[00:00:00] I am doing it even when I'm reacting, even if I'm being a bitch, it doesn't matter how I act or react. Cause I'm still getting what I want, period.

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[00:01:00] What is up fellow dreamers and soul searchers. Welcome back to the Roxy tax manifestation world. Let's just call it that. I'm your favorite ski instructor? Roxy. I feel like I should be on like at a ski chalet with seize on this whole Jackie. And if anyone's watching, I just need to say that this is pink.

It's not red. It looks red in my camera and I don't like that. Any huddles, how are we doing? Ah, this has been, um, what a crazy, crazy time and year, and week and day and month and all the above. I don't know how you're feeling out there, but I'm definitely just working every single day to make sure that I'm keeping my thoughts on track.

Make sure that I'm not [00:02:00] over reacting, make sure that I'm not giving too much credence to the 3d world or what's going on around me or even how I am reacting to it because, you know, As I go along my journey as a conscious manifester and, you know, keep in mind, I'm about a year and a half into the constant awareness and discipline of flipping my thoughts, listening and, and, uh, you know, working to always be manifesting and making sure that awareness has never lost on me.

It's been like a year and a half of that, and I've had my own journey of. You know, in the beginning I was being really positive and I was really working on my feelings and my attitude and my reactions. And that was like famously. I said before, you know, it was really trying not to be a bitch anymore. And, and, um, you know, at the same time though, I was still really trying to figure out manifesting.

And so once I really did start to figure it out, I was like, [00:03:00] eh, this whole positivity thing. It's like, it's nice. And it's great. And it's. Feels good. Of course. And it, uh, you know, makes things come about in a sweeter nicer way, but it's not like what is required for manifesting, which is like what I always thought and what a lot of the mainstream, if you will, um, information says, and so.

Once I realized that I didn't have to be positive in order to manifest that it could just be like the expectation and the knowing that things are happening for me and the intention and the, the, I wasn't, I'm going to say arguing, uh, to myself and with myself about what it is that is happening for me, arguing for what I want and not arguing against what I want.

You know, once I realized that's what it was really about, I kinda dropped the, um, the constant. What do I want to say here? The constant, you know, pressure to maintain a certain mood or disposition and. That like my reactions are, [00:04:00] were kind of tied to that because my reactions is where my kind of bitchiness is most of the time, because I have like a hair pin trigger and it's not necessarily that I have a hair print.

Pin trigger. It's just that, like, I have a very short fuse once it's lit, like, it doesn't always get lit right away, but the second it's lit, it's like immediate, like to just like to rage right away. So I just like, don't, you know, always want to be like that. But then sometimes I'm like, yeah, it kinda serves me.

And I don't, I said before, like I'm not always maybe interested in changing that. So that's something I wrestle with, but at the end of the day, you know, I still. Want to maintain the knowing and the constant awareness. That I am doing it. Even when I'm reacting. Even if I'm being a bitch, I can still be a bitch or be a diva or react, like I said last week, even, but no, in [00:05:00] my mind and keep my thoughts, thoughts, focus that it doesn't matter how I act or react.

Cause I'm still getting what I want, period. And I'm going to persistent, persistent, persistent, persistent, persistent, persistent persists in my thoughts and affirmations and focus and dedication and intentions and whatever. Yeah. In the chosen reality or where I want to go, no matter what happens. And that's why these things come through is because there's no other option.

And I'm not going to give you one. I'm not going to give the universe another option. I'm going to cover every single base with every thought image, reaction, affirmation, whatever that I can think of to cover. Like I said, all the bases regarding whatever thing, whatever we're talking about and I'm going to hit it from every single angle and every way that I can think about it, that solidifies to me until the universe that like this is happening.

I don't necessarily know how, or when I just know that it is. And there's absolutely no question about that. Self, how are you doing? How are we living? I hope we're doing good. I know the holidays are coming up. So that's kind [00:06:00] of what I, well, I was thinking as I was preparing this, I'm like the holidays are coming up, but you know, and that's in my narrow view because the lots of different people celebrate lots of different holidays and some people might be past their holiday season.

