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<v SPEAKER_01>Um this morning I'm gonna be preaching on football.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So did um did you watch the World Cup?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Anyone watch the World Cup?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Yeah.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Why was Toochall playing why did you bring Dan Byrne on with 15 minutes to go against Argentina to try and hold a lead?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Like that's right?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Anyway, I'm past that.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Um the Sunday after the third place playoff game, if you remember, so England played France in the what was basically a friendly game, it wasn't sort of competitive, there was no tackles flying in.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And Andy and Joe came and saw me on that Sunday morning.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He said, Did you see the picture?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Did you see the picture of the pray the players praying together?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Does everyone know this picture?

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<v unknown>Yeah.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Some yes, some no.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Yeah, amazing.

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<v SPEAKER_01>These are these are the England and France players praying together after the match.

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<v SPEAKER_01>After a competitive football match.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And as I dug into that more, there was the Germany and the Curaçao players praying together after a football match.

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<v SPEAKER_01>There was the Belgium and the USA players praying together after a football match.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Christian prayers to a living saviour.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And I was blown away by it.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And I've loved these images ever since.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Some of these guys know each other.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I think a lot of these guys are known as the um, I think it's the Bible boys at Crystal Palace.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Um, so a lot of them played together at Crystal Palace, many of them have moved on, and they're the Bible boys.

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<v SPEAKER_01>But people know them as that.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Non-Christians know them as that.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Is it just me, or have we never seen this before?

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<v SPEAKER_01>I've never seen this before.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I've never seen celebrities, young sports people, I've never seen people proclaiming their faith in the way that it's happening now.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I'm sure I've spoken about this before.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Because when I was younger and I wasn't a Christian and didn't grow up in a Christian household, and didn't I don't think I knew any Christians, the only celebrity was Cliff Richard.

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<v SPEAKER_01>In fact, Sheldon Thorne, do you know who Cliff Richard is?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Like honestly.

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<v SPEAKER_01>There's some youngsters in here.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Do you know who Cliff Richard is?

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<v SPEAKER_01>No, no, he had zero impact.

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<v SPEAKER_01>But now you've got this.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Now you've got players playing 90 minutes of competitive football against each other for different nations, then coming together to pray to Jesus afterwards.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Is that not massive?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Does that not fill your soul, fill your heart about what's happening out there?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Because we've come through a time where that church generation has kind of been lost.

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<v SPEAKER_01>We're coming into a generation at the moment where we know there's young people, there's under-25s flooding into churches mainly in the cities.

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<v SPEAKER_01>We know it's happening, and God is moving in a way that I've never seen before.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I've never seen this.

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<v SPEAKER_01>But football's a really interesting one because football can be really tribal.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Uh-huh.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Yeah, yeah.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I'm from a I'm I'm from a city, I'm from Birmingham, where it's quite strange here.

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<v SPEAKER_01>There's this one club, but I'm from a city where you ask someone where they're from, and the next question you're almost like, who do you support?

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<v SPEAKER_01>And there's a pause because you automatically hate the other person if they support the other football club.

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<v SPEAKER_01>There's no reason for that whatsoever.

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<v SPEAKER_01>It's the most ridiculous notion when I get to it, but I still hate them.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I don't hate them.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Young celebrity, sports people.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Bear grills.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Bear grills, we've always known Bear Grills to be a Christian, right?

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<v SPEAKER_01>We've always known that, but actually, he's never really hugely declared his faith into a book.

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<v SPEAKER_01>We do book recommendations, and there was a book that came out last year, The Greatest Story Ever Told.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Does everyone know it?

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<v SPEAKER_01>If you don't know it, it is superb.

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<v SPEAKER_01>It's the gospel written from a slightly different perspective.

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<v SPEAKER_01>It is amazing, and it's the most wonderful gift to give to a non-Christian, actually.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So Bear Grylls is out there proclaiming his Christian faith like never before.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Have you seen his adventures of with the chosen?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Has anyone seen that?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Amazing, right?

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<v SPEAKER_01>So Annette recommended it, and Helen and I watched it, it was amazing.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So the The Chosen, which again is this huge, amazing global story of the life of Jesus, of the gospel message.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And Bear Grills does a series, I think the six um adventures with different cast members.

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<v SPEAKER_01>It's amazing.

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<v SPEAKER_01>That's there on Amazon Prime for the world to see.

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<v SPEAKER_01>This has never happened before.

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<v SPEAKER_01>It's amazing.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Are we excited about this?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Good! It's actually gonna get really challenging, and the bit this is the nice bit.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I was gonna talk about Dave Watmore, actually.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I love Dave Watmore.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He's not here, this is being recorded.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So Dave Watmore, I I love, and I go today for advice, and we pray together and all that sort of thing.

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<v SPEAKER_01>But whenever Villa lose, I'm an Aston Villa fan, he Helen says, has Dave texted you yet?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Because he immediately texts me, and I'm like, what's the point in that, Dave?

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<v SPEAKER_01>And he can change what's that?

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<v unknown>Mean text.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Mean text as well.

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<v SPEAKER_01>This is one of our elders, guys.

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<v SPEAKER_01>It can divide friendships.

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<v SPEAKER_01>You can know someone for years and years, and then suddenly find out they support the wrong team, and you're like, Lord, I never knew them.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Yep.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Tom, can you hear me?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Happy days.

