C&C Unscripted
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C&C Unscripted
5 Things Actually Worth the Money | C&C #03
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Welcome back to C&C Unscripted!
In Episode 3, we’re talking about 5 things we think are actually worth the money—the stuff you spend a little more on and don’t regret.
Of course, it wouldn’t be C&C Unscripted without getting sidetracked. We get into some hunting stories, plenty of laughs, and a few conversations that definitely weren’t on the original agenda.
Thanks for watching and hanging out with us. If you enjoy the episode, like, subscribe, and let us know what you think is actually worth spending money on.
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What are five things that you think are worth the money?
SPEAKER_03I totally thought you guys had your shit together this entire time. I s I really do like that we still got to have that.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, it all fits.
SPEAKER_03I think it looks good.
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SPEAKER_03You know, on the screen, it doesn't look that bad.
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SPEAKER_03It looks like a shadow.
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SPEAKER_03But if anybody notices this in their watching the video version of the podcast, I drilled the wrong holes to hang the fucking sign. So that's so sweet. Anyway, it turned out really good.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, it did.
SPEAKER_03That was a pain.
SPEAKER_00Never doing that again.
SPEAKER_03I will never.
SPEAKER_00Never.
SPEAKER_03But yeah. It did turn out great. It does.
SPEAKER_00Shout out to your Aunt Aaron.
SPEAKER_03Yep.
SPEAKER_00Pulling that off.
SPEAKER_03That's exactly what I sent her too.
SPEAKER_00Yeah. That's what I envisioned too. Like on the what is that stuff called?
SPEAKER_03It's plexiglass. Plexiglass. I thought I ordered smoky glass.
SPEAKER_00You could smoke you could.
SPEAKER_03Well, like, you know the rough texture of glass?
SPEAKER_00You can do that on the back of this one. To make it have a background.
SPEAKER_03On the first layer?
SPEAKER_00Yeah, on the first layer.
SPEAKER_03Oh, I get what you're saying.
SPEAKER_00On the back of the So the back one that you know what I'm saying? Like on this back piece?
SPEAKER_03Okay.
SPEAKER_00You would just fog the glass and then put it back together and it would have that like foggy effect.
SPEAKER_03Turned out good.
SPEAKER_00It did.
SPEAKER_03I like it. I've had a good lazy couple days.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03It's actually been really nice.
SPEAKER_00It's the first weekend in a long time.
SPEAKER_03That we haven't done anything.
SPEAKER_00That I have not had plans over the weekend. It's been a super busy summer.
SPEAKER_03Well we got a bit we gotta we got plans next weekend, so prepare yourself.
SPEAKER_00That's next weekend?
SPEAKER_03It's our anniversary.
SPEAKER_00I knew that.
SPEAKER_03I know you did that.
SPEAKER_00I did actually know that.
SPEAKER_03You did.
SPEAKER_00I just didn't realize it was that quick. It's next week. I guess it's literally the first weekend of August already.
SPEAKER_03Saturday. Saturday night.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03We're going out of town.
unknownYeah.
SPEAKER_03I'm excited. I don't have any plans, which is great, but it's just me and you.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03Maybe we'll even shoot a podcast.
SPEAKER_00We could.
SPEAKER_03Bring our stuff. Airbnb podcast.
SPEAKER_00That would be cool. That would be fun.
SPEAKER_03That would be fun. It wouldn't take much to load everything up.
SPEAKER_00No.
SPEAKER_03What are we gonna do that day before we actually go?
SPEAKER_00I don't know. We haven't really talked about it.
SPEAKER_03Well, let's talk about it.
SPEAKER_00I guess when you we're creeping up on almost ten years together. Six years married this year. We got married in 2020.
SPEAKER_03Like seven and a half, dude.
SPEAKER_00Well, we started dating November 2018. November of 2018. So almost eight years.
SPEAKER_03Yeah. You were hunting deer the first year.
SPEAKER_00Yes. I was out on the year.
SPEAKER_03Or like the first week we were talking, you were hunting.
SPEAKER_00I was, yeah, me and my dad.
SPEAKER_03You you didn't kill anything.
SPEAKER_00I did not. No. That was that that was the year that we stocked that big old frigate, those two bucks.
SPEAKER_03The one you told me.
SPEAKER_00We bedded them down and we stocked them for like 1,500 yards.
SPEAKER_03Let's get one this year.
SPEAKER_00Yeah. That was cool. That was a cool hunt. Even though I missed, but to my defense, my dad had me shooting that big red gun. I don't even know what caliber it is.
SPEAKER_03It's a 22,250.
SPEAKER_00It is so freaking heavy.
SPEAKER_03The gun itself is heavy. The caliber's great.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, the caliber is great. The gun itself, how how much does that weigh?
SPEAKER_03Uh I think he told me it was close to 12 pounds.
SPEAKER_00It's heavy. And we were trying to shoot it. I was trying to like like we got up on them and they stood up, and my dad was like, fucking shoot it.
SPEAKER_03It's huge.
SPEAKER_00So I just lifted that gun up and I was like, That's I missed.
SPEAKER_03I don't think there's gonna be any free hand shooting with that gun.
SPEAKER_00No.
SPEAKER_03But with that being said, if we can make time tomorrow.
SPEAKER_00Oh yeah, to go.
SPEAKER_03I would really like you to shoot the gun that you're gonna shoot for the hunt.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, it's open sights. It's definitely something Peepsight. Peepsight. Which is awesome. Yes.
SPEAKER_03Open sights.
SPEAKER_00Open sights.
SPEAKER_03Peepsight is just easy money.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03And no recoil on this gun. Suppressed.
SPEAKER_00Even better. This is like no earplugs, just This is the first tag I've had since that year, 2018.
SPEAKER_03Which is ridiculous because that's like easy. Yeah. That's like eight years without a deer tag.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03That was terrible. And that was your first deer tag?
SPEAKER_00No.
SPEAKER_03You had one before that.
SPEAKER_00I had I drew out my first year after Hunter Safety. My yeah. So I drew out that year. And and then I didn't draw out. I went with my dad when he drew out a couple years later. And we got one down that year. Me and him.
SPEAKER_03Oh, you did?
SPEAKER_00Uh-huh.
SPEAKER_03I didn't know that.
SPEAKER_00A little forky.
SPEAKER_03Oh, you got a little fork buttons.
SPEAKER_00Like my dad had thrown his back out when we were camping down.
SPEAKER_03So you're driving around.
SPEAKER_00So we were he was like, I'm shooting the first one we come across.
SPEAKER_02Okay.
unknownYeah.
SPEAKER_00So we laid deer down like 50 yards off the trail. We were literally like driving to go wal like hike. And we saw like a herd of deer. There was a little forky bucket.
SPEAKER_03Oh, that's a good buck for your first one. Yeah. Maisie killed.
SPEAKER_00I didn't shoot, my dad did.
SPEAKER_03Well, yeah. But I remember when Maisie got her first deer tag. And I was like, I'm going. I want to go. And we were up at the Taylor camp, which is over on the boulder side. Anyway. And we jumped some bucks. And buck fever set in like you wouldn't believe it. And it's me and my dad. Yeah, me and my dad are behind her. We got everybody with us. And there's a little two-point running up on the hill. And I'm like, right there. Like, there he is. And she racked one in it as she was running to go lay down and shoot because she needed some rest. She needed to rest. She racked one in it and shot the rock right in front of us. And my dad was like, oh my god. And I'm like, put it, just calm down. So I got like right behind her, and it was everybody behind us. And I laid her down on this rock, and I was like, he's still standing there. Just put it behind his shoulder. She freaking smoked him. But it was World War III before that.
SPEAKER_00It doesn't surprise me with your.
SPEAKER_03There was rock fragments flying. It was amazing. It was a good time.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03She called me today.
SPEAKER_00Maisie?
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_00She called you yesterday.
SPEAKER_03She called me today.
SPEAKER_00Again?
SPEAKER_03Uh yeah, remember when she asked me where the skunk was buried?
SPEAKER_00That was yesterday.
SPEAKER_03That was this morning when you were making pancake.
SPEAKER_00It was.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_00Apparently it's been a long day for me.
SPEAKER_03Well, it's been a day. It's been a good day, though.
SPEAKER_00No, it was fine.
