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<v SPEAKER_00>If you have a Bible, I want to encourage you today, especially to open to the book of Acts.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We're wrapping up kind of a series we've been looking at.

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<v SPEAKER_00>For those of you not familiar with the New Testament, Acts is where Jesus has died.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He's rose again.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He's ascended and he sends out his believers for the first church.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And it's it's been awesome taking a look at what God did there so that we could be here today, which is awesome.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Justin was kind enough.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He said, Hey, as we're looking at this series and we're taking the different parts, he goes, Hey, we want you to do uh we want you to do Paul, uh, Paul in the book of Acts.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Well, if you're familiar with Acts, Paul is like a massive part of Acts, and then like wrote a ton of the New Testament.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I'm like, okay.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he goes, Yeah, we're gonna give you two weeks to do it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I'm like, great.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh, I could literally take one verse and do it for two weeks, and yet it's several chapters.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So with that, I was a little bit overwhelmed.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm like, God, where do you want to where do you want to go with this?

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<v SPEAKER_00>What do you want to teach us through this?

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<v SPEAKER_00>And and last week was just on, he just kind of opened my eyes to where Paul had these great motives, but the wrong focus, and how God knocked him off his donkey and and just really kind of took him through the process of refinement, said, This is who I really am, and sent him out.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And we just looked at motive and where is our motive and how do we discern that?

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<v SPEAKER_00>And this week, I was been praying for a couple weeks, just Lord, the rest of the book of Acts, where do you want to go with this?

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<v SPEAKER_00>And what do you want to, what do you want to show us?

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I titled these these particular Sundays, Therapy Sundays.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Simply because as I look at this, today is for me.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I need these lessons probably more than anybody else.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I've probably failed greater in these areas and struggle in these areas more than probably anybody else here.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so I just, as I look at the truth and share kind of what I'm grappling with, you're welcome to listen in and uh let God speak to your heart as well.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I just I'm I'm excited about it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I also love that God shows me as I'm preparing sometimes where to go.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm literally praying, like, Lord, can you give me some direction here?

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<v SPEAKER_00>There's this massive information.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I just want to kind of whittle it down.

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<v SPEAKER_00>What exactly do you want to teach us this week?

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I got an email about this commencement speech.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm like, okay, I'll look at that later on, and that's great.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And then the next day I'm I'm praying the same thing, kind of doing my prep time.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And and this friend of mine goes, Hey, have you heard about that commencement speech at UT?

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I'm just like, Yeah, yeah, somebody sent me an email about it, but I'm I really need to study right now, and I just don't have time for that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I heard it like five more times.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And God is so gracious to me.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He knows that I was in special class in school, he knows that he's got to hit me like five times or something.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And finally, as I'm just grappling, going, Lord, will you please give me some illustration, some some modern day world, how this your truth becomes real in our life and what that looks like.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And even, Lord, to me as a man, what does that feel like and look like?

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<v SPEAKER_00>And and so out of just frustration after lunch, one day I said, I want to finally look at this clip, and it was like, wow, that's it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And it's almost like God was like, I've been trying to tell you all week.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I just kind of did this and uh kind of made it for you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Well, if you have time to go on to YouTube sometime, I highly recommend it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Admiral McCraven is a 37-year veteran in the Navy.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He is the head of the Navy SEALs program, and he gives a 19-minute speech to the University of Texas, and I sat there and was just blown away.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Because as I looked and listened to his speech and began to take notes on it, I looked at my notes literally sitting next to it, over what Paul had gone through and what Paul was learning and the lessons from Paul, and I'm like, wow.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He did not quote one verse, and yet he hit so many pieces of exactly what God was laying on my heart about Paul.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm like, coolness, this is awesome.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And these lessons are so me right now of what I need.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And some are gonna be just reminders, and some of them are gonna hit you the way I they hit me, of just going, duh, we've heard that, we know that, but here's my question.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I know it's true, but is it true of you?

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<v SPEAKER_00>And is it move from here to here to daily life?

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's what we really have to ask.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I would even say this: don't try to grab all three lessons.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Really listen for that one, because I believe that God wants to speak to every one of our hearts in one of these lessons today.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The first one is really if we look in Acts, and I've picked out one verse in chapter 13 for this lesson.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's just one verse, but it typifies all of it, and it's kind of just an obvious given that, yeah, duh, that's it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And let me just read the verse and see if you can pick it out because you're way smarter than I am.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But chapter 13, verse 46, it simply says this Paul and Barnabas answered them boldly.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm not even gonna tell you the whole situation, and they said, We had to speak the word of God to you first, since you rejected it and did not consider yourselves worthy of eternal life.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We now turn to the Gentiles.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Three times in that one verse.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It says, Paul and Barnabas.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We, we.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And the simple lesson of life, the simple command of God is stay together.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Stay together.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's about we, not me.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's about making sure that I am not flying solo.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Something within us, as we seek God, yes, we need to personally seek Him, have that time with the Lord, but we were never meant to do this alone.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That is not the way God decided.

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<v SPEAKER_00>When Jesus sent them out, he sent them out how?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Two by two.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Even did it on the ark.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Bring me two of each animal.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's in his pattern and his DNA that we're not supposed to do this alone.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And yet, how many of you, you don't have to raise your hands, but how many of you are like me, when we start hitting one of those tough times, or we maybe even fail in an area, or we're struggling in an area, we start to pull back and we start to get alone because nobody else is going to be able to understand this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Nobody else has ever failed this way.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Nobody else has struggled with this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And we begin to pull back.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And what God is saying to you and I in this amazing gift, and if you look through the entire book of Acts, if we were to write out we and any time there were more than one person, and the believers came together, it would overwhelm us and be just hundreds and hundreds of times.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Everywhere Paul went, there was a group of believers that came up.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Sometimes it was one or two, sometimes it was a group, but they were always together.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This principle of stay together.

