Imperfect Scenarios Podcast
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Imperfect Scenarios Podcast
From Conspiracy Theories to Rap Culture: A Candid Exploration of Modern Life's Complexities
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*LOST EPISODE season 1*
Could unwrapping a package from China really bring on a wave of anxiety? Join us as we swap laughs and conspiracy theories, pondering the origins of the coronavirus, and humorously contemplate apocalyptic scenarios. From biochemical warfare to the seriousness of COVID-19, our spirited conversation keeps you on your toes while we explore survival strategies for uncertain times. Don't worry, there's room for lighthearted banter, too, as we chuckle about escape routes and lottery fantasies.
On a more serious note, we dive into the murky waters of infrastructure neglect and the socio-economic woes it brings to communities like Newark. Through personal anecdotes, we navigate family dynamics and religious debates that offer a unique lens on societal challenges. Whether it's grappling with parenting dilemmas or the quirks of different neighborhoods, our reflections paint a vivid picture of modern life’s complexities, all while keeping things refreshingly candid.
As our discussions wind through the vibrant influence of rap culture and emerging music trends, we explore their impact on mental health and societal behaviors. From imagining financial freedom and unexpected windfalls to sharing skincare secrets and humorous anecdotes about local wildlife, this episode promises a rollercoaster of ideas and laughter. So tune in and let us entertain and enlighten with stories that resonate and insights that provoke thought long after the conversation ends.
Conspiracy Theories and Pandemic Preparations
Speaker 1Mm-hmm .
Speaker 2Okay , there we go . Hopefully it won't cut off after 10 minutes . Nah , it should be okay .
Speaker 3I don't know about that part .
Speaker 2Okay , we are back again in perfect scenarios .
Speaker 1What up ?
Speaker 2Got the whole crew with me . It's been a minute since we taped , but we here . It doesn't matter . How's everybody doing Love ?
Speaker 1the kid man Tired . I think we're tired . I took a nap , so I'm good , I got my second wind .
Speaker 2Wait , mac , what did you call it ? What did you call it ? Before the nap he was taking A nigga nap . A nigga nap . I don't know what is that .
Speaker 4That's some racist shit , ain't it Right , that shit is it's racist . I've been down all day Demetra got me down .
Speaker 1So you just decided to be racist too , because you guys are talking about the coronavirus , right .
Speaker 2So , Peaches , tell them what you said about the packages . I am not going to be labeled a racist .
Speaker 4What did you say about the packages from China ? Listen , listen . I was just being honest and I thought it was a safe space obviously not now I'm being judged not anymore , so I said that listen , if you know , if I get a package from china , I'm looking kind of sideways at it before I go to open it .
Speaker 2But that's not racist . I don't think that's racist me either . Chinese food going to open it that's not racist . I don't think that's racist Me either .
Speaker 4What about Chinese food ? I don't think I've eaten since the coronavirus .
Speaker 2I haven't , I'm still alive .
Speaker 4You know what , Honestly .
Speaker 2Chinese people are already here , the ones that's here , I don't think we have to worry about .
Speaker 4You sound like Donald Trump .
Speaker 2We don't actually know where they're ordering the food from that they're cooking us . That's true , and we don't know if it's exactly what they say it is either , and we still question if it's really chicken .
Speaker 4Right , did you see the meme with the cat walking around with a mask on ? Oh , yes .
Speaker 3You guys , yo Mac tell them what you said we got to stop , we got to stop .
Speaker 2This is get out of control .
Speaker 3Hey , abak , what you were saying about the coronavirus you feel that this is some kind of apocalypse yeah , I think I mean this is a lot more serious than some people are taking it just because , like they measure it by every 100 occurrences , how many people have died ?
Speaker 3and so far like it's been like two and a half to three deaths per 100 cases . That's a lot , that's unprecedented . So it's been contained in the Asian area province of Wuhan , but it's really starting to spread out . So there's cases now on almost every continent except Africa , which I don't think is everywhere .
Speaker 4Well , I did see an article about how they're predicting it's going to be spreading really quickly to Africa .
Speaker 2Why how Intentionally or ?
Speaker 4No , not like intentionally , but that's the next biggest place it's going to be .
Speaker 2But why ? I'm kind of curious why it's not there now . Maybe nobody wants to go there .
Speaker 4Maybe the Africans are like , yeah , we're not going anywhere .
Speaker 2Here we go , here we go .
Speaker 4This is a rabbit hole we're going down I'm just gonna sit in my corner , jesus christ so .
Speaker 2So , mac , you were talking about the apocalypse , so you think it's going to cause some kind of well , I mean , I don't go that far , but I do , I do .
Speaker 3I believe that there will be an apocalypse and I think we need to be prepared . And I always say the first thing you need is you need water , plenty of it and you need food and shelter . With those three things you can ride out practically anything .
Speaker 2But didn't SARS come from Asia also ?
Speaker 3SARS and MERS .
Speaker 2But they kind of contain that right . So you think this will be bigger ?
Speaker 3Yeah , but it's a lot bigger than both of those already . So SARS and MERS , both were smaller in population , count et cetera than this .
Speaker 4They call it COVID . Covid-19 is the official name of it Wasn't it in a different fashion too , like SARS ?
Speaker 3Yeah , I mean they all sort of flu related , but this has a . This strain , they're saying , is like the most challenging of all the strains they've had so far that's just freaking crazy to think about how they say it's coming from bats I think it's coming honestly .
Speaker 1I know that there's a there's an island off the coast of rhode island that the us government tests like infectious diseases on animals and insects , andi believe that they plant these like biochemical insects that are affected wherever they want them to be but why , though ?
Speaker 4but why ? Who are you and why are you saying conspiracy ?
Speaker 1theories . Why ? Well , I think that the United States has been known for its history to , you know , do population control experiments ? Um , I think that they , you know , experiment on populations on , just like medications and different things , like there's no coronavirus vaccine , supposedly . Well , who , who would we test it on ? Who would we try to , you know , infect ? Um ? To try to , to try to cure this , to try to promote a vaccine , to try to get more medication out there well , you know what ?
Speaker 3let me clear one thing up , because coronavirus is not new , because both ours and mirrors were coronavirus right but what we've been saying is that this strain is unseen before .
Speaker 1Right . So where would a mutated strain come from , but a laboratory ?
Speaker 2And I firmly believe like cancer Cancer changes after a while . It just changes . It adapts to the situation and it just changes . So it's possible that SARS , or one of them , just changed . It just mutated . It's something different .
Speaker 1It is also possible . It could be genetically mutated in a lab . There are a variety of possibilities , but I do . I mean I know that the United States piloted birth control in Puerto Rico never before given to women , and piloted it in Puerto Rico where women were known for having 15 to 20 children at a time . It was population control and that's why they did that .
Speaker 2Did you fact check this ?
Speaker 1I know this .
Speaker 4I don't think that it worked in Puerto Rico then . Well , it did .
Speaker 1They promoted . I mean , I look at .
Speaker 2That's not racist .
Speaker 4That was racist I always did that because I knew what you guys were saying . It's just , that's racist .
Speaker 2I'm shocked that J Boog didn't even say that . I was like , wait , she didn't catch that . I just stopped Like , all right , whatever , that's your people . You're not even going to take up for your people .
Speaker 1I was about to hit her with the history lesson .
Speaker 3But you know , she said let it go . No , but they did do , they did do syphilis and tuskegee , right , right , that's true , that so you're . I mean , you're not far off .
Speaker 2I just I don't know how to connect those two gaps . You know what it is . I'm just thinking like all that stuff was done back in the day . I'm not saying the government is still not capable of doing things like that , but I just think they're smart enough to let it get out . You know what I'm saying . I don't know they may be testing stuff , but let it get out like that and did not contain it well , that's the whole point they put .
Speaker 1They put it out specifically in a certain area so yeah it was a certain area , though , in china , in asia , like they put it specifically like it's very simple to take , like something and you know make sure that it's contained and travel , make sure you travel it somewhere and then like let it go or inject it into something that you know injected into a bats , if you know they eat bats in a particular area like it's very so I'm watching a show on netflix called containment and this pretty much I like that if you haven't seen it no , yeah , no
Speaker 1what is it ? What is it ?
Speaker 2about . Well , it's pretty much what we're talking about it is it's . It's the outbreak in atlanta and wait wait .
Speaker 3Why is it at ?
Speaker 5Well it's pretty much what we're talking about . It is . It's the outbreak in Atlanta . Wait , wait , why is ?
Speaker 2it .
Speaker 4Atlanta ? I don't know . That's racist . That is racist . They want to kill all the blacks . Why is it Atlanta ? Someone came from Syria .
Speaker 2Some kid was a stowaway on a plane , kind of . Thing . He ran from his country and he was sick and then , out of nowhere , everyone started , one started getting sick .
Speaker 3So it's he was a stowaway from where syria , in atlanta , in atlanta . That don't even make sense , that's fictional .
Speaker 4It's a good show , though , so I recommend you watch it . It's really , but how did he infect the people ?
Speaker 2I'm curious I'm still watching it , but they think they're speculating . It might have been chemical oh , right , right okay warfare . Somehow I might watch that .
Speaker 1Not by him purposely , but you know he was a carrier I truly believe that our government has a history of doing some foul things .
Speaker 3Oh , they do look don't forget ebola right , I mean ebola was a big deal . That's when he really went to the motherland right and I'm saying they went to the motherland because no one really knows the root or origin of Ebola . But there's so many theories out there and nobody knows the truth .
Speaker 1Like it's sad when you just can't ever get to the root of the truth , of what's really happening . Or , honestly , if you look at the AIDS epidemic in certain areas of Africa and you have the AIDS , I mean it's , it's , we still have it here in the United States , but it's much less , you know , and you have the medication you have . We , we still have it here in the United States , but it's much less . You know , and you have the medication .
Speaker 1We have access to those things there . So you put it in an area where there are no access to medications or doctors or quality health care , and it is complete hysteria out there in certain areas .
Speaker 2Yeah , I just don't think they will let it go in Atlanta . I just don't think they will let it go in Atlanta .
Speaker 1I just don't think they'll let it go in Atlanta that's the only unbelievable part .
Speaker 4A Syrian refugee in Atlanta . What was he doing in Atlanta ? No , I'm talking about the Netflix . He went to go see his family .
Speaker 2He ain't got no family in Atlanta didn't we just have a phone conversation ? Excuse you , don't be so racist . There's no family in Atlanta . Excuse you , don't be so racist . There's other cultures in Atlanta , other than black people where OP street , what street , what street ? I don't know it could be the government . It's one of those things you can't control . You really can't control it . I don't know . I mean it could be the government . It could be . I mean it's one of those things you can't control .
Speaker 3No , you really can't control it and you'll stress yourself out really trying to really figure this out . Some people just they just go crazy with these conspiracy theories and it may be true , but in the meantime , you're just debilitating your life trying to figure out what's next and who's doing what , and who's responsible for what . We'll never know Ultimately , we really won't .
Speaker 2I don't know . I believe the government do do things . Sometimes there's a lot of conspiracies going around . They can't have their hand in everything .
Speaker 3It's just you know .
Speaker 2Some things are just freakish . We live on a planet where it got all kinds of things that we haven't discovered yet , and it could be one of the things that was under a rock that has never been discovered .
