The Distinct Podcast
The Distinct Podcast
Joy After An Affair
For our first podcast without a guest, we decided to kick it off by conflicting! Well, more like landing a rough week, attempting to stay authentic while working out a few issues, and ending with Drea laughing and snorting (see min 35:45).
Hear us discuss our affairs, infidelity and how God has worked in our lives to turn destructive pasts, into joy, laughter, and an opportunity to encourage other marriages that healing is possible through Jesus.
Also, hear the line up of coming guests! Please leave a 5 star review and thank you all for listening!
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Speaker 3:recorded live from Fresno, California. This is the distinct podcast. Introducing our graceful hosts again on Mary team who have learned how to keep a lookout for baby poop in the strangest places. Here is nick and Andrea Johnson. Hello him new
Speaker 4:welcome to the distinct podcast fighting to have lives and marriages set apart.
Speaker 2:Hmm. It's a new week, day, week, new week and a new podcast. It's just me and you.[inaudible] something different. Yup. Well we definitely wanted to thank some people. I don't know if you want to. I could, I could think of most importantly, we want to thank everyone that's been supporting us on our go fund us go fund me, uh, for trying to get a nonprofit application. So we're currently at five 95 out of seven 50 and we're really excited about that. Just super thankful for everybody that's been donating and supporting or even just sharing that link on Facebook. So thank you guys very much. Thank you. Thank you.
Speaker 4:Um, another person we want to think is, um, cat who takes our kids while we get to record. And she's been doing that every time we've recorded just a blessing to have her.
Speaker 2:Yeah. And it would be very, very difficult without her kids love her. Yeah. I'm not going to release her last name. I was just going to say that. Tell her yeah, she's mine. Her name is cat, fa La la La. That's her last name. So look her up. No doubt. We are going to have to go back, scratch her name out and put to something else. Okay.
Speaker 4:So this week, this week Daddy, we're at, well not the new week, so I guess it's last week.
Speaker 2:[inaudible] do you want to talk about that? Yeah, go for it. How did it go? How did last week go? It wasn't a very fun week. No. So we pretty much going through the past month or two, been really good. Uh, marriage wise and I would say the last week actually the first half decent. And then starting after our wonderful date day, which was a good day, day Thursday, pretty much spent that day arguing. Um, and then Friday on and off. And then here we are Saturday recording and uh, it's been a bumpy past few days arguing. I feel like a lot of attacks as far as, and I don't, I don't like to use that word because it can sound really hocus pocus and spiritual and weird, but I really do feel like we actually have been going through tax with just stupid things with our ACR car blowing up and financial. Yeah. Like financing
Speaker 4:issues, things popping up. That was like
Speaker 2:you're going for like 2014. Yeah. Why Confession, forgiving forgiveness was the topic at our re-engage group. And so we had talked about that. We had just shared our testimony a week before. Yup. So the week, normally when you share a testimony or when we have shared our testimony, something always happens. Um, the week before the week after kids getting sick transmission on the car going out, something inevitably happens in this time. The first week, week before smooth week after first half smooth and the second half was our last three days. And it's been interesting. A lot of grace and forgiveness needed a lot of arguing, a lot of passwords and uh, important documents on our phones going missing and just little things like that. And then trying to even record this podcast now, uh, has taken three hours to start. So it's a lot going on. But we are battling, we're committed to putting out good content and, uh, really just sharing how God continues to bring joy to our life and strengthen us even in trials, which some could argue this as a rough week.
Speaker 4:And I guess we're just trying to show that getting onto the podcast and there's going to be days or it seems like most days like we're all happy and good. And then to know like, hey, like it still real, like we're in a marriage and so that means like we're gonna fight, we're arguing and it, this past week just happened to be that way.
Speaker 2:But how we came out of it though is important. Yeah.
Speaker 4:And I'm not down the street at my mom's house or something.
Speaker 2:No, we've stayed committed, which is ironically the next lesson, which we have not read yet in re-engage staying committed. Um, but yes, while I attempted to maybe leave or get out of the house for a bit or whatever it is, we haven't done that and we've been, you know, anchored to our commitment to each other and we're just going to find it out until that's really what's been going on. It could have seem bad. Not that bad. I do feel like I, like my wife says God is bigger. So kinda just resting in that. And, uh, I see people reaching out to support us when we need it and appreciate all you guys.
Speaker 4:So I'll just, um, do something different and I'm just going to read something from my journal.