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<v SPEAKER_00>As I listened, uh, and as I look at even the conflict, there's gonna be times where we don't even agree.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I love this in 15, chapter 15, verses 37 through 41.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I love what happens.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They're not on the same page.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Sometimes we don't always agree on everything, but in 37 it says, Barnabas wanted to take John, who's called Mark, with them, but Paul did not think it wise to take him because he had deserted them in Pamphylia and had not continued with them in the work.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They had such a sharp disagreement that they parted company.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Barnabas took Mark and sailed to Cyprus.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But Paul chose Silas and left and commanded by the brothers to the grace of the Lord.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And here's the deal: we don't have to agree on everything all the time, but we do have to stay together.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They were divided, they were different, but they were not divided.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They take the same truth, different directions.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They didn't agree, and that's okay.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But to say, hey, God's still God, Christ is still Christ, the good news is still the good news, let's agree to disagree here and move forward.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And it's it's it there's just something about that unity of Christ, even when we don't agree on everything.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I love several.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The uh Admiral McCraven had 10 lessons that he shared in this commencement speech.

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<v SPEAKER_00>In 19 minutes, it was rapid fire.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But I love several of one of them was just critical.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He he says this simply, he said, uh, I was commissioned in the Navy, I went to training, and then I ended up in SEAL training.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He said, I learned a life worth of lessons in six months of SEAL training.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He said, Here's the 10 lessons I've learned, and I'm just like, whoa, and I'm trying to write them all down.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But I'll not forget the one he said.

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<v SPEAKER_00>One of them was simply, he says, you gotta stay together.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You gotta stay together.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he described part of SEAL training on the coast, on the Pacific coast.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He says, we were in crews of, I think it was seven men.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he says, one of the daily almost drills was you have to take your raft and your guys, and you have to go into the surf.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You gotta get past the surf and then paddle two miles down the coast.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He says, getting past that surf is impossible unless everybody paddles together.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You gotta paddle together.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And it says it doesn't matter who you are, where you're from, how big, how small you are, and he even goes into the details.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He said, We used to make fun of this one crew.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He says, we called them the dwarfs or the midgets or the little bitty guys, and he said, They came up with all kinds of names because there was not one of them over five foot five.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And they were the little guys, and they were just oh, look at their little flippers, they're little paddles, and they would just make fun of them.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he says, you know what?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Those guys won every paddle.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They won every swim.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Because in their minds, they had to stay together, they had to do it together.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He says, they were the most unified crew there.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He says, all the other crews would lose guys and they would tap out and ring the bell and leave the program.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Those guys stuck together.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he says, it was amazing because there was there was one African American, there was one Native American, there were two guys from the Midwest, one guy from New York.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He's just named this barrage of people.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He says, it didn't matter because they stayed together.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You got to paddle together.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he says, even when you paddle together, there was gonna be this failure in the midst of that, and that was a struggle.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He says, but you've got to stay together.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I don't care how great we are, we're gonna see this theme throughout the New Testament.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We're meant to be together because no matter how great you are, you have blind spots.

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<v SPEAKER_00>No matter how uh how good I am at any one area, I need help in others.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I see this all the time.

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<v SPEAKER_00>When I sit down with friends, they'll we'll just talk about life and I'll glean from them, they'll glean from me, as it says in Proverbs, iron sharpens iron.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We need to be around those who follow Christ because we're gonna be better with it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And we have blind spots.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I may have shared this story before, but some of those closest relationships, I'll never forget when I was in college, I had surgery on my face.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now, some of you are looking and going, it didn't work.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um, but that that wasn't that kind of surgery.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I had broken my nose three times that that I can remember, just getting hit with a baseball and hit with an elbow, and and this side of my nose did not work.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And my parents during one of the break, I think it was spring break, or maybe it was over the summer, they said, Hey, we got to get that fixed.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We go to the doctor, he goes, Yep, deviated septum, you got some blockage, that side doesn't work, and I'm gonna go in, I'm gonna shave it up and straighten it up, and it'll be great.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so we go through the process, and for I think it was three or four days after the procedure, you're packed with gauze.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And if you've had this experience, I'm gonna try to say some of the gory details, but you just got gauze all up in your sinuses, and it's just like, oh, no, no, no, it just feels really odd.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But then came, that wasn't the painful, but surgery.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I mean, you're knocked out, it wasn't really painful.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Then came the day of the most excruciating pain I've ever felt in my life.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I went in and he did the check on it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He goes, Oh, that looks good.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he kind of was in my blind spot, and he goes, Hey, let's go ahead and take care of that pack.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I'm like, okay, so he just kind of turned my head.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He immediately shoved a pair of scissors that far up my nose.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm like, huh.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And then he took it, he goes, Okay, hold still, and he put his hand on my face, and then he just twisted and pulled.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And the gauze that had been there for three days and caked on came out.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And have you ever been in so much pain that your eyes shut and cry, and you just like and then I can't get my eyes open, and I feel him watering me and goes, okay, let's get the other side.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And before I could say, let's not, uh, he's on the other side and he's grabbing it and he's pulling it, and I'm just like, oh, I it was just like and I feel this excruciating pain, followed by I exhaled the pain, and then I just went, oh my nose worked for the first time in years, both sides, and my whole head filled with air, and I'm like, wow, it's the closest I think I will ever be to childbirth where you go through pain and then baby, that's wow, that much pain to total euphoria, and I'm like, wow, this is unbelievable.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It works, and I was so euphoric that I completely tuned him out.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He was starting to talk about the drainage and that you get it for a couple days, and you gotta put pads and this, that, and the other.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm like, yeah, okay, I'm breathing, man.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This is awesome.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he's like, and there's gonna be drainage, you're gonna be numb, and it's not gonna feel, and you're gonna do a couple days, it'll all be back to normal.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But right now, I just totally, I'm just like, yeah, okay, great, sure thing.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So I get out of there.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I've been in the house for three days, and my brother, my younger brother, he goes, Hey man, you wanna go, uh you want to go hang out?

