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<v SPEAKER_00>Thanks for listening to the His Hands Church podcast.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And thank you for being part of what God is doing at His Hands.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Good morning.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm still in the dark, sorry.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Good morning.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Well, happy Fourth of July weekend.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I know that you oh, I know exactly what you guys mean.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh so Fourth of July weekend is usually a big deal here.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Usually the city of Woodstock shoots off their fireworks on the 4th of July.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We get this whole parking lot full of people, have the building open, and it's it's a lot of fun.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's a lot of fun.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Our Memorial Day weekend recently was picturesque.

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<v SPEAKER_00>When you picture what Memorial Day weekend would look like, it would look exactly like what our Memorial Day weekend looked like.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Fourth of July, not so much.

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<v SPEAKER_00>However, it gives us a great opportunity.

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<v SPEAKER_00>About six years ago, we didn't have fireworks on the 4th of July either, but it was for the opposite reason.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It wasn't because it was raining, it was because it hadn't rained in several months.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so the city of Woodstock canceled fireworks because of the drought.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It was like a fire hazard, all this kind of stuff.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so we we did something here that hasn't been done since, and we thought we'd do it again, and it's indoor fireworks.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay?

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<v SPEAKER_00>So it's really, really simple.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Right now, you should be or or you should about to be given a glow stick, a glow necklace, actually.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This is jewelry, okay?

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<v SPEAKER_00>I will say as a safety precaution, be mindful of the length.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so if you're if you're waving it around, one of those gets you in the face, that's not a good day.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um so be careful.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But what we're gonna do here in just a second, even though fireworks were canceled, we're gonna do our own.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We're gonna bring the lights down in just a minute.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We're gonna play some patriotic music, we're gonna have some fireworks on the screen, and we are just going to have fun for a minute.

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<v SPEAKER_00>For a minute.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You get to keep the glow necklaces.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's our gift to you this morning.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um I will ask, as just a favor, one of the guys in the sound booth, you might want to get a phone out and document this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You know, this is something that needs it needs posted online.

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<v SPEAKER_00>All right, everyone good?

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<v SPEAKER_00>We looking good?

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<v SPEAKER_00>I I see a lot of the I think we're we're getting close.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Has anyone yet to receive a glowing?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay, we got a we got a cluster.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We got a cluster of no glowing right here.

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<v SPEAKER_00>There it is.

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<v SPEAKER_00>All right, we're about to get you guys.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay.

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<v SPEAKER_00>As soon as I I see that, you guys have I see it coming.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Jimmy, you're good.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I see it coming.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's right, they're right there.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Raise your hands again.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The the cluster that's yet.

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<v SPEAKER_00>There you go.

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<v SPEAKER_00>See?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Right there.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Alright, so here's what we're gonna do.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We're gonna bring the the lights down nice and slow.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Nice and slow.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You guys, Brad, whoever, there's some people right up there that need to get some.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We're almost there.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They're just ignoring you guys.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Flat out.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I don't know.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So we'll bring bring the lights down nice and slow.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm starting to see the glow happen.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This is gonna be fun.

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<v SPEAKER_00>All of them are red, white, and blue.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So this is at least red and blue.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Patriotic colors.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The lower the lights get, the more fun it is.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Go ahead and break those up.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This is gonna be a blast.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Again, be mindful of the link.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I love it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Oh yeah.

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<v SPEAKER_00>All right, so let's just do this on a on the count of three.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We're gonna say happy fourth of July.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Music's gonna play.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's gonna be a good time for about a minute and a half.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So here we go.

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<v SPEAKER_00>One, two, three, happy fourth of July.

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<v SPEAKER_00>There we go.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Yeah.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Alright, we can bring the lights back up.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I don't know why we don't do that every week.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's worth it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I just had this thought as I was watching that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That was a lot of fun to watch, by the way, but if someone walked in for the very first time ever, that would, depending on the person, that would either be the worst time or the best time to walk into a church.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Well, hey, um, if it is your first time, welcome to his hands.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We're really glad you're here.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um we're just, we're all about being able to be who we are and know that we're loved by God.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Grow with him from the inside out, let him do his thing.

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<v SPEAKER_00>If you want more information about us as a church, there's these uh little booklets that are on the back four columns.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You can also get them at the info desk, and they'll answer any questions you might have or point you in the right direction.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So feel free to grab one of those.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I did have a really great update last week in case some of us weren't here last week.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's just exciting stuff to share.

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<v SPEAKER_00>For the last year, we've been giving 15% of everything that we receive as a church in giving back to the community.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We've got three local charities and ministries there's Papa's Pantry, the Hope Center, and Cherokee Family Violence Center, and every single month we just divide up 5% of what we've given to each one of those, so 15% total.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And last week I got to share kind of an update of where we are.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's a little bit past mid-year, but so far, this year we've been able to give, and this doesn't count last week, but so far we've been able to give right about$50,000 in total, which is really exciting.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And that's, you know, it's just it's actually a little over 16,000 apiece.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So I know I shared this last week, but that just gets me excited because it makes me realize that when my wife and I give here, giving here alone is worth it because God is doing great things.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But we're we're being able to help the community in some cool ways.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So we appreciate that very, very much.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's just a fun thing to know.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um, last week we had a ton of announcements.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This week we don't have much, just the fireworks and that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So let's pray and then let's go ahead and jump into what we're gonna talk about.

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<v SPEAKER_00>God, thank you so much.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Thank you so much for loving us like you do.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Thank you so much for blessing us, giving us an awesome place and group of people that we can we can just meet you at.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I pray that you would fill us with your spirit this morning.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Teach us, just speak whatever you need to speak to us.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Help us leave this place more excited about the life you've given us than we were when we came in.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We pray all this in your name, Jesus.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Amen.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay, I lied.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I did have one announcement, I just forgot it, but I remembered it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um the whole Fourth of July thing, if you haven't heard, they have moved the fireworks, the whole celebration to Labor Day.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so we will be all together on Labor Day, fireworks will happen, and we'll find more glow sticks.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It'll be a blast.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Well, the last, well, really the whole last summer, we've been we've been talking about Jesus, and specifically we've been looking at stories that Jesus told.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Jesus was a storyteller, and he told these stories.

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<v SPEAKER_00>His exclusive method of teaching, nearly, was through storytelling.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He would tell these things called parables, and they're just these very simple, short stories that are designed to help make the complicated stuff about God, the things that sometimes intimidate us, things we don't understand, very easy to understand.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That was God's heart.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Religion tends to do the opposite.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Religion takes really simple things and makes it really complicated.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so if you've ever felt like you can't get God because you just don't know enough, you don't know the Bible well enough, you don't know Greek or Hebrew or whatever, I don't know it either.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And the good thing is, Jesus spent his time making God's truth really accessible to everyone.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's God's heart.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He wants normal, everyday people like you and me to just get him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And that's how Jesus did it through telling stories.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We've gone through a lot of these stories so far.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We did uh the parable of the annoying neighbor, the wine in the wineskins, the prodigal son.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Steve talked about the pearl of great price.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Last week we looked at the prodigal of the shrewd manager, or the prodigal, the parable, rather, of the shrewd manager, or the dishonest rascal, depending on which translation you look at.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And this morning I actually want to stay on the same parable that we were on last week, but look at it from a little bit of a different angle.

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<v SPEAKER_00>If you weren't here last week, it's in Luke 16, verses 1 through 8.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It says, Jesus told his disciples, There was a rich man whose manager was accused of wasting his possessions.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So he called him in and asked him, What is this I hear about you?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Give me an account of your management because you cannot be manager any longer.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So he's getting fired.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The manager said to himself, What shall I do now?

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<v SPEAKER_00>My master is taking away my job.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm not strong enough to dig, and I'm ashamed to beg.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I know what I'll do.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And when I lose my job here, people will welcome me into their houses.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So he called in each of his master's debtors.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He asked the first, How much do you owe my master?

