbling block thought that a lot of us have, and I'm gonna raise my hand on this, is I'm not good enough.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So if you repeat this over and over your head, guess what's gonna be magnified?

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<v SPEAKER_00>You're gonna realize your deepest fear is actually confirmed because it's getting bigger and bigger in your life and in your vision.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So to help you remember these science terms, I'm gonna teach you a sign, an American sign language, uh, the sign for believe.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay?

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<v SPEAKER_00>So y'all do it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Look, it's different talking to a camera versus talking to faces.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So I got a couple of faces in here.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm gonna look at them, but I'm I'm expecting you to do it too.

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<v SPEAKER_00>If you in your bathroom, locked the door, trying to get away from your kids, like you better be doing it sitting on that toilet.

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<v SPEAKER_00>All right, here we go.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So the first one is point to your head.

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<v SPEAKER_00>All right, so this is believe.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You point here, then you come up, and then you come down.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That means believe.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Let's do it again.

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<v unknown>Boop.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Oh, perfect.

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<v SPEAKER_00>All right, so what that means is that what you are thinking about over and over again is what you're in your mind, is what your brain perceives as important.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So your brain grabs it and transfers it down into your subconscious.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And in your subconscious is where your entire belief system is held.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Your beliefs about your identity, who you are, who God is, who other people are.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so as we learn about taking our thoughts captive, we're gonna keep this in the back of our mind about what are we thinking about repeatedly, because that is what's gonna sink down deep into who we are in our subconscious.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So now I'm gonna take it to Philippians 1, verse 9 through 11.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And this is a prayer that Paul prays.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um, and I as I read, I want you to pay attention to these three words.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm gonna camp on these three words when I get done reading the prayer.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So the three words are knowledge, depth of insight, and discern.

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<v SPEAKER_00>All right, here we go.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And this is my prayer that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, so that you may be able to discern what is best and pure and blameless for the day of Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ to the glory and praise of God.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So I'm gonna give you definitions, then I'm gonna apply those um three words, and I'm gonna give you an example because everybody loves a good example.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It just brings it home the concept that's being learned.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So the first word was knowledge.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Knowledge is an awareness of truth.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so, in the context of learning um how to take our thoughts captive, it's an awareness of your own thoughts and emotions.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay, it's also an awareness, the knowledge of awareness of God's word, who he is, and his benefits towards you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>An application this would be to be aware of what you're thinking about.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Think about what you're thinking about.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's so easy to live your life and not give a second of thought to what's happening up here.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Maybe you have a schedule that has no margin and you're busy.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Like many of us, uh, moms with kids, I mean, they're constantly redirecting our attention.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So we have to be very deliberate and intentional about taking account of what's happening in our mind.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Paying attention to how your body feels physically and any emotional triggers that arise.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Also, it's uh intentionally filling your life with God's truth repeatedly.

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<v SPEAKER_00>There's that quantum Xeno effect.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We have to do it repeatedly.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Reading the word, listening to the word, singing the word, listening to sermons, listening to godly counsel, whatever you can do to get God's word in your life.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So I'm gonna give an example of knowledge and what this actually looks like in real life.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So this is it's the end of the day.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Imagine, it's the end of the day, you collapse onto your bed from exhaustion, you look at your phone, your to-do list is on it, and you see all the checks that are not there.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And all of a sudden, you just feel so down and defeated.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Having a knowledge of this moment, all of a sudden you become aware of this negative emotion of defeat and the lie that correlates with it that you're not good enough.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And you realize that's what you've been letting yourself think.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So you read Ephesians 2 10, which is a popular verse, for we are God's masterpiece, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And you think about it for a minute, and then you go to sleep.

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<v SPEAKER_00>All right, so now let's go to this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm gonna continue on with that same example in a minute, but now let's go on to depth of insight.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now I'm gonna say, you realize real quick when it's time to teach something that you don't really know it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh so I've been researching y'all.

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<v SPEAKER_00>What's the difference in wisdom and knowledge and understanding and depth of insight and discernment?

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<v SPEAKER_00>I mean, all of these are very similar, but they're different, and God uses them in different ways throughout His Word.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Depth of insight is the ability to see beyond what is on the surface.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Up here, what was this?

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<v SPEAKER_00>What remember this?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Believe what's up here?

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<v SPEAKER_00>In our conscious place, this is the surface level, okay?

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<v SPEAKER_00>But we're turning our attention down to what's happening in our subconscious, below the surface.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This is when we consider all of our awareness of our thoughts, emotions, uh, of what God's word says, and we're putting it all together and applying it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So God created our bodies and our minds with uh what's called discomfort zones.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I love this so much.

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<v SPEAKER_00>God has built into us the ability to take our thoughts captive, and this is what you got to do to start this process because I know it feels overwhelming.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Trust me, I understand.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But our bodies will alert us when we are thinking toxically.