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm like, Yes, I just want to be out.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Let's go somewhere.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Let's go to the mall.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Let's go to the mall.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Went to Cumberland Mall.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We're walking around Cumberland Mall, and this is why we need friends.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We need to be around each other.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm standing there in a sporting goods store and I'm just looking at stuff, breathing.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This is awesome.

00:14:16.399 --> 00:14:18.399
<v SPEAKER_00>I can smell things, both sides work.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And my brother just kind of walks up and goes, hey man, go to the bathroom.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I don't have to go to the bathroom, I'm breathing.

00:14:29.120 --> 00:14:31.759
<v SPEAKER_00>And he goes, Man, go to the bathroom.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Like, dude, I don't have to go to the bathroom.

00:14:35.279 --> 00:14:38.000
<v SPEAKER_00>And uh, it smells bad in bathrooms, and my nose works now.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I don't want to go to the bathroom.

00:14:40.480 --> 00:14:45.039
<v SPEAKER_00>And then he just kind of came over and he just kind of nudged me, he kind of ushered me towards the bathroom.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's like, and we get in the bathroom, and as I walk in the bathroom, picture the mirror right there, I just turn on, I'm like, what are you talking about?

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<v SPEAKER_00>And as I turned around, what the doctor had said is your nose will be numb for a few days, and you'll have drainage, and and you need to just keep attention to that.

00:15:06.799 --> 00:15:08.159
<v SPEAKER_00>Now, here's the disgusting part.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Put your fair hands over yours if you can't handle it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Because here's what, as I spun around, there was like a four-inch booger just hanging out of my nose.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And it was disgusting, it was like blood cake, just oh what?

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<v SPEAKER_00>What?

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I'm sitting here and I'm reaching for a paper towel or something like that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Is oh my word.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I said, How long has that been there?

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<v SPEAKER_00>He goes, I don't know.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I was just, I saw it and I told you to go to the bathroom.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I'm just like, wow.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now he could have gotten me back for years of picking on him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He could have walked around the store going, hey, look at my brother over there.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He could have done it, but he didn't.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And the truth is, is that we have blind spots.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We have areas that are numb, that are painful, that are embarrassing, and we need each other.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And God says, hey, don't do this alone.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Don't walk around with those faults that you don't have to.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Because I'm with you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Not only am I with you, but I designed you to be with one another, to look for those blind spots, to be able to tell, hey, I'm here with you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We're on this path together.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You don't have to go through the pain alone.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Which really leads to the second lesson.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And the second lesson is there's a great verse in Matthew that kind of sets it up, and it's in chapter 5, verses 45.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And just put that in the margin because here's the deal: the second lesson is this life happens.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It just happens.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now what?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Life is gonna happen.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And the way that Matthew chapter 5, verse 45 puts it is simply this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It says that you may be the sons of your father in heaven.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He causes his son to rise on the evil and the good.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Guess what?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Good and bad is gonna happen to everybody.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Everybody.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So what are we gonna do with it?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Life is gonna happen.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's not always going to be roses.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And in Acts chapter 16, we see that Paul and and his buddy, they're doing the right stuff.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Paul is going through, and he and Silas are on this trip now, and and they're going in the city and they're telling the good news.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Jesus has risen.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He really does love all of you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You're not set apart in a bad way, kept from God, but you can know Christ.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he rose from the dead, and they're doing this, and there's this little girl who is possessed, and she's yelling behind them, but it's it's not a bad yell.

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<v SPEAKER_00>She's just like, these are the men who are telling you of the most high God and and how to be saved.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Well, the people who handled this little girl made a lot of money off of her telling the future.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And after a few days, Paul just goes, listen, he turns around and addresses the demon and says, Hey, come out of her, leave.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he does.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The demon leaves, and this little girl is now whole.

00:18:13.440 --> 00:18:16.799
<v SPEAKER_00>And that should be a good, that should be a good result, right?

00:18:17.119 --> 00:18:22.960
<v SPEAKER_00>But then the people who are kind of handling her were just like, we've lost our income.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So they come against them, and and not only come against them, but they start lying about them, and and now it's like total chaos breaks loose.

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<v SPEAKER_00>All they did was what was right and what was good.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And then look what happens in chapter 16, verses 22 through 36.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The crowd joined the attack against Paul and Silas, and the magistrates ordered them to be stripped and beaten.

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<v SPEAKER_00>After they had been severely flogged, they were thrown into prison.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And the jailer was condemned to guard them carefully, or commanded to guard them carefully.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Upon receiving such orders, he put them in the inner cell and fastened their feet to the stocks.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now here's, I want to pause there for a second and just to ask the question, because some here today, you've done what's right, and you've done the right, the right actions, you've made the right decisions, and the opposite results have happened.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And you may even be here today struggling through an issue, feeling like, I don't deserve this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Maybe it was something imposed on you by someone else, maybe it's financial, I don't know what it is, but the opposite has happened.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And and life has happened, and it's not fair.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We hear all the time life's not fair.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But we know the great judge.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We know the one who says there is never pain without a purpose.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And when I know Christ, he's involved going, hey, keep doing what's right.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now, Paul and Silas, they could have gone, God, all we did was right, all we did what you said, and now we're in prison and we've been severely beaten.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But here's the point God always has a plan.

