Get Ready: Before Life Happens Podcast

How to Navigate Divorce and Money With Confidence

• Tony Steuer

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On this episode of The Get Ready Money Podcast, I spoke with Taj Chiu, divorce coach, about navigating divorce as both a financial and emotional transition, and how clarity, communication, and planning can help people move forward with greater confidence.


Taj reframes divorce not as a failure, but as a forcing function that invites reflection, growth, and better alignment with what comes next. We explore why knowledge is one of the strongest antidotes to fear, how emotional and legal divorces differ, and why having a real plan for your money matters more than simply tracking balances.


Key Takeaways


🔹 Walking into the storm can help you move through divorce with more clarity and intention
 ðŸ”¹ Divorce is both a financial and emotional grief process, often with multiple stages
 ðŸ”¹ Knowledge and information are powerful tools for reducing fear
 ðŸ”¹ The emotional divorce can outlast the legal divorce, especially when there are kids. 
 ðŸ”¹ Clear communication helps both parties get on even ground and reduces unnecessary conflict
 ðŸ”¹ Differences are not weaknesses and deserve acknowledgment and respect
 ðŸ”¹ Financial literacy alone isn’t enough, experience and application matter

This episode is a reminder that readiness during divorce comes from understanding yourself, your money, and your next chapter, not from avoiding hard conversations.


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Resources mentioned:


  • Financial Date Discussion Cards Website (here
  • Check out my conversation with BatSheva Goldstein the creator of the Financial Date Discussion cards: The Power of Money Conversations: Emotions Over Dollars (here).


Bio: 


Taj Johnson Chiu is a Certified Divorce and Financial Coach. She works with parents who are trying to keep their footing during one of the hardest chapters of their lives. She helps people sort through the choices, the money questions, and the day to day realities of separating a family, especially when they want to stay out of court and keep things steady for their kids. A lot of her work is simply helping people feel less alone while they figure out what comes next.

Before she ever became a divorce coach, Taj spent more than twenty years in technical consulting and running a small business. That experience shaped the way she supports families today: practical, calm, and focused on what actually helps. She especially loves working with LGBTQ+ parents and neurodivergent families, and she cares deeply about helping people move through divorce without losing themselves or the relationships that matter most.


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