Speaker 4Yeah , but you can't put it past them , I agree .
Speaker 2It's a possibility .
Speaker 4It's a possibility , but I just don't Just like for the flood , what is like the hurricanes , how they opened up those .
Speaker 3You know what I mean and basically drowned them Like you would never think that , but is that the government or was that a local ?
Speaker 4It's the government . I think that's more like a state thing , but it's like one of those things where it's like how everyone from the outside thought it was like a natural disaster , like it could have been prevented , you know ?
Speaker 2I don't think they . I think they . It's not intentional like I'm gonna let it go killer , but I think they was . Don't give a shit . I just think they open it .
Speaker 3They just didn't give a shit . If it , who ?
Speaker 2hurt . I don't think it was one of the things . Like we got to kill the population . They just like don't give a
Survival Planning and Religious Debates
Speaker 2shit . Like you see how they do with the water . You got the water and , um , what's the ? Where is that at ?
Speaker 3um , you got the .
Speaker 2Flint , now Newark , is out of control of the water . So it's one of those things where you got a certain class of people that's expendable and you want to put your money somewhere else . You just don't care .
Speaker 4That issue is still going on in Newark . Yes , wait . So is it like ? What kind of water ? Is it Like you can't brush your teeth .
Speaker 2I don't know . I don't know if it's like polar spring , I don't know . Do ?
Speaker 4you like , use your thing . Do you brush your teeth Like fine ?
Speaker 2It's okay . It's like older buildings that have the old pipes . That's what it was . It's not the water itself .
Speaker 4It's the pipes . You live in a newer place , right .
Speaker 2I live in a new building , but I thought it was all the pipes in . Newark . No , it's pretty much all the existing pipes in most of the old houses and old buildings and stuff like that . The newer buildings , all the stuff is upgraded already and then they already started going to people's houses and putting new lines in from the street to the people's houses and stuff like that .
Speaker 4But you know it's not exclusive to just Newark , because I remember it was less than two years ago .
Speaker 2No , there's other towns in Jersey .
Speaker 4Right , just newark , because I remember like it was like less than two years ago um , there's other towns in jersey , right , no , but like even um , with where I live at like the water company , they just switched over because of the contamination in the water , because they and they indicted two of the officials in the company because they were like not like ignoring certain practices to not allow the water to be contaminated , and and it was , it was like East Orange Water Commission or something like that and basically . So it was like they're the main things , but it was a surrounding town , so it was like Livingston , south Orange like all those places .
Speaker 4So they sent out something like don't drink the water , you would turn it on . See , it was like brown .
Speaker 2You know what I mean ? It was real crazy . So it just doesn't affect certain . It goes out yeah , yeah .
Speaker 1Well , that's , I mean , I don't know I got well water , so I don't know we don't belong to those . Yeah , I got my own water , so if it's contaminated .
Speaker 4My , my people's did it , my own people's did it , so my dog can't be all rich like you and have our own well it's just just where I live at .
Speaker 2They just dig well water .
Speaker 3So you better than us , right ? I mean in so many words , I was saying Screw y'all .
Speaker 4He's like with your fucking old pipes , People with your lead pipes .
Speaker 1That's where we all going during the apocalypse . You'll be right at the door . I'll bring you some rubber gloves . You'll certainly have enough water , you better hope the ring doorbells not work .
Speaker 2I'm going to look at it like , oh don't open that door the zombies are here .
Speaker 4We roll up in the Uber . Thank you .
Speaker 2Do . Back in the day , with Jehovah Witnesses coming out lay down on the ground , we got to open the door .
Speaker 1It's chill , wait , is that racist too ?
Speaker 4No , it was ignorant , really , was it was ?
Speaker 2it . You do y'all , do know y'all , so y'all didn't do that when it drove and when this came by , I just don't answer the door it's the same thing , it's the same name .
Speaker 1You don't answer the door , my dad and my dad yells at them because my dad tells them he believes in et . He don't like when people talk god to him , so really , I pray , I pray to et .
Speaker 3Do they just like ? This man is crazy . They get offended , yeah , of course they get offended , yeah , he tells people .
Speaker 1So , because my mom I told you guys , my mom is super religious and my dad is um , my dad is brilliant . He's read the quran , the torah , the bible , and he's come to the conclusion that I don't do religion , it's just not a thing . So what ?
Speaker 2is this ? What is his main point ?
Speaker 1he . His main point is that there is , there is an , a supreme being . You choose to call him god . He chooses to think that it's aliens okay , wait how do you start on ?
Speaker 2my father's brilliant .
Speaker 1My father's brilliant he's brilliant , he , he can talk to you about any subject . He's my . My dad is brilliant and he can . He researches things and he reads , and he's he that has always been like instilled in us Read everything Um but he has to have a reason why he just don't . Cause he's an asshole .
Speaker 1And it doesn't make sense because , because my , but my mom is seven day adventist , and so they're , they're , you know , part of their mission is to like , witness you and to bring you into their you know . So they will come and talk to you about all of their stuff , all of their beliefs , and he just got tired of hearing it . He was just . I believe in et , that's who I pray to , so how are the ?
Speaker 2how is it arguments and , I guess , the discussions in the house , if he , if listen big time issues about religion in my house when I was growing up arguments yes big time issues like , how did like give me an example ? I'm just curious because he , if he's like atheist I'm assuming he's an atheist he's he's atheist .
Speaker 1He considers himself atheist or agnostic . Is it agnostic where you believe you just don't do religion , but you believe that there's like a supreme being so you know he's agnostic . And um , my dad will argue points of the bible because he's read every book and he's read all of it .
Speaker 1He would argue points of things that occurrences in the bible like stories that my mom knows , like you know . No , this is what happened . And she'll cite you her scripture and she'll tell you her verses and he'll laugh and he'll be like that's a joke , because in this book that I read , this is what it says about this . And yeah , it would . Yeah .
Speaker 2We should have your father on the show one day .
Speaker 1You guys would love my father . We should have your father on the show . He's out of control .
Speaker 5I would love to pick his brain , so are we talking about Apocalypse ?
Speaker 2Are we talking about all this stuff ?
Speaker 1He'll talk to you about that too . Really , oh Jesus .
Speaker 3We got to talk to him . I'm just curious , Sure oh you were really debating with him oh my God , you guys would I , oh my God .
Speaker 1You guys would , I'm telling you guys would love him .
Speaker 3He's a piece of work . I would love that .
Speaker 2So he doesn't believe in none of that stuff . He just that's kind of weird .
Speaker 1Oh no , he's all about like a zombie apocalypse . He's all about like he's okay . Yeah , he's all about that . Yeah , I just can't . I don't believe in the zombie apocalypse or whatever , but you , because you're racist believe it or not you ever seen , you ever been downtown ? Norco in the crackheads and walking around and I think for survival people will do whatever they need to do .
Speaker 4You see them in the street like I had never seen a crackhead fall no , they don't , they don't fall so can you imagine ?
Speaker 3no , but the first thing you gotta do is you gotta get you a good group of people . Is you got ? To get you a good group of people that you can trust . And it may not be family , because if you watch some of these shows , the family don't make it , the family do not make it , the family don't make it .
Speaker 2So let's pretend like this just happened . No , let's pretend like you know , this is going to happen in a week , tell me , your plans , what is ? Your plans ? Are you working on a team ? What are you working on a team ?
Speaker 3what are you doing ? Yep , the first thing is establishing where I'm going to be . It's got to be a place that's secure , like a prison . Hmm , there you go . That's what you . Oh , my god , that's terrible . No , I'm dead serious .
Speaker 4No you ever seen Walking Dead ?
Speaker 3no , if you ever seen Walking Dead , that was one of the safest safest place until they can't get in , can't until wind .
Speaker 4No well , because they had , they had traders amongst them .
Speaker 2So it kind of messed everything up . But yeah , go ahead .
Speaker 3I'm sorry so so you start with a good fortress , whatever that is right . Then you got to go for the water . Like I say , you got to find a place where you know where you can get a consistent supply of water . So it may mean having a good crew . So you got to get , you know , women and women and men right , because you can't have all men , you can't have all women .
Speaker 2We definitely don't want all men , so you got to mix it up real nice .
Speaker 3You got to get you know stronger guys .
Speaker 4I'm good for nothing . I'm going to tell you that Do not call me yeah , you won't . You won't be in my crew .
Speaker 3You will . You would not be on my team . I'd be like , here we go , Hootie-hoo . You would not be on my team . He's supposed to be our lookout right .
Speaker 4He's the corner boy . I'm Hootie-hoo all day .
Speaker 1Hootie-hoo .
Speaker 2So , as that is , you get your team , you have your shelter , water supply .
Speaker 3Water supply . And you got to be close to places where you can raid like a mall . Think about it Right , get close to a mall . You do your midnight run with your crew . And you got to get a good vehicle , too . Right , you got to have transportation . Like an armed car , like an armored car Right when the dead can't get in , and all that kind of stuff , you know .
Speaker 4Jesus the dead .
Speaker 5The dead can't get in you can survive Right .
Speaker 2I think the first thing . I knew what was going to happen . I'm going , like you said , I'm going to the grocery store , I'm just taking everything , because you can't come , you ain't going to be able to come back , because once everybody starts seeing things , the first thing- everybody's going to go to the store . Right . So when a bomb or whatever ends the world come , because everybody's going to be trying to get there . You're right about the jail . I was thinking more of a I would go to a school .
Speaker 3I would go to a school .
Speaker 2A school is a little bit more to me . It would be more practical . I would board up all the doors , barricade all the doors nobody else getting in . Like you said , I have men , women , children . I want to make sure I would probably locate a doctor .
Speaker 3Listen , I got this plan you need to come with me , I would get a doctor . Definitely a doctor does um , in case something happened yeah , I might just get a couple doctors , I might have to throw out some family for some doctors . So he's in .
Speaker 2Yeah , you gotta go , you got to go I would probably I would get someone like an engineer , um , maybe an engineer , because you I want somebody that could be able electrical engineer , somebody that could maybe produce some kind of electricity or something to keep things going . So I would be thinking of stuff like that to get people and to make sure we could kind of live comfortable and when we're trying to figure out things hopefully I could get somebody that knows how to farm a little bit , how to do crops .
Speaker 2I'm going to get people , that's going to be able to help us . That could be able to teach generations so we could survive .
Speaker 3Yeah , you're thinking about procreating , restarting . Think about if you had to restart society , what would you do ?
Speaker 1Y'all have really thought about this . I'm going to one of y'all compounds , yeah , you're welcome . You know what's so funny ? I'll make you a pot of rice .
Speaker 4My husband's always like he's , like you would not survive in an apocalypse . He tells me that on a weekly basis , because you're racist . He was like what would you do ?
Speaker 2I'm like I would look for you , but I would leave this area , I would leave Jersey , I would leave any city type place because it's going to be chaos . I would go right back into Pennsylvania and the woods and farmland is all . I would be out there minding my damn business , because everybody , everybody gonna be in the cities just running amok yeah , going crazy , probably got gangs gonna be starting people , gonna be robbing people yeah and I'll be go out in the middle of nowhere , like where I'm at right now , and just stay there with your
Speaker 3well water with my well water yup you know that that never goes dry .
