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<v SPEAKER_00>Our passage for the day, and that is Ephesians 4, 17 through 32.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now I say and testify in the Lord that you must no longer walk as the Gentiles do, in the futility of their minds.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They are darkened in their understanding, alienated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them due to the hardness of heart.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They have become callous and have given themselves up to sensuality, greedy to practice every kind of impurity.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But that is not the way you learned Christ, assuming that you have heard about him and were taught in him, as the truth is in Jesus, to put off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life, and is corrupt through deceitful desires, and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds, and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Therefore, having put away falsehood, let each of you speak the truth with his neighbor, for we are members of one another.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Be angry and do not sin.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Do not let the sun go down on your anger, and give no opportunity to the devil.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Let the thief no longer steal, but rather let him labor, doing honest work with his own hands, so that he may have something to share with anyone in need.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving one another as God in Christ forgave you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This is the word of the Lord.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Please be seated.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Friday, August 6th is a family picnic at Berkeley.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Berkeley?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Berkeley.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Berkeley.

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<v SPEAKER_00>First one?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Yeah.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm from Denver.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Is uh Berkeley Park 5 to 7.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh there'll be games, lots of good stuff for the families and singles.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And uh there's gonna be tons of Berkeleyans uh to connect with.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's kind of a neighborhood thing going on, so a wonderful opportunity for us to get embedded in the community and uh reach out and uh let people know that we're here and we're here for them.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh RCD kids uh also on Friday, this Friday at 10 a.m., uh will be meeting up at the zoo.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh so if you want to go ahead and show up, please do.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They're just gonna meet at the entrance at 10 a.m.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And uh August 4th, last one, uh continuing the second discussion on the book Gentle and Lowly.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh that's at 6 p.m.

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<v SPEAKER_00>here at RCD.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh if you've not read it, highly recommend it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm working my way through it very slowly, but I'm working my way through it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So that's at 6 p.m.

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<v SPEAKER_00>All right.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh let's go ahead and uh pray, and uh we'll dive into our text.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh Father, we thank you for the opportunity uh to gather here as your body, as your people.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I just ask today, uh, as I share your word, uh, that you give me a spirit of humility and wisdom, that I may convey your words and your thoughts correctly from this text uh to your people here today.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I pray for all of our hearts that as we receive this message, we receive it as well with humility, uh, understanding that these are your words to us to help us change and to grow together as a body.

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<v SPEAKER_00>In your name we pray.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Amen.

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<v SPEAKER_00>All right.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Again, my name's Jacob.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh, very happy to be here.

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<v SPEAKER_00>As Zach said, we've been here for I don't know, maybe seven or eight months.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh, so super excited to share this passage with you this morning.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So let's go ahead and get going.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um, I remember uh when my wife and I uh lived in England, uh my wife's English.

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<v SPEAKER_00>If you want to hear an English accent this morning, uh you can go speak to her.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um she's not she's not faking it, I swear.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um but when my wife and I lived in England, we were a part of this little church plant, and there was a guy named Ryan.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And Ryan started to come along and uh, you know, just really get involved.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He came from a completely non-Christian background.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh, he reached out to us and we just got to know him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And it was a months-long process, but eventually Ryan decided uh to become a Christian.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And uh super exciting stuff.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Again, young 20-year-old guy, had no purpose in life, had no idea what he was doing.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And uh after he became a Christian, we started to meet up on a weekly basis.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Well, probably about two months into meeting up uh with Ryan, he started skipping out on me uh quite a bit.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh, you know, like I said, we'd meet for coffee regularly, and he he just stopped showing up, started coming up with excuses.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And uh one thing about Ryan is he had the worst poker face.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Oh my, oh man.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So when I saw him on Sundays when he would show up, the guy was miserable.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You could just tell.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He wouldn't make eye contact with anybody.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He kept looking at his feet, and uh, I was like, okay, something's really, really wrong with Ryan.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So next home group night, uh, he was hard to pin down, but I finally got him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I cornered him and I was like, hey Ryan, you know, you look you look miserable.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I say that in a nice way.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um, what is going on right now?

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<v SPEAKER_00>And uh he kind of broke down a little bit.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And um he he just opened up and he said, Jacob, said, Ever since I've become a Christian, I've been miserable.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's like, oh, unintended consequences, Ryan.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Let's what I was like, tell me, tell me what's happening.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He's like, Well, I just don't understand it, but all the things that I used to do before I was a Christian, I hate doing now.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he said, I'm just miserable whenever I do it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm always miserable.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I was like, okay, Ryan, back up a little bit.

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<v SPEAKER_00>What what what are you what are you doing?

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<v SPEAKER_00>He's like, I'm too embarrassed to tell you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I was like, no, hey man, brothers right here, sinners right here.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You can be honest with me.

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<v SPEAKER_00>What's going on?

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<v SPEAKER_00>So we went through this list.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He's like, I do this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I was like, yeah, yeah, they probably shouldn't do that, Ryan.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He's like, and I do this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I was like, yeah, Ryan, I understand why that's causing some pain in your life.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's absolutely destructive.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He's like, can I do this?

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<v SPEAKER_00>I was like, ew, you do that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>No, I'm just kidding, I didn't do that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh I did not do that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um, but we had a great talk at that point about God's grace and forgiveness, but we also had a great conversation on how we change as Christians.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And that's the conversation Paul is having with us today is how do we change as Christians?

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<v SPEAKER_00>And if we remember in the previous chapters, uh Paul is writing to the church in Ephesus that they are to maintain unity in the church through love.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Love is what binds us together in the body of Christ.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Well, Paul continues to move forward with unity at the forefront of his mind in verses 17 through 32.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he begins to narrow down how each of us as Christians are to deal with our sins so that it maintains unity within the body of Christ.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's his point today.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's what he's trying to tell us.

