How to Pray for Someone You Can't Stand

The first time I prayed for my enemy, I said the words, but I felt hollow. 

In Matthew 5, Jesus dropped the line early Christians quoted more than any other — love your enemies, pray for those who persecute you. It's the sentence that made them recognizable in a world that had never seen anything like it. It's also the one we skip. So, we go back to what Jesus was actually quoting and what he means by a word we translate 'perfect' — which turns out to be different than what we originally thought.  

Then, we stop talking and try it. 5 minutes. 4 names. 4 words. You may find out your love has edges. That's not failure. That's a road that's torn up, and it's the one He's putting back together.