Speaker 4You know that that's true , my well will never go dry . Are you saying we can come to your house ? No , that's not what I'm saying . You don't have a choice .
Speaker 2I'm letting you know where you can visit me .
Speaker 4When the apocalypse comes right , no , when it's over . You wouldn't let us all live there oh no Come on .
Speaker 3Yeah , you can come up there . Okay , well , we got to do our podcast .
Speaker 4Right .
Speaker 3He's like you can come up there , the survivors , because you know those zombie movies , always have that radio station that's always playing .
Speaker 5Anyone out there , anybody out there . It's a perfect scenario , right we ?
Speaker 2still here . Keep hope alive , if you need safety and shelter come to Pennsylvania .
Speaker 1No , don't do it . I ain't gonna give my address .
Speaker 4I'm like I'm broadcasting from Kentucky no , but these guys I'm broadcasting from Newark , new Jersey .
Speaker 3These guys are really doing that to attract females to come , and then they would take them there , and then they would do whatever they wanted .
Speaker 2Well , listen , you can come . Oh , we back on . There we go .
Speaker 3Yay , let's do this , so we back .
Speaker 2We got to introduce , we got to have a guest . You want to introduce yourself . Oh , dima Lom , a guest , you want to introduce yourself .
Speaker 5Oh , dime lo mi gente , it's your girl , la Loca , que lo que .
Speaker 2She was telling us about her bang , her bang for the
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Speaker 290s . Explain to everybody how your bang went .
Speaker 5Oh well , you take your bangs , but you made sure you took your like the rat tooth comb . You put the hairspray on the comb and you put the hairspray on the hair and you pull it up and you just wave it off and then the rest . You would have to try to get it like a little waterfall on the side and in the back . You look bald because your hair is super tight .
Speaker 2Gave you the only facelift . Wait , did you ? Did you try to put the bingo with your left eye ? Yeah well , fuck it when it became popular Not before .
Speaker 5It was a little bit beforehand .
Speaker 3It was like all forehead I was looking like Tyra Banks' forehead .
Speaker 5And then the back ponytail was flipped .
Speaker 1Yeah , it's funny , I was looking cute , I mean nothing .
Speaker 2So did you grow up in ?
Speaker 5Perth Amboy . Yeah , I grew up in Perth Amboy . I left when I was 25 .
Speaker 2Really yeah , yeah , I love Perth .
Speaker 4Amboy . There's not much I know about Perth Amboy . I know a lot of people that live in Perth Amboy , really it used to be Dominican Republic Mexico .
Speaker 5It's Mexico Really . Yes , yes , yes . And before it was like back in the day , everything was Dominican Republic . Puerto Rico had Hall Street , which is one street .
Speaker 2Wait , y'all got streets . Okay , break it down .
Speaker 5Hall Live was all Puerto Rico . That's like straight . The Puerto Rican parade was there , dominicans were in the waterfront , state Street projects everywhere . And then Mexico had State Street as well . Well , but they only had like not even a full block , but it was all run by mexico now they're everywhere
Speaker 1what's the white people at ?
Speaker 5uh , they're sprinkled everywhere south amboy .
Speaker 2Yeah , they did move to south , amboy .
Speaker 5We had a couple we had a we had like they , they would be in the waterfront as well but , they were like more by the armory , because they're the ones that could afford it all the dominicans were like more by the armory , because they're the ones that could afford it . All the Dominicans were like the other side of the armory . Sorry , I was messing this stuff up On the other side of the armory , so you would have all the Dominicans and that's where they had the Dominican parade , the festivals .
Speaker 2Oh , it was a real parade , oh yeah . Oh , I thought you was being sarcastic . What I didn't know ? We had our own little thing going .
Speaker 5Yes , okay , holy shit yeah but now they have it all under the bridge . So it's Mad Dominicans Under the Bridge , and that's where you got La Mega comes through and they do their parties .
Speaker 2Really Okay , I miss it .
Speaker 5I haven't been back since . Once I left , I said bye .
Speaker 2Where you at now Jersey City .
Speaker 5Jersey City in the Heights .
Speaker 2Really , I did 10 years , 10 years . People from Florida are crazy , though right .
Speaker 5They are , but let me tell you , it's all New Yorkers , though .
Speaker 2That explains it .
Speaker 5Tampa , Orlando . Miami of course has everybody . But I'm not a fan of Miami . No disrespect to anybody from Miami , I just don't rock with y'all . But Tampa and Orlando , it's like I would go to Orlando and see everybody from Perth Amboy , they're there . And then Tampa is like you want to get away from New York , New Jersey , you only want to sprinkle . You go to Tampa . Really Tampa's fun . Oh , I love Tampa .
Speaker 2Really , I was looking at condos there In Tampa .
Speaker 5Yeah , I want to go there , tampa's oh my God , so much fun . You got the good water beach beach , because in orlando the water is dark , disgusting and then but , it's like going to jersey be sure oh , but in tampa . You feel like you're going to like bahamas . The water is clear . You got clear water . Yes , yes , the keys , oh my god , I love tampa really okay .
Speaker 4I'm like mental note , like let's go to tampa . Yeah , you want to go tampa and you're close to like .
Speaker 5You got baseball . If you like a baseball , you got football and you got bush gardens . You got football and you got Busch Gardens . You got the zoos , if you want to go to .
Speaker 2Universal . You go there , you trying to sell us .
Speaker 5Oh , I start to sell everybody on Tampa .
Speaker 2Are you going ?
Speaker 5back . If a job opens up , hell yeah .
Speaker 2But it has to be a good job . I know some people that moved down there and I just heard a lot of nice stuff and I was like , okay , well , let me check out what the housing looks like and the condos are pretty nice and pretty cheap .
Speaker 4Are they better than the Jersey prices ?
Speaker 2Oh , hell yeah , oh yeah , of course .
Speaker 5Yo , I had a two-bedroom , two-bathroom for $777 .
Speaker 1Whoa really $777 with a pool a community pool , but you don't have a community pool .
Speaker 5I had dishwasher , I had washer and dryer and my own little parking spot . That's awesome Right next to the water , I would walk out to my little deck that was like behind my building , but why did you come back ?
Speaker 2though I'm trying not to convince , okay , just work , I'm not something .
Speaker 5You ain't convincing me though , About this paper , yes , Okay , so basically you go down there you have a good life but you don't make no money , no centers . You got a job all day , but mine's is radio , and so you know you want to advance . It's like I wanted to come to the major leagues and new york is the major leagues new york .
Speaker 2What about philly ?
Speaker 5uh , philly . Yeah , it's not the major leagues , but philly is , yeah , you know anything outside of new york and la is is minors you know , what I'm saying like it's .
Speaker 5it's no disrespect , it's just like it's true . One and two is the market , and New York and LA is it and then ? But now radio and podcasts . You don't need to really be anywhere . I could be in Tampa Like if . I could get a job right now , like what I'm , my main goal is to be able to do all my shows from my house Wow really that's it , and people do that .
Speaker 5now they do . Do I like sensation , does it from his house , elvis durant , everybody , if you got the money and the companies believe in you and they love you , they'll put the studio in your house yeah , really they want they'll put one of these or um , sometimes it's a little bit more intense they put that in your house , million dollar software in there for you really and that's what I want , boy .
Speaker 2I can't wait , you gotta invite us over when you do it , oh man , especially if it's in Tampa . Right , be like . I have to go somewhere knocking on the door like hey we're gonna record from the beach today yeah she be like you guys look familiar , but I'm not gonna let you in .
Speaker 5Oh and for anybody wondering why we're talking radio . I do radio for 17 years . Oh , wow what happened it just they sold my station .
Speaker 2Sold it .
Speaker 5Yeah , they sold my station , so they let everybody go .
Speaker 2So how do you sell a station Easy ?
Speaker 4Somebody can buy it . It's always for sale . Why yeah ?
Speaker 5Every radio station's up for sale . Really , there's never a chance that they're not .
Speaker 3They're you could buy it ?
Speaker 5You could buy it , but my company , Cumulus , doesn't want to be in New York anymore Because radio there's not much money in radio as there used to be . So that's why , if you hear every radio station , they're talking about podcasts . Right , we got the number one podcast , iheart .
Speaker 3We got the number one podcast .
Speaker 5Yeah , yeah , yeah , so that's where they're pushing everybody to , because everybody's listening to podcasts .
Speaker 3Right .
Speaker 5So listening to podcasts , so congratulations on having a good podcast . Thank you , but everybody , it's all about podcasts , so they don't want to be in New York . They're paying rent because we were right above Madison Square Garden and in New York it's union . So you're paying almost all your jocks six figures and above . You had a couple million dollar contracts , so they were just like you know what ? We're not making any money . People aren't buying from us , so they decided to sell because you also .
Speaker 2You got iheart , which is a great company . I love them . I got them tatted on my arm . Yes , we on iheart . Yeah , everybody's on iheart they're like apple you want to be on the on and I would never shade .
Speaker 5Like I said , I got them tatted on this shoulder . Iheart's logo really yeah , that was from before they went from Clear Channel to iHeart so . I love iHeart like if you want to get a job in radio , go through them . That's what you forget everybody else and I mind you , I will take a job with any company but but if you are loved by iHeart , you will make money really make money .
Speaker 5And then on top of that , it's just that they , if you are another radio station I'm iHeart or you're ms , you're la mega , you're um fresh iHeart will do this . They'll come to a client . They'll be like all right , we'll give you all this , but you can't sell to none of them , you can't buy from none of them . I mean Really , they'll lock the market down . They'll sell it for so cheap that you're going to be like all right , whatever , I don't need them .
Speaker 2So when you say sell , you're talking about radio space , commercials , commercials , right shows aren't really up for sale .
Speaker 5If they are , it's on like a station , like what mine was , or or like real late they'll sell um overnights . One hour slots , that like . It's probably like three thousand dollars an hour , what ? Three to four thousand ? And that's every week . Three thousand dollars every week to do a show on the radio .
Speaker 2I I'm looking in the wrong field right .
Speaker 5Sales people who make the most money in radio are the sales reps . Wow , the jocks don't even I mean . They make money , but the sales reps may handle a fist when it comes to these sales .
Speaker 2We should have did something different . I done got this social work I'm doing . I'm listening to people's lives .
Speaker 5You can do your own sales when it comes to your podcast . Oh , yeah , yeah , I would try that .
Speaker 2I'm going to try that . I'm talking about my career job . I'm a social worker by day .
Speaker 5But you could make this your sales job Instead of doing radio . You could do both at the same time . They'd be both your careers , because you guys can make money with this by just selling little spots . Cut me , you know , cut my conversation off . And this is brought to you by oh yeah and last week we did this , you know like . So you guys , money could be made now with podcasts , lots of money .
Speaker 5You're not , you're not gonna make it from where you're hosting , from like on the iheart or the apple right right they don't really , unless you're like the breakfast club right you know like and I only mentioned them because that's people in my field or like the Joe Rogans my boyfriend loves listening to Joe Rogan .
Speaker 2Okay .
Speaker 5That money just pours down on them . But everybody else , you got to go get it and you can make bread . That's what we try to do .