Speaker 2:Oh, I was gonna say something before you did that, which is, uh, I do really admire you and your strength in getting on this podcast and following my leadership in just different areas of life. And with this podcast in particular, you getting on knowing that you can be self conscious in certain areas that you don't need to be. Um, I'm just very encouraged by you. Really. I'm encouraged by my wife, uh, that you fight through this even though I know it's not something that you necessarily are dying to do right now. I admire your perseverance. It's very attended, attractive quality. So good job moment. Thanks. Yes, I'll try not to know you too much. So you were saying something about your compliments. That's fine. You don't need to look at you weird. No, but you were saying some about your journal.
Speaker 4:Yeah. So I put, I was struggling this week to see the best in my husband. The way I felt was nodding at me and I let, and it left me hurting. Like he doesn't care for me or appreciate me, which is far from the truth during this time. I feel like what am I doing with trying to take the leadership roles or talking to others about fighting in your marriage or even in your faith, and I'm sure I can't be the only one. I pursue Christ. Try to be the best Christian, be the best wife, mother, and yet my humanly fleshly desires and feelings can invade my pursuit. And I look at that and feel why am I even trying? There's that ounce of giving up to be honest, but God still has a hold of me. I will not go down with a fight and let Satan win. I've clarity what's happening now. I've learned this week that we will go through heart aching events, but because you don't go through it perfectly doesn't mean you should keep going down that path. But at some point, listen to the truth. What's God's word? Say about, it sounds cheesy, but ww j d I like it. What would Jesus do? It matters how you come out of the fight. Are you going to go lash out in anger and hold onto that grudge and not forgive or will you die to yourself and love the person who you feel is hurting you?
Speaker 2:I mean, courage by it. And I think a hard we, yeah, it was a rough week, a rough week. We continue to fight it out and have little arguments and realize that they're just a little argument and are trying to like just die to ourselves. Yeah. And but the little[inaudible]
Speaker 4:even so the time they always feel so big, you know, then you just step back and be like, what's actually beg? What's actually the bigger thing here? And it's God, that's bigger.
Speaker 2:[inaudible] I think there is a desire to be right and if you're going to be right, that's pride. And if you win that argument, you're going to lose the marriage. So, and yeah, it is that perseverance. That's important. And it's ironic, I got to say that we, the first time we've had been on a solo or just us too on a podcast, we started off of course with a fight. Why not? Because that's how we do it. That's our style. But I'm, it does make me think of a passage which I did prep for, uh, for this, which is Hebrews in particular, Hebrews five, 11. And that is the most important warning in the Bible. Uh, and I will just read it and it says concerning him, we have much to say, and it is hard to explain since you have become dull of hearing that can be, um, broken down to mean spiritual maturity. So when it talks about, but solid food is for the mature. So spiritual maturity is not just learning, it's not just knowledge, but it's the ability to obey and execute on that knowledge. Learning alone does nothing. So like you're saying, it's, it's how you're fighting and it's how you come out of that fight. And it doesn't say, what I like in here is it says, uh, but solid food is for the mature who, because of practice have their senses trained. It doesn't say, uh, who, because of their perfection, at their senses trained and are able to perfectly discern good and evil. It says practice. It is a inferring that you are going to mess up, you are going to fail.
Speaker 4:I it back to my journal, right? Like I could definitely have decided that, you know what? I'm angry. I'm going to stay angry and I'm going to choose to follow my feelings rather than the truth.
Speaker 2:[inaudible] and that's what people, the worldwide often say is follow your heart. What do you feel like doing?[inaudible] you know, it's okay to have feelings. What it's not okay to do is be led by those feelings. That's a reaction is wicked. Yes, your heart is eternally wicked and to follow it is a mistake instead. And that would be a reaction. Instead, we should, uh, feel the feeling that we feel that's natural, normal and we can't stop doing it, but respond. So we lead our heart. I know this to be true. I believe this to be true. And while my flesh and emotions want me to go one way, I'm going to choose to go another way, which is pretty much been hard. Week has gone. I feel like doing this. Right?
Speaker 4:It's funny. I, so I was looking at, um, Instagram at two o'clock this morning. Hmm. Wow. Yeah. Thank you baby. I'm humble disciple on Instagram. They posted a picture and it said, the devil wants you to pay attention to your feelings. Jesus wants you to pay attention to his truth. And I saw that and I'm like so true.