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<v SPEAKER_01>You can forgive a lot of things, but some football allegiances are going to require some serious prayer.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Because football does something very interesting, it gives us an identity.

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<v SPEAKER_01>You put on your shirt, we are us, and the other team becomes them.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Our team versus their team, our country versus their country, our side versus their side.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And we human beings are very good at creating us and them.

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<v SPEAKER_01>We do it with politics, we do it with football, we do it with nationality, we do it with class, we do it with denominations, we do it with theology.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Sometimes we do it within our own church.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Something beautiful happened after a football match.

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<v SPEAKER_01>The whistle blows, the competition ends, and players from opposing nations pray together to Jesus.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Look at the photographs, different shirts, different nations, different languages.

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<v SPEAKER_01>For 90 minutes trying to beat one another, and afterwards they pray together.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Ephesians 4, 4 and 6 says, For there is one body and one spirit.

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<v SPEAKER_01>One Lord, one faith, one baptism, one God and Father of all.

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<v SPEAKER_01>One.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Not one personality, not one culture, not one nationality, not one political opinion, not one denomination, one Lord.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And today I want us to think about something even more challenging.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Not simply unity with people who are different from us, but praying for people who have hurt us.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Jesus gives us an impossible command.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Matthew 5, 43 to 44, Jesus says, You've heard the law that says love your neighbor and hate your enemy.

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<v SPEAKER_01>But I say, love your enemies, pray for those who persecute you.

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<v SPEAKER_01>There's the command, love your enemies.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I think I'm rubbish at this.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Anyone else?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Yes.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Yeah.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Right?

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<v SPEAKER_01>I mean, I've got some in here.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I think I'm rubbish at it.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Jesus, by the way, I was looking at it, gave us 40, I think it's 48 or 49 commands.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I think I'm particularly bad at this one.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So this is for me.

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<v SPEAKER_01>As I was writing it, this is very much for me.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Jesus makes it even harder.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Pray for them.

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<v SPEAKER_01>It's one thing to pray for people you love.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Lord bless my family, bless my friends, bless my church.

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<v SPEAKER_01>That's easy.

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<v SPEAKER_01>But Lord bless the person who hurt me, that's different.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Lord bless the person who betrayed me, bless the person who lied about me, bless the person who treated me unfairly.

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<v SPEAKER_01>But this is where Christianity becomes costly.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Because Jesus isn't simply asking us to behave nicely, he's asking us to be like him.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Matthew 5 45 explains why.

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<v SPEAKER_01>God gives sunlight to both the evil and the good.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous.

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<v SPEAKER_01>God's grace is bigger than our categories.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And Jesus says in verse 48, But you are to be perfect, even as your Father in heaven is perfect.

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<v SPEAKER_01>We are to be perfect.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Nowhere near, right?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Jesus didn't just teach it, he lived it.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Sometimes somebody gives you advice and you think that's easy for you to say.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Jesus can't be accused of that.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Because when he was being crucified, you practiced what he preached.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Luke 23, 34 records Jesus saying, Father, forgive them, for they don't know what they are doing.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Think about the scene.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Jesus is on the cross.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Talking about forgiveness.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He's being mocked, he's being tortured, he's being killed.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And he prays, Father, forgive them.

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<v SPEAKER_01>It's so counter-cultural.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Jesus prayed for his enemies, and that brings us to one of the most powerful examples in the New Testament.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Stephen.

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<v SPEAKER_01>The man who prayed while they were killing him.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I don't think we talk about this a lot, do we?

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<v SPEAKER_01>But it's actually pretty big.

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<v SPEAKER_01>The early church is growing, people are being saved, the Holy Spirit's moving, and Stephen appears.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Acts 6 5 describes Stephen as a man full of faith, and the Holy Spirit says in verse 8, Stephen, a man full of God's grace and power, performed amazing miracles and signs among the people.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Stephen was full of grace, full of faith, full of the Holy Spirit.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And because he followed Jesus, opposition came.

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<v SPEAKER_01>People argued with him, they couldn't defeat his wisdom.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So they arranged false accusations against him.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Stephen is brought before the religious leaders, and Acts 7 records one of the greatest speeches of the Bible.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He tells the story of God's dealing with Israel.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He talks about Abraham, Joseph, Moses, David.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And he confronts the leaders with the truth.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Then Acts 7.54 says they were furious.

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<v SPEAKER_01>They were so angry that they're literally grinding their teeth at him.

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<v SPEAKER_01>It's pretty angry.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Helen does that to me sometimes.

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<v SPEAKER_01>This morning, actually.

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<v SPEAKER_01>We had a miscommunication in what time we were going to get here.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And that was, yeah.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Stephen looks up.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Acts 7.55 says he was filled with the Holy Spirit and saw heaven opened and Jesus standing at the right hand of God when he tells them what he sees.

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<v SPEAKER_01>That makes them even more furious.

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<v SPEAKER_01>They dragged him outside the city and then they began to stone him.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Pause for a moment.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Imagine what Stephen could have prayed.

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<v SPEAKER_01>God, get me out of here.

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<v SPEAKER_01>God, destroy these people.

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<v SPEAKER_01>God, show them who's right.

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<v SPEAKER_01>God give them what they deserve.