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<v SPEAKER_00>For example, maybe you're having recurring headaches.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Maybe you're having a tense neck and back.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Maybe you uh it's hard for you to breathe.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Maybe you are just irritable.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I mean, like the kids aren't really being bad or that rambunctious, but the noise, even just a little bit of noise, makes you want to snap.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's another um that that would signal to you that there's something toxic going on in your mind.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It might be emotions that are out of control, sadness, depression, anxiety, worry, or just being on the edge about life wherever you go.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So having a depth of insight would be tapping into these discomfort zones, being self-reflective.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And that's what Caitlin showed with with the mind mapping that she demonstrated.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That is self-reflection.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's looking in, it's being honest with yourself, humble before God, and saying there's some issues here, and I'm not gonna ignore them anymore.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm not gonna suppress them anymore because listen, you've got to feel it to heal it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You hear me?

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<v SPEAKER_00>You have to feel it to heal it, and it actually you will spiral into even more toxicity if you ignore and suppress the problem.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So our depth of insight is allowing us to say, wait a minute, there's something going on deeper that I've got to pay deliberate attention to.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So, to our example, remember you just quoted that you are God's masterpiece scripture.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now, after a week of you being more aware of your thoughts and emotions, you recognize that this particular issue is just deeper than you realize at first.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You're starting to notice regular negative pattern that needs to be paid attention to, and you decide to open up before God about what this root may be.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's a big step right here, because as you open up, not only are you opening yourself up to change, but you're opening yourself up to pain, to where you're gonna have to start feeling some things that you probably don't want to feel.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But God is faithful and we're getting we're getting to that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>All right, so um you reread Ephesians 2 10 and consider how you really are God's masterpiece.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You ask yourself, but do I really believe this about myself?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Inside, you don't feel that you are his masterpiece.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You don't feel it, you don't feel it down here.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You want to, but you don't.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so that's where you're being honest with yourself before God.

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<v SPEAKER_00>All right, so our third word that I'm camping on is discern.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So let's go back and put it back into the prayer that he prayed.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, so that you will be able to discern what is best.

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<v SPEAKER_00>To discern is to test something, to examine it, to approve it, to allow it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Application would be to be careful about your thoughts.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And here's something a good lie is a lie that is mixed with truth.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay?

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<v SPEAKER_00>And discernment is what's gonna help you take that lie that looks so pretty on the outside, so believable, and pick it apart and dissect it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And you're deciding, am I going to allow this thought to stay or does it have to go?

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<v SPEAKER_00>So it's the thought, when you initially have it, it's knocking on the door of your mind, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>And then you use discernment to decide, am I gonna let this thought come in my mind and hang out, or am I gonna say, uh-uh, you're not coming in and hanging out with me.

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<v SPEAKER_00>In our example, here we go.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Your antennas are up concerning your thoughts about not feeling good.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You're examining every single thought as it comes into your mind, deciding whether it has permission to stay in your mind or not.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You decide you're gonna memorize Ephesians 2.10 because you know what?

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<v SPEAKER_00>You need it on standby for when uh you know any lies pop into your head that you've got to combat.

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<v SPEAKER_00>All right, now I'm gonna throw, I told you I was only gonna camp on three words, but I'm gonna give you a freebie.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I feel like I just can't not talk about wisdom.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So wisdom is actually the application of the first three, which was knowledge, depth of insight, and discernment with practical steps.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So knowing what to do and actually doing it on a consistent basis.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Y'all know this is hard.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This is harder.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It takes more investment, but oh, is it worth it?

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<v SPEAKER_00>So let's continue on with our example.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You continue to mess up, having faults and dwelling on them that you're not good enough.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You realize you exploded at your kids, you didn't mean to, you yelled at them, and you know, they messed the house up, and you're just aggravated because your house is never clean.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And can we relate?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Can you relate?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But each time you realize that you're dwelling on not being good enough, you repent to God for believing this lie about yourself.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I want to pause here.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Just because you have the temptation, the initial fault does not mean that you have sinned.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But if you dwell on that thought, it becomes a sin because it's against the word of God.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay?

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<v SPEAKER_00>So I don't want any, if you I did for years, oh my goodness, for years, I would have a negative thought, and then I would guilt myself and condemn myself.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And why would you think that?

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<v SPEAKER_00>You know God doesn't say that about you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I mean, just that in and of itself was its own toxic issue.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So remember that just because you're tempted, it does not mean that you are guilty.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You have not sinned.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But if you take that I'm not good enough thought and you dwell on it, and you dwell on it and you dwell on it, then that becomes sin.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I just wanted to clarify that because I don't want anybody leaving this uh, you know, message and thinking, I'm I feel so bad about myself.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Jesus did not come to condemn or to bring guilt, but to bring you freedom, to set you free, not just in the external, but mainly to set you free up here.

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<v SPEAKER_00>All right, so you are um you repent about the lie that you realize you keep thinking when you snapped on your kids.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And immediately, ooh, immediately, you feel courage.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You put your head up high and you take the next step forward, knowing that God is on your side.