SPEAKER_03We haven't done a lot. No. It was too hot to do anything outside.
SPEAKER_00Me and my mom sat outside for how long and watched the kids play in the board.
SPEAKER_03I couldn't do it. It's too hot.
SPEAKER_00It was it's freezing in this house. We couldn't sit in here.
SPEAKER_03It you know how hot it is outside?
SPEAKER_00Yeah, I'm aware.
SPEAKER_03Still, right now. It is freaking miserable.
SPEAKER_00It's still 60-something degrees, I think.
SPEAKER_03It's way hotter than 60-something degrees. It's not even it's 10 33. Anyway, Mace called me because Grandpa Sam has a skunk problem.
SPEAKER_01Yes.
SPEAKER_03They're getting in his chickens and stuff. So he tried to live trap 'em. And he live trapped a squirrel and left it in the cage because it died in there for skunk bait. But then he said asked Maze to call me to ask where all the bait was that I buried when I was a kid.
SPEAKER_00I can't believe that he remembered that.
SPEAKER_03Me either. He thought he buried a skunk. He did, but it was when I was 14, it had been like 10 or 15 years prior, and his dog was digging on this lid in the ground. And he was like, what the heck is that? So we dug it up, and it was a mayonnaise jar, like a gallon mayonnaise jar, a glass jar.
SPEAKER_00Oh, a glass jar. I was gonna say a plastic jar.
SPEAKER_03The lid had just barely rusted through, and the dog smelt it under the dirt and started digging a hole and then found it. So she was like scratching the lid. We dug it up, and he had been looking for it for years. He couldn't remember where he put it. And there was a black sludge in the bottom.
SPEAKER_00That is foul.
SPEAKER_03Oh, it was foul. He dropped an entire skunk in there, and you know, 10 or 15 years go by, it just turns into this black tar. Oh, you could smell it from Heather and my dad's. We would go, we would take that and go trap coons, me and my buddies.
SPEAKER_01Yeah.
SPEAKER_03And you would like dip a stick in this stuff. And the boys will remember this. And you'd set it back there on your set, and you'd, you know, get your trap ready and put some wax paper on it and put some dirt on it. We caught coons every day off that stuff. So then we started making our own. And I buried like four jars with birds and squirrels and who knows what. So when he, if he gets a metal detector and tells and goes where I told him to, he'll find some new bait.
SPEAKER_00That is disgusting.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, those were the days, man.
SPEAKER_00That is bizarre behavior.
SPEAKER_03That is, that is uh bizarre behavior. I feel like there's some old trapper in me. I don't know. We're well, it was it was awesome. We we were catching so many raccoons at one point that Wyatt Dutton was like, I want to go. And we're like, dude, this is you've never done anything like this. And we get up to this spot, and there was just sagebrush knocked down in like a five-foot circle, and in the side, hiding, was this raccoon, and I'm not kidding you, this thing was like 25-30 pounds. No, and it was hitting the end of the chain, and it was freaking and why it was like, You guys is crazy, and we shot him. Well, then that night we're like, oh dude, you gotta go call him in with a spotlight. It's like the funnest.
SPEAKER_00Do you actually do that?
SPEAKER_03Oh yeah. With Fox Pro.
SPEAKER_00I'm not sure I would like that.
SPEAKER_03It's pretty freaking scary because they don't stop, they just keep running that. So we got my dad's ranger, which is just a single seat, and it was me, Wyatt, and Kyle, and we set the Fox Pro out there, put it on raccoon fight, and in the dark, it is like frightening, and you're sitting in the pitch blackness, and when you start hearing something, you kick the spotlight on, and there's two of them just running right at us, and we had shotguns, and Wyatt jumped up on the seat like a little kid and crawled into the bed of the ranger and got on top of it.
SPEAKER_00That would be me.
SPEAKER_03Scared the shit out of him. He's like that.
SPEAKER_00Would be me. Like, how far away can I get from you people?
SPEAKER_03It was awesome.
SPEAKER_00We I did not do that growing up. I shot chiselers growing up.
SPEAKER_03We don't have those.
SPEAKER_00No, it's a bummer because it's good time.
SPEAKER_03It's I mean, it's like the worst thing ever. They're here, but they're fun to shoot.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, they're a nuisance for sure.
SPEAKER_03But it was fun, and if we didn't do that, then we hunted a lot of squirrels. Like Afton had a he had a Mazda car called the Silver Bullet, and it burnt oil like you wouldn't believe. Like when you started it, it just smoked the whole high school parking lot out. And we would go down past Turnabout and hunt squirrels after school, and we would cut their tails off and put them on the antenna to keep track of how many we had. And we it was gross, it was disgusting, but it was pretty sweet to look at, you know, for kids. And then we would pull into Jesse's driveway and his dogs would just go nuts because the antenna was covered in all these squirrel tails, so we decided to get rid of them.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, it's disgusting.
SPEAKER_03It was fun. Yeah, we should go shooting tomorrow. Got the itch.
SPEAKER_00Bought you that brand new targeting targing.
SPEAKER_03Target target that you got me for Christmas.
SPEAKER_00That we just barely got for the first time.
SPEAKER_03That I just opened and it's August. Well, yeah, we just we were shooting a lot there for a minute and then life got busy. Yeah, things got busy really fast, it seemed like. So we just haven't been shooting a lot. We need to get back out, get freshened up.
SPEAKER_00You I was actually shocked that when we went to Eubelake, Mari had her I don't even know.
SPEAKER_03Had her had her piece on her.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03Well, when you're traveling alone, especially when you're you women.
SPEAKER_00She's like, did you bring one? I was like, oh, of course. Cody would be so disappointed in me right now.
SPEAKER_03You would you know, it's better to have it and not need it and need it and not have it.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, for sure.
SPEAKER_03That's why I always push you to carry.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03And you're probably trained up more than most.
SPEAKER_00Yeah. Most women for well, I really even wouldn't say most women, but It really depends.
SPEAKER_03Really depends. I don't know. It's good to stay fresh anyway.
SPEAKER_00Oh, uh, yeah, absolutely.
SPEAKER_03I'm so used to carrying that it's it is like part of my everyday leave the house. Yeah.
SPEAKER_00I need to be better about it, but it's just like the last thing I think about some like when I leave for work. I think it's because I work so close to home. Because it it doesn't I'm only driving what 15 miles to work.
SPEAKER_03Um You can't control who comes in the office either.
SPEAKER_00No, we've had some we've had some situations in that office, which is concerning.
SPEAKER_03Yeah. Well, and like when you go to town by yourself or you go to town and you have the kids with you.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03I sure hope you just have that on you.
SPEAKER_00Yeah. I need to be better about it.
SPEAKER_03You do.
unknownYeah.
SPEAKER_00It's uncomfany.
SPEAKER_03That's why you gotta get used to it. It's I it would be hard for a girl too. It's just it's your outfits. Yeah. I wear a shirt and jeans or like pants every day.
SPEAKER_00Well, and my attire is definitely like very fitted everything. So to carry is uh is harder. Conceal carry is harder.
SPEAKER_03Yeah. But at least having your bag.
SPEAKER_00I just don't like it like loose in there, you know?
SPEAKER_03Well, do you I don't know.
SPEAKER_00It's weird.
SPEAKER_03That seems like you have carry bags, though.
SPEAKER_00I do. I owe.
SPEAKER_03Excuses, man.
SPEAKER_00We've we've and I've actually had a weird situation in Target that one time.
SPEAKER_03The guy falling ya?
SPEAKER_00Yeah. That was wild. I had never had anything like that happen to me before. It was bizarre.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, it doesn't even surprise me. Well, I mean like that. It doesn't even surprise me this day and age.
SPEAKER_00You were you were with me in Target, but you weren't. Yeah, you were in the store. You just weren't with me. We were divide and conquer.
SPEAKER_03Well, get in, get out, yeah, go home. I don't want to walk around there just for shits and giggles.
SPEAKER_00I do.
SPEAKER_03I don't. If I'm shopping for something, I already have my mind made up on what I'm getting and I just have to find it.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, well, that's why men and women are different.
SPEAKER_03Well, true.
SPEAKER_00I like to go in and browse.
SPEAKER_03I can browse in owls at all their guns for a hot minute.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03But that's just me going, okay.