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<v SPEAKER_00>When life knocks us down, we don't have to think, well, I'm in pain, but there's a purpose.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Because look what happens next.

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<v SPEAKER_00>In 22, we keep, they've been flogged, they're in prison.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It says that about midnight, Paul and Silas were praying and singing hymns to God.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now there's an attitude adjustment right there.

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<v SPEAKER_00>When we don't feel like it and we don't understand it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>God, I know you're in control.

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<v SPEAKER_00>What song do you want me to sing right now?

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<v SPEAKER_00>And just start singing.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm telling you, there's something about it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>There's something about flipping on an iPod.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They didn't have an iPod, but they had a song on their head and they started singing.

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<v SPEAKER_00>There's something about that that gives us perspective.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Suddenly there was such a violent earthquake that the foundation of the prisons were shaken.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And at once, all at once, the prison doors flew open and everybody's chains were loosened.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And after that happened, the doors fly open, the chains are loose, the jailer wakes up.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now, those in the military, those who are jailing, if anybody escapes, they're the ones who pay the price.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Look what happened.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The jailer woke up and we saw the prison doors open.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He drew his sword and was about to kill himself because he thought the prisoners had escaped.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But Paul shouted, Don't harm yourself.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We're all here.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now, there's so much to this one piece.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm not going to get into all of it at all, but you're beaten unjustly.

00:21:23.119 --> 00:21:25.680
<v SPEAKER_00>You're thrown into prison unjustly.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The chains fall off and the doors open.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Is there anybody else like me going, thank you, God, I'm out of here?

00:21:33.119 --> 00:21:34.079
<v SPEAKER_00>But they didn't.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They were so focused on the fact that God is with me.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Their chains fall off and the doors open, and they just keep singing.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And they just keep rejoicing that God's with me.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm worthy of this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's amazing.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The jailer woke up and he goes to kill himself, but Paul shouted, Don't harm yourself.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Verse 29 the jailer called for lights.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They turn them up, rushed in, fell trembling before Paul and Silas.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He then brought them out and asked, sir, what must I do to be saved?

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<v SPEAKER_00>He's so overwhelmed.

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<v SPEAKER_00>In the midst of our pain, God has a plan.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Am I so focused?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Am I willing to go, okay, life is happening?

00:22:15.440 --> 00:22:19.039
<v SPEAKER_00>Am I so focused on the fact, God, you're with me?

00:22:19.839 --> 00:22:23.039
<v SPEAKER_00>What do you want to, what purpose do you want to bring out of this pain?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Lord, what do you want to do?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Because yes, it's pain.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm not pretending it's not there.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But what do you want to bring through this?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Am I willing to be beaten relationally, financially, physically?

00:22:34.640 --> 00:22:38.880
<v SPEAKER_00>You name the category, in order for God to move.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It says the jailer was immediately, he took them to his house, and his wife and his family were baptized, and they're just like, this is amazing.

00:22:49.119 --> 00:22:50.960
<v SPEAKER_00>And it began to spread throughout.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Am I willing to take that pain?

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<v SPEAKER_00>I love what Admiral McCraven had said about trials and failure.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He said, You know what?

00:22:59.680 --> 00:23:03.119
<v SPEAKER_00>He says, You the another lesson I learned was that it's going to happen.

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<v SPEAKER_00>No matter how good you are, it's going to happen.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He says, Part of our training was at least once a week they had to come out in their uniform.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he says, you did everything to make sure it was perfect.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Shoes polished, belt buckle polished, everything perfectly creased and seamed.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Everything perfect.

00:23:19.759 --> 00:23:23.599
<v SPEAKER_00>And he says, and they all come out and they spend all this time to get perfect.

00:23:23.839 --> 00:23:26.079
<v SPEAKER_00>He says, then they're into expect inspect it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he said it never failed.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He said, the uh sergeants would come out and they're just, they would find something wrong.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They would find something wrong.

00:23:35.519 --> 00:23:43.680
<v SPEAKER_00>And in SEAL training, he says that they found anything wrong, they would go, they called it sugar cookie, which is hilarious to me.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They had to literally go from attention in full uniform, in full uniform, completely as they had to go into the surf and they had to get wet, then they had to come on the beach and roll around until their entire body was covered in sand.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he says they called it sugar cookie.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he says, after about the third or fourth time of inspection, and they would try even harder and even harder and even harder to be even more perfect.

00:24:06.319 --> 00:24:10.079
<v SPEAKER_00>And he says, then it dawned on me, I'm never gonna be perfect.

00:24:10.799 --> 00:24:12.880
<v SPEAKER_00>I'm never gonna be good enough.

00:24:13.279 --> 00:24:14.319
<v SPEAKER_00>And you know what?

00:24:14.400 --> 00:24:15.519
<v SPEAKER_00>I don't know why.

00:24:15.680 --> 00:24:18.079
<v SPEAKER_00>This is part of the training, but I'm not gonna be good enough.

00:24:18.240 --> 00:24:19.920
<v SPEAKER_00>So, okay, I'm gonna do my best.

00:24:20.000 --> 00:24:23.279
<v SPEAKER_00>I'm gonna take it, I'm gonna move me a sugar cookie, and then I'm gonna have to run around in this.

00:24:24.240 --> 00:24:24.559
<v SPEAKER_00>Okay.

00:24:25.039 --> 00:24:28.960
<v SPEAKER_00>Just resolve the fact that this is not going to stop me.

00:24:29.519 --> 00:24:31.039
<v SPEAKER_00>And that is part of their training.

