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December 02, 2019 Tamar en Sophie Season 1 Episode 18
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Dec 02, 2019 Season 1 Episode 18
Tamar en Sophie

Trigger warning: getriggerde ptss van seksueel misbruik door grensoverschrijding rondom punctie (8:45-12:38)

Tamar en Sophie zijn aan het bijkomen van de punctie. Sophie moet zich door een berg achterstallig werk heen worstelen, maar is eigenlijk alleen maar aan het wachten op de terugplaatsing. Tamar kreeg last van haar ptss door de grensoverschrijding rondom de punctie.

Sophie vertelt verder dat het binnenkort (ten tijde van de opname) Trans Parent Day is en wil alvast een cadeautje van Tamar. En Tamar durfde rond te kijken op de baby-afdeling van een winkelketen en vraagt zich af of er queer-inclusieve 9 maanden-boeken bestaan.

Besproken in deze aflevering:

Steun Tamar en Sophie op Patreon vanaf 1 dollar per aflevering of per maand: ga naar www.Patreon.com/MensjeInDeMaak. Hier vind je ook extra foto's en filmpjes die we niet op onze social media accounts delen!

Afleveringen in deze podcast komen ongeveer vier weken na opname online, zodat Tamar en Sophie de tijd hebben om gebeurtenissen te verwerken voordat de rest van de wereld zich ermee kan bemoeien. Deze aflevering werd opgenomen op vrijdag 1 november.

Heb jij een vraag voor Tamar en Sophie over hun ervaringen met ivf? Vraag je je af hoe Tamar en Sophie een actuele kwestie op het gebied van ouderschap, fertiliteit, feminisme, transgender en/of handicap zouden duiden? Of wil je graag een eigen ervaring delen? Stuur dan je vraag (als tekst of als voicememo) op via tamarensophie at gmail.com of via social media.

Volg Mensje in de Maak op Instagram, Twitter en Facebook of check de website: www.MensjeInDeMaak.nl.

Show Notes Transcript

Trigger warning: getriggerde ptss van seksueel misbruik door grensoverschrijding rondom punctie (8:45-12:38)

Tamar en Sophie zijn aan het bijkomen van de punctie. Sophie moet zich door een berg achterstallig werk heen worstelen, maar is eigenlijk alleen maar aan het wachten op de terugplaatsing. Tamar kreeg last van haar ptss door de grensoverschrijding rondom de punctie.

Sophie vertelt verder dat het binnenkort (ten tijde van de opname) Trans Parent Day is en wil alvast een cadeautje van Tamar. En Tamar durfde rond te kijken op de baby-afdeling van een winkelketen en vraagt zich af of er queer-inclusieve 9 maanden-boeken bestaan.

Besproken in deze aflevering:

Steun Tamar en Sophie op Patreon vanaf 1 dollar per aflevering of per maand: ga naar www.Patreon.com/MensjeInDeMaak. Hier vind je ook extra foto's en filmpjes die we niet op onze social media accounts delen!

Afleveringen in deze podcast komen ongeveer vier weken na opname online, zodat Tamar en Sophie de tijd hebben om gebeurtenissen te verwerken voordat de rest van de wereld zich ermee kan bemoeien. Deze aflevering werd opgenomen op vrijdag 1 november.

Heb jij een vraag voor Tamar en Sophie over hun ervaringen met ivf? Vraag je je af hoe Tamar en Sophie een actuele kwestie op het gebied van ouderschap, fertiliteit, feminisme, transgender en/of handicap zouden duiden? Of wil je graag een eigen ervaring delen? Stuur dan je vraag (als tekst of als voicememo) op via tamarensophie at gmail.com of via social media.

Volg Mensje in de Maak op Instagram, Twitter en Facebook of check de website: www.MensjeInDeMaak.nl.

Speaker 1:

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Speaker 2:

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Speaker 1:

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Speaker 3:

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Speaker 1:

Yeah. I'm leaving a door . Can I have your thoughts? [inaudible] emotional Blackstone's . Oh yeah . Cool. Yeah. Um , and that's ,

Speaker 3:

let's help. Neat . And it's in the walk hand , multiple on the phone to know, to hit. Oh yeah. Yeah. That's actually, they know you had a main mature, mature , conducted a full lunch on me . Basement door commandments . [inaudible] .