SPEAKER_00I man, I could really use one of those or that actually kind of brings up the topic for me. I was gonna ask you, what are me and Mari did this, what are five things that you think are worth the money? So anything you have?
SPEAKER_03My firearms.
SPEAKER_00Okay, that's one.
SPEAKER_03Okay.
SPEAKER_00So guns.
SPEAKER_03Guns worth the money.
SPEAKER_00Okay. Um can be anything. Clothes, shoes, yeah.
SPEAKER_03Uh this is definitely gonna be really outdoorsy for me.
SPEAKER_00That's fine.
SPEAKER_03But like any hunting, hiking, gear.
SPEAKER_00Okay.
SPEAKER_03You definitely get your money's worth. Like when you buy nice stuff.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, yeah, for sure. It's gonna be like you can have it forever.
SPEAKER_03Well, you can Yeah, it might wear out.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03But it's worth the money.
SPEAKER_00Okay.
SPEAKER_03Um that goes to footwear.
SPEAKER_00Okay. Like a good pair of hiking boots.
SPEAKER_03Like my crispy boots.
SPEAKER_00Oh, yeah.
SPEAKER_03Those are like $500 boots. And I've had them for three. No, I've had them way longer than that. I had them when I worked with KP. Yeah. Before I was splicing.
SPEAKER_01Yeah.
SPEAKER_03They were super good on the maintenance crew because I was walking a lot every day. They're not my favorite boots to splice in because they're like moving boots. They're not fun to stand in.
SPEAKER_01Yeah.
SPEAKER_03They're they're good to walk in. 100% worth the money. They are the like, they're probably some of the best boots I own.
SPEAKER_01Okay.
SPEAKER_03So it's that three things. Yeah. I was what I do. Gear, guns, hiking boots. Hiking boots. Oh, what else is worth the money? Technology.
SPEAKER_00Okay.
SPEAKER_03Because I have tried buying, and this is years ago. Like the first action camera I bought was like an Amazon special, right?
SPEAKER_01Yeah.
SPEAKER_03You couldn't. It was terrible. Yeah, it was bad. So I have not skimped on really buying technology since then.
SPEAKER_01Yeah.
SPEAKER_03Like I buy DJI cameras or 360 cameras. They're freaking pricey, but they're so worth the money. Uh, I bought my first, like my first laptop that I wanted.
SPEAKER_01Yeah.
SPEAKER_03The MacBook. 100% worth the money. And everything just works with it. It's like the easiest thing to use.
SPEAKER_00Simple.
SPEAKER_03It's like using your phone.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03So technology is definitely something that you just don't skimp on. Okay. Um, one more thing.
SPEAKER_01Yeah.
SPEAKER_03Tools. And I'm bad at this.
unknownYeah. You are.
SPEAKER_03Fuck. I'm so terrible at this. I buy cheap tools, and I know if I just bought the good ones, I wouldn't have to replace it. I need to be better. Like, I bought I use what? Like Ryobi forever.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03And I have like three Ryobi batteries that I can't even charge because they just quit working. And you have to spend like the batteries like the most.
SPEAKER_01Yeah.
SPEAKER_03So I yeah. I'm gonna say tools, not even knowing from experience, other than I use name brand tools at work, and they work. And they've worked for years and they just continue to work. Like I have the same set of drills that I started with, and they're used when I got them. So those are five things that I would I think are worth the money. Yeah, absolutely. What about you? What are you five things? I feel like this is gonna be a lot of clothes and shit. Like a pile.
SPEAKER_00Okay, let's see. Five things worth money. Perfume. Perfume's a big one for me. I'm like a I love me. I love me some stink pretty.
SPEAKER_02Some stink pretty.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_02It's a Grandpa Sam quote.
SPEAKER_00And perfume. A good pair of boots. Like footwear. Well, yeah, like footwear for sure. And I have some like crappy shoes. Like cheap shoes for sure. But like my old gringos, my black old gringos. Worth every freaking penny.
SPEAKER_03And those are like $500 boots. $500 boots. Yeah.
SPEAKER_00They were pricey. But worth every penny. I would do it again. Yeah. I love them. So a good pair of like Western boots, because if you get a crappy pair of Western boots, your feet will hate you.
SPEAKER_03I know this personally. Yeah. And I have been talking about from experience. And I bought their Ariot boots.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, but Ariots, I have a pair of Ariots, and they hurt my feet so bad. I could not wear them. I used to wear rid of them.
SPEAKER_03I used to wear a lot of uh Ariot square toe boots. So when I bought these, it was around that time, and they are still, and I've had them forever. Before we even started dating. Like way before. But they're like my nice black pair of boots.
SPEAKER_00I had a pair of boots in high school. My dad bought me a pair of boots, riding boots. And I don't even know what brand they were. I think they're Justin's, if I'm being honest.
SPEAKER_03Bent rail?
SPEAKER_00My riding boots?
SPEAKER_03Justin Bent rails.
SPEAKER_00Sure. I don't know.
SPEAKER_03I think they are.
SPEAKER_00They I wanted them. This is such a girl thing. I wanted them because they had pink tops on them. And so my dad bought them for me for my birthday. And I think I was maybe 14, 15 years old. Like I was pretty young. Still have them. And they have been resold multiple times. And that's a great thing about Western boots or any kind of leather shoe that you can resold them.
SPEAKER_03If you take care of the leather, then they're good. Yeah. My I have a pair of square toe bent rails. And my mom got them for me when I was a sophomore.
SPEAKER_00Yeah. I think I was probably a sophomore.
SPEAKER_03I wore them to the rodeo two or three weeks ago.
SPEAKER_00Oh yeah. You still have see I still have mine too.
SPEAKER_03They have also been resold.
SPEAKER_00I think mine have been resold twice.
SPEAKER_03Who took those for me? Colby Clark.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, I rem I remember that.
SPEAKER_03She was like, I'm taking a bunch of Kell's boots to Richfield and my boots to get resold.
SPEAKER_00They never fit quite the same the first couple times you wear them. You're like, this feels weird.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_00But they get worn in, they're fine.
SPEAKER_03Leather bottom boots. Yeah. That's a woman.
SPEAKER_00Leather bottom boots. They gotta be leather bottom boots.
SPEAKER_03They uh I think if you buy bent rails, I only have had one pair, but they're just good.
SPEAKER_00They're just worth it. They're worth the money. Yeah. So boots, western boots, good pair of western boots. Um makeup, honestly. Makeup worth the money, absolutely. Because I'm a makeup girly. I wear a lot of makeup. Okay. That's three.
SPEAKER_03That was three. I think. What did you have? You had perfume.
SPEAKER_00Oh yeah. Boots. Makeup. A good spray tan.
SPEAKER_03Worth the money. You're white.
SPEAKER_00I am pasty. I don't hold the tan to save my life.
SPEAKER_01Yeah.
SPEAKER_00So a good spray tan. And my last one, I'd probably say a good pair of jeans. Like, spend the money on a good pair of jeans. I finally found the brand that fits me the best. And they're long enough because I got mile-long legs.
SPEAKER_02Kimes.
SPEAKER_00I freaking love my worth every penny. They're pricey. They're like $150 a pair.
SPEAKER_02It's freaking nuts.
SPEAKER_00It's insane how expensive jeans are. But I would spend that a hundred times over because I'm going to be able to do that.
SPEAKER_03It sounds crazy, but it's no different than like I do think camo is overpriced. But I bought like ridiculous. But I bought like nice that goes with my gear list. Like I bought nice hunting stuff last year. And holy shit, is it nice?
SPEAKER_00It's so funny because like men and women are actually very similar in the fact that all your camo has to match. You have to have the attire. You have to look good. You're no different than a woman. Like it's the same thing.
SPEAKER_03Well, what's funny is I was out there wearing on the cow hunt. I had uh I had my element pants. I'm wearing them right now. These are what I had on. I love these things. I only have one pair. And then my QU, like under.
SPEAKER_00Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. That you bought.
SPEAKER_03It's like layers, like you layer. So you have like your thin layer, base layer, sorry. Your like base layer light sweatshirt. I don't know what the hell it is. And then like a vest and then a coat. And it works so well. When it's cold out, it is like this is like the best layering system ever.
SPEAKER_01Yeah.