Sometimes it's not even your main holiday, but the Western world has decided that this is the holiday season. So, um, if this isn't your holiday season, You know, let this this happen for anytime that you're, you're talking about dealing with family or expectations on you. Um, if it is your holiday season, then this is unprecedented times.

You know, this is, um, for most give us, this is we've never lived through anything like this. We never experienced anything like this and you don't let me take that back. Let me not even say most of us. I think. A lot, you know, a lot of people around the world have lived through far worse than what's happening right now.

Um, and me again, from my narrow perspective, my little fucking California girl world, like, obviously this is something major and [00:07:00] like the biggest thing I've really ever experienced, you know, um, myself, so. I'm just, you know, I'm trying to, I want to make sure I'm conscious of the fact that the, you know, we're not sitting here preaching about first world problems the whole time, but also, you know, wherever you are in the world and whatever is happening to you for you around you, you can still apply these teachings and practices to anything and still get things to work out the way that you want them to the way that you can fathom them going.

So, um, I just wanted to, you know, have that little disclaimer before we get into this, if this isn't your holiday season, again, like this information is good for any time and, um, hopefully you can adapt it to something that is relevant your world right now. Uh, so let's kinda talk about this. So just in case, you know, this, this holiday season, first time kind of going through something like this and.

[00:08:00] A lot of people, I think a lot of people are, Oh, excuse me. A lot of people are experiencing the holidays for the first time by themselves. I think, um, you know, we also have this issue of having to spend the holidays without certain people. And I don't even want to go down the road of why, because that's just, I don't want to open up that box.

It already sucks. So we can just say, you know, dealing with holidays without certain people that you'd want their PR people that should be there. Um, and then also, you know, being around people who trigger you and people, you don't want to be around that's, which is, uh, you know, I think that happens for every holiday season for a lot of people, but, you know, there are these new concerns with what's going on in, you know, having to be safe and be conscious of that.

Like, for me personally, I'm like, I didn't go to Thanksgiving and I'm now I'm just like, I don't even, obviously I don't know if I want to go to Christmas, but my grandma, you know, it's like my grandma's asking and she's like, we can wear masks and I'm, I'm just. Like, it's like my grandma, like, I want to see you, but [00:09:00] also like, I don't want to, I don't know.

You know, like, I'm sure I, um, I know my, I believe my family is being safe also, of course, but it's just like, it's so scary. I think, I don't know. I don't even know what to believe anymore with all of it. And you know, we're in this like hot zone in LA, so they say, I mean, that's what they're telling us. And.

I'm not saying it's false or not. I just, you know, I don't, I just don't know. Obviously I don't have any information myself personally, so it's just weird. And I would obviously rather be safe than sorry. And the idea that I could, you know, hurt someone else or, or even get something that I don't fucking want to deal with that could, you know, affect me for the rest of my life as a singer and a person who actually uses my voice in my lungs for my business.

You know, it's like, I don't want the, you know, obviously the long standing effects and all that shit we don't even know. And then we have this vaccine. I don't want to go down that road, so let's let me stop myself. But what I'm going to say is that, you know, for me, it's like [00:10:00] my personal issue with the holidays right now is like, I want to go be with my family, my aunt, I have enough on my other side of my family.

My aunt is a federal cop and she never gets holidays off. And they gave her Thanksgiving, Christmas and Christmas Eve off. And she's like, come see us. I have the holidays off. And like, of course I want to so bad, but at the same time, it's like, ah, yeah, you know, what is it what's going on in this world? I can't, I don't want to, you know, contract or spread or anything.

I don't know. Like I'm not going anywhere, but you just, you just never know. Um, so. That's where I'm at personally. It's just like, I'm torn. I know. I shouldn't, and I don't necessarily want to go, but I, of course I want you want to go to your family things, but I'm also like, sorry guys. Like it's going to be a no for me.

Um, so, you know, like let us know, like how, or what are you dealing with? How are you getting through this? Because you're not alone, obviously everyone's kind of dealing with this situation in one way or another. Um, so I want to kinda just like go over [00:11:00] some ways that you can. Maybe deal or places to put your mindset while you're getting through this time so that you can just kind of intend for the best and obviously manifest the best and not, and not Drudge up a bunch of shit for yourself.