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<v SPEAKER_01>But listen to what Scripture says.

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<v SPEAKER_01>As they stoned him, Stephen prayed, Lord Jesus, receive my spirit.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And then comes verse 60 as Stephen falls to his knees and cries out, Lord, don't charge them with this sin.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And then he dies.

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<v SPEAKER_01>This goes against everything that the world teaches us.

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<v SPEAKER_01>We don't talk about Stephen a lot, but it's it's um it's a pretty poignant story.

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<v SPEAKER_01>It's astonishing.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Stephen is dying because of the people who hate him.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And his final prayer is for them.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Jesus prayed for his executioners.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Stephen prayed for his executioners.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Stephen is following Jesus so closely that when he's dying, he sounds like Jesus.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And there's a hidden connection in the G in Stephen's story.

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<v SPEAKER_01>There's something you may have noticed.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Acts 7.58 tells us that the witnesses laid their coats at the feet of a young man called Saul.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Saul was there, probably grinding his teeth.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Saul is on the wrong side.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Saul is part of the persecution of the church, and Stephen is praying, Lord, don't charge them with this sin.

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<v SPEAKER_01>We don't know exactly what impact Stephen's prayer had on Saul's conversion.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Scripture doesn't tell us that Stephen's prayer caused Saul's Damascus Road experience.

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<v SPEAKER_01>But we do know something extraordinary.

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<v SPEAKER_01>The man standing there approving Stephen's death would one day become one of Christianity's greatest missionaries.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Can I say that back?

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<v SPEAKER_01>The man standing there approving of Stephen's death became one of Christianity's greatest missionaries.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Became the man who wrote more than the half of the New Testament that we read today.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Pretty big.

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<v SPEAKER_01>The enemy became a brother, the persecutor became a preacher.

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<v SPEAKER_01>The man who helped destroy the church became the man who helped build it.

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<v SPEAKER_01>The person Stephen never knew that his prayer would be connected to Saul's story.

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<v SPEAKER_01>This is one of the mysteries of prayer.

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<v SPEAKER_01>You don't always get to see what God does with your prayers.

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<v SPEAKER_01>You can pray for somebody for years and never see the answer, but heaven sees.

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<v SPEAKER_01>God hears.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And sometimes God is working in someone's life long before you see it.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Who's your soul?

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<v SPEAKER_01>We've all got one.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I've got like nine.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Who's the person you've mentally written off?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Who's the person you think there's no hope for them?

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<v SPEAKER_01>They'll never change.

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<v SPEAKER_01>God can't possibly use them.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Look what they've done.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Stephen looked at men who were literally killing him and prayed for them.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And among those watching was Saul.

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<v SPEAKER_01>The future Paul, the future apostle, the future missionary, the future writer of much of the New Testament, the man God would use to preach Christ across the Roman world.

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<v SPEAKER_01>What if Stephen had looked at Saul that night and thought, This man is beyond redemption?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Thank God Stephen didn't know the future, because if he had, he might have thought, Lord, don't save that man.

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<v SPEAKER_01>But God saw what Saul would become.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And that should make us careful about writing people off.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Because we see the present, God sees the whole story.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Prayer doesn't mean that we approve of evil.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Jesus says, love your enemies.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He's not saying pretend evil doesn't matter.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He isn't saying don't protect yourself.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He isn't saying don't confront injustice.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He isn't saying stay in a dangerous situation.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Forgive us, forgiveness doesn't mean pretending.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Forgiveness doesn't mean there are no consequences.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Forgiveness doesn't mean trust is automatically restored.

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<v SPEAKER_01>You can forgive someone and still have boundaries.

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<v SPEAKER_01>You can forgive someone and still seek justice.

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<v SPEAKER_01>You can forgive someone and still say what you did was wrong.

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<v SPEAKER_01>But forgiveness means I will not allow what you did to turn me into someone I'm not.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Romans 12, 9, never take revenge.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Leave that to the righteous anger of God.

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<v SPEAKER_01>It's powerful because revenge says I need to make them pay.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Faith says God can handle justice better than I can.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Joseph.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Genesis 37 introduces us to Joseph, and Joseph's enemies aren't strangers, they're his brothers.

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<v SPEAKER_01>They're his own family.

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<v SPEAKER_01>They betray him, they sell him, he ends up in slavery, years pass.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Joseph eventually rises to power in Egypt, and the famine comes.

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<v SPEAKER_01>His brothers come to Egypt looking for food, and suddenly the people who destroyed Joseph's life are standing in front of him.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Joseph has power, they don't.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He could punish them, imprison them, take revenge.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Instead, Genesis 50-20 gives us one of the most famous statements in Scripture.

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<v SPEAKER_01>You intended to harm me, but God intended it all for good.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Joseph didn't say you didn't hurt me.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He doesn't say it wasn't wrong.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He says you intended to harm me.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He acknowledges the evil, but he refuses to let the evil have the final word.

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<v SPEAKER_01>That's forgiveness.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Maybe somebody here needs to hear this.

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<v SPEAKER_01>What happened to you may have been wrong, but it doesn't have to determine who you become.

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<v SPEAKER_01>God can take what was meant for evil and bring something good from it.