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<v SPEAKER_00>900 gallons of olive oil, he replied.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The manager told him, Take your bill, sit down quickly, make it 450.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And then he asked the second, and how much do you owe?

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<v SPEAKER_00>A thousand bushels of wheat, he replied.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He told him, Take your bill and make it 800.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And this is when the master finds out about it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Very interesting.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The master commended the dishonest manager because he had acted so shrewdly.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And that's the surprise, that's the twist.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We see this man be dishonest and waste his master's money, so he gets fired, and his response to that is to make as many friends as possible by wasting more of his master's money.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he uses the resources that he's been trusted with to help other people out.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It might have been for selfish motive, but he helped a lot of other people out, and it benefited him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And when his master saw that, instead of being upset with him, it says he commended him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Another translation says that he admired him for being so shrewd.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now, we talked about this last week.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Jesus is not encouraging dishonesty, but it's kind of confusing when you first look at this to understand what the application is.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And thankfully, Jesus kind of clarified for us in verse 9.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He said, here's the lesson.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Use your worldly resources to benefit others and make friends.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Then when your eternal when your earthly possessions are gone, they will welcome you to an eternal home.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So use what you have now, use your resources, the things God has given you now, to bless other people.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And the result of that is you'll make a lot of friends, and they'll be friends not just for this lifetime, but for eternity.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This theme of being trusted with someone else's resources.

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<v SPEAKER_00>There's another parable, we mentioned it briefly last week, next week we're going to go into it in detail, but it's the parable of the talents.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And a very similar story.

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<v SPEAKER_00>There's a master that leaves town, he entrusts a certain portion of his money with three different servants and asks them to be wise with it and to grow it while he's gone.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The same concept of a master giving his resources to someone to manage.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And in these stories, we're the managers.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We are the manager.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We're the ones that have entrusted with God's resources.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Last week we talked about money, how God has trusted us with money.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Whatever we have, we have because it's what God has trusted us with.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And it's actually something really, really good to pray whenever we feel like we need more.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And it's totally okay to pray and ask God for more financial help.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But instead of just praying, God, give me more money, a great thing for us to pray is, God, make me more trustable.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Trust me with more money.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Grow me so that I can handle more money.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Because this is a common theme.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And really, us being managers of God's resources, that's been our role since we've been created.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Genesis 1, 27 and 28 says, So God created human beings in his own image.

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<v SPEAKER_00>In the image of God, he created them.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Male and female, he created them.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And then God blessed them and said, Be fruitful and multiply, fill the earth and govern it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Reign over the fish in the sea, the birds in the sky, and all the animals that scurry along the ground.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So God creates the world and he creates everything in it, and then he gives it to us.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he says, Manage it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I've created this, you manage it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>From the very beginning of our existence, we have been the managers of God's resources.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And just like that story of the shrewd manager, we may not have managed it well all the time.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But even when we discover that we haven't, or when we're reminded that we haven't, we still have access to those resources.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We still have the ability to use them.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now, obviously, money is not the only resource that we have.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's what Jesus focused on in his application of this teaching.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He talks about us being honest, being 100% truthful with our money, being generous and giving.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And the more giving and honest we are, the more he trusts us with.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But money is not the only resource we have.

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<v SPEAKER_00>In fact, in the story of the shrewd manager, it's not even the main resource that this manager is concerned with.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We find out what that resource is in verse 3.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It said, The manager said to himself, What shall I do now?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Key word in that phrase is now.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The resource that this man is worried about is time.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He understood that his time was short.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He did not have a lot of time to act if he was going to secure a future for himself after losing his job.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so he acted quickly and he took drastic action.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And we assume that it worked out well for him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We don't know, the story kind of ended there.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But of every resource that's available to us, everything God has trusted us with, time is the easiest one to neglect.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's the easiest one to forget about.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's the easiest one to waste.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's easy for us to see money as a limited resource.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's pretty simple.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It can be harder for us to see time that way.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So what if what if for this morning we looked at time the same way we look at money?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Would that be helpful?

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<v SPEAKER_00>I think it would.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And if someone has a healthy view of money, they did they do two things with it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Really, they value it, they don't worship it, they don't make it an idol, they're not obsessed with it, but they value it because money is valuable.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And they spend it wisely.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So if we are gonna manage the time that God has given us, we have to do the same two things.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We have to value our time and we have to spend it wisely.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So what does that look like?

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<v SPEAKER_00>When I think about valuing my time, there's this one specific thing that happened in my life.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Nothing grand or great that pops into my mind.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's just a memory of me going to Moe's.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I love Moe's.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I know that a lot of you do too, because when I go to Moe's here in Woodstock, I see a lot of you guys.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Every single- I don't think I've ever been to the Moes in Woodstock without seeing someone from his hands.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I don't know what it is.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That place is just special to us, I guess.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's good.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We have that to share.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um and if you go to the Moe's, anyone go to the Moes in Woodstock every once in a while?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay, this is my opinion.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You may share it, you may not.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I think it's the worst designed parking lot in the history of the world.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Is anyone okay?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Yes, I'm not alone.

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<v SPEAKER_00>In fact, my wife always teases me because as soon as we pull into that parking lot, every single time, she's like, I know, I know it's not a good parking lot.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But it's tough because it's the the entrance sometimes, it's the quick trip, slash Dunkin' Donuts, slash, it's just strange.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And everyone, it's like a free-for-all.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Everyone just figure it out.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That was their that was the strategy.

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<v SPEAKER_00>People will figure it out.

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<v SPEAKER_00>A few years ago, there was this promotion at Mo's where they were doing burritos for$2, and I got very excited, and apparently so did the rest of Woodstock.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So I pull into Moe's, and the normally crazy parking lot is like a zoo, and the line is longer than I'd ever seen it before.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The line there can get pretty long, and they move it along pretty quickly, but Moe's it's not like McDonald's.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It takes some time.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You have a lot of choices to make.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so the line that day was it was wrapped around its normal place, all the way into the restaurant, all the way back to the restrooms, and all the way out the door.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And it was about an hour and a half wait.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I know that because I waited an hour and a half.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Really simple.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I did, I waited in line for about 20 minutes, and I got to the point where I was like, okay, am I gonna stay in this line?

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<v SPEAKER_00>And you know when you get to that point in line waiting, and in reality in America, we're just moving fast to get into another line somewhere.

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<v SPEAKER_00>After about 20 minutes, you're like, should I get out?

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<v SPEAKER_00>But I've been here 20 minutes.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This will be wasted time if I leave, so I just I guess I just have to stay.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I did, I stayed the whole time.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I got my burrito, paid my$2 and whatever change, and I sat down and I was at first excited.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I save five bucks.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I started calculating in my head.

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<v SPEAKER_00>What do I value my time at?

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<v SPEAKER_00>An hour and a half, five dollars.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I value my time at 3.30 an hour.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I wanted to stand up and tell everyone in Moes, we've all made a terrible mistake.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Surely our time is worth more than 330 an hour.

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<v SPEAKER_00>If someone said, hey, I have a job for you, I'll pay you 330 an hour, we'd be like, thanks, but no.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Unless we, you know, unless we really needed it, maybe, but that's what we'd say we value it more than that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But it's amazing, it's just an example of how we tend to value money more than time because we will spend exuberant amounts of time to save a little bit of money.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We'll do that a lot.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's because we tend to value money more than time.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But the truth is, time is a much more valuable resource.