So if it's your first time spending holidays by yourself, or if it's not the first time and you just, you just are by yourself and then maybe it's not the most pleasant, um, First thing we want to do is we want to set intentions to have the best holiday ever. And that might sound crazy and unattainable, but there's really no point in not doing it.

Right. You know, like this year for my birthday, I was like, best birthday ever, best birthday ever. Was it? I'm not going to say it. Wasn't that's all I'm gonna say. Right? Like it was a, it was a coordinating birthday. So. It doesn't really matter, but it was, it was more so about like, let me just not say that it's bad and it sucks and it's terrible and it's hard.

And I hate this and I wish it wasn't like this. Like, no, it's the best birthday ever best holiday ever. Period. It's great. Cause everything is working out right. And we just [00:12:00] want to be always working to maintain and keep our intentions set on things are always unfolding in the best way possible for me and my life is getting better every moment of every day.

Period. Like that's just has to be the idea that we adopt and we live by that. There's no other choice. What is the other option, right. Like saying that it sucks. Yeah. Okay. Well that's when you do that, you agree, then you get more suck. I don't want more suck. I want less suck. So if I want less suck, I need to talk less sucky or talk about less things that suck and talk about things that don't suck and say that things don't suck and say that they do the opposite.

They pay, blow, but somehow suck and blow seemed to seem the same, seem to mean the same thing in pop culture for some reason. But. You get what I'm saying? Right? So if you're going to be alone this holiday season, don't decide it's bad. Just decide. It's good. Even though that sounds ass [00:13:00] backwards, who cares?

Wouldn't it be better that it sounds ass backwards, that it manifests itself into a pleasant time. Then you sit there and wallow and how much it sucks. And it continues to suck. That's my that's my personal perspective. Maybe I'm crazy. Um, another thing that, you know, get a zoom call together with your loved ones or the people that you can't be with maybe friends that don't have people that they're with, either other people that might be alone, you can create a Facebook event.

Like, Hey guys, we're doing a holiday zoom chat. Um, Sorry to use the O word, but Hey, any, you know, holiday orphans or whatever, let's get together and chat, or, you know, again, there's tons of people who are not celebrating the holidays right now that are also into manifesting and could talk to you and just be there for you.

And who also are feeling, you know, the, the effects of, of the quarantine and all the shit around the world. So, you know, find people, gather people in any groups that you might be in, in your social media, make a post and just plan say, Hey, we're going to do a zoom chat this day and just fucking. You know, talk about good stuff and distract ourselves or whatever, and create some new memories, create some new connections, dive deeper into the ones that you already [00:14:00] have still find ways to connect because it is out there.

Um, Also, I would say, you know, stick to the traditions that you have and then work on creating new ones. You know, if, if you always have cinnamon rolls on Christmas morning, your mom always made cinnamon rolls, like make cinnamon rolls. Like that smell of that Christmas morning is still something that you can relish in and, and, and, um, you know, soak up and, and be happy for and, and, and, and revel in your good memories and appreciate the fact that you have that, you know, or, you know, doing other.

Self care things to fill your heart and lift your spirit, make you feel good. You know, if it's holiday movies, if it's some sort of traditional food or something delicious, if you want to just have like a yummy feast to yourself, um, you know, giving or making yourself some gifts, like you can make it fun for yourself just by deciding that you're going to make it fun and it's going to be fun and you're going to get through it and you're gonna love it.

And you're going to remember this [00:15:00] holiday with fondness because you had such a nice time. Doing this and making this something amazing for yourself. And then finally, of course, this goes for all of them, but you know, definitely if you're alone, consider donating, volunteering, helping someone else, donating your time, chatting with somebody else who may be in need, who might be less fortunate who may just need you in general.

You know, you can give giving of yourself, always makes you feel good. So, um, Do all of those things and just have the best holiday season ever, like we intended. Um, now if it's something that, you know, you're having holidays without certain people that you'd want there, um, this is something that's, you know, not necessarily always COVID or again, this is because this could be every year, it could be this year, but.