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<v SPEAKER_00>After a few months, this is it like like Stacy said, this is this takes time, this process of taking our thoughts captive.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And we're only talking about one issue right here in the example.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And this is how long it takes to change an issue that's down here, deepen your subconscious.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It takes at least 21 days, at least 21 days of taking these rogue thoughts, specific thoughts captive.

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<v SPEAKER_00>After a few months of deliberately taking your thoughts captive and speaking God's word over your life concerning not feeling good enough, all of a sudden you become aware that you really do believe deep down that you are his masterpiece, and it becomes a full circle moment where you don't have to fake it till you make it, but you are.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And you feel more able to love yourself and others like Jesus does.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So let's look at Paul really quick.

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<v SPEAKER_00>How did Paul remain joyful while in prison?

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<v SPEAKER_00>How did he stay content in all circumstances?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Paul exercised knowledge, depth of insight, discernment, and wisdom as he deliberately made sure that his thoughts stayed in line with God's will and God's word.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So, really quick, I want to recap with you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This is the teacher in me.

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<v SPEAKER_00>All right, what was the belief sign?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Right here.

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<v SPEAKER_00>What we think about in our mind over and over, our brain sees it as important and recognizes it and causes it to be transferred down into our subconscious.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I heard a lyric the other day in a song that I love, and it said, I've heard it before, but let it go deeper, Lord.

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<v SPEAKER_00>A lot of these verses that we hear over and over again, we have heard them a lot.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Like uh, I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Rejoice in the Lord.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And again, I say, rejoice that God, that Jesus has uh created us to do good works and that he will complete them in us.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We've heard these scriptures, but here's the thing: a lot of times we'll take a scripture and we'll slap it on our cut like a band-aid.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Well, we don't really meditate on the scripture or really think about how to apply it and looking at it from all angles and squeezing out the juice like that verse, like an orange, getting the juice and the goodness out for it to pour over our life.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We don't do that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We just want to move on with life.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We want to ignore and suppress, but what if God wants to talk to you about the cut?

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so that's what I'm challenging you to do is to be honest and open with God about where you are.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We're not suppressing anymore, we're not ignoring anymore, we're submitting ourselves to the process of taking our thoughts captive.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I know that it sounds hard and it sounds exhausting, but research actually shows that toxic thinking requires more energy than healthy, self-regulated thinking.

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<v SPEAKER_00>As you repeat and reflect on God's word, each time his truth is sinking deeper and it's forming your true belief system, it's forming your identity, the true identity that you have in Christ.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And uh, and as a result of that sinking in deeper your identity, even your impulsive reactions will be ones that honor Christ.

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<v SPEAKER_00>What if somebody, something caught you off guard at, you know, dealing with your kids?

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'll just keep giving an example of kids because that's been my life for the past four months.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I mean, boy, kids everywhere, they're in every corner of the house.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But what if your impulsive reaction was patience and not snappiness?

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<v SPEAKER_00>You know, you can't manufacture that, you can't make that happen in your own strength.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That happens from a life, a mind that has been renewed.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So, what I'm gonna do really quick is I'm gonna rephrase Paul's prayer and I'm gonna kind of insert these definitions that I've shared with y'all tonight.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And this is my prayer that your love may abound more and more through awareness of God's thoughts and awareness of your own thoughts and the ability to see beyond the surface of life so that you may be able to allow only what is best in your thought life for the day of Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ, the glory and praise of God.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I hope that after listening to the message that you've grown in the knowledge of what it takes and what it looks like to take your thoughts captive.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Listen, I wouldn't ask my four-year-old to sweep and mop the house and clean all the bathrooms because I know that he can't do that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And God's not gonna ask you to take your thoughts captive if you can't do it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He knows you can do it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He created your mind to be able to step out away from your thoughts and judge whether your thoughts are right or wrong, in line with his word or not.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He created your body to have discomfort zones, to show you up red flag.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I need to pay attention to this moment, what I'm thinking about and what I'm choosing right now.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um, so I'm gonna end and I pray that you're I know that you're blessed by this teaching and by this prayer that I'm gonna pray over you right now, finishing us, finishing this out.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Thank you so much for your time.

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<v SPEAKER_00>If you could bow your head wherever you are, close your eyes, and just try to have a moment where you can really tune in and focus on this prayer over you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Dear God, I pray for every single woman listening to this message that their love would multiply their love for you, their love for themselves, and their love for others as they honestly come to terms with any difference that they see in their thought life versus what you say about them in your word.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Holy Spirit, I pray that you would reveal and identify any lies that they have believed as you lead them into truth.

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<v SPEAKER_00>No matter how hard the battle of the mind seems ahead of them, you have given them the identity of overcomer.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I trust that in their weakest moments, you will bring your words back to their remembrance.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Your words will provide clear boundaries and protective guardrails for their minds so that peace overflows in all areas of their life.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And we give you praise and glory in advance for being faithful to your word and accomplishing this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>In Jesus' name, amen.