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<v SPEAKER_01>A good Samaritan, your enemy, is still your neighbour.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Jesus tells the story of a man attacked by robbers, a priest walks past, a Levite walks past, then a Samaritan comes along, and the Samaritan stops.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He helps, he pays, he cares.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Why is that story so powerful?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Because Jesus deliberately chooses somebody who would have been viewed as an outsider.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Jews and Samaritans had centuries of hostility.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Like Aston Villa in Birmingham City.

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<v SPEAKER_01>But Jesus makes the Samaritan the example of love.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Luke 10, 27.

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<v SPEAKER_01>You must love the Lord your God with all your heart and your neighbour as yourself.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Jesus tells the story.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And at the end he asks, now which of these three would you say was a neighbour?

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<v SPEAKER_01>The answer is obvious, the Samaritan.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Jesus is teaching your neighbour isn't simply someone who looks like you.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Your neighbour may be different from you.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Your neighbour may be vote differently, speak differently, worship differently, come from a different country, support a different football team, and Jesus says, love them.

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<v SPEAKER_01>That's it.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I'm not delving into hidden parts of scripture here.

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<v SPEAKER_01>This isn't deeply theological.

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<v SPEAKER_01>We're not going to learn this on the theology course.

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<v SPEAKER_01>This is one of the 48 commands that Jesus gave us.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Love your enemy and pray for them.

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<v SPEAKER_01>It's not complex.

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<v SPEAKER_01>But we're human.

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<v SPEAKER_01>The football pictures show us something beautiful.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Think about what those players have in common.

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<v SPEAKER_01>It's not nationality, it's not language, it's not culture, it's not a football shirt.

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<v SPEAKER_01>It's their faith in Christ.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And there's something profoundly biblical about that.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Galatians 3.28.

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<v SPEAKER_01>There is no longer Jew or Gentile, slave or free, male or female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Paul isn't saying our differences don't exist.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He's saying our differences no longer determine our worth or our place in God's family.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Christ is bigger than our divisions.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Unity doesn't mean we all become the same, and this is really important.

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<v SPEAKER_01>The Bible doesn't say everybody becomes identical.

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<v SPEAKER_01>God loves diversity.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Look at creation, the flowers, the animals, the languages, the cultures, the personalities, the gifts.

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<v SPEAKER_01>1 Corinthians 12 describes the church as one body with many parts.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Paul says the eye cannot see, cannot say to the hand, I don't need you.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And the head cannot say to the feet, I don't need you.

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<v SPEAKER_01>We need one another.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So Christian unity isn't we all agree about everything.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Christian unity is Christ is more important than the things that divide us.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Christ is more important than the things that divide us.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Over the last two weeks, I've been reflecting on stories of people going to different churches and people leaving churches and people and hurting churches.

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<v SPEAKER_01>What are we we're doing something wrong.

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<v SPEAKER_01>We're doing something wrong.

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<v SPEAKER_01>There is hurt that happens.

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<v SPEAKER_01>We've got, by the way, I hate this room.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I don't hate it, but we didn't want to move into here, did we?

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<v SPEAKER_01>And I always say, when it got to the stage, we're moved into here, we're going to plant elsewhere, so I'm going to plant like something else.

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<v SPEAKER_01>But it's amazing to have you all.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Workswood's lovely.

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<v SPEAKER_01>We've got this lovely little family, you know, 40 odd people.

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<v SPEAKER_01>It's it's absolutely amazing.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And right now it's it's great.

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<v SPEAKER_01>We know the problems are gonna come, right?

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<v SPEAKER_01>We know they're gonna come, we know there's gonna be fallouts, we know you know Helen will probably say something wrong.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And there'll be something.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I am in so much trouble right now.

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<v SPEAKER_01>It's gonna happen, and that's where we have to be closer to Christ than ever before, right?

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<v SPEAKER_01>That's when we have to learn to forgive.

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<v SPEAKER_01>That's when we have to battle through, cling on to him, and figure out what did Jesus say?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Forgive.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Because he forgave us.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And I've really been reflecting on something I heard recently, and and you know, it's a bit of an analogy, but there's more power in salvation than there was in the creation of the earth.

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<v SPEAKER_01>God breathed creation into existence.

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<v SPEAKER_01>God literally breathed the earth, the planets, the stars into creation.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Somebody had to die for our forgiveness.

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<v SPEAKER_01>To me, that's huge, and it really reflects on the just the how big, you know.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Of course, we know how big it is that Jesus went to the cross to die for us, so that we could be free.

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<v SPEAKER_01>But God breathed everything else into existence.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Somebody had to die so that I could be free.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Salvation is massive, forgiveness is massive, and Jesus has forgiven us for everything we've done before, now, and in the future.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Although I haven't forgiven Mandy for chuckling away.

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<v SPEAKER_01>That's right.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Whatever, it's all recorded, Mandy.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Just to extend into Sheldon's preach the other week, he preached on love.

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<v SPEAKER_01>We don't need to be deep theologians because actually Jesus is so clear about what it is that we need to be.

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<v SPEAKER_01>We need to be loving to each other.

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<v SPEAKER_01>We need to be loving to each other here, we need to be loving to each other out there.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Because that shines through in the world.

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<v SPEAKER_01>People see it.

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<v SPEAKER_01>So to extend on that, Jesus prayed for unity.