Speaker 2:Yeah, it was nice to have gone through the arguments. The arguments weren't nice, but it was nice too. Uh, in those moments of arguing, watch you reach out to your mentor, which is odd that you have a mentor because you never, you didn't for the longest time. And now you have, uh, Shariece shout out Shariece as your mentor. Um, and she's just been awesome from what it looks like.
Speaker 4:She says she's a great example. Like just to, how's that going? Just to see her. I mean,
Speaker 2:I don't even know. H I see you text her and I'm just like, I'm not going to bother her. But I'm always curious what she says
Speaker 4:just to[inaudible], just to see and know the things that she is doing. Like it's just, um, it's encouraging. I guess just to see her in trials or when people are down and she just helps uplift them and helps where she can
Speaker 2:to switch gears[inaudible] talking about, uh, some of the different people that we've had an opportunity to talk to. So since starting the podcast, I've had opportunities to talk to different people. A lot of them have been walking through infidelity and affairs. I guess we may not have fully put out what we walked through. So before we actually get to that, I would say to dive into our mini testimony for just a little bit would be, um, what we actually wanted to start out with on episode one. Then we inserted a guest, which was our past. And so for me, growing up in a Christian home, I uh, could recite scripture and I went to Christian schools and later on I got into drugs. So this would be pills because of a shoulder injury that lasted 10 years and I had an affair eventually, which was a full blown affair. She's counting all of them on her hand cause there were multiple, uh, but she, I eventually did come out and tell her all this, you know, it, it took finding out certain things about her and realizing that man, I hadn't been fully honest it and having to go backwards, tell her all the details and just come clean and then she still chose to show me forgiveness and grace. That's my side of it.
Speaker 4:Yeah. So for me it's been just me and my mom since I was five, five, six years old and she take me to church or we would go to church on Sundays, but that's all it was. And so never really understood that relationship with Jesus. And I also had an affair. What you do that every time. Um, so I had an affair. I was totally into my job.
Speaker 2:So when I found out[inaudible] right now, when I found out that she had an affair, um, that's kind of when everything crumbled in that is where God changed my heart and, uh, that begin the long painstaking process of us healing, recovering. Uh, eventually I told her the full extent of my past 10 years of lies, hiding drugs, porn, multiple women, all of it. Uh, she forgave it on and we, uh, began to rebuild hill. And uh, now here we are trying to encourage other people.
Speaker 4:When you came out with the real aspect of the affair, I got low crazy.
Speaker 2:You did stab me in the arm, which we have not shared in our testimony but it is what happened. I don't know how long it say I'd have to press charges. So
Speaker 4:which am I, oh, ground up plate.[inaudible] and I threw it at you and I literally like on this table that we record on like there was a shard of glass like no kidding. Like it was placed there for me to grab. Like it's like there was nothing else on the stable but that like Kayla. Yeah. And you still here so
Speaker 2:[inaudible] so by have skyper God protected me cause I was just in a fetal position. You're not in the fetal position? No. You where you're sitting on the table right there.
Speaker 4:So that happened because I'm still working through my anger issues. And um, then the 10 years came out. And so I think it was definitely a like a three 60 change to where I came back home. Cause I, at the time I was pregnant with Michael and sat down, God was stirring in me and like, how am I supposed to forgive him? How do I forgive this guy? Cause I don't even, I do not even know how I'm supposed to forgive him at the time we're in re-engage. So I looked in my rain gauge book, I felt the Holy Spirit in me pushing me to tell nick I had forgive him, that I need to give grace and make it a safe place for him because that's what God has done for me. It'd be a gift to do that for my spouse.
