Episode #270 Doorway & Boundary Skills

Doorway chaos, leash pulling the second you open the door, and dogs that treat every threshold like a starting line—sound familiar? In this episode, we break down Doorway & Boundary Skills as a complete system, not just a quick fix. You’ll learn why dogs struggle with thresholds, how to stop door dashing, and how to teach your dog to pause and wait—without relying on physical barriers. We also share a real-life example with Amy's dog Baxter, who calmly waits at street corners until released. If you want a safer, calmer, and more thoughtful dog in everyday situations, this episode gives you the step-by-step approach to get there.

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Doorway Chaos And The Real Fix

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Doorway chaos, leash pulling the second you open the door, and dogs that treat every threshold like a starting line. Sound familiar? In today's episode, we are talking about doorway and boundary skills more as a complete system, not just a quick fix. Welcome to the Puppy Training Podcast, the show designed to help you raise a confident, well-behaved puppy using positive practical training methods. Each week we'll explore real-life training strategies, break down common puppy challenges, and give you clear, step-by-step guidance you can start using right away. Whether you're dealing with potty training, biting, jumping, or just want to build a stronger bond with your pupp as their handler, you're in the right place. Hey you guys, how are you today? I'm Amy Jensen from Baxter and Bella, and I am thoroughly enjoying our spring weather here in Utah. I have two labradoodles if you're new to us. We have Baxter and we have Bella, go figure. And today, you guys, I just sat on the deck, ate my lunch, and I can smell my blossoms in the backyard and the sunshine on my toes and the two dogs laying at my feet. I can't think of anything better, honestly. So I hope you're having a great day. I am today. It feels fantastic. Just the little things, just appreciating the little things, right? The sunshine on my toes, smelling the blossoms, my dogs being present with me. I hope you're finding the little things too. Today we are talking about doorway and boundary skills. So this is something that shows up in almost every dog household because whether there's dogs and doorways, we get some behavior where some excitement happens. So we want to talk about bolting through doorways, dogs who lose their minds at the start of a walk and they're so excited to go outside, or maybe dogs who ignore invisible lines like sidewalks, rooms, or entryways, and teach them that there's actually some meaning to those boundary lines. So the truth is, most of these issues aren't about your dog being stubborn or excitement, actually. They're about a lack of clarity. Your dog hasn't been taught what a doorway means. So today we're going to fix that. We're going to cover door dashing and threshold manners, how to teach your dog to pause instead of rush, and how to create strong boundaries even when there's nothing physically stopping them. So first of all, let's picture what might be happening, right? You open the front door and your dog launches past you. Or maybe every walk starts with pulling and spinning and chaos the second that door cracks open. Or you see a guest or a friend, maybe they come to your house, or maybe you meet them out on the street, and your dog treats that um interaction like a racetrack. Now, these aren't just annoying behaviors, they can be safety issues as well. So doorway manners connect directly to your dog's ability to control their impulse, safety around streets and strangers, respect for shared spaces, and your dog's ability to pause and think before acting. That's a big one because sometimes the environment is so strong and they haven't been taught to work in that environment that they don't think, they just react. So here's the key insight. Most people try to fix these problems in the moment, okay? And I get it. Like sometimes you just have to do that. We're reacting to the dash, the jump, the chaos, rather than ahead of time working on teaching a clear system. Today I want to help you build that system. So this is going to lay the groundwork to help you with these behaviors when they do occur. Let's start with why dogs uh dash out of doors in the first place. From your dog's perspective, the door predicts really exciting things walks, people, smells, uh just getting outside. Movement plus opening space triggers instinct to go forward. So anytime we are pairing those two things together, the dog's instinct is to move forward. That makes sense. There's often also no clear rule about what they should do instead. So they just do what they want to do, like what's natural to them. So your dog isn't being bad, they're being untrained in that specific moment. A doorway is what we call a threshold, a transition point between two environments. And dogs need help understanding that thresholds aren't just open invitations. They're actually points where we make a decision. Our goal is to teach when you reach a boundary, I want you to pause and wait for information. Now let's break this into a simple, repeatable training process. Before opening the door, I want you to decide. Do you want your dog sitting? Do you want them standing calmly? Do you want them to just not cross the line? This is the good news. It doesn't have to be perfect. The real goal is pause plus permission. Now I want you to start at a low distraction doorway. Don't choose your front door. Start at a low distraction doorway inside your home. This might be a bedroom door. Approach the doorway together. Slowly reach for the handle. If your dog moves forward, I want you to pause the process. When they hesitate or stop or back off, I want you to mark yes and reward them. You're teaching moving forward makes the door stop. Pausing makes it open. Okay, what we're going to do next is once our dog can reliably do that, I want you to add a release word like okay or free or let's go, whatever your release word is. I like to use okay. I make it sound a little differently than my normal okay. But that becomes my dog's release cue. So I use that for stays, go to beds, and wait behaviors boundary lines. Now the sequence becomes the dog pauses, we open the door, the dog waits, we say okay, and the dog moves through. This is the foundation of doorway manners. Now, dogs don't generalize well, so I want you to practice this at the front door, the back door, car doors, gates, building exits, anywhere there is that boundary line. And each new location is going to strengthen the concept that this threshold means I need to pause and check in with Amy. So let's expand this idea beyond doors. A lot of people rely on baby gates, leashes, physical blocking, and these are super helpful. And we teach you to use these, especially when you have a new puppy or a new dog in your home. And we have to pair that management with the training. But I don't want you to stop just at the management. We definitely want to start some boundary training. So we want dogs to understand invisible lines. Now, let me tell you about my dog Baxter. We like to go on