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<v SPEAKER_01>John 17 contains Jesus' prayer shortly before his crucifixion.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And listen to what he says.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I'm not praying, not I'm praying not only for these disciples, but also for those who will ever believe in me through their message.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I will pray that they will all be one.

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<v SPEAKER_01>That's us.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Jesus was praying for Christians who would come centuries later.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He was praying for you, he was praying for me, and his prayer was make them one.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Because Jesus says our unity will demonstrate to the world that the Father sent him.

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<v SPEAKER_01>That means our relationships with one another are part of our witness.

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<v SPEAKER_01>People may not read our theology, they may not open our books, they may never come to a Bible study, but they can see how we treat people who disagree with us.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Our love becomes evidence.

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<v SPEAKER_01>What does unity look like?

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<v SPEAKER_01>Romans 12 gives us a beautiful picture.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Don't just pretend to love each other, really love them.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Don't just pretend to love others.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I love that.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Like an American air stewardess.

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<v SPEAKER_01>You've never seen a more fake smile, have you?

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<v SPEAKER_01>That's sorry.

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<v SPEAKER_01>It's good, not fake love, not polite church smiles, not God bless you while thinking I can't stand you.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Paul says, really love them.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Verse 10 love each other with genuine affection and take delight.

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<v SPEAKER_01>In honoring each other.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Verse 14, if people persecute you because you're a Christian, don't curse them.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Pray that God will bless them.

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<v SPEAKER_01>There it is again.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Pray for those that hurt you.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Verse 17: never pay back evil with more evil.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Verse 18, do all that you can to live in peace with everyone.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Verse 21, don't let evil conquer you, but conquer evil by doing good.

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<v SPEAKER_01>That's the Christian response.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Not evil for evil, good for evil.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Not hatred for hatred, love for hatred.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Not revenge for injury, prayer for injury.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Blessing your enemies is not weakness.

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<v SPEAKER_01>I think we can often think that.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Sometimes people think forgiveness is weakness.

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<v SPEAKER_01>It isn't.

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<v SPEAKER_01>It takes enormous strength to refuse revenge.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Anybody can retaliate, anybody can shout, anybody can insult, anybody can send the angry message.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Anybody can post the angry Facebook comment.

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<v SPEAKER_01>But it takes the Spirit of God to say, I could hurt your back, but I won't.

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<v SPEAKER_01>It takes strength to say I will not become like the person who hurt me.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Jesus didn't defeat evil by becoming evil, he defeated evil through sacrificial love.

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<v SPEAKER_01>The cross looked like defeat, but it became victory.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And praying for our enemies changes us.

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<v SPEAKER_01>When you genuinely begin to pray for somebody, God may change them, but often he starts changing you.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Think about somebody who is difficult for you.

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<v SPEAKER_01>And for the next seven days, pray.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Father, bless them.

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<v SPEAKER_01>At first you may say it through clenched teeth.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Father, bless them.

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<v SPEAKER_01>But keep going.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Give them wisdom, protect their family, help them, bring healing into their life, draw them closer to you, and eventually something may happen.

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<v SPEAKER_01>You start seeing them differently, not simply as the person who hurt me, but a person who God loves.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Praying for your enemy doesn't mean you have to like them.

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<v SPEAKER_01>One of the first things I was ever taught, I have to love everyone, I don't have to like everyone.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Jesus said, love your enemies.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He didn't say invite them on holiday.

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<v SPEAKER_01>He didn't say make them your best friend.

00:24:07.839 --> 00:24:09.119
<v SPEAKER_01>He didn't say give them your house keys.

00:24:09.200 --> 00:24:11.200
<v SPEAKER_01>Love is a decision before it is a feeling.

00:24:11.359 --> 00:24:17.200
<v SPEAKER_01>You may not like someone, you may not trust someone, you may not agree with someone, but you can still choose, I will treat this person with dignity.

00:24:17.359 --> 00:24:23.279
<v SPEAKER_01>You can choose, I won't gossip about them, I won't seek revenge, I'll pray for them, I will leave justice in God's hands.

00:24:23.440 --> 00:24:24.480
<v SPEAKER_01>That's love.

00:24:27.519 --> 00:24:30.240
<v SPEAKER_01>Jesus knew what real persecution looked like.

00:24:30.400 --> 00:24:32.960
<v SPEAKER_01>Stephen knew, Paul knew, the early church knew.

00:24:33.119 --> 00:24:36.079
<v SPEAKER_01>And yet the Christian response was radically different from the world.

00:24:36.319 --> 00:24:41.519
<v SPEAKER_01>1 Peter 3 9 says, Don't retaliate with insults when people insult you, but pay them back with a blessing.

00:24:41.759 --> 00:24:43.920
<v SPEAKER_01>It's completely upside down.

00:24:44.240 --> 00:24:46.720
<v SPEAKER_01>The world says, They hurt me, so I'll hurt them.

00:24:46.960 --> 00:24:50.000
<v SPEAKER_01>Jesus says they hurt you, so bless them.

00:24:50.720 --> 00:24:52.319
<v SPEAKER_01>The world says, get even.

00:24:52.480 --> 00:24:54.240
<v SPEAKER_01>Jesus says, get free.

00:24:54.960 --> 00:24:57.039
<v SPEAKER_01>Bitterness, revenge, hatred.

00:24:58.799 --> 00:25:01.680
<v SPEAKER_01>Jesus tells us to pray for those who persecute, persecute us.