SPEAKER_03And then I'm out there wearing a hat from 1996. It was Grandpa Jack's. Because I'm like, I'm killing.
SPEAKER_00Cold balance.
SPEAKER_03I'm killing something wearing this freaking old trucker hat. Yeah. I did too.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, we did. That's the thing about hunting though, like up on the mountain, is you have to layer. It is so cold up there in the mornings, it's insanity.
SPEAKER_02Freezing.
SPEAKER_00It is freezing. This last year on the spike hunt, I about died. I was not prepared to be that cold.
SPEAKER_03I am. I I feel like I need to order more stovepipe.
SPEAKER_00I feel like that was a few more. For the stove.
SPEAKER_03Like the stove when it works, it works.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03But I also came across a reel that I really need to pay that I paid attention to and I saved it. Your stovepipe above your canvas tent is supposed to be 15 inches above the peak. Oh, we are like three feet below.
SPEAKER_00No wonder we get smoked out every year. It's not drafting. No, it's not drafting. It's not drafting at all. I remember on the spike cut, I was in the canvas tent, the wall tent, at 2 a.m. trying to stoke the fire as much as I possibly could to try my best to get. I was so cold. It was miserable.
SPEAKER_03It was very cold.
SPEAKER_00It was freezing.
SPEAKER_03Me and Travy were up there by ourselves after everybody left and went back to work because we took like most of the hunt off.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03And we saw a lot of elk. But we froze our asses.
SPEAKER_00Oh, it was so cold. It was so cold.
SPEAKER_03It was very cold. And it snowed again.
SPEAKER_00Like Yeah, it smelled that first morning. Or was that the first morning? That's probably why it was so warm. Because I was fine the first night.
SPEAKER_03The first time was fine.
SPEAKER_00Second night.
SPEAKER_03Oh, I but when we left, like the day before we left, I'm pr it snowed and was kind of raining, and it was like frozen to the tent.
SPEAKER_00Oh yeah. It was so cold.
SPEAKER_03Well, remember I got back home and I was like, I have to set this tent up and let it dry. Because it was just soaking wet. Yeah.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, that was that was a that was a miserable trip. But that's the thing, you'll always remember it. It's like the year I was there's been several years now, actually. That I will always remember.
SPEAKER_03Well, when you're suffering, do you you're not gonna remember when everything went really smooth.
SPEAKER_00What was that reel that I sent you? It was like level two fun or something like that.
SPEAKER_03So there's type one and type two fun.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03Type one fun, and I've watched I've it's that video you sent me.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03The type one fun is you get on a roller coaster, it's super fun, and then you just go on about your day. You know, oh yeah, that was a good time, whatever. And then type two fun is when you are in the shit. You are suffering, you're probably wet, you're cold, you could be, it could be really hot out, but you're doing something that is fun.
SPEAKER_00It's fun. The activity is fun and it's but you're kind of miserable. Oh, you're miserable.
SPEAKER_03And guess what? They are the best stories.
SPEAKER_00Best ones.
SPEAKER_03And you're always gonna remember that.
SPEAKER_00The the first one.
SPEAKER_03Type 2 fun. I that is me. Yeah, I'm I want to suffer a little bit.
SPEAKER_00Type 2 fun is memorable. I the first elk hunt that I ever had ever been on was the year I was sick. I had a cold. You did, and I was miserable, and that was the year that we helped Dan pack out his elk.
SPEAKER_03Squiggly Dan.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03And then he freaking shot it down in the shit.
SPEAKER_00And it was dark. It was pitch black. And we had came across what when we hiked up to him, we had seen or no, we coming back out. So we hiked in, and then on the way out, it was pitch black. And you were like looking down at the trail. I remember this plain as day, and he's like, pretty sure that's uh a bear track's over the top of our tracks coming in. I was like, What? Yep, I was panicked. I was panicked.
SPEAKER_03Valdez had a bear track that year. That year. Yeah, he had a so we actually went and sat on the gut pile from the elk that Dan killed.
SPEAKER_00Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_03And there were bear tracks everywhere. Everywhere. And we didn't see a single bear.
SPEAKER_00Oh.
SPEAKER_03That sucks. We went clear back down in there in that hole, and it is a hole.
SPEAKER_00Oh, it is a hole. We had a.
SPEAKER_03Can you stand at the rim of that and you're looking down in it?
SPEAKER_00You're like a giant pit in the ground.
SPEAKER_03It is. And it you can just hear like elk bugling.
SPEAKER_00Oh, yeah. It's it was it's unreal. That was the first year I'd ever been elk hunting. I had never I had never hunted elk before, so that was fun.
SPEAKER_03It was opening morning, I remember, and that was the first time he came with us.
SPEAKER_00And that was we weren't married yet, were we?
SPEAKER_03Uh nope, and Kell and Colby were still dating.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03And Dan It was warm that year.
SPEAKER_00I remember it being really warm.
SPEAKER_03Squiggly Dan was there, but he went somewhere else. We split up that first morning. He rolled into camp really late that night, and we got tuned in. But we woke up, four-wheelered into a spot, froze our asses off.
SPEAKER_00Oh, it was so cold. And that road was horrible. I remember sitting on the four-wheeler in in your coveralls and trying not to spill my coffee the entire ride.
SPEAKER_03It was rough.
SPEAKER_00And it was blueberry coffee. Do you remember that?
SPEAKER_03I remember buying that. Why? I don't know why I bought that.
SPEAKER_00It was good. It tastes like a blueberry muffin.
SPEAKER_03I liked it. It was like, yeah, it tastes like blueberry muffin.
SPEAKER_00It was good.
SPEAKER_03But I remember hearing elk.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03And we started cow calling, and we were in the aspens, and we're like, I was like, all right, we're like gonna walk right in on them. And you're like, okay, you know, whatever. And we go walking down the trail, and this bugle rips out, and it was like right there.
SPEAKER_00Close to us.
SPEAKER_03And we just peek through the trees into the flat, and there's like 60 head of elk moving.
SPEAKER_00Running. They were running. Yep.
SPEAKER_03And the bull was in the back. And then, oh man, I remember this. There was two spike in the very back. And they took off running. And they were they were on a dead run.
SPEAKER_00They were cooking.
SPEAKER_03And I yell, there's spike. And I rack one in and I'm trying to get ready. And Kel just starts flinging the lead.
SPEAKER_00I was like, talk about World War II.
SPEAKER_03Well, it freaking went down. And we were we were just unloading.
SPEAKER_00Oh yeah.
SPEAKER_03And then Kel turns around and he's like, I couldn't really see him. And I'm like, what?
unknownWhat?
SPEAKER_03You were shooting about. He's like, well, I could, I they were kind of back there and I could see him. I'm like, no, I was definitely shooting at the elk. Like, he's such a character.
SPEAKER_00The only one that year that I didn't have a tag. I was just I was a bystander.
SPEAKER_03We went we went over to that rim. And so Dan had two tags that year. He had drawn his cow tag and he'd bought a spike tag. So because that's exactly what I did last year. I had two tags. And he we heard his gunshot. You remember hearing the gunshot? And I was like, oh shit, something's happening. Well, Dan smoked a cow opening morning.
SPEAKER_01Yeah.
SPEAKER_03Dropped it in a flat. Open sight 3030 or something. Like he was old school in it. Smoked him a cow. And we went and cut that up and quartered it. And then the next day is when he got his spike. Is when he killed a spike.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03And we had actually got back to camp and were working on getting dinner done. We were doing Dutch oven taters and something, I can't remember. And he rolls up on his four-wheeler and it's pitch black. And I remember him walking over, and he's just like, Yeah, what do you guys cook? And he had his pack on. And I finally noticed that there was a freaking spike head on the back of his pack. Yeah. He packed like a front shoulder and the head out.
SPEAKER_01Yeah.
SPEAKER_03And I was like, oh my hell, we've got blood at camp again. And that's the next day when we went and hiked down in there, and you were sick as a dog.
SPEAKER_00Oh, I was sick as a dog that year. Then then the next year I went, I was pregnant with Clark. And I was no, I was I was pregnant with Tucker.
SPEAKER_03I didn't go until you went a couple years without going.
SPEAKER_00I went a couple years without going. And then then the year I was pregnant with Tucker. I was freshly pregnant with Tucker. And I was ill. I was ill.