I know, you know, many people are feeling the effects of, of absentee loved ones right now in whatever capacity. So if that's what's going on with [00:16:00] you, um, my best advice is to adopt an air of gratitude, um, double down and get really comfortable being grateful for what you do have and for the presence of that person as well.

And whether that is. You know, I don't even want to, I'm not going to say where they are, whatever, doesn't matter where they are in the universe. We are grateful for their presence in our lives now. And that is what we want to be soaking up and intending and reaffirming and swirling in. Um, put your focus there.

Like for me, I have, I've talked about before my biggest loss today. I don't want to say it like that. Uh, Ooh, let me reverse that. Okay. My life is great. All of my family members live long and healthy lives. Everyone around me as long, healthy life, safe, protected, healthy, happy. And, um, [00:17:00] I lost my cousin. Who's like my sister, um, almost 10 years ago.

It will be. It'll be 10 years this next year in 2021. And it's still just like, I will never get over it. I will never be okay. And I know I'm saying that and I'm manifesting it, but I just, I won't, there's just never going to be a time when like that absence is going to be okay. So I, I get the, that, that gaping hole.

Right. So when not, when I'm having sweat, I'm struggling with that. I'm just usually what I do is I repeat, thank you for my cousin or thank you for my sister over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over again. Not thank you that I had her for the tonight. Thank you for the times we had thank you for her period in my life, because she is still here.

Time is, is not real. So in her, you know, she didn't go anywhere. It's just a different, different expression of the energy. So if that's the case again, um, thank thank you for my hoodie, blah, blah, blah. Thank you for this person. Thank you for this now, and just be really, really, [00:18:00] really in your, in your gratitude and being present with whatever it is that you do currently have.

If it's family great. You know, what if it's just, if it's your roommates, if it's your partner, if it's a, if you have everything, except when you still feel empty, work on being present with what you do have. Even if it's just a cat and not just the cat. Cause that's our, you know, we love our cats and our best friends and our doggies and our turtles and our birdies.

And even if it's a stuffed animal, whatever it is that you have be present with it and, and just soak up that feeling of what I do have and being thankful for it, immersing yourself in the connections around you. The holiday can be good in its own way. And we can again, make that the intention that it may not be the regular style.

It may not be what we're used to, but it's going to be good because it, of course, why [00:19:00] wouldn't it be we're intending that it is so it will be. And you know, another thing is that you may not be the only one hurting right now going through this, especially if it's, you know, we're talking about a family member that's gone.

So being there for those who you can relate to and relate with and just. Connecting again, connecting and not taking for granted. What is still, what is still here? And of course we're intending that things are only getting better every single day. Your quality of life is improving and it feels amazing.

I'm looking towards the future with an open heart and an open mind, because I know that the things that I want are working out in the best, most peaceful and most harmonious way possible for me, period. End of sentence. End of story. Because that's what we want and let the universe do the job of filling in the details.

Let it know it's [00:20:00] good. I feel amazing. I'm fulfilled. I feel loved. We're all good to go here and then let that be your reality by allowing the universe to fill in the blanks for you. Actually, this is a really good time to mention that we have a brand new workshop coming up. Many of you have been asking for a followup to our first super successful live scripting workshop.

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There's only a limited amount of VIP tickets and they are selling fast. Okay. So let's talk about now, if you are having to be around people who trigger you or people that you don't really want to be around, people that say crazy shit to you, or people that are not nice to you, this is like, I know a lot of people have to deal with this, unfortunately.

So, you know, [00:22:00] I'm sorry too. I'm sorry that you have to deal with that. Unfortunately, it's, it's, it's, you know, family is interesting because. Uh, there, you know, you're kind of like stuck with them sometimes and you just like have to sometimes be around people that just, maybe don't, don't really work with your vibe.

And like, I remember like, I've, I've talked today on my mindset Monday. If you don't know on YouTube, I go live every Monday and I just kind of have a Q and a with everybody and just have a live chat. Um, but I was talking today about. Quitting drinking. Cause I've quit drinking twice now. And um, the first time I quit drinking, like the month anniversary, if you will, of me, my 30 days of me not drinking was my cousin.