00:25:01.839 --> 00:25:02.960
<v SPEAKER_01>Let's go back to Matthew 5.

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<v SPEAKER_01>Jesus says, pray for those who persecute you.

00:25:05.200 --> 00:25:05.759
<v SPEAKER_01>Why?

00:25:06.240 --> 00:25:07.759
<v SPEAKER_01>Because prayer changes that posture.

00:25:07.920 --> 00:25:09.839
<v SPEAKER_01>When I pray for somebody, I place them in God's hands.

00:25:09.920 --> 00:25:11.920
<v SPEAKER_01>I don't have to carry them around in my head all day.

00:25:12.079 --> 00:25:13.599
<v SPEAKER_01>I don't have to replay the conversation.

00:25:13.680 --> 00:25:15.519
<v SPEAKER_01>I don't have to imagine what I should have said.

00:25:15.680 --> 00:25:16.799
<v SPEAKER_01>I don't have to plan revenge.

00:25:16.880 --> 00:25:18.240
<v SPEAKER_01>I can say, Father, they're yours.

00:25:18.400 --> 00:25:19.920
<v SPEAKER_01>That's freedom.

00:25:22.559 --> 00:25:25.039
<v SPEAKER_01>Ultimately, our standard isn't the footballers.

00:25:25.119 --> 00:25:25.680
<v SPEAKER_01>It's not even Steve.

00:25:25.839 --> 00:25:26.960
<v SPEAKER_01>Oh, I lost my notes completely.

00:25:27.119 --> 00:25:27.920
<v SPEAKER_01>Brilliant.

00:25:34.160 --> 00:25:35.759
<v SPEAKER_01>Our standard isn't the footballers.

00:25:35.839 --> 00:25:36.960
<v SPEAKER_01>Our standard isn't Stephen.

00:25:37.039 --> 00:25:38.160
<v SPEAKER_01>It's Jesus.

00:25:38.480 --> 00:25:41.680
<v SPEAKER_01>Stephen could pray for his enemies because he'd seen Jesus pray to his.

00:25:41.920 --> 00:25:45.359
<v SPEAKER_01>Stephen could forgive because he had received forgiveness.

00:25:45.440 --> 00:25:47.200
<v SPEAKER_01>Stephen could love because Christ had loved him.

00:25:47.359 --> 00:25:49.599
<v SPEAKER_01>The cross says this is how much God loves sinners.

00:25:49.759 --> 00:25:53.599
<v SPEAKER_01>And if God has forgiven me, how can I refuse to forgive anyone else?

00:25:53.759 --> 00:25:57.920
<v SPEAKER_01>If God has forgiven me, how can I refuse to forgive anyone else?

00:25:58.160 --> 00:25:59.599
<v SPEAKER_01>Ephesians 4 32.

00:25:59.759 --> 00:26:04.960
<v SPEAKER_01>Instead, be kind to each other, tender hearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.

00:26:05.119 --> 00:26:06.240
<v SPEAKER_01>And there's the pattern.

00:26:06.480 --> 00:26:09.359
<v SPEAKER_01>As God forgave you, forgive others.

00:26:09.759 --> 00:26:11.359
<v SPEAKER_01>Imagine if the church lived like this.

00:26:11.440 --> 00:26:15.839
<v SPEAKER_01>Imagine a church where people genuinely disagreed, but genuinely love one another.

00:26:16.000 --> 00:26:25.359
<v SPEAKER_01>Imagine different generations worshipping together, different nationalities, different political opinions, different personalities, different denominations, different backgrounds, and yet one family.

00:26:25.920 --> 00:26:30.720
<v SPEAKER_01>Imagine the world looking at Christians and saying they disagree about some things, but they don't hate each other.

00:26:30.880 --> 00:26:35.119
<v SPEAKER_01>They forgive, they serve each other, they pray for each other, they love people who are different from them.

00:26:35.279 --> 00:26:41.599
<v SPEAKER_01>That would be powerful because Jesus said, By this, everyone will know that you are my disciples if you love one another.

00:26:41.839 --> 00:26:46.319
<v SPEAKER_01>Not by this, everyone will know you're my disciples because you won every argument.

00:26:46.559 --> 00:26:51.200
<v SPEAKER_01>Not because you had the perfect theological position, not because everyone agreed with you.

00:26:51.440 --> 00:26:54.480
<v SPEAKER_01>Jesus said, if you love one another.

00:26:55.200 --> 00:26:59.359
<v SPEAKER_01>Well, brothers and sisters, these are the things that feel enormous in life.

00:26:59.440 --> 00:27:05.599
<v SPEAKER_01>Our politics, our arguments, our disappointments, our differences, our football teams, but eternity puts everything into perspective.

00:27:05.759 --> 00:27:08.079
<v SPEAKER_01>Because one day the final whistle will blow.

00:27:08.319 --> 00:27:09.599
<v SPEAKER_01>The match will be over.

00:27:09.839 --> 00:27:13.200
<v SPEAKER_01>And the only thing that will matter is did I know Jesus?

00:27:13.440 --> 00:27:14.640
<v SPEAKER_01>Did I love people?

00:27:15.039 --> 00:27:16.079
<v SPEAKER_01>Did I forgive?

00:27:16.319 --> 00:27:17.599
<v SPEAKER_01>Did I show mercy?