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<v SPEAKER_00>There's a man named Randy Pauch, and he he once said that time is the only resource we have.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Because we can acquire more money, but you cannot buy time.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You can't just get more time.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now, if you've never heard of Randy Pauch, he's a very interesting man.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He was a professor at a university called Carnegie Mellon University.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's one of the most prestigious universities in the country, really known for its research, its technology.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he was one of the most cutting-edge virtual reality scientists in the country.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That sounds like a really fun job, by the way.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm a virtual reality scientist.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And that's what he taught at Carnegie Mellon.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And Carnegie Mellon at the time had this year, this yearly tradition of a lecture that one of their professors would give, and they called it the last lecture.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And they called it that because the thought was: these professors who were incredibly accomplished men and women, people that know their stuff better than most, or if any, people you would want to hear speak, if they had one lecture left to give, what would they want to talk about?

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<v SPEAKER_00>And they had free reign to talk about whatever they wanted as long as it was what they would talk about if it was their last lecture.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Well, the thing that made this one so special is that for Randy, it was his last lecture.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He had been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer the year before.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It had fought, but it had gotten to the point where it was beyond treatment.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He had over 12 liver or 12 tumors, I think, in his liver.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The doctor said, look, you've got three to six months of good life left.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And it was with those circumstances that he gave this lecture.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And you can look it up on YouTube.

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<v SPEAKER_00>If you type in the last lecture, you'll find it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It blew up, it's got over 15 million views.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he spoke, and he spoke about childhood dreams and doing the things that we dreamed about when we were younger.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And it's incredibly inspiring.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He opens by just telling the whole audience exactly what's going on.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Most of them already knew about it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He showed scans, said, Hey, I've got three to six months left to live.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So this is my last lecture.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And if you ever get a chance to watch it, I would make time to watch it because it's incredibly inspiring.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He's full of life.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He's he's excited.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's not this sad, solemn talk.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's him reflecting on his life and his favorite experiences and the things he hopes for.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And it's awesome.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And what's really ironic is that that ended up not being his last lecture.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He got to speak a few more times before he passed away.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He actually got to go on Oprah and all kinds of other huge national TV shows because this thing just blew up like it did.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But three months after that lecture, he gave another one at the University of Virginia.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And ironically, it was on time management.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he's a really funny guy, so he began it by saying, hey, you may have seen me on TV, you may have seen me on the internet and all this kind of stuff, and so I've got three months or so left to live.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I think I'm a little bit of an authority on how to manage the limited time you have left.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He would joke like that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And it was in that time management seminar speech that he gave that he said something I will never forget, something that'll stay with me forever.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He said, Time is all you have, and you may find one day that you have less than you think.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now, I don't know if he had a personal relationship with Jesus or knew the Bible, but if he was trying to paraphrase God, he did a pretty good job because the Bible constantly echoes that statement.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Psalm 39, 4 through 5.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It says, Lord, remind me how brief my time on earth will be.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Remind me that my days are numbered, how fleeting my life is.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You have made my life no longer than the width of my hand.

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<v SPEAKER_00>My entire lifetime is just a moment to you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>At best, each of us is but a breath.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Psalm 90, 12, teach us to realize the brevity of life so that we may grow in wisdom.

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<v SPEAKER_00>James 4, 13 through 14.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Look here, you who say, today or tomorrow, we're going to go to a certain town, we'll stay there for a year, we will do business and make a profit.

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<v SPEAKER_00>How do you know what your life will be like tomorrow?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Your life is like the morning fog.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's here for a little while and then it's gone.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Ephesians 5.16, be very careful then how you live, not as unwise, but as wise, making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil.

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<v SPEAKER_00>God reminds us all throughout the Bible that our time on this earth is limited.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Here's a really cool perspective of that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>In Revelation 12, 12, talking about Satan, the Bible says he is filled with fury because he knows that his time is short.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now, if Satan feels rushed, if he's aware that his time is short, how much more should we be aware that our time is limited?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now, at first this can seem like really sad news.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And it's not fatalistic, and it's actually not sad.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Like I said, if you watch that video of Randy Pauch, if if you watch that, you don't leave it sad and worried about the brevity of life.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You leave it excited about every day you have.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Because one of the great things about discovering that something is limited is That it's immediately more valuable when you realize how limited it is.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Something that is limited is by definition more valuable than something that is not.

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<v SPEAKER_00>A few years ago in 2010, there was this unseasonably cold weather in Florida that wiped out about 70% of our nation's tomato crop.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Most of us don't pay attention to those kinds of things until you go to a restaurant and they ask you to pay for salsa, and you're like, excuse me?

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<v SPEAKER_00>I am an American.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We don't pay for salsa.

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<v SPEAKER_00>What are you talking about?

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<v SPEAKER_00>But that's what happened.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's what happened.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The tomato tomato crop was so rare that a box of tomatoes that normally cost at wholesale$7 went up to$30.

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<v SPEAKER_00>A lot of restaurants just stopped having tomatoes, and Mexican restaurants started charging for salsa.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They were opportunistic.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They were smart.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Those are the glory days for those who are like, oh, you remember back when we could charge for salsa?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Wow, that was great.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And people did, but it was valuable because it was limited.

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<v SPEAKER_00>2008, I think it was, Hurricane Gustav caused a huge gas shortage here in Atlanta.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Most of us remember that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Gas became impossible to find.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Gas stations everywhere didn't have any gas, and we're all driving around looking for gas.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And when we found it, we paid whatever.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Whatever.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And we didn't even really complain about it because you couldn't.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They were charging over$4 a gallon, and we paid it because it was limited.

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<v SPEAKER_00>When something is limited, it has value.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So when we realize that our time on this earth is limited, we're blessed because our life after this life is unlimited.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I always love that about Jesus, that he promised life after death and then he lived after he died, so he backed it up.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We can trust them with that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But our time on this earth is limited.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's reality.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But the fact that it's limited only makes it more valuable.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Another way to put it is this would we rather have a ton of time that wasn't worth much, or less time that was extremely valuable.

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<v SPEAKER_00>There's a man who was a pretty well-known missionary and martyr, someone that was killed as he was on the mission field in South America.

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<v SPEAKER_00>His name's Jim Elliott.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He has a great quote that I heard when I was in college and I never forgot it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It says, I seek not a long life, but a full one, like you, Lord Jesus.

00:24:11.200 --> 00:24:22.160
<v SPEAKER_00>Tommy Newberry, who was here a few months ago doing his 40 Days to a Joy-Filled Life book, he had a quote in his book that said, The only way to appreciate life is to see it for what it is, a temporary gift.

00:24:24.240 --> 00:24:30.720
<v SPEAKER_00>So if we're going to get the most out of the time we have, we have to value it.

00:24:30.799 --> 00:24:35.920
<v SPEAKER_00>We have to see it as this incredibly valuable resource that is extremely limited.

00:24:36.000 --> 00:24:39.599
<v SPEAKER_00>And it's only when we see it like that that we can make the most out of it.

00:24:39.839 --> 00:24:42.880
<v SPEAKER_00>Now, the great thing about something that's valuable is you get to spend it.

00:24:43.119 --> 00:24:45.839
<v SPEAKER_00>The more valuable something is, the more fun it is to spend.

00:24:46.000 --> 00:24:46.319
<v SPEAKER_00>Right?

00:24:46.400 --> 00:24:48.319
<v SPEAKER_00>I mean, is it more fun to spend a dollar or a hundred?

00:24:48.720 --> 00:24:50.960
<v SPEAKER_00>Depends on if you're a teenager or a parent.

00:24:53.759 --> 00:24:58.000
<v SPEAKER_00>But something that's more valuable is more fun to spend because you can buy better stuff with it.

00:24:58.480 --> 00:25:06.640
<v SPEAKER_00>And if we want to experience this life the way God intended it to, not only do we have to value life, but we have to learn how to spend our time.

00:25:07.039 --> 00:25:11.680
<v SPEAKER_00>We have to value our time, but we have to spend it and spend it wisely.