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<v SPEAKER_00>A lot of times, as the church, we think the enemy is out there, that's what's going to destroy the church.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Paul is saying, no, no, no, no.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The thing that destroys the church, unity with the body of Christ, it all resides in us and it's in your heart, and it's sin.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Sin is the thing that tears us apart.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So Paul here walks us through how we begin this process of change as individuals for the sake of the church.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And in verses 17 through 19, Paul tells us that we are no longer to walk or to live as the world lives.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's what he means by Gentiles.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Verses 20 through 24, Paul changes and he says, This is how Christians can take off our old selves, living the way of the world, and put on our new selves.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And that's through learning Christ, renewing our minds in him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And then verses 25 through 32, Paul gives us some real practical applications of how we are to take off the actions that were like the world and put on our new selves when we're living together.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So uh let's start with verses 17 through 19.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And that's how we as Christians are to no longer walk as the world does.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'll reread uh 17 through 19.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now I say in testifying the Lord that you must no longer walk as the Gentiles do.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Remember, Gentiles, we'll replace that with world, in the futility of their minds.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They are darkened in their understanding, alienated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them, due to their hardness of heart.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They have become callous and given themselves up to sensuality, greedy to practice every kind of impurity.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Paul begins this section by appealing to his authority as an apostle.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's what he means when he says, I testify in the Lord.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he's commanding us, the Ephesian Church, the body of Christ, to no longer walk as the world does.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now, as Americans in a cultural climate that we are in, the word authority and command is not really popular, especially when it comes to telling us how to live our lives.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But it shouldn't be.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Because when authority is exercised in a godly way, it actually leads to our human flourishing.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Good, godly authority is something we should all crave and desire.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Yes, authority can be abused and cause suffering, but godly authority exercised in humility and love leads to abundance in life.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And Paul, in this instance, is exercising his good, godly authority for our benefit.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And we'd be fools not to listen to him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he's using his authority to say to the church in Ephesus and us here today at Redemption that you must no longer walk as the Gentiles do.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And Paul gives us five reasons, depending on how you cut it, is to why we don't walk as the world does anymore.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The first is the world walks in the futility of their minds.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You know, futile means pointless.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So if you're going somewhere or doing something, it's futile.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It means it doesn't mean anything.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You're you're running in circles.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And walking here describes deliberate decisions, okay?

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<v SPEAKER_00>A lot of the times uh we we don't like to own up to the mistakes that we make.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So we have excuses like, oh, this is, you know, this wasn't my fault.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I didn't know uh my parents did this, Satan made me do it, whatever.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You you you can cut it whatever way you want.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But but Paul here is saying, actually, the the way that the world lives is deliberate.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's a choice, and they're making it, and it's futile.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The second reason is a lot like the first, with the futility of their mind, but it Paul says the darkness, uh, and he's speaking here of an internal spiritual darkness.

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<v SPEAKER_00>One theologian puts it way better than I could.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Sometimes when you read a theologian, you're like, wow, that's like, how did you think of that sentence?

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's like straight out of a Star Wars movie or something.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um, but he says here, this darkness is the finished and unchangeable result of a mind incapable of seeing and determining moral and spiritual truth.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The third reason Paul says is alienated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Again, this ignorance is a willful and stubborn ignorance.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's not, I didn't know.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's a choosing to be ignorant.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This ignorance is one where life and truth, Paul says, are dangling in front of them, but they refuse to see it or even give it a thought.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This is reminiscent of chapter two, uh, where Paul describes our lives before we were saved, and it's it's death.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's dead.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You can't see it, you can't understand it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You're you're you're apart from God.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And God is life, and where there is no God, there's only death.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Paul says here that they are heart of heart, four and five, and become callous.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh they they allude to the same idea here.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's a spiral, spiritual and moral digression, where something that was once alive has now become dead, or something that was once soft has become calloused.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Remember the first time you lied as a little kid, you were devastated.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now, when you lie, sometimes you don't even know when you do it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's callous.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's what Paul's speaking of.

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<v SPEAKER_00>First time you sin, oh, hurts.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Why did I do that?

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<v SPEAKER_00>And then you continue to do it, and then you do it, and you do it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It gets easier and easier and easier, and then it becomes accepted, and then it becomes encouraged.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's what Paul is describing here with this callousness and this hardness of heart.

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<v SPEAKER_00>All this futility, darkness, hardness, callousness in the world in verse 19, uh, Paul says at that point they abandon themselves to sensuality and become greedy to practice every kind of deed.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They just stop trying.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And Paul says they just do whatever feels good to them.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So, to summarize it, what Paul sees here is a direct connection between our minds and our understanding and the lives that we live.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Let me summarize it this way.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Paul isn't saying here that we can't look to the world and not find knowledge, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>If you want to learn to be a mathematician, you go study math.

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<v SPEAKER_00>If you want to learn to be an engineer, you go study engineer stuff.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Not an engineer, I don't know what that is.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But but that's not that's not what Paul is talking about.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He's not talking about a darkness in that sense.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um, when Paul speaks of our minds here, he's not saying they're purely intellectual, which is how we like to think of them in the West.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Rather, the mind is a place where moral and spiritual truths are understood and determined.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's what Paul is saying here with our mind.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Your mind is a moral factory, okay?

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<v SPEAKER_00>It is just coming out with decisions on right and wrong every day, every minute, every hour.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's right to say this, it's wrong to do that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I should have done this, I won't do that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>These are all moral decisions that you're making on a daily basis, dozens, if not hundreds of times a day.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's the mind that Paul is speaking of here.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So Paul is saying we are not to look to the world to determine moral and spiritual truths and our understanding.

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<v SPEAKER_00>When God made us, the greatest purpose of our mind was to receive his revelation.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Our minds were made by God to understand God and his creation.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Have you ever thought of that before?