00:24:31.119 --> 00:24:36.559
<v SPEAKER_00>They said mentally, we want you to face utter, complete failure and still keep going.

00:24:36.960 --> 00:24:42.799
<v SPEAKER_00>And when everything that you plan perfectly does not work out, keep going.

00:24:43.119 --> 00:24:44.160
<v SPEAKER_00>Don't stop.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We need those who have the ability to look past and never give up.

00:24:49.599 --> 00:24:51.119
<v SPEAKER_00>And I'm just like, wow.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He shared another concept that they have in the same category where they would literally, they would be on the beach, they would do a full day of training, the surf, the paddling, down and back.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he says, by the end of the day, you are so fatigued and so exhausted, so freezing, so cold, so wet, you were uncontrollably shaking and chattering.

00:25:09.599 --> 00:25:15.039
<v SPEAKER_00>He says, then you had to do a timed swim or a run after all that.

00:25:15.519 --> 00:25:16.720
<v SPEAKER_00>And it was timed.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And if you did not, if you made the time, if you were able to somehow complete it, you'd go back exhausted, start working on cleaning the uniform that you were gonna have to go roll in the sand with, andor total exhaustion, you would go back.

00:25:31.279 --> 00:25:36.640
<v SPEAKER_00>But if you did not make it, then you had the joy of going to what they called the circus.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He says, which was two hours of additional calisthetics and running and swimming.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he said, it was mentally brutal.

00:25:48.319 --> 00:25:50.000
<v SPEAKER_00>He says, but then I started to see something.

00:25:50.160 --> 00:25:54.799
<v SPEAKER_00>He says, the guys, he said, and everybody went to the circus at least once.

00:25:55.440 --> 00:25:58.799
<v SPEAKER_00>He says, but I started to see these guys who would go to the circus over and over.

00:25:59.279 --> 00:26:04.640
<v SPEAKER_00>And he said they started getting stronger and they started getting faster, they started getting better.

00:26:05.039 --> 00:26:09.440
<v SPEAKER_00>And he said, nobody wanted to go to the circus, but everybody wanted the results of the circus.

00:26:09.599 --> 00:26:12.240
<v SPEAKER_00>It's like, wow, that's amazing.

00:26:12.400 --> 00:26:19.519
<v SPEAKER_00>Could it be that God in his infinite wisdom would say, hey, I'm gonna take you through some times of trials, I'm gonna take you through them.

00:26:19.599 --> 00:26:20.960
<v SPEAKER_00>You're not gonna understand them.

00:26:21.119 --> 00:26:22.880
<v SPEAKER_00>Don't lean on what you understand.

00:26:23.039 --> 00:26:27.039
<v SPEAKER_00>Acknowledge me in them because I'll make your path straight.

00:26:27.119 --> 00:26:28.000
<v SPEAKER_00>It's for a reason.

00:26:28.160 --> 00:26:30.640
<v SPEAKER_00>There's never pain without a purpose.

00:26:31.440 --> 00:26:33.279
<v SPEAKER_00>Life happens.

00:26:33.839 --> 00:26:48.960
<v SPEAKER_00>I'm not gonna go into great detail, but if you look at the end of Acts in verses 27 and 28, and for those of you who are believers, has God ever laid a direction on your heart and you think, oh good, and then nothing happens to help?

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I don't know if you're there today, but if you are, I encourage you to go back, read Acts 27 and 28.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Paul is told, You will stand before Caesar and give an account of me.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And then he is brought into Jerusalem and they try to kill him.

00:27:04.000 --> 00:27:11.279
<v SPEAKER_00>And he evades that and he goes before two, three different judges, and they're like, You're there's I don't understand why you're here.

00:27:11.440 --> 00:27:12.799
<v SPEAKER_00>And he says, I appeal to Caesar.

00:27:12.880 --> 00:27:16.640
<v SPEAKER_00>I'm a Roman citizen, I appeal to Caesar, so they send him to Rome.

00:27:16.880 --> 00:27:22.000
<v SPEAKER_00>And in the process of that of several months, if you read this part, he goes through shipwreck.

00:27:22.160 --> 00:27:24.240
<v SPEAKER_00>Literally, he should be dead.

00:27:24.400 --> 00:27:33.279
<v SPEAKER_00>They're on the sea for days with no stars in this huge, perfect storm of a storm, and they're literally thinking, we're going to die.

00:27:33.599 --> 00:27:35.119
<v SPEAKER_00>We're going to die.

00:27:35.519 --> 00:27:37.359
<v SPEAKER_00>Now hit pause on that for a second.

00:27:37.440 --> 00:27:41.839
<v SPEAKER_00>And whether you are there, have been there, or will be there, don't forget this.

00:27:42.000 --> 00:27:45.920
<v SPEAKER_00>In the midst of that, and I don't know if you've been there before, I know I have.

00:27:46.640 --> 00:27:51.440
<v SPEAKER_00>And there's something about that tragic storm of life.

00:27:51.759 --> 00:27:58.640
<v SPEAKER_00>Lord, I thought you called me to do this, but obviously I've missed it because this is not what I signed up for.

00:27:58.960 --> 00:28:01.359
<v SPEAKER_00>This is not the way you get there.

00:28:02.000 --> 00:28:03.839
<v SPEAKER_00>And he thought they were gonna die.

00:28:04.079 --> 00:28:05.599
<v SPEAKER_00>You know what happens in those times?

00:28:05.759 --> 00:28:07.279
<v SPEAKER_00>We get really honest.

00:28:07.759 --> 00:28:12.559
<v SPEAKER_00>I don't know how you are, but I start thinking back, Lord, what did I fail to confess?