00:25:12.640 --> 00:25:18.319
<v SPEAKER_00>I have a son that's three years old, and as a father, my role is to teach him about life and help him be a healthy person.

00:25:18.559 --> 00:25:24.079
<v SPEAKER_00>One of the greatest moments in life that all of us who have kids have experienced is when God uses your child to teach you.

00:25:24.720 --> 00:25:26.160
<v SPEAKER_00>That happens a lot.

00:25:26.400 --> 00:25:30.160
<v SPEAKER_00>And what's interesting is that my son is three, he has a lot more life ahead of him than me.

00:25:30.319 --> 00:25:35.039
<v SPEAKER_00>He is not old enough to be aware of a thing like lifespan or something like that.

00:25:35.359 --> 00:25:38.480
<v SPEAKER_00>But he values time much more than I do.

00:25:38.960 --> 00:25:40.079
<v SPEAKER_00>Even at three years old.

00:25:40.160 --> 00:25:45.759
<v SPEAKER_00>And I know that because he literally mourns the end of every day.

00:25:49.359 --> 00:25:52.960
<v SPEAKER_00>To my son, sleeping is just wasting time.

00:25:53.920 --> 00:25:59.119
<v SPEAKER_00>And and bedtime is not the end of the day, it is the death of the day.

00:25:59.839 --> 00:26:01.440
<v SPEAKER_00>That is what it is.

00:26:02.000 --> 00:26:05.279
<v SPEAKER_00>And so when it's time for bed, man, he milks every second he can.

00:26:05.359 --> 00:26:08.640
<v SPEAKER_00>He'll all of a sudden go like, I need that one toy, you know, the one we haven't been able to find for three weeks.

00:26:08.720 --> 00:26:09.279
<v SPEAKER_00>Yeah, I need that.

00:26:09.440 --> 00:26:10.079
<v SPEAKER_00>I need it now.

00:26:10.240 --> 00:26:11.680
<v SPEAKER_00>I won't go to bed without it.

00:26:11.920 --> 00:26:13.359
<v SPEAKER_00>I'm hungry, I need something to eat.

00:26:13.440 --> 00:26:15.599
<v SPEAKER_00>I oh, I've got to, now we're potty training him.

00:26:15.759 --> 00:26:16.480
<v SPEAKER_00>I need to go potty.

00:26:16.720 --> 00:26:18.319
<v SPEAKER_00>Whatever I can do to get every minute we can.

00:26:18.480 --> 00:26:22.799
<v SPEAKER_00>When we finally put our foot down and say, now it's bedtime, that's when the waterworks come out.

00:26:22.880 --> 00:26:23.920
<v SPEAKER_00>They're screaming.

00:26:24.079 --> 00:26:27.680
<v SPEAKER_00>I sometimes worry what the neighbors think, but he just goes crazy.

00:26:27.839 --> 00:26:29.440
<v SPEAKER_00>He hates going to bed.

00:26:29.920 --> 00:26:36.240
<v SPEAKER_00>Jim Gaffigan is a famous comedian, and he talks about this same experience, and he's, and it's totally accurate, at least in my life.

00:26:36.319 --> 00:26:41.039
<v SPEAKER_00>He says that putting your children to bed, it's like a hostage negotiation, but in reverse.

00:26:42.640 --> 00:26:46.000
<v SPEAKER_00>Where you're saying, what do I have to do to keep you in there?

00:26:46.319 --> 00:26:47.119
<v SPEAKER_00>What do you want?

00:26:47.200 --> 00:26:48.799
<v SPEAKER_00>Give me your demands.

00:26:50.160 --> 00:26:50.880
<v SPEAKER_00>Whatever.

00:26:51.039 --> 00:26:54.799
<v SPEAKER_00>I'd love to say that my wife and I are principled and we stand our ground.

00:26:54.880 --> 00:26:58.000
<v SPEAKER_00>Some nights we're principled, sometimes we're tired, and he gets his way sometimes.

00:26:58.079 --> 00:26:58.640
<v SPEAKER_00>But we'll do that.

00:26:58.720 --> 00:26:59.039
<v SPEAKER_00>What do you want?

00:26:59.119 --> 00:26:59.680
<v SPEAKER_00>What do you want to do?

00:26:59.759 --> 00:27:00.559
<v SPEAKER_00>Just stay in there.

00:27:00.799 --> 00:27:01.599
<v SPEAKER_00>Please.

00:27:02.240 --> 00:27:03.039
<v SPEAKER_00>Please.

00:27:03.599 --> 00:27:09.599
<v SPEAKER_00>In fact, if you're a friend of my wife on Facebook, last night she had a post and she didn't even really know I was going to be telling this story, so it's just cool that it happened.

00:27:09.759 --> 00:27:15.039
<v SPEAKER_00>But she she put him to bed and he was doing his normal thing, you know, acting like it's the first time he's ever gone to bed and it was terrible.

00:27:15.279 --> 00:27:17.440
<v SPEAKER_00>And and she just posted on Facebook afterwards.

00:27:17.519 --> 00:27:22.559
<v SPEAKER_00>She said, When I'm putting my three-year-old to bed, I'm reminded that Americans do not negotiate with terrorists.

00:27:23.200 --> 00:27:24.240
<v SPEAKER_00>Not negotiate with terrorists.

00:27:24.559 --> 00:27:25.440
<v SPEAKER_00>That's how it is.

00:27:25.680 --> 00:27:26.319
<v SPEAKER_00>Very simple.

00:27:26.559 --> 00:27:29.519
<v SPEAKER_00>I thought that was appropriate being Fourth of July weekend.

00:27:30.480 --> 00:27:34.319
<v SPEAKER_00>There is this one thing that I've discovered that helps, right now at least.

00:27:34.720 --> 00:27:36.160
<v SPEAKER_00>It helps for a while, I'll take it.

00:27:36.319 --> 00:27:39.440
<v SPEAKER_00>And that's when when Liam gets over his initial fit.

00:27:39.680 --> 00:27:45.200
<v SPEAKER_00>If I go up into his room and I start talking to him about tomorrow, we start planning the next day.

00:27:45.599 --> 00:27:51.680
<v SPEAKER_00>Actually, a week ago today, it was Sunday night, and he was doing his usual, you know, fighting bedtime as hard as he could.

00:27:51.759 --> 00:27:56.160
<v SPEAKER_00>And I had the next day off, and so I went up there, I said, Liam, Liam, it's okay.

00:27:56.400 --> 00:27:58.480
<v SPEAKER_00>Tomorrow is gonna be awesome.

00:27:58.880 --> 00:28:01.759
<v SPEAKER_00>And he looked at me and said, What are we gonna do tomorrow?

00:28:02.160 --> 00:28:03.519
<v SPEAKER_00>And I only had one thing planned.

00:28:03.599 --> 00:28:07.759
<v SPEAKER_00>I was gonna go work out with my friend Ben, and he has a son named Easton, that's a similar age as Liam.

00:28:07.839 --> 00:28:14.640
<v SPEAKER_00>They get along, and so we'd already planned to go to the gym together, and they were gonna play together at the gym, and I said, Hey, we're gonna go to the, we're gonna go to the gym, and Easton's gonna be there.

00:28:14.799 --> 00:28:16.319
<v SPEAKER_00>And then I thought that would work.

00:28:16.400 --> 00:28:18.160
<v SPEAKER_00>He said, What after that?

00:28:20.000 --> 00:28:23.200
<v SPEAKER_00>And that's really where my day planning had stopped.

00:28:23.440 --> 00:28:28.079
<v SPEAKER_00>So at this point, I'm ad-libbing, I'm improvising, and I said, Well, we'll uh we'll we'll go get something to eat.

00:28:28.240 --> 00:28:29.759
<v SPEAKER_00>And he said, What after that?

