Roxy Talks Manifestation Podcast

Become Magnetic 🧲 Attract WHATEVER You Want ~ Mindset Monday Summer Series

July 20, 2022 Roxy Talks Episode 275
Roxy Talks Manifestation Podcast
Become Magnetic 🧲 Attract WHATEVER You Want ~ Mindset Monday Summer Series
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Are you radiating repellent or magnetic energy? Whether your struggles are around money or love, the energy you give off is the energy you receive. Tune in this week as we chat about why letting go is not giving up, how to tell yourself the story you need, how to create your own positive affirmations, and why you should take what you resist and turn it into something you love!

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Everything is about how you don't have what you want and that's why you don't have it. So you need to start indulging in what you do have be in the energy of have be in the energy of having in the energy of having more than enough, loving your life, because constantly looking at what's wrong and how you don't want it.

And how. Is why you don't have it.

What is up my fellow dreamers and soul searchers. Welcome to the Roxy talks, manifestation podcast, your raw, unfiltered, and unapologetic source for all things. Manifestation related. I'm Roxy Lee. And for the last decade I have been researching and developing my signature 360 method, which combines behavioral science, quantum physics, and the law of attraction to help you manifest a life beyond your wildest dreams.

Visit Roxy talks.com for more info. Now let's get into it.

When I ever share how I created my site. Um, that's definitely something we've talked about. And now that I'm shifting into a new model, I'm gonna be teaching probably a new, um, well, not probably. This is our plan is to be, for me to be teaching a, a live course once a month. So I'll be hosting live courses once a month now.

And, um, how do I put it co like coaching for coaches or, um, like business mindset stuff. This is something that's potentially on the, the, that could be on the horizon. We're just kind of switching over into this new model, but, um, running a. You know, core like class monthly class one, one month. Does that make sense?

One month, one class per month? Yeah. On, um, like business creation or business mindset, you know, cuz I'm not a business coach, but I am a business owner. So I, and I've obviously there's a lot that I've done here. So the, and I coach a lot of coaches and other business owners as well as entrepreneurs. So I understand the mindset and things like that and the approach that you need to take in order.

Make those shifts in your life and achieve that stuff. So, um, and then obviously I have the logistical stuff that lean reminds me all the time. I have built a website and done all these things and, um, created the, the, the, the, uh, structural side to it. So it is on the list. And thank you for asking, can we

thrive even in inflation? Water. What is that? What is that saying? The tide rises all ships or whatever. What is that? That, you know what I'm talking about? If the water, if the, if the shit's raising, you're raising with it and that's, so that's fine. Cool. I'm not worried about that because I know that I'll always be taken care of, always have enough.

I'll always have more than enough. Even if that number increases money is a mind is, is an idea. Anyway, it's not even real. It's not even a real thing. Okay. So. It's the idea of it. The energy of it is getting bigger. The more there's more energy required to get nowadays, it seems not more energy, excuse me, a higher concept of energy, a higher understanding of it.

And I think it's because the old paradigms don't work, people can see through. The, the illusion of what we thought society was. And it's just not that. And so there is like a separation between the people who are following the old notions and the ones who are creating their worlds. And you have to be able to look at that old paradigm, that old way of being that old way of living and say, mm, that sucks for them or in, in the most loving way, those poor souls down there.

Not like, oh man, what am I gonna, that's just gonna that's you them at that point,

MYP broke up with me after six months, blocked me for three and we reconciled been friends again for eight, but he talks to newer friends, more date than another advice. Yeah. Quit counting. Quit obsessing over how like. Like all those months are irrelevant, who care? The fact that you got blocked, who cares?

Why are you still telling the story? This is with love, sorry, Brie. Uh, just, here's a warning. I sound sassy. I probably sound mean, I don't mean to be mean. I just I'm very direct. Okay. So, um, all of the stuff that happened is irrelevant and the, and the fact that you like. Like it's given me like eight months, four days, six hours and 26, excuse me, 27 seconds.