So earlier I spoke about my cousin who was like my sister, her little brother. Who's like my brother, right. Was his wedding. And he had an open bar. So. That was like the ultimate test of whether I was [00:23:00] going to stick with not drinking. Cause I'm like, okay, of course, on the month anniversary, my brother is getting married and he has an open fucking bar and I did not drink a sip of alcohol.

And it was interesting to be at a wedding and like not be drunk and, you know, obviously remember everything and watch other people to get drunk and see what they do. And then also, like I had a lot, like I had a moment of realization where I was like, okay, this is why people drink when they get with family, because.

You have to like numb yourself to the shit that you know about these people just to be around them. Right. You're like, you look at somebody and you're like, you, you know, like, and you're just like, wow, I have to like, literally like drink to just ignore all this fucking shit that's coming up when I'm around these people.

So it makes sense why people have to drink around their family and no judges. Like I just personally, it's just not like I can't, I just. It's not something I should be doing. Um, I don't know if it's forever. It's [00:24:00] definitely for right now again. And I just, I feel better when I'm not drinking and you know, nothing, no, again, no judge has I drank for a long time and not like bad, but just, you know, like everyday drinking and not necessarily getting to the point of like drunk, drunk, but just being like buzz, like every single day, it's just not.

It doesn't work for me right now, any huddles. So I'm not suggesting that I'm just saying if that's something that you have to do, no, judge, he's like, this is you. Like don't, don't, don't, uh, don't beat yourself up. Just be, you know, what we're going to do ahead of time is we're going to set intentions and we're going to.

Decide just like with all of these, that this is going to be a great holiday and no matter what's going on, we're going to make good memories and find the silver lining and enjoy ourselves somehow with who we have or what we're around or what we're capable of experiencing this year. So it's going to be the best holiday ever.

Just keep saying that. I know it might sound crazy. It might sound ridiculous, [00:25:00] but just do it because. What if it was like, who knows it could be right. Like I'd rather leave it open-ended and you know, it's like, okay, does it have to be the best holiday ever? No, but could it please not be the worst one? You know?

So let's like try to turn the tide a little bit and at least focus ourselves in the direction of having a good time and making good memories and being appreciative of the situation, even if it's not ideal. So that's kind of like where I would, I would personally go with it and. I would also be working on obviously rewriting my family members in a way that works for me and actually next, I think it's next week's episode of the podcast is going to be all about revising yourself and rising and revising your specific person.

So make sure to check back next week. But for right now, what I will say is like, You control the narrative about them, even if it feels like you doesn't, you don't even, you know, if it feels like they've [00:26:00] always been that way and you've always reacted to them that way. I understand that. But also know that you are manifesting them to be that way still like.

It may have happened one time by accident. Are you attracted to in one way or another? It was just default because they would've been on the planet here too. And they're also an entity that is somehow creating their own reality as well while you are too. So whatever, however, that works, it doesn't really matter.

But at some point you have labeled them as. This way or this relationship, or this is how we interact. This is how they treat me. This is the kind of shit they say to me, yada, yada, yada. And so they have to conform to that definition because that's how the world works. So as soon as you change that definition of them and then treat them in your mind as if that is true, no matter what they say or do, they will soon begin conforming.

And the thing I've noticed with family with, you know, as many clients as I've had. Hundreds over this year and in last [00:27:00] year, The thing, if not thousands, actually, I'm like, no, I'm sorry. I'm trying to do the math on that. Like, well, I've got like thousands of people in my courses and then I've had my one-on-one coaching.

So, um, definitely hundreds of people in one-on-one coaching and thousands of people in courses. So out of all those people, you know, what I have noticed is that family seems to work really fast for some reason. Um, even though it feels like. There. Um, so it's such a deeply ingrained notion. Like this is something you've been believing about a person your entire life.

Um, either way, I don't know why, but it's like, it seems like people will see, um, evidence of their manifestations with family faster than like you would with like an SP for some reason. I'm not sure why, but it just seems like. Every time. I have a client who has to work on family and they're doing like SP the next time I talk to them, family is like doing fucking backflips already.