00:28:30.240 --> 00:28:33.599
<v SPEAKER_00>And I'm realizing that he needs something big, he needs something really to look forward to.

00:28:33.680 --> 00:28:37.279
<v SPEAKER_00>So I just out of nowhere go, we will have a water gun fight.

00:28:37.519 --> 00:28:39.440
<v SPEAKER_00>And his eyes got really big.

00:28:39.599 --> 00:28:42.079
<v SPEAKER_00>And he said, Can I can we get water balloons?

00:28:42.319 --> 00:28:43.200
<v SPEAKER_00>I said, Yeah.

00:28:43.359 --> 00:28:44.720
<v SPEAKER_00>Again, hostage negotiation.

00:28:44.799 --> 00:28:45.279
<v SPEAKER_00>What do you want?

00:28:45.359 --> 00:28:46.640
<v SPEAKER_00>What are your demands?

00:28:48.160 --> 00:28:49.119
<v SPEAKER_00>Absolutely.

00:28:49.359 --> 00:28:51.440
<v SPEAKER_00>He's like, Can I squirt you and get you really wet?

00:28:51.599 --> 00:28:52.240
<v SPEAKER_00>Yes.

00:28:52.799 --> 00:28:56.319
<v SPEAKER_00>And then he looked at me and he said, Night night, daddy.

00:28:57.359 --> 00:28:57.920
<v SPEAKER_00>You know?

00:28:58.079 --> 00:28:59.440
<v SPEAKER_00>It was awesome.

00:29:01.680 --> 00:29:07.279
<v SPEAKER_00>And the great thing about that experience is that he was so excited about the next day, and I was too.

00:29:08.559 --> 00:29:10.240
<v SPEAKER_00>And that next day was great.

00:29:10.480 --> 00:29:14.000
<v SPEAKER_00>And the reason it was great is because we spent time.

00:29:15.200 --> 00:29:17.519
<v SPEAKER_00>We spent time together.

00:29:17.759 --> 00:29:20.079
<v SPEAKER_00>We spent time doing something we enjoyed.

00:29:20.319 --> 00:29:21.200
<v SPEAKER_00>We made memories.

00:29:21.279 --> 00:29:24.160
<v SPEAKER_00>He may never remember it because he's young, but I'll always remember that.

00:29:24.240 --> 00:29:25.519
<v SPEAKER_00>It was a blast.

00:29:26.960 --> 00:29:34.480
<v SPEAKER_00>And the key to using that resource of time that God has given us, on top of valuing it, it's spending it.

00:29:34.559 --> 00:29:36.480
<v SPEAKER_00>And spending it wisely.

00:29:37.279 --> 00:29:45.200
<v SPEAKER_00>When it comes to time management stuff, if you look at time management books or you watch time management stuff that's on TV from time to time or whatever, it's always about saving time.

00:29:45.359 --> 00:29:46.240
<v SPEAKER_00>That's what it's always about.

00:29:46.319 --> 00:29:47.039
<v SPEAKER_00>You've got to save time.

00:29:47.119 --> 00:29:48.880
<v SPEAKER_00>How much time can you save?

00:29:50.000 --> 00:29:51.440
<v SPEAKER_00>But I think we should see it the other way.

00:29:51.519 --> 00:29:54.880
<v SPEAKER_00>I think instead of worrying about saving time, we should think about spending time.

00:29:55.519 --> 00:30:01.359
<v SPEAKER_00>Because if we spend our time in the right way, we won't have much time left to waste or worry about saving.

00:30:01.599 --> 00:30:04.960
<v SPEAKER_00>But we should think about how do I want to spend my time?

00:30:05.759 --> 00:30:08.400
<v SPEAKER_00>Who do I want to spend my time on?

00:30:08.880 --> 00:30:14.880
<v SPEAKER_00>And if you value your time and you see it as something incredibly important, something God has blessed you with, because you never know how many more days you have.

00:30:15.039 --> 00:30:18.319
<v SPEAKER_00>If God's given me today, who do I want to spend today on?

00:30:18.960 --> 00:30:20.160
<v SPEAKER_00>So how do we spend it right?

00:30:20.319 --> 00:30:29.440
<v SPEAKER_00>Well, one thing we can do, this is a really simple thing, it's simple in thought at least, is to stop spending so much time on tasks and start spending time on people.

00:30:31.039 --> 00:30:32.640
<v SPEAKER_00>Jesus is like that.

00:30:33.200 --> 00:30:35.680
<v SPEAKER_00>He cared greatly about spending time with people.

00:30:35.839 --> 00:30:40.160
<v SPEAKER_00>In fact, it's interesting because he definitely knew how valuable his time was.

00:30:40.319 --> 00:30:44.960
<v SPEAKER_00>I don't know what dollar amount Jesus put on his time, but I'd say as the Son of God, it was high.

00:30:45.440 --> 00:30:48.960
<v SPEAKER_00>And he knew how high the stakes were, what he was here to do.

00:30:49.279 --> 00:30:54.400
<v SPEAKER_00>What he was here to do was something big, something epic, something no one had ever done before, no one could ever do but him.

00:30:54.720 --> 00:30:56.480
<v SPEAKER_00>And his time was limited, and he knew it.

00:30:56.559 --> 00:30:59.200
<v SPEAKER_00>He's constantly telling the disciples, I don't have much time left.

00:30:59.279 --> 00:31:10.160
<v SPEAKER_00>And for someone that has such an important task to do and knows his time is limited, Jesus spends an awful lot of time just hanging out, eating, and feasting with people.

00:31:10.720 --> 00:31:13.759
<v SPEAKER_00>Sometimes it was his close friends, sometimes it was people he just met.

00:31:14.319 --> 00:31:18.000
<v SPEAKER_00>And you might look at that and be like, he needs to prioritize.

00:31:18.559 --> 00:31:19.599
<v SPEAKER_00>What's he doing?

00:31:19.759 --> 00:31:24.960
<v SPEAKER_00>These are moments he could be teaching and telling people things, and yet he's just eating and loving on people.

00:31:25.200 --> 00:31:28.559
<v SPEAKER_00>And it was in those moments that he taught us some of the things that we still hold on to.

00:31:28.799 --> 00:31:34.160
<v SPEAKER_00>We forget that sometimes what we're hearing Jesus say to us is in the context of him at a dinner table with a bunch of friends.

00:31:34.960 --> 00:31:39.519
<v SPEAKER_00>There's a story in Luke chapter 10, verses 38 through 42.

00:31:39.599 --> 00:31:42.400
<v SPEAKER_00>It says, As they continued their travel, Jesus entered a village.

00:31:42.559 --> 00:31:45.440
<v SPEAKER_00>A woman by the name of Martha welcomed him and made him feel quite at home.

00:31:45.599 --> 00:31:52.720
<v SPEAKER_00>She had a sister Mary who sat before the master, hanging on every word she said, but Martha was pulled away by all she had to do in the kitchen.

00:31:52.880 --> 00:31:54.400
<v SPEAKER_00>Later she stepped in, interrupting them.

00:31:54.559 --> 00:31:57.839
<v SPEAKER_00>Master, don't you care that my sister has abandoned the kitchen to me?

00:31:58.079 --> 00:31:59.440
<v SPEAKER_00>Tell her to lend me a hand.

00:31:59.680 --> 00:32:04.640
<v SPEAKER_00>The master said, Martha, dear Martha, you're fussing far too much and getting yourself worked up over nothing.

00:32:04.880 --> 00:32:12.079
<v SPEAKER_00>The one only one thing is essential, and Mary has chosen it, the main course, and it won't be taken away from her.

00:32:13.200 --> 00:32:16.079
<v SPEAKER_00>So Martha made a mistake that I make all the time.

00:32:16.559 --> 00:32:23.839
<v SPEAKER_00>She's all wrapped up in these tasks, and the tasks only exist because of the person she wants to spend time with.