It's like the more you count, how long it's been and how what's not this and blah, blah, blah, you are gonna get more of that. So he talks to newer friends more probably because you're pushing him away with your energy and feeling like. You reconciled, but your energy has been like damaged through this, right?

Like your spirit was kind of damaged. So you don't probably have the same confidence that you may have had before, or just right now, you're not radiating the kind of energy that is magnetic. You're probably radiating the kind of energy that's repellent, meaning that. You want something, which means you don't have it.

And so that's what the, the 3d reality is. Reflecting back to you. Right? I don't care how long it's been. Neither does the universe. In fact, the more you talk about how long it's been, it will be longer for the love of God. Do not talk about how long it's been. Again. I meant when I said I don't care how long, I don't wanna know it because you are making it last longer by having to tell me, and, and this I'm sorry for getting testy with you, cuz it's not personal.

It's just. You're like, I can just tell is this and they want this. And it's been this long, that energy keeps the people away from you. So you have to create a magnetic field that is inviting and not repellent. So however long it's been. So what erase, erase, erase today? It's day zero. It's been no time at all.

It's been zero time because you have been on not the correct frequency. For zero minutes. So actually it hasn't been any fucking time of you doing anything. So stop talking about how long it's been. It's been no time at all. The second you start being. Positive. Sorry that just to tell you, it's not me yelling at you, the energy comes out really loud.

I don't have any negative feelings toward you. This isn't the room we come through talking, just letting you know. And I apologize for the screaming.  just how it comes out. So, um, so it's zero minutes. You haven't done. You haven't stepped into a reality where, you know, they're yours. You don't care who they're talking to.

You talk to the entire world and have fun telling them about how much you love me. You know what I mean? It's like when you're in a secure relationship and everything is working out and you're fine, you don't care if they're talking to other people. I cuz God, don't, you dare do that. Turn around and do that to me.

I'm gonna be allowed to talk to whoever I want to. I'm not gonna do anything when I'm talking to people and I expect my partner isn't either. So why would I have a problem with them talking to somebody they're a human being. If I have a problem with my partner talking to somebody, I'm the problem. I don't own them.

I'm L we're lucky enough to share the energy together. If we mesh well and, and make a good connection, we don't get to decide who gets to, how to spend the minimum. I help you be more. You, you help me be more me and we grow because of it. So. The fact that you're worried about who he's talking to. I'm just, I, I understand that you're telling me, but I could J I see so much that I can point it out right away.

I can just tell what by what you choose to tell me. So, so, um, you've gotta stop talking about how long it's been. It's been no fucking time at all, because there's not been a time when you have been, well, maybe you have a whatever, maybe. Two months for a couple weeks here and there you're feeling great.

Well, you're not anymore. So who cares right now? We need to get back to the idea of it's all working out. I'm so glad they are making room for me in their life, or they're figuring out what it is that they need to figure out they're. So in their outs, they can't stop thinking about me. We have this amazing connection.

I'm so glad that it's working out in the meantime, I'm doing better. I'm loving my life. I love being me. I'm having so much fun in my world. I'm. Hanging out with my friends. I'm finding my passions. I'm falling back in love with just being alive. I love who I'm being, and I love what's going on in my life.

The universe keeps blessing me. That is somebody who's gonna get everything they want, including their SP without trying, when you're trying, you're not gonna get them. So like you, the, the trying and the, and the focus and the attention and the work needs to be on maintaining the wellbeing here, you make the nicest garden so that everybody in the neighborhood wants to come look.

That's how you get your S P not by running around, trying to chase them down and beg them for attention. When they're trying to give it to other people, that's not how the universe works. So. With love Brie. Your best bet is to drop all the shit of what you used to do, except except in looking at, as isn't this great of this connection.

We have, we talk all day, we call every night. I'm not gonna say the rest of it, cuz why would I. Um, we started off with friends. Then we had this amazing connection we found out. I found out they've always had a crush on here and they've always liked me. We have this great bond. It's like electric. When we're together, I've known them for years.

I love being around them. They love being around me and we're just kind of doing everything to make ourselves ready to be together. If that's not your story, it's why you don't have them. Um, and if you're interested, my specific person workshop is built and designed exactly to get through this type of stuff so that you can.

