I Meant To Do That - AUDIO BOOK
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18 - BUSTING BARRIERS 1-1
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Three feet from gold. It was the height of the Colorado Gold Rush. A prospector and his nephew, who had been entrenched in the fever, became convinced they had discovered something special. After weeks of searching, they struck gold ore and immediately began dreaming about what might lie beneath the surface. They borrowed money, purchased equipment, and began digging in earnest. At first things seemed very promising. Small amounts of gold were recovered, fueling the belief that a rich vein was waiting to be uncovered. Then, without warning, the gold disappeared. They continued digging, certain they would find it again. Day after day they worked. Foot after foot they advanced, yet the results never changed. The vein seemed to have vanished, frustration replaced optimism. Deflated and convinced the mine was exhausted, they sold their equipment and abandoned the operation. The new owner, a junk dealer from a neighboring territory, took a different approach. Before resuming work, he hired a mining engineer to evaluate the site. After studying the area, the engineer discovered that the miners had simply encountered a geological fault line. The gold vein had not ended at all, it had merely shifted. Acting on that information, the new owner resumed digging and, as the story goes, discovered one of the richest veins of gold in the Colorado region. Legend says that the breakthrough came just three feet from where the prospector and his nephew had given up. Like most of these powerful moments from history, we are drawn into a deeper truth. While the precise facts may be up for some debate, the lesson remains powerful. The original miners did not fail because they lacked effort. They failed because they encountered a barrier and concluded there was nothing more they could do. The new owner encountered the same barrier, but treated it as information rather than a dead end. The difference was not the obstacle, the difference was how they responded to it. Building a barrier busting culture. Every organization wants success. Every leader wants progress. Every team wants to accomplish meaningful goals and achieve results that matter. Yet no matter how clear the vision becomes or how well aligned we may be, there is one reality that every individual and every team must eventually face barriers. Problems will show up, obstacles will appear, unexpected challenges will stand between us and the goals we are trying to achieve. The question is not whether or not we will face barriers. The question is what we will do when we encounter them. This is where the third phase of the CAB system begins. We started with clarity. We worked to create a clear vision, clear expectations, clear goals, and a clear picture of success. Then we moved into alignment, organizing our people, resources, systems, and processes around that clear vision. Now we must learn how to handle the barriers that stand between us and the destination we are pursuing. I call this phase busting barriers. Bounce. I also often refer to this section as bounce because of a question that began forming in my mind early in my professional career. At the time I was leading a team member through an important assignment. The task was critical, time sensitive, and required some problem solving. After spending time working on it, the individual returned and explained that they could not figure it out. They suggested that I complete the assignment myself because I understood the system better than they did. Like many leaders, I had plenty of responsibilities already demanding my attention. I offered support, answered questions, provided guidance, and encouraged them to continue working through the problem. Yet a short time later, they returned with the same answer. They still could not solve the issue. This time they were emotional. Not only did they suggest that I take the assignment back and complete it myself, but they also directed their frustration over their inability or unwillingness to push through the problem at me. It became very apparent to me that this mindset was likely deep-seated. Unfortunately, that encounter became the catalyst for bringing our professional relationship to an end. What stayed with me afterward was not the assignment itself, it was the question, why do some people run into obstacles and immediately recoil? Why do some individuals stop at the first barrier they encounter, while others seem determined to push through every obstacle standing in their way? That question launched years of observation, study, leadership development, and coaching. Eventually it led to the concepts found throughout this section. Looking back now, I often wish I understood then what I understand today. Perhaps I could have coached a different outcome. Perhaps I could have helped that individual develop a different way of thinking about barriers. Regardless, the experience taught me something incredibly important. When we face barriers, we have two choices. We can either bounce or bust through. When we think about success, we often focus on the destination. We think about the promotion, the achievement, the completed project, the business growth, the championship season, or the personal goal. Yet what we frequently overlook is the reality that every worthwhile goal sits behind a series of barriers. No meaningful accomplishment comes without obstacles. This is true for organizations, and it is true for individuals. You may have a clear vision for your future, you may have established goals, aligned your schedule, organized your resources, and committed yourself to the process. Yet somewhere along that journey, problems likely emerged. Until those problems were solved, progress stopped. The ability to solve problems is what transforms vision into reality. In many ways, success is simply the result of busting through the barriers we face. One of the most encouraging truths about barriers is that everyone encounters them. Everybody everywhere encounters barriers every day. This reminds us that we are not alone. Sometimes we assume successful people experience fewer obstacles than everyone else. The truth is often exactly the opposite. Highly successful individuals frequently encounter more barriers because they are pursuing bigger goals, carrying greater responsibility, and operating at higher levels of influence. The difference is not the absence of barriers, the difference is how they respond to them. Think about your own day. Before you even arrived at this chapter, you likely solved dozens of small problems. You woke up with your alarm clock, your vehicle started, you found your keys, you navigated traffic, you managed interruptions, you adjusted your schedule, you responded to changing circumstances. Most of those situations never felt like barriers because you solved them automatically, yet they were barriers. We simply have become accustomed to solving them. Sometimes an obstacle is as simple as a broken shoelace when you are already running late. Other times it is a failed project, a staffing challenge, a financial setback, or a major organizational crisis. The size of the