00:32:25.039 --> 00:32:29.279
<v SPEAKER_00>She gets so wrapped up in those tasks that she doesn't spend any time with that person.

00:32:29.680 --> 00:32:31.200
<v SPEAKER_00>She forgets the whole point of it.

00:32:31.359 --> 00:32:32.400
<v SPEAKER_00>I do that all the time.

00:32:32.559 --> 00:32:34.559
<v SPEAKER_00>I think about things like paying bills.

00:32:35.279 --> 00:32:39.680
<v SPEAKER_00>When it's my time to pay bills and go over finances and all that stuff, I sort of get in this zone.

00:32:40.319 --> 00:32:52.960
<v SPEAKER_00>And I don't want to be talked to, I'm just very focused, and I'm sort of semi-stressed because I'm not a super organizational person by nature, and so that requires a lot of things that aren't in my strength, so I have to be very attentive to everything.

00:32:53.200 --> 00:32:58.880
<v SPEAKER_00>And the only reason that I pay my bills is to provide a good life for my family.

00:32:59.839 --> 00:33:09.680
<v SPEAKER_00>So if in paying the bills, I'm so focused on it and I'm so obsessed with it that I end up taking away joy from my family while I'm doing it, I've missed the point.

00:33:10.000 --> 00:33:14.079
<v SPEAKER_00>That task only exists to bless my family.

00:33:14.559 --> 00:33:22.720
<v SPEAKER_00>So as much as we can, we've got to organize our lives so that we can spend our time on people, not on tasks.

00:33:22.880 --> 00:33:26.559
<v SPEAKER_00>Whatever it takes, spend time on people.

00:33:26.799 --> 00:33:29.759
<v SPEAKER_00>People who you love, people who need love.

00:33:31.920 --> 00:33:34.880
<v SPEAKER_00>If you spend time on those things, it has this massive effect.

00:33:34.960 --> 00:33:35.279
<v SPEAKER_00>Think about it.

00:33:35.359 --> 00:33:36.720
<v SPEAKER_00>In this room right now, there's about a thousand of us.

00:33:36.799 --> 00:33:40.000
<v SPEAKER_00>Maybe a little less because it's Fourth of July weekend, but that's kind of the normal.

00:33:40.240 --> 00:33:56.960
<v SPEAKER_00>If a thousand of us found one task that takes an hour of our week that we could do away with, or cut in half, and we spent that time on our family, or the people we love, our close friends, what would the effect of that be?

00:33:58.400 --> 00:34:09.679
<v SPEAKER_00>And if you took that hour and you just said, okay, I'm gonna save up those hours, and every month I get a good four or five-hour chunk of time just to spend time on my family.

00:34:10.480 --> 00:34:12.159
<v SPEAKER_00>What's that gonna look like?

00:34:12.480 --> 00:34:14.800
<v SPEAKER_00>What's the effect on your family's life gonna be?

00:34:14.960 --> 00:34:18.000
<v SPEAKER_00>On Father's Day, I got to spend the day with my son and I took him fishing.

00:34:18.239 --> 00:34:23.360
<v SPEAKER_00>We went to a trout farm in North Carolina, it's about a two and a half hour drive, and he caught five trout.

00:34:24.239 --> 00:34:28.159
<v SPEAKER_00>You can't not catch trout or you know, on a trout farm, that's the whole point of it.

00:34:28.719 --> 00:34:29.679
<v SPEAKER_00>But he caught five.

00:34:29.760 --> 00:34:32.000
<v SPEAKER_00>I wanted him to have the experience of catching fish.

00:34:32.239 --> 00:34:36.719
<v SPEAKER_00>And that day is one of the best days I've ever had in my life.

00:34:36.960 --> 00:34:38.400
<v SPEAKER_00>It was so much fun.

00:34:38.639 --> 00:34:41.039
<v SPEAKER_00>There were memories made that day that I'll cherish the rest of my life.

00:34:41.280 --> 00:34:44.480
<v SPEAKER_00>When I'm on my deathbed, I know that's a day I'm gonna be like, replay.

00:34:44.719 --> 00:34:46.800
<v SPEAKER_00>I just want to live that day again.

00:34:47.840 --> 00:34:58.079
<v SPEAKER_00>And if you can have a day like that a month, think of the effect it would have on you and the effect it would have on whoever it is you're spending that day with, the memories you get to make.

00:35:00.400 --> 00:35:03.920
<v SPEAKER_00>Your children will value that time.

00:35:04.239 --> 00:35:09.519
<v SPEAKER_00>Those will be precious memories to you, and when they have kids, they'll want to have those same experiences.

00:35:10.880 --> 00:35:16.159
<v SPEAKER_00>So you think this is something that doesn't just impact you now or the generation below you, this impacts generations to come.

00:35:16.320 --> 00:35:28.000
<v SPEAKER_00>And if a thousand of us do that, as someone that works with teenagers, I cannot tell you the difference in young people who have families that give them attention and time.

00:35:29.599 --> 00:35:30.960
<v SPEAKER_00>And those that don't.

00:35:33.519 --> 00:35:35.519
<v SPEAKER_00>Spend your time on the people you love.

00:35:35.760 --> 00:35:37.840
<v SPEAKER_00>Not don't even think of it as spending time with them.

00:35:38.000 --> 00:35:38.880
<v SPEAKER_00>Spend time on them.

00:35:39.039 --> 00:35:42.000
<v SPEAKER_00>View your time as so valuable that you are giving them time.

00:35:43.280 --> 00:35:45.280
<v SPEAKER_00>Okay, so how do we organize our life that way?

00:35:45.440 --> 00:35:49.199
<v SPEAKER_00>Well, Steve showed me something as we were as we were getting ready for this week.

00:35:49.360 --> 00:35:53.440
<v SPEAKER_00>It's from uh Stephen Covey's Seven Habits of Highly Effective People.

00:35:53.679 --> 00:35:54.960
<v SPEAKER_00>And it's awesome.

00:35:55.199 --> 00:36:00.559
<v SPEAKER_00>I'm someone that when I see something really exciting, something that just really helps me, like, oh, that's good.

00:36:00.719 --> 00:36:02.559
<v SPEAKER_00>I just immediately put it into practice.

00:36:02.719 --> 00:36:05.519
<v SPEAKER_00>Sometimes even too fast where I haven't really thought it through, but that's just what I do.

00:36:05.599 --> 00:36:13.039
<v SPEAKER_00>So I saw this, I got really excited, and I immediately completely changed my to-do lists and how I do to-do lists around this.

00:36:13.360 --> 00:36:14.880
<v SPEAKER_00>And it's this chart.

00:36:15.360 --> 00:36:16.800
<v SPEAKER_00>It's really simple.

00:36:17.039 --> 00:36:19.519
<v SPEAKER_00>Divide your time into four quadrants.

00:36:19.679 --> 00:36:27.920
<v SPEAKER_00>You've got things that are urgent and important, things that are urgent and not important, things that are not urgent and important, and things that are not urgent and not important.

00:36:28.079 --> 00:36:32.960
<v SPEAKER_00>It's really easy at the outset to rank the most important and the least important, right?

00:36:33.039 --> 00:36:34.639
<v SPEAKER_00>You've got number one and four.

00:36:34.800 --> 00:36:41.199
<v SPEAKER_00>Number one would be, you know, if you're a parent with lots of kids and you're at home and there's all these things that need done, you're gonna live in number one.

00:36:41.440 --> 00:36:43.920
<v SPEAKER_00>Everything's urgent, and everything's important.

00:36:44.559 --> 00:36:46.400
<v SPEAKER_00>No offense, because I love you guys a lot.

00:36:46.559 --> 00:36:48.719
<v SPEAKER_00>Teenagers, you live in number four.