walks. We go on walks every day. It's a favorite part of both of our days. Of course, Bella's coming too. But from the time that he was little, when we'd get to an intersection, I would ask him to wait. And I put that on cue and I'd say wait. And now he knows when I say that word, he stops and he looks at me and he just waits. And then once I'm I'm up next to him, we'll look both ways. We check for traffic, and then I can say okay. And then he begins to move forward. And we just have repeated that every time we come to an intersection, I say, wait, Baxter stops, he looks at me, waits for me to say okay, and then we continue forward. So this is a really important skill you can teach your dogs. And again, it's not just doorways, it can now apply to when you're out on a walk with your dog. Um, it can also apply to um floors. Like when I mop my floors, I draw an invisible line for my dogs and I ask them to wait. And then I can mop my tile and they're on the carpet and they stay on the carpeted area. They can move around if they want, but they can't cross that line I drew until I say okay, and I just wait for my floors to dry, and then I say okay, and I release them. So you can create this boundary line anywhere, and your dog's going to learn to generalize it to wherever you are. So let me break that down how you can teach something like that, like Baxter's curb weight, right? So you could start with something visible, make it obvious for them the line. Like my tile carpet line is really obvious to my dog, right? So you could use the edge of a rug, you could use a doorway line. That's why we talked about doorways just a second ago. You can use a sidewalk curb. But if you want to start in your house, a really obvious place would just be a simple rug that changes the flooring, like my tile to carpet, okay? Walk your dog towards that boundary. So I'm gonna start with my dog on the carpet. I'm going to walk them towards the tile. As you get close to the tile, I want you to slow down. I want you to let your dog notice the change. And you can use food rewards to kind of lure them as needed. If they pause even slightly, I want you to mark yes and pay them. You're capturing the moment that your dog chooses not to cross. Um, we're going to reward stopping, hesitating, and looking at you. Okay. And once your dog starts anticipating the pause, you can add in weight as a cue or whatever you want that cue to be. You can also just have it be a pause without words. I like to have a cue because I like to be able to cue that behavior whenever I need to, like I do with Baxter on our walks. And then then we can also introduce the release cue. That means we can move forward. So make sure you've taught that release cue. We teach you how to do that in our program if you need help with that. So then you can gradually practice in driveways, sidewalks, parking lots, trail crossings, intersections, really wherever you need a boundary line. You don't have to have a physical gate to get your dog to pause and wait behind something. You can draw an imaginary line that they wait behind. So let me save you some frustration. Here's a few mistakes that we see commonly. Number one is only practicing when you're in a rush. Training requires calm repetition, not chaotic exits. Also, don't expect your dog to know this. We have to do that pre-work. We have to do that training inside our homes with the dooring, the boring, the boring doorways first. If you say um, wait, wait, wait. So if we repeat our cues a bunch of times, you guys, that just loses their meaning. Our dogs will say, Oh, well, it doesn't really matter. She's gonna say it a couple times. I'll wait to listen the fifth time. So just say it once, then help your dog succeed. And again, if you need to use food rewards to kind of lure them into place where you want them, that's great. Uh, mistake number three would be skipping the release cue or not teaching your dog the release cue. They might not understand what that means. Make sure they understand what that means. And then um, make sure you use it. So without a release, your dog guesses when to go, and guessing leads to inconsistency and confusion. Mistake number four would be expecting instant perfection. We just don't expect perfection with our dogs because they're living, breathing creatures. Will they always listen to this 100%? No, we are aware of that. And so this is not something that's going to be well, I've taught my dog a boundary, so whenever the front door is open, he shouldn't cross it. There might be that moment when a cat runs across that front yard and he chooses not to listen to this or chooses not to wait, he chooses to chase. So be aware of that. This is not a fix-all, but it is great in the fact that more often than not, our dogs are going to pause at doorways and look or wait for someone to say, okay, before proceeding. Now we want to make this a lifestyle habit. So the real goal isn't just a polite doorway. It's a dog who pauses before acting, looks to you for guidance and that release cue, and then moves through the world thoughtfully. Now, doorways and boundaries become daily opportunities to reinforce that mindset. So every time you open a door or step onto a sidewalk or enter a new space, you can actually reinforce a weight. So doorway and boundary skills might seem small, but they create a huge shift in your dog's behavior and your daily experience. Instead of dragging, blocking, and reacting, you get calm pauses, clear communication, safe, predictable behavior. And just like Baxter at the curb, your dog starts to show you something really cool. They're not just following cues, they're actually thinking, which makes training so much fun. All right, go try this out this week. First, teach the behavior, put it on cue. I like to use the cue wait, and then start practicing. You can practice this with doorways, like we talked about. You can practice this when greeting guests. You could draw an imaginary line that your dog waits behind before greeting someone. You can use this in so many applications. First, you have to teach it though, right? So teach it first, practice it. Don't start with the hardest things. If the hardest thing for your dog is greeting a guest, that's not where we start, right? We start with um people they know and then we build up to the guest, right? We don't start with the front door, we start with a boring bedroom door and we build up to the front door. And this might take more time depending on the dog that you have and their energy level and ability to focus. But you can do it. We can help you. If you need help, please reach out to us. We have um one-on-one calls you can sign up for. You can come to three of our weekly live QA calls. You can email us questions and we will respond quickly. We really, really want you to be successful training your dog. All right, thanks for listening, you guys. Talk soon. Happy training. Thanks for tuning in today. If you found this episode helpful, be sure to subscribe so you never miss a training tip. And if you're enjoying the show, leaving a quick review really helps other handlers find us. For more training resources, tips, and support, visit me, Amy Jensen, at baxterembella.com. Until next time, happy training.