And it's just, it's very interesting. So do not be afraid to work on your family and rewrite your story about them because you don't have to tell the story about any one specific person or any. [00:28:00] Sort of connection or whatever that you want. You don't have to tell any of that. You can change it now reacts to them in a different way, stay neutral when you're in there in their presence.

Cause that's really important is that you don't want to, uh, you know, give in if they're, if they're pressuring you or, um, what's the word triggering you or pushing you or picking on you or anything, don't give them the satisfaction of the reaction. Cause that's what they're looking for. Right? For the most part maybe who knows maybe they don't really even realize they're doing it.

Um, Maintain your control over your thinking. If your buttons are being pushed, remain calm, stay focused. And knowing that, you know, this is not the story that I am working on. This is not the reality I'm choosing for myself to have this kind of reaction to this person. Because if we were in our ideal reality, I wouldn't react to them like this.

I'd be like, yeah, cool. Whatever. And Janice, you know, or whatever it is like. So, you know, just make sure that you're maintaining that because that's how we get the reality that we want, as we choose it, by telling a new story, and then we get it, or like, uh, [00:29:00] Oh, how about this? This is a cute little one I just saw in my head was like fishing.

So when you are selecting the reality or making the intention, that's you casting your line and then when you are. Uh, persisting and affirming and doing in the moment. Revisioning all the, like the, the, the, the, during the, the shit works, the 3d work. The moment to moment work. That's you pulling it in and pulling it in.

And what is it called when you crank the little handle fishing? You're reeling it. That's it you're really good at. So, what you're doing is you're casting your line. That's you setting your intention and then as you persist in your reality, you affirm, affirm, affirm. You do not react. You keep telling the new story that you want to experience that is you reeling in your manifestation.

Okay. So think about that. If the shit is squirming, hold on. Fucking tighter. Right? If the shit's squirming, you don't let it go. So really think about that. If you got a big fucking silver tuna, you got that big silver tuna on the end of that thing, then you need to fucking crank that shit and hold on real tight.

Cause you might be in for a [00:30:00] bit of a fight, but that's okay because it's worth it. Right. So. Hold on. He really gonna keep crank and crank and crank and crank and crank in, say out it. Cause you know, as soon as that thing gets close enough for you to grab it, we are good to go. And you're just not going to give up on it.

No matter what it is. If even if it's changing the way that your mom sees you. Whatever, you know, even if something like that treats you or talks to you, even if it's something major like that, or treats themselves how your parents interact, even if it's something like that, like, or how your sister treats you, how your brother feels about you, whatever they, if they gang up on you, if they fucking roast you like all that shit, shit, whatever it is, stay the course.

So that no matter what you're doing, if you're fighting it and you got to fight it, then that's just going to make it all that much better. Once that shit gets to you, once it's. And I'm a vegan, so I'm sorry for the fishing, the fishing, um, analogy. But that's just, what I saw in my head is like, if you want to eat that big old tuna, then you got to hold on tight and keep reeling it in until it is on the boat.

And then [00:31:00] I'm having nasty yucky visuals. So let's stop this one, looking for a great gift that will really make a difference this year. Sunday, Roxie talks to gift card to someone you love, gift cards are available for all of my courses, workshops, and even my one-on-one coaching head to Roxy talks.com and give the gift of manifestation today.

So since we talked about kind of, you know, heavier, I don't want to call it negative stuff, but you know, maybe not the most pleasant stuff in the beginning, kind of like dealing with some things that just. Aren't our ideal right now, I wanted to share a success story today so that we can look towards the positive and what's coming so that we're not too focused on the heavy shit that we have to deal with and are keeping in mind that we are still choosing our reality and whether or not we are defining our family as easy to deal with.

Hard to deal with the holidays are great and fun, [00:32:00] or the hardest thing to get through. Whatever it is that we are saying, we are manifesting that every single time, no matter what. So it is our definition. That's doing that. So let's focus more so on what we actually want and put our minds there because that's how we're going to get it.

Of course. So when I was looking for success stories, actually it's perfect because I came across one that was like literally a success story about what we just talked about. I was like, okay, this is the one, this is the one for this video. And if you want more success stories, I'm going to make a whole new YouTube video.