Speaker 2:So going through all that, then we were able to finally fully know each other and have oneness and our emotional intimacy, uh, not only grew, just caught on fire, we finally knew each other. It's like telling somebody like every deep dark secret about yourself, you're fully known. And then to be accepted. Like, man, this is love. This is exactly what I've always wanted. That ignited our physical intimacy as well. But all of that and what we've gone through and continue to learn has given us the ability to then biblically speak into other people's lives. So now to go all the way back to uh, who we have been, you know, a lot of people who we've been able to speak with, you know, as they go through those same issues. It's been exciting and fun and very fulfilling. And I feel like we're tools that are being used by God to speak into people's lives. By no means do we do it perfectly or are we going to say it's all like learning further. It's like, it's a two way thing. I can think of things already that I've told people that I'm like, Ooh man. Okay. Like I told somebody, hey, you know, you just need to tell. Everybody needs to tell everything to their spouse all the time. All the teeth, everything. Yes. Everything. And then some people don't want to hear the those details and they do just want to be together and not hear those details. Cause for you and I, when we came out, when I came out, uh, we shared every gritty detail about our fears. I mean, I joke, but I say I could draw it. That's the level of detail that we went to. And uh, for me, my imagination and a lot of guys that I talk to, our imaginations will, our imaginations will kind of run wild. We'll think the worst we'll sink. Oh, the affair was, it must have been this way and us not at all the case learning to not only ask you, but then for you to trust to tell me and me to trust your answers. Those are hurdles. Someone I was just speaking with, that was a major hurdle for them. It's, you know, hey, you know, I want to be with my wife. She had an affair and I'm beginning to ask her all these questions and I just don't believe her. I think that it was so much worse than it actually was. And to encourage somebody to just trust her trust or answers trust that it was sin, that it was not what you think it was. It was not satisfying. It was sin.
Speaker 4:Because when I first found out about your fairs, it's like I had this like whole scenario in my head about what happened and it must've been just like so amazing and so great and like you guys had this like amazing relationship together. I Dunno. Like you guys can grow old together. Right?
Speaker 2:And, and this is the exact stuff I think that Satan doesn't want aired, not podcasted which is the truth, which is no, uh, yeah, I totally agree. It wasn't like that. It's funny, something that we've come across now is that going through an affair, guys will always wonder what was the sex like physically is where our minds are at 99% of it. Yes. The fact that there was, you had an emotional relationship with this guy sucks and it hurts, but it's not what I focused on. What I focused on was the physical and from what we've learned for the most part, women typically are more focused on what you just got done saying about the emotional and the relationship part of it. Yeah. And it's funny because that was never important. It was never a big thing for me. The relationship part, the emotional aspect obviously. Yeah. Like you said, you know it's there
Speaker 4:do have a really, you end up having a relationship, but it's not the kind of relationship that I'm thinking.
Speaker 2:Exactly. And so you have to ask me that and then I can explain to you the emotional and relationship it was there. But it wasn't my highlight. No, there was no highlight. It wasn't the, uh, the focus. And not only that, the relationship was like she was a crazy girlfriend. It was the worst. It was hell. And for me, you can ask me, well, how was the sex? Wasn't it just so awesome and crazy and great? I ended up literally imagine like King Kong or something and no, right by far, no. And I have to trust your answers and then not only we can move on once that happens, we've both have been in one like, yes, we can understand that with each other. It's easier to trust your answers because I know the truth. You know exactly what happened. Right, but for somebody who
Speaker 4:one person has had an affair but the other person has not, I can see how that'd be really hard.
Speaker 2:It's difficult because they've broken your trust already, so how can you trust those answers that they're telling you? Hopefully you listened to a podcast or something and they tell you the truth, which is, man, she's telling you the truth. It was sin. It was often, it was not like it w like you think and I would say stop watching porn because whatever you're watching or stop watching Grey's anatomy or or whatever show is pumping up the relationships because then that's going to feed your imagination. I think that's what the relationship was like or that's what the sex was like that stating feeding and fueling your imagination. Well, especially
Speaker 4:if you just pondering upon this like scenario of what it could be, I think that already is going to be detrimental to the healing of your marriage. But I mean to even think about what God thinks about sin, adulterer versus a murderer.[inaudible] you know, it's all the same in his eyes. It doesn't matter how bad the sin is, how little the sin is, it's all the same, right? When someone had an affair versus the other person who had not had an affair, the person that did not have an affair still has sinned some way against the person who had an affair. And so not to, to not think like I'm better than you or very righteous. You know,
Speaker 2:we've all, we've all sinned. We've all fallen short of the glory of God and, uh, we're all deserving of hell.
Speaker 5:And
Speaker 2:who are we to condemn? We're called to forgive. And it kind of, I mean, so there's so many little topics that we could talk about regarding Ian Affair. A few other things. But, um, at the end of the day, one of the biggest questions that we've been asked is, well, why did we work it out? Why did you stay with him? Why did you stay with her? I mean, we're called to forgive. You could even make the argument that biblically you could get divorced. You have a right biblically to get divorced. Um, and like you said, like the Bible says, it's, it just shows a hardness of your heart. But more than that, what an opportunity to show and prove your spot to your spouse. I love you unconditionally. I would not, uh, necessarily immediately jump with joy if I heard that you were, you confessed to me, hey, I had another affair. Right? Um, but there wouldn't be actually some point where I'd be like, okay, here's another opportunity for me to show you unconditional. That doesn't mean I wouldn't be hurt because I would definitely be hurt. Yes. But I could say, hey, you know what? It's gonna take some time to heal from this, but we're going to keep moving forward.