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<v SPEAKER_00>God made your mind in such a way to understand him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's what the purpose is.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But when they're not used for that purpose, they become futile and dark and separated.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So we are to no longer walk in the way of the world with our minds, is what Paul is saying.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So what do we do?

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<v SPEAKER_00>How do we break out of the hamster wheel of futility?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Verses 20 through 24, Paul gives us the answer that we are to learn Christ and put away our sinful deeds and put on new life.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You know, before I do that, let me let me just go back to the mind thing.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The world rebrands stuff, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>So when the world says progress, Paul says futility.

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<v SPEAKER_00>When the world says enlightenment, Paul says darkness.

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<v SPEAKER_00>When the world says freedom, Paul says death.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Do we understand this?

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<v SPEAKER_00>The importance of having a change in our minds and having a different source of truth for ourselves.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And that's what Paul gets at here.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Verse 20, I'll read it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But that is not the way you learned Christ.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Assuming that you have heard about him and were taught in him as the truth is in Jesus, to put off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires, and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds, and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Alluding back to Ryan at the beginning of what I was speaking is Ryan in our story desperately wants to change, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>That was our conversation.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Ryan understood the futility and the darkness and the hardness that he was, that he was living in and that he was in.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And Paul says here, this is how Ryan gets out.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This is how this is how we begin to change.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And that is, um Paul tells us the way we change is through the renewing of our minds by learning Christ and looking to Jesus the man.

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<v SPEAKER_00>In verses uh 20 through 21, uh he says of the church in Ephesus that they learned Christ and have heard about him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's the first nuance he speaks of.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He chooses Christ specifically here because it's a title.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Christ is a title meaning like anointed one, anointed king.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And when Paul says, but you learned Christ, he's bringing to bear the first three chapters of Ephesians.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Jesus is Christ the King who has blessed us with every spiritual blessing.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Specifically in verse 1 through 10, this spiritual blessing is to bring us all in unity with him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's the purpose of creation, to unite all things under Christ.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So if you want to understand not only the purpose of your life, but actually the entire purpose of the universe, we're getting real meta here.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um it is to bring all things under the headship of Christ, is what Paul says.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And that that's the grand plan that God is beginning to unfold through his church.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And Paul is saying, you've learned that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You know that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That is the new purpose of your life.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You've learned Christ and the implications of the entire universe in you as an individual.

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<v SPEAKER_00>In 118, Paul says he's praying for the church.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And what he says here is, I pray that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened in order that you may know the hope to which he has called you, the riches of his glorious inheritance and his holy people.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Paul's saying, You've been told all this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now I'm praying and I want you to understand that this is no longer your purpose.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Your purpose is to begin to understand the glorious inheritance that Christ is preparing for you in all of eternity, and that is to be united with him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's the implications of learning Christ.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We are united with him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The second thing is he says that we are taught in him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We are taught in him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And the way that we are taught in, the way that we learn Christ is not in a vacuum.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's not learning just facts.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You're taught in him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Let's let's talk about that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So to be in Christ means you are in him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You in Christ are one.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So much so that we are called his body.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Remember when Saul is persecuting the church?

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<v SPEAKER_00>What does Jesus say to him?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Saul, Saul, why are you persecuting my people?

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<v SPEAKER_00>No, he says, Why are you persecuting me?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Me.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So you're not just learning facts, you are actually in him and you're being taught in him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So you and Christ are one.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So when we learn Christ, it is as if Christ is teaching his body how to behave.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Let's use an example here.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh riding a bike can be really tricky for your first time.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh, when you're riding a bike, um, you're learning a lot of different coordination, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Your feet are learning to go up and down, which isn't like a supernatural movement from walking.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You're learning to have your hands on the handlebars, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>And you're learning that whatever way you turn your hands is how you're turning.

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<v SPEAKER_00>By the way, I still can't ride my bike without my hands on the handlebars.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So when I see like little kids riding around, like with their hands down here and they're just balancing, I'm like, hmm, that could have been me.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Could have been me.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And every time when nobody's watching, I'm riding a bike, I'm like, I'm gonna try real fast.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm like, nope, nope, nope, my deductible's too high for that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Not doing it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But when you're learning your bike, your whole body is learning how to be in coordination.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And as you're learning, you know, your your heart and all your body starts working together.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Your heart is sending blood to your limbs.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You start breathing more so oxygen can get to the muscles.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um, your brain is doing stuff with nerves and teaching your muscles how to move and behave.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You can tell I'm not a doctor.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um, but you you get the point.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Your your mind is teaching your body.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And that's the same type of learning we do when we are united in him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>As part of his body, Christ is instructing us and showing us how to walk in him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He's leading and guiding you and teaching you as if you were his hand.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he's teaching you how to move.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This type of learning, I mean, I mean, I don't know if you've ever thought of this before.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This there's no learning like this anywhere else in all of creation.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This type of learning where Christ is instructing us is intensely deep and personal and unique.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We do not learn as if Jesus was a math teacher in math class standing at the front, telling us to memorize facts.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We learn as he teaches us, as we are his body.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The second thing Paul means in Christ is that he has equipped certain members of the body to teach and guide you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Paul tells us in four, uh chapter four, verse 11 and 12, just prior to this, that he gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the shepherds, and the teachers to equip the saints for the work of ministry, building up the body of Christ.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So not only is Christ teaching you, but he has given us each other, his body, to teach each other.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So not only are we nourished by him, but the context in which we learn is Christ's body.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's what it means to be taught in him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We learn as a community.