This is going to be success stories. Part three. I have two others on YouTube if you want to watch, but this is going to be our third installation of your success stories. I take every single. Success story and achievement that you have. And I screenshot it and I compile it and I put these together. So the newest one is coming out next Tuesday on YouTube.

But for now let's listen to this, this success story. [00:33:00] Exactly. Because the man that the universe is amazing, right. Of course, exactly about what we're just talking about. Okay. This is a success story from a client session I had. So it goes, I was really resisting going home for the holidays. It just didn't feel right in my spirit.

I wanted to stay home in my sanctuary, relaxed my body and hang out with my boot. I had been going through some health issues and just wanting to be by myself, but I felt so much pressure to visit home and be with my family for years, I felt the expectation to please them and be the good daughter, which was very daunting on my personal wellbeing.

My flight was booked, but the day before flying, I talked to Roxie and she helped me listen to my inner voice. So I decided no, I am a conscious manifester, and I want my reality to be mine. I chose me first. I was still doubtful that my parents wouldn't be disappointed in me though, due to the past of never having this sort of thing work in my favor.

But Roxy helped me totally tune into the reality where I get what I want and my parents are respectful and understanding [00:34:00] after that conversation, I decided I intended, I believed I applied Roxy's advice to stick to my new story, no matter what. And to my shock, my parents were completely respectful and understanding, and I got what I want.

I was surprised, but at the same time, I was like, hell yeah, manifestation. So that's what I'm talking about. That's like, you know, and this person. Not to go give any too far about their story away, whatever. But like, this person has like, she'd been struggling for a long time of having to be like the rock of their family and like, hold it down for like everybody and like, be the calm will everyone else is like doing all their crazy shit.

So it's like all this pressure and, and like they're manifesting physical. Shit in their body from the stress of it. And it's like, okay, so you're going to go home and like really trigger that shit. Like you don't want to go it's COVID [00:35:00] it's the weather, like we know it's snowing in places like it's okay.

It's okay. And furthermore intend that your parents see that in 10, that your parents, I said. Intend that your mom wants this and 10 it's her idea say that she wants this. She does her idea. She'd rather you stay home because it's smarter, it's healthier. And she wants you to be safe and like any sort of argument, you know, they have with this person, I was like, no, no, no, no.

Don't just don't even go there because if you decide. That you're scared or you're afraid you don't want to hurt them, or how are they going to be on Christmas by themselves and all that stuff. It's like, you're taking yourself out of the story where they're glad you're staying home and they want you to, because that's the best choice for your wellbeing.

And there you're their baby and that's what matters the most. And so I was like personal per se and, you know, and it was like, They were like, I talk to my mom and she's totally fine with it. I was like, [00:36:00] yes, I knew. I told you. So, um, I love that. Please share your success stories with me, especially when I'm really super right about stuff.

Let me know. So we can just like, it looks like it validates it for me. Like, I know I'm on the right track. My intuition is in the right place. And obviously it's good for you because you're getting what you want. So, you know, if you do have a success story, if I, you know, helped you anywhere, Please leave us a comment, feel free to leave a review, um, you know, share us with, with somebody who is working on getting what they want in life, you know, and, and, you know, or need some guidance on how to put their thoughts in alignment so that they can do that.

Uh, I know that. I mean, I'm working on it. And I, I feel like I'm a really great manifester and I'm still every single day working to keep my thoughts where they need to be. It's, it's a practice and a dedication that I hope I never give up. Um, I never, I intend to always continue to do this. Let's say it like that because [00:37:00] that's just my reality.

It is my intention that I am always conscious of how I'm thinking and how I'm speaking and how I'm reacting. That's where the power lies. So. Let's get to a little deer, Roxy. Okay.

We're going to pull one at random. What have we got? Oh, the universe just knows. Right? Okay. How to overcome negativity while trying to manifest when you live with or are around people who don't want you to succeed very, very, uh, apropos for what we're speaking about. So again, you have to worry. Excuse me.

You have to make sure that you are focused on how you're defining them. The issue is [00:38:00] not that somebody is negative. The issue is not that they don't want you to succeed. It's that you believe that. It's that you feed into it when they present it to you and they present it to you because you have labeled them as a source of negativity and someone that does not want them to succeed.