Speaker 4:And I feel like it goes back to my journal where we're gonna go through a trial and maybe sometimes it's just not going to go accordingly or you're going to throw a plate. But then going back and thinking about what does God want for me, we're not going to work through these trials and problems so easily off the bat sometimes. But how we come out of it, are we gonna choose to go to divorce and separate or are we going to continue to, to work on the marriage and love on each other and just try to keep pursuing.
Speaker 2:Yeah. And I think that in talking to people and, and we've, we've talked to people and they get divorced, so I'm like, great, good job encouraging them. But it does take two people to want to do it. And so yeah, you have a rough, you have arguments or you have this big affair, blow up whatever it is. Are you going to get divorced or are you going to fight?
Speaker 4:And you said divorce or fight. And I would say like,
Speaker 2:and that's why if you choose to finally fight is the right choice. Conflict is the right choice. Conflict it out is what I'm saying. And in that way I can encourage people that are listening is that you can have joy, you can move on, you can heal and not only will you heal, but choosing that godly path, that right path, right his path, that sacrificial path, that servant leader path, that nail yourself on the cross path, choosing that to be obedient to that knowledge. Uh, not only will you have joy, but it will be a fullness of joy that you can never have when you choose divorce.
Speaker 4:Say No on the cross. And I'm thinking like when he walked at his cross up, it wasn't an easy, it's not this easy task and going through something after an affair. Like it's not going to be an easy task, but it's definitely a way to show, uh, your relationship with Jesus. And what an opportunity. Yes, definitely an opportunity.
Speaker 2:It's an opportunity. It will be painful. And I think, you know, having that heart change and placing your trust in him, while there will be fullness of joy, also, what is guaranteed is suffering.[inaudible] trials and pains. It will hurt.[inaudible]
Speaker 4:but just because you fight doesn't mean that the relationship is over and that we're never going to work it out.
Speaker 2:No. That's something that we've had to, and I've been working on is when a Draya decides to start a fight with me, which is all the time kidding. Well, when we conflict, you know, there's the react, there's the respond bucket. There's always some truth. Yeah. The water and the gas, which one are you gonna throw on the spark? Um, and inevitably somebody chooses a GAF bucket. We're in a conflict for me in those moments, I tend to want to shut down so much emotionally my face goes blank. Yup. You're right. And it's t-rex time for her chomping my head off. Um, and I just can't wait to be out of it. But what we've been, what I've been learning is that I don't, I shouldn't do that. I should be forward and direct say how I feel. And, um, fight through it, conflict through it so that we can come to an understanding so that we[inaudible]
Speaker 4:and I should try not to be like t rex and be slow to anger and listen to you.
Speaker 2:Well you've been doing a very good job. Um, being very humble and gracious and listening to me. I actually have noticed, and I keep saying it, uh, you submitting to my leadership is something that hadn't happened in the past that is very fulfilling. I think that both been submitting ourself to God's word as much as we can. Learning his word, submitting to it, understanding the roles in marriage and to watch you choose to submit to God's word and his design in our marriage, not only has it obviously been very encouraging and an attractive for me to watch, but uh, yes, practice. Yeah, kids, it's not easy, but things are things kind of click when that hat on kind of, they do click and things have definitely kinda just been working out. When you do it God's way or think you've always been patient. So[inaudible] you've always been. Well, it's like a, whew. I was waiting for some kind of punch liners then what? I think that was it. Well thank you. Is that a compliment or that interrupt you where you can say, but no, there was no but in there. Oh, okay. Wow. I'm just going to take that and run with it. I can't take compliments either. Uh, but we've had good conversations like I said, and so it's been fun to kind of encourage people the best we can. It's also been fun to talk about a deeper almost, um, borderline inappropriate or taboo things they feel kind of weird to talk about with people. But being fully out there and open and transparent with what we've gone through in our lives, we can then talk to other people and we don't have to try and hide or lied where like John once one six walking in the light and not having a real relationship. We're having fellowship with each other and uh, and yeah, so we're going to have a few guests on in the future. Hmm. Well, I'd just be able to do that. I was gonna add on.