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<v SPEAKER_00>God has gifted specific members of the body to teach one another.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You know, a lot of the times our culture, we we still love this kind of lone wolf, John Wayne mentality where we think, you know what, I need to change.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So I'm gonna buy a van and I'm gonna put a bed in it, and I'm gonna drive around America for 10 years, and that's how I'm gonna change.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm just gonna go be alone.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Paul's saying that that's not actually how how we should change.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Paul's saying the context in which we change is the church.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Because Christ has equipped us to teach one another.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That is the context in which we do it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh the third thing he says is that all spiritual truth is in Jesus.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now, let's pause here.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This is really interesting.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh, this is the only time in the book of Ephesians where Paul just simply refers to him as Jesus.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Just Jesus.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He says, I nerded out and counted all the times.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So if my count's off, you can count and let me know if I'm mistaken.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He says Christ Jesus 11 times, he says Christ 24 times, he says, Lord Jesus Christ seven times, he says Lord one time, uh no, excuse me, he says Lord Jesus one time, he says Lord eleven times, but here is the only place in the entire book of Ephesians he just says Jesus.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Doesn't qualify him with a title.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And what Paul is doing by mentioning just the name of Jesus and stripping him of his titles is he's saying that his life, the life of Jesus, the historical Jesus who walked the earth, is the only life in which we can find the complete embodiment of truth.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He says, Jesus is truth.

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<v SPEAKER_00>In Jesus, we can see what it looks like to live completely with the understanding of who you are and who God has created you to be.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Well, Paul is saying if we want to learn what it looks like to live your new life, look no further than Jesus.

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<v SPEAKER_00>If you want to know what to say, how to act, look how Jesus lived.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Paul is drawing us to the man of Jesus.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He is our example and our standard for living our new lives.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And as we learn Christ in Christ, and as we look to Jesus, Paul says a wonderful thing starts to happen, our minds become renewed.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The way we used to think, the way we used to determine right and wrong, the way we used to live our lives with deliberate choices that were made in futile and darkened minds.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It changes.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Just like a light shining in a dark room.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Have you ever been in complete darkness?

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's really dark.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Just as like a light shining in a dark room, Christ comes into our minds, Paul is saying, and shines light so that we can begin to understand and determine truth and meaning.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We can see what we did before in a new light, in a new way, and we can see the futility and darkness of it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We realize that our hearts before were hard and calloused, and then we can begin to know and how to live in the life for which he has called us.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The hope of a new life, the hope of change and joy and peace that we've never had before.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This is where Ryan was at at the beginning of the sermon when our conversation.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Ryan was at the point of, I now know that what I was doing was wrong, and Christ had shown.

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<v SPEAKER_00>James, you have to do this every week.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That is hard.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I remember when I was like, okay, if the motorcycle happens, I'm just gonna power through it and act like it's not happening.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I was like, I can't even hear myself talk.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So that's not gonna happen.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Um, so that's where Ryan was at in the story.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He'd become a Christian, the truth of Christ, he's learning Christ, he's seen Jesus, and he's come to the realization of the life that he lived beforehand.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And as our minds begin to become renewed, we begin to learn how to change because we now understand the truth.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We learn how to put away our old lives and live our new lives as if we were taking off old clothes and putting on new clothes.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's the illustration that Paul gives here.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Is that what we are taking off in verse 22 is our old and corrupt, deceitful desires, and we're putting on our new humanity, created in the likeness of God for holiness and righteousness.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So we're we're taking off sinful habits, sinful thoughts, and sinful actions, and putting on new ways of thinking and behaving.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So, what does all this mean?

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm gonna try and summarize the section.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I mean, I I could live in those four verses for for weeks, um, but I'm gonna try and do my best and summarize things.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh what this means is um if you are new and in Christ and a new creation, you can change.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's what Paul is saying here.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You can change.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The world tells us uh that maybe you can't change.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You were born this way.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This is your genetics, this is just who you are, this is your personality, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>I've heard that a lot.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm impatient because it's my personality.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You're impatient for a different reason.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The world tells us we can't change, but Paul tells us we can change.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And we don't change through new habits, we don't change through new routines, new mantras to repeat to ourselves.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh we find that we, as we learn in him, we can begin to have lasting change.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The addictions that hold us, the sin that enslaves us, can be taken away and renewed as you learn Christ.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Change is continual.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's what Paul tells us here.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh, you won't be, it's not a one-and-done kind of thing, uh, at least while we have our bodies here.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And uh many times as you you're you're walking with Christ and you're changing, you think like, oh man, I used to have a huge problem with like lying.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And you know what, had a great moment.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm good.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm good.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I don't have to worry about this anymore.

00:29:48.160 --> 00:29:49.680
<v SPEAKER_00>It's gone, it's done.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm never gonna have to experience that again.

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<v SPEAKER_00>No, I'm sorry.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm not trying to discourage you, but it that's not how it works.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's a continual renewal, it's a daily renewal that we have to put on Christ and take off our old sinful desires.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This doesn't mean it's easy.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I don't want you to hear me wrong here at all.

00:30:12.880 --> 00:30:14.799
<v SPEAKER_00>Uh, change is not easy.

00:30:14.960 --> 00:30:28.799
<v SPEAKER_00>Uh in Ryan's situation that I spoke about, he'd reached a point where, like I said, he was wearing rags and it was causing a tremendous amount of turmoil and guilt in his life.

00:30:29.440 --> 00:30:41.680
<v SPEAKER_00>Um, but the change was long and it required lots of prayer and studying, and it required the body of Christ around him to help him live his new life.

00:30:41.920 --> 00:30:43.680
<v SPEAKER_00>So it's not easy.

00:30:45.759 --> 00:30:53.200
<v SPEAKER_00>Sometimes when you're changing, sometimes it can be like taking off a pair of socks, and other times it's like you're taking off a straitjacket.

00:30:53.920 --> 00:30:55.440
<v SPEAKER_00>Change can be hard.

00:30:58.240 --> 00:31:04.000
<v SPEAKER_00>But I want you to know that you are his body, Jesus' body.

00:31:04.880 --> 00:31:10.720
<v SPEAKER_00>And he does not leave parts of his body to die and wallow in darkness.

00:31:12.000 --> 00:31:17.359
<v SPEAKER_00>He cares for you and loves for you just as you care and love for your own body.

