School Of Attraction Podcast

Modern Masculinity: Healthy Strength vs. Toxic Myths With Tim Wienecke

Damien Diecke Season 22 Episode 7

What does it really mean to be masculine in today’s world? In this episode of the School of Attraction Podcast, Damien is joined by returning guest Wienecke for a raw, thought-provoking conversation on masculinity, aggression, and the modern challenges men face.

Together, they break down:

  • Why so many messages about being a man today are extreme, unhealthy, or rooted in control
  • The four core masculine traits (aggression, risk-taking, status, and sexuality) — and how to channel them in positive ways
  • The difference between being willing to fight vs. wanting to fight — and why that matters
  • How suppression of masculine traits can backfire, leading to disturbing dreams or misplaced aggression
  • The importance of mentorship, healthy outlets, and self-awareness for men navigating their identity

This episode isn’t about tearing down masculinity — it’s about reclaiming it in ways that foster strength, connection, and authenticity.

If you’ve ever struggled with the conflicting messages around masculinity today, this is a conversation you won’t want to miss.