183: Can you write about polyamory if you aren’t actively polyamorous?

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183: Can you write about polyamory if you aren’t actively polyamorous?
May 06, 2025 Episode 184
Sagan Morrow

In this episode, we explore the difference between polyamorous IDENTITY vs the PRACTICE of that identity, and answer these questions: Can you write about polyamory if you aren’t ACTIVELY polyamorous? Do you ever think being polyamorous is a phase, and that you and your spouse might go back to being monogamous?

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