The real problem with manifesting an SP is not the manifesting, the SP it's all the junk that you have in the way that's keeping them from you to begin with. So that's what my manifest an SP workshop is about, is about clearing out the junk that's in the way from your specific person coming towards you, because they're already coming your way.

You are a magnetic field, but if you don't have, if you're not putting out the sending out the right signals, you're not gonna get the. Response back. Right? Cause it's a same in and what helps, what am I trying to say? As, you know, as within, as, without, as above civil of that type of thing, like whatever's going on in here is what's coming.

Through the magnetic field, this produces an electric charge, which sends out the, I don't fucking know how it works and pulls the, this is why Joe Des Benza pulls the thing into your body with the magnetic field. So with your feelings, thoughts, send the, the impulses out. The body feelings, draws the things in there into you.

So. You have to become a match to up here and physically meaning you're thinking like your ideal self you're acting like your ideal self. You're being your ideal self. Now, even if it's not here yet. Hey friends, it's Roxy here popping through with a really big announcement. I am no longer going to be offering one on one coaching starting August 1st.

So that means if you want to get signed up to talk to me one on one, you've got until July 31st to. Roxy talks.com/coaching will get you there right away. And please stay tuned. I have such amazing stuff coming. I'm so excited and I can't wait to bring you along for the new chapter of Roxy talks. I

don't ever say it out loud, but I have a money block, money trickles in, what do you suggest? Um, you know, honestly say it out loud because.

If you don't, if you don't acknowledge it, it doesn't negate its existence. Right? Like you it's here. Whether you say it out loud or not, it's, it's still there. So saying it out loud and being open about it allows you to confront it. Like it's like you're turning on the light in a dark room. The room is scary when the light's off.

Cause we don't know what's in it and you can't tell what's in it, but when you turn the lights on, it's like, eh, it's just a bunch of old fucking oh yeah. I remember that. That's that hat that I got that one time. Oh, there's. My, um, old tire from the, my bike in the, got a flat tire, you know, it's just like a bunch of, it's just a bunch of junk in there.

It's not really, even that scary. Um, it's, it's more like the fear of, of confronting it. That's, that's a lot more scary. So, so, um, so like, let's look at, you know, what it is and money trickles in. So first off, I'm gonna suggest you by the book or check out the book, however, you can get it rich AF by Amanda Francis.

Um, I, I talk about it all the time. It's like my money Bible. I realize today I'm on my fifth read of it. Like I've literally read it more than four times. And I just, every time I get to the end, I just started over again. Um, and my opinion about it is that. This person is really successful in their business.

They've conquered their own money story and they talk about how to be in that energy and maintain it. So if I'm reading that every day and I'm starting my day in that mindset, then I can kind of help maintain my money story. So that's one thing I would say, check that book out because it's, um, it really helps break down the concepts around money and like how you can shift it.

So that's one thing to start with. The next thing would be to start looking at what it is you do truly believe about money, which money trickles in as the start. That's just like a trickling. If that's the, the thoughts trickling. And that's just the first one. Right? So if you kind of scratch behind the surface of that, a bunch of stuff is gonna fall out.

Um, I would suggest doing like a, um, so I talk about, I do left hand, right hand columns in my work a lot. So you could do a left hand, right hand column on money, get a piece of paper, write money at the top, draw a line down the. And then on the left hand side, just make a list of, start with money trickles in, and then what's the next one money trickles in.

Uh, it's hard to keep. I never, I don't even wanna, I'm not even gonna, but you get my point, just dump all of them out of your head that you think and believe, and fear and worry and what you've seen and what you've experienced and what sucks and what you can and how long it's been and who owes you. They all the things, everything about money.

Put it on the left hand side of your paper. And then when you're done with that, you go back up to the top and go to the, the first one. And you would take that them by, oh my God. I'm so articulate today. You would take each one individually and then flip it into the opposite or best case scenario version.