SPEAKER_03We camped on the edge.
SPEAKER_00That was a horrible camp, too. I was camped there again. It was so windy.
SPEAKER_03And I think the last time we camped there, we were like it was Valdez's 21st birthday when we camped there, and it was so that it would have been August. Now, during the elk hunt, that is the windiest knoll.
SPEAKER_00It is it was so windy.
SPEAKER_03Ever. That's on White's Flat, right on right on the turn, and it is so windy right there. We never again.
SPEAKER_00No. I just remember we got I had hiked all morning long and we got back to camp and had lunch. And I think I laid down and had a nap because I was like, I am unwell.
SPEAKER_03Yep, you had a nap, and I think Dayson showed up.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03And we're like, hey, let's go. We wanted to go back out for the evening.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03And you were like, I'm like I'm going home. Yeah, I'm gonna go home. And I was like, oh, like you want to take off.
SPEAKER_00Yep, I left.
SPEAKER_03I am sick. And I was like, Yeah, absolutely. But yeah, I'll try to get a spike down.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, I was I was super sick with Tucker.
SPEAKER_03So I was Man, what good times. Yeah. That's why I'm so excited for this deer hunt.
SPEAKER_00It's uh just the fact that almost our entire friend group has a tag this year. There's five of us. Five of us, yeah. That is awesome.
SPEAKER_03So I'm excited. That'll be fun. I'm super excited about it. Yeah, that's why I really want to get you dialed in with that again.
SPEAKER_01Yeah.
SPEAKER_03If I had this mess around money, I'd get another lever action. But it's fine.
SPEAKER_00It is what it is.
SPEAKER_03We'll get you one and then I'll then I'll hunt.
SPEAKER_00Well, you know what? I bet honestly, I bet my dad has one.
SPEAKER_03Well, we're gonna have two. But I'm gonna give you the the suppressed gun. You can pack that, and if we can get you a buck down, then I'll just then I'll use it. But I can carry my own library action. Since we have to have iron sights on this hunt. Which is wild.
SPEAKER_00It is wild, actually. That'll be fun. That'll be a good experience.
SPEAKER_03I'm excited. I'm excited about it.
SPEAKER_00It's always a good time to do that.
SPEAKER_03I got a spike tag too. Which is not too long after the deer hunt's over. But I'll just weekend hunt or something. Burn over there.
SPEAKER_00We've used we have used all but like a couple packages of our elk meat.
SPEAKER_03There is hardly any left.
SPEAKER_00There's like nothing left. We've ate so much of it.
SPEAKER_03I have give I've gave away some elk meat.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03I gave some to the boys for helping me pack it out. I gave like a couple packages of sausage to your dad, nothing crazy. I've made jerky multiple times.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03We have used an entire cow in almost less than a year.
SPEAKER_00It's good.
SPEAKER_03And it filled up our entire deep freezer and it's almost gone.
SPEAKER_00It was so good.
SPEAKER_03There is nothing better.
SPEAKER_00It's one of my favorites.
SPEAKER_03Like I like a good beefsteak, but there's something about elk meat. It is just delicious.
SPEAKER_00I would prefer, like, if you gave me the option between venison and elk, I would 100% choose elk meat. Like I love venison, but elk meat, there's just something about it. It's so good.
SPEAKER_03I'll tell you what, probably a day I'm looking forward to is when the kids are old enough to keep up and they can go hunting.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03I want to do that.
SPEAKER_00Well, Clark keeps telling us that she wants to go fox hunting.
SPEAKER_03So it's so random.
SPEAKER_00Every day.
SPEAKER_03I was like, have you been watching Lady in the Tramp?
SPEAKER_00Or I she was like, Dad.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, Dad.
SPEAKER_00I was not impressed with that.
SPEAKER_03That's an actual movie, first off, and it's awesome. But it's so random. I want to go I want to go fox hunting.
SPEAKER_00I know. Okay.
SPEAKER_03Well, maybe we should go spotlighting one of these nights and we'll go fox hunting.
SPEAKER_00She's all about it.
SPEAKER_03It's a perfect time right now. All these cornfields. Yeah, she I bet there's foxes running rampant right now.
SPEAKER_00She loved when we were tr when you were trapping. Oh. She ate that up. It's she loved it.
SPEAKER_03We should do that again this winter.
SPEAKER_00She loved it, yeah.
SPEAKER_03I've got my trap number and everything. I would love to do it again. We got really busy this winter for or this last winter.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03I just skipped out. I just didn't do it. We weren't around a lot. So I just you have to you have to be there to check your traps.
SPEAKER_01Yeah.
SPEAKER_03It's every 48. Like you gotta be out there every 48 hours. And I didn't do I didn't trap anything the first year.
SPEAKER_01No.
SPEAKER_03We set a lot of traps. We did. We said a lot. I would love to do it again. It's fun. Yeah. I have all the stuff to do it. We just gotta figure it out. It gets us out of the house in some of the most depressing times of this wintertime.
SPEAKER_00Winter is so depressing.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_00I hate wintertime. Honestly, I'm just like a I'm a summer girl. I just I don't like any other season but summer.
SPEAKER_03I just wish it'd cool off a little bit, which I think next week it's actually supposed to cool off a little. But then I'll be down in Virginia.
SPEAKER_00When we took the kids, when I took the kids to the water park, oh my gosh, it was so hot. Like when we got there, it was miserably hot.
SPEAKER_01Yeah.
SPEAKER_00It was so hot. It's August. And the water, like even the water in the pool was warm. I was like, this is not refreshing whatsoever.
SPEAKER_03Not even fun.
SPEAKER_00It was fun. Like we had a good time, but it was just hot. It's really hot.
SPEAKER_03To me, it's hard to enjoy it when it you're just like miserably hot like that.
SPEAKER_00And like taking kids in the heat in your car is horrible. It is so hard. When I went, I ran into town to run errands Thursday. Thursday, last Thursday. Or whatever. It was I was down there almost all day long. And getting those kids in and out of the car 10 million times in the heat when it's like 102 degrees and your car can't keep up with the temperature, it's hot, your Clark's in the backseat. Mom, I'm sweating. Like I I have the air on full blasting. Full blast. It is what it is. I can't, I can't fix it.
SPEAKER_03Full blast, and the the AC can't even keep up.
SPEAKER_00Keep up.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, and they say it's gonna cool down next week. That'll be like 96.
SPEAKER_00I think I think the temperatures here are like in the eight like 86, 85.
SPEAKER_03C to me is still hot.
SPEAKER_00Oh, that's like perfect. 88 is like prime weather for me.
SPEAKER_03Oh, weather.
SPEAKER_00I love it. I'm just I'm cold. I'm a cold-blooded person. I'm just freezing constantly.
SPEAKER_03You're like a lizard.
SPEAKER_00I know. I've I just want to lay in the sun.
SPEAKER_03And then but you fry.
SPEAKER_00I fry. I f I'm peeling currently because I sat in the sun for seven hours.
SPEAKER_03And that was two weeks ago.
SPEAKER_00That was two weeks ago.
SPEAKER_03Still peeling.
SPEAKER_00Oh, it's so bad.
SPEAKER_03I still burn, but not like you.
SPEAKER_00You tan, which is you do burn, but like it turns to tan. Tucker's the same way. Tucker has your skin for sure. Like he has a little tan line on his neck. My mom even said today, she's like, I can't believe how tan he is. Like, I know. I he did not get my skin.
SPEAKER_03No.
SPEAKER_00Clark is a hundred percent her mother.
SPEAKER_03Yes. She has the freckles.
SPEAKER_00She has the red hair, the pasty white skin, the freckles.
SPEAKER_03Pasty white too.
SPEAKER_00Oh, she like she's iridescent. Like she see-through. She's so white.
SPEAKER_03What is that? She's translucent.
SPEAKER_00Translucent. Yeah.
SPEAKER_03That's exactly what she is.
SPEAKER_00Yeah. Us redheads. She's. It's crazy. Like I act like I read a lot of stuff about redheads. And we we're quite the breed of person. Red hair and blue eyes is the most rare combination. Which me and Clark both have red hair and blue eyes. And we absorb sunlight, like vitamin D. Like we absorb more than the average person. And what else? Our hair doesn't go gray.