Speaker 4:I was going to say that's something that I really been enjoying about this podcast is having people over to our house and
Speaker 2:um,
Speaker 4:just having a reason to talk about their lives and stuff because I know that's something that I really enjoy is hearing about their story and getting to know them. So when I do see them, it's like I feel even more connected. Like, Hey Cassie, I know you just, yeah, just a little bit more than just the surface things. And I encourage people to do that as well, to, to have that relationship with other people. Cause then you just feel so much more connected and, and it's not even about like, oh I'm throwing all my trash on you or this burden because I know that I tend to feel that way. And when I talk to people just to on a one on one conversation like, well I don't want to tell them all my dirt, you know, or tell them how I'm really failing because what a burden, you know, I don't want to be the Debbie Downer, but when you do do that with another person, you then gives you that opportunity to create that relationship and to be closer with someone just as just another person too, to keep you accountable and, and to know you. Right.
Speaker 2:It's been nice too. Like you said, you have mentor Sharif and to have people that were open and honest with a, we can sit there and a tough time and man, I'm struggling. Temptation. I can, I can hit up Chris Berry and he can quote scripture to me or just encourage me like a normal person and yeah. Yeah. Have people, uh, from our group, our leaders reach out to us, hey, what are you doing? You guys are arguing or whatever. It's so different to be there or to just sit there with a normal family, like our own with a bunch of kids and sit there and joke about you know, our paths and Joe can call like this guy, funny names my grandpa. Like that's just what it is. Or um, or to have them know, just little intimate things about our arguments. Even like our friends June Lindo we sat there and told them, hey, you know, I, I told her, I'm like, man, I'm, I'm sitting here massaging her feet at night and I think I'm doing a good job. And then right afterwards she says that, hey, you know what? Dre tells me, you know what, next time don't even tease me. And I was like, what? I thought it was a good massage. And then she said, she said, I'm going to Fart in your mouth. I was like, what? How could you come up with something so ugly? I'm going to Fart in your mouth. But to be able to tell drew and Linda that, and then, you know, I think at the time a harder fought. Yeah. But to be able to go over their house and joke about things like that. Just kind of the ugly side of things even. And that's kind of a funny thing, but, but to have them buy you fart flavored jelly beans and then watch you eat it. Yeah. Which we'll have to put a clip up, but it's funny. Well, they're actually going to come on and what? I'm a couple and a couple of percents. So I mean as far as that kind of bleeds into future guests. So our lineup for people that are kind of curious who's coming on next? We have Alex Wilson and his wife. Gosh, Kalani, I think that's how you say it. Um, he's black, so, and he's got blonde here. Uh, so I'll be making some jokes about that. Not, not that he's black, but that he has blonde hair. And then we got, um, we have driven Linda and Linda, uh, Atkins who should be a very deep, good conversation. And then we have Mike Sears, Sony and Kristin C or Sony who, who have said that they're going to be on, yeah. Josh and Chris. Josh and Chris. Holly. Yes, they will be on. So a lot of people from community that I think will enrich our conversations. We'll have a lot of, I have a lot to talk about. A lot of it will be biblically rooted, but we'll be able to go deep. We're looking forward to those. Yeah, shout out to GRANDPA's popcorn and keep it just like that now. But they've been great. We've had a immense success with the uh, advertising world. So if you guys are looking to advertise on this podcast, man, we can actually make some good ads. There is a community out there that here's this, uh, regularly. So it's a good opportunity. And if you want to be heard, give us a shout out on our website. You can email andrea@distinctministries.org or nick, whichever you want. Just go check on our website. I hope y'all have a, an awesome week. Yeah. Thank you guys for listening. We really appreciate you guys taking the time to listen. Thank you everyone for the support. Yeah, we appreciate you guys liking our Facebook posts, sharing them, uh, donating. Oh my goodness. To US getting a nonprofit, which we're looking forward to. Once we do that, we'll be able to support a marriage is a need. We're going to be sending people on date night. We're going to be holding maybe a conference or two and there'll be food there, and then mainly we'll be able to market to a larger audience, national, national, or global audience. Until next[inaudible]
Speaker 6:time. Thank you wifey for not killing me on this podcast by the time it airs. Hopefully we have a fourth baby born, so no hurry up, mercy. All right, you guys have a good one.
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Speaker 2:I was like, what? I thought it was a good massage and then she said, she said, I'm gonna Fart in your mouth. I was like, what?