00:36:51.679 --> 00:36:53.199
<v SPEAKER_00>I love you guys, but it's true.

00:36:53.280 --> 00:36:53.840
<v SPEAKER_00>Just think about it.

00:36:54.000 --> 00:36:54.320
<v SPEAKER_00>Okay.

00:36:54.480 --> 00:36:56.079
<v SPEAKER_00>Um, but that's good.

00:36:56.159 --> 00:37:00.239
<v SPEAKER_00>You should, because one day you're gonna have to live in number one, so hey, enjoy it.

00:37:00.960 --> 00:37:14.079
<v SPEAKER_00>What's challenging though is where we rank the rest, because the tendency is to put, to put it like this: to put the urgent and not important as number two, and then to put the not urgent and important as number three.

00:37:14.239 --> 00:37:18.239
<v SPEAKER_00>We tend to live in urgent, and we value urgency.

00:37:18.480 --> 00:37:21.360
<v SPEAKER_00>As we would highlight those right there, that's what we value.

00:37:21.599 --> 00:37:23.280
<v SPEAKER_00>We value the urgent.

00:37:23.920 --> 00:37:25.360
<v SPEAKER_00>But that's a trap.

00:37:26.000 --> 00:37:28.239
<v SPEAKER_00>Because it should look more like this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Number one is the urgent and important, because it's got to get done now.

00:37:32.320 --> 00:37:34.639
<v SPEAKER_00>Number two is what's important but not urgent.

00:37:34.719 --> 00:37:39.920
<v SPEAKER_00>If we're doing something that's not important and urgent over something that's important, why are we doing it?

00:37:41.119 --> 00:37:43.599
<v SPEAKER_00>We should value importance.

00:37:44.000 --> 00:37:45.440
<v SPEAKER_00>That's where we should live.

00:37:45.679 --> 00:37:47.119
<v SPEAKER_00>We should value things that are important.

00:37:47.199 --> 00:37:51.440
<v SPEAKER_00>And the goal is to spend as much of our time as possible in number two.

00:37:52.880 --> 00:37:53.840
<v SPEAKER_00>As much as possible.

00:37:53.920 --> 00:37:57.840
<v SPEAKER_00>Because if we spend most of our time on what's important but not urgent, guess what?

00:37:57.920 --> 00:37:59.679
<v SPEAKER_00>It doesn't become urgent.

00:38:00.000 --> 00:38:01.599
<v SPEAKER_00>We don't have those crises.

00:38:02.960 --> 00:38:11.840
<v SPEAKER_00>Now you can apply this to your work life, you can apply this to, you know, if you're a student, school, and it's pretty easy to see those applications.

00:38:11.920 --> 00:38:15.360
<v SPEAKER_00>You know, okay, if I'm a student, don't study the night before a big test.

00:38:15.440 --> 00:38:17.119
<v SPEAKER_00>Study before that so it's not a crisis.

00:38:18.000 --> 00:38:22.239
<v SPEAKER_00>If you're a worker, if you have a meeting that you've got to schedule, don't plan the meeting the day of or the hour before.

00:38:22.400 --> 00:38:23.679
<v SPEAKER_00>Plan it ahead of time.

00:38:23.840 --> 00:38:24.480
<v SPEAKER_00>Do things like that.

00:38:24.559 --> 00:38:26.559
<v SPEAKER_00>Those are pretty easy to see, and that's that stuff's good.

00:38:26.719 --> 00:38:33.039
<v SPEAKER_00>It's great when we get little time savers for work, but we're talking mainly this morning about life and the most important parts of life and how to spend that time.

00:38:33.199 --> 00:38:35.199
<v SPEAKER_00>So think of something like our marriage.

00:38:35.440 --> 00:38:40.320
<v SPEAKER_00>A few years ago, Chip Judd, who spoke here a couple times, did a two-day marriage seminar.

00:38:40.480 --> 00:38:41.440
<v SPEAKER_00>It was awesome.

00:38:41.760 --> 00:38:46.400
<v SPEAKER_00>And he talked about marriage counseling, how he'd done a lot of marriage counseling, and this is just the truth.

00:38:46.559 --> 00:38:51.440
<v SPEAKER_00>Most of us go to get counseling or marriage counseling when we're in crisis.

00:38:52.400 --> 00:38:54.400
<v SPEAKER_00>When there's the threat of divorce or separation.

00:38:54.480 --> 00:38:55.920
<v SPEAKER_00>And so we go when we're in number one.

00:38:56.079 --> 00:38:57.280
<v SPEAKER_00>That's when we go.

00:38:59.360 --> 00:39:08.000
<v SPEAKER_00>But very rarely, he said, do people go get marriage counseling when they're when they're in a situation where they see something important they need to work on, but it's not urgent yet.

00:39:08.239 --> 00:39:16.559
<v SPEAKER_00>They realize there's issues that are mounting, frustrations that are long term, but it's not at this crazy breaking point where I can't stand another day with you.

00:39:16.639 --> 00:39:17.039
<v SPEAKER_00>It's not there.

00:39:17.199 --> 00:39:18.159
<v SPEAKER_00>And his point was simple.

00:39:18.320 --> 00:39:20.960
<v SPEAKER_00>If you wait until it's a crisis, it might get solved.

00:39:21.039 --> 00:39:21.599
<v SPEAKER_00>We hope it will.

00:39:21.840 --> 00:39:26.559
<v SPEAKER_00>There's never nothing that is ever too late for God to fix, but it's a lot more challenging.

00:39:26.880 --> 00:39:32.639
<v SPEAKER_00>And if we focus on working out those issues before it becomes urgent, we live in number two.

00:39:34.320 --> 00:39:36.639
<v SPEAKER_00>We never get to those crisis moments.

00:39:38.159 --> 00:39:39.840
<v SPEAKER_00>Think about how that would affect our marriages.

00:39:39.920 --> 00:39:42.639
<v SPEAKER_00>Think about how many divorce rate in America would get cut in half.

00:39:42.719 --> 00:39:44.960
<v SPEAKER_00>Now apply that same thought to your finances.

00:39:46.079 --> 00:39:47.920
<v SPEAKER_00>Apply it to your kids.

00:39:48.320 --> 00:39:57.840
<v SPEAKER_00>If we focus on what's important and the people that are important, before it's urgent, we get to avoid those crises as much as possible.

00:39:57.920 --> 00:40:01.119
<v SPEAKER_00>Now, the quickest side is if you have a crisis, yeah, spend your time there.

00:40:01.280 --> 00:40:02.000
<v SPEAKER_00>That's okay.

00:40:02.079 --> 00:40:04.159
<v SPEAKER_00>But as much as possible, live in number two.

00:40:04.559 --> 00:40:07.679
<v SPEAKER_00>And it affects our lives in incredible ways.

00:40:10.079 --> 00:40:12.960
<v SPEAKER_00>The worship team wants to come up, we'll wrap up.

00:40:13.519 --> 00:40:21.760
<v SPEAKER_00>You know, in that parable Jesus told, the shrewd manager had a Randy Pauch moment where he realized that he didn't have as much time left as he thought.

00:40:21.920 --> 00:40:23.599
<v SPEAKER_00>And so he acted on it.

00:40:24.000 --> 00:40:24.960
<v SPEAKER_00>He acted on it.

00:40:25.119 --> 00:40:27.679
<v SPEAKER_00>And the great thing is all of us have that same opportunity.

00:40:28.079 --> 00:40:32.400
<v SPEAKER_00>And so I want to leave you this morning with a battle cry of sorts.

00:40:32.800 --> 00:40:33.599
<v SPEAKER_00>A mantra.

00:40:33.840 --> 00:40:34.800
<v SPEAKER_00>Mantras are good, right?

00:40:34.960 --> 00:40:36.079
<v SPEAKER_00>Dallas, you like mantras.