SPEAKER_02It doesn't go gray.
SPEAKER_00Like we gray, but it's like we don't necessarily go gray.
SPEAKER_02I didn't know that. Wild.
SPEAKER_00It's wild. So like redheads great, they eventually do gray. Like I I've seen like when like older women, like when I was in hair school, this little this cute little lady used to come and get her hair done every week. And she always talked to me because I have red hair. And she was like, You'll never believe that I had your color of hair when I was young. And her hair was like gray hair dreams. Like I hope that I gray like that. She it was just like pure white. It was crazy.
SPEAKER_03I think I'm gonna have white hair. I have a white spot on my head already.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, in your beard too.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, I do have some white hairs in my beard.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03Or when my beard grows out, but like my mustache.
SPEAKER_00But even your grandpa, who was redhead and had red facial hair, he didn't his headhair was not grey. It was red.
SPEAKER_03His facial hair was definitely gray.
SPEAKER_00Because yeah, his facial hair definitely was had a lot of grey in it. Like his headhair was still just as red as ever. Which was crazy. Because how old was he when he died? Um he had to have been what in like his 70s?
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_03Oh yeah.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, but that was that was rough time.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, that was rough. Let's not talk about that.
SPEAKER_03You brought that up. Sorry. I was just using him as an example. No, it's fine. I I mentioned him earlier too. Yeah.
SPEAKER_00Red hair. Red hair is crazy.
SPEAKER_03Head's definitely graying now.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, but he's older too, though.
SPEAKER_03He has a full head. He's 80.
SPEAKER_00Yeah. Your dad is quite gray.
SPEAKER_03He is. Well, Eric is really gray too.
SPEAKER_00Oh, I haven't really seen Eric much.
SPEAKER_03He's pretty, he's pretty gray. Definitely in his beard, too. It's pretty gray.
SPEAKER_00My dad's facial hair has gone quite gray. And he has to be.
SPEAKER_03It's just, I think it's just I mean it's gonna happen no matter what.
SPEAKER_00Well, yeah. My my dad has red facial hair like you do, though.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_00And brown head hair. Did you know that's a that is a um gene something? Something.
SPEAKER_03A gene?
SPEAKER_00Well, like the combination, like when you have brown hair and red facial hair, it's a gene mutation.
SPEAKER_03I had no idea. Yeah. I could be wrong. I always thought that was a little weird that my facial hair different colors is different than my headhair.
SPEAKER_00Yeah. I'll be curious to see how Tucker what he does, because his headhair is quite red. It yeah, it's pretty it's brown, but like it's quite red.
SPEAKER_03It yeah, it is.
SPEAKER_00It's like a dark auburn color. It's just kind of crazy how genius is.
SPEAKER_03He like shines in the sun.
SPEAKER_00It's very red in the sunshine. Yeah. People if people see him, they're like, oh my gosh, you have two little redheads. I'm like, yeah. I really wouldn't classify Tucker as a redhead, but it's quite red in the sunshine.
SPEAKER_03Yeah. If he's out in the sun, you definitely are like, oh, there's some red in there.
SPEAKER_00Oh yeah. And then you see Clark and you're like, ooh, that is fiery red hair. And her attitude matches.
SPEAKER_03Oh my gosh.
SPEAKER_00I love her.
SPEAKER_03Well, it keeps us on our toes, I guess.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03She's very sassy.
SPEAKER_00Oh.
SPEAKER_03She doesn't really like me.
SPEAKER_00She's she's a mama's girl. Both our kids are mama's mama kids.
SPEAKER_03They are. Tucker likes me more.
SPEAKER_00He does definitely gravitate to me, but he will go to you. Yeah. And is fine. Clark.
SPEAKER_03If you're around, Clark is like, nope, I don't want you.
SPEAKER_00Nothing to do with you.
SPEAKER_03If if it is just us, if it's just me and the kids, like when you were gone.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03They were like a dream. It was insane. I was like, this is the best ever.
SPEAKER_00Isn't it crazy?
SPEAKER_03Bed early. Yeah. Hey, I'm gonna cook breakfast. We're having this. Okay. We're gonna have lunch, we're having this. It was like there was no, I'm not doing that.
SPEAKER_00There is nothing that makes me more mad when we pick our kids up from someone, or like I come home from being gone, and you're like, the kids were so great. No attitude, and I come home and it just turns into pure chaos.
SPEAKER_03I saw a thing that was kind of explaining that. Like if your kids are really good for other people.
SPEAKER_00Which is great.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, no, that's great. I I love that. But like even picking them up from like their grandparents, and they're like, they were awesome. They were great the entire time. I've heard that that's like a if they're good for someone else and they're not always the best to you, you're doing a good job.
SPEAKER_00Yeah. Well, though they're gonna I don't know if that's true.
SPEAKER_03I don't know if that's true, but I don't know what I'm doing. We are just running through this thing trying to raise kids.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03Which is what else are you supposed to do?
SPEAKER_00You just have to do your best. And I have to remind myself of that of my own parents too. It's like they just did their best at the time, like, and we're doing our best at the time.
SPEAKER_03I thought my parents, like I look back to when my parents were our age or even younger and had kids. And I look back and I'm like, man, I totally thought you guys had your shit together this entire time. And they're like talking to my mom about it. She was like, Oh no, we were struggling. And I was like, I wouldn't I couldn't have told you that you were. I thought we were having the best child's great time. Yeah.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03Riding a bike, I was eating, like it was fun.
SPEAKER_00You were living your best life.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, I thought they just had it together, and little did I know, they were just like anyone.
SPEAKER_00Every other person.
SPEAKER_03They were just figuring out, figuring it out as they went, and it was awesome.
SPEAKER_00I think that kind of goes to show how good of an act you can put on even when you're struggling.
SPEAKER_03Oh, an act? Yeah. Yeah. You put that mask on and Well, it's you know, it's kind of it's a little bit stupid on how when someone asks how you're doing, I think it's stupid how easy it's is to say, like, oh yeah, I'm fine. Everything's good. Oh, how are you? Oh, I'm great. When really you're like, nah, I'm not fine at all. But we've normalized just, oh, I'm good, how are you? Because guess what? Nobody wants to hear your shit. And I don't want to make it a burden on anybody, so I don't talk about it. So, oh I'm fine, everything's good. I'm doing great.
SPEAKER_01Yeah.
SPEAKER_03I could I could be having the worst day of my life, and if I run into somebody and they're like, oh, how are you? How are things going? Good. Everything's good on my end. It it could be the worst day of my life.
SPEAKER_00Isn't that such like toxic behavior?
SPEAKER_03It's terrible. Why do we why why do we do that? Why does that have to be a thing? If someone came up to me in the grocery store and they're like, Oh, hey, it's good to see you, how are you doing? And I was like, you know, I'm doing pretty shitty today. Then they would be they wouldn't even know what to do.
SPEAKER_00No, it would be such a step back. Like it would be like such a I don't know what to do with my hand situation. It would be panic. Like, what do I even say?
SPEAKER_03So we've normalized, I think, as a just a society that, oh, we're fine, everything's good.
SPEAKER_00Everything's fine.
SPEAKER_03Nobody talks about it.
SPEAKER_00No.
SPEAKER_03If we talk about troubles, it's probably me and you, or you, you know, me and you talking. Me and the boys at work, we talk about our troubles. Yeah, but those are. You and your sister talk about your troubles, like, yeah, that's normal, but just running into so-and-so, it's like, oh yeah, I'm doing great, everything's fine. Nah.
SPEAKER_00That's such surface stuff. Yeah.
SPEAKER_03Which I'm not saying I'm just gonna start burdening people with.
SPEAKER_00No. Well, I you know, I don't want to spell my I don't want to have word vomit to just any random person. Like, that's so weird.
SPEAKER_03But we have, I feel like everyone's just normalized the we're fine, I'm fine.
SPEAKER_00Oh yeah. Oh, for sure.
SPEAKER_03Nobody has the nobody has those talks.
SPEAKER_00I put on such a good face, like at work and stuff like that. I'm like, yeah, I'm I'm great, everything's great.
SPEAKER_03Everything's good.