00:27:17.839 --> 00:27:19.680
<v SPEAKER_01>Did I reflect Christ?

00:27:23.359 --> 00:27:25.279
<v SPEAKER_01>So I'll leave you with a challenge.

00:27:26.079 --> 00:27:33.039
<v SPEAKER_01>This week, intentionally talk to somebody who you wouldn't normally talk to, someone from a different generation, different background, different culture, different opinion.

00:27:33.200 --> 00:27:33.680
<v SPEAKER_01>Listen to them.

00:27:33.839 --> 00:27:36.319
<v SPEAKER_01>Not to win, just to listen.

00:27:36.799 --> 00:27:40.160
<v SPEAKER_01>Because unity begins when we see people rather than categories.

00:27:41.039 --> 00:27:43.359
<v SPEAKER_01>Ask God, who do I need to forgive?

00:27:43.680 --> 00:27:48.559
<v SPEAKER_01>You may not be able to reconcile immediately, you may need boundaries, you may need counselling, you may need justice.

00:27:48.799 --> 00:27:51.759
<v SPEAKER_01>But you begin releasing the desire for revenge.

00:27:52.079 --> 00:27:55.279
<v SPEAKER_01>Say, Father, I put this person in your hands.

00:27:59.039 --> 00:28:00.559
<v SPEAKER_01>Pray for your Stephen moment.

00:28:00.640 --> 00:28:01.519
<v SPEAKER_01>Think of Saul.

00:28:02.000 --> 00:28:06.640
<v SPEAKER_01>The person who hurt you, the person you struggle to love, and for seven days pray for them.

00:28:06.880 --> 00:28:08.720
<v SPEAKER_01>Not Lord make them agree with me.

00:28:08.880 --> 00:28:10.799
<v SPEAKER_01>Not Lord prove that I'm right.

00:28:11.039 --> 00:28:13.200
<v SPEAKER_01>Not Lord give them what they deserve.

00:28:13.519 --> 00:28:14.720
<v SPEAKER_01>Father bless them.

00:28:14.960 --> 00:28:16.480
<v SPEAKER_01>Father, change me.

00:28:21.119 --> 00:28:26.000
<v SPEAKER_01>Different shirts, different countries, different languages, different cultures, but they kneel together, they pray together.

00:28:26.160 --> 00:28:28.799
<v SPEAKER_01>And perhaps that's what the church needs to rediscover.

00:28:29.039 --> 00:28:32.720
<v SPEAKER_01>We don't have to wear the same shirts and kneel before the same king.

00:28:33.039 --> 00:28:34.559
<v SPEAKER_01>We don't have to agree on everything.

00:28:34.640 --> 00:28:38.559
<v SPEAKER_01>We don't have to look the same, we don't have to come from the same place, we don't have to have the same story.

00:28:38.720 --> 00:28:44.240
<v SPEAKER_01>But we can have one Lord, one faith, one spirit, one father, one saviour.

00:28:44.640 --> 00:28:47.839
<v SPEAKER_01>And when we're standing, we can see all the things that divide us.

00:28:48.000 --> 00:28:51.519
<v SPEAKER_01>But when we're kneeling, we can all look in the same direction.

00:28:54.400 --> 00:28:55.200
<v SPEAKER_01>I love it.

00:28:55.359 --> 00:28:55.759
<v SPEAKER_01>I love it.

00:28:55.920 --> 00:28:57.119
<v SPEAKER_01>It's so hard, right?

00:28:57.279 --> 00:28:58.559
<v SPEAKER_01>It's so hard.

00:28:58.799 --> 00:29:00.319
<v SPEAKER_01>When you're wronged.

00:29:00.720 --> 00:29:03.200
<v SPEAKER_01>When you have these battles in your life.

00:29:03.599 --> 00:29:08.799
<v SPEAKER_01>I'll finish with a quick story, and it's not that I'm holier than thou, because I can assure you I have lots of souls in my life.

00:29:09.119 --> 00:29:54.480
<v SPEAKER_01>But when um not everyone will know my testimony, but when I I sort of um when God restored my life, I was I was no longer an addict, and I I um people came back into my life, my dad came back into my life, which was seven or eight years ago now, and um, you know, there's a lot of hurt there, there's a lot of rubbish, there's a lot of trauma, and it took a lot of prayer for me to forgive him for the things that had happened in the past, but actually it worked and it changed me, and it was almost like Helen and I would go and see him, and he um he could be quite cutting with his with his words, um, almost trying to provoke a reaction.

00:29:54.720 --> 00:30:01.920
<v SPEAKER_01>And for me, it's almost like I had a Holy Spirit-shaped force field that those words didn't mean anything, actually.

00:30:02.079 --> 00:30:04.079
<v SPEAKER_01>It was it was so strange.

00:30:04.160 --> 00:30:11.359
<v SPEAKER_01>I knew the reaction he was trying to get, and even and it wasn't even a false, you know, with gritted teeth, they're not gonna have an impact on me.

00:30:11.599 --> 00:30:13.359
<v SPEAKER_01>I just didn't really care.

00:30:14.319 --> 00:30:15.279
<v SPEAKER_01>They meant nothing.

00:30:15.440 --> 00:30:16.559
<v SPEAKER_01>I loved him regardless.