So obviously the opposite of money trickling with money, floods in money comes to me in, in avalanches. Money comes to me every single day. I always have money. Money's always around. Money, um, races towards me, money loves to be around me, money desires to be with me, something like that. Right. And you start writing out the right hand version, the opposite version of your exact specific doubts about money.

And then now. Your job is to switch every time you think you CA well, now you gotta pay attention. Cause now you gotta watch out for all lefthand thoughts and you need to switch out. Anytime you start to think a left hand, thought you swap it for a right hand thought and, um, you never stop. Um,

Okay, let me see what you, you said, you said some more stuff here. Let me read it, Vanessa. Okay. How am I come back to you? Just a minute, Vanessa? Um, Judy says, oh my God. Okay. I love you. She says I'm getting emotional. Like you just found a solution from a problem. And I haven't even finished talking and haven't even finished talking.

There is 100%. You are not stuck to this. You are stuck to this life as much as you're stuck to this story. And once you realize it's just the story and you can just pick a new one, but you have to tell it to yourself and you have to tell it to yourself every day. And you have to tell it, even when the 3d reality doesn't show it to you, you have to keep telling it.

So like, like let me put it this way. If I wanted to change my money story, let's say, if I wanted to be millionaire or what, let's not even go that far. Let's just say I wanted to change my money story to where I was abundant. I knew I was abundant and I didn't think about lack where money was. Right. What that would require was that would, that would be that every single day, I have to condition myself into thinking the, the right hand type thoughts, the higher quality thoughts about money.

All day, every day, every day I have to recondition the way I do it by choice by choice. I am choosing to say this about money instead of the other thing by choice, I am choosing to pay this bill with gratitude and excitement versus dread and, and, uh, resentment by choice. I am choosing to spend or release money with gratitude and excitement versus resentment and pain and fear and like, You don't stop paying your bills, but you change the way you pay them.

You don't stop. Obviously thinking about money. That's not practical. You change the way you think about it. You don't stop responding to money. That's not possible maybe, or maybe it is, but we're always doing stuff with money, right? We're handling it, we're passing it. It's going here and there. We're thinking about it.

We're experiencing it, whatever you change, the way you deal with it and you approach it and you think about it. And here's the deal. If I were to start today, Changing the way I thought about money and trying to wrangle every single thought and reaction that I have throughout my 24 hours or my 18 hours of being awake.

And then I did that tomorrow and then I did that tomorrow. And then I did that the next day. The,

if I don't do that, the likelihood of me becoming financially abundant is probably zero or that's not. It's lower. Let's just say it's lower. If I don't commit myself to changing those thoughts every day, though, what is the likelihood they're gonna change? Probably zero, right? Maybe I was right. Okay.

however, if I work every single day today and then tomorrow and then the next day, and then the next day, and then I never stop. Here's what's really important. Listen to me, right. Whether it takes me zero days, two days, 500 days, 5,000 days. It's better to do those 5,000 days and maybe get that to that place than to not do any days at all, if that's my goal.

Right. So whether or not it happens right away. Is irrelevant. My job is to never stop telling the story of the abundance, because if I stop saying it, I'm definitely not getting it. If I keep saying it, I there's a way higher chance I will get there based on previous experience. The fact that one plus one equals two.

The fact that thinking abundantly is going to give me a different perspective on life in general. And I may think of different ideas and ways to make money, or I may approach how I feel and spend money or save it or whatever, or invest it differently simply because I'm under the influence of different thoughts about it.

And obviously we're manifesting. So we know that it's gonna eventually pay off, but my best bet is to do those five. Even if it's five days, 500 days, 50 days, 5,000 days, regardless who cares? If I have evidence who cares, if it's shifting, it will never shift if I don't fucking do that. But if I do do that, it might and probably.

Or will, right? Like my point is like, I, we don't know how to guarantee. I don't know how long it's gonna take, but if you keep doing it every day, something is gonna change. Whether that's your physical reality, your energy, I mean, it's something is gonna change it, right. If you don't change it, nothing's gonna change obvious.

Help with letting go SP is my ex-husband want my family back together and sometimes have a hard time letting go of that desire. Miss my kids and all of us together all the time, letting go does not mean giving up. I see a lot of people afraid to let go of their SP because they think it's them literally letting like throwing it away.