00:31:18.480 --> 00:31:21.519
<v SPEAKER_00>And he sacrificed everything so that you could join him.

00:31:22.480 --> 00:31:27.200
<v SPEAKER_00>So despite the difficulties, despite the long road, he's not gonna leave you.

00:31:27.519 --> 00:31:28.880
<v SPEAKER_00>He's not going to abandon you.

00:31:29.279 --> 00:31:31.039
<v SPEAKER_00>He's with you every step of the way.

00:31:31.440 --> 00:31:34.000
<v SPEAKER_00>And it's the same faith that saved us, isn't that awesome?

00:31:34.160 --> 00:31:39.279
<v SPEAKER_00>The same grace that we realize when we came to him, the same thing that gave us salvation.

00:31:39.440 --> 00:31:41.920
<v SPEAKER_00>It's that same grace that continues to carry us on.

00:31:42.079 --> 00:31:43.119
<v SPEAKER_00>It doesn't change.

00:31:47.440 --> 00:31:49.839
<v SPEAKER_00>Also, this means we need each other to change.

00:31:50.480 --> 00:31:54.000
<v SPEAKER_00>Earlier, Paul references teachers and apostles and evangelists.

00:31:54.559 --> 00:31:56.799
<v SPEAKER_00>This means you can't do it on your own.

00:31:57.440 --> 00:31:58.400
<v SPEAKER_00>We need one another.

00:31:58.559 --> 00:31:59.519
<v SPEAKER_00>We really do.

00:32:01.599 --> 00:32:06.480
<v SPEAKER_00>Find a community of people who are committed to Christ, a church.

00:32:08.079 --> 00:32:09.920
<v SPEAKER_00>This is how God designed it.

00:32:11.200 --> 00:32:14.799
<v SPEAKER_00>Didn't design it for you to just go alone, do your own thing.

00:32:17.119 --> 00:32:20.160
<v SPEAKER_00>SOSA means change looks different for all of us.

00:32:21.039 --> 00:32:24.960
<v SPEAKER_00>Um, we all have different pieces of old clothing that need to be taken off.

00:32:25.119 --> 00:32:26.640
<v SPEAKER_00>There's no just one way to do it.

00:32:26.880 --> 00:32:34.640
<v SPEAKER_00>If you've ever been in a church where like people are like, change is like this formula and it looks like this for everybody, it's a horrible way to legalism.

00:32:35.279 --> 00:32:38.480
<v SPEAKER_00>Each of us are gonna be transforming.

00:32:38.880 --> 00:32:45.920
<v SPEAKER_00>God's spirit is gonna be bringing different things to our minds and our hearts at different times, and it's gonna look different for all of us.

00:32:46.160 --> 00:32:48.240
<v SPEAKER_00>But the same formula stays intact.

00:32:48.400 --> 00:32:51.440
<v SPEAKER_00>We learn in Christ, we've been created new in Him.

00:32:52.000 --> 00:32:56.160
<v SPEAKER_00>I remember uh, I wasn't gonna share this story, but I think I got time.

00:32:56.319 --> 00:32:57.359
<v SPEAKER_00>I think I got time.

00:32:57.599 --> 00:32:58.799
<v SPEAKER_00>Um, maybe not.

00:32:58.960 --> 00:32:59.279
<v SPEAKER_00>I don't know.

00:32:59.359 --> 00:33:01.039
<v SPEAKER_00>I don't even know what time I'm supposed to end.

00:33:01.200 --> 00:33:03.920
<v SPEAKER_00>So we're gonna go.

00:33:04.400 --> 00:33:21.599
<v SPEAKER_00>Uh I remember um uh lived in England for seven years, and uh I was learning under a pastor named Timothy Ward, brilliant theologian, one of the smartest men I've ever had the privilege of being around, um, had his PhD in the doctrine of the Word of God.

00:33:21.759 --> 00:33:22.079
<v SPEAKER_00>Okay.

00:33:22.480 --> 00:33:25.279
<v SPEAKER_00>Uh so this man loved his Bible, understood words.

00:33:25.359 --> 00:33:28.000
<v SPEAKER_00>He was like a linguist, essentially, Christian linguist.

00:33:28.240 --> 00:33:33.759
<v SPEAKER_00>And uh there was a woman uh who came to his church for years and years and years and years and years, and she wasn't a Christian.

00:33:34.079 --> 00:33:38.960
<v SPEAKER_00>And uh I remember, you know, we would have our staff meetings and we'd pray for her.

00:33:39.039 --> 00:33:49.920
<v SPEAKER_00>And if you man, if you ever had the opportunity to be taught by anybody the Bible, Tim Ward is probably one of the best there is, right, in the world.

00:33:50.079 --> 00:33:50.400
<v SPEAKER_00>Okay.

00:33:50.880 --> 00:33:54.960
<v SPEAKER_00>But no matter what he did, no matter how he did it, she wouldn't believe.

00:33:56.000 --> 00:34:05.680
<v SPEAKER_00>And uh I remember there was uh there was there's this woman, a Christian woman, and her ministry in England was like aerobics classes, right?

00:34:05.839 --> 00:34:14.159
<v SPEAKER_00>So they get their spandex on, yoga pants, headbands, wristbands, and they'd like jam out to 80s tunes while doing aerobics.

00:34:14.320 --> 00:34:21.840
<v SPEAKER_00>And she'd go around all around England doing this, and at the end of each class, um uh she'd like give a testimony and all this stuff.

00:34:22.000 --> 00:34:23.360
<v SPEAKER_00>And uh that's what she did.

00:34:23.519 --> 00:34:30.559
<v SPEAKER_00>So, anyway, she she came to our town and uh she did her thing and um you know, did their workout.

00:34:30.719 --> 00:34:33.199
<v SPEAKER_00>Uh, and then uh at the end she shared her testimony.