Speaker 2You can make bread .
Speaker 5That's what we try to do eventually and you got to tell them how many people are listening time spent listening comments likes .
Speaker 1just give them the algorithm and you're good , wow , we need people to start leaving reviews . Listen and start leaving reviews .
Speaker 2Please and thank you .
Speaker 5Hey , I love you . You're still listening bitch Say something .
Speaker 1Leave it , say something ,
Parental Responsibilities and Decision Making
Speaker 1hey . So Peaches , give us that topic .
Speaker 2We got a topic for you . Let's see what you got .
Speaker 4So we're thinking of a good topic , right . Okay , so we came up with if you are a woman dating a man , right , you're having casual sex or one night stand , whatever if you happen to get pregnant , should the man have a say in what happens with the baby ? And to go a step further if she actually chooses to ? Continue with the pregnancy ? Should the man be responsible for anything after the fact if he stated that he was not in agreeance of the pregnancy ?
Speaker 5I mean that's a loaded one , because she doesn't have to tell him period , because it's her body and he won't know if she handles her business quietly , right . You know , women are the best kept . We can hold a secret .
Speaker 4Y'all never know , yeah , but assume that she's with the guy , but wait , wait . So say like she keeps a secret . But then she has it and she's like oh , I want this nigga to pay child support I mean you went wrong .
Speaker 5She's like I mean both people are have to take care of it because there's not one person right , even if he says he didn't want to . Well , puppy , you should have wore condom or you should have pulled out .
Speaker 1You should have been the pullout king right and that's what we were talking about earlier like if you know , as a man , you don't want a child , you don't you need to take responsibility as well . Why do we , as women , have to be responsible for birth control and everything else ?
Speaker 5and now they have the men birth control right you know what ?
Speaker 2start from now ? I'm just start . For now I'm just playing devil's advocate , so don't , don't get on me you know I'm gonna get on you let's say okay , I strap up , I strap up , I strap up , it pop whatever . You get pregnant . Now you want to keep the baby and I don't . What then ?
Speaker 5Well , the thing is , you know when it breaks , so you should be like all right , take the morning after pill right afterwards . You have to give us an option Now if you ain't saying nothing afterwards . But if she's like no , I'm not doing that I want the baby that was a conversation you should have had ahead of time , before your high sex . Like , listen , if this breaks or I get you pregnant , what's the verdict ?
Speaker 4okay . So wait , what if he did say that right , because you know , if we actually had men that were honest about what they wanted out of a relationship , in what world ? Was this and that did happen , say . He was straight up . It was like listen , I'm just here for fun , right ? I don't want to have a kid , I don't want to be in a relationship with you , blah , blah , and that all that happens well , I mean , he should take every precaution prior to having sex with this person , because a lot of times I'm not even going to blame the guys .
Speaker 5Sometimes there's women that just want to have a baby right and will do anything , lie to you , poke it or whatever . You need to do everything you possibly can to protect yourself if you don't want a child . That's for both sides , because there's guys that will be like I'm shooting up this club , honey .
Speaker 3You don't have this baby . But I feel like the line is drawn If the woman misleads the man in any way , that's where the line draws for me .
Speaker 4But will he still be responsible ? Unfortunately , yes me , yeah , but will he still be ?
Speaker 3responsible . So , unfortunately , yes , I mean he's legally , he is legally . But I mean I think the line is drawn . I think she crossed the line by being , by misrepresenting , in whatever way that's .
Speaker 1But now , now what I do have to say is and this is like the other side , this is why I'm so broken on this , on this conversation is that , while I do feel that women should not be held responsible if this conversation occurred and if this man tells you I don't want a child , I don't want anything to do with this , then you woman are consciously making a decision to know , like that this man is telling you he's not going to be involved , and so you're .
Speaker 1you're making that decision for yourself . Now , if you choose to keep this child while he may legally be responsible financially and you know she can go to court and request child support . You can't be like come pick your kids up .
Speaker 5You don't ever come see your kids , because he told you he didn't want to Right . But she probably thought , oh , he's going to change his mind once the baby comes . Exactly . That's the story we've always heard he's going to change his mind once he sees my baby . My baby's different from all the other babies .
Speaker 4All his other 10 babies . They're so different . Mine is different .
Speaker 5Sounded like a future baby mama , right , okay , so let's go take it a little further now .
Speaker 2So you had the baby , you said , okay , you know , damn it , fuck it . I got the baby . Do you feel that a guy should have equal say in the decision making with the baby ? Because you know , once that baby come and everybody agreed and he's like I'm going to help support you , we're not together .
Speaker 5Now the woman starts like , well , you can't tell me what to do with my baby If he came through and is being a father , then yes , he has every right to tell me we both have to sit down as adults and have a conversation . Ok , I want my child to get his ears pierced . No , I don't want my child to get his ears pierced . So that's something where somebody got to compromise .
Speaker 2That doesn't happen .
Speaker 5It doesn't happen like that , but as adults it should , it should no-transcript with that .
Speaker 2I definitely agree that when , when a household , when you have I guess what parents are together , they got the mother , the father . I feel like when it comes to the girls , the mother should probably have a little bit more conversation . Right , we had this right so have a little bit more say in how everything is handled .
Speaker 5And then , when it comes to the , you know the men , that the father should say a little bit more , because yes and no I feel , I feel , because sometimes there's women that are just harder than the guys you know , like the husband , you know because she grew up with nothing but boys . So she knows , knows , like . Maybe she might not know the pain of getting circumcised or something like that , but you know like .
Speaker 2I don't want to know that . I don't know that pain either . There's some guys that wait , I don't remember .
Speaker 5There's some men that wait until they're damn near 40 .
Speaker 2Oh no , it's that time to take the turtleneck off . I couldn't do it .
Speaker 4I had to walk with the turtleneck . Absolutely not . How'd you make it this far in life , boo ? Absolutely
Parenting Challenges and Discipline Methods
Speaker 4not .
Speaker 5Some things happen , but there's some women that I think are more will raise their son tougher than the father would .
Speaker 2This is true .
Speaker 5You know like . So it's like everybody could have their position because the father could tell their daughter how to be raised and telling them to play his way . And like the mom . The mom would be like I'm playing , I'm going to teach you the sucker way you know . So it's both parents . I think that's why I say both parents should have the rights to say what's going on with their kid .
Speaker 2I just wish it was like that though .
Speaker 5It's not like that . Even when they together still no parent could like . Yeah , they have the hardest time raising kids it's hard , especially especially girls .
Speaker 3Girls are so hard to raise .
Speaker 2Anybody got girls .
Speaker 3I'm not well , you got one girl .
Speaker 2Oh , girls are so hard to raise , they are so fresh . Girls are fresh . Yeah , my daughters , they are .
Speaker 3They are bad , they are like I had to say when I say bad .
Speaker 2I don't mean bad like they , like the behavior I'm just talking about . It's just so hard .
Speaker 4Because they got the slick mouth that you got , but in a girl form . Yeah , they do got the slick mouth , but you don't check them .
Speaker 2I do check them , but it's like how do you check them ?
Speaker 1He can't say it on the microphone . I check them you don't know . Let me tell you how this time I went . I need an example .
Speaker 2They went on the anniversary trip and I was watching the kids . Oh , here we go , so I'm cleaning .
Speaker 4You know I'm cooking and stuff like that You're cleaning up at the crib .
Speaker 2Well , you know I'm cooking dinner for the kids and you know his youngest daughter love her . I love them both .
Speaker 5You love them both . Make it clear I love them both . She is cute .
Speaker 2She's so adorable . Came in the kitchen helped me started sweeping . I didn't ask her . That's how she is , though I said that's so cute , Tell your sister to come in here and clean off the table , Comes stomping in the kitchen . Looks at me . What did I do ? This is not punishment . I'm cooking dinner .
Speaker 4I'm mad .
Speaker 2I want to strangle her . I call him . He laughs him and his wife laughing .
Speaker 5Oh yeah , she's like that that's one thing I hate when , sorry , my parents are like oh , they're like that , she's like that , but I know she's like that to me .
Speaker 2But I just know I I know I'm not gonna be able to do nothing till I get home . So she's not trusting she don't . They don't play with like they have they . They know my . I don't play they , just my daughter you and your wife are in the background laughing . She's laughing even harder .
Speaker 4That's a damn shame . I wanted to snap her neck . You act the fuck out with company . That's your ass .
Speaker 2The funny one is because he sees what you got to go through as having kids . That was the funny part . It wasn't funny what she said , it was just funny that like this is the shit that you gotta go through . If they were my kid , I would've snapped her neck . If she wasn't my kid . That's why I was even more mad .
Speaker 5They laughing at me and I couldn't do nothing .
Speaker 2She's like I ain't doing this shit , no more you . It's just like that's her personality .
Speaker 4Has he been back to babysitting ever since ? Yeah , he been back .
Speaker 2I've been back . Oh , that's when he was younger , that was younger .
Speaker 5They teenagers now , when they , little one , that's when they act up . Yeah , but you remember your parents wouldn't let you act up , even as a kid .
Speaker 4Absolutely not .
Speaker 5And I look at these parents , I'm like yo , you got the .
Speaker 2But parents don't do it . You remember , in my household I always tell my kids all the time growing up with my brother , my mom , you couldn't touch nothing . It was like a section in the house we could sit in . That was it . You couldn't touch , you couldn't be on the couch , you couldn't .
Speaker 3It's still like that .
Speaker 5If I sit on the rent Right .
Speaker 4You pay the rent , you pay half the rent . I'm like girl , I'm like sheesh .
Speaker 2But you take your foot off , don't you ?
Speaker 1I'm like I'm 30 something years old , are you that serious ?
Speaker 4You take your leg down , don't you Of ?
Speaker 1course right away . Then you put it back on when she walk away . You know she's listening .
Speaker 2Right Cut down here he says that my mother today is not the same Mama yesterday .
Speaker 3My mother is totally different now .
Speaker 2She let you get away with so much stuff . Now , before , every little thing we used to do Used to be a smack , a hit . My mother used to throw . She used to be on the phone . She used to throw the phone and hit me , hit me with the phone , with the cord , put it back and be like , okay , I'm sorry , I'm sorry he acting up out there , it's totally different . But raising kids is totally different . It's , you know , for those who have kids it's different , it's not . You try your best . A lot of times you hear yourself sounding like your parents , but you be trying your best not to be your parents and try to do things slightly different , because Because you remember how much you hated them when they were kids .
Speaker 5Right , slightly different because because you remember how much you hated them when they right exactly .
Speaker 2If I ever have kids kneeling on the rice too , I'll be like flashback is not , I don't gotta do it , it's your turn , oh so you , you , out for revenge .
Speaker 5Huh , no , you know , it's right of passage I've been through this shit , yeah I'm not doing anything to you that hasn't been done to me , so let's just do it . So what is the ?
Speaker 2worst things that ever happened to you .
Speaker 5As a kid , as a kid , as discipline , oh my .
Speaker 2God .
Speaker 4You can say it now because I think the statute of limitations is gone , no listen .
Speaker 5To me I don't have a problem . When I was a kid I hated it . Who didn't hate getting the ass whooped in front of everybody ? Right ?