Okay. I guess I don't get this fucking thing I've always wanted when. This is what I don't understand. When does anybody in manifestation ever say, well, that's not true. When have I ever said, let let them go and you're not gonna get it something it's okay. If you don't get it, like, that's not what I'm saying.

My point is saying, get rid of the need for it. So it can come to you. I know I'm having a hard, no. Mm I'm. Having a very easy time articulating myself and what I wanna say, and my sentences are coming out very clear today and I'm being very, I'm able to express what I mean to say very well today. So naturally it's making a lot of sense what I'm saying to you.

Um, but like when, when do I ever sit up here and say, sorry, you better give up on that. You're just gonna have to give up and not get. That's never the fucking redneck it's always chill the fuck out, prioritize yourself, make this the important thing and then become magnetic to them. Stop saying, they're not doing what you want to do.

There's just, this is coming up for a, this is multiple people's thing. There's a lot of energy coming, so it's gonna be loud. We need to get this idea out of our heads that letting go means. Giving up or getting rid of, or giving away or not having letting go does not mean not having, we are not talking about the balloon you lost when you were five.

Okay. Letting go does not mean not having. And it's the fact that you think that that makes you unable to let go, right? So you need to understand letting go is not losing out. Letting go is chilling the fuck out and stop being so goddamn needy. That's the acronym for letting go, let go. L E T G O call the fuck that you know, you know, it's funny.

It's funny to me. So, um, that like stop equating, letting go with giving up or losing out. It is not about that. It's. Letting go is you stop stopping saying that it's not working for you, letting go, is you stopping, pushing it away with your fears, worries, doubts, indulging them, putting them first, looking at what isn't around versus indulging it.

What is, and, and magnifying the feelings of gratitude so that it can be multiplied and then re reflected back in your reality. Right? How to stop looking for that text. That's why I'm saying you have to fill, you're looking for a text because you don't have anything better in your life. That's my point.

Do you get my point? If you had a bunch of shit going on, the text would be irrelevant, or if you had stuff that actually fulfilled you, the text would be irrelevant. And that's my point I'm trying to make is that. You're making it like everything is about how you don't have what you want and that's why you don't have it.

So you need to start indulging in what you do have be in the energy of have be in the energy of having the energy in the energy of having more than enough, loving your life, because constantly looking at what's wrong and how you don't want it. And how. Is why you don't have it. It's, that's the reason when you wake up and you're like, man, I don't have a text.

You just prevented yourself from getting tomorrow's text.

Here's your homework. I want us to try to look at our resistance because I know we've talked about, um, you know, like debunking and like making it not so big, but. Shit didn't work last time. So let's do it again. Um, I want you to look at your resistance. I want you to look at the things that you dread. I want you to look at the things where it's like, I would do anything for love, but I won't do that.

That's the kind of stuff I want you to kind of look at. What are you resisting the most about taking action towards your manifestation? What sounds like an absolute nightmare? Like, I would love that thing, but I don't wanna fucking do that to get it. What's that. And then I want you to. Go into meditation and see yourself loving that experience.

Like not just doing it, not just having a good ex like a good outcome, but being like, oh my God, I'm so glad I did. That was the best thing I ever did. I feel so good. I'm so happy for myself. I'm so proud of myself. I pushed myself on my comfort zone. It worked, it made my manifestation happen. I'm not scared.

Oh my God. See my power now, like every best case scenario possible. Thank you, everybody for being here, Roxy talks.com/forum. If you wanna connect with each other, we're actually in the process of building our own community. So it won't be on Facebook. It's not gonna be on YouTube. It won't be in the comment section of anything.

It's gonna be our own Roxy talks community, um, where you're gonna be able to be able to interact with each other and, and all kinds of stuff. So that's coming down the line, um, group coaching's coming down the line. One-on-one coaching is going away. So sign up by, uh, July 31st, if you'd like to do.  And otherwise I'll see you all next week because yourselves, I appreciate you.

Thank you. We're all raising our vibrations together soon as.