00:28:12.799 --> 00:28:17.440
<v SPEAKER_00>What I'm confessing sins, I've already confessed, I'm confessing sins, I didn't even commit.

00:28:17.599 --> 00:28:20.319
<v SPEAKER_00>And it was just like, Lord, what is going on?

00:28:21.200 --> 00:28:24.319
<v SPEAKER_00>Because circumstantially, this is not where I plan on being.

00:28:24.400 --> 00:28:31.759
<v SPEAKER_00>I plan on being fulfilling what you called me to, and none of this is in the plan, in my plan, but God just says, I got this.

00:28:32.000 --> 00:28:34.160
<v SPEAKER_00>Because sometimes it's to help those around us.

00:28:34.240 --> 00:28:43.920
<v SPEAKER_00>And Paul said to the guys on the ship, and he's like, guys, and they're literally planning, they're throwing stuff overboard, they haven't eaten, they haven't can't see the stars, they're like, we're dead.

00:28:44.079 --> 00:28:48.400
<v SPEAKER_00>He said, Guys, all I can tell you is God told me I'm gonna stand before Caesar.

00:28:48.720 --> 00:28:50.960
<v SPEAKER_00>So I'm gonna make it.

00:28:53.599 --> 00:28:54.480
<v SPEAKER_00>We're gonna get there.

00:28:54.559 --> 00:28:59.119
<v SPEAKER_00>And then after a few more days, he literally goes, guys, good news.

00:28:59.680 --> 00:29:01.599
<v SPEAKER_00>B, take courage.

00:29:01.920 --> 00:29:04.319
<v SPEAKER_00>God showed me a dream last night.

00:29:04.559 --> 00:29:06.400
<v SPEAKER_00>Every one of you is gonna make it with me.

00:29:06.640 --> 00:29:07.759
<v SPEAKER_00>You're gonna make it.

00:29:08.000 --> 00:29:09.119
<v SPEAKER_00>I don't know how.

00:29:09.359 --> 00:29:10.319
<v SPEAKER_00>But you know what?

00:29:10.559 --> 00:29:13.599
<v SPEAKER_00>Let's take some of the grain that we're about to throw overboard, let's eat.

00:29:13.759 --> 00:29:16.079
<v SPEAKER_00>They haven't eaten in two weeks, and he goes, Let's eat.

00:29:16.240 --> 00:29:20.640
<v SPEAKER_00>And they bake up as much as they can eat, and they eat bread, and he goes, Take courage.

00:29:20.880 --> 00:29:26.559
<v SPEAKER_00>My God, the the one true God, he said that I'm gonna make it there, and he told me, every one of you is gonna make it too.

00:29:26.799 --> 00:29:28.400
<v SPEAKER_00>So take courage, let's eat.

00:29:28.640 --> 00:29:33.920
<v SPEAKER_00>And from there, and here's the cool part it does not get instantly better.

00:29:34.960 --> 00:29:38.640
<v SPEAKER_00>There's still no stars, there's still the storm.

00:29:38.880 --> 00:29:42.799
<v SPEAKER_00>And then they find that they start doing sounding and they get to more shallow waters.

00:29:42.880 --> 00:29:47.680
<v SPEAKER_00>They end up running the ship on the shore of this island just to get to safety.

00:29:47.839 --> 00:29:49.039
<v SPEAKER_00>And they're like, What now?

00:29:49.200 --> 00:29:51.359
<v SPEAKER_00>But they're just so happy that he survived.

00:29:51.519 --> 00:30:04.240
<v SPEAKER_00>They get to this people, and literally, this snake comes out of the fire and bites Paul on the hand, and all the people they're like, Oh, I know they're prisoners, he must be a murderer because that justice has been served, and they're like, he's gonna blow up and die.

00:30:04.319 --> 00:30:06.960
<v SPEAKER_00>So they're literally waiting for him to swell up and die.

00:30:07.519 --> 00:30:11.119
<v SPEAKER_00>And he doesn't, and they're like, he goes from a murderer, he must be a god.

00:30:11.359 --> 00:30:13.119
<v SPEAKER_00>He's not a murderer, he's a god.

00:30:13.359 --> 00:30:18.160
<v SPEAKER_00>And and in that process, God says, Hey, life's gonna happen.

00:30:18.400 --> 00:30:22.799
<v SPEAKER_00>I'm in the middle of it, I'm in the details, follow me in it.

00:30:23.119 --> 00:30:24.160
<v SPEAKER_00>Let me there.

00:30:24.720 --> 00:30:35.200
<v SPEAKER_00>There's one more lesson, and this is the one that I'm really trying to get personally right now, and that is simply be myself.

00:30:35.839 --> 00:30:36.960
<v SPEAKER_00>Be yourself.

00:30:37.200 --> 00:30:49.039
<v SPEAKER_00>And as I look at this amazing passage about Paul, I firmly believe that God has a plan, and I firmly believe every one of us is part of that plan.

00:30:49.359 --> 00:30:54.960
<v SPEAKER_00>I firmly believe that every one of us is unique, and there's never been another one of you or me ever, anywhere.

00:30:55.119 --> 00:30:57.039
<v SPEAKER_00>And I see that in Paul.

00:30:57.359 --> 00:30:59.440
<v SPEAKER_00>Who else could do what he's doing?

00:30:59.680 --> 00:31:00.319
<v SPEAKER_00>Nobody.

00:31:00.480 --> 00:31:06.000
<v SPEAKER_00>He is a Roman citizen on the leadership of the Jewish nation.

00:31:06.400 --> 00:31:08.240
<v SPEAKER_00>Nobody else is like that.