barrier may differ, but the principle remains the same. Every barrier must be busted if we want to reach our goal. Successful organizations and individuals develop and sustain a barrier busting culture. They solve problems at the lowest level possible. Rather than escalating every challenge, people learn how to think critically, take ownership, and work through obstacles themselves. In an organization, that means leadership is not handling every minute issue. On an individual level, that means we are not struggling for weeks with minor setbacks. The result is a culture filled with problem solving, not just problem seeing. Every barrier must be busted. Imagine someone offered you one million dollars if you could pass through ten locked doors. You begin the journey and successfully navigate the first eight. At that point, you may feel accomplished. You may even feel you deserve recognition for your effort. Yet no matter how hard you worked, no matter how much progress you made, the one million dollars still sits behind the tenth door. Eight doors are not enough. Nine doors are not enough. Every barrier must be overcome. This is where clarity becomes so important. When we are clear about the goal, we know whether or not we have arrived. We can celebrate progress without confusing progress for completion. We can acknowledge victories without pretending the journey is over. Organizations that dominate their markets, shape culture, satisfy customers, and create lasting success are not necessarily smarter than everyone else. They simply refuse to stop solving problems until they reach their clear destination. They find ways to bust through every barrier standing between them and the outcome they desire. This also affects how we think about leadership and advancement. Many people assume promotion is simply a reward for doing a good job. While performance certainly matters, there is often something deeper happening. When leaders promote a team member, the decision has more to do with barriers than it does with hard work. The reason someone moves from one level of responsibility to another is because leadership believes they possess the capacity to handle the barriers associated with the next role. This is why I often say that people are promoted to their perceived highest level of barrier busting ability. Leaders look for individuals who can solve problems, adapt to changing circumstances, think critically, and continue moving forward despite obstacles. Those characteristics create confidence. They signal that the person is capable of handling greater responsibility. Productivity is not simply activity. Productivity is progress. Progress occurs when barriers are removed and problems are solved. The more effectively an individual solves problems, the more productive they become. What is a bounce? A bounce occurs when someone encounters a barrier and recoils without further effort to bust through that barrier. In other words, they hit the obstacle and immediately come back without attempting to work through it. They encounter resistance and stop moving forward. The ball has a destination, it is moving toward a target, yet the moment it encounters resistance, it rebounds in the opposite direction. The wall remains untouched. The objective remains unfinished. Nothing has changed except the location of the ball. When our oldest son was much younger, he and I used to stand in our kitchen and throw rubber bouncy balls back and forth. The game was to bounce the ball of surfaces so the other person could not catch it. Every miss meant losing a point. The first one from ten to zero loses. Most of the time, if one of us missed, the ball would careen around the entire kitchen, bouncing off every object and come to rest under a chair or table. We would have to lay on the floor and stretch to reach them. This is how it is in many organizations. Employees are given an assignment, they encounter a barrier, and instead of busting through, they bounce. They careen off challenge after challenge, finally coming to rest in some side office where nobody can find them. Their manager goes to inspect their work, sees nothing has been accomplished, and can't find them anywhere. This is exactly what happens when people operate from a bounce mentality. They are given a task, they encounter a problem, they return with the problem. The work remains unfinished, the barrier remains intact, progress stops, there is no new information, let me reassure you. A bounce mentality is not necessarily a character flaw. Many leaders immediately assume that someone who bounces is lazy, careless, irresponsible, or unwilling to work. While character issues can certainly contribute to bouncing, bounce itself is primarily a mentality. It is a way of thinking. And because it is a way of thinking, it can be coached. People can learn new ways to approach obstacles. They can develop confidence. They can acquire problem solving skills. They can learn how to think differently when barriers appear. That is encouraging because it means bounce is not a permanent condition. It is a learned response that can be replaced with healthier habits and stronger problem-solving behaviors. Studies show that 41% of workers report feeling stressed during the workday. At the same time, only 10% report doing their best thinking at work. Additional research indicates that on days of extreme pressure, workers are nearly half as likely to develop new ideas or solve problems effectively. These statistics reveal something important. Many people are not bouncing because they are bad employees. They are bouncing because they are overwhelmed. Stress consumes mental energy. Pressure narrows perspective. Fatigue reduces creativity. As a result, people become more likely to retreat from obstacles than to work through them. This is one reason building a barrier busting culture requires intentional effort. It does not happen automatically. Leaders must help people develop the confidence, skills, and mindset necessary to bust through barriers rather than bounce off them. The good news is that employers increasingly recognize the value of these skills. Research consistently shows that organizations place tremendous value on people who can think critically, communicate clearly, solve complex problems, and continue learning. In fact, many employers rank those abilities above specific educational backgrounds or technical specialties. They understand that skills can be taught, but the ability to think critically and problem solve is where the real value lies. As we move through this series, we will spend considerable time exploring how to recognize bounce, how to address it, and how to replace it with a healthier approach to problem solving. This is not only helpful on a leadership level, but on an everyday, person-to-person teaching, coaching, mentoring, self-motivation level as well. Remember this simple truth. Success is not the absence of barriers. Success is the result of busting through them. Every goal worth pursuing will require obstacles to be overcome. Every vision will demand problems to be solved. Every meaningful accomplishment will require persistence, creativity, discipline, and effort to bust through every barrier that stands between you and success.