SPEAKER_00I'm trying to make light of you know the situation that I'm in, but I get home and I'm just like, I'm so mentally exhausted, I can hardly even get through the day. It's like I was talking to my mom today and about, you know, like there's just like I feel like I'm running thin in all aspects of life, and she's like, honestly, she's like, I don't know how you do it. I don't know how you are raising two kids by yourself during the week and then working and working a full-time job. She's like, when I was raising you kids, she's like, I didn't work until you were all in school full-time. And I think I I think I was in the third grade when my mom went back to work. And she's like, even even then it was hard, but you were at school all day, so it made it a little easier. But she's like, I couldn't have done it. I couldn't have done it.
SPEAKER_03Like, I you don't really have an option though.
SPEAKER_00I don't have another option that that the life I live currently is keeping us afloat. Like we talk about it all the time when we see people that we know, and we're and like the wife stays home with the kids and the husband's working, and you're like, how are you doing that?
SPEAKER_03It's not even it's not even everyone.
SPEAKER_00Not everybody, but there's no.
SPEAKER_03Like, because I know some people's situation, and I'm like, well, that's how they're making it. It's the ones that just built a house and the wife stays home and they've got three or four kids, and uh the dad works a regular job and like a nine to five job, and I'm like, did they win the lottery or something?
SPEAKER_00How does that even work?
SPEAKER_03I feel like there's a lot of that around here.
SPEAKER_00Oh, yeah, in our area, and I'm I I just have all these questions.
SPEAKER_03I'm like, how are you possibly staying afloat?
SPEAKER_00Yeah. Like it's everywhere here. But like, yeah, stay-at-home mom, and they've got a couple kids, and they drive nice vehicles, and I'm like those are the ones that get me. I'm like, how are you?
SPEAKER_03I'm like, that's a nice car.
SPEAKER_00How are you doing it?
SPEAKER_03That's a nice mom car. What does your husband do for work?
SPEAKER_00Seriously, like our cars, all of our cars are paid off. We don't have car payments. No, which is crazy.
SPEAKER_03It's nice though. It's so nice. Yeah. And the only We also we have like a really nice truck.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, we too.
SPEAKER_03And then we have two 200,000 plus mile Toyotas.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, but I love my FJ. Like my dream car.
SPEAKER_03Your FJ's freaking sweet.
SPEAKER_00It's so badass. I love it.
SPEAKER_03I like my my Tacoma.
SPEAKER_00I love the Tacoma. Like it's so smooth. It's our mountain rig, man.
SPEAKER_03It's a trooper. I would get in that Tacoma right now and drive to Canada.
SPEAKER_00It's super smooth.
SPEAKER_03It would be just a breeze.
SPEAKER_00It's comfortable, it's smooth, it's great.
SPEAKER_03A little bit of maintenance. Yeah. A little bit of there's little twerks here and there that or twerks, what's tweet?
SPEAKER_00I don't know.
SPEAKER_03There's little things here and there that need to be fixed sometimes, but that's any kind of vehicle. Well, you've got 225,000 on your Toyota?
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03I'm at 249.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03Still going.
SPEAKER_00It's going strong.
SPEAKER_03Still starts up every day. Every day.
SPEAKER_00I drive it every day. Yeah. And it like, it was so funny when we went to Yuba. I was obviously in the FJ, and Mari was in her Honda, her car, and she was like, because we had to drive down to the water.
unknownYeah.
SPEAKER_00And well, we our original plan was just to like, because I took the wagon and she's like, we'll just load everything in the wagon that we can just walk down from our cabin. And I was like, yeah, that works. And we get there, and I was like, look that. We're gonna drive the FJ down there. I am not walking clear down there. Well, when you sent me pictures and there was like cars parked on the beach, I'm like, We me and Mari Bull sat there all day and Pete, the amount of cars, like little cars, driving down there. I was just blown away. I'm like, who would bring their car down here? One, you're gonna get stuck in the sand. Because it was the like it was like Lake Pal Sandy. It was sandy sandy. And I was like, thank goodness I have the FJ. Yeah. Like this is what this vehicle was made for.
SPEAKER_03Oh no, it's you you would have been fine. Oh yeah.
SPEAKER_00Like we, I it was a breeze getting through there in the FJ. But she's like, I'm so glad you have the FJ. I'm like, me too.
SPEAKER_03Well, you're not taking her Civic down there.
SPEAKER_00Heck no! There was no front wheel drive, two-dollar car. It's so low to the ground.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_00That car. Oh my gosh. So I mean it's a little car.
SPEAKER_03Well, it's a perfect car for her in the city.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03But I don't know. You do you also got your your dream ride right now.
SPEAKER_00Dream car.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_00I love that car.
SPEAKER_03Such a random dream car.
unknownI know.
SPEAKER_03It's sweet though.
SPEAKER_00I had wanted an FJ since I was a teenager. And then when you sent me that picture, oh, I was like, sold. Send the deposit.
SPEAKER_03Yeah. Bought it that night.
SPEAKER_00We literally picked it up that night.
SPEAKER_03Yeah. Yep. And didn't even it was dark when we picked it up.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03In the dealership parking lot, and we had put that deposit down. Over the phone.
SPEAKER_00Mm-hmm.
SPEAKER_03And I was like, well, I hope everything looks good in the daylight because we're taking it home.
SPEAKER_00Literally bought it at sight on scene.
SPEAKER_03Yep. It looked good. It still looks good.
SPEAKER_00It looks good. It runs good. It's been great.
SPEAKER_03No wrecks. Brand new paint job. Toyotas have they fade. The paint fades. Heather has a nice Toyota Highlander.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03Faded paint. And it is not very old. It's like a 2019 or a 2019.
SPEAKER_00Well, mine was originally that light silver color. And they did a paint job on it, and it's that matte cement. Cement gray. Looks so sweet. People are always so shocked. They're like, what year is that? And I tell them it's an 07. They're like, no way.
SPEAKER_03Well, there's only there's only seven years of FJ Cruiser of that model, that style. And it's from 07 to 14.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03And there's not very many color options.
SPEAKER_00No. I love the green one.
SPEAKER_03The green one? So that's a later model. That's probably closer to 2014.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03They had a ton of silver. They got like a cream color, blue, yellow.
SPEAKER_01Yeah.
SPEAKER_03Purple. The matte green.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03They have that. That blue one's like a gray blue color.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, the new, the newer.
SPEAKER_03It's like a it's a that's a newer model FJ that's like a 14. I mean, Toyota Pro. I they probably have released a new one, but guess what?
SPEAKER_00We aren't buying a new car so I do not want a car payment. It's actually the worst.
SPEAKER_03It's the worst.
SPEAKER_00I was just telling April about me getting stuck on Bear Valley and my Kia. She was dying.
SPEAKER_03Preston Scott save a bit.
SPEAKER_00Yes, I will never forget that moment ever in my whole life.
SPEAKER_03Well, and like where you got stuck in the snow. I got I know where there's phone service on Bear Valley.
SPEAKER_00I didn't have phone service.
SPEAKER_03And Preston must have barely had phone service because he actually Snapchatted me and he was behind you. And he's like, is this Chelsea? Because you had the only yellow key that you would have ever seen. And you were pushing snow.
SPEAKER_00Oh, I was pushing snow at the front of my car.
SPEAKER_03And I was like, dude, if you get my Snapchat, just pick her up and bring her to Esquanet. There's no way she's making it here.
SPEAKER_00I remember like He rolled in. Yep. I well the whole time this I was like, I was doing fine. I was almost to the top of Bear Valley. And I was like, I kind of lost my momentum and it was snowing so hard. And I came to an abrupt stop. And I was not going anywhere. No cell service. Couldn't get off the road. I was like a sitting duck in the middle of the road. It was horrible. Anyway, but this red dodge behind me. I was like, who the hell is behind me? Because everybody else is like screaming past me.
SPEAKER_03Everybody's keeping their momentum going.
SPEAKER_00And so I was like, who is this guy behind me in this truck? Like he was actually kind of making me nervous. And finally, I had sat there, I don't know, five minutes, and all of a sudden he comes to the passenger side and rolls the window down. I'm like, oh my gosh, I know you. It was like, oh, it was it was a scary moment in my life. Yeah. He was like, we're just gonna load your stuff and you're gonna get in with me. Yeah. Okay.
SPEAKER_03Thank you, Preston.