00:31:08.559 --> 00:31:09.839
<v SPEAKER_00>And he's unique to that.

00:31:09.920 --> 00:31:20.880
<v SPEAKER_00>And I look at this and then I look back in Acts and verses in chapter 413, where Peter is preaching with one of his buddies, and they're preaching.

00:31:21.119 --> 00:31:30.880
<v SPEAKER_00>And all these Sanhedrin, all these well-studied people, I love the way he put it, it says they saw that they were unschooled and ordinary men, but they had been with Jesus.

00:31:31.039 --> 00:31:37.039
<v SPEAKER_00>You got Paul who's got all the education in the world, then you got Peter, who's a fisherman, never been to school.

00:31:37.359 --> 00:31:39.759
<v SPEAKER_00>And God says, I got a plan for both of you.

00:31:40.000 --> 00:31:44.480
<v SPEAKER_00>If I could bring that to today, I am so honored to be a part of this rotation.

00:31:44.640 --> 00:31:48.160
<v SPEAKER_00>I look at people like Justin, who is this incredible young guy.

00:31:48.319 --> 00:31:55.920
<v SPEAKER_00>You know, I'm getting older and he's young to me, and I just think, this guy's got more leadership than I've ever had or probably ever will.

00:31:56.160 --> 00:31:59.759
<v SPEAKER_00>And I love watching what God is molding his heart and where he's taking him.

00:31:59.839 --> 00:32:08.400
<v SPEAKER_00>Uh, if you've heard of Ben Sykes speak, Ben is more talented and more wise and smarter than I will ever be on my best day.

00:32:08.640 --> 00:32:12.720
<v SPEAKER_00>And I just think, wow, that that's amazing.

00:32:12.960 --> 00:32:18.000
<v SPEAKER_00>And then I got I get to hang around with Steve Craig, and he's one of the wisest men I've ever been around.

00:32:18.079 --> 00:32:22.720
<v SPEAKER_00>And I'm always better when I'm around those guys because I glean from them.

00:32:23.119 --> 00:32:28.559
<v SPEAKER_00>But as great as those guys are, I look at me and I think, what am I doing here?

00:32:28.799 --> 00:32:30.000
<v SPEAKER_00>Why am I here?

00:32:30.240 --> 00:32:35.680
<v SPEAKER_00>And I realize that in God's scheme, he's like God uses ordinary and unschooled men.

00:32:35.920 --> 00:32:37.359
<v SPEAKER_00>And I'm like, that's me.

00:32:37.519 --> 00:32:38.799
<v SPEAKER_00>That's my part.

00:32:39.279 --> 00:32:40.880
<v SPEAKER_00>I'm just me.

00:32:41.440 --> 00:32:45.119
<v SPEAKER_00>And I love the fact that I don't have to apologize for that.

00:32:45.440 --> 00:32:50.720
<v SPEAKER_00>And we got to get past this idea of comparing ourselves.

00:32:51.279 --> 00:32:52.079
<v SPEAKER_00>Be myself.

00:32:52.160 --> 00:32:52.799
<v SPEAKER_00>Don't compare.

00:32:52.880 --> 00:32:54.799
<v SPEAKER_00>I'll never be talented like Ben is.

00:32:55.279 --> 00:32:57.759
<v SPEAKER_00>But I was never meant to be that talented.

00:32:58.079 --> 00:32:59.359
<v SPEAKER_00>Stop the judgment.

00:32:59.440 --> 00:33:04.880
<v SPEAKER_00>I love, there's a friend of mine who does printing for me, and if nothing else, you can take this because it's hysterical.

00:33:05.440 --> 00:33:08.480
<v SPEAKER_00>He told me the other day he's tweeting out, I love to follow him on Twitter.

00:33:08.559 --> 00:33:09.279
<v SPEAKER_00>He goes, you know what?

00:33:09.359 --> 00:33:14.000
<v SPEAKER_00>I can just tell, I can tell by just looking at somebody whether they're judgmental or not.

00:33:14.400 --> 00:33:16.079
<v SPEAKER_00>Let that sink in.

00:33:18.480 --> 00:33:20.559
<v SPEAKER_00>Isn't that awesome?

00:33:21.279 --> 00:33:24.559
<v SPEAKER_00>It just let the comparison go.

00:33:24.880 --> 00:33:25.839
<v SPEAKER_00>Be myself.

00:33:26.079 --> 00:33:28.319
<v SPEAKER_00>God, what are you trying to teach me through this?

00:33:28.480 --> 00:33:30.400
<v SPEAKER_00>What am I supposed to be?

00:33:30.640 --> 00:33:34.079
<v SPEAKER_00>And in the in your story, where do I fall?

00:33:34.240 --> 00:33:36.319
<v SPEAKER_00>That's where I'm grappling today.

00:33:36.559 --> 00:33:40.640
<v SPEAKER_00>I really thought, and I'm in those situations all the time.

00:33:40.799 --> 00:33:42.559
<v SPEAKER_00>Which one of these does not belong?

00:33:42.799 --> 00:33:43.119
<v SPEAKER_00>Me.

00:33:43.279 --> 00:33:48.000
<v SPEAKER_00>If you ever watched Sesame Street where you saw the different people, which one of these is not like the other?

00:33:48.160 --> 00:33:49.599
<v SPEAKER_00>Which one of these doesn't belong?

00:33:49.920 --> 00:33:52.160
<v SPEAKER_00>Me, every situation, it's me.

00:33:52.240 --> 00:33:53.519
<v SPEAKER_00>I don't belong.

00:33:53.839 --> 00:33:57.599
<v SPEAKER_00>And yet God says, I've got a plan and you're a part of it.