00:34:33.280 --> 00:34:39.599
<v SPEAKER_00>And this woman who had been coming to our church for years and years and years, she she was, you know, repented and believed right then.

00:34:39.760 --> 00:34:41.679
<v SPEAKER_00>And I remember the next staff meeting.

00:34:41.840 --> 00:34:47.280
<v SPEAKER_00>Tim Ward was he was a livid, but he was just like, he was like, seriously?

00:34:47.440 --> 00:34:49.840
<v SPEAKER_00>He's like, the aerobics lady?

00:34:51.760 --> 00:34:54.239
<v SPEAKER_00>Like that that's how she changed.

00:34:55.039 --> 00:34:59.119
<v SPEAKER_00>He's like, PhD, doctrine, word of God, written books, whatever you name it.

00:34:59.280 --> 00:35:01.280
<v SPEAKER_00>Nope, but the aerobics lady.

00:35:01.599 --> 00:35:03.519
<v SPEAKER_00>I was like, that that's awesome.

00:35:03.599 --> 00:35:10.880
<v SPEAKER_00>That that just serves to illustrate, though, that God uses a lot of different means to bring about change in our lives.

00:35:11.039 --> 00:35:16.719
<v SPEAKER_00>But as long as it's centered on Christ and His teaching and who he is, that's that's okay.

00:35:16.960 --> 00:35:22.000
<v SPEAKER_00>So change doesn't look the same for everybody all the time.

00:35:26.159 --> 00:35:35.280
<v SPEAKER_00>Also, when when we change, I love how Paul says, you know, when we're renewed in our minds, as the truth is in Jesus.

00:35:35.440 --> 00:35:38.719
<v SPEAKER_00>I think what he's doing there is he's drawing our attention to him.

00:35:39.440 --> 00:35:42.000
<v SPEAKER_00>He's drawing our attention to Jesus and who he is.

00:35:42.320 --> 00:35:48.159
<v SPEAKER_00>A lot of the times when we change, we get very introspective and we stare at ourselves.

00:35:48.719 --> 00:35:55.360
<v SPEAKER_00>I remember uh every kid does it, but when they really start to run for the first time, they stare at their feet.

00:35:55.519 --> 00:35:56.559
<v SPEAKER_00>Have you seen that?

00:35:56.800 --> 00:36:02.639
<v SPEAKER_00>And like I remember Isaac, my oldest, we were in a park, he just started running, he's like looking at his feet.

00:36:02.719 --> 00:36:08.400
<v SPEAKER_00>And like, that's really cool because your feet are like flying in and out really fast, but he's actually not looking where he's going.

00:36:08.559 --> 00:36:11.280
<v SPEAKER_00>And so you have to stop him because he's about to run into a tree.

00:36:11.440 --> 00:36:13.920
<v SPEAKER_00>Sorry, Isaac, I forgot you're in here.

00:36:18.480 --> 00:36:18.880
<v SPEAKER_00>We all do.

00:36:18.960 --> 00:36:22.960
<v SPEAKER_00>Or when they're riding a bike, they stare at their the petals and they're like, oh, this is awesome.

00:36:23.199 --> 00:36:26.880
<v SPEAKER_00>When when we change and we look at ourselves, that's that's kind of what you're doing.

00:36:27.119 --> 00:36:29.760
<v SPEAKER_00>Paul says here, the truth is in Jesus.

00:36:30.079 --> 00:36:31.360
<v SPEAKER_00>Look to him.

00:36:31.840 --> 00:36:37.840
<v SPEAKER_00>And as you look to him and continue to learn him, that is actually how you change.

00:36:38.079 --> 00:36:44.239
<v SPEAKER_00>And when you do that, you the like the reins of how you change, they're taken out of your hand.

00:36:44.480 --> 00:36:49.679
<v SPEAKER_00>So I'm sure a lot of us have a list of like, I want to get better at this, I want to change this, I want to do this.

00:36:50.480 --> 00:36:55.360
<v SPEAKER_00>That that might not be where God wants to bring change in your life right now.

00:36:55.920 --> 00:36:56.800
<v SPEAKER_00>Might not be.

00:36:56.960 --> 00:36:57.760
<v SPEAKER_00>I mean, that's cool.

00:36:57.840 --> 00:36:59.440
<v SPEAKER_00>Sometimes, like if it's obvious, it's obvious.

00:36:59.519 --> 00:37:00.880
<v SPEAKER_00>I'm not gonna say don't do it.

00:37:01.119 --> 00:37:09.920
<v SPEAKER_00>But as we continue to look to Christ and learn him, you're gonna find out, oh, that's what it means to change.

00:37:10.079 --> 00:37:12.400
<v SPEAKER_00>And actually, I didn't know I was doing that.

00:37:12.719 --> 00:37:15.840
<v SPEAKER_00>And now God is gonna lead me in a whole different direction.

00:37:16.079 --> 00:37:21.440
<v SPEAKER_00>So now your sanctification, which means becoming more like him, it takes on a whole new thing.

00:37:21.679 --> 00:37:25.519
<v SPEAKER_00>So we continue to look to him as we continue to change.

00:37:25.760 --> 00:37:27.119
<v SPEAKER_00>Okay, I'm gonna move on there.

00:37:27.199 --> 00:37:29.119
<v SPEAKER_00>I could I could talk way too much on that.

00:37:29.360 --> 00:37:36.239
<v SPEAKER_00>So, so Paul means here, okay, we changed by taking off and putting on.

00:37:36.480 --> 00:37:44.079
<v SPEAKER_00>And um he he gives us a list of things that we are to take off and put on in the body of Christ.

00:37:44.159 --> 00:37:46.880
<v SPEAKER_00>I'll start here, verse 25.

00:37:47.519 --> 00:37:55.920
<v SPEAKER_00>Um Therefore, having put away falsehood, let each of you speak the truth with his neighbor, for we are members of one another.