Speaker 5but looking back at it , I appreciate all the ass whooping like I would never even at one point , like my dad , hit me . Well , we got in . I did something wrong . I don't know what it was . I was doing something wrong . My dad took a belt and hit me and I went to block myself and instead , like you know , like the tail end of the belt , that's where it like . So it hit me on the side of the face . So I had a big black and blue . I went to school with a black and blue on my face , wow . So the teachers ended up calling child services . Child services come to my house and they were like yo , we want to take you away . Do you want to leave ?
Speaker 5I said no bitch they're gonna hit me after I leave right here like what are you doing here ? You're getting me in trouble and looking at that moment , I it was fear . But then I'm looking at it , I was like no , because I I needed the discipline . There's some people that might be like , no , that's child abuse . No , if you knew me you'd be like no , that's discipline like you know we , it wasn't bad .
Speaker 5It wasn't like I was killing and robbing and stealing , right right , but for them they , you know they want order in their house and that's how you do it . But that could have kept you from hell yeah , boy I was afraid one other time I I remember like even now , like I won't put my hand in a cooler to clean , like at the end of your picnic . Right , you got the cooler of ice water . You put your hand in there to clean .
Speaker 5It was done it was done , it was empty . There was , like you , know at the end of it like you're cleaning it out , so there's nothing but leaves and water . So I had like a little bit of dirt so I just took it out , as a kid took some water out and I went like this and they were gonna dump it . It wasn't like they were gonna drink the water .
Speaker 3It was there all day yo , my father .
Speaker 5It was like you would have swore I stole money from somebody's purse . My father yanked me and this was in the park in front of everybody . Oh my , we were right next to the basketball court and there was a couple cuties there . You know , when I was young .
Speaker 5They were on the basketball courts , my brother's friends , that I would see all the time my father wraps his hand around my hair and drags me towards the bush . That was right . Everybody could see people walking around . You know Roosevelt Park , yeah , that park with the ducks and everybody's just walking the tracks . He takes me over there , yanks a branch and whoops my ass in front of everybody . I remember somebody saying somebody needs to call the police . I remember that in my head I was like can't somebody do this ?
Speaker 4I need you to call right now I look at your parents .
Speaker 2I'm like oh they're so sweet .
Speaker 5Now he whooped my . I need you to call right now .
Speaker 2And I look at your parents .
Speaker 5I'm like , oh they so sweet . Now . Now he whooped my ass and then made me run around the park , whooping my ass behind me if I slowed down , like that's how serious my father was , damn .
Speaker 2But you know what's crazy Today , this day and age , you don't have to do that , no more . The kids did something . I was like you know . I said you know what , I'm just taking your shit . She's like can you just please beat me ?
Speaker 4No , listen , I'm going to tell you that's because she's never been beat before .
Speaker 2Nah , she never been beat . That's my youngest . She don't get beat , she don't need beatings . She just did something like she's so sweet .
Speaker 5Yeah , she's so sweet , but anyway , even the sweetest ones need to but , what I'm saying is these kids .
Speaker 2Today they they stress out you because we get , I work for I work with child protective services , typhus and a lot of these kids in my house , right so a lot of these kids that we get . Now they're losing their mind over their phones , their phones and their tablets . Awesome , you take that away . They calling them oh , I'm being abused . They took my tablet like this they really like they these electronical things . They'd rather get effed up than lose that stuff .
Speaker 1So it's like but wait , you ever been to a house and been like , nah , you need your ass beat . Yeah , I've been there several times . Several times I've been like yo , you need to beat his ass .
Speaker 3I'm about when I walk out the door , but , honestly , when you do take away their social media , oh my God , you just took everything . They'd rather take that punishment that physical punishment and let it be over with than to take away their social media . They hate that .
Speaker 2Because it's like a life .
Speaker 3It's their life , my niece is 12 and , oh my God , like she'll call me up on the phone . My mother took my because I helped her get an iPhone . My mother took my iPhone and she's just bawling , crying , and I'm like this girl's losing her mind .
Speaker 2It's a phone , it's a phone .
Speaker 4Why just take the Chargers ?
Speaker 2We got a case recently , not too long ago . I probably should be saying this on the show .
Speaker 5Yeah , I wouldn't do it , but anyway .
Speaker 2I'm not going to say , but we had a case where this , this girl actually fought her mother because she took the phone 13 years old .
Speaker 4It's more than one .
Speaker 2Yeah , that happens all the time . But she actually they threw down , she was like she was on the street . Be her mother , you ain't gonna take my phone . But never did this before , but never did this before . Her mother said , never lashed out at her .
Speaker 1She took that phone .
Speaker 4She had some shit in her things inside of , like all the social media , like the stuff like that , because they think they're gonna when that mother goes through that phone and goes through that picture , the pictures , and go through the text messages that mother's gonna know exactly what her daughter . What does it matter ? Because her daughter could beat her ass , as proven in the street . Well , well , you told me things , that's being important .
Speaker 2This one lady told me she found her daughter's phone and she said you , she would throw her daughter's a porn star . She was like 15 years old . She said it was like the stuff she was doing and she's like I didn't even know what could be done oh shit , I was like , should we taking notes ?
Speaker 5and my thing is that these kids don't they know that this stays there forever I don't think .
Speaker 2I don't think they know that .
Speaker 5I don't think it they hear about everybody else .
Speaker 1Yeah , I did my internship at um high school last year and I had to do like workshops and groups on like , explaining to them etiquette and explaining to them like their digital footprint . Like you , you this is following you for the rest of your life like colleges are looking up your name .
Speaker 5They're looking up stuff they try to say like oh , it's illegal .
Speaker 3No , it's not anybody can be your friend and once they see it , once you put it out there , they'll come up with any reason to let you go or ?
Speaker 5not let you into their school .
Speaker 1They don't understand , like , if you know , because legally so , if you , if a girl sends a nude to a guy and he forwards it and sends it , it goes all around .
Speaker 5All of you kids are getting charged with a sexual assault charge child pornography all of y'all is child pornography , pornography they don't get that , they don't understand that like oh , I'm a kid , I can't get in trouble .
Speaker 1I can't get in trouble .
Speaker 5Yes , you can or like if you like , what's that girl ? Is it in boston ?
Speaker 1she kept telling her boyfriend kill yourself , kill yourself yeah , and he did it , and he did it , she got what they gave her like 10 years right no wait , no , not this one .
Speaker 5I think one
Rap Culture and Generation Differences
Speaker 5is still going . Well , the one that I saw , I think she's still going to court or she got hardly nothing no , the one , the one , that girl , I think there's the Asian one .
Speaker 2That's the other one you're talking about , which ?
Speaker 4I'm talking about the non-woman of color .
Speaker 2The white girl Be careful . Oh , we're going to stop being racist now . So now you want to stop being racist because we got company ?
Speaker 4They say I'm a racist .
Speaker 5She's been racist all day . The non woman of color okay , that one I believe you're talking about is that she got like right , yeah , she got nothing like she got me a couple years , like no , this one got years , she got years .
Speaker 2That's the one I'm talking about , the one , the one with the long blonde hair , that her boyfriend , yeah , went to the car and and but she she got out . She got out early , she got years well , like two , three no , but she might have got time served though yeah , probably but I know she got it she got something , yeah , she got .
Speaker 3She might have got the numbers , but she didn't do the whole time . I don't think so I mean they did get her for that , because I mean she was relentless with this guy ?
Speaker 2no , she was setting up , setting them up like she was , like would you just ? Do it once , you , you know she's , I mean what's never mind , but like how stupid can you be ? Like why would you listen and do ?
Speaker 3it like I , I don't know the story . I haven't , I don't know about this Because mental I mean he had mental health .
Speaker 2When somebody's suicidal , and then at that point , oh he was already at that point , right .
Speaker 3Oh , okay , and she kind of pushed him to do it .
Speaker 2Just go ahead and do it , that's crazy .
Speaker 5That's evil man .
Speaker 1Right but that is how they are . These kids talk to themselves like they , you know , go kill yourself . You know you don't belong here , or ?
Speaker 2whatever they say , I'm gonna kill myself .
Speaker 1They are relentless and they you know a teen one , one of those teenagers at my internship say you know my generation , we we play around with suicide . We just play around with it . We just say we're gonna do it because artists make it popular . Yeah , what's that ?
Speaker 5um , what is it ? What's my ? Is it little uzi Vert , my little favorite rapper ? This is . I love this little rapper , didn't he die .
Speaker 2No , lil Uzi Vert's alive . You always say somebody dies .
Speaker 5God damn , you don't tell anybody , yo they're all dying listen to right it's like every other day I'm hearing somebody dies somebody murdered overdosed suicide like it's just , it's bad , like in radio all I sit there and talk about .
Speaker 4I may not know their names , I just know that they're dying but what did ?
Speaker 2what did he say no , I don't ?
Speaker 5is it little uzi red ? Or was it the one that just died off of uh on the plane ?
Speaker 1pop something , right ? No , no , pops , not killed . Who took all them pills ?
Speaker 2yeah , um oh , I know what it is . Oh damn juice world .
Speaker 5Like he talks , like they make these songs about it and I and I I appreciate them expressing themselves like I'm not saying don't do it , but you also need to know about the power that you have , because not only are you dealing with it , they are and they're gonna be like , yeah , I should just kill myself oh shit you know , like you don't .
Speaker 5I wish a lot of artists didn't talk about it as much , and not because I am . I think it's bad . It's just that these kids will be like , yeah , I should kill myself , or he's going through the same thing especially rap , because rap is very influential .
Speaker 2Remember back in the day with rap , I don't know , we thought it was going to last , you mean like 1960s , when you were born .
Speaker 4No boo boo , you just turned 40 , so you were in my generation . I was born in 1980 . You were in my generation , let's be clear you were in my generation , so knock it off but rap back in the day used to be I just , I don't know , I don't know .
Speaker 2We thought , I thought it was going to last , but now it's everything . You turn on the commercial , even white people in the background playing and you know . So it's rap is everything . Now it didn't . I think it moves this , this current generation it was the last time you really heard a country song . I guess maybe I live in like texas something like that , but it's like it's just everything .
Speaker 5Hip-hop has crossed over to a country too well , it was ours , but you know , yeah , we went back to it .
Speaker 3But y'all got to remember the origins of all this violence came from . I mean , when I think about biggie and I think about tupac and I think about all that happened , like in the 90s , with , with , with , like , especially that rap , the gangster kind of rap man that really like took a culture of his own and and it wasn't just I mean , biggie and tupac were one , but look at all the hundreds of thousands of other people in that culture that that died primarily because of the culture . That culture just kind of revolted and it just took on a different life form . Now we've migrated to a different , like you know . Now it's a little more . You know , social media is , has plays a bigger role in it now . But well , I mean , we're just growing and growing in these , this new culture now that's taking on a life .
Speaker 2Well , the coach is different now . It's not even like , like if you listen to the songs as more , it's not even like I'm gonna kill , I'm gonna kill a nigga , killing and stuff like that . We're not even getting . I know now we're getting more like oh , I'm gonna pop these pills to get high . I'm going to do this and be this high .
Speaker 1Went from drug dealing to drug using .