Speaker 1:

Yeah, no , Maddie shimmer of, so yeah. Oh

Speaker 3:

yeah. That's probably , we all kind of here . Yeah. And addition to like, yeah. Bill Spelman's , uh , was like , fuck me. Fuck. Y'all could check from , uh, from [inaudible] .

Speaker 1:

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Speaker 3:

yeah. Yeah. Was he the uncle stuff had to be a cockapoo .

Speaker 1:

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Speaker 3:

Yeah .

Speaker 1:

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Speaker 3:

Yeah .

Speaker 1:

McAfee needs are for this week . I'm taking Mike as bill needs more from my max for main cause on the Maxville . I think it was a turn off . Yeah. I actually like this check . Should I take it? You did in fun . Yeah. I have a D T Triff blatching card on the J horn from the rock band , which they're still, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

Speaker 3:

yeah. [inaudible]

Speaker 1:

right . Yeah. It's a, sure .

Speaker 3:

Oh, for [inaudible]

Speaker 1:

[inaudible] yeah. In order to quartz an out of your office stills . This does this best Snell over here. Yeah. Yeah. There's eye tremor evidence black.

Speaker 3:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

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Speaker 3:

They kept the Ubers craving , um, Andy [inaudible] , but happy to answer all about it. That top stuff.

Speaker 1:

Right , and look how it needs clash . That show me photo .

Speaker 3:

Okay. Later if up transparent Bay is the , uh , asked us one back in November, just stopped this , uh, in November , uh, this day was first established in 2009 and is a day to celebrate and honor transgender parents instead of the traditional mothers or fathers date today. Today also today, today there's an accident [inaudible] uh, it also includes parents who have trans gender children. There's a out of Allentown skins that needs a transparent day for ya . And this day typically typically involves small celebrations and gift giving to one's parent. Okay. Caregiver VA

Speaker 1:

says lucky [inaudible] of Moda and of transparency. Yeah. That will do . And again, just as a Google and [inaudible] Facebook offense core affinity , it's or L L a gender queer parenting don't binary parent's day [inaudible] of flopper appeal. This , uh, [inaudible] shift for April.

Speaker 4:

Real numb

Speaker 1:

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Speaker 3:

and , and uh, uh , about the infrasound is trans parent day is just up to yesterday . Doc from the tons gender , uh, awareness.

Speaker 1:

Ah , um , yeah. Like that Oak, no Oak, no. Okay. Yeah. Yeah. The Shea Mahayla they come to [inaudible] . Yeah. Understand . Yeah. And a bit ago . Yeah . Oh, thanks for this tree stand . Yeah. No, that's a [inaudible] answer. [inaudible] transparent to be [inaudible] . Oh , essence . It kept so much. I pick a Becky Smith does Manson from Smith or off breaker. Oh, the shallow . Yeah. Yeah. Oh , goodness . Shine . Oh, look at the Putin epidemic . Yeah . A mini Malheur . It's hard to massage that. [inaudible] Oh , the alarm for chill off us . Yeah. [inaudible] yeah, it was less the, in the hemo a surfing , not with density . Um, and it , it was shown in a , Hey ma, I'm the PR , my book from Michelle Phil to go over my shoulder saying, look up Yammer. Pooka Merton , how to call for a law firm atrial litigator . And so when I'm doing the [inaudible] of the keynote of dating belongs. Oh . And it kept the short funding , the thick I flick needs dirt on that to feel an Arctic Ike . And so, and the, to feel back to hula my actors , the cattle and so forth . First age Geiger and my, it kills it . Neat . Long form , once again is his footstool. So if you don't, then it's jinx event . Yeah, yeah, yeah, I should. So it's just us [inaudible] ne [inaudible] uh Oh. [inaudible] Nathan man , the book. And , uh, this was , uh , [inaudible] what's our ethic in stats and I think of the girls from NAIFA , Mandy Brookville and the short from ups rifle , ELCA man's [inaudible] . And it was , um, I suppose SEF Mar needs hates women or motif, Martin Soulsville being there. Um, yeah, but it's almost as it's on the inclusive chef [inaudible] for male should not be narrow . Outer Benz's needs Mark Woods . Uh, yeah. You cannot think a tip action that's you looking at. It's all neutral . Playful. Yeah . Uh, [inaudible] [inaudible] [inaudible] Oh yeah. It's a scotch Oak needs. It's just the needs with NATO is they'll show you, show any [inaudible] once it's about chef Mart . 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Speaker 5:

Okay .

Speaker 6:

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