00:37:56.159 --> 00:37:57.920
<v SPEAKER_00>Be angry and do not sin.

00:37:58.159 --> 00:38:02.880
<v SPEAKER_00>Do not let the sun go down on your anger, give no opportunity to the devil.

00:38:03.280 --> 00:38:11.840
<v SPEAKER_00>Let the thief no longer steal, but rather let him labor doing honest work with his own hands, so that he may have something to share with anybody.

00:38:12.159 --> 00:38:19.920
<v SPEAKER_00>Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.

00:38:20.079 --> 00:38:24.719
<v SPEAKER_00>And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption.

00:38:24.960 --> 00:38:31.039
<v SPEAKER_00>Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you along with all malice.

00:38:31.280 --> 00:38:38.000
<v SPEAKER_00>Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another as God in Christ forgave you.

00:38:39.519 --> 00:38:43.679
<v SPEAKER_00>I won't labor these individually too much.

00:38:44.559 --> 00:38:51.199
<v SPEAKER_00>Um, but it's worth noting a couple of things about these.

00:38:51.840 --> 00:38:58.719
<v SPEAKER_00>Um of these sins involve each other, okay?

00:38:58.960 --> 00:39:00.400
<v SPEAKER_00>They involve each other.

00:39:00.559 --> 00:39:04.320
<v SPEAKER_00>A lot of times when we want to change, we have only ourselves in view.

00:39:04.960 --> 00:39:08.400
<v SPEAKER_00>So, which which necessarily isn't a bad thing.

00:39:08.559 --> 00:39:12.159
<v SPEAKER_00>Um, but when we change, we think it's all about, it's just about me.

00:39:12.239 --> 00:39:15.280
<v SPEAKER_00>I'm the benefactor of this, I'm the one who wants to change here.

00:39:15.440 --> 00:39:19.760
<v SPEAKER_00>Uh, but a lot of the times, um, you know, like I want to be better, all this stuff.

00:39:19.840 --> 00:39:23.360
<v SPEAKER_00>That it's all it's all good, but we we focus on ourselves.

00:39:24.079 --> 00:39:29.440
<v SPEAKER_00>But Paul here is saying, actually, you you need to focus on the body of Christ here.

00:39:29.840 --> 00:39:36.639
<v SPEAKER_00>Uh, because your sinful habits affect everybody around you and destroys the unity of the body of Christ.

00:39:36.880 --> 00:39:40.400
<v SPEAKER_00>So all of these sins involve people, right?

00:39:40.800 --> 00:39:46.480
<v SPEAKER_00>And I'm sure if we were to also look at it, most of our sins in our lives involve people.

00:39:47.360 --> 00:39:50.320
<v SPEAKER_00>Because we're people, right?

00:39:51.760 --> 00:40:01.360
<v SPEAKER_00>You know, if we if we didn't want to sin anymore, uh it's it's not about um let's let's let's put it this way.

00:40:01.519 --> 00:40:10.239
<v SPEAKER_00>A lot of the times we think that the change that needs to happen is removing people, but that's not what Paul says here.

00:40:10.480 --> 00:40:14.159
<v SPEAKER_00>We we stick with it and we stick with each other.

00:40:14.320 --> 00:40:18.480
<v SPEAKER_00>So all of this sin is people, and it revolves around that.

00:40:22.079 --> 00:40:24.880
<v SPEAKER_00>So when we change, it's not just for me, it's for us.

00:40:25.039 --> 00:40:26.559
<v SPEAKER_00>So Paul goes through your list.

00:40:26.639 --> 00:40:35.280
<v SPEAKER_00>Like anger, for instance, left unchecked, not quickly dealt with, uh, will wreak havoc not in your life, but also in the life of the church.

00:40:37.519 --> 00:40:40.559
<v SPEAKER_00>Anger that has not been dealt with leads to gossip.

00:40:40.800 --> 00:40:43.920
<v SPEAKER_00>Anger that has not been dealt with leads to cold shoulders.

00:40:44.159 --> 00:40:49.679
<v SPEAKER_00>Anger that is not being dealt with leads you to ignore people or to cut people out of your lives.

00:40:49.840 --> 00:40:53.280
<v SPEAKER_00>And Paul's saying, that that's the old way, right?

00:40:53.440 --> 00:40:55.679
<v SPEAKER_00>That's how you used to deal with anger in the world.

00:40:55.920 --> 00:41:01.119
<v SPEAKER_00>But now that you're in Christ, anger is now a device for reconciliation.

00:41:01.679 --> 00:41:09.440
<v SPEAKER_00>So when you're angry, it's an opportunity to talk to somebody and to go to them and say, This upset me.

00:41:09.599 --> 00:41:10.800
<v SPEAKER_00>Why did you do this?

00:41:10.960 --> 00:41:12.480
<v SPEAKER_00>And to bring about understanding.

00:41:12.639 --> 00:41:16.880
<v SPEAKER_00>And if anger is dealt with in that way, it doesn't destroy unity.

00:41:16.960 --> 00:41:17.599
<v SPEAKER_00>What does it do?

00:41:17.760 --> 00:41:18.800
<v SPEAKER_00>It creates unity.

00:41:19.039 --> 00:41:20.800
<v SPEAKER_00>See what Paul's getting at here?

00:41:21.360 --> 00:41:24.800
<v SPEAKER_00>The people that you're closest to in your life, I'm sure you've argued a lot.

00:41:25.039 --> 00:41:28.400
<v SPEAKER_00>But when you get over those arguments, it brings you closer together.

00:41:28.719 --> 00:41:31.280
<v SPEAKER_00>So Paul is saying, now anger is an opportunity.

00:41:31.519 --> 00:41:34.960
<v SPEAKER_00>You deal with it quickly to bring you close to one another.

00:41:35.280 --> 00:41:37.840
<v SPEAKER_00>No longer deal with it as the world does.