Speaker 5Drug dealing to drug using , but even back then , though the hip hop , those artists stayed alive . It wasn't until Biggie and Pac , where they put you have those artists that were from back in the day . They're still alive , they're still making money , they still alive , they still alive . I don't want to make your money some might be making money if they you know because of the kids will bring the songs back , but they're still here to be able to talk about it . This generation aren't even still here to talk about it right dying young .
Speaker 2They're like really young .
Speaker 5Our 90s rappers overdosing yeah , even though Biggie and Pac , you know , made me in heaven , you know they had their thing . But the rest of the people around them they were like all right , we ain't gonna shoot each other , let's just make this money right these kids are . They're shooting each other , they're taking the drugs , they're doing all kinds .
Speaker 5They're not even there to enjoy their money and they have a better chance . We didn't have a chance . Our generation rappers didn't even have the money they did when they were making music exactly now . They should be able to be like yo I'm making'm making easy money .
Speaker 2These kids now are becoming millionaires quickly . Like you said one song they're a millionaire already or for TikTok .
Speaker 3TikTok right , that damn TikTok yeah . But a million dollars now is not like a million dollars was 10 years ago . Yeah , that's true , even 15 years ago .
Speaker 5But they're coming with endorsements , they're coming with brand deals . So we say one million , but that's only for like the first month . After that they're making over like but then , they die yeah and they die .
Speaker 2It's true , that's the worst I mean , you see , it's sad yes , it's sad um , I don't know it's , I wouldn't do it . I would tell I don't know , I wouldn't do it . I'm going to tell you that .
Speaker 4You wouldn't do what .
Speaker 2Kill myself . You know that Perfect scenario .
Speaker 4You love yourself way too much .
Speaker 2What is wrong with that , what is wrong with that ? Say some shit that I don't know .
Speaker 5I don't see what's wrong with that , but I think we all grew up in a time where we were able to deal with being like what is it ? Bullied Adversity ? Yeah , we had thick skin .
Speaker 2So you're saying the new generation is soft . I don't want to say that they're super soft .
Speaker 5Everybody's different , but I just feel like it's just if they're crying over a cell phone there's a problem you know what I'm saying .
Speaker 5They're just attached to wanting to be famous , to be rich , even though we all , everybody , nobody could say at any generation , nobody wanted to be famous . Everybody wanted that , that shine . They want the money , they want the shine . That's why you guys are doing a podcast , because you could just talk to everybody . Everybody wants some type of next level , but these kids don't understand the difference between the struggle , because they want it asap you know like they want to . They want the fame , and I forgot what the hell I was saying shit .
Speaker 2But social media brought that on . No , but social media brought that , because if we didn't have social media , because you can't floss , now you don't have nobody to floss for .
Speaker 5We floss for the block , so I mean it's a different time .
Speaker 3It's a completely . My point was it's a really different time Because today you can broadcast something and it broadcasts across the entire world . I mean literally reach billions of people in in hours , right ? Whereas 15 years ago that couldn't happen , right ?
Speaker 5you couldn't you have anything even close to that .
Speaker 3So it's just a whole different realm of reality for children today than it was for for us . You know , 20 , 25 years ago it's , you know , it's completely different , like especially when something goes viral .
Speaker 2Once you go viral , it's like you know you could literally do something stupid and everybody in the world saw it Everybody .
Speaker 3Everybody saw it .
Speaker 2Everybody and you're like instantly famous , right you know . Even the motherland and you end up on Ellen , I mean they've built infrastructure in the motherland now .
Speaker 3So I mean , even in Africa they're able to get . You know , there's infrastructure enough for them to be able to get access to the Internet , obviously , which allows them access to , you know , tiktok and Facebook and Instagram . So it's everywhere . I mean there's billions of people that you can touch with the right connection or whatever you know event is happening . It could be good or bad , and there you are .
Speaker 2Oh , wow .
Speaker 3That's deep . Y'all always get deep .
Speaker 2We start off like really bad , we're really ignorant , and then we get serious .
Speaker 1It's called balance .
Speaker 3Every once in a while we get you gotta ask her what she would do in the apocalypse .
Speaker 2What would you you missed the apocalypse , I always think about that stuff do in the apocalypse ? What's the first thing ? Yeah , what would you ? Oh , yeah , you missed the apocalypse . What would you do in the ?
Speaker 5apocalypse I always think about that stuff .
Speaker 2What would you do ?
Speaker 3And the lottery . What's your first step ?
Speaker 5My thing is if the apocalypse is happening , I'm definitely stocking up or I'm locking myself up at a department store or something , see , told you , told you well then , honey , we gonna lock everything up and I'm gonna stay where everything is at , exactly there you go and I would definitely not use electricity . I would try to do everything you know old fashioned way , like my little fires have my blankets layer up .
Speaker 3Are you gonna get a crew , though ? What you gonna do about that ?
Speaker 5I mean my right now in my mind , like I think , when I tell you I think about it . The only crew I have is him .
Speaker 4Do you think I could be a part of your crew ? No , no , if you're near my vicinity .
Speaker 3Don't do it , she's a racist .
Speaker 1Not only is she racist , but let her tell you what she's good for .
Speaker 4I will be the lookout , and I've practiced my hooty hoot , hooty hoot .
Speaker 5You can't make noise . Well , they were letting me do the hooty hoot .
Speaker 1No , that's not my crew . Noise you can't make noise .
Speaker 4Well , they were letting me do the hootie hoos I would just tell you to shut up .
Speaker 5Okay , I'd be like I wouldn't be rude , but I'd be like so you won't build a crew , you won't build a , because right now I you don't know who's in , who's around , because everybody will sell you out in a heartbeat so I know that it's me and him for sure , and if his mom is downstairs . Okay , because if it happens and we're all in the same building look at his face you got that right , you gotta take whatever's there , like that's automatic from the jump you're right but I'm not running everywhere to get everybody .
Speaker 3I can't my parents are in florida , so I can't definitely get over there . Yeah , yeah , yeah . So we talk about rebuilding , like if we had to rebuild society , yeah , how would we do that ? Right ? So I mean , you made a good point . You get an engineer , try to get a doctor . Oh , if you had to pick it before the apocalypse ?
Speaker 1right , that's what we're talking about we were planning , we were planning .
Speaker 3I'm thinking about when it happens at the moment . Oh no , we asked out , she was
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Speaker 3done .
Speaker 5Then I got my escape route , no , no , they say okay , within five minutes something is going to happen . You got to get to the nearest location . I'm definitely thinking about . Walmart or Target . Everybody else is going to do it , but find my way to get in there and hide up in a shingle or something right until everything goes off or I'll go into a hospital .
Speaker 5Make sure I got all the medicine , because once people die get all the medicine or lock myself up in the medicine room , like you got to have different locations that you know that nobody could get to right . But if prior , I mean of course I would like , I mean I want a doctor with me , I would like a hunter because I can't hunt .
Speaker 4I can't hunt , I need a hunter . What about like a watchman ?
Speaker 5No , I got eyes . I got eyes , erase the peaches I can watch y'all .
Speaker 2Break , Peaches . You are not going to be in nobody's crew .
Speaker 4Non-people of color . I got you . I'll be like do you not accept that package ?
Speaker 2So you get a hunter , a doctor , A hunter a doctor .
Speaker 5Let me see a hunter , a doctor , who else would I really want ? I I mean , of course you want . I don't even want to engineer .
Speaker 4I would want like a construction , like somebody a construction worker contract that we could like .
Speaker 5We could really build it together because you could give me all the electricity you want , or engineer , but if you ain't got somebody to build this thing , honey , right , I can't have no use for you so like I'm like old school . I want some people that know how to work with hands right um then after that I don't know a chef because I don't know how to cook , oh shoot , wait , wait . What maybe ?
Speaker 5maybe a comedian , just to keep me laughing throughout the whole thing you're like fuck it , that's a luxury , that's a luxury , yeah now , have you ever thought about what you would do if you won the lottery ? Because I always ask everybody and people never have the right game plan ?
Speaker 2can I answer that first ? Yes , I think about this every time I play . Okay , first of all , I'm not telling nobody facts . I'm gonna be honest you guys .
Speaker 4That guy with the scream mask won , the last guy that won the lottery .
Speaker 2But , as in a state that allows that , though you can be discreet , but Jersey , up here you have to no , no , not anymore .
Speaker 5Oh really , they changed it .
Speaker 4Yeah , they changed that you don't have to say your name . He was in a scream mask , like you don't have to say your name .
Speaker 5He was at the screen mask like yeah , you can see that you covered his hands and everything .
Speaker 2People were shooting you over this shit like I'm not , I'm serious , I don't mean , I'm , I'm not kidding and I know she probably gonna get mad I'm , I don't even think .
Speaker 4I'm telling my wife honestly , I'm not going to tell her and what you're gonna tell him when you start buying .
Speaker 5I'm gonna try to .
Speaker 2I'm gonna kind of filter in like I'm like I'm just making money , kind of thing okay , you know invest in little things here and there , because if you do a little things that you could be like , she's like well , how do you get down like I'll just invest in stuff and try to build it up until , like I guess we get to a point where I'm like yo , I want this money , but I ain't one , you would tell everybody .
Speaker 5And after some time , you're right , so time she's mentally prepared for it .
Speaker 2Right , exactly , kind of slowly , and then we just move away and just drop off the face of the earth like nobody's gonna know where we at , cause I want everybody to be like oh can I buy some money ? Oh yeah , you know , my brother be like oh , my car just
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Speaker 2went again . Fuck that , I'm moving , I'm getting a farm somewhere in Costa Rica why Costa Rica ? Anywhere , anywhere , but here , far away from everybody . I'm gonna be a fisherman or a farmer .
Speaker 4I'm being serious . You ain't going to hear from me .
Speaker 2It's how you want to spend your money , it'll be spent .
Speaker 4Don't worry , but ain't nobody going to hear from me , ain't nobody going ?
Speaker 2to know where I'm at Nothing . What about you , mac Mac ? What you doing with your ?
Speaker 3money . Oh man , I got to buy , build a new church .
Speaker 4Oh , that's for you .
Speaker 2You built it , they would come A mega church .
Speaker 3No , I mean . I'm like you guys , I'm going to be anonymous . I'm not telling nobody . If possible , I'm not telling anybody .
Speaker 5And then I'm going to take care of those .
Speaker 2I don't believe you . You don't think so . No , no , I'm not telling nobody .
Speaker 3You had a yacht and you're not going . You're not going to splurge he has a yacht .
Speaker 1Now he has a yacht , oh yeah , but yeah forget about anonymous . Yeah , jesus , well , if he has a yacht .
Speaker 5People won't know because they already know he's already luxurious . That's true . Okay , there you go . Okay , so what else so you ? So you continue .
Speaker 3So then it's those close to me . Like I say , my circle is my circle and I'm going to make sure they take a good care of me .
Speaker 1Are we part of your circle ?
Speaker 3Mac Every now and then . Like you and I , we started our interaction today on the negative vibe . We got one racist , but no for sure , Everybody in my circle . I'm going to do something for them .