00:33:58.000 --> 00:34:01.519
<v SPEAKER_00>Stop trying to conform, stop comparing, stop judging.

00:34:01.759 --> 00:34:05.119
<v SPEAKER_00>I'm uniquely with you, but don't do it alone.

00:34:05.279 --> 00:34:08.639
<v SPEAKER_00>I'm with you in the middle of life because life is gonna happen.

00:34:08.800 --> 00:34:13.039
<v SPEAKER_00>And I'm doing this to prepare you for what I have for you to do.

00:34:13.840 --> 00:34:22.960
<v SPEAKER_00>Those are such, if I could put it this way, those are so easy, but they're not, I'm sorry, they're so simple, but they're not easy.

00:34:23.280 --> 00:34:25.519
<v SPEAKER_00>So simple, but they're not easy.

00:34:25.679 --> 00:34:29.840
<v SPEAKER_00>And this morning, I want to challenge you and I to do something as we wrap up.

00:34:29.920 --> 00:34:36.639
<v SPEAKER_00>I want to pray in just a second, but I want you to think, which one of those lessons, Lord, do I need?

00:34:37.119 --> 00:34:46.880
<v SPEAKER_00>They're gonna come up and they're gonna sing a song, and and and here's what I want you to do, and myself included, I want us to stand and I want to, as they sing, just be honest with God.

00:34:47.039 --> 00:34:51.360
<v SPEAKER_00>God, one, if we don't know God personally, realize that God has that plan.

00:34:51.760 --> 00:34:55.119
<v SPEAKER_00>And and just consider as we've shared today, I need Jesus.

00:34:55.280 --> 00:34:57.199
<v SPEAKER_00>I need God because He did make me.

00:34:57.440 --> 00:35:02.559
<v SPEAKER_00>But ask a question, God, which of those lessons do you want me to take out those doors today?

00:35:02.800 --> 00:35:04.000
<v SPEAKER_00>Which lesson?

00:35:04.639 --> 00:35:05.599
<v SPEAKER_00>Am I flying solo?

00:35:05.920 --> 00:35:10.719
<v SPEAKER_00>I know I'm around a lot of people, but do I have somebody that I'm really plugged in with?

00:35:10.880 --> 00:35:13.760
<v SPEAKER_00>And if you don't know where to start, let me give you a great opportunity.

00:35:13.920 --> 00:35:14.880
<v SPEAKER_00>Justin mentioned it.

00:35:15.039 --> 00:35:23.760
<v SPEAKER_00>Go by the desk and say, hey, I want to serve somewhere and start meeting some people and just hanging out because it's about getting below the surface.

00:35:24.000 --> 00:35:32.880
<v SPEAKER_00>Or maybe it's it's the idea of going, you know what, life is happening and God, I don't understand why I'm going through this, but Lord, here it is today.

00:35:33.280 --> 00:35:38.000
<v SPEAKER_00>I'm gonna sing, and I'm just gonna rejoice that you're with me in it.

00:35:38.320 --> 00:35:44.480
<v SPEAKER_00>Or maybe finally, maybe it is you may be where I am going, God, I I'm at a loss.

00:35:44.639 --> 00:35:52.079
<v SPEAKER_00>I I look at everybody around me and I think they've all got it together and they're on the path, but I I don't know what steps next.

00:35:52.320 --> 00:35:56.559
<v SPEAKER_00>God, why did you make me and help me see what step you want?

00:35:56.880 --> 00:36:00.639
<v SPEAKER_00>So if you would, do me a favor, go ahead and stand up and I'm gonna pray.

00:36:01.199 --> 00:36:04.320
<v SPEAKER_00>But don't leave until you got that lesson that God wants for you today.

00:36:04.480 --> 00:36:12.480
<v SPEAKER_00>Father, thank you so much for your truth and even the way you brought it to us.

00:36:13.440 --> 00:36:19.039
<v SPEAKER_00>Lord, Paul told his story over and over and over, and that was just his who he was.

00:36:19.599 --> 00:36:25.039
<v SPEAKER_00>So, Father, help us to see that you want our story and you want to be in the center of our world.

00:36:25.280 --> 00:36:30.079
<v SPEAKER_00>Whatever lesson it is, Lord, help us to just see it clearly, as only your Holy Spirit can guide us.

00:36:30.320 --> 00:36:32.400
<v SPEAKER_00>It's through the gift of Jesus we can pray.

00:36:32.639 --> 00:36:33.280
<v SPEAKER_00>Amen.

00:36:33.440 --> 00:36:38.559
<v SPEAKER_00>I want to leave with one other concept here, real quick, as they plug in, and that is simply this.

00:36:38.639 --> 00:36:43.440
<v SPEAKER_00>I see in Acts several times, Paul just told his story.

00:36:44.079 --> 00:36:49.280
<v SPEAKER_00>It was like, here's what happened to me, and this is why Jesus showed up.

00:36:49.599 --> 00:36:53.440
<v SPEAKER_00>And it's that personal step of I don't have to be something I'm not.

00:36:53.599 --> 00:36:56.320
<v SPEAKER_00>It's who Jesus is in my world.

00:36:56.559 --> 00:37:03.440
<v SPEAKER_00>Talk about those pieces with those others in the midst of those times, and we start to see with clarity what's next.

00:37:03.679 --> 00:37:04.559
<v SPEAKER_00>God bless you guys.

00:37:04.719 --> 00:37:05.519
<v SPEAKER_00>You guys take it out.

00:37:05.679 --> 00:37:06.880
<v SPEAKER_00>Can't wait to see you next time.

00:37:07.039 --> 00:37:07.840
<v SPEAKER_00>Thank you.
