54: [TTC] Life and Loss: Shared by a Black Full Spectrum Doula

Birth Matters

Birth Matters
54: [TTC] Life and Loss: Shared by a Black Full Spectrum Doula
Jan 19, 2021 Season 2 Episode 54
Lisa Taylor - Birth Matters NYC Childbirth Education & Labor Support

Today, Marise Angibeau-Gray, a Black mother and full-spectrum doula, shares the story of 3 pregnancy losses -- one in each trimester -- that led up to her 4th baby’s birth story. (Please note that this episode may be triggering for anyone who has experienced pregnancy loss or trauma.) Marise shares aspects of the emotional journey as well as how she selected each of her care providers and eventually found an optimal fit who would give her customized care. She also shares insights on a couple of things that are NOT helpful to say to someone who has experienced pregnancy loss and the ways in which she planned ahead for support for the postpartum period, knowing that this time could be particularly risky with all the grief she had already endured. Finally, Marise shares about the important work she and a fellow NYC doula are doing to better support Black birthing folx who might experience loss in their journey into parenthood.