00:41:39.199 --> 00:41:41.920
<v SPEAKER_00>The way we use money, that's that's kind of a big deal.

00:41:42.000 --> 00:41:48.400
<v SPEAKER_00>He's telling the thief no longer to steal, but rather to get a job, work with your hands so that you can give it away.

00:41:51.599 --> 00:41:53.760
<v SPEAKER_00>How we use money is huge.

00:41:53.920 --> 00:41:58.480
<v SPEAKER_00>We no longer see people as a means to make money.

00:41:58.639 --> 00:42:03.280
<v SPEAKER_00>Paul is saying now you see money as a way to bless people and to give it away.

00:42:03.519 --> 00:42:08.960
<v SPEAKER_00>This is all a radical shift of taking off and putting on, and it all involves us.

00:42:10.800 --> 00:42:16.880
<v SPEAKER_00>Second thing I kind of want to point out here is that there's spiritual forces at play within the church.

00:42:17.280 --> 00:42:22.880
<v SPEAKER_00>Uh, Paul specifically calls out not getting an opportunity to the devil with your anger.

00:42:23.360 --> 00:42:26.880
<v SPEAKER_00>And in verse 30, he tells us not to grieve the Holy Spirit.

00:42:27.280 --> 00:42:31.760
<v SPEAKER_00>Uh, much more is at stake with your actions than you realize.

00:42:32.000 --> 00:42:35.280
<v SPEAKER_00>Satan is actively trying to destroy the church.

00:42:35.760 --> 00:42:41.119
<v SPEAKER_00>And when you sin against one another, we're sinning against the Spirit and grieving him, is what Paul says.

00:42:41.440 --> 00:42:44.719
<v SPEAKER_00>So there's much more at stake than just like, I just want to get better.

00:42:44.960 --> 00:42:46.159
<v SPEAKER_00>It's like, no, no, no.

00:42:46.320 --> 00:42:49.199
<v SPEAKER_00>There's spiritual stuff happening here, Paul's saying.

00:42:49.920 --> 00:42:53.679
<v SPEAKER_00>There's a spiritual war that's taking place behind the scenes.

00:42:54.559 --> 00:43:04.559
<v SPEAKER_00>And every action you take is either going to destroy unity and grieve the spirit and work with the devil, or it's going to build us all together, is what Paul is saying.

00:43:06.159 --> 00:43:08.559
<v SPEAKER_00>Paul wraps up this whole section.

00:43:09.039 --> 00:43:16.960
<v SPEAKER_00>Um basically, you know, what he's saying here at the end is uh it's gonna require a lot of forgiveness as we live together.

00:43:17.199 --> 00:43:19.679
<v SPEAKER_00>Okay, it's gonna require a lot of grace.

00:43:19.920 --> 00:43:22.639
<v SPEAKER_00>We're going to sin against one another.

00:43:23.039 --> 00:43:30.400
<v SPEAKER_00>We need to be aware of that and understand that as we live together, it's gonna require a tremendous amount of forgiveness.

00:43:31.280 --> 00:43:33.519
<v SPEAKER_00>I'll end with a quick story here.

00:43:34.000 --> 00:43:38.960
<v SPEAKER_00>Um I remember uh when I was in England, I went to a conference.

00:43:39.199 --> 00:43:41.840
<v SPEAKER_00>A guy named uh Kevin DeYoung was speaking.

00:43:42.079 --> 00:43:46.880
<v SPEAKER_00>He was like a pastor, theologian guy, and uh we were talking about the church.

00:43:47.039 --> 00:43:51.760
<v SPEAKER_00>I know, tiny subject, but he was telling the story of when he was on a panel of Christians.

00:43:52.000 --> 00:43:58.079
<v SPEAKER_00>Uh so at the end of the conference, they all get up on stage, they give him seats, and then the crowd can ask him questions.

00:43:58.400 --> 00:44:14.719
<v SPEAKER_00>And uh he was up there with a bunch of other smart church planting Jesus dudes, and uh somebody in the con or in the in the audience said, Um, what is the biggest problem the church faces today?

00:44:15.199 --> 00:44:16.880
<v SPEAKER_00>Easy question to answer.

00:44:17.119 --> 00:44:23.440
<v SPEAKER_00>Well, uh Kevin DeYoung said, you know, it was the first guy, he he came up and he's like, Oh, you know what?

00:44:23.599 --> 00:44:27.679
<v SPEAKER_00>The biggest problem is, you know, if the church doesn't understand the culture, it's gonna die.

00:44:27.840 --> 00:44:29.280
<v SPEAKER_00>And then they gave it to the second guy.

00:44:29.360 --> 00:44:34.159
<v SPEAKER_00>And the guy was saying, Oh, you know, if the church doesn't embrace technology, we're gonna lose the new generation.

00:44:34.320 --> 00:44:39.760
<v SPEAKER_00>And I keep going down person after person after person, giving answers like this.

00:44:39.920 --> 00:44:52.559
<v SPEAKER_00>And he says, There was uh the oldest guy on the panel, just just sitting there, they handed him the microphone, and he just said, Sin, and passed it on.

00:44:53.440 --> 00:44:57.679
<v SPEAKER_00>Mic drop, but but seriously, that he he was right.

00:44:58.480 --> 00:45:01.360
<v SPEAKER_00>And Paul understands this, and Paul writes this as well.

00:45:01.679 --> 00:45:08.480
<v SPEAKER_00>He's saying, Your sin is the biggest threat to the church, but thank God we have each other.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Thank God we have Christ to change.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Let me uh let me pray.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Uh Father, we thank you so much that you have sent your son Jesus to die for us and to give us a new nature, a new life, that we can be transformed and live for you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I pray as uh we, your body, um, full of sinners, full of mistakes, it's gonna be messy.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But I pray as we as your body we continue to look to Christ.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And we continue to forgive each other, and we continue to change.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Amen.