It's a feedback loop. It's the snake eating its tail. It's this over and over thing is you believe it. So it creates it and then creates it. So of course you believe it because your beliefs are validated. So. You have to stop the cycle and then keep stopping, keep stopping, keep stopping, keep stopping, keep stopping so that the cycle never starts again, essentially.

Right? Cause the cycle repeats as long as you allow it to. So you have to break the cycle of defining them as negative and break the cycle of reacting to them as if they are a negative person when they behave that way, because there's going to be an overlap. In your [00:39:00] beliefs and awareness of these things while you're working on, on changing.

It, it's just, I mean, I don't want to affirm that for you. Let's say that there, there might be, let's say that there might be an overlap between ideal them and not so ideal them while you are working too. Focus and harness your thinking. So when that overlap makes itself known, meaning when they are acting in a way that does not line up to how you have intended that they are now the new version, we'll call it, that we call it easy.

You must change the way you act, because if you validate that they are still negative or still do not believe in you or, uh, Uh, what was it? Excuse me. Want you to succeed then? It manifests it more. And again, are you us keeps staying in realities where they do not want you to succeed and they are [00:40:00] negative.

So you have to change the story about them. That's part one. And again, in next week's podcast, or excuse me, your episode, whatever we're calling it these days and next week's episode, we're going to be doing the deep dive on rewriting. So, um, we'll definitely get into it more, but just understand that, you know, you can't.

Call them negative. S think they're negative. Feel negativity from them or excuse me. Not feel it. Cause it might, you might feel it, but we don't want to affirm it. You feel it. You don't want to agree that you feel negativity coming from them. You want to just neutrality or better? Yeah, they're fine. We're cool.

Everything's great. I like going home. It's a nice environment. It's peaceful, it's calm, it's positive. It's uplifting. I have people in my life who want me to succeed, who are truly rooting for me. We have each other's back. We want the best for each other. It's pretty fucking awesome to have such a great cheerleader type in my life and I'm that for them.

And they're that for me. And it's really cool that we have this relationship, make that the [00:41:00] story, and then you must stick to it by not allowing yourself to be, uh, let's see, by not allowing yourself to. Use, uh, employ, you're saying reactions to your normal triggers, right? So if they do trigger you fine.

Okay. Your feelings are valid, but also it's really nice and calm at home. And I like being here because I'm treated well and I enjoy my space. I feel safe and I feel appreciated and loved period. Okay. You have to keep that going and maintain it in whatever way that you can. And of course, we will be talking more about that next week.

So stay tuned. Um,

We're still working on segues here. I want it to be seamless and beautiful and perfect, but I am just me. I'm just a person. So I love and appreciate you. Uh, you know, your world is yours. It's whatever you say it is. It's exactly, as you say it is. [00:42:00] And. If you want it to change, then you must start saying it's something else.

And when I say saying, I mean, that thinking, speaking, and reacting and being all of those things encompass, when I say saying, I'm saying this, yeah, this is my life. I'm saying that I'm happy and free and contempt, and I'm trusting and trustworthy and loved and respected and content and fulfilled and satisfied.

And so if that's the case, Then anything that checks those boxes for me personally must come my way because I have defined myself as those things. And then I'm creeping too far into next week's episode. So make sure you come back. Check out our live workshop happening on January 9th, where we will be doing scripting affirmations, goal setting, intention, setting all kinds of fun stuff together to help you become the, you, you want to be in 2021.

Basically, we're going to make 20, 21, our batch. [00:43:00] So if that's something you're interested in, head to my website, Roxy talks.com for more info to find out about the live workshop. We've got general admission tickets. And VIP tickets that will guarantee you a chance to talk with me live on the workshop.

Those are very limited though, and they are selling out fast. So if you're interested again, head to Roxy talks.com and check out the live new year. New you workshop, scripting affirmations, much more. Lots of fun. Cool shit. Cool people connections, man. Yes. 2021. We're doing it. January 9th, 12:00 PM. PST information.

Good times party on Wayne. I love you guys. Uh, Bye. Bye [00:44:00] .