Speaker 2You hear what I'm saying ? Yeah , but after some time , though , you have to disappear for a little bit . Let all that shit sink in that you want . That's why I want to go somewhere on the island and just let that shit hit me and then I'll come back and then I'll start doing little things and taking care of everybody and investing and stuff like that . But I need to get away and like I'm a Capricorn , like I have to be , like in my head , like I need quiet , I can't focus .
Speaker 3And you know why I don't think about it a lot is because the chance of hitting the lottery is . Do you guys know the odds ? Like we have a better chance of being in an apocalypse than you do hitting the line .
Speaker 5Getting struck by lightning . I'm a favored child . I'm going to win this time .
Speaker 3I love that spirit I love that spirit .
Speaker 2But what ?
Speaker 3would you guys do ?
Speaker 2What about you , J-Bug ? What do you do ?
Speaker 1Okay , so I can't live in isolation , so I'm going to have to hire a financial advisor or something . I'll do it .
Speaker 4He's going to charge you a fee , 10% . No , I've already come to you .
Speaker 1You deserted me . What ?
Speaker 2the hell is that Can you please do something , yeah , something . What the hell ?
Speaker 5An alarm 10 o'clock . You were supposed to do something , right . I won't isolate myself from everybody .
Speaker 1I truly believe that money is not the the answer to all of our issues at all . You know like I . So I'm not isolating myself , I'm not going , I will continue to travel , but I I want to use that money to ensure that myself and my future and generations to come will be set . So I would invest and I would , you know , work with a financial advisor on all of that . Good stuff maybe , but you have to make it up to me .
Speaker 2I need a discount . Oh my god , you guys . You guys hold everybody to everything . What about you Pisa what you doing ?
Speaker 4well , I do think about the lottery . If I would win and I do the first , I'm taking 10% off the top and giving it to the church .
Speaker 2Whatever I do , the first , I'm taking 10% off the top and giving it to the church , whatever . Oh my God , jesus , listen , I need some more ratchet friends .
Speaker 3I'm dead serious . I've always thought about that . You know how much 10% of a million dollars is right .
Speaker 4I don't care what it is , it's 10% they get , and that's my tithes , my offerings I love you . I love you . That's church every Sunday .
Speaker 2But you're going to give 10% though ? Yes , absolutely , I'm just asking .
Speaker 4I want to make sure I don't believe that , like God doesn't , I don't have to be in a church to pray . No , I'm just asking the question , right , that's all I was doing but I mean I can't get nowhere with the zero balance budget that my husband be having me on .
Speaker 4So it don't matter how much fucking can't spend the shit . So , um , I mean just going to contribute more to make sure that the you know , my kids , they can their kids and then , like you know , generations , like to build generational wealth . That's pretty much what I would do . I wouldn't do anything different daily . Anyway . I would keep my same house , my same car . I would do all of that . I would just ensure that my kids , my grandkids , their kids were all taken care of .
Speaker 2I need some more ratchet up . I might ball out a little bit . That's what I want to hear . I might take a little portion .
Speaker 5That's how you get more they advise you to make a big purchase .
Speaker 1I'm going to take a small portion of it .
Speaker 5They say to do it asap because you won't know you won't holding on to it , you'll end up going bonkers asap , like once you do spend a little bit right so they say just make one big purchase , get it out of your system my farm and then go from there .
Speaker 1That's what they say I probably would just get my dream car .
Speaker 2What's your dream car ?
Speaker 1probably I could afford more than that with a million dollars . My dream car is the Audi S6 .
Speaker 3Oh Lord Okay .
Speaker 1Okay , that's my dream car , that's your dream car ,
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Speaker 1not a Tesla .
Speaker 3No , I'm so disappointed .
Speaker 1I don't want to plug anything in . I'm so disappointed I have to plug my cell phone in at night . I thought , you were going somewhere else with this . I was like wait a minute .
Speaker 3That was on the poppin' . That was a podcast . That's what she's doing . She said I gotta plug my cell phone in at night .
Speaker 1Vibrators come with batteries .
Speaker 2these days we don't plug them in oh shit , all right , all that doing note , I'm stopping it wait , so wait .
Speaker 4Y'all want to get the . You know the problem is every time we have a
Speaker 2podcast it starts drifting off to porn .
Speaker 5But let's talk about we adults . I love talking about it . I wanted to be a sex therapist before I got into like . I wanted to be a radio personality and being a sex therapist I could talk about it on the radio . On the radio I wanted to be a Dr Ruth , but a fun version .
Speaker 1So I have a cousin who's a sex therapist and she has her own sex toy business too .
Speaker 5Really , I used to in Florida they used to send me a bunch of toys . Really , oh my god , it was like for my first , my second year on the radio in florida they would send me boxes , oh , of toys to be able to talk about it . So I mean , I would give them away as as gifts and then I would have I lived in my house ? No , I mean , I had one for me but like it's when I tell you it's boxes , big boxes of toys I had had butts , vaginas , breasts , dildos , strap-ons , plugs .
Speaker 5I had them all , so I would just give them to my friends as gifts Right . Or I had some in my house and I remember I was living with my parents , my father he loves to go into everybody's room when you're not there .
Speaker 2Oh hell no Like as an adult in my 30s , and he just be shuffling through the boxes all of it .
Speaker 5He goes through everything in your house , in the house , and he's like this is my house , so if you don't like it , get the hell out of here , but he goes , takes the box and throws it away . I didn't know where all my stuff was at and I was like yo , I had this stuff in here , and I even had some hidden things under the drawers , under the bed , and my father just took them all out , he's's like oh hell , he's like this , not in my house , not this Holy water thrown at me .
Speaker 5But , sexuality is , you know , it's normal .
Speaker 2It's not like back in the day , where it was like taboo to talk about . You could easily talk about it . You could see it on TV now . You remember back in the day you couldn't kiss on TV I'm telling my age .
Speaker 1Oh yeah , I'm telling my age , oh yeah cause .
Speaker 5I was like I've seen cases before , but we didn't see tongue . No tongue , that's what I meant . You couldn't see tongue .
Speaker 2I mean now you could damn near walk out with your breasts out on prime time . Yeah , with just blurs , right like .
Speaker 5I don't understand how these girls could do it for , like the Bachelor , when you got , or even Flavor of Love , I didn't understand how you would allow this man to kiss all these girls . You're out there with your titties trying to damn near fuck , but then he goes with the next broad .
Speaker 2It's about Flavor of Flavor right , yeah , flavor , of Flavor , but even the Bachelor .
Speaker 5They crying because he kissed the next one . Well , you just kissed him . If you didn't like it . You should have been on the show . Right , right right the show right , right , right , and then they had like all these girls were having is on the bachelor the guy had sex or the girl the bachelorette she had sex with two or three of them , I think .
Speaker 1I don't know because I don't watch them , but I don't watch them but I for what I've .
Speaker 5I've . I've been hearing it's like you'll have the bachelorette or the bachelor , or flavor of love , or whatever . They sleep with these three people , four people , and then they're like oh , I'm not in love with you , I just want to have sex , bitch , why are you on the show for like ?
Speaker 1that's how .
Speaker 5That's how that's money , though that's money I guess , for who like is that is , is it worth it ?
Speaker 2no , I think I think it's just exposure , because a lot of you haven't seen a lot of those , uh , reality shows . These those people make it into other shows . They'd be , you'd be watching this show , they'd be like .
Speaker 5But you're still known as the person who's given getting topped off on the show or topping somebody off . That's true . Like I , I don't care . You know I'm not old-fashioned like . Like I said , I like talking about sex . I talk about everything , but there's some limits that I feel like it should be on television right like you can't really sit here and then be mad at the networks , even in interviews . Hi , gail , you have to take responsibility for what you do you know like .
Speaker 5And then the networks need to also be like yo , we're not doing it , I don't care how much money we're making . At this point , this person is going to do something to themselves , right ? Because everybody , especially now on social media , they're gonna go in like and they'll get the best memes of this girl or the guy giving head , exactly .
Speaker 2Memes are life .
Speaker 5Right , yeah , man .
Speaker 2You got to admit , though there's some funny shit out there , boy .
Speaker 3I live for them .
Speaker 2Y'all see the one I just posted with the baby looking at the . He was just born . He's looking at the doctor and he says imagine what it says . Imagine you just committed suicide and 20 minutes later you're back . It's crazy , did you see that ?
Speaker 3Someone posted another one of that same baby .
Speaker 2and it said what the hell did it say ? It said something else , Something totally different . I was cracking up .
Speaker 4That same meme was going around Laughing at the damn baby .
Speaker 2Huh , he said laughing at the damn baby , laughing at the damn baby , and they get these memes up ASAP .
Speaker 5Like quick and they get these memes up ASAP , like maybe he be in heaven with his daughter , but the memes that came out for him and they were some of them weren't mean . But there was one about him going into heaven and Prince is waiting for him to play basketball . Did you see that one ?
Speaker 2I seen that one . I seen that one . I was like man .
Speaker 5It was funny though it was funny , but still I'm like okay , the man has not even been , not even taken from the hospital to the hospital .
Speaker 2Yo , they just , they can't wait , they can't wait till something happens they can make a meme they make it quick . I gotta admit that's just , that's funny shit . It's got some funny shit .
Speaker 5It's just some funny shit and you , and then for the people who get mad at it , I'm like it's not that serious it's just it's funny , yeah , only when they're mean like I still think mean ones are funny sometimes .
Speaker 4Oh , oh my .
Speaker 5God , did you like the one that 50 ?
Speaker 3reposted Because I'm racist .
Speaker 5She's not even talking about racism . Which one did you repost ?
Speaker 1But yes , I was high-fiving With the one of um with this girl's hair .
Speaker 5Oh yes , that was hilarious .
Speaker 1Wait , which one is that ? So did you watch Power . No , I don't wig off . Tasha took her wig off at the end of the thing when she was going into jail and 50 reposted it as a . Was it something like no , no , not even that one .
Speaker 5She was out at a red carpet she had her hair real tight ponytail . Then he put her in it . Well , he didn't put her . Somebody did it , was her .
Speaker 2What the hell it was her , I don't know .
Speaker 4It was her .
Speaker 5And then there was this cartoon . What is it ? A Street Fighter type of baroque thing where the hair is back , so he was comparing her to her yeah .
Speaker 2Talking about her edges .
Speaker 1Her edges . Yeah , she got mad at that , but that shit was funny .
Speaker 5Yo , it was funny , but I felt bad because I was like , wait he power his show though . It's his show .
Speaker 2He's just a dumbass like that .
Speaker 5He's like fucked up , like that he says if you're not talking about the show , then I gotta find a reason for you to talk about it and that was one of it right , I
Speaker 5mean I like 50 . I mean , if you're gonna talk shit about me , talk shit . He doesn't do it malicious . I think he has more fun with it . And if people were humorous and they and they weren't so sensitive , I think it would be , it would be good , people would have fun . That's like comedians can't even be comedians right , exactly , everyone's too damn sensitive movies like yo we were watching . Um what was that movie ?
Speaker 2um wedding crashers oh , that's , oh , my god , that is a funny movie , right ?
Speaker 5nothing . But if they were to play that movie right now and they came out in theaters , I don't think it would do as well , because of the part where the the son is like the grandma was like you're a homoo what about the ringer you remember ? That movie . I seen it .
Speaker 4I don't remember with the disabled kids . They were making fun of disabled kids . You can't even do that now .