00:40:36.159 --> 00:40:36.400
<v SPEAKER_00>Yeah.

00:40:36.559 --> 00:40:38.960
<v SPEAKER_00>And this mantra, this is a good one.

00:40:40.079 --> 00:40:44.639
<v SPEAKER_00>You can use this, no one will know what it means, but those of us that are here, it'll be a great inside joke.

00:40:45.119 --> 00:40:47.760
<v SPEAKER_00>And it's before the glow stick fades.

00:40:49.440 --> 00:40:50.960
<v SPEAKER_00>Now I look this up.

00:40:51.440 --> 00:40:53.039
<v SPEAKER_00>This is a challenge.

00:40:53.760 --> 00:40:57.920
<v SPEAKER_00>The average lifespan of a glow stick is about six hours.

00:40:58.480 --> 00:41:01.840
<v SPEAKER_00>And we probably did the whole indoor fireworks what?

00:41:02.159 --> 00:41:03.440
<v SPEAKER_00>I talk a long time, I know.

00:41:03.519 --> 00:41:04.559
<v SPEAKER_00>So an hour ago?

00:41:04.800 --> 00:41:07.199
<v SPEAKER_00>Something like that, 35, 40 minutes ago?

00:41:07.440 --> 00:41:13.920
<v SPEAKER_00>So that means that on average, your glow stick, the one you've got right now, has four and a half hours left to five hours.

00:41:14.000 --> 00:41:15.280
<v SPEAKER_00>That's all you've got, people.

00:41:15.440 --> 00:41:16.239
<v SPEAKER_00>Come on.

00:41:18.320 --> 00:41:19.679
<v SPEAKER_00>And so here's the opportunity.

00:41:19.840 --> 00:41:22.880
<v SPEAKER_00>What if, what if we looked at that glow stick today?

00:41:22.960 --> 00:41:31.840
<v SPEAKER_00>Keep it with you and say, hey, before this thing fades, how much time can I spend on important things with important people?

00:41:32.320 --> 00:41:33.679
<v SPEAKER_00>It's natural on Sundays.

00:41:33.760 --> 00:41:35.119
<v SPEAKER_00>I love doing stuff that's just today.

00:41:35.199 --> 00:41:40.639
<v SPEAKER_00>You know, it's natural on Sundays to already have this to-do list of things you're gonna do when you get home, and you might find that, hey, I was gonna do this, this, and this.

00:41:40.719 --> 00:41:42.880
<v SPEAKER_00>And those things might be urgent, but are they important?

00:41:43.199 --> 00:41:44.719
<v SPEAKER_00>Some of them might be.

00:41:45.519 --> 00:41:47.679
<v SPEAKER_00>But you might go, hey, I was gonna do this, this, and this.

00:41:47.760 --> 00:41:50.719
<v SPEAKER_00>And those things are urgent, they're things I need to do, but they're not important.

00:41:50.800 --> 00:41:55.280
<v SPEAKER_00>And instead, what could I do that's important?

00:41:56.239 --> 00:42:02.239
<v SPEAKER_00>Who can I spend my time on in the next five hours that needs it?

00:42:04.159 --> 00:42:14.800
<v SPEAKER_00>So what if we literally today took these glow sticks and used them as like an hourglass and said, okay, I'm gonna do this, I'm gonna go spend time with my kids, I'm gonna do something fun with them, something unexpected.

00:42:14.960 --> 00:42:19.199
<v SPEAKER_00>And if we do that and we look at our glow stick and there's more light left, we're like, yes, something else.

00:42:19.440 --> 00:42:24.079
<v SPEAKER_00>And if we want to go really big and affect a lot of people, something really simple can go a long way.

00:42:24.559 --> 00:42:31.840
<v SPEAKER_00>What if we did that and then got on Facebook and got on the Hiss Hands Church Facebook page and just posted, before my glow stick faded, I did this.

00:42:32.079 --> 00:42:34.880
<v SPEAKER_00>There'll be a lot of people on Facebook that are really confused.

00:42:37.199 --> 00:42:41.119
<v SPEAKER_00>I also happen to think that people will kind of figure out the gist of it.

00:42:41.440 --> 00:42:47.599
<v SPEAKER_00>And if five or six hundred of us posted on our Facebook page, that would result in probably 20 to 30,000 people seeing that.

00:42:48.320 --> 00:42:50.239
<v SPEAKER_00>That's the way Facebook works.

00:42:52.000 --> 00:42:59.119
<v SPEAKER_00>So think about what that would be like if 20 or 30,000 people saw something that just reminded them, ah, I need to spend some time with my family.

00:43:00.880 --> 00:43:02.000
<v SPEAKER_00>That'd be huge.

00:43:02.239 --> 00:43:03.840
<v SPEAKER_00>That'd be life-changing.

00:43:04.159 --> 00:43:06.079
<v SPEAKER_00>So I want to encourage us to do that.

00:43:06.559 --> 00:43:09.519
<v SPEAKER_00>The mantra today is before the glow stick fades.

00:43:09.760 --> 00:43:15.039
<v SPEAKER_00>It's like a battle cry or something in a movie, you know, raise your fists and yell it as you go down the mountain.

00:43:15.199 --> 00:43:18.320
<v SPEAKER_00>Before the glow stick fades, take it literally, do it.

00:43:18.639 --> 00:43:20.079
<v SPEAKER_00>Use that as a gift.

00:43:20.559 --> 00:43:22.159
<v SPEAKER_00>Value your time and spend it.

00:43:22.320 --> 00:43:23.360
<v SPEAKER_00>Just like Jesus did.

00:43:23.440 --> 00:43:24.480
<v SPEAKER_00>Let's pray.

00:43:27.039 --> 00:43:31.840
<v SPEAKER_00>Jesus, thank you so much for uh for every every minute we have.

00:43:32.719 --> 00:43:36.320
<v SPEAKER_00>Teach us to value our time like a three-year-old fighting bedtime.

00:43:38.960 --> 00:43:42.639
<v SPEAKER_00>Teach us to see every single moment of our lives as a gift.

00:43:44.079 --> 00:43:48.000
<v SPEAKER_00>And just like your word says, help us see that it is limited, but that just makes it valuable.

00:43:48.159 --> 00:43:51.920
<v SPEAKER_00>And let us spend it on things that are important, on people that are important.

00:43:52.079 --> 00:44:01.119
<v SPEAKER_00>I pray that right now you would just flood our minds with people who you want us to spend time on, people we know we need to spend time on.

00:44:01.440 --> 00:44:04.079
<v SPEAKER_00>Things that we know are extremely important.

00:44:04.480 --> 00:44:11.039
<v SPEAKER_00>And give us the gift of time, just the time today to go do those things, to spend time with those people.

00:44:11.280 --> 00:44:14.079
<v SPEAKER_00>Help us have an urgency about it.

00:44:16.159 --> 00:44:20.719
<v SPEAKER_00>Even though the whole glow stick thing is kind of a kind of a silly, a silly example.

00:44:20.880 --> 00:44:29.039
<v SPEAKER_00>Pray that we take that even seriously and use that as a challenge, as a teaching opportunity for us just to go out and make the most of the time we have today.

00:44:29.840 --> 00:44:33.840
<v SPEAKER_00>Thank you for every second of time you gave us, Jesus.

00:44:34.480 --> 00:44:36.079
<v SPEAKER_00>Give us more time with you.

00:44:36.559 --> 00:44:37.840
<v SPEAKER_00>We love you so much.

00:44:38.159 --> 00:44:39.599
<v SPEAKER_00>We pray all this in your name.

00:44:39.920 --> 00:44:40.559
<v SPEAKER_00>Amen.

00:44:41.440 --> 00:44:43.440
<v SPEAKER_00>Before the glow stick fades.