SPEAKER_00Thank you, Preston. That wasn't the only time I got stuck somewhere in that car coming back from Escalant. I got stuck in Penguinch that morning, remember?
SPEAKER_03Stuck in Penguitch.
SPEAKER_00Yeah. I was it was when I was driving back and forth still.
SPEAKER_03Oh.
SPEAKER_00And I was early. I you I had to leave Escalant by four.
SPEAKER_03Mm-hmm. And yeah, living in Escalant. And working in Burl.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03That was a tough little while.
SPEAKER_00Tough little while.
SPEAKER_03See, there's always seems to be these tough times.
SPEAKER_00Well, that was before I moved there. Because I wasn't living in Escalant yet. It was that spring that I moved there.
SPEAKER_01Yeah.
SPEAKER_00So I had got stuck early in the morning. I'd made it to Penguich and they shut the road down. They shut uh I don't know what is what road is that.
SPEAKER_03So it when you turn in Penguich, you go on 89.
SPEAKER_0089. I got they had closed it down. And so I'm literally sitting in Penguitch at I don't know, it was maybe five in the morning. And I was like, well, crap.
SPEAKER_03Well, I'm just gonna have to say it here in an hour.
SPEAKER_00Um, I'm kind of currently stuck in Penguitch because the road's shut down. I'll try and get there as soon as I can. And so I had to sit in Penguich for like an hour and a half. And they did finally open it up and it was fine, but wild.
SPEAKER_03Wild. What a hell of a commune.
SPEAKER_00The things I would do for you.
SPEAKER_03Thanks, baby.
SPEAKER_00You're welcome.
SPEAKER_03Thanks for sticking around.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03What was your favorite part of today?
SPEAKER_00Oh, I slept in till 9 a.m.
SPEAKER_03Me too.
SPEAKER_00That was crazy.
SPEAKER_03That was so nice.
SPEAKER_00Clark did come in the room a couple of times too.
SPEAKER_03She did, but she c she kind of let us sleep in. I feel like she did alright.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, she did pretty good.
SPEAKER_03I heard her come in this morning.
SPEAKER_00She came in at like 7 45 and woke me up and asked me if she could have something. And I Oh, she wanted me to open something.
SPEAKER_03Oh, she haven't.
SPEAKER_00I don't know. I don't remember. I think I no, I'm pretty sure it was a juice box.
SPEAKER_03Oh.
SPEAKER_00And she needed help opening it. So that was at like 7.45, and then she came in around it was like an hour later. She came in and was asking me questions, and she'd lean down in my face and say, Mom, I really would like you to wake up now.
SPEAKER_03She was ready.
SPEAKER_00She was ready for some company, apparently.
SPEAKER_03I need you guys to get out of bed.
SPEAKER_00Yeah. I just can't wait till Tucker is that age. Because they have so much independence at this age. It's like she gets up, she roams around, gets herself a snack, watches TV. Like she's just in this little independent stage.
SPEAKER_03I think that's so nice. I also think that when Tucker is in a bed, yeah. Clark, because Clark wakes up and she wants Tucker to be awake.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, she goes in his room.
SPEAKER_03Yeah. But it she also can't get him out of the crib.
SPEAKER_00No, she can't get him out of the crib.
SPEAKER_03So I feel like if they were both free, they might maybe they would leave us alone on a weekend.
SPEAKER_00This little tiny piece of me almost wants to put him in the same room. But then again, I'm like, I really like the way Tucker sleeps. Tucker's such a good sleeper compared to Clark was.
SPEAKER_03Is still. He sleeps in the complete darkness. And I know you're gonna argue me. You're gonna argue.
SPEAKER_00Pick your battles, Bit. Pick your battles. I'm not I'm just this is a battle I will this is a hill I will die on.
SPEAKER_03I'm throwing this out here. If she slept without the TV on.
SPEAKER_00That's why we have a timer set on it. It turns off. Her TV turns off.
SPEAKER_03Well, we gotta set the timer.
SPEAKER_00I set the timer.
SPEAKER_03Did you do it tonight?
SPEAKER_00No, I forgot. But we can go in and do that.
SPEAKER_03I'll I'll shut it off. I can do it from my phone.
SPEAKER_00Great.
SPEAKER_03But she slept the entire time you were gone. All night long. The thing I'm talking 8 to 8:30 in the morning.
SPEAKER_00Okay, let me explain something really quick about when you for me, kids are kids are, especially our kids, are way different with you than they are with me.
SPEAKER_03Very much.
SPEAKER_00Very much different. Different personalities. So when it's just me at home, and I still have to get up at 5 a.m. every day, I'm going to prioritize my sleep just as much as I want them to sleep. But I'm not gonna fight with her. Like I have to pick my battles.
SPEAKER_01Yeah.
SPEAKER_00So like when it's just you and you're like, at this point, I really don't care. If you'll just go in your room, that would be fantastic. So I can so I can tub and get in bed. So for me, it's easier to just let her watch the show. Let her watch the show so I can go to bed. That's where I'm at. But yeah, you when you have them, they're completely different kids.
SPEAKER_03Well, yeah, they are. They act completely different. They're not they ask where mom is, but they aren't like you know how like you left today just to go to the store.
SPEAKER_00Oh yeah, we snuck out.
SPEAKER_03Literally tears flying as soon as you left. Bawling that you had left. And I'm like, What's the point? Why are you crying? You know?
SPEAKER_00Because they want mama. Well, I know they do, but at this age, they just want mom.
SPEAKER_03They do.
SPEAKER_00They do. It's just natural, and as they get older, it will be less and it won't be a big of a deal. But right now, they just want me. Yeah. And that's fine. And and I love it. But also I'm like, can you please go to somebody else? Like you get to a point you're like, please don't touch me.
SPEAKER_03Stop hanging on me.
SPEAKER_00Stop hanging on me. I'm I'm like, I'm tapped out.
SPEAKER_03Well, I think it you're not the only one that deals with that.
SPEAKER_00No.
SPEAKER_03There's a lot of people out there that have kids hanging on.
SPEAKER_00It's just natural. It's just they just want mom.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_00And that's okay. If you get older, it'll get better.
SPEAKER_03That's not a bad thing.
SPEAKER_00No, it's not forever. And you gotta enjoy the moments.
SPEAKER_03Not a bad thing at all.
SPEAKER_00No.
SPEAKER_03Well, sweet.
SPEAKER_00What was your I you didn't say what your favorite part of the day was? Oh. Was it sleeping until nine?
SPEAKER_03Well, no, that was pretty nice. I think my favorite part of today was making French fries.
SPEAKER_00Those were dang good French fries. They were. I will give you that. You guys killed it on the French fries.
SPEAKER_03We don't ever do that. We it was delicious.
SPEAKER_00It was.
SPEAKER_03It was fun.
SPEAKER_00It was. It was good dinner. We had a wet. Making homemade French fries? For sure.
SPEAKER_03Soaking them for getting the starch off them. Putting them in the fridge for two plus hours.
SPEAKER_00Mm-hmm.
SPEAKER_03So the water's cold. And then I don't know. They were amazing.
SPEAKER_00They were great. They were crispy.
SPEAKER_03We had steak, French fries, and seven layer salad. Seven layer salad, which has got everything but the kitchen sink in it. And it was freaking delicious.
SPEAKER_00Fire. It's one of my favorite salads.
SPEAKER_03That was my favorite part of the day.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03I'm gonna yeah, two of them. Sleeping in was great. Making French fries with dinner. Dinner was just delicious.
SPEAKER_00We always have really good dinners on the weekends though, because my mom and Meb are always here.
SPEAKER_03We usually have company.
SPEAKER_00We always have company on the weekends, which I enjoy. I love seeing my mom and hanging out with her.
SPEAKER_03She was having some people over is always kind of nice.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03But well, sweet, that was a good talk.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, that's great.
SPEAKER_03I'm tired. Me too. Ready for bed? It's eleven thirty. It's eleven thirty at night. We've been in here forever.
SPEAKER_00We can't film unless our kids are asleep.
SPEAKER_03Well, I know. We can't record anything.
SPEAKER_00I know.
SPEAKER_03Well, sweet. Let's wrap it up.
SPEAKER_00Yep.
SPEAKER_03Okay. I love you.
SPEAKER_00Love you bye.