Speaker 1That movie was funny as hell .
Speaker 4Everybody's so sensitive now , but now it would be like oh my god somebody with a disability .
Speaker 2It's cold as hell in here . You got the one . Okay , it's not about you . There's someone over here freezing somebody with a disability . It's cold as hell in here . Why the hell you got the one ?
Speaker 4It's always hot . Okay , it's not about you .
Speaker 2Oh , so we I'm over here freezing . Damn Jesus .
Speaker 5Christ .
Speaker 2You cold ? Yes , I'm cold , we're all cold .
Speaker 5Look , oh , I'm nice .
Speaker 4Damn hair .
Speaker 5I'm burning up .
Speaker 4I am , you're just hot ass so back to the point .
Speaker 2You guys just see that's all over . When we don't want to be on the point , you were good to the point .
Speaker 1Bullshit . You didn't want to be on the point . You guys started the thing about the plug-in what plug-in wait ?
Speaker 2I said .
Speaker 1I was plugging in my cell phone and you were like oh , wait a minute what were you gonna say Glenn was thinking about church in his head ?
Speaker 2no , he wasn't , he did . I say that , did that come out my mouth you ?
Speaker 1were thinking it . I did not come out my mouth . You slowed up and said I like to plug it , my phone in at home that's how you said it , and I wasn't even being dirty your pause might have gotten there took it there , but I was not being dirty it was like you were trying to prevent yourself from saying the dildo so you're right , not at all . And you know what ? Normally I'm very dirty typically yeah however , I wasn't being dirty that time , so she owns up to being the dirty one on this podcast .
Speaker 5Who was everybody ?
Speaker 2what's everybody's position I don't know , I'm the racist , uh , clearly . Well , you're the new racist . Now , I mean , I don't have a filter .
Speaker 4They just said because I told them that I look sideways at a package that came from China that's racist due to the current event .
Speaker 5Yes , I could give it to you .
Speaker 4You understand what I'm saying that's exactly what we were talking about racist ?
Speaker 3absolutely not .
Speaker 4It's okay capital R when somebody's what we were talking about Racist , absolutely not , it's okay .
Speaker 5It's okay , capital R , when somebody's like on the train and you see an Asian person coming in .
Speaker 4And you get up and walk away .
Speaker 5We were at a restaurant and a friend of ours was super loud . There was an Asian lady and we didn't see her . But she was like yeah , I was on the train and all these Asians came in and I thought the coronavirus . I said oh shit , bitch . Wait you said something too afterwards , right , he joined in on you said a comment too .
Speaker 2He said , no , I didn't .
Speaker 5I was like there's one right there , but then everybody was like maybe she's Korean , so she don't give a shit .
Speaker 2You guys do a position . I just don't have a filter , I'll just say whatever you guys are right , I just don't have a filter . Oh , no , no , no , you do he's a what do we call him a stalker ? Not a stalker . Slow walk , he's slow walks he's a predator .
Speaker 4There we go he's a male predator .
Speaker 2How to catch a predator you want to tell her the story ? No stop , he's a predator .
Speaker 4Oh you , you wanna tell her the story what you did ? No , stop , he's a predator .
Speaker 3Come on catch me up .
Speaker 4He's a predator .
Speaker 3I didn't do anything .
Speaker 2No , tell her the story .
Speaker 3Damn it , he's really .
Speaker 2He's a
Predator, Victim, and Truth Revelations
Speaker 2predator . He slow walked he slow walked this guy For two years . I didn't slow walk anybody . I had a co-worker of mine and what's a slow walk .
Speaker 3Okay , so slow walk is where predators are , it's like grooming , grooming .
Speaker 4But he slow walked him . He did it slowly , I think he did it the other way around . And he made the guy give him a hand . That's what he did , but it was like he slow walked me . I didn't do anything the first day I started working there .
Speaker 2This is when I was doing valet parking and the first day I was walking there , he just kept looking at me . I'm like what ? I'm looking at him , like what the fuck are you looking at ? And he's just like I don't know . He just said some shit and I'm like all right , whatever , you crazy .
Speaker 4So it was him .
Speaker 2It was him , it wasn't me . But he would say some shit I'm like , okay , let's be about it . Then they called me the slow walker . It was really him .
Speaker 3He said he was straight . He can't slow walk you if he's straight .
Speaker 4You said he wasn't really straight . I don't think he was . He was curious .
Speaker 3He was probably curious .
Speaker 5He's not straight . According to Tank , they are straight .
Speaker 3That's why I disavow right Tank said like a man .
Speaker 5A man could give head and he's still straight . No , that's not what he said . No , you ain't hear the whole interview .
Speaker 4That's not what he said . Now they starting to get upset . I'll tell you cause .
Speaker 2I watched the whole interview and he said some shit he's like okay , I didn't really mean to say that what he said was if a guy go down on another guy , he's gay . He could say I just tried it , I didn't like it , I'm not gay but he didn't do it to me . See , that's the difference . I did it to him , so he he's gay .
Speaker 3if you let another guy do it , he's walked you Wait , I'm lost , he still walked him in the fucking dick .
Speaker 4I'm the victim .
Speaker 2Excuse me , I'm the victim . I'm the victim . He's a predator , he might have got a little couple minutes of ecstasy , but I was the victim .
Speaker 4Wait , you shit is ecstasy is what you're trying to say . So it's peer pressure . Damn sure he's straight . Damn sure he's straight .
Speaker 1Wait , ecstasy just came , is what you're trying to say . So it's peer pressure . Damn sure he's straight . Damn sure he's straight . Yeah , he's damn sure he's straight . Wait , ecstasy just came into the mix right now . No , he didn't .
Speaker 2What I did to him was ecstasy . Oh , okay , no , he didn't take ecstasy .
Speaker 1That's what I thought . Wait , who was under ?
Speaker 4the influence here , he did take ecstasy .
Speaker 2I was the victim . He's a predator . You can't be a victim if he didn't hold the gun to get it over , wait , you're a victim and you suck the dick . I'm the victim , though he tricked you into doing it he tricked me he tricked you into doing it wait yeah , I'm trying to .
Speaker 4I'm confused he tricked me so you're the victim , but you suck the dick but it's like .
Speaker 5It's like a guy who rapes a woman .
Speaker 2He mentally gets you to do it .
Speaker 5How's that racist .
Speaker 4Man listen .
Speaker 2He took advantage of me . What's he like ? He was Hispanic .
Speaker 4I can't believe it .
Speaker 2I don't trust you . You're a predator .
Speaker 4I am not . Somebody has to bring up the audio for that show Next time . Next time I'm a little dead into my style , I am not . Somebody has to bring up the audio for that show how to catch a printer next time next time I'm a little dead into my cell like this .
Speaker 2I don't care what any of y'all say .
Speaker 4I'm just confused . I'm trying , I'm trying to do a visual . We'll rock with you .
Speaker 2We'll rock with you , you know what we promise , we won't bring this up ever again does that make you uncomfortable , oh I don't care , I did it . I mean , I don't give a shit , but I'm just saying I was the victim . I don't care what y'all say .
Speaker 4I don't understand how you're the victim . I was . He's not the victim .
Speaker 2He preyed on me . He saw this handsome guy start working there and then he started fucking with me . So he just looked down at his dick and he just and you sucked it .
Speaker 4He had an expectation .
Speaker 1Make this happen . Make this happen .
Speaker 2Please , he channeled it it didn't happen for two years after we knew each other .
Speaker 3Ah , that's the slow walk . See , that's the slow walk , he slow walked me .
Speaker 2I didn't do anything .
Speaker 3Now , we just playing with you . He just fucked a lot of shit . I said okay , you know , we just playing with you . I just said okay .
Speaker 2I was like whatever , but he was the one that kept chickening out , but that one day .
Speaker 3So how's he chickening out ?
Speaker 4He didn't chicken out that day , If you're the victim .
Speaker 2If you're the victim he chickened out that day . He's like I don't give a fuck what you , what you say . Everybody tells their truth .
Speaker 4They tell their own truth . Right , that's right . That's your truth book . Yeah , that's my truth book and I'm sticking to it . I'm sorry .
Speaker 2That's so true . They got their own truth . Yo , we got like three podcasts .
Speaker 5That's the story that changed like three times Wait , but y'all didn't even say what's your positions .
Speaker 2I don't know Do .
Speaker 1I have a position Every nine minutes .
Speaker 2Who Nobody was down here , why I got an alarm clock down here . I don't know what's my position .
Speaker 5Do I have a position ? You're the dad .
Speaker 1With the dad bod .
Speaker 5Yeah , you're the dad , girl bod .
Speaker 4Big daddy With the dad bod , that would be a dad bod .
Speaker 2Let me ask her who do you think is the oldest ? Oh boy , here . No , between you two , yeah , oh um , don't look at the dates up there .
Speaker 5I'm not looking at the dates , I'm just looking at the hairline . Oh , I would say you okay but I don't know if I'm right that's sad , though , because I I say you just because , like you're the mustache in the picture , his he looked like he like a baby and you look like you were stuck . Oh , I'm looking at the year now right , so his .
Speaker 2So I'm six years older than him , so she , you see , she had to think real hard look , look at all those bags and crow's feet . You got Like seriously .
Speaker 5That's why she immediately went to you . I can't tell here , but I'm looking at the pictures . Like your hairstyle and your mustache is way back . Well , perfect scenario he was born in the 60s .
Speaker 2No .
Speaker 5No , motherfucker . Oh , and that's her joke , right 76 .
Speaker 3Oh , okay , 76 .
Speaker 2Thank you oh well , you see , it took a minute to figure it out , though she should be able to .
Speaker 4By six years .
Speaker 2I'm six years older than you .
Speaker 4Six years is not a lot , though it is a lot , but he said you have crow's feet Right , I got crow's feet but you do that's just .
Skincare Routine and Soap Recommendations
Speaker 2I mean I have a whole facial regimen going on . So I mean I might have a little something , but they're not prominent like yours .
Speaker 4I don't do no facial regimen . Are we recording ? You use African soap . Oh shit , we really are . You use African soap , I use .
Speaker 2African soap .
Speaker 5That's racist . That is not . You use African soap . What's African ?
Speaker 3soap .
Speaker 4That's a black soap . This is that . You be Right that you be telling everybody Like you listen , you was talking about your face .
Speaker 2I just put that last week . I just put it last week .
Speaker 4He be like yo .
Speaker 2Where you get it from . You gotta try this .
Speaker 1I need some good one , walmart .
Speaker 2Yeah , mine's got bits and pieces .
Speaker 4No , amazon for the raw one . No , I'm telling you no .
Speaker 2Shea Butter has the bits and pieces . They have the same thing . Trust me , it's the same thing . What was it , Nara ?
Speaker 1I'm not familiar .
Speaker 2She lives in South Orange .
Speaker 1Shea Moisture .
Speaker 4You live in South Orange ? No , she lives in South Orange .
Speaker 5I was like you can't find it . No , no , yeah , it's uppity .
Speaker 2I thought all the oranges were just crazy . I need some of that . South Orange is a little different . It's a different world .
Speaker 4We got the same water . Did I just finish telling you ?
Speaker 1It'd be deer running around .