00:30:16.720 --> 00:30:21.680
<v SPEAKER_01>Whereas whereas Helen would come out of those visits, and Helen was like, I can't believe he just said that.

00:30:21.839 --> 00:30:23.279
<v SPEAKER_01>I can't believe he's brought that up again.

00:30:23.359 --> 00:30:24.559
<v SPEAKER_01>That's in the past.

00:30:26.240 --> 00:30:37.039
<v SPEAKER_01>But I had a Holy Spirit-shaped force field, and it's it's kind of it's so difficult to explain, and I need that force field with other people in my life, and I've no doubt that some of us need that force field.

00:30:37.279 --> 00:30:39.519
<v SPEAKER_01>Force field isn't scriptural, by the way.

00:30:39.759 --> 00:30:45.039
<v SPEAKER_01>Um we need that as well.

00:30:45.359 --> 00:30:52.880
<v SPEAKER_01>And as we grow as a church, as we grow and as we get to know each other as Matlock, Buxton, and Worksworth coming together, there's gonna be times when we fall out.

00:30:53.119 --> 00:30:53.839
<v SPEAKER_01>There just is.

00:30:54.000 --> 00:30:54.480
<v SPEAKER_01>We're humans.

00:30:54.640 --> 00:30:56.880
<v SPEAKER_01>There's gonna be time where someone says the wrong thing.

00:30:57.119 --> 00:30:59.839
<v SPEAKER_01>There's gonna be times when someone's coming a bit groggy that morning.

00:30:59.920 --> 00:31:01.039
<v SPEAKER_01>There's going to be those times.

00:31:01.119 --> 00:31:03.519
<v SPEAKER_01>We are a mixture of different personalities.

00:31:04.000 --> 00:31:06.319
<v SPEAKER_01>And we have a choice to make then, right?

00:31:06.640 --> 00:31:15.519
<v SPEAKER_01>We have a choice to make whether we form a clique, we stand over there with those people, or do we love each other because that's what the world sees?

00:31:16.240 --> 00:31:17.680
<v SPEAKER_01>It's the hardest one.

00:31:17.839 --> 00:31:20.319
<v SPEAKER_01>Like, genuinely, I think it's the hardest one.

00:31:21.680 --> 00:31:23.920
<v SPEAKER_01>But so worth doing because we grow so much.

00:31:24.000 --> 00:31:25.440
<v SPEAKER_01>I'm just going to finish in prayer.

00:31:28.000 --> 00:31:29.599
<v SPEAKER_01>Lord, we thank you.

00:31:30.079 --> 00:31:32.319
<v SPEAKER_01>We thank you ultimately that you went to the cross for us.

00:31:32.640 --> 00:31:38.559
<v SPEAKER_01>Thank you that you died and you took away my sin, my shame, my fear, my regret.

00:31:38.640 --> 00:31:41.279
<v SPEAKER_01>You pinned it all to the cross so that I could be free.

00:31:41.599 --> 00:31:42.799
<v SPEAKER_01>Thank you for that truth, Lord.

00:31:42.880 --> 00:31:45.119
<v SPEAKER_01>Thank you for how blessed we are that we know you.

00:31:45.920 --> 00:31:47.839
<v SPEAKER_01>Thank you that we can come and worship you.

00:31:47.920 --> 00:31:52.319
<v SPEAKER_01>But there's thank you for the the promise of an eternity in heaven awaits.

00:31:52.640 --> 00:31:54.720
<v SPEAKER_01>But there's a life here on earth to live first.

00:31:54.880 --> 00:31:59.119
<v SPEAKER_01>And Lord, we want to cling to your robe like never before because we need you.

00:31:59.440 --> 00:32:01.440
<v SPEAKER_01>For the commands that you've given to us, Lord.

00:32:01.519 --> 00:32:03.200
<v SPEAKER_01>We can't do them on our own.

00:32:03.440 --> 00:32:05.279
<v SPEAKER_01>These aren't human ways of doing stuff.

00:32:05.440 --> 00:32:08.000
<v SPEAKER_01>Forgiveness isn't a natural human reaction.

00:32:08.319 --> 00:32:09.839
<v SPEAKER_01>Lord, we need you.

00:32:10.079 --> 00:32:11.119
<v SPEAKER_01>And we just thank you.

00:32:11.279 --> 00:32:14.160
<v SPEAKER_01>We thank you for your truth, we thank you for your examples.

00:32:15.039 --> 00:32:17.039
<v SPEAKER_01>We thank you that you change our hearts, Lord.

00:32:17.759 --> 00:32:22.160
<v SPEAKER_01>We're so secure in our salvation, which is an amazing thing.

00:32:22.799 --> 00:32:25.119
<v SPEAKER_01>But there's still work to be done on us.

00:32:26.079 --> 00:32:32.079
<v SPEAKER_01>So, Lord, we we long for that and we reach out to you and say, Show us the souls in our life.

00:32:33.519 --> 00:32:35.519
<v SPEAKER_01>Change our hearts, Lord.

00:32:36.640 --> 00:32:40.319
<v SPEAKER_01>Bring all the glory to you because you're amazing and we love you.

00:32:40.559 --> 00:32:41.200
<v SPEAKER_01>Amen.

00:32:41.680 --> 00:32:42.319
<v SPEAKER_01>Amen.
